I asked my wife what it was that women really wanted. She said, "Attentive men." Or maybe she said "A tent of men." I don't really know. I wasn't listening...
As someone with a larger than average member, I can say this is most certainly true. A gf I had some years ago was told by her gynecologist that we needed to chill out because we had caused internal damage. She already wasn't able to have kids, so she didn't care all that much, but it's something people need to be mindful of they are larger than average. Having an average size means you don't need to be nearly as careful because you are less likely to injure your partner. Bigger is better for reputation but not for reality.
Hitting that cervix is both a gift and a curse. I understand buddy. As a member of the larger member club, most women don't know how big 4 inches is let alone 9 by guesstimation with their hands. I would think that the study the Doc was highlighting might point to women instinctively having an idea of what size is normal. Like men having a hardwired hip to waist ratio deal. The media pushes the bigger is better narrative, and they propagate it amongst friends and the like. Not to mention the fact that in most women's hands, most men probably look pretty sizable. All the anxiety men face (I too at some point) in regards to their goods is really unwarranted. If you got 5 on you, you're probably good to go. Besides you have atleast 10 other digits and a tongue to supplement if need be. It may seem like the greatest thing having a hog on you, but nothing will piss you off more than a woman who talks the good talk, and runs from the stroke. That's 75% of the field fellas by my guesstimation. 10% will take it, 10% will love it, and the last 5% will need MORE! We all pray we don't meet that last 5% That's Dred-ed territory!
@@karadiberlinoor maybe he's a very loving and caring man but usually ends up with manipulative and toxic women Lots of us guys have experienced this first hand.
My mother used to tell the younger women in my family that no woman wants a man with an extremely long penis. She used to tell them that being involved with those men will only result in pain and their box eventually looking like an Arby’s roast beef sandwich. She would contend that the men they desire are the exception and not the rule, and the men on the extremely small side were also the exception and not the rule. If you’re wondering, my mother was no Doctor, and she was not a P-Star. She was just a simple women with common sense, trying to educate young women who were influenced by music and adult entertainment.
Your mother was wrong. Having a 9 incher like mine is great. It's a confidence booster in bed and often the girls are quite intrigued and satisfied by it. 😁 However, any bigger would be a negative effect, I guess. There's a point of diminishing returns and 9 is it. 😅
In my human sexuality class we had a textbook that was updated to 2023 and most women say on paper they like bigger (6 inches +) but with a confidential survey they thought was off the record showed over 75% of those women admitted they prefer average (4-6 inches). So socially people want to believe bigger is better but it's not the truth at all
@@Wize817 I’m a small guy and honestly never had it be an issue with any women. Women are natural givers and many even sacrifice their own orgasms as long as they make a guy happy and get affection out of it, the sexes have different biological and emotional needs. Sure you have nymphos and sex maniacs but they are the minority and usually crazy in other ways to boot.
What it really comes down to is that if a woman is interested in you before you get to the bedroom, she's almost certainly going to be perfectly okay with whatever you're packing into the bedroom. The more interested she is, the more she's going to be good with it. And honestly, if you're anywhere near normal on the bell curve and she still has an issue with your size, that says far more about her than about you. Just put your pants on, walk away, and rub one out when you get home.
Now, we can finally and permanently put to rest the age-old question. What a great way to find out what women really want-- not what they say they want!! Thank you Dr Malik.
Doesn't matter what data says when a woman decides if she's going to sleep with you based on the looks. If it doesn't look huge to her, she won't be interested.
Well that goes for pretty much everything a typical woman says. That's why I have been picky because I don't a average or typical woman. If I can't find one that has good sense and priorities, then I'll keep staying single.
Doctor, thank you for providing information which is honest and real. The 4-6 inches you found in your research on sex toy sales doesn't surprise me. The fact is the exact average is 5.16 inches and 90% of the male population is in the 4-6 range. So, it completely makes logical sense that most women's preferences would be in the average range. I pay no attention to the people who spread dishonest information that size matters to most women and they want a large pornstar-sized penis of 7 inches and larger. Those women are size queens who are the minority, not the majority. If you are a guy with an erect penis size in the 4-6 inch range, you are average, normal, and will be able to satisfy most women through penetrative sex. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise because they are clearly lying.
"The fact is the exact average is 5.16 inches and 90% of the male population is in the 4-6 range. So, it completely makes logical sense that most women's preferences would be in the average range" Since when are female preferences on anything based on averages ? :)
a NORMAL woman that has NOT been around the block will be happy with 5-6 inches. Those that have been around the block and are all stretched out, they want the 9+ inches.
Exactly, it's bs peer pressure. When a pack of girls is hanging out and talking, they like to pretend they have super-high standards in what they want from a guy. They aren't gonna say "4 or 5 inch is enough for me" even if it's true. Plus if a breakup goes bad, they get back at him by talking trash about his sexual performance. They know it's the best way to hurt a guy. But in reality she probably thought he was fine in bed.
The actual preference is likely even smaller than what the doctor here is saying as there is likely 5% purchased that are oversized for gag gifts, party gifts, bachelorette party gifts, and the like, skewing the avg purchase size up.
the real reason for a longer than 'normal' sex toy is that it saves you having to tie a cord to it.... so it doesn't get lost. Basically the extra length is a handle. Emergency rooms around the world rescue lost sex toys.
I think the real issue isn't what women want in terms of penis size, it's the confidence that comes with having an above average size vs lack there of. I'm very average but lack confidence which effects everything. Whether or not women want a bigger partner doesn't matter as kong as they're attracted to confident guys who coincidentally have lots if confidence because...
If your confidence is in your d , then trust me, you need to work internally, psychologically, emotionally. & There are 2 extremes with confidence - over confident & under-confident. Skill & the attitude to want to satisfy the other is the ONLY thing that matters, especially for women. & if they are in love with you, they can discount a lot more.
@humanyoda yeah I need some kind of help, when I have time I'd like to do that but work plus a toddler makes it impossible. By the way I'm not some loose cannon incel dweeb who hates women hahaha I was just making the point that guys need to get their confidence up and not worry about size as that's not really fixable.
Well there's no such thing as average size. And it depends on the size of the women. These so called experts " which there is no such a thing " always fail to mention
For the longest time I thought I was small, but then I met my partner and turns out I'm more than big enough to even hurt and I'm actually at an average size. Porn and media really do make you get body issues where you have none.
My whole life I thought of myself as small because I'm a grower, not shower. Watching your videos has enlightened me though. Being a little under 7 inches isn't small at all.
thanks for the words "grower" and "shower" , English not being my native language !! I am definitely a GROWER and very satisfied with it , i'd hate to have an long asinine , sagging salami dangling between my legs when im walk naked
Same here... Most definitely a "grower, not a show-er". So much so that my wife of 26yrs, to this day, still makes comments about that very fact (as recently as when we had sex a few nights ago...). I'm in the same category size-wise too. A hair over 6.5" to a hair over 7" depending on level of arousal or a few other factors.
Thank you Dr. Malik. Boy, media and hype has done a lot of damage to not only male sexuality and confidence, but also female confidence regarding physical appearance. You are exposing the truth and the truth is always going to win. I am right a exact average. Just under 6 inches with a 4 inch girth. My girlfriend always comments on how I have the perfect size for her.
I'm an older man and I've been around for a while and I can tell you that no matter what you read or hear, women want way more than what you call average.
@@supers0nic77 good. I don't pay them to show up. I pay to get them out of my life. Plus the accountants control the cards. No worries : ). Have a plan, work the plan, be happy
I like your videos, they’ve reduced anxiety immensely! I’ve began to find myself more confident than when it comes to the naughty. Great help and thank you.
Ct that you have no reply besides mine proves your point. Men are getting too soft out here. Who cares. Im above average and I will tell you that really women want security if indeed they are not street running women
@@Apis_Trader Then they can go make their own security. Take a look around at this world. The thing I know about confident men is, they're soon to have the confidence knocked out of them. And it'll probably be from a woman...and her lawyer.
@@jimmyparris9892 I'm will cry tonight again; I have no reason to be tough and hide this shτ. Soul has a price now.. and it is very low,.. lower, than it ever was* (I lived very long enough to know this), and the only thing everyone cares about is everything besides love... I mean.. I'm pretty above average, but I want a woman, that cares for Me and not my dιcκ, status or money. Excuse my nonsense and "Sorry" for bed gramar. __________________________________ * ⁻ Yes >> evil/bad_things/disappointing_things was/were always present in the World, but never before it was this soul-crushing (or my memo is bad, IDK, IDC; I'm just speaking «What I feel» at this point :: I'm depressed af, I wish to ㎘㎨ this year, if it was possible). It feels like humanity (adj.) has lost its meaning (even tho _most_ (meaning: _not all - there are exceptions, but it is not important to the topic_ (for people, who like to miss the details)) of animals don't indulge in sεχυαl pleasures (according to science), I, still, consider the ovεrsχυαlιzεd culture of our modern sοcιεty as animalistic). Excuse my ιnαbιlιty to write something readable and/or understandable. I.. guess.. will go and φ a slυτ tomorrow or smthn... won't make Me feel any better, tho. [[¿¿How is this off shore text longer than the initial replY?? Would a therapist even help Me?]]
Obsession with penis size is actually more of a problem in men mind rather than women…I have an average size and my wife is completely satisfied with it. So cheers to everyone with an average size
Good for you, but sadly as someone with an average to small one it's depressing being in that range. Wish it was bigger, but in time this garbage will come to a conclusion. If a second go around at this is a real thing, then I hope I could be blessed with a bigger one. Black and small, doesn't sound like anything to be positive about on my end.
I read on a women's website a few years ago some advice. "1, Fellas, size DOES matter 2, what you do with it matters MORE, 3, what you do with your tongue matters MOST"
The fact that this question is even still a thing is proof of itself that it matters. No one is saying does a guys leg hair matter or muscle insertions? It's always the same few things: height, looks, money, Dsize.
If they say they want girth, they are really saying that they want to feel friction around the whole circumference of there vagina, which any penis can accomplish with the right motion or by moving the pelvis in a steady circular motion while thrusting her correctly. It takes practice, but my lady keeps coming back for more.
I remember meeting an older lady years ago, she would constantly say she only dated guys with 10 or 12 inches...I do not have that to offer, but we did the deed, she squirmed through the entire thing. I reminded her, I do not have 10 to 12 inches, I do have 8...she insisted 8 was 10...my point, some ladies simply do not know. Ps, we dated for 2 years
The problem of this study is that a dildo is inanimate and does require a commitment. Will women be committed to the man if he has a smaller penis? There is a higher chance that the woman will be having sex with other men due to his big penis size. There should be a study on correlation between divorce rate, penis size, and sexual activity frequency of couples.
Here's the deal: Whenever medicine reaches the point of being realistically able to increase the size of the penis, it's going to be "arms war" over who can have the biggest penis. But, they aren't gonna be doing this for women's sake, they'll be doing this for their ego-hence to impress OTHER MEN 😂
@@GaianEntertainment Many shorter men apply themselves to be fit so as not to be rejected on that criterion. The working out doesn't help their sexual market place value much, but it certainly helps their fitness level
@@GaianEntertainment "To impress other men"? All my life I found "other men" to be of such poor quality and intellect that I never concerned myself with wasting my time impressing other men. Individually, a man might be worth the time, but put two or more men together and machismo made their collective IQ on par with a slug. There are exceptions, but generally, women deserve far better.
@@lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment Oh I agree fully. Although, most of the girls/women I've met haven't been much better. The exceptions have been at higher-ed and my current job, after changing buildings within the company.
Attention and skill in the "art of pleasure" and making an emotional connection are the most critical factors. Confidence is the entire male package, not one part. A healthy fit body is significant not just one tool.
Interesting. I never gave it much thought because sex is the benefit of a long term relationship. So in the "long" run, the reasons relationships work is compatability
I don't know bro, I have an almost 10" length and none of the women I ever dated and slept with ever complained one time about me being too long. Women from 18 to 60's.
What people need to understand is when woman buy these toys they have full control of it which is why they do not need to go bigger. Since they are alone and know exactly what they want. This is why it’s better to have a bigger slong because you hit the majority of the right spots without trying. The best Slong size is 7 inch in length and 5.5 inch in girth. Do what you can to get to this size. Don’t believe me, speak to women and you’ll see what I’m talking about.
@@LoboPoderosoSDL I wouldn’t mind having that size but a lot of girls would complain so I wouldn’t want it if I knew every girl would not let me do my thing haha
I remember reading a similar veined description in Consumer Reports, perhaps 50 years ago, where marketing for bras was biased toward "bigger" while the data showed average is "B". I don't know if that was any influence or not on this prepubescent boy, I always viewed "large" in media as unnatural and never heard an objection from a woman who suggested out loud she was "too small" and I emphatically insisted she was "Goldilocks RIGHT". As the years went by, I noted the comments changing to, "Glad I'm not big - I hear so many complaints of back pain". I suppose there will always be a factor of greener grass on the other side of the fence. I LOVE this data-based approach. THANK YOU.
As a woman with a G cup size, I would love a nice B. Bigger isn’t necessarily better. A penis that works and lasts is much more appealing than something huge.
My girlfriend once told me, that while in college, girls at her sorority house measured depth of their vaginas. They used speculum to open up, then inserted a measuring device until it touched the back wall of uterus. She said, that the depth of all measured vaginas was between 3 1/2" and 4 1/4" deep. She also said, that petite girls had the deepest vaginas. Go figure...
It's always the tiniest girls that can take the biggest, never ever understood that. And the depth it's different when she is excited it increase the length
As a man that has above average the most important thing is to know how to please your partner having a above average dont mean you can just do as you like that will leave your partner not enjoying the experience it's all about the build up understand your partners key spots so the experience can be enjoyable to you and them
Good for you. I hate my to be honest. Been insulted and humiliated for mine. But good for you and the other men who have had less than negative experiences compared to me and my micro. I envy you guys.
@@DigitalApex Lucky you. Must be nice man. Been insulted and ridiculed, so yeah genetics and misfortune. Sucks for me but good for you and men like yourself man.
I never really understood this entire male and female toy thing. I’ve been using my hand for the last 42 years and have always happily finished with a smile on my face!
I watched a clip of a female podcast where they were talking about this. They said a footlong manhood doesn't get as hard as a 6 incher, so the vast majority of average men should be quite happy with what they've got.
My mother, (rest her soul) always stated, when the subject was brought up, "It's not the length or shape of the sword, but the swordsman." Learn to please your partner, with what you have, and not try to break her or make her feel inferior.
@@jackjohnsen8506 Not necessarily "strange" in an enlightened, open, close, mother-son relationship based on maturity that's free of sexual hang-ups. Maybe it's not a common thing, but it's certainly not "strange". Besides, it's hardly incest at the end of the day. Now, that's what I call strange....
Most women I've been with, can't even fully take my 7 inches. There's usually at least a couple of inches not going inside, depending on the woman and the position. 12 inches would be too much for a woman to take for sure. I'd hate to have at least half of my unit not even being stimulated. I think any woman who says she want's 12 inches, is just looking for bragging rights or maybe is into pain.
I’m almost 8” and have never had that issue and all the women are on the petite side. When a woman is aroused her insides expand, can’t just stick it in right away 😂
10" is generally too much. I've never had an issue with 7" but you do have to wait 5 to 10 minutes before going deep- and not poke a hole in their cervix with every thrust even then.
@manager4409 If you work out and your almost 8 you can get to 9 if you lose enough body fat and maybe a penis extender but there expensive and dangerous and hella time consuming you can’t even walk with out it falling off but I’d wear it for 20 minutes that’s enough you just have to patient and positive hell I’d even try stretching with your hands anything counts I wouldn’t jelq though that’s dangerous in my opinion
I love how the focus is on affirmation when men's desire for a larger penis has little to do with how we feel about ourselves. Yeah we WANT the confidence of knowing where we stand, but no matter how large it is, no matter how much confirmation some men receive, it won't be enough. Because trauma informs our behaviors here, not some built in psychological bracket.
I’ve had woman friends and partners tell me that a large penis(say, more than 7 inches) is usually more painful than not. Most women prefer a man who is good at foreplay and going down over a larger penis
@@walrusmaximus That may refer to dangly bits and perpenditular angles that aren't insertable. If it's just a shaft, the whole length can be inserted, perhaps with room to spare.
It's interesting that she said 6.5 inches is a "bit longer" than average which is 5.2 inches according to a study I read. That's 25% longer. It's like saying a 6 foot 6 inch man is only a bit taller than a 5 foot 2 inch man.
I've been saying the same thing for years. When women get a dildo, like half of it is used as a handle. Then they compare guys to the whole thing, even though they never actually use the whole thing.
Tell her to work on tightening it up. She'll say "How?" or "Why?". You should reply "Exactly". My point is, people are always telling men to either get larger or improve their technique. Let's see how women feel when they are asked to do their part.
@@80s_Boombox_Collector interestingly I've seen a doctor talking about next to Kegels, sex being the best thing to exercise the muscles in that region.
Honestly, it comes down to attraction, connection, emotional state and chemistry. Behind that, I think as long as you’re not packing a 3” pencil, you’re fine. It also comes down to ATTENTIVENESS to what your partner WANTS and LIKES. And of course, how you use what you have…. If you’re “average” or even below, but you know how you use it and you pay ATTENTION to how your partner is reacting, your partner will achieve multiple orgasms and be fully satisfied. THATS what it’s about! Women care about orgasms FAR MORE than size…
I'd say the same is true about vagina canal length. One woman i had sex with never complained about discomfort, but another woman I had sex with said it hurt in certain positions. The second woman I could also feel like I was bottoming out. She had a smaller length canal, imo. I'm just slightly above average in length.
My experience as well... Had a girlfriend years back that had a very short vaginal canal. I had to be very careful in most positions, and ease into things. "Doggie style" was a definite no-go and if she was on top, it seemed like it took forever for her to fully lower herself into position.
Truth! Indeed. To me the thinner built and longer body type were "longer"than the wider hipped which were usually shorter. Disclaimer, like them both but the former are a pleasure for the more endowed, allows you to be yourself.
Speaking as someone who’s a little above average 6.5 inches, it’s not the size of the wand, it’s the magic inside, and the skill of the magician who wields it!
I’m 8 inches , had plenty of females in my life time… some say it hurt, some loved it, some say it was perfect. It really just all depends on the female .
I am 8" and I've been with a few women that could take it with no problem.... BUT most of the women that I've been with I end up hurting. Not because I mean to or anything but you get caught up in the moment and you forget to be extremely gentle. There has been a few women that have said absolutely NO to me. If I could shave an inch and gerth off I would definitely do it. I would definitely be happy with an average sized third leg.
Man you are lucky and I wish I had you "issue". Would love to have the capability to hurt a woman. As a black man with a micro size that ha been humiliated by the few women I met, I would love that problem. I envy you man.
I believe there is a correlation to the "preference" and the woman's body count/lifestyle. I've NEVER heard a virgin or a woman 2 bodies in say they hold this "preference". So, just be wary guys!
This is Ecology 101. The phenotypic differences between males and females is overwhelmingly due to the opposite sex's interests in those differences. It's why men grow beards and women grow breasts. Same goes for average quantifiables for those differences. Having an average sized penis translates to the best chance at both mating and reproducing, because there was/is a selection pressure for it
How does a woman "grow" breasts like a beard? If you have this answer....you'll be a trillionaire with that information. And if you are gonna babble surgery....that's not growing....that's mutilation.
It makes sense that the average size would be about right for the average woman. For `some` women It seems to be the `idea` of a large size more than the actual feeling of it that appeals to them. Mostly though, it's us men who are convinced that size matters and that can affect our self esteem, which indirectly affects everything else.
Well, I remember my girl best friend complained about one encounter where her male partner is “big”, she said it hurts more than it feels good. Never again she said. 😆
If you're around average, you're fine for most women. Also girth is more important than length. And womens' "equipment" has as much size variance as mens' "equipment"
Been married 3 times and had three or so girl friends over the years. I talked to all of them about this subject. They all agreed that they preferred 6 to 6 1/2" and liked it bigger around. They all said "... filling 'full' was better than deep." Can't argue with that.
I have a question. I heard women don't feel pleasure from sexual intercourse alone since the clitoris is located outside their reproductive organs. How do women feel pleasure from sexual intercourse?
A woman rubbed a magic bottle and a genie appeared. Genie: "Tell me what you want". The woman whispered into the Genie's ear. Then poof! There appeared a 10 inch pianist.
I asked a hot girl that worked at an adult store about this once. She and her coworker said hands down the people that buy the biggest ones are always guys.
The only time a woman commented on my size was to say that it was thick. It's 5" in circumference, so slightly above average, but it must have been thicker than she was used to. She was pleased apparently.
The only time anyone ever commented on my size was a malicious vindictive female who always had to rule over you. She said, and I quote, "You're kind of small aren't you" to which my response was "Well no, not really. You see I didn't know I would be playing in an arena." She got mad and tried to hit me in the side of the head with a large glass ashtray. I gave her one minute to get dressed because she was now going to be leaving. She refused to get dressed so I gathered up her things and grabbed her by the hair. She was screaming bloody murder as I drug her out to my car and I took her back to the bar where I had found her. She was still buck naked when I kicked her out at the curb and left.
I asked my wife what it was that women really wanted. She said, "Attentive men." Or maybe she said "A tent of men." I don't really know. I wasn't listening...
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As someone with a larger than average member, I can say this is most certainly true. A gf I had some years ago was told by her gynecologist that we needed to chill out because we had caused internal damage. She already wasn't able to have kids, so she didn't care all that much, but it's something people need to be mindful of they are larger than average. Having an average size means you don't need to be nearly as careful because you are less likely to injure your partner. Bigger is better for reputation but not for reality.
That's why you go fuck other women while giving her a break /sigh... people are stupid these days.
Or maybe she had a side piece who was bigger/longer?
Hitting that cervix is both a gift and a curse. I understand buddy. As a member of the larger member club, most women don't know how big 4 inches is let alone 9 by guesstimation with their hands. I would think that the study the Doc was highlighting might point to women instinctively having an idea of what size is normal. Like men having a hardwired hip to waist ratio deal. The media pushes the bigger is better narrative, and they propagate it amongst friends and the like. Not to mention the fact that in most women's hands, most men probably look pretty sizable. All the anxiety men face (I too at some point) in regards to their goods is really unwarranted.
If you got 5 on you, you're probably good to go. Besides you have atleast 10 other digits and a tongue to supplement if need be. It may seem like the greatest thing having a hog on you, but nothing will piss you off more than a woman who talks the good talk, and runs from the stroke. That's 75% of the field fellas by my guesstimation. 10% will take it, 10% will love it, and the last 5% will need MORE! We all pray we don't meet that last 5% That's Dred-ed territory!
You said you are larger than average. What was your girth? For example I'm 5.5 middle shaft and 6 at the base, for someone it could be an issue.
@@ab-gt6lsSounds like at least 6.5-7 inch girth. I'm 5.5-6inch girth myself
Q: What do women want?
A: They want to complain
Was gonna say "Whatever they don't have" but you are correct too.
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Hopefully, nobody ever finds my RUclips video history :D
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Every time you share a video, it probably attaches what videos you’ve recently watched.
Agreed agreed
What satisfies a woman more is the girth of a mans wallet, bank account, and credit limit.
They'll spend all your money and cut you off sexually
We get it, you don‘t go for character in women… 🙄
You go for the 🍉🍉.
Your choice, your fault!
@@karadiberlinoor maybe he's a very loving and caring man but usually ends up with manipulative and toxic women
Lots of us guys have experienced this first hand.
Space monkey definatly agrees
I'm sorry for you
I had a girl burst out laughing when she saw my "ding a ling" . " who are you going to please with that" she exclaimed. " Myself" i replied
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Stay away from the streets though
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You're kidding right?
You don't come off as well in this as I think you think you do.
My mother used to tell the younger women in my family that no woman wants a man with an extremely long penis. She used to tell them that being involved with those men will only result in pain and their box eventually looking like an Arby’s roast beef sandwich. She would contend that the men they desire are the exception and not the rule, and the men on the extremely small side were also the exception and not the rule. If you’re wondering, my mother was no Doctor, and she was not a P-Star. She was just a simple women with common sense, trying to educate young women who were influenced by music and adult entertainment.
That is the way of cool humans- educating others regardless of the topic. Bravo!
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My grandfather said most women would rather be tickled than choked
Your mother was wrong. Having a 9 incher like mine is great. It's a confidence booster in bed and often the girls are quite intrigued and satisfied by it. 😁 However, any bigger would be a negative effect, I guess. There's a point of diminishing returns and 9 is it. 😅
@DavidaDivine69 Sorry to hear that.
In my human sexuality class we had a textbook that was updated to 2023 and most women say on paper they like bigger (6 inches +) but with a confidential survey they thought was off the record showed over 75% of those women admitted they prefer average (4-6 inches). So socially people want to believe bigger is better but it's not the truth at all
That sums up women pretty well.
They ALWAYS LYING! Just like saying they want a "nice guy" 💩🤣
Why are the heaux lying?
@@Wize817Not lying exactly. Subconsciously trying to bite more than they can chew. A human tendency.
@@Wize817 I’m a small guy and honestly never had it be an issue with any women. Women are natural givers and many even sacrifice their own orgasms as long as they make a guy happy and get affection out of it, the sexes have different biological and emotional needs. Sure you have nymphos and sex maniacs but they are the minority and usually crazy in other ways to boot.
What it really comes down to is that if a woman is interested in you before you get to the bedroom, she's almost certainly going to be perfectly okay with whatever you're packing into the bedroom. The more interested she is, the more she's going to be good with it. And honestly, if you're anywhere near normal on the bell curve and she still has an issue with your size, that says far more about her than about you. Just put your pants on, walk away, and rub one out when you get home.
“Rub one out. It’s the champagne of victory” ~ Bill Burr
Now, we can finally and permanently put to rest the age-old question. What a great way to find out what women really want-- not what they say they want!! Thank you Dr Malik.
Doesn't matter what data says when a woman decides if she's going to sleep with you based on the looks. If it doesn't look huge to her, she won't be interested.
@@kristijan8518 If you're lean it's not gonna be a problem. Go to the gym (if your comment applies to you) !
That question will never be answered, it is almost a religious affair
Still i would rather have a big slug than a little one mate.
Well that goes for pretty much everything a typical woman says. That's why I have been picky because I don't a average or typical woman. If I can't find one that has good sense and priorities, then I'll keep staying single.
12 inches? That's not sex, that's assault with a deadly weapon.
it's unethical at that point
Doctor, thank you for providing information which is honest and real. The 4-6 inches you found in your research on sex toy sales doesn't surprise me. The fact is the exact average is 5.16 inches and 90% of the male population is in the 4-6 range. So, it completely makes logical sense that most women's preferences would be in the average range. I pay no attention to the people who spread dishonest information that size matters to most women and they want a large pornstar-sized penis of 7 inches and larger. Those women are size queens who are the minority, not the majority. If you are a guy with an erect penis size in the 4-6 inch range, you are average, normal, and will be able to satisfy most women through penetrative sex. Don't listen to anyone who tells you otherwise because they are clearly lying.
Well said.
So because I have a bigger eggplant 🍆 than 6inches I’m lying. 😂😂
Porn size is not 7 inches mate.
It's at least 8+ .
6-7 inches is close to average.
Thank you for sharing !
"The fact is the exact average is 5.16 inches and 90% of the male population is in the 4-6 range. So, it completely makes logical sense that most women's preferences would be in the average range"
Since when are female preferences on anything based on averages ? :)
3-3/8 inches is a woman’s preferred Length. That’s the length of a Visa or Master charge card.
Also they like a large bank account and a big investment account along with large house.
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Or the size of paper cash...which is 6 inches long
Maybe Asian women
a NORMAL woman that has NOT been around the block will be happy with 5-6 inches.
Those that have been around the block and are all stretched out, they want the 9+ inches.
A lot of women that say they like bigger probably only say it to impress other women or belittle a certain man or men in general
And usually can't handle what they claim to like lol
I'd be happier and more satisfied with 1 more inch to myself...ha ha ha!
Exactly, it's bs peer pressure. When a pack of girls is hanging out and talking, they like to pretend they have super-high standards in what they want from a guy. They aren't gonna say "4 or 5 inch is enough for me" even if it's true. Plus if a breakup goes bad, they get back at him by talking trash about his sexual performance. They know it's the best way to hurt a guy. But in reality she probably thought he was fine in bed.
If they want bigger, we should say we want tighter too.😂
Or or or they are just gonna hoe their field because it's dug too deep already
Even when they get what they want, they want something else.
Amen
Also true of men. I think it's just human nature to reach for the next thing when you achieved the thing you wanted yesterday.
100% correct
Nobody cares based on science.... ultimate satisfaction comes from based on your expectations...
The actual preference is likely even smaller than what the doctor here is saying as there is likely 5% purchased that are oversized for gag gifts, party gifts, bachelorette party gifts, and the like, skewing the avg purchase size up.
Median size, rather than average, may be more accurate.
I doubt that they shove the whole thing in anyway.
Nah, it’s actually larger (the real thing) that is preferred. The small toys are just easier to hide in a drawer 🤷♂️
They are probably adding an extra couple of inches to have something to hold on to.
the real reason for a longer than 'normal' sex toy is that it saves you having to tie a cord to it.... so it doesn't get lost. Basically the extra length is a handle. Emergency rooms around the world rescue lost sex toys.
I think the real issue isn't what women want in terms of penis size, it's the confidence that comes with having an above average size vs lack there of. I'm very average but lack confidence which effects everything. Whether or not women want a bigger partner doesn't matter as kong as they're attracted to confident guys who coincidentally have lots if confidence because...
If your confidence is in your d , then trust me, you need to work internally, psychologically, emotionally. & There are 2 extremes with confidence - over confident & under-confident. Skill & the attitude to want to satisfy the other is the ONLY thing that matters, especially for women. & if they are in love with you, they can discount a lot more.
Let a psychotherapist help you. Perhaps, an NLP practitioner.
@humanyoda yeah I need some kind of help, when I have time I'd like to do that but work plus a toddler makes it impossible. By the way I'm not some loose cannon incel dweeb who hates women hahaha I was just making the point that guys need to get their confidence up and not worry about size as that's not really fixable.
@@qna9022 hey a guy that KNOWS what he is doing!! thumbs up!!
Well there's no such thing as average size. And it depends on the size of the women. These so called experts " which there is no such a thing " always fail to mention
It's not the size but how you use it.And being attentive to your wife or girlfriend makes her enjoy you more.
For the longest time I thought I was small, but then I met my partner and turns out I'm more than big enough to even hurt and I'm actually at an average size. Porn and media really do make you get body issues where you have none.
Your partner probably isn't extremely promiscuous either. That also makes a huge difference.
As always Dr. Rena, you're open and honest and that's very much appreciated. Stay the course.
Dr. Malik making men feel better about themselves!
Hi 👋
My whole life I thought of myself as small because I'm a grower, not shower. Watching your videos has enlightened me though. Being a little under 7 inches isn't small at all.
thanks for the words "grower" and "shower" , English not being my native language !! I am definitely a GROWER and very satisfied with it , i'd hate to have an long asinine , sagging salami dangling between my legs when im walk naked
@@quinquirylong, asinine, sagging salami? 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀⚰️
I probably wouldn't find it so funny if I had a huge one, though 🙃
Congratulations on being born right I guess? I'm 3 inches and it ruined my life, these videos only help if you're average and above.
Same here... Most definitely a "grower, not a show-er". So much so that my wife of 26yrs, to this day, still makes comments about that very fact (as recently as when we had sex a few nights ago...). I'm in the same category size-wise too. A hair over 6.5" to a hair over 7" depending on level of arousal or a few other factors.
Same here, I go from shrink to multiple chain links😀
Even a 747 is small in the Grand Canyon.
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This comment is funny as hell,I laughed out loud
HHH
Someone used to watch wrestling 💪🏻
True
it is nice when a women actually tells us men instead of just expecting us to understand woman's thoughts.
Thank you Dr. Malik. Boy, media and hype has done a lot of damage to not only male sexuality and confidence, but also female confidence regarding physical appearance. You are exposing the truth and the truth is always going to win. I am right a exact average. Just under 6 inches with a 4 inch girth. My girlfriend always comments on how I have the perfect size for her.
How tall are you if you don’t mind me asking?
4 inch girth?
@@xrfa7422 You measure the circumference.
@@la9867 5'11"
People need to stop watching porn!
I'm an older man and I've been around for a while and I can tell you that no matter what you read or hear, women want way more than what you call average.
I believe that
I actually proved that with a reveling photo on a dating web site! response tripled!
So, you use your fist? 😂
@@raymundturner1140Oh. The Grand Canyon women.
I'm older man and I stopped thinking about the size thing...these days I'm just happy that it works every time I need it too.
What's needed is not a better tool ... But a partner (female) that wants it !
In reality, she just wants a 4" thick ...... wallet stuffed with unlimited credit cards 😂😂
Preferably very old close to end line so she can take all the cash and enjoy life with some bbc bull 😉👍
🤣
Definitely the truth
Once she maxes out your cc, she'll leave
@@supers0nic77 good. I don't pay them to show up. I pay to get them out of my life. Plus the accountants control the cards. No worries : ). Have a plan, work the plan, be happy
I like your videos, they’ve reduced anxiety immensely! I’ve began to find myself more confident than when it comes to the naughty. Great help and thank you.
The fact that they couldn’t trust women to be honest about their preferences is all you gotta know. That’s the moral of the story
Ct that you have no reply besides mine proves your point. Men are getting too soft out here. Who cares. Im above average and I will tell you that really women want security if indeed they are not street running women
Sorry guys do such as penis enlargement medicine real ? Like tablets, pills, lube, just want to know.
@@Apis_Trader Then they can go make their own security. Take a look around at this world. The thing I know about confident men is, they're soon to have the confidence knocked out of them. And it'll probably be from a woman...and her lawyer.
Yes, some guys do it @@bashirudada486
@@jimmyparris9892 I'm will cry tonight again; I have no reason to be tough and hide this shτ. Soul has a price now.. and it is very low,.. lower, than it ever was* (I lived very long enough to know this), and the only thing everyone cares about is everything besides love... I mean.. I'm pretty above average, but I want a woman, that cares for Me and not my dιcκ, status or money. Excuse my nonsense and "Sorry" for bed gramar.
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* ⁻ Yes >> evil/bad_things/disappointing_things was/were always present in the World, but never before it was this soul-crushing (or my memo is bad, IDK, IDC; I'm just speaking «What I feel» at this point :: I'm depressed af, I wish to ㎘㎨ this year, if it was possible). It feels like humanity (adj.) has lost its meaning (even tho _most_ (meaning: _not all - there are exceptions, but it is not important to the topic_ (for people, who like to miss the details)) of animals don't indulge in sεχυαl pleasures (according to science), I, still, consider the ovεrsχυαlιzεd culture of our modern sοcιεty as animalistic). Excuse my ιnαbιlιty to write something readable and/or understandable. I.. guess.. will go and φ a slυτ tomorrow or smthn... won't make Me feel any better, tho. [[¿¿How is this off shore text longer than the initial replY?? Would a therapist even help Me?]]
Obsession with penis size is actually more of a problem in men mind rather than women…I have an average size and my wife is completely satisfied with it. So cheers to everyone with an average size
would she confirm?
@@misiokinsale lol yes
Or Jamal and Tyrone keeping her completely satisfied lol
Good for you, but sadly as someone with an average to small one it's depressing being in that range. Wish it was bigger, but in time this garbage will come to a conclusion. If a second go around at this is a real thing, then I hope I could be blessed with a bigger one. Black and small, doesn't sound like anything to be positive about on my end.
Three cheers for mediocrity. NOT!
I hope she likes what I got because I didn't get to choose.. I've learned to be happy with what my god gave me...
I read on a women's website a few years ago some advice. "1, Fellas, size DOES matter 2, what you do with it matters MORE, 3, what you do with your tongue matters MOST"
The fact that this question is even still a thing is proof of itself that it matters. No one is saying does a guys leg hair matter or muscle insertions? It's always the same few things: height, looks, money, Dsize.
Woman usually say they want girth not length.
This is because their vags have expanded but think it is easier for males to adapt to this
If they say they want girth, they are really saying that they want to feel friction around the whole circumference of there vagina, which any penis can accomplish with the right motion or by moving the pelvis in a steady circular motion while thrusting her correctly. It takes practice, but my lady keeps coming back for more.
@@johnwhitneykokalis9990 The amazing part is that females bring sex to the relationship but manage to do little or zero of the work
Thank you for the info on the average girth issue, most everything on the all these channels focuses on length.
What's the average girth? 4.5 inches?
I remember meeting an older lady years ago, she would constantly say she only dated guys with 10 or 12 inches...I do not have that to offer, but we did the deed, she squirmed through the entire thing. I reminded her, I do not have 10 to 12 inches, I do have 8...she insisted 8 was 10...my point, some ladies simply do not know. Ps, we dated for 2 years
Very few women work with tape measures. If a chick says she wants 12 inches be confident knowing she has no idea what that means.
My girl friend wanted 12 till it hurt. So I did her twice and punched her in the mouth.
They should be familiar with a seamstress measure.
Yeah some of the ones that say they want 12 inches would be scared of 7 or more inches.
Dr. Malik, you're professional insight and scientific knowledge is a godsend. Thank you!
The problem of this study is that a dildo is inanimate and does require a commitment. Will women be committed to the man if he has a smaller penis? There is a higher chance that the woman will be having sex with other men due to his big penis size. There should be a study on correlation between divorce rate, penis size, and sexual activity frequency of couples.
What?
Here's the deal: Whenever medicine reaches the point of being realistically able to increase the size of the penis, it's going to be "arms war" over who can have the biggest penis. But, they aren't gonna be doing this for women's sake, they'll be doing this for their ego-hence to impress OTHER MEN 😂
The female equivalent would be an arms war for the snuggest p0-ssy
It's the same reason many guys obsess over going to the gym - to impress other men.
@@GaianEntertainment Many shorter men apply themselves to be fit so as not to be rejected on that criterion. The working out doesn't help their sexual market place value much, but it certainly helps their fitness level
@@GaianEntertainment "To impress other men"? All my life I found "other men" to be of such poor quality and intellect that I never concerned myself with wasting my time impressing other men. Individually, a man might be worth the time, but put two or more men together and machismo made their collective IQ on par with a slug. There are exceptions, but generally, women deserve far better.
@@lifeisagift.cherisheverymoment Oh I agree fully. Although, most of the girls/women I've met haven't been much better. The exceptions have been at higher-ed and my current job, after changing buildings within the company.
Attention and skill in the "art of pleasure" and making an emotional connection are the most critical factors. Confidence is the entire male package, not one part. A healthy fit body is significant not just one tool.
Interesting.
I never gave it much thought because sex is the benefit of a long term relationship. So in the "long" run, the reasons relationships work is compatability
Al I can say is, none of my past lovers have had any complaints about me in the size department, and my wife absolutely loves it. I'm at 5.5 inches.
What about girth?
Dr. Malik is a Gid send for all of us. Saying it how it really is and not how the entertainment industry portrays it
I don't know bro, I have an almost 10" length and none of the women I ever dated and slept with ever complained one time about me being too long. Women from 18 to 60's.
What people need to understand is when woman buy these toys they have full control of it which is why they do not need to go bigger. Since they are alone and know exactly what they want. This is why it’s better to have a bigger slong because you hit the majority of the right spots without trying. The best Slong size is 7 inch in length and 5.5 inch in girth. Do what you can to get to this size. Don’t believe me, speak to women and you’ll see what I’m talking about.
How does a 8 inch length By 6+ girth sounds??
@@LoboPoderosoSDL a lot of woman complain past the mark I mentioned but I would be happy if I had that size aha
@@KewlBrown because I always see that 8*6 is the magic size.
@@LoboPoderosoSDL I wouldn’t mind having that size but a lot of girls would complain so I wouldn’t want it if I knew every girl would not let me do my thing haha
I remember reading a similar veined description in Consumer Reports, perhaps 50 years ago, where marketing for bras was biased toward "bigger" while the data showed average is "B". I don't know if that was any influence or not on this prepubescent boy, I always viewed "large" in media as unnatural and never heard an objection from a woman who suggested out loud she was "too small" and I emphatically insisted she was "Goldilocks RIGHT". As the years went by, I noted the comments changing to, "Glad I'm not big - I hear so many complaints of back pain". I suppose there will always be a factor of greener grass on the other side of the fence. I LOVE this data-based approach. THANK YOU.
As a woman with a G cup size, I would love a nice B. Bigger isn’t necessarily better.
A penis that works and lasts is much more appealing than something huge.
"veined"😅😅😅😅
My girlfriend once told me, that while in college, girls at her sorority house measured depth of their vaginas. They used speculum to open up, then inserted a measuring device until it touched the back wall of uterus. She said, that the depth of all measured vaginas was between 3 1/2" and 4 1/4" deep. She also said, that petite girls had the deepest vaginas. Go figure...
I think she's just trying to make you feel good about yourself. I'm calling BS on her ''research''.
It's always the tiniest girls that can take the biggest, never ever understood that. And the depth it's different when she is excited it increase the length
It expands with arousal
@@Williameg27 She never told me ! LOL Now I know ! :)
As a man that has above average the most important thing is to know how to please your partner having a above average dont mean you can just do as you like that will leave your partner not enjoying the experience it's all about the build up understand your partners key spots so the experience can be enjoyable to you and them
I'm glad more people are just coming out and saying this as well. I just tell people I've never had anyone have issues with it. Shuts them up quickly
Good for you. I hate my to be honest. Been insulted and humiliated for mine. But good for you and the other men who have had less than negative experiences compared to me and my micro. I envy you guys.
Basically what I say. "I haven't received any complaints yet"
@@DigitalApex Lucky you. Must be nice man. Been insulted and ridiculed, so yeah genetics and misfortune. Sucks for me but good for you and men like yourself man.
Jesus, what would someone say? I mean, some girls just got big boxes. Lol
good comment.
my partners have luckily been very understanding and i've learned to be more open about it.
I'm above average but girth I think has more importance than length.
I never really understood this entire male and female toy thing. I’ve been using my hand for the last 42 years and have always happily finished with a smile on my face!
42! Another Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy reference!
Someone please give this woman the Nobel prize 🏆.
I'll give her my 5"..........
Your my hero Dr. Keep up the good work .
Now we need a video, Based on reality
not science :D
mmm, yes! ( nods knowingly, and peers over glasses, tapping a pen on them) , yes indeed!
I LOVE the pragmatic approach!!!! Thanks for this fascinating examination of research!!!😊
I watched a clip of a female podcast where they were talking about this.
They said a footlong manhood doesn't get as hard as a 6 incher, so the vast majority of average men should be quite happy with what they've got.
I love the fact that you get straight to the point in your videos
My mother, (rest her soul) always stated, when the subject was brought up, "It's not the length or shape of the sword, but the swordsman." Learn to please your partner, with what you have, and not try to break her or make her feel inferior.
I think you and your mother has a starnge relationship.....most mothers would die rather than talk about sex with her son...
@@jackjohnsen8506 Not necessarily "strange" in an enlightened, open, close, mother-son relationship based on maturity that's free of sexual hang-ups. Maybe it's not a common thing, but it's certainly not "strange". Besides, it's hardly incest at the end of the day. Now, that's what I call strange....
@@Turrican60 keep telling yourself that honey, and maybe someday it will become true...
@@jackjohnsen8506 agreed. I’d probably throw up if i heard my mum say something like that
The size matters for men no matter what the females think or want.
Most women I've been with, can't even fully take my 7 inches. There's usually at least a couple of inches not going inside, depending on the woman and the position.
12 inches would be too much for a woman to take for sure. I'd hate to have at least half of my unit not even being stimulated.
I think any woman who says she want's 12 inches, is just looking for bragging rights or maybe is into pain.
I’m almost 8” and have never had that issue and all the women are on the petite side. When a woman is aroused her insides expand, can’t just stick it in right away 😂
I'm about 6.5" and Ive had several say it hurt them due to size. The average has gotta be around 5.
10" is generally too much. I've never had an issue with 7" but you do have to wait 5 to 10 minutes before going deep- and not poke a hole in their cervix with every thrust even then.
@manager4409 If you work out and your almost 8 you can get to 9 if you lose enough body fat and maybe a penis extender but there expensive and dangerous and hella time consuming you can’t even walk with out it falling off but I’d wear it for 20 minutes that’s enough you just have to patient and positive hell I’d even try stretching with your hands anything counts I wouldn’t jelq though that’s dangerous in my opinion
Great visuals on this video.
I love how the focus is on affirmation when men's desire for a larger penis has little to do with how we feel about ourselves. Yeah we WANT the confidence of knowing where we stand, but no matter how large it is, no matter how much confirmation some men receive, it won't be enough. Because trauma informs our behaviors here, not some built in psychological bracket.
It's the analog to women thinking men prefer a body type much thinner than what men actually want
I’ve had woman friends and partners tell me that a large penis(say, more than 7 inches) is usually more painful than not. Most women prefer a man who is good at foreplay and going down over a larger penis
Well. My Mother Doesn't Complain.
Regarding the larger sized toy mentioned, remember that it has to be handled so a bit of that 6.5" is given up for that.
Gotta have a handle lol
No, as she said in the video, the 6.5 inches refers to the insertable length not total length.
@@walrusmaximus That may refer to dangly bits and perpenditular angles that aren't insertable. If it's just a shaft, the whole length can be inserted, perhaps with room to spare.
It's interesting that she said 6.5 inches is a "bit longer" than average which is 5.2 inches according to a study I read. That's 25% longer. It's like saying a 6 foot 6 inch man is only a bit taller than a 5 foot 2 inch man.
I've been saying the same thing for years. When women get a dildo, like half of it is used as a handle. Then they compare guys to the whole thing, even though they never actually use the whole thing.
Good points.
Something to consider, most women don’t know how to judge distance or length.
My man gets it. If you want a girl to think you're big just constantly refer to how tight she is. Works every time.
I’m the perfect size but knowing how to use it is far more important
Please form an orderly queue and take advantage of the offer
I LOVE the stock footage use, it cracks me up every time :)
My ex wife once said girth (thickness) matters a lot more than length.(Otherwise they don't get "that STRETCH".
Tell her to work on tightening it up. She'll say "How?" or "Why?". You should reply "Exactly". My point is, people are always telling men to either get larger or improve their technique. Let's see how women feel when they are asked to do their part.
@@80s_Boombox_Collector interestingly I've seen a doctor talking about next to Kegels, sex being the best thing to exercise the muscles in that region.
@@scottverge938 My wife did Kegal excercises for years...we were both pleased with the results. ; )
@@80s_Boombox_Collector Important point. The female can do Kegel exercises daily and make her vag more snug under voluntary control
Honestly, it comes down to attraction, connection, emotional state and chemistry. Behind that, I think as long as you’re not packing a 3” pencil, you’re fine. It also comes down to ATTENTIVENESS to what your partner WANTS and LIKES. And of course, how you use what you have…. If you’re “average” or even below, but you know how you use it and you pay ATTENTION to how your partner is reacting, your partner will achieve multiple orgasms and be fully satisfied. THATS what it’s about! Women care about orgasms FAR MORE than size…
I'd say the same is true about vagina canal length. One woman i had sex with never complained about discomfort, but another woman I had sex with said it hurt in certain positions. The second woman I could also feel like I was bottoming out. She had a smaller length canal, imo. I'm just slightly above average in length.
My experience as well... Had a girlfriend years back that had a very short vaginal canal. I had to be very careful in most positions, and ease into things. "Doggie style" was a definite no-go and if she was on top, it seemed like it took forever for her to fully lower herself into position.
Yep. There’s some monster canals out there. Deep as the ocean blue
Truth! Indeed. To me the thinner built and longer body type were "longer"than the wider hipped which were usually shorter. Disclaimer, like them both but the former are a pleasure for the more endowed, allows you to be yourself.
@@leeolie3728 if you looked in you might find someone who got lost in there.
😂@@leeolie3728
Speaking as someone who’s a little above average 6.5 inches, it’s not the size of the wand, it’s the magic inside, and the skill of the magician who wields it!
Spoken like a true wizard 😅😂
@@scotthearts9634🤣🤣🤣
@@scotthearts9634🤣🤣🤣🤣
Good for you man. I hate mine and I honestly wish I could change it. Atleast you are happy with your. Good for you boss.
The magician who wields it 😂
Me sitting here wishing my 7.5 was an 8.5😅
Where is the video on what guys don’t want from females?
ty for this, Doc. I needed to hear this, especially being single and lacking sex for the moment feeling like I may be extremely undesirable
Boy thanks for this! I'm packing a well trained 4 incher. Now i can go farther than my hand with all this lady knowledge! Thank you!
huge russell, name checks out... at least compared to me
giving us life changing info on this channel 🙌
Thanks for this one
It’s a relief of above average value
Basically women love the savings on postage. When it Comes down to postage costs. Size matters.
Dr. RENA, you do a great job on the subject. Thank you.
I’m 8 inches , had plenty of females in my life time… some say it hurt, some loved it, some say it was perfect. It really just all depends on the female .
Brag much?
@@jackjohnsen8506 just saying
@@jackjohnsen8506jealous much? 🤷🏼♀️
@@Rune__ No, don't need to, as their are two types of men, One, this guy who talks sex, and 2, those of us that are loved for it....opps
@@jackjohnsen8506you jelly mate
I am 8" and I've been with a few women that could take it with no problem.... BUT most of the women that I've been with I end up hurting. Not because I mean to or anything but you get caught up in the moment and you forget to be extremely gentle. There has been a few women that have said absolutely NO to me.
If I could shave an inch and gerth off I would definitely do it. I would definitely be happy with an average sized third leg.
Man you are lucky and I wish I had you "issue". Would love to have the capability to hurt a woman. As a black man with a micro size that ha been humiliated by the few women I met, I would love that problem. I envy you man.
So true, doctor. The fact is it is hard to get women to be honest re what they want.
Based on science ❌
Based on me✅
Wow you just made my day 😂😊
Mike
I believe there is a correlation to the "preference" and the woman's body count/lifestyle. I've NEVER heard a virgin or a woman 2 bodies in say they hold this "preference". So, just be wary guys!
This is Ecology 101. The phenotypic differences between males and females is overwhelmingly due to the opposite sex's interests in those differences. It's why men grow beards and women grow breasts. Same goes for average quantifiables for those differences. Having an average sized penis translates to the best chance at both mating and reproducing, because there was/is a selection pressure for it
How does a woman "grow" breasts like a beard? If you have this answer....you'll be a trillionaire with that information.
And if you are gonna babble surgery....that's not growing....that's mutilation.
The man's knowledge and intellect are # 1.
Hahahaha that's funny.
It makes sense that the average size would be about right for the average woman. For `some` women It seems to be the `idea` of a large size more than the actual feeling of it that appeals to them. Mostly though, it's us men who are convinced that size matters and that can affect our self esteem, which indirectly affects everything else.
I think the good Doctor should be commended for supporting her husband so publicly.
Well, I remember my girl best friend complained about one encounter where her male partner is “big”, she said it hurts more than it feels good. Never again she said. 😆
Somebody speaking the truth, and that applies to average sized men.
Wish I was that guy. I would sell my soul to the devil to be "big" than be micro or average. Whatever PC term you call what I sadly have.
Doctor, you already know women don't know what they want. 😂
😂😂😂
Money. Women want money.
If you're around average, you're fine for most women. Also girth is more important than length. And womens' "equipment" has as much size variance as mens' "equipment"
Been married 3 times and had three or so girl friends over the years. I talked to all of them about this subject. They all agreed that they preferred 6 to 6 1/2" and liked it bigger around. They all said "... filling 'full' was better than deep." Can't argue with that.
Glad to no bro
I have a question. I heard women don't feel pleasure from sexual intercourse alone since the clitoris is located outside their reproductive organs. How do women feel pleasure from sexual intercourse?
So girth
My wife always says she feels “full” never understood what she means by that lol
You got a Pringles can, my guy?
No body could ever answer the question of what women really want.😂😂😂
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You'll never know that it always changes
A woman rubbed a magic bottle and a genie appeared. Genie: "Tell me what you want". The woman whispered into the Genie's ear. Then poof! There appeared a 10 inch pianist.
I asked a hot girl that worked at an adult store about this once. She and her coworker said hands down the people that buy the biggest ones are always guys.
The only time a woman commented on my size was to say that it was thick. It's 5" in circumference, so slightly above average, but it must have been thicker than she was used to. She was pleased apparently.
The only time anyone ever commented on my size was a malicious vindictive female who always had to rule over you. She said, and I quote, "You're kind of small aren't you" to which my response was "Well no, not really. You see I didn't know I would be playing in an arena." She got mad and tried to hit me in the side of the head with a large glass ashtray. I gave her one minute to get dressed because she was now going to be leaving. She refused to get dressed so I gathered up her things and grabbed her by the hair. She was screaming bloody murder as I drug her out to my car and I took her back to the bar where I had found her. She was still buck naked when I kicked her out at the curb and left.
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