Dr. Malik, your video on male sexual health and erection issues is truly enlightening and a much-needed discussion in today’s world. Your ability to address such sensitive topics with clarity, compassion, and expertise is inspiring. Thank you for being a voice of knowledge and reassurance for so many. I’d also like to seek your guidance on a specific concern-how can one improve erections during rear intercourse? Your insights would be invaluable. Thank you again for your incredible work!
I recently saw an interview with a adult actress where they asked if the males use medication and she said "every time" and mentored it's usually a pill but sometimes the injection.
I'm from Brazil and some porn stars here said the same thing in an interview. But they also said that in order to become a porn star, men must not only have a bigger penis but also hard, long-lasting erections. Medications, pills or injections is because it's a job. They stand in front of the camera and a large crew, not doing what gives them pleasure, but what the directors tell them to do. They also say that some scenes take hours (some scenes take 2 to 4 hours on set). That's why they use medication. A major porn producer said that 8-9 out of 10 men they test don't meet their requirements. Half of them couldn't get ready in front of the whole crew, lol!
2 things... first it's psychological (most of the time) Can also be how u feel about ur partner (emotional and psychological attraction and connection is key)
In the adult industry, the women, on average are relatively very small as well as the guys. The industry had taller men in the 70's and 80's. Today's male performers are shorter in height. It's a camera trick.
@@ShaneBoy So the videographers have learned from the food advertising industry. Where big burger chains have used small hand models for fifty years, so the burgers they hold up look way larger.
I was a shut down not working right ED guy from abstinence for too long and had to do sex practice with my Girlfriend who was also abstinent for too long. You have to use it or you lose it. Thats my experience. Now we are like clock work
And sometimes the split stream is the result of a stone. We pass small stones quite often, it's stones that don't make it out of the kidney or bladder when they are small that cause the BIG problems, small stones usually wash right through but sometimes are just large enough to slightly occlude the urethra. I have long been an advocate of teaching your boys to sit to pee.
The suggestion on medication for psychogenic ED worked for me. I had brain trauma and a toic relationship right around when it began, so we thought TBI induced. W/ my new partner, we moved slowly w/ open communication, but my ED was hit or miss. When I tried tadalafil for a month, my ED was gone, I regained confidence, and wasn't hyper-focused on performance. Eventually, I didn't even need medication, and I have a half used bottle going to waste.
@@DesiMinnesotan I've plenty of girl "friends" that told me you're correct. As an average myself with 16.5cm, there are some girls that I hit their cervix and it hurts them. So yeah, even a four inches can do.. to a smaller vagina. Men rejoice; all you have to do is find the right fit! Don't hesitate to try lots of them out!
Dr. Malik is going tb a Superstar if not already ! A godsent Professional ! Dr Hyman would be giggling all through this lecture ! ZERO chance of me sitting to pee in a public restroom! lol !
One thing about peeing off to the side that Rena didn't mention that's happened to me, being uncircumcised: Sometimes the foreskin partially blocks the outlet causing the stream to go one way or another. No ma'am, I didn't mean to miss the toilet! I finally straightened out the stream when I pulled back the skin.
Rena should make a video about how to increase come volume, talk about the consistency, what’s a healthy amount, how to increase the thickness and consistency, how frequent should a guy come etc. if she does make a video I hope she doesn’t go all scientific and medical. Hopefully she uses fun humor and explains it very simply.
Female bodybuilders have a high probability of developing Clitoromegaly (big clitorises) if they have been using hormonal PED's. Does this work for men? Which types should be avoided to not cause clitoral androgenation?
Only if taken in small doses during puberty/adolescence. High T = larger peen. Natural boosters are not being overweight, high t boosting foods like egg yolks, broccoli, beef, liver, pumpkin seeds, etc. If you have a son and want him to grow healthy stick with the above.
Definitely the 'heart' and the rest of the body are connected. Make sure your heart is healthy !!!! A healthy body and a calm mind and like minded partner are what's best for good sex.
Does priapism count as a penile dysfunction? How long is too long to have untreated priapism? Is there a treatment for priapism? Asking for a friend...
4 hours. Treatment involves either injecting medicines into the penis and/or sticking in large needles to suck out the blood to make the erection go down. I’m an ER doc and have had to do this a few times to patients…
I want to ask you about using a p.nis plug for a distal stricture instead of or until I can get meatotomy surgery with a buccal graft. A screw in plug made for long term use can be left in, maybe for three weeks, to form the stricture over the plug but remove the plug before it shapes too exactly. I intend to use two different plugs, leave it out sometimes, and continue intermittent self dilation. This is not documented anywhere I can find. Can I ask you more specifically about it, and share information I can't write on here? Do I need a membership to ask a question? Cheers. When I manage to keep a plug in, it feels great for both functions and keeps my flas sid p.nis stretched and looking great on the nud. beach, eliminating pain I didn't realize everyone else doesn't feel.
My dad advised that the first time he had erection problems was with the hottest woman. Seemed counterintuitive, but when I first was with my future and present wife, who was the hottest girl I had been with, sure enough, Womp womp. Another time I lost an erection with her was because the brand of condoms were too tight. If you’re a girthier guy, don’t be shy about buying the magnums. I don’t roll it all the way out, not even close, but it is very comfortable (and doesn’t fall off).
I'm the opposite. When I went through puberty as a teen, I started getting randomly hard at anytime of the day doing and thinking about absolutely nothing. Now I am 53 and STILL will get randomly hard though the day. I don't have to think about or do anything; it just happens and I have no control over it. It sucks. I wish there was a pill to KEEP me from getting hard...
Same here. Happened every time this cute girl walked by in my high school chemistry class. I could not get up to leave class until everyone else was gone, or would carry my books in front of me.
That’s normal. Same thing would happen to me all the time sitting in algebra class almost daily same time like a stretch every few hours make sure it still works
Hello Doctor, how can I significantly improve sperm motility to achieve pregnancy? How can I increase erection strength? Is there a way to naturally increase the size of the testicles?
I once had a girlfriend who was relieved to find that I came in the normal average range... Her previous boyfriend was large in length & girth, which she always found painful which ended the relationship... She thought my endowment was comfortable ... Unfortunately for her she was looking for marriage which I wasn't ready for... We still remained as friends... Never mind the size, feel what's really important.... 👐
Ok, I am 72 and enjoy sex yet when I am erected I am around 6 and a half in. long. When I want sex and get close I lose my erection why is that please help Thank You
Is that 7.5inch that's more than 99.7% meaning bone pressed or non bone pressed? If its BP then I might actually start to believe former exs compliments for once 🤣
@@Smc-gm2nx Well it's a bit over 2 inches more than average so I dunno where your references come from haha, most peoples self measurements are complimentary af
@sircefiro If its a bone pressed measurement and its considered that rare I might try get a career with brazzers next 🤣 I always figured girls will tell any guy what they wanted to hear so I assumed they'll compliment every guy on that area that they sleep with
I'd like to have you address address elder erections yet really the dread of sti's and why there is no vaccine for example of herpes simplex what the hell is going on that there's no solution and why? The fact that some of us get hard then not hard and then hard after a while. but mostly why is there no vaccine for herpes? k
Sleeping With A Lady Is Everything! Those Amateur Exhibitionists Is One Thing.. Porn Stars… How Do You Have A Relationship With A Porn Star… Could Anyone Really Marry A Porn Star… I Couldn’t
Porn rules many ppl lives... many people learn through porn thus everyone believing that's normal so guys stress over size and women get stretched out...
Every male pornstar uses a combo of viagra. Clamping, and most importantly a high quality pump. With years of doing this, you gain a lot more girth and some length.
The explanation for split stream is poor. She uses the example of a hose and when you put a finger over the end it distorts the stream but then tries to claim that it could be caused by a blockage somewhere between the bladder and the urethral opening. This is incorrect. The most common cause is actually meatal stenosis which is scaring to the urethral opening primarily due to circumcision. Being American she may not want to point to why it might really be happening due to how distorted and misleading American health professionals are concerning this practice.
As someone who had to get a circumcision for medical reasons later in life, who had split streams prior to circumcision, but no longer has any issues with them, that's not 100% accurate. The scarring doesn't cause the split streams if the surgery is done correctly. That being said, yes, scarring is one of the most common reasons that split streams happen, but it can ALSO be a blockage between the bladder and the urethral opening. There's several causes for split streaming. It's just a matter of which one each individual is currently dealing with.
@@Megidramon meatal stenosis is not an “injury” that happens during circumcision, it is a condition that occurs as a consequence of circumcision over time because the glans are not actually supposed to be exposed, the foreskin is there to protect it. This so called urologist doesn’t even mention it even though it is one of the most common complications from being circumcised which is extremely poor.
Kidney stones are in the ureter (kidney to bladder tube), not the urethra (bladder to exit tube). So, no, stones can't get stuck in the urethra and cause "split stream.".
My bf can't keep an erection with me but yet can get and keep an erection with porn. But then he is an alcoholic as well. And he's 44 so I don't know and he doesn't want to go to a Dr.
It’s more likely mental. He might have intimacy issues or a porn addiction. I’m a hypnotherapist and have worked with men with erectile dysfunction and more often than not it’s an emotional block that has nothing to do with their partner
If you can get him to stop the porn, things will improve with time. That's a mental issue 100%. But there still the drinking, which is physical. He might have to get rid of both if he wants to have normal sex with you. And finally, you can get rid of him
I don't think it is normal at 24. Get your testosterone checked. Tons of medications cause low T. Antidepressants, ADHD meds etc. If all else fails... blame her... "well maybe if you were prettier...". That's a joke. Don't say that.
Dr. Malik, your video on male sexual health and erection issues is truly enlightening and a much-needed discussion in today’s world. Your ability to address such sensitive topics with clarity, compassion, and expertise is inspiring. Thank you for being a voice of knowledge and reassurance for so many.
I’d also like to seek your guidance on a specific concern-how can one improve erections during rear intercourse? Your insights would be invaluable. Thank you again for your incredible work!
Wow what You've said about adult industry is the most amazing summary of its essence. Thank You
This happens to me but once I get things going I’m back to normal. It’s about regaining confidence.
Dr. What’s is your view of naturism?
I recently saw an interview with a adult actress where they asked if the males use medication and she said "every time" and mentored it's usually a pill but sometimes the injection.
I'm from Brazil and some porn stars here said the same thing in an interview. But they also said that in order to become a porn star, men must not only have a bigger penis but also hard, long-lasting erections. Medications, pills or injections is because it's a job. They stand in front of the camera and a large crew, not doing what gives them pleasure, but what the directors tell them to do. They also say that some scenes take hours (some scenes take 2 to 4 hours on set). That's why they use medication. A major porn producer said that 8-9 out of 10 men they test don't meet their requirements. Half of them couldn't get ready in front of the whole crew, lol!
Cocaine is a helluva drug
I believe an injection of Papaverine and Phentolamine is used.
2 things... first it's psychological (most of the time)
Can also be how u feel about ur partner (emotional and psychological attraction and connection is key)
In the adult industry, the women, on average are relatively very small as well as the guys. The industry had taller men in the 70's and 80's. Today's male performers are shorter in height. It's a camera trick.
I was shocked
Girls also usually have super small hands. It a lot easier to spot the proportions and get an ide of real size when viewing in VR
@@ShaneBoy So the videographers have learned from the food advertising industry. Where big burger chains have used small hand models for fifty years, so the burgers they hold up look way larger.
@@lyfandeth did not know they did it, but makes total sense that they will do it.
The first one is basically performance anxiety. Happens often in sports or anything that requires coordinated output on command.
I was a shut down not working right ED guy from abstinence for too long and had to do sex practice with my Girlfriend who was also abstinent for too long. You have to use it or you lose it. Thats my experience. Now we are like clock work
And sometimes the split stream is the result of a stone. We pass small stones quite often, it's stones that don't make it out of the kidney or bladder when they are small that cause the BIG problems, small stones usually wash right through but sometimes are just large enough to slightly occlude the urethra.
I have long been an advocate of teaching your boys to sit to pee.
"Don't cross the streams." Egan Spengler
You really should do a show with Hink, recognize and learn from the PE community.
Hink is the man. So knowledgeable.
5:46 thanks for crushing my self confidence 😞
Very informative!
Split stream has only happened to me when the opening is not opening all the way
The suggestion on medication for psychogenic ED worked for me. I had brain trauma and a toic relationship right around when it began, so we thought TBI induced. W/ my new partner, we moved slowly w/ open communication, but my ED was hit or miss. When I tried tadalafil for a month, my ED was gone, I regained confidence, and wasn't hyper-focused on performance. Eventually, I didn't even need medication, and I have a half used bottle going to waste.
Jim Carrey Effect in the movie 🎬 "Me, Myself & Irene" 😅😅😅😅😅
Exactly
Fellas, find a woman who isn’t blown out and has realistic expectations. If she can’t be satisfied unless it is big, it’s her problem
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👍🏽
If that makes you feel better, bro. 😂😂
@@cali2468 I mean it’s common sense.. if average can’t satisfy her, that’s a her problem
@@DesiMinnesotan I've plenty of girl "friends" that told me you're correct. As an average myself with 16.5cm, there are some girls that I hit their cervix and it hurts them.
So yeah, even a four inches can do.. to a smaller vagina.
Men rejoice; all you have to do is find the right fit! Don't hesitate to try lots of them out!
@@DesiMinnesotan @DesiMinnesotan Common sense tells me you’re just small.
Health is the issue underlying this problem for the most part, though psychological issues could be a matter in very few cases.
Always illuminating
Dr. Malik is going tb a Superstar if not already ! A godsent Professional ! Dr Hyman would be giggling all through this lecture ! ZERO chance of me sitting to pee in a public restroom! lol !
Of course it's not real in those films, who gets a plumber to come over right away. 🤷🏼♂️
I'm on my way
😂😂😂
Thanks for the information.
The longer it is, the more it hurts if you hit something when you do the propeller. 💯
The helicopter?
Thanks doctor. You have been helping keep me be harder and stronger. Me and Little Buddy love you.
One thing about peeing off to the side that Rena didn't mention that's happened to me, being uncircumcised: Sometimes the foreskin partially blocks the outlet causing the stream to go one way or another. No ma'am, I didn't mean to miss the toilet! I finally straightened out the stream when I pulled back the skin.
I always have issues because I'm like I only have 5 minutes left, and I don't want to waste my $100.
Rena should make a video about how to increase come volume, talk about the consistency, what’s a healthy amount, how to increase the thickness and consistency, how frequent should a guy come etc. if she does make a video I hope she doesn’t go all scientific and medical. Hopefully she uses fun humor and explains it very simply.
Sitting to pee is not recommendable for people with hemorrhoids or anal fissures. It makes them worse.
Female bodybuilders have a high probability of developing Clitoromegaly (big clitorises) if they have been using hormonal PED's. Does this work for men? Which types should be avoided to not cause clitoral androgenation?
Almost all PED’s are male hormones besides gross hormone and clenbuterol would be the only ones that wouldn’t have masculine effects
Growth
Only if taken in small doses during puberty/adolescence. High T = larger peen. Natural boosters are not being overweight, high t boosting foods like egg yolks, broccoli, beef, liver, pumpkin seeds, etc. If you have a son and want him to grow healthy stick with the above.
That's a mouthful
Definitely the 'heart' and the rest of the body are connected. Make sure your heart is healthy !!!! A healthy body and a calm mind and like minded partner are what's best for good sex.
Does priapism count as a penile dysfunction? How long is too long to have untreated priapism? Is there a treatment for priapism? Asking for a friend...
4 hours. Treatment involves either injecting medicines into the penis and/or sticking in large needles to suck out the blood to make the erection go down. I’m an ER doc and have had to do this a few times to patients…
I dont know why we are supposed to make it big.
I want to ask you about using a p.nis plug for a distal stricture instead of or until I can get meatotomy surgery with a buccal graft. A screw in plug made for long term use can be left in, maybe for three weeks, to form the stricture over the plug but remove the plug before it shapes too exactly. I intend to use two different plugs, leave it out sometimes, and continue intermittent self dilation. This is not documented anywhere I can find. Can I ask you more specifically about it, and share information I can't write on here? Do I need a membership to ask a question? Cheers.
When I manage to keep a plug in, it feels great for both functions and keeps my flas sid p.nis stretched and looking great on the nud. beach, eliminating pain I didn't realize everyone else doesn't feel.
Okay!
My dad advised that the first time he had erection problems was with the hottest woman. Seemed counterintuitive, but when I first was with my future and present wife, who was the hottest girl I had been with, sure enough, Womp womp. Another time I lost an erection with her was because the brand of condoms were too tight. If you’re a girthier guy, don’t be shy about buying the magnums. I don’t roll it all the way out, not even close, but it is very comfortable (and doesn’t fall off).
porn ruin sex
For those that are addicted? sure
Enhanced sex
Porn opens up your mind to things you might not have thought about and it shows what’s kinda normal and what it just in your relationship
It ruined my marriage. Her, not me. To much fantasy!
I'm the opposite. When I went through puberty as a teen, I started getting randomly hard at anytime of the day doing and thinking about absolutely nothing. Now I am 53 and STILL will get randomly hard though the day. I don't have to think about or do anything; it just happens and I have no control over it. It sucks. I wish there was a pill to KEEP me from getting hard...
Finasteride (Proscar, Porpecia)
Count your blessings.
enjoy this
Same here. Happened every time this cute girl walked by in my high school chemistry class. I could not get up to leave class until everyone else was gone, or would carry my books in front of me.
That’s normal. Same thing would happen to me all the time sitting in algebra class almost daily same time like a stretch every few hours make sure it still works
Wow, thanks.
Good Morning 🌞 Dr. Malik 😊 can't we be Happy with is Given 😮
ED since i was a teen, help meeeee please !!
Hello Doctor, how can I significantly improve sperm motility to achieve pregnancy? How can I increase erection strength? Is there a way to naturally increase the size of the testicles?
Sometimes you wonder isn’t it unfair that men only suffer from such devastating maladies as ED.
Men also have to deal with the ill effects of circumcision, a key contributor of ED, and nobody cares.
I once had a girlfriend who was relieved to find that I came in the normal average range... Her previous boyfriend was large in length & girth, which she always found painful which ended the relationship... She thought my endowment was comfortable ... Unfortunately for her she was looking for marriage which I wasn't ready for... We still remained as friends... Never mind the size, feel what's really important.... 👐
Do you want to hear about a really exciting position/method of sexual intercourse?
Staring at Trump sitting on his golden toilet 😂😂😂
Ok, I am 72 and enjoy sex yet when I am erected I am around 6 and a half in. long. When I want sex and get close I lose my erection why is that please help
Thank You
Is that 7.5inch that's more than 99.7% meaning bone pressed or non bone pressed?
If its BP then I might actually start to believe former exs compliments for once 🤣
Most measurements are BP otherwise the varying body fat percentages would make correlating results a mess.
@sircefiro 7.5bp just seems very average to what I figured "big" would be considered
@@Smc-gm2nx Well it's a bit over 2 inches more than average so I dunno where your references come from haha, most peoples self measurements are complimentary af
@sircefiro
If its a bone pressed measurement and its considered that rare I might try get a career with brazzers next 🤣
I always figured girls will tell any guy what they wanted to hear so I assumed they'll compliment every guy on that area that they sleep with
In the adult industry I've always wondered how ever guy seems to have such large "loads".
I'd like to have you address address elder erections yet really the dread of sti's and why there is no vaccine for example of herpes simplex what the hell is going on that there's no solution and why? The fact that some of us get hard then not hard and then hard after a while. but mostly why is there no vaccine for herpes?
k
Sleeping With A Lady Is Everything! Those Amateur Exhibitionists Is One Thing.. Porn Stars… How Do You Have A Relationship With A Porn Star… Could Anyone Really Marry A Porn Star… I Couldn’t
Porn rules many ppl lives... many people learn through porn thus everyone believing that's normal so guys stress over size and women get stretched out...
You never know for sure how many people any body has been with, it's it's not documented on camera.
Partly genetic and it’s a muscle. And the more you work it out I think the seemingly bigger it got. But who knows
I love dr Malik...please marry me..😂
The algorithm hates me.
Mam talk about big head penis pr large glan penis kindly and it advantages in s@x ,disadvantages
Every male pornstar uses a combo of viagra. Clamping, and most importantly a high quality pump. With years of doing this, you gain a lot more girth and some length.
I fart a lot during sex 😮
lol
It's the foods (vegetables) you're eating
😂
You're trying to hard😂😂😂
If they don’t smell it’s all good
The Dr seems to embrace the realm of ' pron ' more and more. Hidden fascination ?
The explanation for split stream is poor. She uses the example of a hose and when you put a finger over the end it distorts the stream but then tries to claim that it could be caused by a blockage somewhere between the bladder and the urethral opening. This is incorrect. The most common cause is actually meatal stenosis which is scaring to the urethral opening primarily due to circumcision. Being American she may not want to point to why it might really be happening due to how distorted and misleading American health professionals are concerning this practice.
You're 100% correct. As a blissfully intact American male, I'm so glad my parents allowed me to keep my whole body.
As someone who had to get a circumcision for medical reasons later in life, who had split streams prior to circumcision, but no longer has any issues with them, that's not 100% accurate. The scarring doesn't cause the split streams if the surgery is done correctly. That being said, yes, scarring is one of the most common reasons that split streams happen, but it can ALSO be a blockage between the bladder and the urethral opening. There's several causes for split streaming. It's just a matter of which one each individual is currently dealing with.
The only time I've had to split stream is when the flap is not opening all the way. 😅.
A simple pinch to open does the trick
@@Megidramon meatal stenosis is not an “injury” that happens during circumcision, it is a condition that occurs as a consequence of circumcision over time because the glans are not actually supposed to be exposed, the foreskin is there to protect it. This so called urologist doesn’t even mention it even though it is one of the most common complications from being circumcised which is extremely poor.
I get it after sex. An hour later I’m peeing on the wall but aiming at the toilet
Can’t kidney stones in the urethra cause a split stream?
Kidney stones are in the ureter (kidney to bladder tube), not the urethra (bladder to exit tube). So, no, stones can't get stuck in the urethra and cause "split stream.".
Ok thanks
Asking a woman for understanding in sexual issues is asking the woman to find a different man.
lol
Sounds like bro sleeping with weman, he's not attracted to
Wow.😷
I started losing my erectien in my early 40’s! I feel so attractive to my wife who has the sexiest curves! But I’m unable to to get hard
Why do I have a hour glass spot in my erection
I normally don't do this , but doc take some time off and relax
My bf can't keep an erection with me but yet can get and keep an erection with porn. But then he is an alcoholic as well. And he's 44 so I don't know and he doesn't want to go to a Dr.
Pron induced ed is real.
Alcohol is a depressant & minimizes blood flow in both men & women.
It’s more likely mental. He might have intimacy issues or a porn addiction. I’m a hypnotherapist and have worked with men with erectile dysfunction and more often than not it’s an emotional block that has nothing to do with their partner
He's watching way to much porn
If you can get him to stop the porn, things will improve with time. That's a mental issue 100%. But there still the drinking, which is physical. He might have to get rid of both if he wants to have normal sex with you. And finally, you can get rid of him
Having that guy read off the questions is a major turn off 😔
Im 8 inches length and 6 inches girth and have no problem staying erect. 😊
Sure 😅😅
@tcb5141 u really think I care what you think lol. I was measured by my urologist. U jelly 🤣
Same just 8.5💪
Same just 9
I'm 9 inches in length and 7 inches in girth and have no problems either
I don't think it is normal at 24. Get your testosterone checked. Tons of medications cause low T. Antidepressants, ADHD meds etc.
If all else fails... blame her... "well maybe if you were prettier...". That's a joke. Don't say that.
Sit to pee! Thats ridiculous.
My question to any doctor. How come there are no bald homeless men?
🙏🙏🙏🩵💙💙