Should I Give Up And Move On: When To Fight For A Relationship And When To Let Go?
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Should I Give Up And Move On: When To Fight For A Relationship And When To Let Go?
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Should I Give Up And Move On: When To Fight For A Relationship And When To Let Go?
Many people don’t know if it’s still possible to get back together after a painful breakup or separation and a question I am often asked during private coaching sessions is, should I give up and move or do you think that we can get back together…
This is a crucial question which applies to many people and so I felt it was necessary to provide you with some perspective on this issue!
As a relationship expert who specializes in breakups, my mission is to help you find happiness in love… sometimes that involves reassuring you and providing you with a path forward to be with the one you love, and other times it entails advising you to let go and to move forward.
In this video you will get my honest take, and I invite you to leave me your thoughts and questions in the comment section below.
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Ive been fighting for this girl. We've been dating for over a year and I've known her for 4 years. She is very insecure because of people coming into her life and leaving, getting bullied constantly in school being called fat, youre a slut, boyfriends cheating on her and talking down on her. She suffers from severe social anxiety to the point where she can't even order food by herself.
She has insane trust issues, she has mental breakdowns when we argue because she fears im going to leave, she gets physically sick by the thought of someone else being with me. And yes it is very unhealthy we both know it. Most people or "dating experts" would label her and say "shes damaged goods" leave her dont make your life hell dating her. She will never change you cant change a person. You cant help her.
Know what i have to say to that? Fuck that. I love her to death she means the world to me, i would never stop fighting for someone who puts in so much effort to make me happy everyday and cares about me so much. Ive seen so many videos where people say "shes damaged leave her".
*thats the problem* she NEEDS a person thats going be there for her during the toughest times. A strong patient person that will be there for her no matter what happens. Too many people are just so easy to give up on someone who needs the very energy that you can bring. You can have a huge positive impact on someone's life if you play your cards correctly. Its why so many relationships fail today. People arent simply putting in the damn effort to make it work.
Our relationship has been really hard at times and yes ive had thoughts of giving up but i have a stronger will to stay with her for life. She's committed herself to improving herself and i say if you have someone who is willing to better themselves you should NEVER give up on them. This doesnt mean lose yourself in the process. Still set your boundaries and communicate. Dont tip toe around the problem. But at the same time learn about your partner, understand them. This way youll know how to atleast help them. And no you cannot change a person but you sure as hell can have an impact, as long as they WANT to change.
Sorry this comment was random but i needed to get this off my chest because of other vidoes ive seen. I stand firm in what i believe in.
❤❤
You still there
Proud of you...she is very lucky
yes I love him but i'm tired of fighting . I always fight for our relationship because i love him so much. but i'm tired. but i love him
Joy Boquilon we in the same boat girl!
Al your videos are so insightful and motivational for self / personal development
Thank you for this video Adrian. Separation for me has been a rollercoaster and there are times when I get hurt by my wife’s words and actions to the point that I want to walk away and just let things be. But that is not what I really want. I want to be with my wife in 50 years when we are old and wrinkled. I choose to pursue the deeper desire of my heart than the temporary pain that will go away. Thanks again.
This video is great bro thanks for your words I believe once you still got love for someone you fight for them until you win that love or that love is lost true love is hard to find
Ya'll are amazing and so uplifting! Thank you for all these wonderful videos!❤️
Thanks Deb, your words mean a lot...
Thanks for fueling my fire!!!
Sincerely,
Coach Adrian
You guys are the best people on this channel !
You're probably the most motivational person ever. I instantly feel refreshed and excited to get working on my relationship after watching your videos! I truly appreciated the coaching call I had with you and can't wait to speak with you again :)
Thank you Adrienne. I would like a coaching session(s) and unfortunately it is not financially possible. The videos you provide are helpful - I am coaching myself and most often I am doubting myself. I can see a correlation in the 2 men I have loved very deeply in my life. I thought I have grown significantly before this sudden break up - I mean sudden.
Give up when one or both parties give up everything and there's no feelings left.
I feel inlove the way you are coach Adrianne. I am really sick and tired with my situation right now but whenever I am listening to you I got motivated a lot. Thank you
Our pleasure, Mariam al naqbi. Thank you for your support and keep fueling our fire! - Coach Steven
Thank you for being so positive!!
I gave up long ago, in a 8 plus year relationship, yet feeling alone for most of it. It’s incredible how much pain one can endure. Especially with a narcissistic person. Not knowing until it’s way too late.
as long as you're alife, its not too late. dont give up before the end!!
i love that hope spark which you give to me always❤
lilla collins miserable have no other medicine But only hope
God Bless You
I hope this is encouragement in the right direction for me
I stared to watch these videos.it has helped me to see things clear for me more than anything. Thank you
This one hits the spot!!! Thanks Adrian.
Thanks Larry,
You fuel my fire, your words mean a lot!
Thank you,
Adrian
Well I must say bro you inspire me when I was down. You and Natalie. Now I've learnt, grow and develop myself to be a better stronger person. Again thanks.
I want my ex back alot , I wish I could afford yalls services.
fighting so hard atm i have really bad struggles but im giving it everything i have and i hope things will get better
Wow I needed to see this video RIGHT NOW..PERFECT TIMING!!
Every day that you work & improve yourself is a good awesome day!! Keep up the good fight......for yourself!!! Coach Adrian you are awesome with your messages!!
You are a relationship genius!
Thanks for your kind words Chris!
Been over two months since we broke up.. not over it yet. I guess you are right, its worth fighting for.
You all are absolutely a blessing. So much love. Thank you!
Happy to hear that! Thank you for watching.
Coach Adrian
Hi coach, loved this videos especially. Sometimes I too wonder whether it's worth it or not. It's frustrating to always be the one putting in the work, apologizing and believing in our future together that sometimes I doubt whether I'm fooling myself or not. Me and my ex have talked about plans for our future together but we've hurt each other and have been through so much in the past few months of the relationship that we grew stronger but also sometimes my ex felt like that's what it was always going to be like next to me. I believe in your philosophy and in personal development and into inspire the one you love but I wonder if sometimes change has to occur within yourself so there's not much more I can do if this other person doesn't believe it's worth it.
Thank you so much for the information. I had already responded to you before in another video about a month ago and you responded back but when I clicked on the notification it never showed me the comments so I didn't know what it said... I have a question before I book a coaching session with you or Nathalie. Can you help people with plan payments? Or do you have to pay it all at the same time? Thank you coach Adrian, you don't understand the joy I got by listening to this! 🙂
Your a great friend and a beautiful person and soul if you need anything ever I'm here.
hey adrian-first i wanna thank u for making this videos cause u cant even imagine how much u are helping people-i do even watch them to make me feel stronger!
to get to the point-i was with my ex for 8 years and we broke up 8 months ago but we still live together and have child together!recently i found out he is in relationship with somebody new that he told me he likes a lot-i made sooo many mistakes and even after so many months we still argue a lot-he always brings up our relationship and keeps telling me he resembles me for not making small things to make it work and also keep telling me that even if he wanted to try to work things out he doesnt know how or push himself to do it!i dont know what to do anymore or to think cause on other side he can be very mean-i guess he is hurt or i dont know cause its been long time!if u can give me at least starting advice cause i cant afford private coaching at the moment!just to start with something....
This video gives me hope! My ex didn't gave up on me when he was trying to date me for THREE YEARS! I'm not gonna give up now!
I love reading these comments and watching the videos. I woke up feeling crappy because I know my ex is spending his time with a new girl and it sucks! What's worse is that we spent the night together 2 weeks ago. So I am at a cross roads and most people think I am insane but I truly want my ex back, we were together 6 years. The worst is when he doesn't text me back but now I am in no contact so that's ok. He chased me for a year so I can handle a few weeks. Pray for me!
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Im sad to hear that..I just wanna cry again bcoz we both same 6 years..and so painful and lots of hurts...
Again another great peace of advise, I'm going to save these words and listen to them every time doubt creeps in my mind, I'm going to fight to repair the issues I have with the love of my life, how ever long that road me be, thank you again :-)
Thank you for the advice i really need that kind of advice right now. Because of this video now i know what will i do with my self and where i can invest my love in. Thank you so much and more power!!
You're welcome! Thank you for watching :) - Coach Adrian
I don't want to give I see a future with her I never fought for something so hard I need this
Hunter Bell What happened bro ? Y’all back or nah
So I'm pretty sure I just need to let it go. We want very different things out of life. I just moved to a new country for the fourth time and I'm set on traveling the world. I don't see him ever leaving his hometown. He also has severe avoidance issues and I'm the type of person who will freak out if I can't talk about a problem when I feel like I need to. We would literally set plans to talk things through and then he would just disappear and leave me in a fit of rage. What he did was intolerable and I don't think any psychologically healthy human being would put up with that.
Just writing this comment out made me realize I need to just move on.
I think I feel youu
I hppe someone gives you a huge hug after you read this.
When we are lost, we need the light from people like you.
I am the one that made the mistakes. I seek change in myself and for myself. I hope that this gives me the strength to fight for that love I believe in.
thank you for the video i feel a little better 😊
Adrian, I’m not super happy with my relationship. So many things are there in the relationship. We are supportive of each, we love each. I just don’t always feel the amount of love I want or feel I deserve in a few ways both physically and emotionally. I’m not ready to give up but I find myself wondering often if this is want I truly want? Is this fair that I feel this way to her and I continue to tell her I love her?
hey man
to be honest with you,
I feel like this is a question only you know the answer of.
But my advice is, you can let her know this, i got dumped without her giving me clues that the relationship was fading.
if I did got clues, I would have done everything to improve right away, maybe she will too.
hope this will help you out a little
wish you all the best
Your personal feelings are always fair in the sense that they are what they are, and have been caused by something -cause and effect....and it's always best to communicate your feelings, because until then, you are working it out by yourself which sometimes works, but not always, especially when the feelings are a result of someone else's actions or words...and keep in mind that sometimes your feelings can been falsely shaped (maybe you took something the wrong way, or maybe you don't really understand why your partner is acting in a way that you don't like). Relationships in general are challenging, and for no other reason than you're dealing with two people, sharing one life....a life that is very diverse, and ever changing...and both people want to be happy. We all change over time as we each are nothing more than a sum of our experiences which have shaped who we are up to any given point, with all new experiences moving forward, continuously further shaping who we are, both good and bad. If you can first realize this, your halfway to understanding. The difficult part is to have the other person realize this, and then for your both to be willing to analyze yourselves, and who it is you each are, -the good and the bad, and then to take from the other, their opinion as to what it is about you that may not be favorable, and then to see what you can do to work on it....no one person is perfect, and no relationship is without its problems and challenges....this is the life we live in but the beautiful thing is, we are all in full control. Best of luck....life is beautiful and short.....make it what you want it to be......no one person has the answers for you.....only you can know what is "right."
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After what happened im having phobia again, id rather stay single rather than go into relationship again...
Thank you Adrian you are helping me a lot🙏😊
Hi Adrian love your videos currently divorce and need to move on but having a hard time.
After a few months of regular relationships problems we were talking about a break up. Deep down in out hearts we don’t wanna split but as much as we wish to have a future together, we still have that feel that it‘ll not get better. We love each other above everything but still there are some negative thoughts, trust issues, problems with respect, problems with his best friend who is constantly talking negatively about me & so on. We hat those kind of talks to often the last few moths and we both fell kind of unhappy in our relationship. We see that relationship as the best and at the same time worst thing that could happen. Now is it better to fight or should we break up? I don’t really want a break up but am scared that he wont change
Thank you for sharing this video. Me and my bf broke up 3 weeks ago and got back together last night. This is not just the 1st or 2nd time he broke up with me because of my personality issues, he didn't like the way I treated him verbally, silent treatment, and not a good listener and blaming him for things that made me unhappy everyday and this has something to do with my childhood and the verbal abused growing up. He understood and was very forgiving but he grew apart and became resentful. I found out after a week of break up he flirted with another girl, met her for dinner, took selfie at his apartment, the girl tried to have sex with him, and he refused, she left note in his bathroom mirror that ripped my heart 2days ago after reading it, and then he told me he texted her and said he doesn't like to hang out with her anymore because he didn't like the way the girl was acting and she's moving too fast and wanted sex the first day they dated. I saw all their msgs together and photo together and my heart was shattered to pieces and I felt betrayed. Even if we broke up, we kept each other keys for our apartments. We hang out and that's how I found out about the girl. We were not in a relationship for that week but I still felt betrayed that he let this girl in that fast in his life. I was hurt and my world fell apart knowing that he attempted to replace me that fast. He said I just needed someone to talk to then. He said he didnt like her and I am far better than her. I didnt really understand his thought process and im very hurt. We had more than a yr of relationship and It was easy for him to see another girl a week after he ended our relationship. He said "she asked me to go out for dinner and i was just being nice to her so I said YES".... He never cheated on me before. Though they stopped communicating now, the pain is still unbearable and yet I am very forgiving and I still love him because He is the most important person in my life.. I cried my heart out to him repeatedly, too many times after multiple break ups and he's been very forgiving and tried to help me recover and be a better person. I was very willing to do anything to bring our happiness back. This last break up was the hardest, more serious and he even moved all his stuff from my place, which he never did from prior break ups. It felt impossible to win him because he firmly said NO and firmly said he just wants to be friends. He said we can't get along and can't be happy together anymore and that he gave me so many chances but I know deep inside he still has feelings for me and he just grew tired of my behavior. Last night, I talked to him, told him I will better myself for me not just for the relationship, I started to listen to him because from the past I did all the talking and interrupted him so many times, but I changed my perspective and came to realization that I was mean. There may be things that I really honestly didnt like about him as well, but the way I communicated with him was hurtful and hateful and he finally was able to voice out his unhappiness in our relationship. He said he was too scared to talk to me because he gets silent treatment and gets yelled at. I sobbed and apologize. I know i have to build his trust drop by drop. Apology won't work. I said I will do things on his perspective and I will improve myself. I proposed a plan, that we both make our journal or email to one another, discuss things he didn't like in our relationship and about me and I will also do the same thing, I told him I am willing to better myself and I am willing to seek help, I will do it for me not for him. I will work on becoming the right person for him and I am willing do everything just for him to give our relationship another chance. He finally said yes, He told me if I'll write all the things I want and didn't like about our relationship you mind change your mind and not want us to get back together anymore. But I said No, I want to know everything and things that I want to avoid doing moving forward. He agreed to give us another chance. It was the happiest moment of our relationship for the past year. It's not all about the pain and storm we faced, but how we got back together and how we became stronger despite of challenges. I love my boyfriend deeply and I told him that even if he pushes me away, I know that he still have feelings for me, and that we can still be happy again. I love him and he matters to me more than anything. I made him feel very important last night , and that i failed to show it before the break up. My priority is to be a good person, be appealing to him, and be consistent with the new me, I will love him for who he is instead of blaming him every day for my unhappiness. I will write a journal putting all my relationship commitments. I realized the value of my bf when I lost him. I can't lose him ever again. Thank you for your videos that is helping me with the healing process and help me with all these positive thoughts and plans to make my relationship work. I hope you'll read this comment and I would really appreciate your advise. 🤗
Misha el thank you for sharing that, I'm in the same situation right now. We just broke up last night, prior to that we took a 2 day break. Honestly alot of it was my fault due to issues I never dealt with. Anxiety, depression and past trauma... I didn't care for her enough, I wasnt showing her enough affection and I'd always instigate fights because of all the past trauma that I never worked through.
And now I'm going to try and work through it. She came over a few hours ago to talk it out and I wrote a list of what I know she needs and what I know I need to change to show her that I really am trying. I'm still scared of her deciding that she won't want to get back together though.
How did u get him back after the 3 weeks
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Scarcity creates value. You don’t value or appreciate someone until they’re gone.
Pearl Jayme damn man I'm in the same situation I treated her bad now she left me for that reason the reason that I treated her bad and that I've never changed. Now she left me trough a text :(
Thank you sir.
Amazing video
I give up
How exactly do I even have a chance to be with him again when we are both struggling to maintain a friendship. We keep arguing
lina what’s the update girl ? Is everything going smooth ?
Hi I'm so happy to find this video. Since covid started I been in a long distance relationship, and our connection has been vanishing with distance.....
We got engaged two years ago, and we were 100% that we were each others soulmates... But my fiance broke up with me, he is reading and old fashioned bible, and he also might have so mental bipolarity (maybe not too much)
But I love him and I think he is the love of my life... He is the sweetest man I ever met, he is the one I love the most. I want him to be my husband ❤️
Valuable advise…thanks brother
You are always welcome my friend.
My ex is not talking to me rit now..I'm in no contact,but I still have feelings for him and he knows everything but still he is not talking to me
What should I do??
I don't know what to do plz reply
I am fighting for her, I realized my mistakes and I am fighting my demon the dragon that guards our paradise gate
Ascalone Vanmoure did you get her back
Thank you for helping me
Hi Adrian,
I’ve just come across your video online and it’s inspired me and given me the hope I need.... but I am looking for your advice and help please.
To cut a long story down, I’ve known Keshia for years and we always knew something was there but at the time she was in a relationship. She lives in Sydney, Australia where I used to live but I’m now in London, England.
Recently this year in February we reconnected, I sent her flowers for Valentine’s Day and things quickly snowballed to the point where we would be talking everyday, sometimes twice a day, tagging each other in stupid things online etc.
I told her I was going to come back for her.... I did about 6 weeks later. It was the most amazing time with her and we both got on like a house on fire and did brilliant things together creating memories.
We went on a date to a comedy club, and I think this is where the problems started. We were getting heckled by the comedians and at the end of the night we were laughing so much I decided to ask her to be my girlfriend... I think this was to soon but to me it felt right!
Moving forward over the rest of my trip everything went fine and we kept enjoying our time together until I had to leave to go back to London.
While I left I decided to book another trip six weeks later back to Sydney for her birthday and surprise her with a trip to Byron bay as she had never been. I did this to show commitment and to also have something for both of us to look forward to which I thought was romantic.
The weeks passed and we still talked but it seemed she was slightly off and I could senses this. I didn’t think anything of it at first until it got worse until eventually got to the point where we were hardly speaking at all. When we did speak about it she felt that everything was too rushed and she felt under pressure with everything and wanted to not have the title boyfriend and girlfriend no want me to invest my money and time in coming over to see her. This became a downward spiral and mentally she had already given up on us before we even started. We have now spoken about this and she wants to remain friends but we are now back to talking a lot.
Her birthday is in two weeks and I’ve cancelled the trip to Byron But I still want to fly out to Sydney to speak to her face-to-face I have the flights and a hotel already booked and hoping even if I speak to her just once she may look at things differently.
As you can see it’s very tricky situation because I don’t want to push you away I care about so much and I know she does me it’s just the distance that is a problem. I am I am business some flexible to fly out as and when, as she is employed I have said I would do this every month 4 to 6 weeks for the short term see if we can evolve things between us.
I’ve been speaking to multiple people about this and honestly do not know what to do, I really appreciate if you read this and give me some kind of advice what to do in this situation.
Thanks,
James.
I have a question if i want my ex back and im the one who ended the relationship out of anger and i trying to pursue him again but he says he is done completely, does the no contact rule apply to ne or no?
Hey Ariel,
Sometimes it does and sometimes it doesn't...
I would need to understand the intricacies of your relationship to help you here.
Reach out to me if you'd like us work together:
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
From my heart to yours,
Coach Adrian
if you don't mind me asking how did this situation turn out?
I'm doubtful because it's been 3 months and we haven't spoken. This is the second time she's left me in 6 years
Jose Perez trust me don't doubt that she will come back , I was broken up with my ex for 3 months it was the absolute worst dude , but then eventually she came back around and told me how much she missed and loved me but was just hurt . BUT this past Friday we got into a fight and I said some extremely extremely hurtful things so now I know she is gone for good. So make sure you work on yourself and any issues that you may be dealing with personally and try and fix that or else you'll be in my situation. So now I'm back watching videos smh
i hope i get the same chance you got... just with a better outcome
Jose Perez hi 😍
Jose Perez same here man. She left me a second time 4 months ago after 6 year relationship. Said she just didn’t love me anymore. Could you please tell me if she ever contacted you again, as it’s been a year now? Have you moved on and feel back to normal? Im still struggling, any insight or feedback is appreciated thanks Jose
Oww. If only i had this situation. After 6 years girls come back for sure. She just takes her time.
Thank you sir adrian...I've learned a lot from you...
You're welcome, Emelita. Happy to hear the video was helpful for you!
Coach Adrian
Keep god at the center of ur relation...thank u worth watching
God is the divine confirmation . This information is interesting from the human perspective.
I kinda gave up , i gave my all to her and still got ignored or blamed on yes i tried everything to get her back , didnt work so now ive given up because she has new boyfriend and they seem happy together , Do i still have chance??
Hey Edon445,
Thanks for sharing your story.
If you feel like you've truly done everything possible then you should have no regrets.
Just remember that the fact that the seem happy, doesn't necessarily meant that they are. From experience I know that when people rush into a relationship they usually haven't addressed their deep rooted issues.
Wishing you all the very best.
Sincerely,
Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV yea she isnt the best person for me man , she doesnt feel bad about what she did to me or anything i even confronted her about things and talked what ive learned from the breakup. But im moving on i cant get stuck in someone who doesnt care just like she said and she is too stubborn.
You are my hero sir.
Thank you
You have to move on. If you move on, your ex will comeback. Thats the fact.
Thts true
Thank you for this video. I have been struggling with the question "should I stay, fix things and put 100% into this relationship to make it work or should I finally leave after 2 years of thinking this doesn't feel right"
Could you give me some things to ask myself so I can make my decision? I love my fiance and have committed myself to him these last 4 years but I also hate him so much, I hate everything he does, the way he talks, the way he lives his life. I'm so confused, I thought the love of your life would make you happy everyday, not cry :(
Catherine Young I feel you 💔
Your videos are always uplifting. Im 6 months recovering from a devastating breakup. Together 2.5 yrs, lived with for 1.5. Started as such an amazing journey for us both. We were so intensly intensely in love. We each have 2 kids of our own. Buying a house together with plans of marriage. Even talks of her desiring a child with me. Last 6 months together were tough on both of us. Financially we struggled a bit because she lost her job but we were making it. She had health issues that were weighing on us as well but not super serious. Her oldest child is autistic with violent tendencies and at 9 yrs old can be more than a handful. To the point where he was becoming violent not only to her but to the rest of the household. As she changed tactics and tried a different approach to his outbursts and behaviors he became increasingly worse to the point outbursts werent 20 minutes, they were 3-4 hours. Took a heavy toll on all of us. But we all commited to staying strong and weathering this storm for his benifit and progress. After 3 months of this she thought she needed to seek better care for him and just cut all ties and moved out. No notice or anything. Wed afternoon she stated she was trying to see if his drs could get him more appts and referrals and thur afternoon she was packing to leave. I was beyond devastated. I asked where her choice left us and her response was she didnt know. All she was focused on was his needs. So in true male fashion i threw a fit and asked why she could not speak to me about this before making this very important decision alone. Response was he needed her and that it was not about me at all. But with her living in my home and supporting her atm and plans of marraige and future babies and our 4 kids we shared together that there was more than just his needs involved in making such a sudden drastic decision. Of course all i managed to do was piss her off and reinforce that her decision to leave was the right one. So whats a guy to do? She didnt leave because of me but me questioning her decision made her assume that it wasnt worth returning to. We never fought or argued before this moment. First fight over text as she was leaving. I mean things were stressed but we were a team and then the lights shut off and we are done? What do i do now? Let the person i thought my soulmate go? Every aspect of our lives fit so perfectly together until this situation then utter devastation. Im clueless.
Hey Jason, I feel your pain, sorry to hear about your fight with your girlfriend. How long ago did this happen? How long has it been since she's moved out? Would love to work with you in a 1-on-1 www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/ - Coach Adrian
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She left almost 6 months ago. Aug 23rd. And it was not a fight until she was leaving and would not talk to me. It was not until after 3 weeks gone she decided to tell me she had problems. Most of which seemed just an excuse to try and justify her sudden change of heart. Told me after that she was coming back and wanted to work on things but now she didnt want to because of the way i acted. I asked for 3 weeks and her response was i font know what im doing, just that i need to help my son more. Nothing else is important right now. Its not about you its for him alone. I thought i acted pretty well considering i didnt blame her or cuss at her or be mean. I just asked why she left. Why she thought she could not come to me if there was a problem. I would love to do some coaching but as a single father of 2 teenage boys there is no way possible to afford such things.
Thank you. Very motivating. I am in a relationship with someone who I care about a lot. We have had issues ranging from cheating to heated arguments etc. it’s a distance relationship but I want it to work out. Lately I visited, and the reception wasn’t so wonderful. I felt less of my self because of the attitude I got. I was on the brink of breaking up but this person apologized and promised to be better. Truth is, as much as I care about this person, I always think it’s not even. I have decided to let things that will breed arguments go for peace to prevail. I however don’t feel loved. Please help
It's important in a healthy relationship to meet one another's needs. If you feel like those are not being met then you should feel strong and say something. I'm behind you!
Coach Samira
My ex has been with a another guy since our breakup that almost been 6 months and when she comes back to me I feel like shes only using me so I just cut off contact and decided to move on to improve things in my life but why does a person hurt the ones that love
Hey Ace,
Thanks for sharing your story.
I'm sorry to hear about what you're going through and I've actually done a video on this very topic yesterday... It's in production now, and should be released in a couple of weeks.
Until then, I am here for you if you need support to get through these challenging times:
www.withmyexagain.com/coaching/
Sincerely,
Coach Adrian
Ace Hennessy one guy hurt her and she takes it out on every other guy and blocking her blessings 💯
Someone didnt appreciate true love..and I dont know why lover easy to hurt the people love them so much..j feel ur pain as well
I'LL NEVER GIVE UP ON HER!!! NEVER!!! I'LL FIGHT FOR HER ALWAYS
So waddup now xd?
Ventus277 im wondering to
Nont give up
Never said never bc sometime the person you loved, stopped fighting for you. At first she had hope for us. At that time I told her that we need to be friends for now bc I was in a bad situations with financial and don't want to drag her down with me. When I'm 80% done with my financial and willing to fight for her, at this time she gives up on our hope. It's been near 12yrs but she give up our hope 5yrs ago. I love her still but I have to let her go and self love myself..
Omg you’re sweet af
Never give up..fight till your last day, if you love him/her..
At times it's good to let it go ......
Thank you so much
Then what if your happy with her but she's not?
Neptunia Neptune lmfao I’m in your gfs position rn. She’s suffering trust me. I don’t know if I should pull the plug or keep fighting but she’s probably feeling horrible
Same. My bf is not happy with himself...but I think he's a great guy with a lot of potential. No idea how to pull someone out of their own head. Truthfully I'm tired. I want this to work but should I wait and hope he turns things around, or should I cut my loses and move on?
@@nev2943 why not work in the middle? Why do you want your man always be pugilists?
I've done no contact and after a week he wanted me back, but a few weeks later he decided he didn't want a relationship. I don't know if i should keep doing this. He wants to keep me around as a friend, but I told him I can't do that. I dont know if I should try no contact again. He says he isn't happy with himself.
Natalie Jimenez the after a week part where it went wrong . I ve been binge watching all the videos since yesterday . For what I know , it's not a week , 2 or 3 or 4 it's more . A week isn't enough for even you to learn to become the new you . Rushing back won't be a good option. It stated in certain video to feel the water before u dive in . Along the way u keep it simple with him and improve your self as a person cause THAT IS SEXY . The more u improve and love your self the more he hungers for you . Cause the NO contact was supposed to be the time for you to heal , adapt with the situation and become someone who is way better than u used to be . Don't rush ,let him be . Say stuff , ok I understand where you're coming from . I'm not rushing you or anything but take your time and take care .
Then u repeat the NO contact . no more 1 week bs or 2 or 3 or 4 . This thing usually works more than 6 or 7 weeks . Use that time to heal and become balance with your self .
Really need your advice.
I dont really feel comfortable with sharing this because I am a private person. But its best for me to get this out and stop holding on to this inner pain and anger I have for many men. Im 30 years old and after many years of being in toxic relationships I am both drained mentally and physically with dating. I find that many men do sleep around and seem to not know how to communicate in a way that will make the relationship grow stronger. Being in a relationship requires growth, not staying the same forever because you are not the same person you were 10 years ago or even 5 years ago. Not to many men understand that, and seem to think that you should stay the same and life does not work like that. I find myself being very cautious as to who I bring into my life because dealing with a heartbreak can be to much.
Can someone be too hurt and now after months just too turned off by all the fights and disappointments to try it again? We also had a few break-ups already. She says it was one time too many and she seems happy with her life without me now. How do I know when I have to let go? She loved me very much, even when she broke up but does not want to take the risk again of me letting her down again.
Julia Ryan im in the same boat. Ive decided its time for me to give up. Been 39 days NC and its killing me BUT i also know i made a bunch of mistakes that caused us to get where i am. Regardless ofnwhether you keep trying or not, figure out what mistakes u made and what you need to work on and work on it......otherwise youll keep repeati ng the same mistakes
I’m in the same situation. But like Adrian says this time is to reflect, improve & change. I’m not giving up!
U will be alrighty..I know it's not easy but we thankful that this segments here to lesser our pain...good luck and God bless
Thank you so much for this inspirational video. It did help me during this tym of hardships in my relationship. M fighting for the love of my life n wanting to work this out n this video has helped me a lot in a way to continue fighting for someone special. We've been going out for 1yr n his still upset about my past because I lied in the beginning but than wen m honest n never cheated on him... He starts to taunt me n say hurtful things but my heart says not to give up coz his worth fighting for..... He still loves me more but it's just his stubbornness n meaningful words that hurts me.... Do you think I can make a change in this relationship or change the way he thinks in the yrs to come? I really love this guy n I wanna spend the rest of my life with him (MS)
Really need your help Adrian
Hey
How i can get to your website (blog) or contact you?
Thank you for sharing video.
Amazing work Adrian. I don't have much hope. She was living with her ex husband, and wanted to rush getting settled with me (mentioning kids & fam) I feel like I had to work and change myself to make her happy. I believe I changed so much after the break up, I was never so complete. She now has a new BF and says she's happyer than ever. Should I move on?
I finally give up and I'm going to try to move on. Focus on bettering myself, growing my business and caring for my new little puppy I got as a valentine's gift from someone who's liked me for years. I'm going to focus on people who love me. Thanks
I'm happy that you've chosen to do what's best for yourself and giving your love to people and things that have earned it :) - Coach Adrian
Love Advice TV thank you for replying and helping me through my journey. Stay blessed and keep helping people
Where are you located? How does one get in contact for coaching other than youtube (is there a website)?
hey coach! very recently, my boyfriend and i went on a week long, out-of-state school trip. to make a long story short, he broke up with me in the middle of it all. we were both absolutely crushed. he said he had to do it because his mental health was depleting rapidly and he felt as though our relationship wouldn’t be very healthy if he was only giving minimal effort due to his mental exhaustion. we’re still friends; in fact, we’re sort of in a weird place. we’re still doing boyfriend/girlfriend stuff together but only as friends. i’m so confused. i want our relationship to last because i love him, and even he’s saying that he wants to marry me someday. we hope that once he’s better and after we’ve both grown a bit, we’ll get back together. i don’t even know anymore; this whole situation is making me feel confused and i don’t know what i can do to help save our relationship. what’re your thoughts, coach?
I enjoy your video, my wife and I have been together for four years and married for five months now and separated for one month. I was a toxic person and I've been going to conselling and I'm genuinely working on who I want to be and changing but I am worried she is not going to give us another chance. We have two children together.
I do accept the fact if she doesn't it was because of the man I shouldn't have been over the years we were happy more often than not but I realize that is my side of things. She may see it differently. She had just emotionally cut me off very cold and has been since she moved out. however I realize I am responsible and why she wouldn't give us another chance. I'm just focusing on changing.
She maybe give u a chance for of the kids..4 years was long time..my hurt was 6 years but i will try to move on but j dont know how..
I need a miracle too! It has been three months. I have broken the contact rule three times. Last time I attempted contact March 7. He had lost hope and patience with me due to depression. I am trying to turn my life around. Its was a long distance relationship.
The girl i was seeing for a few months has gone away after a physical altercation while we were both very intoxicated. I was arrested after hitting her back after being punched several times. We've had several fights while drinking but are absolutely wonderful when we are sober. We both started falling for each other before the fight and now im not allowed to contact her until the case has been finished in court. The toxicity is the drinking episodes and she doesnt seem to want to stop. I love her and really feel we would be wonderful together. I can't decide what to do after the no contact order is lifted
Me and my ex broke up about a month ago. My anxiety played a major part but there were things mutually about us that out fear in us to break up because we split up before. The breakup was horrible, I put her out of my apartment and her father had words for me, my brother had words for him. Two weeks after the break up I seen her and she was keeping it together. I couldn’t focus in the city I was in so I moved out of the state for a while to go redesign my life and myself internally, got a really good paying job, I broke up with her but I do not wanna give up on her forever. It’s been a little over a week since we’ve spoke and it’s been the hardest thing ever but I still have faith and fight in me for this relationship. Space is the best option right now but I do not wanna spend the rest of my life without her. She is the love of my life but I know I have to grow and so does she, what’s my best option as far as regaining this relationship in time?
Can you please make a video on what to do when someone leaves you months at a time. Basically, it is either his way or no way. One sided relationship.
Thank you.
You are quite welcome! - The Love Advice TV | With My Ex Again Team
Thank you so much!!
My Ex and I broke up about 2 months ago and recently just started talking. I still love him and I believe he is worth fighting for but how can I fight for him? Is we barely talk? Or barely see each other? I’m staying as calm as I can with the situation but do need some advice :)
Thank you
Every hope is end.. think her and move on
I would personally like to work with you and get some advice on my situation
Sometimes Letting Go and Move on is Hard..
but when you do, you'll be glad did it and you gonna keep asking yourself
Why I didn't do this Long time ago
I need a miracle too. Just found out my ex moved out of state. I feel theres no hope left of getting back together or having any kind of relationship. We've been giving each other space even on social media, but they still follow me on social media. Ugh...i just want to keep moving towards my higher better self. I want someone who chooses to stay, not leave and run.
Right now I'm dealing with a relationship that is about to turn into long distance. How do I know weather staying or separating is best?
I have been in a 4 yr relationship (2 yes of it engaged), we have got into small arguments where we questioned if we should or shouldn't stay together. I have a son, 2 weeks ago he told me he wasn't happy and hasn't been for weeks. And that there is too much distance and space. And he is too afraid to try again. Because he doesn't want the hearache, he doesn't want to go through the pain he has in his heart again. And that it would just be easier to leave it all now, then to continue on. We have sat and talked several times. And we have learned where our disconnect was, and he realizes it too, and says that maybe if we would have realized it sooner it maybe different now. But he just isn't willing to take that risk now, since it hasn't changed before.
How do you know if your relationship is toxic can you please elaborate or do a video on that? Can a toxic relationship be repaired?
I was in a 16 year relationship with the mother to our 3 kids. We have been separated for 8 months now and lived together until 2 months ago. She is talking to someone else and likes that person. He lives in LA but comes down here once a month. He has a kid in LA and a kid in NY. Her and I have been getting along for the past 3 weeks really well and I’ve constantly am still there her. She says we needed this separation to become the best of friends to become better parents and still remain family. She said it’s hard now but one day it’ll all make sense. I love her still, deeply everyday. She said it’ll hurt her one day when I move on and find someone else because she knows I will treat them the way she always wanted to be treated. I miss my family and the great bond we use to have and I miss loving the girl of my dreams.
He rejected me few months ago but still sometimes seems interestead. What to do? Is there a chance for us? Please help me :). I love your channel so much!!
Hi coach adrian
I met this guy 6yrs ago. We never dated but were on fb for 6 yrs. One night he finally asked me out. We dated 3 months He was the sweetest kindest and most honest guy i’ve been with. We had a fight where i ended it then i was up and down on what i wanted. He said he wanted a break and i told him if he takes a break never to call me again. The next day I apologized and asked that he reconsider being with me. He didn’t respond. Five days later when he got back from hunting I text him said sorry again. He ended it. I called and begged him not to do this but he said it’s changed for him and he is 100% adamant he doesn’t want to go further with me. I longed for him so many years and was quick to fall for him because of it. Now he refuses to speak to me. We’re on fb but he won’t open the msgs won’t text back and won’t answer my call. Even when i was locked out of my car he didn’t respond. Should I still fight since I have wanted him for so long or do I walk away?
thank you..😇😇😇😇
I feel my relationship is doomed because I couldn't control my feelings and came in too strong to the point where she pulled away... and now shes talking to someone else
I really would like to talk about my relationship and I would love to get help and I really would love to fix my relationship with him. Please reach out to me . Thank you . I love you work .