"Everybody is trying to be different and it makes us all the same" (2:08) That is EXACTLY what I've been trying to find the words to say. Thank you!! You are so much like my best friend who moved back to her home country (let's just say that it's really far away from mine). I miss her deeply, and you're so much like her in appearance and personality, it's hard for me not to love you (and of course I wouldn't want that anyways)!!
I like it when guys aren't embarrassed to compliment you(: Or when they start to blush. I hate it when girls act stupid just to seem more attractive to guys
I like it when guys are kind and smile a lot and keep good eye contact when your talking. I dislike it when they don't smell nice, they stare at other girls all the time, and chew with their mouth open...
I told my crush I like him, and he said it's cool. Before I told him, we talked and had inside jokes and stuff but now we never talk because it's awkward. He is hilarious and so cute and I wished he liked me back. I have acne and I'm not what you would call "popular".
Same but the guy I like likes my best friend and when I told him I liked him he just looked at me and walked off!! Now I've just basically given up and like everyone knows that I like him which makes me upset can anyone help me get him to like me back?!!!
I had a crush on two guys. they were best friends. One of them I dreamed was like my Prince charming and the other wasn't as attractive [ on the outside]. I felt comfortable around Mason [ other guy] we laugh and talk all the time , but with Daniel [ Prince] I ge shy and nervous and act like a total fake around him. one of my friends said this was cause I liked him. After watching this I finally decided Mason.. We are a happy couple at high school and everything is right Thx
Im gonna be honest. I like nerdey guys that also like to play sports a guy that talks to me a guy that is taller than me and I like it when boys think they are funny I find that very attractive. I hate it when guys try to play a sport to impress you
I really listened closely to every word you said and at the end, when you said those sentences, just makes me wanna cry.. I admit i'm too over-emotional but... I feel so touched.. Lol!! Thank you for the advice!! I'll really heed your advice.. ^^
I just realized I have been following Bubz for four years already. This is amazing. I literally know her longer than my current best friend haha. I remember how Bubz used to film videos back in Northern Ireland. Wow, she has grown so much. It's so nice to watch someone grow. Even if it's one sided haha. Bubz, I love you a lot. One day, I'm gonna meet you and give you a hug for being so awesome. (Not being creepy here...)
The one thing that turns a girl off is when a guy isn't listening to everything you are saying. It's as if he has rated the level of importance that your topic is to zero. That hurts. And it's sad when a guy says you are sensitive when you mention you would like to be heard. Because, when you are in a relationship, you both should be able to be heard. Another thing is you should never be rating how important the topic of conversation is.
What I like in a guy is when he actually tries to be your true friend, wants to make you happy all the time and such, even if they may not be the best looking. I had a bf who was more on the heavy side but to make up for it was his humor, caring, kindness and always thought about others and wanted to make everything right. So it really isn't what's on the outside all the time (even though he was still cute), it truly diehard on the inside that makes a man beautiful.
ur welcome, and no one says anything to me so I feel ur pain gurl. Plus keep on saying inspiration stuff, someone else will respond to ur stuff. :3 plus I have a habit of doing a kitty faces :3
I need to tell someone this... So I have a huge crush on this guy and it's been 3 years since I liked him but I never told him.. I don't talk to him s lot So my friend doesn't know I like him but she told the whole school she liked him and now he knows and he smiles at her and talks to Her a lot does that mean he liked hers or something because he used to like me in 3rd grade and he used to open the door for me at school and know he doesn't dos that mean he doesn't like me or is he trying to play hard and make me jealous? And btw him and I known each other more than my friend knows him!
I started watching this video and literally I said," You go girl!" When you talked about girls getting over what others think and just being ourselves. Also, I'm glad you love Tim so much, it's so sweet to listen to how you talk about him and don't let anyone else change the love you have!!!! 😍💑
i like a guy but everyone says he's ugly and other negative stuff and what do i see in him and so..........it just makes me feel like i'm stupid and keep falling for the unattractive one but i like him alot................:(
If his ugly with a perfect personality (I don't mean perfect perfect, by perfect I mean if you like his personality) then his good enough. Like what bubz said, would you rather drink from a pretty cup that's got something that would make you sick or a cracked cup that's got heaven? Who cares about what other people think? Do what you want to do :)
When I told people who I liked, they always made fun of me for liking him and nobody else liked him. I just decided to ask him out and that same boy became my very first boyfriend. Then apparently other girls fell for him too... while I was dating him.
Follow you own GODDAMN HEART. Sorry to be aggressive but it's your choice who you like. Hold his hand and walk down the hall with confidence and let people stare and be jealous. (learned the hard way)
No you like whoever you want. Hahaha just go for him it's nobody else's business it shouldn't concern them (: you know that it's a known fact that the person you like is a hundred times more attractive in your eyes? I used to like this guy a lot and now that were way over and he turned out horrible, when I got over him I didn't see anything good about him. It's because you like him so much that you think he's attractive haha don't worry go for who you want (: it's nobody's choice but yours (:
As a guy( age 20), ive noticed i tend to look at girls with better posture. I dont mean to do it, but it just so happens that a girl standing tall means they are confident!! So ive done the same things, ive just improved my walking posture and more girls as well find more attractive because of it. STAND TALL AND DONT BE AFRAID TO START A CONVERSATION!
I have a crush and i doubt he likes me. Is it the same for other people too? Like where you see a guy you like but you know truly in your heart he doesn't even notice your there. 😓
Now, I know you'll be wondering what a guy is doing on here but It was in one of the people I subscribe to, so I saw this on "What to Watch" second, so I thought, i'd come and say this, There are some guys like me, those guys would, if they like you..you'd like you for who you are, not just one bit, so specifics are not needed, that being said the related saying is "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts", one specific area that may need improvement might not matter because some guys, do not care about one or two little things that maybe worried about because those little things are what would make you the person that you are...and being the person you are, and if the guy is with you or likes you because of who you are, then I am sure that would be most important.
I have a crush on this guy...but I haven't talked to him at all. I've only seen & kinda heard him cuz he's friends with some of my friends.. Thanks for tip #1!!! I know that I gotta just believe in myself but I just have very low confidence & low self-esteem & it was nice to hear it from you.. I really needed to hear that so thanks!!
//Just a moment with my crush// Okay so my crush at school said these really crude things and this other boy in my class asked his older sister what they meant and they were so horrid she told his mother and she came to talk to my crush. At the end of school my crush started looking really pained but I had no idea what happened but then he started crying(so hard) and I'd never been more heart broken in my entire life :( The boy I thought was a badass, the boy who was witty and funny and so kind was now crying because of some stupid sexual things he said. At that moment I really wanted to stuff a knife up the boy who'd told his sister's ass, my crush had done NOTHING wrong but to express himself, sexual or not. So I started walking home when I heard footsteps behind me. I turned around and saw Harry(my crush) and his mother and younger sisters behind him. I started walking faster, not really wanting to talk to him. I was too shy and scared but he sped up quickly and started walking beside me, I thought he'd be a total jerk to me since he was upset but he wasn't, he remained a gentlemen like always. "Hey Harry, you ok?" Stupid question to ask, I thought to myself. "Hey Esi and yeah I'm fine." He said quietly. "All the boys in class talk about this stuff, I don't know why YOU'RE getting shouted at." He stays silent and as he nears his (mother's) car he turns to me. "See you monday." "Okay see you aswell!" I shout back and keep walking forward but turn back to face him, seeing him leaning against his car door. "Oh and don't be sad, if no one wants to be your friend next week I'll be there." I say making him smirk slightly and as I strolled away I swear i felt his eyes on me....
In middle school no one liked me, literally. Then now that I'm a freshmen all the guys are after me but I'm kinda happy no one liked me cuz now I can see its just for looks and I want someone who loves my personality.
Ok so once I was playing would you rather with a girl and 3 boys and one of the boys (one of the POPULAR CUTE) said would you rather go out with Ellie ( Me) or Sidni (a really popular girl) and one of the boys said Sidni and the two popular cute boys said Ellie I was like XoX I was dead I was happy the rest of the day x3
Haha I doubt that I was socially awkward in elementary school and was bullied even by my "friends" luckily I moved in middle school and got to start over though
i had a crush on this guy in middle school, not a big crush but a "wow he's cute looking guy" nothing serious i wasn't planning to go force him to go out & be my g/f that would be embarassing, but there during this semester he was in my art class and it kinda made me get 2 know him a little bit & i'm glad i didn't go tell him i had this tiny crush he seemed like hot shot immature jerk & there was this other time when his class came to my class and he was sitting near me & at some point during class he asked if i was pregnant & i made sure i heard right and he repeated again & i have a curvy type body so he was being a smartass & making fun of my body, so i'm really glad i didn't go too googly eye over him.
I told my crush I liked him.. I sent him a pic if anime couple and I said " I hope this will be us ". He replied saying " I don't really have a crush, but I hope that'll be us someday.". What do I do?
I think u should u... Well he said that he doesn't like u but he going to like u (I'm translating what this guy is saying). I say just get to know him then ask him out. It's obvious that he's kinda into u and if u keep on being yourself then he'll finally like u. I know its a hard situation but I've been in this position before, like a girl liked me and then I said that I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now but she's cute so later on she kept on getting more attractive and suddenly I liked her (it's kinda the same story). So what u should do is not give up on him because he already gave u a hint telling u that you guys are half way till being a couple. Hope this helps!!!
Marilou Licuan Ohh... I am sorry to say but, he doesn't like you. I should advice you to hold yourself even if you are crazy about him. If you show him how much you like him he may show off to you...
So i like this guy and he's in my guitar class. For some reason, idk why, but every time i see him i smile for no reason and get so nervous. He knows so much about guitar that i think its kinda cute. I hate to say this but i had a deam that we actually hung out and talked. I dont know his name and i only have one class with him. I really need help. I embarrass myself around him like making muffled screams. My friends even know how bad i like him. So i really dont know what to do or say to him. :c
Personally: I like a guy. He's funny, he has a great heart, he plays the guitar (romantic), and is attractive. He is a little shy and he knows I like him, but we are still just friends. I flirt with him a lot and he flirts back. We tend to make neg comments to each other (complements & insults in one comment). When we are on stage playing our guitars together I tend to stare at him without thinking. What I like personally about this guy is he doesn't care about if i'm over weight, if I have acne, or if my hair is kinda messy. I talked to him the other day saying that I felt like I couldn't do anything right only screw up. He told me he can't imagine anything bad about me. He only sees the good. And trust me that feels amazing that he cares.
I don't even know why I'm still here as a heterosexual guy, but I feel you, too. It happens to both genders, which tells me that everyone is nervous around their crush. It's just a matter of us finding someone who won't judge us for it. But yeah, this girl I liked at school got asked to an event by this guy before I could ask her. She said yes to him and they started dating too. Then, something happened and he started being rude to her... Very, very rude. Then she comes to me. But it's tough because I'm never anyone's 1st choice
ugh I hate when that happened I had a crush in this guy and I thought he liked me but he like my friend and then I had and like guess what .....................he liked my other bff I am like ugh I am done.I still hope to have a crush that likes me 😁😁😓😒😒
So there's a guy who's funny and we always joke around together, but I don't get mot see or talk to him after school or anything. But then there is another guy who used to like me and always sticks up for me. And I do t wanna break both their hearts. I mean I used to like the funny guy, but I'm having second thoughts. My friend found out he may not ask me cause he's go scared. But the other guy is.......I don't know. I can be myself around both of them. I have more in common with the guy I chat with In messages (btw I have seen him, I go to school with him so yea😉) I'm just torned between both of them. Idk
it sounds like they're both good friends and potential bf. so you really have to figure out who is for you the most. sometimes its not only who is easiest to talk to, but also the one that makes you like who you are when you are around him.
well u can chat it out like confronting it. Even though it sounds really cheesy to me, it's good to say how ur feeling about problems like this. Or u can get a sibling or friend who's been through this before. Maybe just take everything slow and decide which one makes u shine like a flashlight. lol sorry for the bad sentence but I do mean it except for the flashlight part.
***** what.my crush alread know that i like him.i told him that i used to like him in fifth grade but i like him again and his freind told him.i wouldnt lie
I'm a 20 y.o girl but I've never been in a relationship. I think I'm quite pretty.. the only problem is that I'm an anti-social girl. I like doing things alone and I don't really have boy friends..mostly with my girls. There were when I'm with my girl friend and her friends, most of the time I stayed quiet and awkward. I tried to be open but I just can't enter to their topics. I'm not a talkative person. Well..what can I do? I want to have a boyfriend so badly.
Anything I can ask I asked and I tried my best but there were still a few awkward and silent moments. I really feel comfortable when I'm just with myself even hang out. I had a lunch with just a guy before, since then I never do it again because it makes me want to escape whenever there's awkward moments. Even at university I don't walk with lots of people, I'll choose another path that only me and a few people. Don't know why.. whether I'm just shy or scare to meet people? I don't know whats the problem with me too but I can be really open and talkative when I'm with my closest friends.
are you a girl too? haha yes, I'm trying to getting new friends but as you know I'm not talkative and doesn't speak well. Even I try to be talkative it doesn't work for me after a few minutes later. It came out like I'm an outsider. However, if the person I met is so friendly and willing to talk to me more..we can really be good friends. Well, it depends on your friends personalities and behaviours. There are friends who you are close with and not. Friends who are close with me are all willing to tell me about themselves like families even their secrets and I did the same. Friends who are not close with, when they talk to you or I talk to them, there's still something inside they don't want to tell you about themselves and yourself too. They keep it. Its not that I'm having problem to make friends but most of them are girls. I don't have any close boy friends.
This is so perfect 💕 Thank you for this video, you're adorable and you give super great advice! I was just working at a summer camp and you said so many things that just clicked and made sense now that I look back on some of the guys I liked at the camp. They were good looking and I thought they would be "Prince Charming" like you said but once I got to know them they were not good guys. They were arrogant and rude and super immature. >.< So thank you for this it was so cute and perfect!
I like a girl with a face! and bones! (what!?) and maybe even something crazy like skin! And when I have super duper high expectations....blood vessels.....that circulate (you guessed it) blood!!!
I go to an all girls school and all the guy friends I do have are gay or defiantly not interested. You can only really meet guys at dances but the guys there are kinda sexist and objectify you and just kind of grab you (it's not a nice environment and I don't love loud party type settings to begin with) Does anyone who goes to, or went to an all girls school have any tips for finding a NICE guy?
I go to an all girls school too and my advice is to join a club outside of school that your interested in or go out more to places you like, you'll make lots of new friends and you might find someone though don't be disappointed since it takes time too. I hope this helps you ^^
+Pam Hart I used to go to all girls school too and I totally agree with you .... ! Going somewhere you like is a great way of meeting people who are more or less like you! ^~^
Join mixed clubs. I'm in exactly the same situation as you but I've found a nice guy the only problem is being from a girls school I'm too shy to talk to him
A question to all you girls please seriously lol. Is it wrong if I get mad at my girlfriend if she tells me how hot she thinks other kids in my school are or in bands but mainly in school. Like she would tell me how "sal" is hot and I get pretty upset and angry but I don't do any of that stuff to her like I don't tell her how hot other girls are and we are both 18 so I'd hope she be mature about it.
It is so not wrong! If she is your girlfriend, and says other guys are hot in FRONT OF YOU, maybe she doesn't take the relationship seriously? Coming from a girl, this is my perspective. This is not an expert opinion x_x
It's not wrong. If she always says that, maybe try to make her see how beautiful she is, without making it cliche. Then maybe she'll stop. If she doesn't, point out the bad things in those people ( WITHOUT them coming to your door the next morning with pitch-forks) to make her feel better. If THAT doesn't work, just hold your cool until she stops. HOPEFULLY it's a phase.
you need to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel because relationships are all about communication! Maybe point out a random girl and say shes hot in front of her and if she reacts badly tell her thats how you feel when she does it to you, and if she reacts just fine then you might have a good relationship on your hands because some couples are close enough to where they can say someone is cute and the other person would agree. plus if she wanted to be with someone else then she wouldnt be dating YOU, right? but i think you should talk to her and she may have a good explanation about it, you should never be afraid to tell your girlfriend how you feel and she might appreciate your honesty also. :) good luck!
Over the years, I've gaine confidence in talking to my crush, making him like me for who I am, my personality and making sure he's comfortable with me acting crazy sometimes before I eventually get there. Over the past years or so, I used to be so shy and but outgoing but like I couldn't talk to my crush or even get near him. I've changed
Umm, ok I like this guy in my class but I think he likes this other girl because he teases her and we don't really talked much but I haven't liked him for a long time I like him because he is funny cute and kind but I'm shy when it comes to guys l like but when it comes to my guy friends I feel more comfortable. Can anyone give me some advice?
then try to get to know him, it will help with your relashionship, once you trust him enough tell him how you feel. that is what i did now i am dating the guy! hope this helps! :)) stay strong.
My crush is a grade older then me.. so I don't have any classes with him or anything. Does anyone know how to grab his attention or start up a conversation? I don't really know him well, and neither does he know me well :/
I like a guy who's always reliable to his girlfriend and someone we can trust, but also someone who's not afraid to tell their girlfriend their problems they're having. They should open up to us when they're really struggling.
Thank you so much the video really helped me cause before I thought I was that one ugly girl but you helped me to belive that im not ugly everone is beautiful I am in middle school and I have a boyfriend and he treats me perfect and I love him a lot
My ideal type of guy is usually very smart and nerdy, he should be really nice and could always be there for me when I need him, and most importantly he has to be able to have that sort of aura that just lifts my spirits whenever I'm feeling down
mg you are so pretty AND nice. I wish I had better self confidence like you. Thanks, the video really kinda helped me :D i'm not just saying that. I finally asked him and he said yesss!!!!
I thought I prefered the tall, brown haired guys when I was in middle school. Muscular, humble and kind. But when I met my fiance, he was very humble and very very kind, but the same height as me with blond hair and blue eyes. He was not particularly athletic but from day one he captured my heart with his personality. Now his appearance completely enchants me. I personally believe that beauty lies within, for when he opens his mouth to speak, or squints his eyes as he laughs, I honestly see the most dashing and handsome man in the entire world. I am so lucky I could find him.
My guy treats me very nicely and does even more than you said! Eeek! He brings out the real me, im outgoing around him, and he accepts me fro who I am! He's a great guy! Repost this in quotes if this is true about you and your special guy. Or continue the conversation.
Where did you get that sweater? It's so cute! Also, I love how you took such a straightforward topic and made it into something that can teach us so much more than how to pick up guys. Really cool vid:)
I love you, Bubz! I'm rewatching your old videos :) It reminds of all the times your videos have helped me in the past to get through emotional phases!! AHHH
ok bubz, firstly your hair is gorgeous, how did you style it? aand second...i love how you mentioned your ex in there a few times xD if he watched this he'd be all 'damn i missed out on this really beautiful girl!' xD
This guy in my class got moved next to me! I think he likes my friend :( but he is so cool and awesome but I get nervous around him. We share some food sometimes but he is kinda cool thx sooooo muchhhhh for this bubz!!
Lots of people (guys and some girls that think they are popular) say I'm short and I'm like: "What?! So what if I'm short! I like it! I'm short and strong and fast (not exactly true I'm kinda educational-nerdy) And I like who I am! At least I wont get hit by the ball that's coming this way since it around your height and I'm short! BEAT THAT!" Yes, as you can see, I like shouting (and so on...) and my family calls me tom-boy but I'm cool with that because in 2011 I found out that I liked acting like a boy (but I still like dresses etc.) I think what Bubz is trying to tell us is "Don't underestimate yourself" Because even today I didn't underestimate myself and right now boys that are like 2 years older then me are scared of me (Sometimes I feel sorry since they became friends with me)
"Everybody is trying to be different and it makes us all the same" (2:08)
That is EXACTLY what I've been trying to find the words to say. Thank you!!
You are so much like my best friend who moved back to her home country (let's just say that it's really far away from mine). I miss her deeply, and you're so much like her in appearance and personality, it's hard for me not to love you (and of course I wouldn't want that anyways)!!
I like it when guys aren't embarrassed to compliment you(:
Or when they start to blush.
I hate it when girls act stupid just to seem more attractive to guys
I like it when guys are kind and smile a lot and keep good eye contact when your talking. I dislike it when they don't smell nice, they stare at other girls all the time, and chew with their mouth open...
I like a guy with a cute smile who can make me laugh. He's also got to be good with kids and animals, and love his family.
I told my crush I like him, and he said it's cool. Before I told him, we talked and had inside jokes and stuff but now we never talk because it's awkward. He is hilarious and so cute and I wished he liked me back. I have acne and I'm not what you would call "popular".
It's ok it will get better you just have stop caring that he may not like and just be friends again 😄
Yeah I am not very popular :( NO ONE LINE ME :(
Imma tell ya straight up.........looks don't matter hunny!
LOL
Same but the guy I like likes my best friend and when I told him I liked him he just looked at me and walked off!! Now I've just basically given up and like everyone knows that I like him which makes me upset can anyone help me get him to like me back?!!!
I love your approach on this. Instead of telling us to act a certain way or dress a certain way, you tell us to love ourselves first :)
I had a crush on two guys. they were best friends. One of them I dreamed was like my Prince charming and the other wasn't as attractive [ on the outside]. I felt comfortable around Mason [ other guy] we laugh and talk all the time , but with Daniel [ Prince] I ge shy and nervous and act like a total fake around him. one of my friends said this was cause I liked him. After watching this I finally decided Mason.. We are a happy couple at high school and everything is right Thx
Ewwwwww!!! Gross!!
Gina Chuong How's that gross?
Ok... In my school there's a girl going out with someone called mason and there's also a Daniel in my school so r u Chloe bird?
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hope you two are still together and doing well
Im gonna be honest. I like nerdey guys that also like to play sports a guy that talks to me a guy that is taller than me and I like it when boys think they are funny I find that very attractive. I hate it when guys try to play a sport to impress you
So do i
Jessica L I know right
I agree with every thing in that sentence
Me love dem tall boys too
I love this video. STOP CRYING AND GET OVER YOURSELF Bubz is my spirit animal
I really listened closely to every word you said and at the end, when you said those sentences, just makes me wanna cry.. I admit i'm too over-emotional but... I feel so touched.. Lol!! Thank you for the advice!! I'll really heed your advice.. ^^
Where did you get your shirt???? Your grey shirt. It is super cute~ This is so useful!!! Thank you
To men in society: We wear makeup be cause WE like it. Makeup is for us. Not for you. Thank you. :)
I just realized I have been following Bubz for four years already. This is amazing. I literally know her longer than my current best friend haha. I remember how Bubz used to film videos back in Northern Ireland. Wow, she has grown so much. It's so nice to watch someone grow. Even if it's one sided haha. Bubz, I love you a lot. One day, I'm gonna meet you and give you a hug for being so awesome. (Not being creepy here...)
The one thing that turns a girl off is when a guy isn't listening to everything you are saying. It's as if he has rated the level of importance that your topic is to zero. That hurts. And it's sad when a guy says you are sensitive when you mention you would like to be heard. Because, when you are in a relationship, you both should be able to be heard. Another thing is you should never be rating how important the topic of conversation is.
What I like in a guy is when he actually tries to be your true friend, wants to make you happy all the time and such, even if they may not be the best looking. I had a bf who was more on the heavy side but to make up for it was his humor, caring, kindness and always thought about others and wanted to make everything right. So it really isn't what's on the outside all the time (even though he was still cute), it truly diehard on the inside that makes a man beautiful.
Lol I meant to say it's truly what's on the inside, stupid auto correct.
DaShawn Brandt u have awesome advice for all kindz of girls :3
Thuc Nguyen thanks, no one ever sya anything about my posts.
ur welcome, and no one says anything to me so I feel ur pain gurl. Plus keep on saying inspiration stuff, someone else will respond to ur stuff. :3 plus I have a habit of doing a kitty faces :3
I need to tell someone this...
So I have a huge crush on this guy and it's been 3 years since I liked him but I never told him.. I don't talk to him s lot
So my friend doesn't know I like him but she told the whole school she liked him and now he knows and he smiles at her and talks to Her a lot does that mean he liked hers or something because he used to like me in 3rd grade and he used to open the door for me at school and know he doesn't dos that mean he doesn't like me or is he trying to play hard and make me jealous? And btw him and I known each other more than my friend knows him!
I started watching this video and literally I said," You go girl!" When you talked about girls getting over what others think and just being ourselves. Also, I'm glad you love Tim so much, it's so sweet to listen to how you talk about him and don't let anyone else change the love you have!!!! 😍💑
I like the quiet girls ;)
Well...hey there*blinks* lol
Awwww CRY!!! Missed ya! xD
Well then you wouldn't like me
Summer Jolly good luck ;-)
I have a crush but I'm too shy to say who I crush on
i like a guy but everyone says he's ugly and other negative stuff and what do i see in him and so..........it just makes me feel like i'm stupid and keep falling for the unattractive one but i like him alot................:(
If his ugly with a perfect personality (I don't mean perfect perfect, by perfect I mean if you like his personality) then his good enough. Like what bubz said, would you rather drink from a pretty cup that's got something that would make you sick or a cracked cup that's got heaven? Who cares about what other people think? Do what you want to do :)
When I told people who I liked, they always made fun of me for liking him and nobody else liked him. I just decided to ask him out and that same boy became my very first boyfriend. Then apparently other girls fell for him too... while I was dating him.
Follow you own GODDAMN HEART. Sorry to be aggressive but it's your choice who you like. Hold his hand and walk down the hall with confidence and let people stare and be jealous. (learned the hard way)
Hannah Adams i love u so much thxxxx i will..................
No you like whoever you want. Hahaha just go for him it's nobody else's business it shouldn't concern them (: you know that it's a known fact that the person you like is a hundred times more attractive in your eyes? I used to like this guy a lot and now that were way over and he turned out horrible, when I got over him I didn't see anything good about him. It's because you like him so much that you think he's attractive haha don't worry go for who you want (: it's nobody's choice but yours (:
THIS HELPED ME ALOT. I'm usually lost with I'm trying to find out what I need to do to be confident and what not. This is perfect. THANK YOU
I like her accent is soo cute :3
I'm a guy that watched this just to make sure I'm not too obvious
Alex Lloyd lol
As a guy( age 20), ive noticed i tend to look at girls with better posture. I dont mean to do it, but it just so happens that a girl standing tall means they are confident!!
So ive done the same things, ive just improved my walking posture and more girls as well find more attractive because of it.
STAND TALL AND DONT BE AFRAID TO START A CONVERSATION!
I told my crush.. later he started to like my best friend..
I have a crush and i doubt he likes me. Is it the same for other people too? Like where you see a guy you like but you know truly in your heart he doesn't even notice your there. 😓
Me
I feel you
yes....
Yes I like this guy in my school and my Chinese class and it seems that he doesn't even notice me
R u kidding right now?! OF COURSE UR NOT THE ONLY ONE! A TON OF PEOPLE FEEL THIS WAY, ASK ALMOST ANYONE AND THEY WILL SAY THEY FEEL LIKE THAT!
I think the most attractive thing in a guy is a clean sense of humor
Now, I know you'll be wondering what a guy is doing on here but It was in one of the people I subscribe to, so I saw this on "What to Watch" second, so I thought, i'd come and say this, There are some guys like me, those guys would, if they like you..you'd like you for who you are, not just one bit, so specifics are not needed, that being said the related saying is "The whole is greater than the sum of its parts", one specific area that may need improvement might not matter because some guys, do not care about one or two little things that maybe worried about because those little things are what would make you the person that you are...and being the person you are, and if the guy is with you or likes you because of who you are, then I am sure that would be most important.
thats so nice.
Awwww that is so cute!!!!!
I have a crush on this guy...but I haven't talked to him at all. I've only seen & kinda heard him cuz he's friends with some of my friends..
Thanks for tip #1!!! I know that I gotta just believe in myself but I just have very low confidence & low self-esteem & it was nice to hear it from you.. I really needed to hear that so thanks!!
I don't like it wen guys sag there pants, I find it extremely unattractive and makes them look like there bad or someone u don't want to be around
True, true😂
Sometimes they sag so much I just wanna throw coins down their pants or something geez
I looove that shirt!
//Just a moment with my crush//
Okay so my crush at school said these really crude things and this other boy in my class asked his older sister what they meant and they were so horrid she told his mother and she came to talk to my crush. At the end of school my crush started looking really pained but I had no idea what happened but then he started crying(so hard) and I'd never been more heart broken in my entire life :(
The boy I thought was a badass, the boy who was witty and funny and so kind was now crying because of some stupid sexual things he said. At that moment I really wanted to stuff a knife up the boy who'd told his sister's ass, my crush had done NOTHING wrong but to express himself, sexual or not.
So I started walking home when I heard footsteps behind me. I turned around and saw Harry(my crush) and his mother and younger sisters behind him. I started walking faster, not really wanting to talk to him. I was too shy and scared but he sped up quickly and started walking beside me, I thought he'd be a total jerk to me since he was upset but he wasn't, he remained a gentlemen like always.
"Hey Harry, you ok?" Stupid question to ask, I thought to myself.
"Hey Esi and yeah I'm fine." He said quietly.
"All the boys in class talk about this stuff, I don't know why YOU'RE getting shouted at."
He stays silent and as he nears his (mother's) car he turns to me. "See you monday."
"Okay see you aswell!" I shout back and keep walking forward but turn back to face him, seeing him leaning against his car door. "Oh and don't be sad, if no one wants to be your friend next week I'll be there." I say making him smirk slightly and as I strolled away I swear i felt his eyes on me....
And??? I'm on the edge of my seat!!
Sarah Grubstad hahahaha! :)
Lol
Omg this is like the perfect story I wish my crush was like that
DUDE! You have to tell us what happens next! I'm seriously going to cry XD
Thank you so much bubz! A guy thats cocky is a mahoosive turn off for me no matter how attractive he is lol
In middle school no one liked me, literally. Then now that I'm a freshmen all the guys are after me but I'm kinda happy no one liked me cuz now I can see its just for looks and I want someone who loves my personality.
Aww.. You'll find the perfect guy one day.. No hurry :) live life :)
Like her sweater and hairstyle :D
Idk why I started randomly laughing when she said there was piss in the cup 😂😂😂😂😂
I really like a guy when he isn't embarrassed by you and isn't afraid to show u off to his friends
Ok so once I was playing would you rather with a girl and 3 boys and one of the boys (one of the POPULAR CUTE) said would you rather go out with Ellie ( Me) or Sidni (a really popular girl) and one of the boys said Sidni and the two popular cute boys said Ellie I was like
XoX I was dead
I was happy the rest of the day x3
+Hasantha Fonseka really?
this should be in wattpad!
this should be in wattpad!
And also I think that any girls who get bullied or has stuff spread about them u need 2 know that they r just jealous u r all buetiful in yr own way!
No problem
just_me same
Haha I doubt that I was socially awkward in elementary school and was bullied even by my "friends" luckily I moved in middle school and got to start over though
In my opinion, guys who play instruments are more attractive than guys who play sports. :)
This really helped my crush asked me out yesterday!
i had a crush on this guy in middle school, not a big crush but a "wow he's cute looking guy" nothing serious i wasn't planning to go force him to go out & be my g/f that would be embarassing, but there during this semester he was in my art class and it kinda made me get 2 know him a little bit & i'm glad i didn't go tell him i had this tiny crush he seemed like hot shot immature jerk & there was this other time when his class came to my class and he was sitting near me & at some point during class he asked if i was pregnant & i made sure i heard right and he repeated again & i have a curvy type body so he was being a smartass & making fun of my body, so i'm really glad i didn't go too googly eye over him.
Basically it's all about the personality and not the looks
I told my crush I liked him.. I sent him a pic if anime couple and I said " I hope this will be us ". He replied saying " I don't really have a crush, but I hope that'll be us someday.". What do I do?
Maybe you can work towards being a better friend? Since he already wants to be with you, now all you have to do is find the spark!
Omg!!!!! Lucky you!!!
I think u should u... Well he said that he doesn't like u but he going to like u (I'm translating what this guy is saying). I say just get to know him then ask him out. It's obvious that he's kinda into u and if u keep on being yourself then he'll finally like u. I know its a hard situation but I've been in this position before, like a girl liked me and then I said that I'm not looking for a girlfriend right now but she's cute so later on she kept on getting more attractive and suddenly I liked her (it's kinda the same story). So what u should do is not give up on him because he already gave u a hint telling u that you guys are half way till being a couple.
Hope this helps!!!
Ask him out because he wants it to be you like he said maybe he is just too shy so i think you should make the first move
Marilou Licuan Ohh... I am sorry to say but, he doesn't like you. I should advice you to hold yourself even if you are crazy about him. If you show him how much you like him he may show off to you...
So i like this guy and he's in my guitar class. For some reason, idk why, but every time i see him i smile for no reason and get so nervous. He knows so much about guitar that i think its kinda cute. I hate to say this but i had a deam that we actually hung out and talked. I dont know his name and i only have one class with him. I really need help. I embarrass myself around him like making muffled screams. My friends even know how bad i like him. So i really dont know what to do or say to him. :c
Personally: I like a guy. He's funny, he has a great heart, he plays the guitar (romantic), and is attractive. He is a little shy and he knows I like him, but we are still just friends. I flirt with him a lot and he flirts back. We tend to make neg comments to each other (complements & insults in one comment). When we are on stage playing our guitars together I tend to stare at him without thinking. What I like personally about this guy is he doesn't care about if i'm over weight, if I have acne, or if my hair is kinda messy. I talked to him the other day saying that I felt like I couldn't do anything right only screw up. He told me he can't imagine anything bad about me. He only sees the good. And trust me that feels amazing that he cares.
I have a crush on this guy. He is really nice and funny! But he likes my best friend...........😔
YOOO that happens so much to me!! This guy IK that I use to like dated 2 of my best friends plus a girl who had the same name as me 😒
I feel u
It totally sucks
I don't even know why I'm still here as a heterosexual guy, but I feel you, too. It happens to both genders, which tells me that everyone is nervous around their crush. It's just a matter of us finding someone who won't judge us for it. But yeah, this girl I liked at school got asked to an event by this guy before I could ask her. She said yes to him and they started dating too. Then, something happened and he started being rude to her... Very, very rude. Then she comes to me. But it's tough because I'm never anyone's 1st choice
ugh I hate when that happened I had a crush in this guy and I thought he liked me but he like my friend and then I had and like guess what .....................he liked my other bff I am like ugh I am done.I still hope to have a crush that likes me 😁😁😓😒😒
So there's a guy who's funny and we always joke around together, but I don't get mot see or talk to him after school or anything. But then there is another guy who used to like me and always sticks up for me. And I do t wanna break both their hearts. I mean I used to like the funny guy, but I'm having second thoughts. My friend found out he may not ask me cause he's go scared. But the other guy is.......I don't know. I can be myself around both of them. I have more in common with the guy I chat with In messages (btw I have seen him, I go to school with him so yea😉) I'm just torned between both of them. Idk
it sounds like they're both good friends and potential bf. so you really have to figure out who is for you the most. sometimes its not only who is easiest to talk to, but also the one that makes you like who you are when you are around him.
that sounds like every korean drama
well u can chat it out like confronting it. Even though it sounds really cheesy to me, it's good to say how ur feeling about problems like this. Or u can get a sibling or friend who's been through this before. Maybe just take everything slow and decide which one makes u shine like a flashlight. lol sorry for the bad sentence but I do mean it except for the flashlight part.
Thanks for the help :)
i hate it when guys dont wash their hair and i dont like guys that smells bad.
I know right?
girl you got me out of the friendzone your tips really helped
2012 sucked, the world didn't end.
i am afraid to tell my crush because he might tell everyone
I feel the same about my crush
***** what.my crush alread know that i like him.i told him that i used to like him in fifth grade but i like him again and his freind told him.i wouldnt lie
ikr
I'm a 20 y.o girl but I've never been in a relationship. I think I'm quite pretty.. the only problem is that I'm an anti-social girl. I like doing things alone and I don't really have boy friends..mostly with my girls. There were when I'm with my girl friend and her friends, most of the time I stayed quiet and awkward. I tried to be open but I just can't enter to their topics. I'm not a talkative person. Well..what can I do? I want to have a boyfriend so badly.
Time to step out of your comfort zone. :) hihi i like to talk to you more about this girl
sure :)
Anything I can ask I asked and I tried my best but there were still a few awkward and silent moments. I really feel comfortable when I'm just with myself even hang out. I had a lunch with just a guy before, since then I never do it again because it makes me want to escape whenever there's awkward moments. Even at university I don't walk with lots of people, I'll choose another path that only me and a few people. Don't know why.. whether I'm just shy or scare to meet people? I don't know whats the problem with me too but I can be really open and talkative when I'm with my closest friends.
are you a girl too? haha yes, I'm trying to getting new friends but as you know I'm not talkative and doesn't speak well. Even I try to be talkative it doesn't work for me after a few minutes later. It came out like I'm an outsider. However, if the person I met is so friendly and willing to talk to me more..we can really be good friends. Well, it depends on your friends personalities and behaviours. There are friends who you are close with and not. Friends who are close with me are all willing to tell me about themselves like families even their secrets and I did the same. Friends who are not close with, when they talk to you or I talk to them, there's still something inside they don't want to tell you about themselves and yourself too. They keep it. Its not that I'm having problem to make friends but most of them are girls. I don't have any close boy friends.
This is so perfect 💕 Thank you for this video, you're adorable and you give super great advice! I was just working at a summer camp and you said so many things that just clicked and made sense now that I look back on some of the guys I liked at the camp. They were good looking and I thought they would be "Prince Charming" like you said but once I got to know them they were not good guys. They were arrogant and rude and super immature. >.< So thank you for this it was so cute and perfect!
I like a girl with a face! and bones! (what!?) and maybe even something crazy like skin! And when I have super duper high expectations....blood vessels.....that circulate (you guessed it) blood!!!
i am a girl
do you have a face
I go to an all girls school and all the guy friends I do have are gay or defiantly not interested. You can only really meet guys at dances but the guys there are kinda sexist and objectify you and just kind of grab you (it's not a nice environment and I don't love loud party type settings to begin with)
Does anyone who goes to, or went to an all girls school have any tips for finding a NICE guy?
I go to an all girls school too and my advice is to join a club outside of school that your interested in or go out more to places you like, you'll make lots of new friends and you might find someone though don't be disappointed since it takes time too. I hope this helps you ^^
+Pam Hart I used to go to all girls school too and I totally agree with you .... ! Going somewhere you like is a great way of meeting people who are more or less like you! ^~^
Join mixed clubs. I'm in exactly the same situation as you but I've found a nice guy the only problem is being from a girls school I'm too shy to talk to him
Ray Girl If you guys stay together for sometime that phase will pass as you will become comfortable with him... All the best... ;)
I go to an ll girls school try to find I nice guy by were u live or get in touch with a guy from primary school or wait till college
A question to all you girls please seriously lol. Is it wrong if I get mad at my girlfriend if she tells me how hot she thinks other kids in my school are or in bands but mainly in school. Like she would tell me how "sal" is hot and I get pretty upset and angry but I don't do any of that stuff to her like I don't tell her how hot other girls are and we are both 18 so I'd hope she be mature about it.
It is so not wrong! If she is your girlfriend, and says other guys are hot in FRONT OF YOU, maybe she doesn't take the relationship seriously? Coming from a girl, this is my perspective. This is not an expert opinion x_x
It's not wrong. If she always says that, maybe try to make her see how beautiful she is, without making it cliche. Then maybe she'll stop. If she doesn't, point out the bad things in those people ( WITHOUT them coming to your door the next morning with pitch-forks) to make her feel better. If THAT doesn't work, just hold your cool until she stops. HOPEFULLY it's a phase.
Thanks you guys! Lol
you need to talk to her about it and tell her how you feel because relationships are all about communication! Maybe point out a random girl and say shes hot in front of her and if she reacts badly tell her thats how you feel when she does it to you, and if she reacts just fine then you might have a good relationship on your hands because some couples are close enough to where they can say someone is cute and the other person would agree. plus if she wanted to be with someone else then she wouldnt be dating YOU, right? but i think you should talk to her and she may have a good explanation about it, you should never be afraid to tell your girlfriend how you feel and she might appreciate your honesty also. :) good luck!
Thank you ^_^
Over the years, I've gaine confidence in talking to my crush, making him like me for who I am, my personality and making sure he's comfortable with me acting crazy sometimes before I eventually get there. Over the past years or so, I used to be so shy and but outgoing but like I couldn't talk to my crush or even get near him. I've changed
Your neighbors must hate you.
She is nice her neighbors porbly love her
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+ ItFlewAway are u talking to me?
Umm, ok I like this guy in my class but I think he likes this other girl because he teases her and we don't really talked much but I haven't liked him for a long time I like him because he is funny cute and kind but I'm shy when it comes to guys l like but when it comes to my guy friends I feel more comfortable. Can anyone give me some advice?
Ya u have the same kind of thing but I am pretty good friends with him. Just try to get better friends with him. Does he know?
He doesn't know I like him
then try to get to know him, it will help with your relashionship, once you trust him enough tell him how you feel. that is what i did now i am dating the guy! hope this helps! :)) stay strong.
Ok thanks but I got to wait until winter break is over
xD ya, tell me how it goes.
My crush is a grade older then me.. so I don't have any classes with him or anything. Does anyone know how to grab his attention or start up a conversation? I don't really know him well, and neither does he know me well :/
same here
hey me too!
+Sincerely Vicky u go girl :D
the only way i know is to creep on him
My favorite type of guy: Funny, likes food, silent but ish cute and smexy, smart, and may seem tough but is a sweet heart
Cute voice
how the fuck did i get here...........
u clicked on it
Brocolli Kawaii by accident
Gabby Nicolas see....u do know ;D
Brocolli Kawaii lol
Ok tell me if im cute in my profile. Pic
sure you have the same name as me also.
Lol thx
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bella svensson hahahah jk
***** agreed
Such a wise head on a young body. I am a 52 year old woman and I find your advice so useful! Well done.
Wahhh.. This just hit me straight to the heart! :P
I like a guy who's always reliable to his girlfriend and someone we can trust, but also someone who's not afraid to tell their girlfriend their problems they're having. They should open up to us when they're really struggling.
AHHH i love how she talks about the boyfriend tag video when they're married now
Why so many dislikes?! This video is amazing and it has rlly good tips
You used the Heartstrings background music! The cheerful one!
Thank you so much the video really helped me cause before I thought I was that one ugly girl but you helped me to belive that im not ugly everone is beautiful I am in middle school and I have a boyfriend and he treats me perfect and I love him a lot
My ideal type of guy is usually very smart and nerdy, he should be really nice and could always be there for me when I need him, and most importantly he has to be able to have that sort of aura that just lifts my spirits whenever I'm feeling down
i like that have a great sense of humor and who actually listen to my ideas, hopes, and perspectives.
Aw can i hug u right now..i share lots of ur beliefs..ur amazing and i lovedmthe video💕
mg you are so pretty AND nice. I wish I had better self confidence like you. Thanks, the video really kinda helped me :D i'm not just saying that. I finally asked him and he said yesss!!!!
I thought I prefered the tall, brown haired guys when I was in middle school. Muscular, humble and kind. But when I met my fiance, he was very humble and very very kind, but the same height as me with blond hair and blue eyes. He was not particularly athletic but from day one he captured my heart with his personality. Now his appearance completely enchants me. I personally believe that beauty lies within, for when he opens his mouth to speak, or squints his eyes as he laughs, I honestly see the most dashing and handsome man in the entire world. I am so lucky I could find him.
I love the background music!!! ^^ it puts u in a happy mood:) is there a link to the music?
My guy treats me very nicely and does even more than you said! Eeek! He brings out the real me, im outgoing around him, and he accepts me fro who I am! He's a great guy! Repost this in quotes if this is true about you and your special guy. Or continue the conversation.
That was very interesting and informative! Extremely well thought out and put together. Thanks so much, i really learned alot from your videos.
Where did you get that sweater? It's so cute!
Also, I love how you took such a straightforward topic and made it into something that can teach us so much more than how to pick up guys. Really cool vid:)
Great video girl!!!
Just think of it in just two years from then she would be pregnant wow I can't believe how quick bubz has grown up!
That was such a positive Video! It made me feel so Good inside? Thanks bubz :)
I love your shirt! :)
I saw a lot of these types of videos but I though all of them were stupid but u really opened up my eyes
omg i LOVE your hair!
I WANTZ SOME DEELISHIOUS GOODNEZZ, GIRL! lol Very good advice also.
The cup topic was Perfect for a life lesson.💕
I love you, Bubz! I'm rewatching your old videos :) It reminds of all the times your videos have helped me in the past to get through emotional phases!! AHHH
This video is inspiring! Hi ummamah ( my friend who's now watching this video lol )
this is soo true!! loved your anology ;)
Your cup metaphor is brilliant.
ok bubz, firstly your hair is gorgeous, how did you style it?
aand second...i love how you mentioned your ex in there a few times xD if he watched this he'd be all 'damn i missed out on this really beautiful girl!' xD
U need to have ur own talk show
I LOVE WHAT YOU'RE WEARING. CAN YOU PLEASE SHARE WHERE YOU GOT IT????
You give out great advice bubz
This guy in my class got moved next to me! I think he likes my friend :( but he is so cool and awesome but I get nervous around him. We share some food sometimes but he is kinda cool thx sooooo muchhhhh for this bubz!!
I think it is really good advice bubz I have watched lots of your vids oh yeah domo and chubbi were really cute as puppy's
Treat them mean keep them keen is so true.
everyone is trying to be different and that makes us all the same - so true
Lots of people (guys and some girls that think they are popular) say I'm short and I'm like:
"What?! So what if I'm short! I like it! I'm short and strong and fast (not exactly true I'm kinda educational-nerdy) And I like who I am! At least I wont get hit by the ball that's coming this way since it around your height and I'm short! BEAT THAT!"
Yes, as you can see, I like shouting (and so on...) and my family calls me tom-boy but I'm cool with that because in 2011 I found out that I liked acting like a boy (but I still like dresses etc.) I think what Bubz is trying to tell us is "Don't underestimate yourself" Because even today I didn't underestimate myself and right now boys that are like 2 years older then me are scared of me (Sometimes I feel sorry since they became friends with me)