Kim Cargill : Trial By Fire
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- Опубликовано: 26 дек 2021
- Kim Cargill spent most of her life fighting viciously with her ex-husbands and the fathers of her children. When she became the focus of a contentious custody battle, she knew that her babysitter’s testimony would be detrimental to her case. She had to stop her from testifying.
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When children do not want to see their parents, the courts should freaking listen.
1000%
I'm not saying I completely disagree, but there can be mitigating circumstances in those cases. Parental manipulation should never be ruled out in cases like that.
You would be in court every other Tuesday if that was the case.
What about the spoiled, manipulative kids who put on an act cause they didn’t get their way? They shouldn’t just blindly believe all kids
It's seems so obvious. But here we are.
"The kid was terrified of his mother and begged not to go back to her house, but the court demanded it"
Brilliant. Amazing job. Outstanding.
What court would give her visitation is beyond belief and to think she was a nurse? Crazy ,sick bitch
Clippidy clap the system is crap. Honestly what's the point in having our tax go towards people when a robot could do the same job if ticking boxes is all the majority of civil service members can do.
How many red flags did they need to see to realise she was a complete phsycho?
The court system is very gender biased against men and favours women more even tho some women are ABUSIVE. Wtf. As a feminist, it pisses me tf off.
@@pussydestroyer69285 You're right, especially in this case where she had history of abuse and the kid even asked to go to his father.
Cherry was an angel, caring for Jacob when his own mother abused him. Rest in power, Big Sister. you are adored and you are treasured.
This one really pissed me off. I truly believe there should be consequences for judges that allow kids to go with abusive parents. Maybe then they would truly listen when a child states they're afraid to go with a parent. I don't understand how judges can make these types of "mistakes" and its shrugged off like nothing. A walmart employee can make a simple error and get reprimanded or fired but judges that allow monsters like this to get away with doing serious harm get to say oopsie and that's it. The system is in a serious need of change.
I totally agree with u i have never understood that in a normal job u can get fired for anything yet ppl such as judges, governement n general jobs in higher power they all seem to get away with anything and everything :/
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Absolutely!!!! It's also monstrous that the father cannot rescue -'kidnap'? - his own flesh & blood from a proven abuser. How many kids did she have, 4? And how long did it take for the Papas to get full custody? 5, 6, 7 years of suffering?
If these incompetent judges/CFS wkrs had revoked her parental rights in a timely manner, not only would the sons and fathers be spared so much unnecessary suffering and trauma, but she probably would've never known Cherry, who would still be alive 2day.
WHY CANT THE FATHERS SUE THE JUDGES FOR CIVIL/CRIMINAL DERELICTION OF DUTY AND FAILURE TO PROTECT CHILDREN?????
I agree. At the very least you should be able to sue them
@benjamin bessette Neither. Our separation from one another is illusion of the ego. They are equal, as we all are.
"He picked her up and threw her in the fire place"
I've never smiled so big in my life.
Gotta respect the restraint he showed there
Eff yeah.
!!😂🤣😅 Me too!
Exactly were that hag belongs.
Too light a punishment
So many people struggle with infertility and this monster can baby trap at will, it's freaking infuriating.
I know I'd do anything to give my 1 and only child a sibling. It almost happened but I miscarried and it really frustrates me when people have them like nothing and then abuse them... Or are crappy people. 😡
@@hannah3146 my sister and brother in law tried for a few years, but had no success. It's heartbreaking, she would have been a wonderful mother.
@@homersimpsonsfatguyhat9541 this is what hurts my heart. I'd gladly give my fertility to someone like her in a heartbeat because she would do more with it than I ever could. The people who deserve children the most are always the ones deprived
WHO is laying with these 🐗?! Ugh 🤮
@@melrye7350 It's so true. I wish someone could give me theirs! I'm a wonderful mom, but atleast I have a child I just wish I could give my daughter a sibling. Bless you
Poor Cherry. She sounds like a very nice person who was just trying to live her life.
How on Earth did this monster ever become a NURSE??? Are we sure she never “took care” of any patients that annoyed her or perhaps had the audacity to ask for an extra blanket?? It takes empathy, compassion, and endless amounts of patience to be a nurse, there is no way this woman could have comforted or cared for anyone.
I thought the same thing!
Very good point!!! I hope they took a look at that!!!
I am a nurse. Thank you for the sweet comments about nurses!!
Probably only cared about the money. Willing to bet she was the type of nurse that us in the pharmacy end up arguing with because they think they know how insurance billing works because they talked to a rep that one time lmao.
Because it takes around four years + job training to become a nurse, you only have to pass (not excel), and compassion is only necessary to be a GOOD nurse. Plenty of nurses are awful at their jobs, impatient, and not particularly clever.
Child custody laws need radical change. If a child is afraid of a parent, they should NOT be forced to be with that parent. Not to mention that the police didnt do anything about the child abuse.
Its because the abuser was a woman. If a man had done only a fraction of what she did he would be in prison.
@@illwill5116 He would absolutely not been able to have anything except supervised visitations that's absolutely for fucking sure
My sister had her grandchildrens custody
One had a crush on a girl at high school
He was rejected.
He wrote the girl a letter saying without her' he didnt want to live and would kill himself
The girls mother called the cops
My nephew thrown in spych center
There the other kids there told him he could claim abuse from his grand parents so he could go be with his dad.
My sister cried 3 hours telling me.
They had no clue what was going on
Last and only time'' since that last time seeing him. a cop was present when there was a meeting over him
They lost.his custody.
They got no money taking care of those kids' no food stamps
The kids were on my sisters Medicare insurance. And i think they got some medical help
Wasnt much
From free clinic .....
To this day that boy is in foster system.....
Being ahipped all over the state
Hes a lying theif..and always causes trouble so hes in one after another home
His father can visit
Supervised visits for his son'' some
My sister
Hasnt seen him since.....
They did nothing but bust their butts helping and giving love to him
Shes a good person to everyone
They will never be the same after this juvinile delinquent did them that way.!!!!!!
So its not always how you would think !!!!!
Why didnt his parents have those 4 kids?
Father is an alcoholic that really didnt want to raise them
Their mother
Of 3 was in prison for drugs
It's amazing that this "woman" was able to get away with all that crap and still be allowed to live freely. When a child makes it clear that they are afraid of their own mother, there must be an investigation started.
The courts are messed up. I do not understand how anybody could think it would be a good idea to give that thing sole custody.
Investigation seems unnecessary here (I know that's technically still how things have to start) they freaking have it black on white, she abuses her kid, and multiple instances of this with multiple kids! they already had everything! If only they were even half as quick to remove custody from her as they were for the fathers but no, just bcs she's the mom.
Would just be awful if they'd think about the kid's rights and wellbeing over the parents, perish the fucking thought 😡
nah you call the mother and get the kid an hour long fight when he gets home instead of getting him out.
Yeah you’d think like after the first violent incident with a child was reported she’d lose custody and contact rights for any of her kids
Well, society judges people based on how they look. So, she "looked" like America's assumed version of a good person, so why would they ever suspect her? She didn't "look" like a monster or (insert negative stereotype). And it works every time, whether it's a man or a woman. That's the danger of assuming based on looks.
As an LPN myself, I just don’t understand how Kim maintained her LPN (or LVN, as mentioned) licensure with her history of violence that the police and CPS (Child Protective Services or it’s equivalent) had well documented. I’ve known other nurses that have had their licenses revoked for much lesser incidents involving the law. Cherry was completely innocent in the whole matter and it breaks my heart that her life was ended so cruelly by such a horrible monster! Rest In Peace, Cherry!
I was wondering the same thing. How the hell did she keep her job?!
Damn near everything In America is hypocritical as fuck. Hospitals should also have incentive to oust people who are making life threatening mistakes on patients but it is well documented that Hospitals like to sweep shit under the rug so they cant be held liable. This whole country is a double standard
Because people with borderline are sneaky. My ex girlfriend was supposedly a borderline and she convinced everyone that I was the abusive one lol
@@oldaccount5217 It's people with any personality disorder. Narcissistic, Histrionic, Antisocial, Borderline etc, etc. Many of them have more than one as well.
The sneakiest or most manipulative thing about them is when they pretend that having a personality disorder is the same as a mental illness. It isn't. People with personality disorders know what they are doing and do it anyway, unlike mentally ill people.
I personally know several nurses and all of them are abusive towards children. In fact two abused me, one was my mother who would withhold my liquid salbutamol when I was sick, beat me, locked me outside in a garden in a foreign country whilst we were on holiday etc etc, one was a family member from my paternal side who used to starve me during the day whilst she babysat me and a third told my mother that I had showed her a bruise in my groin, I got during a beating during a medical examination causing me to get another beating when I got home, and then for years afterwards to have my mother go around telling the story with impunity to everyone and laughing about how I had tried to get help and failed.
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I’ve lived in Tyler since 1976. This was so sad. Cherri was a sweet kind person that didn’t deserve what happened.
Wow this lady is a piece of work. Some people just shouldn’t be allowed to have children.
💯million billion times agree
Absolutely, she’s just the worst isn’t she.
@TheMrCaptainStfu this
@TheMrCaptainStfu agree 💯 billion to infinity and beyond
I'm definitely with you, Amber.
I am also a nurse and it is absolutely terrifying that this evil monster was able to get accepted into a nursing program, complete the program, and then actually pass a background check and work as a nurse without anyone figuring out what a pos she is!
Are you serious? I work with a ton of questionable nurses. I guess there is crazies in every occupation
Might have something to do with the shortage of nurses.
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Do the questionables have a criminal record?
@@annabanana4699 I think it might be the admiration that comes with “I take care of people for a living” that attracts certain narcissists.
I just said the same thing. She had abuse charges. I know any applications I’ve ever filled out as a nurse asked do you have any charges related to abuse and etc.and none of this came up?!
Kim was literally a crazy Karen, and ended up killing a babysitter that took far better care of Jacob. Usually the worst type of criminal is always someone that is willing to do anything to act like the victim, and exploit legal loopholes in the justice system along the way.
Rest in peace, Cherry.
Would she be considered a Karen, though? I mean, I know what Karens are and that they can be dangerous... But does this woman and her evil acts even qualify for that title? She seems worse than a Karen, if that's even possible all things considered.
I can always tell a stupid person. They just lump sociopaths and evil people under the umbrella term “crazy”. You have a low IQ. Congrats!
"Who puts $5 of gas in their car". I feel attacked.... 😂😬
omg the system fails fathers and children so many times! Terrible!
Historically, the system failed mothers as well. I think somewhere in the 1950s or 60s, custody started being granted to the mother as fathers always got custody. The only problem is that courts fail to judge what's best for the child or they ignore the signs of abuse. In this case, I am surprised that the courts ever allowed this woman to have her children but that could also be due to the fact that this woman seems to know how to be charming and knows how to play the victim card real well. Which clearly worked in her favour until it didn't anymore, and that unfortunately caused a person to die.
The courts really dropped the ball and failed quite literally everyone involved. It’s hard to really comprehend how many times they enabled this monster to be, well… a monster.
Golden uterus powers activate
They literally always fail.
Unfortunately, you are correct. Sadly, the court system along with CPS has a history of never doing what is in the best interest of the child; like keeping them safe from abusive parents. May Sherrie's beautiful soul rest in peace.
Exactly! 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
She’s a white woman that’s y they didn’t see as a threat they think they all clam and soft but no
"who puts $5 worth of gas in their car?!"
*Anddddd I took that personally*
**ctfu** 😆🤣
I have had to live with the US's insanely, criminally inept child protective services through foster care for over a decade. For every one story like this there are like 50 more per state. We are absolutely failing the children of this country.
"And yet he knew, he was but screaming into the void"
What’s extra scary about this is that this sociopath was a fucking nurse. Can you imagine being attended to by someone who completely lacks empathy…. scares the shit outta me
Some narcissists and sociopaths seem to be attracted to the "caring" professions.
My mother treated me similarly to how she treated her children and is a nurse o.o Luckily my mother never murdered an innocent woman in cold blood...
Jane Toppan comes to mind.
it's extremely common in the field
I had the exact same thought!!! NURSE RATCHET LOL
Ugly on the outside, hideous on the inside! My heart goes out to Cherry and her family and the children she abused.
damn. That was brutal, but totally correct.
What boggles my mind is that Kim was finally caught because she killed another adult. All the abuse to those kids and nothing was done. What a shame. It took her murdering another human for someone to take notice, the bruises on her children weren’t enough.
You have just unlocked the reality of life
She may had been diagnosed with BPD, but there's something else going on with her! I have BPD and I could never hurt anyone physically. She's truly a horrible person.
I have BPD also and would turn my anger inward not outward. What irks me is that when a diagnosis is given, programs like this don't say whether the patient is under care, getting help. No help = no solutions. Someone who is not getting help acts like out of control lunatic like this woman.
This lady is a sociopath.
Ironically that poor child sounded like he was much better looked after and taken care of by his babysitter than his own mother. People around were concerned that a disabled adult couldn’t take care of a kid, yet that’s where he was probably the most safe.
The adults with disabilities I’ve worked with tended to be very caring and gentle when it came to kids.
That's exactly what I was thinking. They're often very nurturing and meticulously attentive to details. There was no legitimate reason to doubt her ability to care for that child. Especially considering who was taking care of him the rest of the time. I guarantee he was safer with her than he was with his mother.
I have worked with mentally challenged adults, too. Most of them are the kindest, most caring and gentle people you'll ever meet. They can make the wrong decisions with the best intentions, so I wouldn't let one of them take care of a young child for days at a time. I wouldn't let a child spend five minutes in a room with Kim, though, supervised or not. Cherry sounds like a really kind, sweet soul. May Kim suffer for all eternity for what she did to her! 👿
I think it depends on the adults with disabilities and what their disability is - however most I've known are so kind and caring. What a horrible mother.
I would agree yet a child could be brain washed into being afraid. I know I lived it.
Not true
poor cheri seemed like such a kind, caring woman. absolutely horrible crime.
God's gonna handle that broad Kim. Killing an innocent is beyond me and Cherry being at the mentality of a 5 yr old... done deal in my book. But then look at how that wretch treated kids.... and friends wth!?
@@crunchyyellowlion where was god when Cheri was being strangled and burned?
I know, an innocent sacrificed by evil. And sadly I was thankful she didn't kill any of her own children.
@@crunchyyellowlion it is astonishing she had friends.
@@jerkofalltrades5430 dude, your lane. stay in it.
I really appreciate your sarcastic remarks and overall tone. I've noticed somewhat of a trend among true crime youtubers, some of them go too deep into gory details or tell about criminals in a way that almost glorifies them, and I hate that. It's like being creepy for the sake of creepiness... and thats disrespectful to victims imo. But you do a perfect job in telling these stories because sometimes the narration just NEEDS someone to say "that's fucked up". I hope your channel grows big!!
Yikes, this is terrifying on so many levels: the child abuse, her assaultive behaviour, the murder, and all the while being allowed to work around patients and dispense medications.
Nothing breaks my heart more than this case. Cherry seemed like such an amazing person who did not deserve a single thing that happened to her. She was literally just a kind hearted soul, learning to become herself. Rest In Peace.
I couldn’t agree more. Most of these cases break my heart, but this one seriously crushed it!!!
Well said, exactly my thoughts.
Oh please it'll be back to business as usual with you protected & pedestalised pale browds 🙄. While as usual as soon as minority woemen risks her wellbeing to talk to the cops even for one of YOUR kind their lives are still ruined😡. Tired of OUR woemen not being a protected class in this ungrateful country 🤮
@@iclickedbecauseiamtiredofs4630 what the fuck are you rambling about
@@HvH420 your pock marked 🤡 face
I cannot imagine the emotional torment the poor fathers of Kim’s kids went through. When she got arrested, I can’t imagine the relief.
Women privilege in the court system is astounding
@@pepironi992 this is patriarchy who hammers in that women are better fitted for children care. Fight that.
My thoughts exactly. I could practically feel their relief through the video after she was found guilty (even years later).
Imagine the emotional torment of the children.
@@whyohwhy9679 Damn straight. Imagine being a child absolutely terrified of your 'mother'. The woman that brought you into the world. Who should love you and care for you unconditionally but instead beats the christ out of. I hope they all have great futures with their Dads.
Poor cherry. Heartbreaking. You gotta be especially sick to hurt disabled people.
Evil, not sick. Come on, use your brain.
This is absolutely heartbreaking. Sending lots of love to Cherry, her family, friends, and caretaker. She seemed like an awesome person, and she had the bravery to live her own life despite her disabilities. That’s something I envy. I’m 23, so just a year younger than her, and I also have developmental disabilities. I still live with my parents and I’m not sure if I’m ever going to be able to live on my own. It’s such a huge step to take and she seemed like she was doing so well. She didn’t deserve to have her life ripped from her at such a young age, when she was thriving in a hard to adjust to situation.
This case really got to me. Absolutely heartbreaking.
What an absolutely sickening case..... This insane woman should have stopped much earlier. Where were the child protective service????
CPS doesn't care, they're too busy taking kids who actually aren't being abused because they get money for each child who is removed from the home. They're so overloaded with these cases that they totally ignore the ones that actually are being abused. There are a few honest caseworkers that care about children, but the majority of CPS is corrupt. So many children are taken away from loving homes, and so many children are left to suffer in abusive homes. They don't help children or families. I urge everyone to research this to see for yourself.
They seem to like to take kids from good homes and leave other kids in bad homes. CPS is sick and twisted 😞
@@starlingswallow so raw 4 me considering I've lived n seen exactly this
Cherry was such a phenomenally beautiful, lovely, loving, caring and wonderful young woman. What she had done for Jacob was a clear testament of her generosity in helping others before herself. I don't know of many people that would've bought a stranger's child clothes, watched them for days on end, feed them, bathe them, and play with them until they became tired. This is also a testament of how Cherry was brought up.
Despite her having an IQ of 60, she was smart enough to recognize that Jacob was in need of help. She definitely sounded like an angel, and she didn't deserve to die in the manner in which she did. She had her entire life ahead of her, and I firmly believe that she would've gotten married and had her own children, so she could spoil them with her love and affection. In my own personal opinion, Cherry was a much, much better mother instincts in her tiny pinkie finger than Kim had in her entire body. This is why I firmly believe that Cherry would've been a fantastic momma.
I wholeheartedly believe in the death penalty, when it's warranted. In this case, Kim SHOULD be put to death in the same exact manner that she had murdered Cherry; except for her, a very, very slow, methodical and painful death would be somewhat sufficient for her. This diabolical subhuman demonic thing ruined so many people's lives. So, she doesn't deserve an ounce of pity, sympathy or compassion. The trauma she caused her own sons is truly sickening, evil and disgusting. The courts definitely failed on every aspect of this case. She SHOULD have been behind bars for the multiple times that she had harmed her sons, but the damn courts continued returning them to her, or allowing her visitations. Shame on those judges! IF those judges had done their jobs right, there's a high probability that Cherry would still be here today, but they failed, and, because of them, Cherry's no longer here.
RIP Cherry!!
I agree with you 💯. Cherry was an amazing woman who had a beautiful soul. AND that evil selfish monster took her life away. I'm GLAD she got the electric chair for everything she did to Cherry. Motherhood is such a beautiful gift. There are alot of women who aren't so lucky in conceiving a child. But this monster who was blessed 4 TIMES Tormented her sons by abusing them while the courts did nothing. I Swear DCF AND CPS are the worst social development departments that were ever made to help families with social needs and child protective services. They NEVER do their jobs right. Always fails the child in need and the parent that is actually trying to do right by the child. It's like they want the child with the evil parent. At least place the child with relative caregivers in a safe environment until things are worked out. If it was up to me I would get rid of those services and place something new that would help the children more. This whole case made me soo angry. I felt so bad for the kids and their fathers. My heart really went out to Cherry's family. RIP to a beautiful soul CHERRY.
He said who put 5 dollars of gas in their car…I have put 2 in my tank before…😂😂😂..the struggle was real
"Who puts only $5 in their car?"
I bet my wife would feel attacked. 😂
It only get you one gallon now, but if it gets you where you need to go, why not? 😉 I've done it before myself, sometimes it was all I had left!
Was cps closed during the decade or so Kim had her children???? How was she not charged for punching her son in the face?? Outrageous Another great vid thanks so much for your stellar work !!! Greetings from Canada
You're surprised the woman was blindly favored in a child custody case? Is this your first time?
That’s the American child welfare system in action! It’s completely broken! There are many many other cases like this. Most of the time the children get killed.
Society loves women. Feminism is a lie. Women have every right a man has, plus more.
OKK!!?? a damn travesty!
@@myabushnes9216 She should have been charged with assault and battery. The right to discipline your children shouldn't include the right to punch them in the face!
It certainly shows how messed up the system is when three good dads went through hell just to be good dads. People should come with a carfax! And my heart breaks for Cherry and her family.
I said the same thing when it comes to adopting kids think she come with the kids fax😏😏🤷💯!!
Women can be abusers.
This woman was one of the worst.
Imagine the stories we never heard or no one bothers to hear. I can only imagine...
Cherry seemed like a good pleasant person working to improve her life despite her mental disadvantages. I know how it feels, something I know well...
*Women can be abusers.*
It's a sad commentary that this actually needs to be said when it's 2022 outdoors.
Gotta love with some of these cases you cover, the murder is just the TOPPER to an already horrific story.
this video should be mandatory viewing for all family court judges across the country, and all protective services agencies. We must not accept and must change the paradigm that the mother always know best. I understand some men dont care, but many mothers are incapable of nurturing children
This POS would lie about her fertility order to get pregnant, when she clearly didn't want her kids. When the men would inevitably run away with the kids, she would plot revenge, not because she wanted them. She just didn't want anyone else to have them. With all this great technology that we have, Kim should have been on some kind of data base, much like a sex offender. The system failed Cherry, the sons that Kim had, plus all the fathers. This should never been allowed to happen. POS should have been taken off the street years ago.
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As a mother, I agree.
Cherry seems like she was a delightful and loving person, someone I’d love to be friends with. May she continue to Rest In Peace 🍒🕊
Amen✨
Amen. †
Amen 🙏
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Amen 🙏
As a woman, i heavily encourage the men to WRAP UP no matter what your partner says
Great episode man. It's insane how many peoples lives one person can destroy. I feel so sorry for the kids that have to call this woman mom. So infuriating.
As a mother of a developmentally delayed daughter, I cannot imagine the pain and guilt her parents must feel. This woman truly is the definition of a monster. If it were my daughter, I'd volunteer to flip the switch.
Hopefully they don’t blame themselves, they raised an angel and Cherry was doing great on her own and sounded happy. Paula on other hand, has to live w the fact that she was the only person who knew Cherry was in danger, and did nothing to help her. Didn’t even call or alert anyone else to the situation making it impossible for anyone else to help her either.
I hope to god they don't feel guilt. The daughter they raised seemed like such an angelic and sweet person. She wanted to be independent and on her own and seemed to love her life- it would've been unfair not to let her live it to the fullest.
As the mother of a special needs son, I wholeheartedly agree. This story has broken my heart.
"Developmentally delayed"
Where do these idiotic euphemisms come from?
@@n3rds3y3vi3w She murdered Cherry.
Rest easy Cherry. You were a beautiful soul and you did not deserve to suffer so horribly. 🙏🏻😢
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“Who puts $5 of gas in their car?”
My broke ass: 🙋🏾♂️
"Who puts $5 worth of gas in there car?"
🙄🙄 Me sometimes 🤣🤦
The courts decided on the first child that she was psychological unable to take care of her son.
Yet she was allowed to take care of her three next sons, did get off when reports of child abuse were made (instead of checking the records).
This went to the point where the children were so scared that they rather ran away in underwear.
Yet the courts did nothing. These boys were failed by the system.
And most infuriating of all: Cherry's death could have been prevented. If the courts and the police would have done their job she would still be alive!
Not only did this woman have four independent men claim she was abusive. They had countless examples of bruised children.
This makes me mad.
Cherry seemed like a sweet, kind and yet strong person.
Rest in power sweet child!
I read the court transcripts on this case a few years ago, and she was described as the "devil incarnate"..this woman is the epitome of pure evil
RIP to Cherry. She did not deserve any of what happened to her.
So glad Kim’s children are free from her torture and abuse.
Taking advantage of someone that has a disability is just cold. 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
I am 56 and realize how lucky I have been to never have any woman like this in my life or family and I don’t know any friends who have had experiences like this either. Thank God
Oh goodness, look at Cherry’s sweet smile. Kim absolutely earned her place on the “monsters” list.
“Who puts 5$ of gas in their car?”
“….. me?”
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Hearing about cherry is heartbreaking. She seemed like such a wonderful young woman.
My hearts breaks for Cherry. I wish she had the chance to live a full life with independence & surrounded only by those who cared for her.
"Who puts $5 of gas in their car?"
Me: *laughs in poor*
👋🏼👋🏼 me, I put $5 in the tank. I drive a Honda, $5 is a good amount. (Also laughing in poor)
"who puts $5 of gas into their car" - - me who is so broke. LOL
Idk how this channel doesn't have over 1 mil subscribers or more.. absolutely perfect videos man. Keep it up. Thank you!
In an age of supposed “equality” it amazes me how fathers have to fight so hard to gain custody of their kids. I speak from experience having an abusive ex partner. She attacked me regularly and abused our children. Of course she also always played the victim. I tried going through every channel to get my kids away from her but nothing worked. The cards are stacked heavily in favour of women in these scenarios, it’s so wrong. Eventually I got away and got my children away from her when I recorded one of her attacks. My kids had bruises and teeth marks on them. This story reminds me of what I went through ten years ago, and it’s time for custody to be decided not by gender, but who is the right parent to take the children.
@Mr. Angry, I feel for your children and you. I hope you all stay safe and strong… thanks for being so brave to share your pain. We all need to know the truth about stuff, otherwise how are the children able to grow up well informed and educated about right and wrong. I hope their mum received the help that she obviously NEEDED!! 👏✌️All best wishes for a better New Year for everyone. 💥🍭🍻🍫
i agree with you 100%. it’s so unfair. situations like this could be easily avoided if that were the case.
This is what feminists mean when they say patriarchy harms *everyone*. Women are considered natural caretakers; until this changes, women will always be given preference in custody battles, and abuse they commit (particularly against men) will never be taken seriously.
So sorry you and your children went through this. I was one of the children and it messed you up. So sad. I feel do bad for all the people going through this.
@@nokke8815 That's not patriarchy, it's stereotyping. It's just discrimination, not patriarchy.
This case is proof that not everyone who can bear children can bear the responsibility of being a parent.
But Republican states who have outlawed abortion have ensured that they will anyway. And we're going to have a generation of children who are beaten, neglected, and worse because they're not wanted. Gotta love them right wing family values.
Time for men to grow up and take birth control into their own hands. WTH? Vasectomies are the only civilized and adult way to prevent unwanted pregnancies. Especially in these situations.
Mr. Monsters, I've watched most of your videos, and I gotta say that nobody sets up a story like you. You're like docu-crime's answer to Rod Serling. Well done and many thanks.
"Who puts $5 of gas in their car?"
Bruh...
You have absolutely no idea how many times you've talked me to sleep. You also have no idea how many times you calmed me down during my chemotherapy. Thank you for that.
I just finished with cancer at 34 years old I know the pain keep your head up !
I hope you get better soon
Sending Prayers.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@ereykdarden3414 Thankful you're finished!!🙏🙏🙏🙏
God bless honey
Hope you are well and happy
Having a baby in a toxic relationship will never fix the problem. Facts!
Had I been in the courtroom as Ms. Cargill testified, I am sure the judge would have ordered my removal from the gallery for laughing out loud...her story was hilarious...
These courts and child care services need to be held accountable.
i feel like not enough of these comments are acknowledging Cherry. She deserved so much more care, consideration, and protection. We have to do better with protecting and empowering vulnerable populations (children, elderly, disabled, etc.)
Not just her I feel like so many good people fell victim to the monster in this story
In a modern world that mainly values labor, those populations are treated as useless. We definitely need a paradigm shift 🙏🏾
Cherry would probably still be alive had this evil woman been punished for beating up a child in the first place and had her custody removed. RIP Cherry
What? Tons of the comments are praising her up the ass! Quit virtue signaling.
@@_HimToo lol I thought the same thing. Most of the comments are about how amazing and kind cheri was . She was the actual murder victim in this story.
Thank goodness that these children had loving and attentive fathers who fought for them. I got the chills when you said she hit her 5 year old so hard that he flew across the room. I have a 5 year old boy, and I could never even spank him, never mind hit him that hard. Thank you for covering this case!
This is so crazy ... Ive lived in Tyler for over 4 years now .... I found help for my addiction struggles at the Salvation Army on Broadway and now reside at River Oaks Apartments on Troup Hwy... I fell in love with this small city and credit it as a big part of why I am still sober today... this is my favorite RUclips channel and to hear a story that took place here makes it even more interesting 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thank you
-D$ Dæmøn
I actually screamed when you said MY HOME TOWN OMG
I'm so glad that your channel is at the point of hundreds of likes, plays and comments 8 minutes in. You deserve that and more!
One of her ex-husbands (at the time I thought it was the first) and their adult son described the warning signs that they regret not acting on sooner in an episode of the series, "EVIL lives here"... They spoke about how manipulative she was (her episode was called "Master Manipulator") and how vicious and violent she was toward both of them and her other sons and partners, but I don't think they detailed all of the abusive things she did to all of the boys because they had to get to the story of the murder of Cherry Walker.
I thought I hated her from watching the son tearfully relive the horror of growing up with and being abused by her (and also witnessing her abuse his other siblings) but damn, it would be so sweet of one or more of her fellow inmates engaged in a little "Oops upside her head".
I knew some of these details sounded familiar in this video. I watched that “ Evil Lives Here “ episode weeks ago and they definitely deluded the story in comparison to this.
Thank you for mentioning this story on “Evil Lives Here”. When I’m able to handle watching that show I’ll check it out.
You guys should read the court transcript of her case. She is an evil monster. I wanted to scream reading all her evilness. Everyone she crossed paths with including her own mother hated her and said she was equivalent to the devil maybe even more so. Cherie’s case worker Paula was completely devastated in her murder that she stopped working all together and couldn’t get to her funeral. Reading her testimony was heartbreaking
I went through a similar situation. Courts just kept giving my daughter back to her. Saying " A lil girl needs her mother" evn after her newest kid died after eating a drug off the floor. I fought for custody for 9 yrs. Courts show no love to dad's. I 100% believe both parents are equally important. I'm sick of these stories where the bad parent gets more rights. It needs to change. I had to drive 45 minutes at 3am one time bc her house got raided. I went and picked up my daughter, worked w/dyfs, the case worker approved her staying w/me. Put her into school near my house. Filed pw to get child support suspended/canceled. Went to court after 4 months of waiting. Paying the whole time. They STILL kept the support order open against me bc the mom was complying w/treatment and the plan was for our daughter to go back w/her. Which 3 Months later, she did. I literally went crazy, depression and just pain. It still eats me alive. Idk where they evn are now. She recently turned 18 and they just disappeared. I feel like I failed. Idk what I could do w/o going to jail. Tearing up just thinking about it
I'm sorry. I feel your pain I've been unable to even ask about my Son's wellbeing for the past 2 years due to covid and his mother just generally dragging her feet for as long as legally possible on every imaginable step... He's nearly old enough to Google his name in which case I will be at least available that way.
I've nothing good to say about courts in terms of involvement in the dynamics of families after seeing others go through their experiences and now so far into my own with no progress is definitely another affirmation.
If only the father was the abuser, he would've lost custody so fast.
So keeping the kids with the abusive,. irresponsible and violent mother was better than giving full custody to their respective father's? Great 👍🏾 job courts 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤬
There's a lot of evil single mothers out there treating their unwanted kids like shit yet it cost people like 20 grand for someone that actually wants to adopt a child. Backwards imo
At least her children and ex's are free from her now.
“The police wouldn’t charge her for abusing Sam.” Makes my blood boil. Reminds me of the doctor who examined me when I was 9. The look on his face right before my emergency surgery, when I said I fell, said “there no way.” I remember him glaring at my father.
But did he report anything? Nope. Never. Did the surgery and sent me on my way back with my abuser. A 9 year old doesn’t break their nose so badly that they need emergency surgery, by walking into a door.
Its always sad when CPS, police, DAs, Family Court etc. fail so miserably. Thank you for your videos. Enjoy the empathy for victims with some good snarky comments mixed in
Imagine actually being so evil, selfish and narcissistic, that you actually believe that winning custody of your children instead of their other parent, is more important than another human beings right to be *ALIVE!*
When you think about convicted murderers, that are so dangerous, that they are placed in high security prisons, where you have to go through a maze of cages and massive, thick, metal doors that are guarded by huge, armed prison guards, before you get anywhere near the prisoner...
Well there are Psychopaths that have committed heinous crimes like those prisoners, walking around among us, and it's chilling that we have absolutely zero idea who they are!!
among us
They probably don't know themselves. I think about that too. I'm sure some people are introverted because they know they'd end up killing people if they weren't.
@@irishhoopers6899 What a BS! Introverted people don't want much contact to others because they are shallow like you and pretend to know people you have no idea about! How do you come from Borderline and law IQ to introverts anyway?! There is like no connection at all.
Exactly!! That's a malignant narcissist for ya!!...
@@Stefanie3 He was speaking hypothetically and he didn't say that was a guarantee that all introverts are like that. Stop getting offended for nothing
I came across your videos last week and I have to say that I am really enjoying them. You go in depth without droning on and on. The added details really fill in the sequence of events that other crime videos lack. Thank you for your hard work putting the videos together.
"Who puts $5 worth of gas in their car?"
Laughs in poor.
Nice work Marcy dumping this lunatic on a vulnerable disabled woman, nice work 👏👏🙄
I've never wanted to punch a face so much while watching these. Anyone who abuses children should be in prison permanently.
Holy shit. That woman is completely unhinged.
"Who puts 5 dollars worth of gas in their car"
Brokeass me: I feel personally attacked.
Yikes! Getting yelled and abused for eating potato chips that an adult said you could hits waaaayyyyyy too close to home.
Our systems of protecting children is broken and inexcusably underfunded. Also- not all wounds are visible and can hurt just as bad. The authorities will only do something (rarely but still) for physical or sexual abuse.
This was a very hard story to get through but these types of accounts need to be told.
I fell more into the emotional abuse category. I didn’t know why at the time, but I started cutting at 9 years old. Those were wounds caused by by me but they originated from the abusive parent. The feeling of helplessness and not having any control of your safety is one of the worst things to do to a child. I would pray I’d start get hit so then at least someone would notice.
My heart goes out to these victims and all of those suffering.
I'm so sorry you went through that
@@homersimpsonsfatguyhat9541 sadly it’s not over. I’m a very much an adult in body but I become 7 years old in certain circumstances. My dad used to try to protect me but now is dependent on the abuser and it’s tearing me to pieces I can’t be there to help- but I know the crosshairs will always turn on me. I’m the scapegoat because I don’t tolerate the behavior anymore- but to witness someone else - a grown, respected, decent adult go through what I did literally makes me sick. I’m so conflicted - help save the one that did their best to keep me safe or just walk away. It eats me up inside.
Thank you for you sympathy though - it is truly meaningful.l
@@Amazing_missB that's heartbreaking, wishing all the best for you.
@@Amazing_missB will be sending prayers to you buddy! My aunt and uncle kept me from my mom when my dad went to jail. Now my mom passed in 2018 and this was going on 2007-2009 and 2010-2011. They’ll reap what they sow. We got this bro!
@@Amazing_missB I think you know the answer to that already... it won't be easy caring for your dad BUT it'll be even harder knowing what he's going through without your help . Good luck
Merry Chsistmas to the true crime community. JCS, Matt Orchard and of course This Is Monsters all delivered. Thank you so much.
Lol
I felt personally attacked when you said "who puts only $5 of gas in their car?"
Cherri took better care of those kids than their own mother.
Can you imagine taking advantage of someone, not to mention someone who's special needs, by making them constantly take care of your kid and then kill them so they can't testify when literally all of this is YOUR fault?!? How can one person be this selfish???
I know! Sickening, isn’t it?
Crazy how the court values mom's more than dads. Look how much she put her children through. This is just horrific.
i sadly saw this many times around the world many horrible women that keep their children away from their fathers its a big problem thats basicly sexism the the other way around equal rights should go both ways... people always think the man has to be bad one because women possibly cant be bad parents that shit is so dumb
The sexism of family courts must be addressed!
@@tangogent exactly
It’s awful, really.
The courts lean heavily towards mothers in numerous cases and let their own biases cloud what’s best for a child. They go with the typical mindset of females/mothers being more nurturing (“well they carried the child and gave birth, so they have a connection the father can’t” is an unfortunate view I’ve seen shared among many), because _in general_ it can be true, but only to a certain extent. It’s just really shitty that they don’t give fathers the same benefit and look at each situation as a case by case basis. It takes two to make a baby, and often the system will only recognize that when child support is involved. Otherwise, fathers are left high and dry when it comes to serious cases involving their children suffering at the hands of their mother. Justice is supposed to be blind, but it’s heavily skewed when it comes to children and their parents.
@@TwoBs sad but true
Thank you for the episode!!
Wow, this really does sound like BPD without mental Healthcare.
I wish mental health was considered more often in custody cases. My mom has BPD and is incredibly abusive, but my parents somehow got split custody.
My mom had BPD also. I feel you & am so sorry for what you went through. I hope you are able to put strong boundaries up against her and are doing ok.
Not always this way and stereo typed as bpd.very easy to label someone if the true diagnosis if people are not informed properly of the disorder.
@@emmachandler6780 she has a BPD diagnosis and is also schizotypal. She never received any help for her BPD and is genuinely an incredibly harmful person. Maybe it’s who she is and not her mental health issues, but it’s kind of inseparable.
Love this channel ♡♡♡
Its becoming like an old friend who pops in for a regular chat.
Thank you
An old friend that always has shocking news to share and be outraged together over. "Jeez that's just terrible" 😱 "oh I'm just getting started, you won't believe the awful thing they did next!" 🤯
@@irishhoopers6899 : D yep !! ☆☆☆
I love how on Cherry’s gravestone her dates were Sunrise and Sunset.
Our system really puts too much weight on keeping kids with their mothers. This is ridiculous.