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  • Опубликовано: 10 апр 2023
  • Lori Vallow Daybell is currently on trial for the murder of her two children, “J.J.” Vallow and Tylee Ryan, and her alleged role in the death of Tammy Daybell, the late wife of her husband, Chad Daybell. Lori Vallow Daybell and Chad Daybell, who is also charged in the killings, have pleaded not guilty. Chad Daybell will be tried separately. Prosecutors say the couple’s so-called doomsday beliefs played a role in the murders. This episode originally aired on May 16, 2020. Watch more full episodes of "48 Hours" on Pluto TV.
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  • @48hours
    @48hours  Год назад +143

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    • @marvafletcher5898
      @marvafletcher5898 Год назад +27

      She is a sick sick woman

    • @annaadams3144
      @annaadams3144 Год назад +12

      @@marvafletcher5898 😩SHE IS BEYOND SicKkkk … Poor babies//Family… 😢😢😢😡🥺😣😔

    • @invisiblue3212
      @invisiblue3212 Год назад +7

      I think Lori bought new shoes before going back because there was blood on the ones she was wearing.🤔

    • @donnab7666
      @donnab7666 Год назад +10

      1)If the police took THEIR job seriously and really listened to Charles and the things he was saying, i stead of just brushing him off like he is the problem not Lori who is to say if 5he kids would still be alive today. That's one
      2) When the police came to the domestic argument between Alex and Charles they did absolutely nothing and I mean nothing. Lori pulls up with Kylee all smiles and laughing talking bad about her dead husband also you clearly hear how she brainwashed Kylee to follow and say only what they talked about.
      3) If the police did their jobs and arrested Alex those 3 precious lives may still be alive today.

    • @vwchick24
      @vwchick24 Год назад +5

      @@donnab7666I agree. The police dropped the ball many times in this case and it costed these babies their lives. I hope every single officer who didn’t help them when they have the chance thinks about it daily. May God have mercy on them.

  • @lizd.8655
    @lizd.8655 Год назад +3106

    There are no words to describe the level of denial from Lori's mother and sister

    • @nwabobo
      @nwabobo Год назад +205

      It tells u why Lori was vulnerable to those crazy beliefs of being the chosen one. Her family seems open to believe all crazy explanations from Lori without reasonable questions.

    • @Cwgrlup
      @Cwgrlup Год назад +182

      The family is guilty of helping her with these crimes.

    • @BullFrogNiki
      @BullFrogNiki Год назад +151

      They’re absolutely delusional.

    • @mamacito1795
      @mamacito1795 Год назад +87

      I havent got to the end yet. The beginning is clearly before they found the children. So can the mom and sister justify why the kids turn up dead or are they still so sure Lori could never hurt them by the end?

    • @camipeterson6683
      @camipeterson6683 Год назад +28

      ​@@mamacito1795 That's what I was wondering. Going to search for an update from 48 hours

  • @marygoodsell3602
    @marygoodsell3602 Год назад +2038

    It's sickening watching Lori's sister and mother lie.

    • @lenorafrancis8444
      @lenorafrancis8444 Год назад +73

      And believing too

    • @GrandmaLM
      @GrandmaLM Год назад +156

      You have to realize this interview was early on. They aren’t supporting her lies now.

    • @megan1445
      @megan1445 Год назад +108

      ​@@GrandmaLM But now after the fact, were the kids actually dead when they claim they heard him on the phone? I think that's were people are saying they're lying as well as other things.

    • @spa-peggymeatballs4861
      @spa-peggymeatballs4861 Год назад +67

      I think gullibility is often taught from a young age. It’s not surprising to me that Lori’s family lacks critical thinking skills-Lori clearly does as well.
      Also it might be a situation where the truth is simply too much to accept.

    • @apoloniafong7474
      @apoloniafong7474 Год назад

      Yes it's really true how Lori's mum n sister are bluddy bad liars can't they tell the truth. Even watching the interview I'm not a cop I could straight away notice their lies

  • @anubis5787
    @anubis5787 Год назад +589

    1. A dead husband -Lori
    2. A dead wife -Chad
    3. Two dead children
    4. Service dog returned.
    5. Kids toys and clothes in a locker.
    6. A marriage just after a wife and husband of each is dead.
    All within a span of time. The concidences are too obvious one wonders why her mother and sister are in denial of what really happened.

    • @locotenentrocket1551
      @locotenentrocket1551 9 месяцев назад +4

      Madalina Cojocari... similar case

    • @lolkom77
      @lolkom77 8 месяцев назад +14

      What a wonderful couple. A match made in hell.

    • @driley5004
      @driley5004 4 месяца назад +2

      I know it's almost like who does she think she's fooling with all this

    • @Alison-ku5ko
      @Alison-ku5ko 2 месяца назад +3

      They aren’t look at them. All they are worried about is image damage control.

    • @dawnward8121
      @dawnward8121 Месяц назад +1

      Its very sad how Lori changed

  • @dfinite4089
    @dfinite4089 Год назад +135

    Shout out to Nate Eaton, the reporter from East Idaho News, who went out to Hawaii to ask about her missing children. Luckily, his Kauai interview attempt (of Lori and Chad) went viral on social media! Without Nate Eaton’s dogged journalism, none of this would have happened! Early on, the police weren’t that interested, and JJ’s grandparents had so much trouble getting any information on where JJ could be, and what was happening…

    • @marshapieroni6677
      @marshapieroni6677 12 дней назад +1

      Yep, if the police had been proactive, most of this tragedy would not have happened.

  • @oceanstaiga5928
    @oceanstaiga5928 Год назад +1307

    Nothing screams innocence like going on a honeymoon while your kids are missing, if my children went missing I’d also just keep on with my life. Said no one ever.

    • @Stephaniewashere
      @Stephaniewashere Год назад +57

      For real!! My son was missing for less than an hour when he was a toddler and it was the worst effing experience of my life. After everything I'd seen on Nancy Grace and the news.. my God.. 8 years later and I still have PTSD from it. If i dont know where he is I'm a mess. 😢

    • @Theodore81547
      @Theodore81547 Год назад +7

      @@Stephaniewashere why weren't you watching him? Who did you have him with? It doesn't just happen. Hopefully DCFS intervened

    • @jencoad714
      @jencoad714 Год назад +76

      ​@@Theodore81547
      I can see you've never had kids

    • @cayleemc
      @cayleemc Год назад +17

      i would be at a 10 panicking i would search the world, only way id go there is if i checked everywhere else and i was swimming the ocean to try and find my kids

    • @Dani-ICU-RN
      @Dani-ICU-RN Год назад +20

      Not just" keep on".. start a new one. Insane.sick. maybe the real facade was playing "the perfect soccer mom" not the demon that we are trying to decipher here..

  • @ohreallyeliza
    @ohreallyeliza Год назад +684

    What is wrong with the mother and sister of Lori?? They are brainwashed. It's sad. They must feel so embarrassed and stupid looking back at this interview

    • @gaiagreen2690
      @gaiagreen2690 Год назад +98

      Oh, I think that these two have already adjusted their views to the circumstances and invented another fairytale about how Lori is the real victim and how everybody else but her and her murdering brother are guilty.

    • @clairewambui5816
      @clairewambui5816 Год назад +12

      My view exactly.

    • @bcoull290
      @bcoull290 Год назад +30

      Denial is so strong. Dumbbell kids blame her and her family blame him.

    • @cappy2282
      @cappy2282 Год назад

      These people are called "liberal voters" and there are many of them peppered throughout the United States. (Live in their own reality...ignore the facts at all costs)

    • @mwest3191
      @mwest3191 Год назад +17

      My thoughts, too. I’ve heard their father raised them to believe they could do no wrong, and that their family is above reproach. Small wonder.

  • @chrisdavis723
    @chrisdavis723 Год назад +140

    Man I feel like Lori’s sister and mother should be arrested for this interview, unbelievable they are disgusting. Blindly trusting Lori without verifying anything disgusting humans

    • @nicholassullivan1239
      @nicholassullivan1239 Год назад +1

      💯

    • @thunderstorm4074
      @thunderstorm4074 Год назад +1

      Could you arrest people because of their positive opinion about Hitler?

    • @genakirkland5528
      @genakirkland5528 11 месяцев назад +6

      Diffinitely because they know and they are covering it .

    • @jullietmburu9672
      @jullietmburu9672 9 месяцев назад +7

      ​@@thunderstorm4074it's not about opinions. They are busy making excuses for every piece of evidence. They didn't do the kids any justice, considering they were very busy protecting the culprits.

    • @killawalez3944
      @killawalez3944 2 месяца назад

      @@thunderstorm4074I wish we could lol

  • @sohard2sea872
    @sohard2sea872 Год назад +24

    Lori's mom and sister look like Disney villains.

  • @Purrfect21796
    @Purrfect21796 Год назад +1053

    Her mom and sister holding a constant smirk were the most sickening and saying the same thing again and again..

    • @cindytrayer4279
      @cindytrayer4279 Год назад +82

      Typical narcissistic smirk. The mother reminded me of Bette Davis in Whatever Happened to Baby Jane. Creepy.

    • @jossa942
      @jossa942 Год назад +7

      😮

    • @ColoRADbro420
      @ColoRADbro420 Год назад +54

      They must’ve taught that same smirk to Lori bc she always does it like on her infamous mug shot.

    • @projectionv.accountability1010
      @projectionv.accountability1010 Год назад

      I call it "Utah face". Fake, insincere, creepy, pretending to be holy.

    • @pinkpugginz
      @pinkpugginz Год назад +15

      eyeroll. they didnt know what happened at the time

  • @gaiagreen2690
    @gaiagreen2690 Год назад +1641

    Looking at her mother and sister, one can clearly see where Lori's toxic narcissism comes from. No willingness for self reflection at all, just deflection, lies and endless entitlement.
    But after all that we've seen about Lori's family so far, I do hope that we'll also get to know much more about the second half of this murdering couple, Chad Daybell. Who was he? What kind of family did he come from? I would REALLY like to know where did he get the idea that he was a chosen one and a prophet with superpowers, who simply declared Charles, Tammy and two innocent kids to be evil, possessed by demons and deserving to be murdered.

    • @Wearingmycrown
      @Wearingmycrown Год назад +73

      I agree with this also her mothers body language and eye contact when responding told me a lot

    • @SnowFamilyOf4
      @SnowFamilyOf4 Год назад +22

      Very good questions!

    • @mariawestman9026
      @mariawestman9026 Год назад +33

      In my opinion - CHAD is the 🔐 to everything in this case.

    • @leohambalos2217
      @leohambalos2217 Год назад

      Maybe her mother and sister are also member of their Zombie blah blah Cult!!!!

    • @blondecat666
      @blondecat666 Год назад +89

      Organised religion is the Plague of the Earth.

  • @mileenaouch5064
    @mileenaouch5064 10 месяцев назад +35

    “SHE WOULD NEVER HURT HER CHILDREN” age like wine

    • @Famr4evr
      @Famr4evr Месяц назад +3

      Or it aged like moldy cheese.

    • @therealz360z7
      @therealz360z7 13 дней назад

      The are embarrassed they truly believed she would never do that .

    • @eel4242
      @eel4242 8 дней назад

      Nah, aged like organic fruit

    • @judistocker1811
      @judistocker1811 4 дня назад +1

      The Cox family broke ties with Adam when he tried to sound the alarm when Charles was M’ered The family is still fractured

  • @jakis-qu5kh
    @jakis-qu5kh Год назад +42

    I lived a mile from the house where the kids bodies were found. The husband was arrested two houses from mine and I came home from work to see tons of police cars driving away and it never occurred to me that the husband had just been arrested moments before I came home from work.

  • @jc2385
    @jc2385 Год назад +633

    a WOW goes out to Laurie's mom and sister for being so damn blind and ignorant.

    • @mtrudo
      @mtrudo Год назад +26

      As a mother myself I'm sure it's very difficult to accept that your child murdered or helped to get rid of your grandchildren. You try your best to raise your children to be good people. I'm sure she is constantly thinking where did I go wrong.

    • @yeehaw_123
      @yeehaw_123 Год назад +36

      I wonder where Laurie gets it from 🙄

    • @VAHOSS
      @VAHOSS Год назад +24

      ​@yeehaw exactly what was thinking. The whole family is heartless, conceded, and arrogant

    • @tcwd3760
      @tcwd3760 Год назад +17

      A CULT, ALL IN IT TOGETHER!!! Lori thinks she's all that, she'd best take a long look at her mother, exactly how SHE'LL look in awhile! The sis& mom just condoned it all

    • @vivianibia2630
      @vivianibia2630 Год назад +11

      They aren't ignorant. They are just covering her. Which should be illegal and punishable

  • @SaltyPug
    @SaltyPug Год назад +1132

    Thank God for the grandparents who’s perseverance looking for their grandson made all this possible.

    • @stfuplsok
      @stfuplsok Год назад +4

      Kristen Thomas *whose

    • @brandonhounshell7132
      @brandonhounshell7132 Год назад +7

      ❤grandparents are always for theirs and always love. In the good and the bad. As seen in this film. But at the end of the day. Lori was sick from day 1 look at the trail she left from her first husband this is sick she’s sick.

    • @harpergrace5846
      @harpergrace5846 Год назад +6

      Breaks my heart for Tylee her own daughter who wasn’t caught for

    • @dfinite4089
      @dfinite4089 Год назад +11

      And Nate Eaton too, the journalist for East Idaho News! It’s because of his dogged pursuit, that his attempt at interviewing them in Hawaii, went viral.

    • @shannonswanson3025
      @shannonswanson3025 Год назад +5

      @@dfinite4089 Nate did such an amazing job the entire time.

  • @oscarkoop2548
    @oscarkoop2548 9 месяцев назад +69

    Loris mother looks like a melted barbie doll.😅😅😅

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter Месяц назад +4

      Wow; that is one accurate description.

    • @VidyaOliver-fl2ds
      @VidyaOliver-fl2ds 29 дней назад +4

      🤣🤣🤣ugly is the word

    • @Dollbabynai
      @Dollbabynai 8 дней назад +1

      you can see the resemblance between all 3 lol

  • @shaysmee5024
    @shaysmee5024 Год назад +19

    the mom and sister ACTIVELY making up lies on the spot... disgusting.

  • @lulug4283
    @lulug4283 Год назад +379

    "She isnt a monster, she'd never harn her children"......how stupid do they feel now 🤬

    • @eleanoraquitaine2966
      @eleanoraquitaine2966 Год назад +24

      Like hiding under a rock for the rest of their lives.

    • @babyjane87
      @babyjane87 Год назад +40

      As stupid as Lori feels now that the world didn’t end 🤣

    • @tham9863
      @tham9863 Год назад +5

      Wait, what happened in the end?

    • @brawenkg2453
      @brawenkg2453 Год назад +35

      @@tham9863 They found the remains of both of the children on Chad's property in 2020. They had been there a while. Both Lori and Chad are in jail pending trial at the moment.

    • @cinder7183
      @cinder7183 Год назад +9

      The end of the world to her is the closing if the cell door.

  • @msk.7878
    @msk.7878 Год назад +1012

    It’s very telling how you can spend your life with someone for 13 years and they can behave like nothing after you are murdered right there . Insane

    • @lindaurban8968
      @lindaurban8968 Год назад +3

      J

    • @Thanasis_Koligliatis
      @Thanasis_Koligliatis Год назад +51

      (... they can behave like nothing after ...)
      ... and after you are murdered right in front of them they behave like nothing really happened ...

    • @Thanasis_Koligliatis
      @Thanasis_Koligliatis Год назад +40

      She wasn't, anymore, the same person that he had married.
      At that moment, she really believed all these nonsense about zombies.
      She didn't see him as a human being anymore, but as a zombie.

    • @jezzielane3734
      @jezzielane3734 Год назад +66

      Narcissists can be amazing pretenders but the inappropriate affect gives them away every time.

    • @sabrinaadair9385
      @sabrinaadair9385 Год назад +16

      Haha she wanted you to believe 😢😢she is the devil she killed her own kids

  • @RoxiieSays
    @RoxiieSays Год назад +24

    Every time Lori’s mother and sister came on my screen, I rolled my eyes sooo hard! 🙄🙄🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @jedgrahek1426
    @jedgrahek1426 11 месяцев назад +31

    The LDS woman at the start saying "I had never seen a single couple who seemed like they were truly happy together" speaks volumes about LDS culture.

    • @Famr4evr
      @Famr4evr Месяц назад +1

      They don’t know my husband and I. 22 years and loving each other more every day.

    • @juliehicks8459
      @juliehicks8459 12 дней назад

      I grew up mormon and I have lived in many different places. I enjoyed going to church in VA, NC, and FL. I learned that people are different in different places. You do always seem to have your stereo types like 'sister bertha better than you' and 'sister soppy cry all the time' and God has always warned of the wolf in sheeps clothing. With that being said, I did not like going to church in Utah and the culture out there is odd.

  • @lady_g406
    @lady_g406 Год назад +577

    I really would like to know how the mother and sister reacted upon knowing that JJ and Tylee's bodies were found on Daybell's property.

    • @veronicajohnson9995
      @veronicajohnson9995 Год назад +19

      *disgusted [with lori]

    • @wingv313
      @wingv313 Год назад +53

      Listen to the jailhouse call-Summer freaked out while Lori acted like it was no big deal😠

    • @johnylalrina1451
      @johnylalrina1451 Год назад +4

      What?

    • @StellaKnights
      @StellaKnights Год назад +17

      well you can hear the phone call between summer and lori , it has been played in court

    • @cookiemacc5011
      @cookiemacc5011 Год назад +51

      Her own brother said the mom knew . The family has cut the brother off because he cooperated and had charles back

  • @nlg7922
    @nlg7922 Год назад +426

    Her mother seems like she probably made excuses for Lori her entire life in one way or another. The whole family really. I do not believe for a second she spoke with JJ on the phone the day she claims either. She "heard him in the background," and that may or may not have been what she heard. How anyone could do this to their children will forever be something no one understands.

    • @Robinson67
      @Robinson67 Год назад +10

      Ya…watching her explains a lot about all of her kids (Lori Alex and that equally horrible sister)

    • @heathersworld9881
      @heathersworld9881 Год назад +11

      I personally believe they were playing old videos in the background I’m sure she did hear him, a recording.

    • @nlg7922
      @nlg7922 Год назад

      @@heathersworld9881 good point! I bet that is exactly what was happening! Imagine sitting on TV doing an interview while your grandkids are missing, strange deaths have been occuring, your daughter is in the middle and a liar about all of it, then you're lying (not too good at that either) about talking to your missing grandchild! She back tracked there when he asked her again if she spoke to JJ that day, and you could clearly tell it was a lie. You have to be some kind of f***ed up piece of work to be doing something like that. Seems as though you would want to be as honest as possible, any detail you can ever imagine let it be known, and get to the bottom of it to make sure the kids were safe. Instead make stuff up. Unreal. Makes me so angry after listening to the trial this week hearing about them finding those sweet babies. May they rest in peace and I hope Lori & Chad are made to sit and rot alone in cells until their day finally comes. I hope the mother and sister feel good about themselves now.

    • @mayogargler2859
      @mayogargler2859 Год назад +15

      I thought it was interesting how they brought up that they heard JJ in the background and THEN state that they actually talked to him...
      If it was that important to the case, she would've stated it first

    • @lenorafrancis8444
      @lenorafrancis8444 Год назад +8

      I believe she lied..trying to convince that she isn't..she said that she HEARD him and then when asked how was she sure...added she SPOKE TO Him...

  • @BamaFanUSMC
    @BamaFanUSMC Год назад +71

    It's sad to see how much Lori's mom and sister are in such denial here in this video. The audio from Summer and Lori after the kids were confirmed dead is so heartbreaking. I understand why they defended her at first, but it's crazy on the other hand bc of how the story was playing out at that time.

  • @MaximusX67
    @MaximusX67 3 месяца назад +13

    Grandma managed to talk to her already deceased grandson on the phone ..... that is some amazing stuff!! o_0

  • @gintoki2939
    @gintoki2939 Год назад +460

    The denial that Laurie’s mom and sister lives in is in on an another whole level. Why are they justifying so hard- confiscated her phone, could hear in background. No doubt both Laurie and her brother turned out to be nut jobs.

    • @bohkhuj9247
      @bohkhuj9247 Год назад +12

      This is old , they believe she is guilty now

    • @kellyngrey4950
      @kellyngrey4950 Год назад +19

      This was before they found the dead bodies of the kids on Chad Daybell's property. But more to the point, it's actually pretty common for family members to completely deny the capacity of their loved one to do heinous crimes. But it seems things have changed since that interview.

    • @crash24420
      @crash24420 Год назад +9

      This is what’s cults can do to peoples minds. It is truly frightening!

    • @Frosty0762
      @Frosty0762 Год назад +4

      ​@@kellyngrey4950 did they make an update or is just to be googled?

    • @smallies7154
      @smallies7154 Год назад +3

      They were very close to going missing or dying in their sleep like they do around Laurie

  • @MsSlangston
    @MsSlangston Год назад +364

    I don't care how much I love my family members. There is no way I would get on national t v and proclaim their innocence when it's that much evidence against them. Take feelings out of the way, and look at all the evidence. It doesn't mean you don't love them if you face the fact that the evidence points to their involvement.

    • @oldaccount5217
      @oldaccount5217 Год назад +1

      Especially if you’re defending someone who can’t stop getting married with people dying all over the place

    • @pyrografix
      @pyrografix Год назад +19

      It is a really sad thing because you'd think they would have loved those kids enough to try to stand up for them, find them, reveal the truth but no, they continued to shelter and empower Lori Shallow both privately and publicly. There is love and then there is just poorly aligned loyalties and I think the later meant more than the former to these people.

    • @rollingstone8545
      @rollingstone8545 Год назад +6

      If it werent so sad that 2 innocent children along with others lost their lives this case is almost comical. Using religion as a ruse.. as a Christian I don’t understand this at all even as an LDS member it’s just wrong

    • @perijetton9275
      @perijetton9275 Год назад +3

      They should have taken a page out of the Daybell children’s book! Maintain silence and dignity.

    • @Muhmawmehmaw
      @Muhmawmehmaw Год назад +4

      The best thing to do is to say nothing at all

  • @cnaz8709
    @cnaz8709 2 месяца назад +10

    It was difficult to watch Lori's sister and mother gaslighting and in denial all the way. What a sick family

  • @charlixo23
    @charlixo23 Год назад +35

    I'm glad to watch this after she was found guilty. Truly a poetic justice that she was found guilty on Mother's Day weekend

  • @seemsgood85
    @seemsgood85 Год назад +209

    This whole situation wouldn't have been discovered without Kay & Larry Woodcock (JJ's grandparents) and Nate Eaton (East Idaho News). Justice for Tammy, Tylee, JJ, and Charles. 🙏

  • @cheesehead4670
    @cheesehead4670 Год назад +225

    I would like her mom to now explain how she talked to JJ on the phone days after he was already dead.

    • @laurieb3703
      @laurieb3703 Год назад +1

      Wait did they find the kids? Or are you just guessing 😢

    • @delilcutie
      @delilcutie Год назад +18

      ​​@@laurieb3703 they were found in shallow graves

    • @morganvassell3141
      @morganvassell3141 Год назад +2

      @@pimpcesslexii4011 what’s it called love?

    • @pimpcesslexii4011
      @pimpcesslexii4011 Год назад +7

      @@morganvassell3141 sins of our mother

    • @TheCowgirlNiamh
      @TheCowgirlNiamh Год назад +11

      @@laurieb3703 sadly, yes. They were buried in husband #5 garden and found almost 3 years ago 😢. Lori is on trial currently. Shitebag husband will be next.

  • @vanessarodoracio1927
    @vanessarodoracio1927 Год назад +18

    As a parent and mother of an Autistic child this is heartbreaking 💔 may the Lord take care of them.

  • @lorihall3411
    @lorihall3411 Год назад +16

    How foolish do Lori’s mom and sister look now that we know what we know??!!! Shameful….

    • @Twistypoo
      @Twistypoo Год назад +7

      Yep. Her mom literally lied saying she heard JJ in the background of a phone call in October! Liar!!

  • @capiruzca
    @capiruzca Год назад +181

    The mother and sister are in denial and need to tell the truth

  • @eleanoraquitaine2966
    @eleanoraquitaine2966 Год назад +82

    She bought her wedding ring and dress before Tami was dead. So cold blooded.

  • @marysteelman6534
    @marysteelman6534 Год назад +14

    Watching May 12, 2023 - hours after Lori Vallow was convicted of her children’s’ murders. Sadder to watch this 48 Hours episode now that we all know what happened. Rest in peace Tylee , JJ, Charles and Tammy.

  • @fitkingly
    @fitkingly Год назад +30

    Oh man... Today in South Africa, everyone is horrified by the killing of two children who were mutilated. This was a sad reminder of how demonic the times are. May God protect you as you create and curate this content. Thank you for sharing

  • @terribarrett9381
    @terribarrett9381 Год назад +86

    Lori does not have a demon inside of her.....Lori IS the demon.

  • @NotYourBizz
    @NotYourBizz Год назад +204

    Her mother and sister fed Lori’s insanity !

    • @katharina...
      @katharina... Год назад +31

      Definitely, they give off the same empty, delusional vibes

    • @NotYourBizz
      @NotYourBizz Год назад +11

      @@katharina... agree ! Void of reality !

    • @shaffergirl1732
      @shaffergirl1732 Год назад

      For them to insist she is sane while considering the children may be locked in a compound or bunker is in denial of her mental illness. Sane mothers do not lock children away from society, exiling them from family and friends.

    • @Mandible_
      @Mandible_ Год назад +11

      But she’s a loving caring person 🙄😂

    • @shelliclark9472
      @shelliclark9472 Год назад +2

      Everyone did.

  • @jonathanmorningstar4390
    @jonathanmorningstar4390 Год назад +9

    "She would never harm her children." ~ Well, that didn't age well.

  • @cathysimmons1127
    @cathysimmons1127 Год назад +8

    Wow the Apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Lori's mother flat-out lied about talking to JJ on the phone in October. Seriously what is wrong with those people.

  • @jillschneider2953
    @jillschneider2953 Год назад +170

    Given today’s testimony from the detective, I am convinced she is a sociopath. It’s been 4 years and today is the first time she has shown any sadness, which was probably done just to gain jury sympathy.

    • @christinavigorandmoxie
      @christinavigorandmoxie Год назад +14

      It's absolutely creepy how she's so faking any emotion. She only feels bad for herself and knows damn well what happened to those kids and was the mastermind behind it. Her sister and mother are ridiculous and terrifying in their own way. They make you realize that Lori easily was so swayed by anything because so are they. It runs in the family.

  • @tanyalarose8907
    @tanyalarose8907 Год назад +69

    What an absolute monster she is. I'm the grandmother of two little boys. One of them has autism. If someone hurt them, the person responsible would never make it to trial.

    • @nicholassullivan1239
      @nicholassullivan1239 Год назад

      That would change nothing. Children above all else, as it should be.

  • @Alpha_Alize
    @Alpha_Alize Год назад +10

    Loris mom and sister are the biggest clowns out here. Either they’re lying or just oblivious. Smh 🤦‍♀️

    • @thenightporter
      @thenightporter Месяц назад

      Her mom looks like a possessed doll come to life.

  • @gyufrtsgftrs436jjg
    @gyufrtsgftrs436jjg Год назад +7

    Jury is out right now - 😮😮 48 hours needs to do an update after the trial.

  • @valbain209
    @valbain209 Год назад +97

    Apparently "Lori" can talk to the dead but can't talk to her dead husband and dead kids. Wow just wow. The mother and sister are so much in denial. It such a tragedy. Prayers for the grandparents.

  • @beckibrown8833
    @beckibrown8833 Год назад +210

    The last time a mother failed to report her child missing and the child was found murdered, the mom walked free. #kayleeanthony
    I pray for justice for all the victims of these monsters.

    • @marilyncausey9348
      @marilyncausey9348 Год назад +40

      Madalina Cojocari has been missing since November. Her mother and step father did not report her missing for three weeks, when the school inquired. She's still missing. The parents are in jail and not talking. I just wanted to mention her name. She should be remembered.

    • @thetape5657
      @thetape5657 Год назад +15

      @@marilyncausey9348 I haven’t heard of this case. Poor thing, I’ll have to look it up. I’ll keep her in my prayers and thoughts 😢 That is so sad. I don’t understand how parents can act like this. If my dog went missing, I would do everything in my power to find him. Posters, telling everyone I know, all my neighbors, etc. I would be so beyond devastated. But a child? I don’t have children yet. But if my dog means so much to me, I can’t even imagine the love and bond between parent and child. Shame on those parents!!!!!!

    • @marilyncausey9348
      @marilyncausey9348 Год назад +9

      @@thetape5657 I agree, Dahlia! Madalina is missing from NC and it is a crime in NC to fail to report your child missing, so that's what they've charged the parents with so far.

    • @stillwaters7730
      @stillwaters7730 Год назад +7

      Thank you for keeping Madelina's name OUT THERE, WE WILL MOT FORGET THESE INNOCENT CHILDREN. 🙏❤️💯

    • @ElaAusDemTal
      @ElaAusDemTal Год назад +4

      Caylee, with a C.

  • @ericajones1931
    @ericajones1931 Год назад +6

    My god today. This is Mind Blowing! And the mom and sister have a story for EVERYTHING! I can’t!

  • @CristinaDavalos1127
    @CristinaDavalos1127 Год назад +24

    Just now watching this episode after Lori's trial. Its infuriating how delusional Summer and Lori's mother were. Later, during the trial, Summer charged her tune when the children were found on Chad's property. What mother would be dancing and having the time of her life on a beach in Kauai while her children are no where to be found???
    The whole family is whack!

    • @lynahiacampbell8232
      @lynahiacampbell8232 Год назад +2

      I think they just couldn’t believe she could do that as she was a very good mother before she met that Chad

  • @theharringtons2010
    @theharringtons2010 Год назад +84

    The grand parents must be absolutely devastated...hearing the grandfather speaking brought me to tears...

  • @nikkininja29
    @nikkininja29 Год назад +165

    31:00 THANK YOU!!!!!! The service dog Bailey, was definitely a huge concern for me & many, that no one ever brought up! She tried to sell him on craigslist!!! Justice for tylee jj tammy and charles

    • @haileyg2620
      @haileyg2620 Год назад +14

      I hope Bailey is with a loving family now!!!😢

    • @nikkininja29
      @nikkininja29 Год назад +25

      @@haileyg2620 he was quickly rehoused & was put to work right away with a new family. :-) - says sources

    • @JoesCaribbeanVanLife
      @JoesCaribbeanVanLife Год назад +11

      ​@Nikki S. Thanx for the doggy update.

    • @jackmeeks2294
      @jackmeeks2294 Год назад +4

      Lol umm 31:27 but close enough I guess

    • @marygoff3332
      @marygoff3332 Год назад +18

      I have raised and trained REAL service dogs for over a decade.
      I cannot tell you how exceedingly rare it is for a family or person to relinquish a service dog.
      They are worth $25-50K and people appreciate them and treat them like family members - not give them away!

  • @shelbyjohnston1521
    @shelbyjohnston1521 Год назад +3

    Well, the interview with the mom and sister sure didn’t age well

  • @micheletotton9342
    @micheletotton9342 Год назад +4

    Think this should be updated

  • @SouthernGyrl
    @SouthernGyrl Год назад +88

    The fact her mom & sister trying to lie for her is crazy. They know she did something to them kids especially after asking her friend to leave her kids

  • @indoorcat249
    @indoorcat249 Год назад +47

    For anyone wondering, they found the bodies of Tylee and JJ in 2020, on June 9th

    • @Kadijatou
      @Kadijatou Год назад

      where ???

    • @NerdyMandy
      @NerdyMandy Год назад +7

      @@Kadijatou I believe it was on Chad’s property.

    • @dianawatton7570
      @dianawatton7570 Год назад

      They are in a better place with Charles! R I P

    • @JackieOlantern
      @JackieOlantern Год назад

      @@dianawatton7570 Yep… and their mother, Chad & Alex probably will not be joining them… 👺

    • @sequillawilliams8809
      @sequillawilliams8809 2 месяца назад

      They have a update on this channel

  • @verasamburova6000
    @verasamburova6000 10 месяцев назад +4

    Lori's sister and mom are so out of this world...

  • @fearlessEm
    @fearlessEm Год назад +7

    It's so sad when parents just can't accept what their children have done

  • @actionsammy1
    @actionsammy1 Год назад +121

    I was sickened to my stomach over the way her mom and sister steadfastly defended her. They acted as though the whole thing was absurd. Almost makes me wonder if they also had a hand in the children's disappearance as well as the murders Lori is believed to be involved with. Either that or they definitely know something.

    • @dfinite4089
      @dfinite4089 Год назад +6

      Isn’t that the most frightening thing about psychopaths? That no one can recognize them as murderous, before they commit their heinous acts?

    • @bambinaforever5720
      @bambinaforever5720 Год назад +2

      @@dfinite4089 after watching her interrogation she is full blown up psycho

    • @sumayaali1756
      @sumayaali1756 Год назад +1

      they know about it.

    • @mr.sherlockholmes6130
      @mr.sherlockholmes6130 10 дней назад

      I agree this woman and her brother are killers . Lori killed her children and had her husband killed . Then she married a killer . A psychopath and a psychopath getting married. Both were killed . This is sickening my God what are we seeing here

  • @ziggityzag1268
    @ziggityzag1268 Год назад +76

    Lori’s mom and sister are in total denial. It’s scary and sad.

  • @lyndiwilson2334
    @lyndiwilson2334 Год назад +5

    So sad watching this now. Especially her sister, she was trying so hard to believe what she was saying. Now she knows

  • @marleneg7794
    @marleneg7794 Год назад +4

    Summer came to see the truth about her sister in the end.

  • @sktbug6833
    @sktbug6833 Год назад +125

    I bet mom and sister felt stupid when the kids bodies were found.

    • @Lady_Angela1
      @Lady_Angela1 Год назад +24

      Cuz they are.

    • @Twistedmiss
      @Twistedmiss Год назад +9

      They probably had a great excuse for that too dreamed up... God bless and protect those kids in heaven.

    • @jeaninekisby8590
      @jeaninekisby8590 Год назад +8

      They don't care.

    • @Stephaniewashere
      @Stephaniewashere Год назад +7

      Just looking at all three women gives me the creeps

  • @KathyAnne28
    @KathyAnne28 Год назад +134

    Her eldest son is heartbreaking to listen to. I've seen a special that broke me, hearing him ask his mother where they are then when they were found, WHY? He knows she knows what happened. I'm just so glad he has his own life and loved ones now. I hope LV and CD are both brought to justice.

  • @bronwyn117
    @bronwyn117 Месяц назад +2

    The denial is astounding. So sad.

  • @musicmaiden1412
    @musicmaiden1412 Год назад +5

    Tylee seems like such a sweet, loving sister. Beautiful heart. What a loss 😢

  • @sngray11
    @sngray11 Год назад +259

    I really hope that Tylee and JJ receive the justice that they deserve. 💞 I have been following this case since the beginning. I am sending strength, prayers, and positive vibes to their grandparents and for everyone that loved and cared for Tylee and JJ as they go through the arduous judicial process. Rest in peace Tylee and JJ. 💗

    • @rn4l62
      @rn4l62 Год назад +4

      💜🙏🏻💙

    • @lindsaychinchilla2024
      @lindsaychinchilla2024 Год назад +16

      Im confused didn’t they find remains on the daybell farm ? I thought that happened that they were buried in the pet cemetery.. or is that another case ??

    • @vegskater1741
      @vegskater1741 Год назад +3

      @@lindsaychinchilla2024 I was going to say the same thing.

    • @poppet229
      @poppet229 Год назад +1

      @@lindsaychinchilla2024 yes in their garden the case is starting in a couple of weeks it’s going to be on the law needs

    • @vwchick24
      @vwchick24 Год назад +5

      You’d think after 4 years they’d have justice but no. Not even grandma and aunt care that they’re gone. They have to know somewhere in their insanity those babies are gone because of their mother. Lori is a monster. She’s pure evil. They’re in lala land. Alex was just as evil and crazy.
      This case makes me so sick. I can’t say what I want to say because I’m a Christian woman. What I want to say is evil because these were innocent babies. Who returns a service dog? Stockpiling medicine? You can’t stockpile controlled medication. The mom and aunt are just as much as lunatic enablers as the brother was. There’s so many victims in this case but it’s not Lori, Chad or Alex.
      May JJ, Tylee, Charles and Tammy rest in peace and get the justice they do deserve. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
      🕊️🕯️🕊️🕯️🕊️🕯️🕊️🕯️

  • @thelords3394
    @thelords3394 Год назад +40

    Chad Daybell was crazy but he picked another level of crazy in Lori.

    • @tundrawomansays694
      @tundrawomansays694 Год назад +1

      If they didn’t find one another, they would have found someone else just like themselves.

  • @greeneyedsoutherngirl6468
    @greeneyedsoutherngirl6468 19 дней назад +1

    Shout out to Nate Eaton-a reporter with a heart that is authentic and was asking the questions we ALL wanted answered!

  • @CEB731
    @CEB731 Год назад +4

    Looks like the apple doesn't fall too far the tree...Her mom and sister are despicable and could careless about the children either.

  • @billycausgrove9657
    @billycausgrove9657 Год назад +55

    Mom and sister are such Codependent Enablers full of denial and excuses!

    • @JERSEYTOMATO
      @JERSEYTOMATO Год назад +1

      Yeah - they had a prepared- excuse for all -

  • @simcastpodvids
    @simcastpodvids Год назад +249

    It's so tragic and sad that the Lori Vallow Daybell trial is not being televised. The public need to see inside that court room. JUSTICE FOR TYLEE AND JJ, TAMMY AND CHARLES.

    • @ronyalemerrill
      @ronyalemerrill Год назад +3

      Pretty sure it will be on Court TV

    • @Amanda---
      @Amanda--- Год назад +25

      @@ronyalemerrill No, the judge denied cameras. It is however being audiorecorded by EastIdaho News and it's up on their channel. Summer's EX Husband Brandon just testified. It was really sad.

    • @hanselmansell7555
      @hanselmansell7555 Год назад +14

      Not exactly tragic, annoying for us crime junkies maybe. Not sure about court TV tbh 🤔

    • @cheeky6397
      @cheeky6397 Год назад +4

      ​@@Amanda--- thank you

    • @EzraWilliamsPresents
      @EzraWilliamsPresents Год назад +9

      There are hours and hours of it available on RUclips.

  • @justme8274
    @justme8274 Год назад +15

    I didn’t realize the her ex husband was filing for divorce and sole custody of the kids. He should of had those kids, then she could be free and runn off and do what ever she wanted without hurting them. I’m wondering if it was her ego that wouldn’t allow that to happen or that fact that she was collecting multiple checks from the kids. Just sick

    • @Ausgar-yc1yl
      @Ausgar-yc1yl 4 месяца назад

      He called off the divorce and he was not trying to get custody of Tylee, she was NOT his daughter.

    • @Ausgar-yc1yl
      @Ausgar-yc1yl 4 месяца назад

      Charles was also NOT her EX husband.

  • @prairiepetresort1698
    @prairiepetresort1698 Год назад +4

    Well this didn’t age well did it Mom and Sister 🤬

  • @adebocook
    @adebocook Год назад +72

    Someone please get her sister and Mom in therapy immediately, good grief 🙄

  • @nailsandny6894
    @nailsandny6894 Год назад +136

    I love my siblings but imagine being faced with all these facts, not being able to find your niece and nephew AND your sister not telling you anything, and still decided to do an interview in your sisters defense? I would NEVER. I hope these children are found ❤

    • @JoesCaribbeanVanLife
      @JoesCaribbeanVanLife Год назад +27

      They were found burried in Chad's house in 2020. This episode is old. (Source: another comment here)

    • @katrinahetherington3425
      @katrinahetherington3425 Год назад +18

      Her trial for their murders is going on right now.

    • @darcyjeanske821
      @darcyjeanske821 Год назад +18

      ​@Caribbean Joe's found buried on her and Chad's property - at the back of the property line, several acres from their home. Basically, they lined the kids' shallow graves with rocks. One of the children's bodies had evidence of an attempt to be burned, but this was ditched and they were buried instead. Awful. I hope that he's found guilty for killing his wife and they- he and Laurie, rot in the underworld together.

    • @nailsandny6894
      @nailsandny6894 Год назад +4

      @@JoesCaribbeanVanLife they only uploaded this video yesterday so that’s the channels fault. But it still remains it’s a weird thing for the family to do.

    • @einienj3281
      @einienj3281 Год назад +7

      Same. I love my sisters, but if my nieces and nephew went missing and they wouldn't tell me anything, I'd beat the information out of them!

  • @ginachenney5733
    @ginachenney5733 Год назад +5

    Summer and Janice are so delusional it makes me sick

  • @scottdavidson526
    @scottdavidson526 Год назад +2

    Her brother died under suspicious circumstances as well.

  • @njohnson1187
    @njohnson1187 Год назад +42

    I tell people all the time no matter how long you’ve known a person I don’t care if it’s been 38 years you NEVER really know them you only know who they want you to know!!!!!

    • @Womanfemale12
      @Womanfemale12 Год назад

      Depends. Depends if they've been reborn again and found God

    • @metteschreinerberge5541
      @metteschreinerberge5541 Год назад +2

      I disagree. Actions tell more than words. So, if someone has been a good person all of his/ her life, they most likely will continue to be that person. As humans, we need to be connected to other humans. To live in solitude because you always have to be on guard - well, that is not a way to happiness, that's for sure.

  • @lermabomo-onglawrence2927
    @lermabomo-onglawrence2927 Год назад +55

    How could a mother not worrying about what happened to her kids. It only shows that she had something to do with their disappearances🙏🙏🙏

  • @VictoriaMarch13
    @VictoriaMarch13 Год назад +4

    Literally everything the mom and sister said was proven to be lies. Apparently they didn't know Lori quite as well as they thought they did.

  • @Alison-ku5ko
    @Alison-ku5ko 2 месяца назад +4

    These women don’t care about anything other then attempting to do damage control to the family reputation.

  • @wendywobbles1
    @wendywobbles1 Год назад +59

    She is NOT a loving mother as her mother and sister say, she is and always has been a manipulative and deranged woman who was getting older and wanted to keep her lifestyle of being revered and she found the perfect accomplice in Chad. Did they know her brother was dying? I really hope we get the answers. Not one tear has fell from her at all, she hasn't got a heart but a swinging brick

  • @amandaowens2016
    @amandaowens2016 Год назад +32

    The paternal grandparents put up a reward but not the maternal .Shows me who really cares 😉

    • @cocksure8430
      @cocksure8430 Год назад +2

      She spoke to a dead child on the phone.....thats a lie, thats complicit.

  • @gerdalyngillings2965
    @gerdalyngillings2965 Год назад +4

    Why do families protect and hide the wrongs of family members? It’s just disgusting to hear them

  • @sherlock8799
    @sherlock8799 11 месяцев назад +2

    Is it just me, or does the fact that the mother says "they are safe" and doesn't mention anything about being alive is concerning

  • @franny607
    @franny607 Год назад +93

    She is a monster and deserve to be in prison ,I think it's still ridiculous that her trial is locked for the public

    • @nellaroxanne826
      @nellaroxanne826 Год назад +3

      It's cause they're gonna give her mercy.

    • @darcyjeanske821
      @darcyjeanske821 Год назад

      Chad needs to fry for this as well. Her poor children do deserve privacy. We'll find out the details at some point. To give her this attention is just boasting her ego even more.

    • @kellyngrey4950
      @kellyngrey4950 Год назад +4

      It's not locked - just that no cameras are allowed in the courtroom. But they are publishing the audio, in full. (With the exception being that if one of the lawyers asks for a sidebar, they mute that because they legally have to. What the lawyers and judge say at the side bar is private. That's not some kind of sneaky trick.)

    • @Brenda-in8bd
      @Brenda-in8bd Год назад

      They deserve the death penalty

  • @erikaleonard2848
    @erikaleonard2848 Год назад +154

    Very glad her trial has started. Not surprised her only living son hasn't been in attendance at court so far. She broke his heart into tiny pieces. To hear Chad refer to Lori as an empty nester to his parents was disgusting and gave me chills. 😮💔🥺💔😔

    • @gaiagreen2690
      @gaiagreen2690 Год назад +6

      I didn't know he said that. Could you give a link, please? I am interested to hear his version of why he did all he did.

    • @nappssnapps2891
      @nappssnapps2891 Год назад +26

      what is even sicker is that the police let this insane woman live out her life without showing her children are alive. she was not forced at all to show them her kids. but i bet if she wasnt a beautiful white woman, she would of been charged along time ago. this screams privilege to me.

    • @therealz360z7
      @therealz360z7 Год назад +3

      He young he's got kids im sure if he could afford to take six weeks off he might then again I don't know if anyone would want to hear what all his mom did.

    • @therealz360z7
      @therealz360z7 Год назад +4

      @Leena Wexler that doesn't mean he isn't still obligated to pay child support, just because they're no longer together doesn't mean the kids don't need fed and a roof over their head.

    • @katherineharvey5663
      @katherineharvey5663 Год назад +3

      And now she is pretending to be devasted. I hope the jury does not fall for it

  • @jessicaponticello8937
    @jessicaponticello8937 Год назад +4

    I do believe her sisters feelings have changed dramatically since this one interview! She finally sees Lori clearly for heartless monster she is! Her testimony broke my heart at loris trial! She’s devastated!

  • @mwillis7791
    @mwillis7791 Год назад +22

    This episode aired 2 years ago. I wonder how her family feels now.

  • @lorny4u
    @lorny4u Год назад +22

    Justice for all their victims.🙏 watching from Scotland. 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

  • @michellestewart9948
    @michellestewart9948 Год назад +3

    Wow. Craziest reality life events I ever heard of in 55 years😔

  • @mariannejohannessen9751
    @mariannejohannessen9751 Год назад +2

    Thanks for this update of this case a case i will never forget 😢

  • @loricrawford1952
    @loricrawford1952 Год назад +28

    What on earth did Lori see in this guy, enough to abandon her husband and family, and have them killed?! I don''t understand how people can fall into this kind of delusion and have it completely turn them into different people.

  • @TandC9876
    @TandC9876 Год назад +41

    I think they took the kids to Yellowstone to check it out and see if they could dispose of kids there. So many people there, federal land etc. they both died shortly after this trip.

  • @chrisdavis723
    @chrisdavis723 Год назад +4

    As I’m watching this the news article pops up on my phone (crazy coincidence). GUILTY!! Not shocked this woman is pure evil I hope she rots in jail forever

    • @TeddyLovesAxl
      @TeddyLovesAxl Год назад +1

      ⚖️Justice has been served!⚖️

  • @virgettadrinnen9957
    @virgettadrinnen9957 Год назад +4

    This grandmother and her MiMi statement gave me chills, like she is important. This apple dropped close to the ground

  • @lunalovegood9740
    @lunalovegood9740 Год назад +28

    So according to Lori's mom and sister, everyone else is lying and there's nothing sus about any of this? 🤨🤣

  • @lisaswrld
    @lisaswrld Год назад +63

    For the mother & sister to accept what Lori has done, would mean their entire existence would explode … I don’t believe they can handle it. The depths of their denial & delusion is scary.

    • @pilsers12
      @pilsers12 Год назад +2

      They know rhe truth and are covering her lies

    • @dfinite4089
      @dfinite4089 Год назад +1

      I agree. I don’t think any of us, could recognize such psychopathy, behind the mask, of our close family members. Lori isn’t what we perceive as a murderous ‘monster’.In her behavior and interactions with her family; I don’t think Lori gave any obvious indications, that she was so vile.

  • @jeffreyzeiss1326
    @jeffreyzeiss1326 Год назад +3

    Prayers justice is served not only for the children but for her first husband's family and her second husband wife's family. All these people murdered or missing and she's the common denominator

  • @Annonymight
    @Annonymight Год назад +5

    Her sister and mom's comments aged badly....sometimes love is holding your loved ones accountable 😖