Vivica Fox already had her wake up call 12 years ago already when she waisted her last best opportunity was with a local Atlanta party promoter Slimm who was phyiscally fit, attractive & popular. Despite the 17 year age gap between them he ultimately called off the engagement because she is difficult to be with. No man with status is willing to deal with her shananigans at her big age. she’s too stubborn too change now.
She had her cake and ate it. Opportunity cost. She made all of her own choices. She helped create and molded today's culture. She made her choices and took a firm stance on it, now she's tired and want to rewrite the rules, no ma'am enjoy her rewards she worked hard for. 👍🏿
Very honest analysis. I agree with you, true humility is the secret sauce that is so rare in today's times. The entitlement, bravado and veneer of confidence many ppl display is instant turn-off. This is Vivica's primary issue.
You are beautiful either way. But with you being so aware of yourself is why we listen and learn and at the same time thirst on your page. With all do respect of course. Men look for women with your kind of mindset. 😊 peace and bless.
In the story of Ruth and Boaz, Naomi (Ruth’s mother in-law) could’ve went after Boaz herself being that it’s likely they were closer in age, but instead, Naomi stepped aside and instructed Ruth on how to draw his attention. Naomi had been married, and she’d had two sons, however they all passed away. In Biblical culture, once a woman had been married (lost her virginity) and had kids, she was done on the “dating market”. These days, it seems many women are fighting against the fact that men (and society as a whole) put a lot of value in youthful beauty, but there’s no getting around the truth that beautiful, young women are a hot commodity, it is what it is. Older women should be teaching younger women how to “maximize” their youthfulness, but instead, older women are desperately trying to reverse the clock and stay relevant. Vivica Fox was definitely a baddie back in the day, loved her in “Independence Day”, but it’s sad to see her now being an ambassador for women living in delusion.
I'll go further. It's mothers out here actively (but of course subtly) sabotaging their daughters to prevent them from getting the men that both sets of women want. Truly a nasty set of work.
@@jasonBGIThat is evil but I’ve seen the opposite. My gf who is older than me encouraged her daughters to get with men and have their babies….that’s evil work too imho because the youngest baby mama of one told me that she would’ve never had children so soon if not for her Mother constantly pushing her to have a baby. Of course she’s single now because he cheated.. Many males are simply not ready to holdup their end of a relationship and monogamy especially under age 30 and the reality is that no one wants an unattractive or broke mate so the attractive males or ones with money often cheat. That’s reality didn’t need to reference a book for this. A good mother tells her daughters the truth. Which is get the best man that you can land and make sure he has something to lose. Also find out his family history so that you are not breeding miniproblems with either the mental or the physical. Also ask yourself?..WHY? Do I want a mate? Companionship? A second income? A first income? A good father for my children? Make sure you pick a good father if you want children but beware some men change after that baby gets here but I wanna believe that in a year or two of real dating…a woman not in lalaland and with a purpose should be seeing any signs of him being jealous or selfish or a weirdo. Ask yourself why you do anything or you think about doing something? My point is that there are some rules to relationships but my most important rule is this: know why you desire a relationship to begin with.
African men love curvacious women. At my heaviest, when I visit the motherland guys will constantly come to me. From good looking young men to corporate men. It's insane how the beauty standards are different in the African continent. I have been on a new health/ weightloss journey since March and lost 23lbs. I have 50lbs more to go. I am feeling so much better physically and mentally losing the weight. Here in the west I am feeling completely invisible being plus size. When I am at a healthy weight, it's day and night. Men approach me more.
They can tell you not from around there, you stick out like a sore thumb, they know you from the west or america, They see money. You could been 98lbs they would stll be all over you. Same thing in Jamiaca.
I disagree, Vivica does not look good after all the plastic surgery. Also anyone dating Vivica is dating the celebrity and public figure not the the real person. All Vivica mentioned in that interview was shopping and spending money, absolutely nothing about being with at person and growing because she does not have that in her personality. Vivica still thinks she is the 30 year old version of herself. No man of value wants her lets be honest. If men wanted her she would not have to come on talk shows to claim she is single and looking to date.
This is a truly sad commentary of how to self sabotage and waste youth/ beauty. I'll never forget seeing Vivica Fox in Independence Day as a 13 year old at the theaters. Needless to say, she was a 10 (to me) then. What's also sad is that she's not the only one: I've seen beautiful women like her either spend their later years single or get into relationships settling (which is subjective, but what's not subjective is a woman getting married past her prime child bearing years). The last thing Vivica should teach us is that beauty (in terms of being highly sought after for marriage, companionship, making families, etc...) is temporary in the scheme of things; but character and integrity are lasting. This is why when men say women like Vivica have hit the wall, we don't say it (for the most part) maliciously. You can't go back and be 20 again, nor can't you go back in time as a do over. I hope the ladies who watch this video understand the true value of themselves and not to squander it.
How sad. Vivica (no longer) A. Fox spoke like a 60 year old adolescent. Still chasing the impossible long after hitting the wall like a crash dummy. She's wealthy and either could buy a young man (I hope not) or just enjoy the fruits of her labor.
Wealthy and still doesn’t realize that the kind of man she’s looking for is not concerned at all with her money. We could care less. We already have that.
The reality is this: It would take an average man with extremely low self esteem to think that dating Vivica, at this stage of her life, is a hit. In her “Independence Day” years, she looked stunning. But now that ship has sailed. It’s not hard to find an everyday 40 or even 50 year old woman that looks way better than Vivica.
"A man who isn't intimidated by me" = a man who is so intimidated by her that he plays the beta male, does her bidding and asks for very little in return.
Kevin Samuels called it, and black women like Kendra and Vivica who were his loudest critics are exactly who his message exposed as we see now, Kendra plagiarized his show to make money from black women, and Vivica can no longer run away from the winter, both of them validating everything he said.
Vivica looks like (goro) that 4 arm monster on mortal combat with her hair pulled back that with that pony tail ! Its over for Vivica when its comes to a high value man that she's looking for ! If somebody wanted her she would have been of the market by now ! The wall
She can always get a face transplant if manufactured beauty is to be taken seriously. A face transplant can be the next frontier in beauty behind the bbl.
Vivica looks horrible, her attitude and energy is even worse and was washed up after 50 cent dumped her. The men she wants do not look at her nor judge her through the same lens that you do. She's 60! She's done!
The woman said what she wanted and got disrespected by her own community for what? She's unproblematic and represents BP well. Plus.... some folks in the comments really shouldn't speak on looks. What do the women of yalls family look like😂
I do not feel sorry for Vivica . She has turned down countless men in her prime. He wasn't this he wasn't that. Noooow she wants to settle down. The streets get them in their prime the good guys get them in their decline.
Vivica Fox already had her wake up call 12 years ago already when she waisted her last best opportunity was with a local Atlanta party promoter Slimm who was phyiscally fit, attractive & popular. Despite the 17 year age gap between them he ultimately called off the engagement because she is difficult to be with. No man with status is willing to deal with her shananigans at her big age. she’s too stubborn too change now.
Vivica is definitely seasoned but not dead. I wish her the best in finding a man who will love her even at her age and for who she really is.
She should move in silence from now on. The interview did not portray her in a good light. I really wish her well in finding the right man.
She had her cake and ate it.
Opportunity cost.
She made all of her own choices.
She helped create and molded today's culture.
She made her choices and took a firm stance on it, now she's tired and want to rewrite the rules, no ma'am enjoy her rewards she worked hard for. 👍🏿
Very honest analysis. I agree with you, true humility is the secret sauce that is so rare in today's times. The entitlement, bravado and veneer of confidence many ppl display is instant turn-off. This is Vivica's primary issue.
60 is the new 80.😊
You are beautiful either way. But with you being so aware of yourself is why we listen and learn and at the same time thirst on your page. With all do respect of course. Men look for women with your kind of mindset. 😊 peace and bless.
Thank you! 🙏🏾
In the story of Ruth and Boaz, Naomi (Ruth’s mother in-law) could’ve went after Boaz herself being that it’s likely they were closer in age, but instead, Naomi stepped aside and instructed Ruth on how to draw his attention. Naomi had been married, and she’d had two sons, however they all passed away. In Biblical culture, once a woman had been married (lost her virginity) and had kids, she was done on the “dating market”. These days, it seems many women are fighting against the fact that men (and society as a whole) put a lot of value in youthful beauty, but there’s no getting around the truth that beautiful, young women are a hot commodity, it is what it is. Older women should be teaching younger women how to “maximize” their youthfulness, but instead, older women are desperately trying to reverse the clock and stay relevant. Vivica Fox was definitely a baddie back in the day, loved her in “Independence Day”, but it’s sad to see her now being an ambassador for women living in delusion.
I'll go further. It's mothers out here actively (but of course subtly) sabotaging their daughters to prevent them from getting the men that both sets of women want.
Truly a nasty set of work.
As much I love black women, they slick breaking my heart. @@jasonBGI
@@jasonBGIThat is evil but I’ve seen the opposite. My gf who is older than me encouraged her daughters to get with men and have their babies….that’s evil work too imho because the youngest baby mama of one told me that she would’ve never had children so soon if not for her Mother constantly pushing her to have a baby. Of course she’s single now because he cheated.. Many males are simply not ready to holdup their end of a relationship and monogamy especially under age 30 and the reality is that no one wants an unattractive or broke mate so the attractive males or ones with money often cheat. That’s reality didn’t need to reference a book for this. A good mother tells her daughters the truth. Which is get the best man that you can land and make sure he has something to lose. Also find out his family history so that you are not breeding miniproblems with either the mental or the physical. Also ask yourself?..WHY? Do I want a mate? Companionship? A second income? A first income? A good father for my children? Make sure you pick a good father if you want children but beware some men change after that baby gets here but I wanna believe that in a year or two of real dating…a woman not in lalaland and with a purpose should be seeing any signs of him being jealous or selfish or a weirdo. Ask yourself why you do anything or you think about doing something? My point is that there are some rules to relationships but my most important rule is this: know why you desire a relationship to begin with.
This is sad. I wouldn’t dare be sitting there at that age talking like that.
That’s just delusion you’re seeing in Vivica A Fox. She’s had more y than enough of opportunity and squandered them.
African men love curvacious women. At my heaviest, when I visit the motherland guys will constantly come to me. From good looking young men to corporate men. It's insane how the beauty standards are different in the African continent. I have been on a new health/ weightloss journey since March and lost 23lbs. I have 50lbs more to go. I am feeling so much better physically and mentally losing the weight. Here in the west I am feeling completely invisible being plus size. When I am at a healthy weight, it's day and night. Men approach me more.
They can tell you not from around there, you stick out like a sore thumb, they know you from the west or america, They see money.
You could been 98lbs they would stll be all over you. Same thing in Jamiaca.
Not true at all.
@@demetriusevans4139 all my African home boys love slim girls
@@genovasquez8361it’s the same in the US after they’ve received their green cards lmao
Nah madame, they see a green card and dollars. I am from the motherland.
I disagree, Vivica does not look good after all the plastic surgery. Also anyone dating Vivica is dating the celebrity and public figure not the the real person. All Vivica mentioned in that interview was shopping and spending money, absolutely nothing about being with at person and growing because she does not have that in her personality. Vivica still thinks she is the 30 year old version of herself. No man of value wants her lets be honest. If men wanted her she would not have to come on talk shows to claim she is single and looking to date.
Exactly!
Good point.
Well put.
Facts!!! This is cautionary tale!!! Smh
This is a truly sad commentary of how to self sabotage and waste youth/ beauty. I'll never forget seeing Vivica Fox in Independence Day as a 13 year old at the theaters. Needless to say, she was a 10 (to me) then.
What's also sad is that she's not the only one: I've seen beautiful women like her either spend their later years single or get into relationships settling (which is subjective, but what's not subjective is a woman getting married past her prime child bearing years).
The last thing Vivica should teach us is that beauty (in terms of being highly sought after for marriage, companionship, making families, etc...) is temporary in the scheme of things; but character and integrity are lasting. This is why when men say women like Vivica have hit the wall, we don't say it (for the most part) maliciously. You can't go back and be 20 again, nor can't you go back in time as a do over. I hope the ladies who watch this video understand the true value of themselves and not to squander it.
This was very interesting 🙏
She hit the wall when Bill Clinton was President
Milk was 89 cents back then
I said 15 but youre right...bout 20-25
thats cold
....no ..watch Independence Day again ...but once she hit it, she busted it wide open.....she at the wall like them dudes in black on game of thrones
😂😂Dammn!!
You are a very insightful and wise young lady.
How sad. Vivica (no longer) A. Fox spoke like a 60 year old adolescent. Still chasing the impossible long after hitting the wall like a crash dummy. She's wealthy and either could buy a young man (I hope not) or just enjoy the fruits of her labor.
That was very creative what you did with Vivica's name 🤣
Wealthy and still doesn’t realize that the kind of man she’s looking for is not concerned at all with her money. We could care less. We already have that.
I doubt that she's wealthy. She hasn't been a movie star for a good 15+ years. She's doing lifetime movies. Most women spend all of their money.
@@bensisko-theemissary4940Exactly. 50 was unphased.
@@bensisko-theemissary4940 Exactly 👊🏿. They never learn.
This was great 👍🏾 i enjoyed your perspective. Fair and balanced. Not something we hear nowadays.
I think your 100 % correct sister ,well said..
You said a lot of words just to say FACE REALITY. How exhausting that is for most men to talk with women in the West.
She legitimately hit the wall 15 years ago...her inside voice is coming outside these days!
When she told the white ladies if they themselves have a friend "I'm good." I was taken back. Shorty sounded wide open.
The reality is this: It would take an average man with extremely low self esteem to think that dating Vivica, at this stage of her life, is a hit. In her “Independence Day” years, she looked stunning. But now that ship has sailed. It’s not hard to find an everyday 40 or even 50 year old woman that looks way better than Vivica.
All I have to say to "V" is good luck, and not only to her, but any other woman who is in the same situation.
"A man who isn't intimidated by me" = a man who is so intimidated by her that he plays the beta male, does her bidding and asks for very little in return.
Asks for NOTHING in return 👍🏽
Yep you got it.
50 didn't play that.
It’s “a place of feeling unwanted” by the ones you want not the ones who want you ha.
Sister Nneka what makes you so attractive is your mature mindset and your realness.
Thank you for the compliment. 🙏🏾😊
Love your channel Lady! Keep up the good work 😊💗💐
Thank you so much for watching and commenting! 🙏🏾🤗
Her expiration date is waaaaaaayyyy past its time!
I pray and hope she finds someone to love her
Sad how they wait so long. Go shopping to buy garbage!
Women need to stop ✋️ saying they are Settling or dating down but understand make the best deal possible.
I was going to sit and watch this whole video but the minute this woman says Vivica looks good at 60 (with her fake face) that was it.
Ohhh..Vivica knows she is 60yrs old...that "check engine" light hits different now.
😅
Kevin Samuels called it, and black women like Kendra and Vivica who were his loudest critics are exactly who his message exposed as we see now, Kendra plagiarized his show to make money from black women, and Vivica can no longer run away from the winter, both of them validating everything he said.
Plastic surgery is exactly what it says on the tin. You end up looking like Plastic
Vivica looks like (goro) that 4 arm monster on mortal combat with her hair pulled back that with that pony tail ! Its over for Vivica when its comes to a high value man that she's looking for ! If somebody wanted her she would have been of the market by now ! The wall
😂😂😂
Preached a whole word 👏🏾 🙌🏾
Humility.🎯
She is a party woman and she had her fun. She could not be controlled or settle.
It's the mentality and attitude
I’m 57 and Vivica is very winded and needs to exercise and take better care of herself, because that’s the only thing wrong with her.
Delusional. Single women keep women single.
She can always get a face transplant if manufactured beauty is to be taken seriously. A face transplant can be the next frontier in beauty behind the bbl.
Yes, I’m constantly asking myself, how old am I lol (over 40) but definitely feel like I’m in my late 30s lol
She had surgery on her face.
Yes vivica messed with her face and got alil bigger, but shes still pretty and has no wrinkles.
Vivica looks horrible, her attitude and energy is even worse and was washed up after 50 cent dumped her. The men she wants do not look at her nor judge her through the same lens that you do. She's 60! She's done!
What do rate Vivica on a scale of 1 to 10. For reference, Lorey Harvey is 9
At full speed
Looks last about 20 yrs. Character is supposed to compensate afterward.
The woman said what she wanted and got disrespected by her own community for what? She's unproblematic and represents BP well. Plus.... some folks in the comments really shouldn't speak on looks. What do the women of yalls family look like😂
I do not feel sorry for Vivica . She has turned down countless men in her prime. He wasn't this he wasn't that. Noooow she wants to settle down. The streets get them in their prime the good guys get them in their decline.
Look at a females hands, them claws will let you know about how old she is
Nasty work here
She waited to open up her otions to other races of men TOO LATE.
You really believe she waited to open up her options? Shes just now willing to be seen in the public with a non-black man now.
No man of any race will stay with a woman who wants to wear the pants in a relationship.
Vivica was married once but she wanted to wear the pants per her book. They divorced after a year or two i believe