I wish my daughter had the drive you do. My grandson was born in prison 3 years ago. My daughter was in on drug charges among other things. She had 7 to 10 felony charges. She was released from prison 2 years ago. I have full sole legal custody of him. He calls me mama, he doesn’t know his mother. I let him decide what to call me on his own. I still hope that one day she will be in recovery before it’s too late. I’ve not heard from her in over a year and this little boy has no idea who she is if she would walk up to him, she’s just another stranger. She also has a 6 year old son who is with his other grandma. I’m almost 50 and had the 3 year old since h was born, I picked him up from the state hospital and never ever saw her during the process it wasn’t allowed so I got him straight from the nursery. She promised to get her life straight and get her sons back when she got out but that hasn’t happened. Please pray for her, me and these 2 boys. I will pray for you sweetheart you are an amazing mother and person!
Ms. Kyrissie, your strength probably goes unnoticed during day-to-day life- but i want you to know that i, stranger on the internet, hear you and feel your pain. there really should be widespread support groups for grandparents who care for their sick children’s children. thinking fondly of you, your grandbabies, and your daughters recovery xx
I did CPS casework for 3 years and I want you to know that you are the rare person that makes a caseworker want to keep working that job. So much of the time you feel like you are spinning your wheels with a reunification. Then someone like you comes along and makes it all worthwhile again. I'm so happy for you and Micah and Reese and Riley. I wish it could work out like it has for you and your family with every case. I know they make it terrifically hard and sometimes more than is necessary, so just know that you are more of a success than you even realize.
I think it’s too hard in almost all ways and in the wrong ways. Like she needed for example gas cards, she needed to have one good job and tons of parenting support etc.
Jessica, I just got my fatherly rights back to my daughter I am so grateful and happy. I've been on probation for the last 3 years. I'm an addict and habitual relasper. I'm doing it differently this time around though.
@@amandadavis5198 thank you. Its been hard as hell. But after a brief 2 months in jail, and dealing with 6 charges, i realized if I changed now I'll get my daughter back and be happy. Or don't and do 2 years in prison and be miserable. Really it wasn't a hard choice.
I am so honored that the RUclips algorithm chose your channel to show up on my feet. You are truly an inspiration. I'm so proud of where you come and what you've accomplished. You are really amazing and your story is something that is still inspires so many people! I will never know what addiction is like and what you go through I'm sure on a daily basis but you have come through the smoke and fire and made it out of the worst. So proud of you
You just broke me with this: “The judge was telling me that I’m good enough to be her mother.” Oh, girl. You were always good enough. But I felt that. I could relate. Blessings to you and your precious family. 💙💜💙💜💙
I'm really shocked that American system makes people with felonies on their record jump through so many loops and rely on charity of others to get back on their feet 😓
Jessica, on behalf of all of your subscribers, I’d like to say...we are absolutely 100% so proud of you. You faced every obstacle thrown at you head on. Your story is living proof that starting a life out of prison is so hard. No one cuts you a break. No one trusts enough to give someone a chance. But you, Jessica, have demonstrated that it can be done, sleepless days & more. I’m so happy you can look at your little girl & know “I did this for us”. I’m going to go blow my nose yet again. So so damn happy for you all. ❤️
As someone who worked for dhs I can say you are so incredibly inspiring, strong and hardworking. So many parents can’t beat their addictions and demons for their children. Also I apologize for anything dhs did to wrong you because I know best sometimes they aren’t fighting for the parents success as they should be. ❤️
LessThn Thee I’m just curious . You as a former dhs worker , why do you make it so hard for people to get there kids back! It’s so unfair ! You break people hearts - rip families apart - and take away a child FROM THEIR OWN MOTHER . *how dare you* how dare you ! Take a child away from its mother! Who are you to decide where a child lives and with who. Disgusting.
joseph M I’ve taken children who were horrifyingly abused by their parents and would’ve died at their hand, I’ve taken sexual abused children from their parents who were the perpetrators. I’ve taken babies shaking from being born so drug addicted they can’t be at peace. I’ve taken kids who begged me to take them because they were terrified of their care takers. Not every dhs is the same, not every story is the same. Sorry I didn’t leave those kids there and if you think i should’ve left them there I don’t think anyone can talk sense into you. If you think every single child is unjustly taken and everyone is innocent you’re foolish. I CLEARLY stated I see the wrongdoings but you only saw I worked for dhs and decided to attack me.
@@knightthezero I want to support you, becausebyou are needed and must get a lot of hatred at the same time. Social workers failed me, but I understand that you are just people and can't see everything. (Imnspeaking from the point of view of child in need, so this is actually the opposite extreme...)
I’m September 2018 my boyfriend at the time was arrested for felony domestic battery on me. My two children were removed from my custody for failure to protect, today I got the call that I’m getting unsupervised visits after a year of fighting for them, I go to court next month and am praying for reunification. It’s been a struggle, I had to go get my own apartment, I walk to and from work 5 days a week to make sure I can maintain a loving home for my kids to come back to, it’s been the hardest year of my life. Thank you for sharing your story...
I lost my child when he was born he went straight to foster care after he was born. I just got him back last week and hes 3. I thank God he had good foster parents and his aunt took custody while I was using. But rebounds can happen!
When I heard you say that he said “okay I’ll give you a shot.” I literally teared up. There are good people out there. It sounds like it was not the nicest place, but who cares - YOU HAD A SHOT!!!!
As a foster parent, your story is amazing! I have only had a few parents make it, and I can't even imagine. The state is definitely frustrating. One thing you said about attachment, I've had a lot of kiddos that did the same thing. It just takes allot of support for her and reassurance. I've even had to tell older kids, that they are safe in their rooms and it's okay to sleep. Sometimes they just needed to hear that. Again, I'm VERY proud of you for your journey and doing what your baby deserves.
Yup, and as a fellow foster parent lots of support lacking for her to succeed. Where was her court appointed lawyer for the foster care? Where was *her* case worker to help her make sure she knew what she had to do for the case plan and the steps? Where was transportation to try and make the visits a little easier on her (4 hours one way)? Glad she got the daycare vouchers, though.
What a remorseless system. That even someone as intelligent, resourceful and tenacious as you should have struggled so hard through so many obstacles shows why many do not have such a happy outcome. As with so many of your videos, I wish some people in government would see them, to appreciate the human reality! I'm just glad that the judge, at least, gave you credit for your massive achievement.
Square Peg “People in the government” are just normal people, they understand human reality. But for the child it is not unreasonable that a parent hoping to regain custody be drug-free, have a stable place to stay, a steady income, etc. Plus remember that DHS workers are “damned if they do, damned if they don’t.” If they return a child and somethings happens - everyone hates them for that. If they keep the child in foster care, everyone still hates them for “destroying” a family. Remember they do nothing but see kids who are in potentially dangerous situations, and they have no crystal ball to see the future.
girl, you've got me in tears over here! I felt that hopelessness in "on paper, I'm a shitty person." I'm so glad he took a chance on you; you more than deserved it
My fiancee worked for CPS (DHS) as more commonly referred to. And he agreed with much of what you have said. Many families have much different experiences with DHS and he also said that he had seen many many kids taken away and had seen the fight that parents or family has had to go through to get custody so they don't end up in the system because once they get there, they easily get lost in the piles of paperwork. I wish you all the best and I haven't been subscribed long but your stories are so real and honest that I haven't been able to stop. Keep on doing you sweetie. You're a strong woman, a strong mother and I'm rooting for you every day! ❤
I've watched this 5 times now & every single time, I cry. I cry so fucking hard! Do you truly understand how strong & beautiful you are? You were a bad kid, an addict, dealer, a prisoner, a felon.. you tried getting clean & going on the straight & narrow but it never worked. That babygirl is the ONLY thing you've ever needed & this just proves it to be true. Theres nothing that can get in the way of a mothers love. Micah & Riley will be so proud of you when they're older & they can fully grasp the amazing story of your life. Holy shit. You perfect creature, Jessica. You've given me so much hope in my life for the past year. I adore you
you should react to the episode of greys anatomy called “ you can look ( but you’d better not touch ) it’s about a girl who has a baby in prison after watching your story time there are many similarities so if it’s not too overwhelming i think it would be really inspiring to react too love you by the way xx
Tim Mackie True she was portrayed as psycho but that was because she had a very bad relationship with that worker. She had a good relationship with jo. The only thing they had in common was baby in jail
As someone who grew up with a parent that doesn't love them, I know your daughter will appreciate what you did for her as she gets older. I wish my father put in as much effort as you did and I thank you for sharing your story
I believe DHS/Judge will be more willing to work with you when they see that Momma Bear come out and see that you have a strong bond. I am so glad you were able to get your little girl back. Its hard, hard work and you should be so incredibly proud of yourself
You are AMAZING!! I've known many women who couldn't do it! Your story is incredible!! You are a beautiful person inside and out!!! I love your channel!!
The word astonishing doesn’t even come close the being the right word when it comes to you. I have never been so proud of someone for overcoming trauma and adversity. Your fight for your daughter is the most touching and impressive thing I’ve ever heard. Wishing you both the healthiest and happiest lives ❤️
Balling my eyes out here at 23 minutes in. When you said the judge said she's now yours.. I lost it. Your story is just amazing. It shows how truly resilient we all can be, as children. And adults. We're always always capable of getting our lives back, we just gotta fight for it. Thank you for this 💗💪
Working for DHS, the system is SO broken. I would be soo happy to have a mom like you that actually cared enough to do everything that you did with your past. Coming from someone working within the system, I’m proud of you!
I am NOT an emotional person but omg this had me in tears by the end. Girl, you are SOOOOO fkng strong! You fought so hard for your daughter and look at you now. You're such an inspiration to so many. I am honored to have heard your story. Keep going cuz you CAN and WILL go far with your level of competence and determination!!!
This story is so incredibly sincere and I can literally feel every emotion you feel. I myself am a 7x felon and have been clean and out of trouble since 2015 so I can definitely relate to your story so much! You have came so far and have so much to be proud of. I love your videos and how real and open you are. You give so many people hope. Keep being amazing and I cant wait to see how far your channel is going to grow. You've got a bright future ahead of you Jess and I will be here to support and watch every video. Every video is one step closer to 1 million subscribers and I KNOW you will 100% absolutely get there soon!!!
You’re such an inspiration to me. I’m a recovering addict & my daughter is with her grandparents, this gives me hope in what feels like a hopeless situation. “Thanks” doesn’t even cover it - your channel is like my morning cup of coffee!
You’re an amazing mother! This is really inspiring to women trying hard to get their children back. It shows that staying sober and working hard really pays off! 🥰
I'm a single mom who doesn't even have so much as a speeding ticket but I work 2 jobs. That social worker is crazy for saying you working 2 jobs wasn't not good for Micah.... What?!?! Most ppl have to work multiple jobs to stay afloat nowadays. Sooo amazing how you got your baby back against all odds. 💖💖💖💖💖
I'm happy things worked out for you. I can appreciate all you've been through and the experiences you have been through. You're an inspiration to my channel. Love the positivity.
I’m binge watching your channel… I just found it last week or so. I just love you kiddo. You’re made of nails. Im a foster mom. The system sucks. And you fucking did it. Love to you and your family. 🙏🏻♥️
I love you so much, Jessica! I know we don't have a clue of who each other are, but you are such an inspiration to me!! I didn't have my baby in jail or prison but I had to go back after my second son was about 1 1/2 months and it broke my heart into a million pieces. I couldn't understand how that judge could rip us apart. He was barely adjusting to the world! He cried a lot while I was in there but he immediately smiled big for the first time when I picked him up the first morning I was out. I got released at midnight and I had him in my arms by 7:30 a.m. I was SO over the moon that I just cried so this kind of hits home! Much love to you! 😘💚
Giiiirrrlll I know how hard the system is to get out of and how corrupt they are but o have never heard them making it this hard. They legit gave you impossible criteria, 98% of people would have failed, not because they don’t love their children but because it was impossible to obtain.
None of the criteria that needed to be met was impossible but it could be hard to accomplish dependent on past circumstance. I find it beautiful that they told her straight up what she needed to do because a child is a lot of responsibility and it shouldn't be taken for granted.
@@oliviahausman3024 No, they DO make it impossible. They told a mother she had to keep a 3 year old engaged on the phone for 3 hours! Watch the local zoom hearings of local courts on RUclips weekdays. It's all there in it's glorious vile ugliness
I just found your pregnant in prison video a few days ago and have been binge watching since. Your story is SO fucking inspirational and relatable. Thank you for being open and sharing your story ❤️
The early reactions of the judge and the case worker broke my heart. I mean you worked your ass off and they didn't even acknowledge it for a second instead just telling you everything you did wrong. I can see how it is really rare for women in that situation to ever get their kid back. Honestly, I don't know if I could make. It sounds so physically and mentally exhausting. But you made it and that is honestly amazing. You are an inspiration!
Your stories always touch me and make me cry! I have a 10-month old daughter and just hearing your stories make me so much more grateful for her, her health, and being able to be with her everyday. My mom was a drug addict my whole life and still is until this day, I’m 21 years old. But it taught me how to be a real mother, love you Jessica!
I can't help but to sit here sobbing... after going through something similar and also fighting like hell, I now have my first baby girl plus 3 other wonderful children. Every heartache that I went through is a lesson that I'm grateful for. I certainly don't take being a mother for granted. ❤ I'm proud of you Jess. Lord knows it's not easy.
😭😭😭 I am so so so proud of you and all that you have overcome! You are truly changing lives through this channel! Keep it up girl! I’m rooting for you!
What a strong mama you are!! SO proud of you for showing other mamas that it IS possible! Hard, but possible! That sweet babe is exactly where she needs to be 💕💕
It's probably too late for you to see this comment, but I found your channel because I'm a foster parent looking for the other side of the system (the bio parents side). Thank you so much for your perspective, its helped me so much with empathy and supporting the bio parents of my foster kiddos.
Thank you for sharing you are such an incredible Mom!!! The power of love is crazy I can't imagine going thru that ive felt a little with DHS an yes ive only heard awful things personally I've never had any issues but always heard just horror stories .... So happy you have ur happy family now. Your such a strong person sending love an postive vibes..... Ugh i shouldn't be watching this before work I'm balling at the end ..... I can't imagine truly ....💜❤💜❤💜
Wow! 😭 Such a moving story. Sometimes we just don't know our own strength, when it's always been inside us. As a Momma too, my heart broke & then burst with happiness hearing this story. Such a beautiful example that you CAN do whatever you set your mind to, regardless of the MANY obstacles...If you stay focused and stay on the right path, eventually, everything will all fall into place. Loved this story!!!! ❤❤
I'm not even a mother and this story has me tearing up at my desk. I'm so proud of you for fighting for your baby. I've watched friends have to deal with DHS because of a domestic violence situation and I know how hard the process can be. I understand their job is to protect the children and make sure things are safe, but sometimes the hoops they force you to jump through are insane. I'm so glad you never gave up.
Jess I love you 😭💗 I have binged watched almost all of your videos. You are so open and your stories have made me realize how strong people are and how strong I am! Thank you for that 💗
You’ve came so far 🖤 Micah is beautiful and so lucky to have you as a mom! You didn’t give up for your baby no matter how hard it all was! You are an inspiration.
Every single video of yours that I watch makes me cry my eyes out. You are so, so inspiring and I am so, so glad that you exist. Thank you so so much for telling us your stories. Thank you so much.
I'm dealing with cps in Chicago they took my 9 month old baby because i was at a er waiting for the family shelter to pick u up. I suddenly lost my home. A Dr who didn't know me called DCFS and told them i was starving my baby the 5 hours we sat and waited for them. It was in the middle of the night. It's been over a year and she's Still gone. I feel so hopeless.
I'm so lucky to have never lost my son during my addiction in his younger years, I cant imagine how hard your fight to get your daughter back must have been. I just wanna say, YOUR SO STRONG! YOUR SUCH A FIGHTER!! Micah is so lucky to have you as her mom, flaws and all!! No mother is perfect, I am surely far from it! But my kids are my everything and my son who is now 17 years old, saved my life, much like micah saved yours. Me and my boys wish you and your babies all the best hunny!!! Godspeed!!!! Love your channel and your message! ❤❤❤❤
"had to fight to be micahs mother" No matter who shes with or who shes being raised by, you are and always will be her biological mother. Nothing can change that and as long as you are more than capable to look after your own daughter, nobody can take her away from you or have a say in your relationship.
This brought tears to my eyes. As the father of a beautiful 16 month old little girl, I can't imagine having to fight just to be her parent. I recently discovered this channel and it's been such an inspiration. I'm so happy for you and proud of you that you've accomplished so much with such determination.
I love this story. Your experience busting your ass to get Micah back is such an inspiration and I'm so glad you finally got her way back when. It's a victory you truly earned and deserved. 💜
I have been binge watching your channel in awe, I am so impressed at how strong and driven you are and what you were able to accomplish Jess, and at all the hard work you continue to put in to raise awareness and help others in your situation. A 15-20 minutes quality video everyday is quite impressive! But I also can't help and wonder (and that is not to take away any of your accomplishments) at not only how strong but how lucky you had to be to get to where you are. How lucky you were to not have died or found yourself in a situation similar to Millie's, how lucky you were to only get 2.5 years, how lucky you were to get help to get a lease and a car... It is absolutely terrifying to think that you could so easily have failed even by trying as hard as you did. The system need to change!!!! Thank you so much for your openness in telling your story. I hope you write a book one day or turn it into a movie!
Oh my fucking god Jessica. This video had me in tears. You are such an amazing person, you are unbelievable. You can definitely do anything you set your mind to. I'm so proud of you even though I don't even know you
Jessica, I don’t remember what I even looked up to come upon your videos but you were in my suggested. I’ve been watching for 2 months now and I watch you nearly every single night. This video has me in happy tears. You make me believe in myself and want to be a better person.
You have come so far, and done so much to help other people. You are an angel on Earth! I am so excited for you to hit 100k! You deserve that and so much more! ❤️
Jessica, you are so inspirational. Watching your videos makes me feel like I can accomplish anything I set my mind on. The last few days have been really rough for me because I have been getting rejected from schools I have applied to to get my medical degree. I have worked so hard but it feels like I'm still not good enough and the process feels never ending. Watching this video today was really what I needed to get out of my depressed mindset and feel inspired and motivated instead. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story on the internet. You are definitely making a difference in the lives of so many people like myself.
You are amazing! Have you ever considered writing a letter/update to the Judge or Caseworker? I think it’s important to remember how change IS possible and everyone (ok minus obviously heinous cases) deserves a chance to get their baby back. I’m a dhs worker and I know seeing my clients doing well is so motivating and pushesme to keep going. I love your story!! ❤️
I watched this video a long time ago but just rewatched it and cried even though I knew what was coming 😭😭 your strength and persistence is beyond admirable.
I have two young kids and I hate being separated from them. What you went through would have been so incredibly hard, but look at you now and look how happy your babies are! Your amazing for overcoming everything! 👍😊
Really cool story. Inspiring! Thanks for sharing. I've had 10 years of struggling with staying in the clean economy...boy, is it tempting to make that quick money (not easy...everyone thinks it's easy for some reason lol). But grinding away at life feels so much better, no guilt, no true stress about your safety or freedom... thanks for inspiring people like me...even when its been a decade- i need that kick in the ass sometimes.
I started crying when you got to the part in which the judge said "this case is closed." You are so f*cking strong, Jessica. Anyone can have a baby, but you proved that you can be a mom after going through a difficult life and everyone was probably expecting you to fail. You have an incredible story, family and channel, and I can't wait to watch more videos!
As alwaays I'm so proud of you. I told Christina this same thing- watching your videos [and hers] is like spending time with a close friend I've never had. While dealing with my addiction still and my mom being really sick this is a good escape. Love you girl 🖤
I love you, jes. 🖤😭 Micah is so, so, so special & precious. I’m so thankful for her- because she saved YOUR life. She’s so smart & so beautiful, she’s wise beyond her years. You worked so damn hard to get her with her momma & not a lot of people who are in the same predicament don’t even try.. but you did.. yet another reason why I look up to you. 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Jess...you are such a beautiful inspiration. I personally have never been to prison, or did drugs or anything like that but because of you and your amazing stories i have gained confidence to be myself and go for my dreams because i learned from you that no matter how many times i have failed in my attempts in the past i always have the choice to try again and succeed in my own future. Thank you for being one of my favorite youtubers.
Your hustle and drive inspires me SO much. My struggles might be completely different from yours, but the message is the same: keep at it. work hard. you can do anything you set your mind to. I am so grateful that I stumbled upon your channel
I teared up at this, congratulations! Given all that you had to go through with having to ‘prove your worth’ as a parent, it just makes me wonder why we all don’t go through some type of screening/evaluation before becoming parents. Not everybody should be in my opinion but you should be, obviously, beyond a shadow of a doubt. I admire your fight👊🏻
I loved this story! You didn’t settle in a setback, you had one of the greatest comeback stories I’ve ever heard. Mica is a lucky little lady to have such a strong mama!!!
I wish my daughter had the drive you do. My grandson was born in prison 3 years ago. My daughter was in on drug charges among other things. She had 7 to 10 felony charges. She was released from prison 2 years ago. I have full sole legal custody of him. He calls me mama, he doesn’t know his mother. I let him decide what to call me on his own. I still hope that one day she will be in recovery before it’s too late. I’ve not heard from her in over a year and this little boy has no idea who she is if she would walk up to him, she’s just another stranger. She also has a 6 year old son who is with his other grandma. I’m almost 50 and had the 3 year old since h was born, I picked him up from the state hospital and never ever saw her during the process it wasn’t allowed so I got him straight from the nursery. She promised to get her life straight and get her sons back when she got out but that hasn’t happened. Please pray for her, me and these 2 boys. I will pray for you sweetheart you are an amazing mother and person!
Ms. Kyrissie, your strength probably goes unnoticed during day-to-day life- but i want you to know that i, stranger on the internet, hear you and feel your pain. there really should be widespread support groups for grandparents who care for their sick children’s children. thinking fondly of you, your grandbabies, and your daughters recovery xx
J P thank you so much for your kindness!!! It means a lot!
You are an angel❤️
Sayings prayers for you all!🙏
I am not a very good prayer, but I wish all the best to you and your family ❤️
I did CPS casework for 3 years and I want you to know that you are the rare person that makes a caseworker want to keep working that job. So much of the time you feel like you are spinning your wheels with a reunification. Then someone like you comes along and makes it all worthwhile again. I'm so happy for you and Micah and Reese and Riley. I wish it could work out like it has for you and your family with every case. I know they make it terrifically hard and sometimes more than is necessary, so just know that you are more of a success than you even realize.
Thank you so much!
Jessicas content makes me want to be a social worker even more. Success stories are so fulfilling ❤️🥰
I think it’s too hard in almost all ways and in the wrong ways.
Like she needed for example gas cards, she needed to have one good job and tons of parenting support etc.
Honestly, give yourself hella credit. You fought tooth and nail for your baby and look where you are! You are incredible.
I'm so early. Christina hasn't even commented yet 😂
Hah I always think that too if I haven't seen her comment IM EARLY 😂
Haha same 😂
I'm so late I'm new to both of these girls so...binge! Lol these girls are awesome!!!
LMAO
Jessica, I just got my fatherly rights back to my daughter I am so grateful and happy. I've been on probation for the last 3 years. I'm an addict and habitual relasper. I'm doing it differently this time around though.
@@amandadavis5198 thank you. Its been hard as hell. But after a brief 2 months in jail, and dealing with 6 charges, i realized if I changed now I'll get my daughter back and be happy. Or don't and do 2 years in prison and be miserable. Really it wasn't a hard choice.
@@amandadavis5198 right on. That's why I love Jessica. Because attitude is infectious.
Hey my dude, things still good for you? Hope your staying strong.
Im rooting for you, brotha. Tge courts dont tend to be favourable to dads.
Your daughter will forever know you fought for her. You’re an amazing mother Jessica ❤️😌
I am so honored that the RUclips algorithm chose your channel to show up on my feet. You are truly an inspiration. I'm so proud of where you come and what you've accomplished. You are really amazing and your story is something that is still inspires so many people! I will never know what addiction is like and what you go through I'm sure on a daily basis but you have come through the smoke and fire and made it out of the worst. So proud of you
This was 100%, beyond a doubt my favorite story of yours. Congratulations
Wow! You did great!
You just broke me with this: “The judge was telling me that I’m good enough to be her mother.” Oh, girl. You were always good enough. But I felt that. I could relate. Blessings to you and your precious family. 💙💜💙💜💙
Just imagining you and Micah outside the court house for the final time made me cry like a baby 😓
I'm really shocked that American system makes people with felonies on their record jump through so many loops and rely on charity of others to get back on their feet 😓
Jessica, on behalf of all of your subscribers, I’d like to say...we are absolutely 100% so proud of you. You faced every obstacle thrown at you head on. Your story is living proof that starting a life out of prison is so hard. No one cuts you a break. No one trusts enough to give someone a chance. But you, Jessica, have demonstrated that it can be done, sleepless days & more. I’m so happy you can look at your little girl & know “I did this for us”. I’m going to go blow my nose yet again. So so damn happy for you all. ❤️
As someone who worked for dhs I can say you are so incredibly inspiring, strong and hardworking. So many parents can’t beat their addictions and demons for their children. Also I apologize for anything dhs did to wrong you because I know best sometimes they aren’t fighting for the parents success as they should be. ❤️
LessThn Thee I’m just curious . You as a former dhs worker , why do you make it so hard for people to get there kids back! It’s so unfair ! You break people hearts - rip families apart - and take away a child FROM THEIR OWN MOTHER . *how dare you* how dare you ! Take a child away from its mother! Who are you to decide where a child lives and with who. Disgusting.
joseph M I’ve taken children who were horrifyingly abused by their parents and would’ve died at their hand, I’ve taken sexual abused children from their parents who were the perpetrators. I’ve taken babies shaking from being born so drug addicted they can’t be at peace. I’ve taken kids who begged me to take them because they were terrified of their care takers. Not every dhs is the same, not every story is the same. Sorry I didn’t leave those kids there and if you think i should’ve left them there I don’t think anyone can talk sense into you. If you think every single child is unjustly taken and everyone is innocent you’re foolish. I CLEARLY stated I see the wrongdoings but you only saw I worked for dhs and decided to attack me.
Also a lot of social workers aren't doing their jobs properly
@@knightthezero I want to support you, becausebyou are needed and must get a lot of hatred at the same time. Social workers failed me, but I understand that you are just people and can't see everything. (Imnspeaking from the point of view of child in need, so this is actually the opposite extreme...)
I’m September 2018 my boyfriend at the time was arrested for felony domestic battery on me. My two children were removed from my custody for failure to protect, today I got the call that I’m getting unsupervised visits after a year of fighting for them, I go to court next month and am praying for reunification. It’s been a struggle, I had to go get my own apartment, I walk to and from work 5 days a week to make sure I can maintain a loving home for my kids to come back to, it’s been the hardest year of my life. Thank you for sharing your story...
I know this was from 3 years ago, but I pray everything worked out and that your babies are safe and sound with you.
I lost my child when he was born he went straight to foster care after he was born. I just got him back last week and hes 3. I thank God he had good foster parents and his aunt took custody while I was using. But rebounds can happen!
My daughter was in Searcy Arkansas DHS as well! I just got her back on the 19th of this month. Literally you are telling my story. Thank you honey
When I heard you say that he said “okay I’ll give you a shot.” I literally teared up. There are good people out there. It sounds like it was not the nicest place, but who cares - YOU HAD A SHOT!!!!
As a foster parent, your story is amazing! I have only had a few parents make it, and I can't even imagine. The state is definitely frustrating. One thing you said about attachment, I've had a lot of kiddos that did the same thing. It just takes allot of support for her and reassurance. I've even had to tell older kids, that they are safe in their rooms and it's okay to sleep. Sometimes they just needed to hear that. Again, I'm VERY proud of you for your journey and doing what your baby deserves.
Yup, and as a fellow foster parent lots of support lacking for her to succeed. Where was her court appointed lawyer for the foster care? Where was *her* case worker to help her make sure she knew what she had to do for the case plan and the steps? Where was transportation to try and make the visits a little easier on her (4 hours one way)? Glad she got the daycare vouchers, though.
Every time I hear your story I can't stop crying....i wish you all the best.
What a remorseless system. That even someone as intelligent, resourceful and tenacious as you should have struggled so hard through so many obstacles shows why many do not have such a happy outcome. As with so many of your videos, I wish some people in government would see them, to appreciate the human reality! I'm just glad that the judge, at least, gave you credit for your massive achievement.
Square Peg “People in the government” are just normal people, they understand human reality. But for the child it is not unreasonable that a parent hoping to regain custody be drug-free, have a stable place to stay, a steady income, etc. Plus remember that DHS workers are “damned if they do, damned if they don’t.” If they return a child and somethings happens - everyone hates them for that. If they keep the child in foster care, everyone still hates them for “destroying” a family. Remember they do nothing but see kids who are in potentially dangerous situations, and they have no crystal ball to see the future.
girl, you've got me in tears over here! I felt that hopelessness in "on paper, I'm a shitty person." I'm so glad he took a chance on you; you more than deserved it
My fiancee worked for CPS (DHS) as more commonly referred to. And he agreed with much of what you have said. Many families have much different experiences with DHS and he also said that he had seen many many kids taken away and had seen the fight that parents or family has had to go through to get custody so they don't end up in the system because once they get there, they easily get lost in the piles of paperwork. I wish you all the best and I haven't been subscribed long but your stories are so real and honest that I haven't been able to stop. Keep on doing you sweetie. You're a strong woman, a strong mother and I'm rooting for you every day! ❤
I've watched this 5 times now & every single time, I cry. I cry so fucking hard! Do you truly understand how strong & beautiful you are? You were a bad kid, an addict, dealer, a prisoner, a felon.. you tried getting clean & going on the straight & narrow but it never worked. That babygirl is the ONLY thing you've ever needed & this just proves it to be true. Theres nothing that can get in the way of a mothers love. Micah & Riley will be so proud of you when they're older & they can fully grasp the amazing story of your life. Holy shit. You perfect creature, Jessica. You've given me so much hope in my life for the past year. I adore you
you should react to the episode of greys anatomy called “ you can look ( but you’d better not touch ) it’s about a girl who has a baby in prison after watching your story time there are many similarities so if it’s not too overwhelming i think it would be really inspiring to react too love you by the way xx
The one with the vampire twin and the prison that attacks the guard?
The girl in that episode was in for murder (and therefore facing a much longer sentence than the one Jess served)
Tim Mackie True she was portrayed as psycho but that was because she had a very bad relationship with that worker. She had a good relationship with jo. The only thing they had in common was baby in jail
As someone who grew up with a parent that doesn't love them, I know your daughter will appreciate what you did for her as she gets older. I wish my father put in as much effort as you did and I thank you for sharing your story
I believe DHS/Judge will be more willing to work with you when they see that Momma Bear come out and see that you have a strong bond. I am so glad you were able to get your little girl back. Its hard, hard work and you should be so incredibly proud of yourself
You are AMAZING!! I've known many women who couldn't do it! Your story is incredible!! You are a beautiful person inside and out!!! I love your channel!!
The word astonishing doesn’t even come close the being the right word when it comes to you. I have never been so proud of someone for overcoming trauma and adversity. Your fight for your daughter is the most touching and impressive thing I’ve ever heard. Wishing you both the healthiest and happiest lives ❤️
Balling my eyes out here at 23 minutes in. When you said the judge said she's now yours.. I lost it. Your story is just amazing. It shows how truly resilient we all can be, as children. And adults. We're always always capable of getting our lives back, we just gotta fight for it. Thank you for this 💗💪
Thanks for sharing. Much love&support. I felt this wholeheartedly. Love your channel. You keep it 💯
Working for DHS, the system is SO broken. I would be soo happy to have a mom like you that actually cared enough to do everything that you did with your past. Coming from someone working within the system, I’m proud of you!
Yes Jessica, making my crappy monday awsome with an upload!! Much Love 🖤🖤🖤
I am NOT an emotional person but omg this had me in tears by the end. Girl, you are SOOOOO fkng strong! You fought so hard for your daughter and look at you now. You're such an inspiration to so many. I am honored to have heard your story. Keep going cuz you CAN and WILL go far with your level of competence and determination!!!
Just the way Jess hustles is such a inspiration, & she is proof any thing is possible if you really want it!
This story is so incredibly sincere and I can literally feel every emotion you feel. I myself am a 7x felon and have been clean and out of trouble since 2015 so I can definitely relate to your story so much! You have came so far and have so much to be proud of. I love your videos and how real and open you are. You give so many people hope. Keep being amazing and I cant wait to see how far your channel is going to grow. You've got a bright future ahead of you Jess and I will be here to support and watch every video. Every video is one step closer to 1 million subscribers and I KNOW you will 100% absolutely get there soon!!!
"this is it, babygirl!" Had me in tears! 😭 You go mama!!! ❤️
Oh my god I’m bawling. You are such an incredible person thank you for sharing your story ❤️
You’re such an inspiration to me. I’m a recovering addict & my daughter is with her grandparents, this gives me hope in what feels like a hopeless situation. “Thanks” doesn’t even cover it - your channel is like my morning cup of coffee!
You’re an amazing mother! This is really inspiring to women trying hard to get their children back. It shows that staying sober and working hard really pays off! 🥰
I'm a single mom who doesn't even have so much as a speeding ticket but I work 2 jobs. That social worker is crazy for saying you working 2 jobs wasn't not good for Micah.... What?!?! Most ppl have to work multiple jobs to stay afloat nowadays. Sooo amazing how you got your baby back against all odds. 💖💖💖💖💖
But this was a child with significant trauma
That story broke my heart, and put it back together. You're awesome!!!
Dear god I barely get affected by RUclips videos but when you said the judged said she's yours I got shivers and a tear came to my eye. Holy cow.
I'm happy things worked out for you. I can appreciate all you've been through and the experiences you have been through. You're an inspiration to my channel. Love the positivity.
Your bond with Mika is so precious ❤️ you have done such a good job with both of your girls
*Micah*
I’m binge watching your channel… I just found it last week or so. I just love you kiddo. You’re made of nails. Im a foster mom. The system sucks. And you fucking did it. Love to you and your family. 🙏🏻♥️
I love you so much, Jessica! I know we don't have a clue of who each other are, but you are such an inspiration to me!! I didn't have my baby in jail or prison but I had to go back after my second son was about 1 1/2 months and it broke my heart into a million pieces. I couldn't understand how that judge could rip us apart. He was barely adjusting to the world! He cried a lot while I was in there but he immediately smiled big for the first time when I picked him up the first morning I was out. I got released at midnight and I had him in my arms by 7:30 a.m. I was SO over the moon that I just cried so this kind of hits home! Much love to you! 😘💚
Giiiirrrlll I know how hard the system is to get out of and how corrupt they are but o have never heard them making it this hard. They legit gave you impossible criteria, 98% of people would have failed, not because they don’t love their children but because it was impossible to obtain.
None of the criteria that needed to be met was impossible but it could be hard to accomplish dependent on past circumstance. I find it beautiful that they told her straight up what she needed to do because a child is a lot of responsibility and it shouldn't be taken for granted.
@@oliviahausman3024 No, they DO make it impossible. They told a mother she had to keep a 3 year old engaged on the phone for 3 hours! Watch the local zoom hearings of local courts on RUclips weekdays. It's all there in it's glorious vile ugliness
I just found your pregnant in prison video a few days ago and have been binge watching since. Your story is SO fucking inspirational and relatable.
Thank you for being open and sharing your story ❤️
The early reactions of the judge and the case worker broke my heart. I mean you worked your ass off and they didn't even acknowledge it for a second instead just telling you everything you did wrong. I can see how it is really rare for women in that situation to ever get their kid back. Honestly, I don't know if I could make. It sounds so physically and mentally exhausting. But you made it and that is honestly amazing. You are an inspiration!
Your stories always touch me and make me cry! I have a 10-month old daughter and just hearing your stories make me so much more grateful for her, her health, and being able to be with her everyday. My mom was a drug addict my whole life and still is until this day, I’m 21 years old. But it taught me how to be a real mother, love you Jessica!
I can't help but to sit here sobbing... after going through something similar and also fighting like hell, I now have my first baby girl plus 3 other wonderful children. Every heartache that I went through is a lesson that I'm grateful for. I certainly don't take being a mother for granted. ❤ I'm proud of you Jess. Lord knows it's not easy.
😭😭😭 I am so so so proud of you and all that you have overcome! You are truly changing lives through this channel! Keep it up girl! I’m rooting for you!
What a strong mama you are!! SO proud of you for showing other mamas that it IS possible! Hard, but possible! That sweet babe is exactly where she needs to be 💕💕
It's probably too late for you to see this comment, but I found your channel because I'm a foster parent looking for the other side of the system (the bio parents side). Thank you so much for your perspective, its helped me so much with empathy and supporting the bio parents of my foster kiddos.
Thank you for sharing you are such an incredible Mom!!! The power of love is crazy I can't imagine going thru that ive felt a little with DHS an yes ive only heard awful things personally I've never had any issues but always heard just horror stories .... So happy you have ur happy family now. Your such a strong person sending love an postive vibes..... Ugh i shouldn't be watching this before work I'm balling at the end ..... I can't imagine truly ....💜❤💜❤💜
Wow! 😭 Such a moving story. Sometimes we just don't know our own strength, when it's always been inside us. As a Momma too, my heart broke & then burst with happiness hearing this story. Such a beautiful example that you CAN do whatever you set your mind to, regardless of the MANY obstacles...If you stay focused and stay on the right path, eventually, everything will all fall into place. Loved this story!!!! ❤❤
I'm not even a mother and this story has me tearing up at my desk. I'm so proud of you for fighting for your baby. I've watched friends have to deal with DHS because of a domestic violence situation and I know how hard the process can be. I understand their job is to protect the children and make sure things are safe, but sometimes the hoops they force you to jump through are insane. I'm so glad you never gave up.
Jess I love you 😭💗 I have binged watched almost all of your videos. You are so open and your stories have made me realize how strong people are and how strong I am! Thank you for that 💗
You’ve came so far 🖤
Micah is beautiful and so lucky to have you as a mom! You didn’t give up for your baby no matter how hard it all was! You are an inspiration.
I can't even imagine how difficult this must've been
How are you even a real person this is incredible
Every single video of yours that I watch makes me cry my eyes out. You are so, so inspiring and I am so, so glad that you exist. Thank you so so much for telling us your stories. Thank you so much.
I am in tears as usually but still love to hear you tell the story. I even heard something new this time. Love ya!
You’re a great mother. God bless you guys. Love your channel. Thanks for sharing so much♥️
I'm dealing with cps in Chicago they took my 9 month old baby because i was at a er waiting for the family shelter to pick u up. I suddenly lost my home. A Dr who didn't know me called DCFS and told them i was starving my baby the 5 hours we sat and waited for them. It was in the middle of the night. It's been over a year and she's Still gone. I feel so hopeless.
I'm so lucky to have never lost my son during my addiction in his younger years, I cant imagine how hard your fight to get your daughter back must have been. I just wanna say, YOUR SO STRONG! YOUR SUCH A FIGHTER!! Micah is so lucky to have you as her mom, flaws and all!! No mother is perfect, I am surely far from it! But my kids are my everything and my son who is now 17 years old, saved my life, much like micah saved yours. Me and my boys wish you and your babies all the best hunny!!! Godspeed!!!! Love your channel and your message! ❤❤❤❤
"had to fight to be micahs mother" No matter who shes with or who shes being raised by, you are and always will be her biological mother. Nothing can change that and as long as you are more than capable to look after your own daughter, nobody can take her away from you or have a say in your relationship.
Absolutely incredible story. You had everything against and you triumphed. Your story needs to be a book and a film. You’re an inspiration.
I literally cried so much watching this!! 😓😓😓😓 I'm so happy for you Jess! You are such an amazing strong woman.
This brought tears to my eyes. As the father of a beautiful 16 month old little girl, I can't imagine having to fight just to be her parent. I recently discovered this channel and it's been such an inspiration. I'm so happy for you and proud of you that you've accomplished so much with such determination.
I love this story. Your experience busting your ass to get Micah back is such an inspiration and I'm so glad you finally got her way back when. It's a victory you truly earned and deserved. 💜
Ooh girl I got chills when you were talking about that last hearing. So so so proud of you for how far you've come. Truly an inspiration ❤
Wow, such a powerful mama bear story, thank you so much for sharing. You are an inspiration ✨
The man that rented to you made me cry. Restores my faith in humanity ❤
I have been binge watching your channel in awe, I am so impressed at how strong and driven you are and what you were able to accomplish Jess, and at all the hard work you continue to put in to raise awareness and help others in your situation. A 15-20 minutes quality video everyday is quite impressive! But I also can't help and wonder (and that is not to take away any of your accomplishments) at not only how strong but how lucky you had to be to get to where you are. How lucky you were to not have died or found yourself in a situation similar to Millie's, how lucky you were to only get 2.5 years, how lucky you were to get help to get a lease and a car... It is absolutely terrifying to think that you could so easily have failed even by trying as hard as you did. The system need to change!!!! Thank you so much for your openness in telling your story. I hope you write a book one day or turn it into a movie!
Oh my fucking god Jessica. This video had me in tears. You are such an amazing person, you are unbelievable. You can definitely do anything you set your mind to. I'm so proud of you even though I don't even know you
Jessica, I don’t remember what I even looked up to come upon your videos but you were in my suggested. I’ve been watching for 2 months now and I watch you nearly every single night. This video has me in happy tears. You make me believe in myself and want to be a better person.
You have come so far, and done so much to help other people. You are an angel on Earth! I am so excited for you to hit 100k! You deserve that and so much more! ❤️
Jessica, you are so inspirational. Watching your videos makes me feel like I can accomplish anything I set my mind on. The last few days have been really rough for me because I have been getting rejected from schools I have applied to to get my medical degree. I have worked so hard but it feels like I'm still not good enough and the process feels never ending. Watching this video today was really what I needed to get out of my depressed mindset and feel inspired and motivated instead. Thank you so much for taking the time to share your story on the internet. You are definitely making a difference in the lives of so many people like myself.
You are amazing! Have you ever considered writing a letter/update to the Judge or Caseworker? I think it’s important to remember how change IS possible and everyone (ok minus obviously heinous cases) deserves a chance to get their baby back. I’m a dhs worker and I know seeing my clients doing well is so motivating and pushesme to keep going. I love your story!! ❤️
I watched this video a long time ago but just rewatched it and cried even though I knew what was coming 😭😭 your strength and persistence is beyond admirable.
I seriously started crying when the judge said you got her and CASE CLOSED. OMFG IM BALLING!
Girl you have no idea how damn proud of you I dont know you on a personal level but you are such an inspiration to others that it can happen.
I have two young kids and I hate being separated from them. What you went through would have been so incredibly hard, but look at you now and look how happy your babies are! Your amazing for overcoming everything! 👍😊
Girl I am BAWLING. Such a beautiful story and testimony to what love can do. 💙💚💛
Really cool story. Inspiring! Thanks for sharing. I've had 10 years of struggling with staying in the clean economy...boy, is it tempting to make that quick money (not easy...everyone thinks it's easy for some reason lol). But grinding away at life feels so much better, no guilt, no true stress about your safety or freedom... thanks for inspiring people like me...even when its been a decade- i need that kick in the ass sometimes.
😭Inspiring & girl you made me cry & I don't even know you irl! Thx for being open and vulnerable to share your story which will help others.Respect.👍
I started crying when you got to the part in which the judge said "this case is closed." You are so f*cking strong, Jessica. Anyone can have a baby, but you proved that you can be a mom after going through a difficult life and everyone was probably expecting you to fail. You have an incredible story, family and channel, and I can't wait to watch more videos!
Crying when you said the judge said this case is closed! Amazing, well done. She is so lucky to have you as her Mummy ❤️
What a hard thing to battle and it just shows your resilience and strength to break down those walls and keep fighting! You rock! 👊
As alwaays I'm so proud of you. I told Christina this same thing- watching your videos [and hers] is like spending time with a close friend I've never had. While dealing with my addiction still and my mom being really sick this is a good escape. Love you girl 🖤
Wow!! Just saw this video now... and yes! The sky is the limit for you jessica!! Congrats bear mama!! You are amazing!!
I love you, jes. 🖤😭 Micah is so, so, so special & precious. I’m so thankful for her- because she saved YOUR life. She’s so smart & so beautiful, she’s wise beyond her years. You worked so damn hard to get her with her momma & not a lot of people who are in the same predicament don’t even try.. but you did.. yet another reason why I look up to you. 🖤🖤🖤🖤
Jess...you are such a beautiful inspiration. I personally have never been to prison, or did drugs or anything like that but because of you and your amazing stories i have gained confidence to be myself and go for my dreams because i learned from you that no matter how many times i have failed in my attempts in the past i always have the choice to try again and succeed in my own future. Thank you for being one of my favorite youtubers.
You are such an inspiration!!! The sky is the limit for you and your family !!!
Your hustle and drive inspires me SO much. My struggles might be completely different from yours, but the message is the same: keep at it. work hard. you can do anything you set your mind to. I am so grateful that I stumbled upon your channel
I teared up at this, congratulations!
Given all that you had to go through with having to ‘prove your worth’ as a parent, it just makes me wonder why we all don’t go through some type of screening/evaluation before becoming parents. Not everybody should be in my opinion but you should be, obviously, beyond a shadow of a doubt.
I admire your fight👊🏻
You are amazing! For turning yourself around and working so hard to get your daughter back! Working your way up from the bottom is so difficult!
I am a social worker for DHS and I have to say your story is amazing. I love seeing success stories! You rock!
I loved this story! You didn’t settle in a setback, you had one of the greatest comeback stories I’ve ever heard. Mica is a lucky little lady to have such a strong mama!!!
You are an amazing woman, an amazing mom, I'm blown away by your strength.