a week in my life as a MALE NURSE in NYC *NEW GRAD*
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guys.. this week has been so so hectic and soaking in ALL THE NEW INFO and just learning how to okay in times of pre shift anxiety.. which has been so so hard for me to get over🥺 BUTT.. i'm hanging on and we'll make it through!!
Wish me luck guys!! 
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Watching your videos are a big motivation for me to get through my schedule and get up and do something. I love how even if you have the stresses of being a new nurse you still show us that you can actually balance your social life and work life. Congratulations on the new job and I hope you get through your first year with ease!
I’m trying too!! It’s so hard I’m not gonna lie but we’re gonna hold up!! Wish me strength ❤❤❤
hey Kai, i understand everything that you are feeling. Overtime, you will notice a pattern with certain population of patients/comorbidities. you will become more confident once you find that pattern because you will know what to present to your physician right away. Remember SBAR! listen to what the doctors are asking for and try to piece things together. Also, remember doctors are also learning as well. you are both learning together. Healthcare is a practice.
Fellow nurse here but now CRNA student. We never stop learning
Heavy on healthcare is a practice! We are never done learning….even wen our brains are full THEY ARE NOT😂
Yess I love this point!! At the end of the day we’re ALL LEARNING!!❤❤
I’m also a male nurse in NYC and I could relate to you on so many levels. 4+ years in now I’m the happiest I’ve been in my career (I left bedside after 3 years lol). Never be afraid to speak out for yourself, and let your preceptor know that you feel more comfortable shadowing for example. Especially as a new grad you should be eased in and not rushed to take on your own patients. It should be at YOUR pace not their pace; in my experience I’ve seen new grads that have been afraid to speak out and be rushed through their training. Feel free to shoot me any questions, you got this!
It’ll be okay!! Every new nurse has definitely felt what you’re currently feeling and going through. It’s a lot to take in as a new grad, you’re learning a lot of new stuff all at once. You’ll get faster at doing things and learn to better managed your time as well as your critical thinking skills.
best part to start my week! i always love getting new posts about your journey through nursing. i do love how your taking your mistakes as a way to grow and learn and not something that’s gonna tear you down. your doing amazing, keep it up!
Yesss our mistakes is what makes us build and grow❤
Hey Kai ❤
Its another episode of your beautiful life
Idk if it's just me or its really therapeutic and relaxing to hear you talk about your feelings and all those thoughts going through your head...As someone with anxiety it helps me a lot....it makes me feel like I'm not alone and many people are going through the same....
Today Im beginning my driving lessons.... currently its 3 .30 am and I have to there by 9 for my first class....and here's me nervous asf and cant sleep....
Trying new things scares the living butterflies Outta me... Watching you talk about your fears and reassuring yourself gives me an unexplainable amount of comfort and hope....
Thank you so much for the strength you give me...
I could really see you were tired from all the work....
Remember to take care of yourself and don't burnout.... cuz at the end of the day its you that you have...
Lots and lots and lots of love from India ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Yess!!! THATS WHY I LOVE CREATING!! Because we can connect in our own emotions and know that WHAT WE GO THROUGH IS NEVER ISOLATED!! ❤❤❤
We are all going through it in similar journeys and we are proud to see you grow. Congratulations again. ❤
Congrats kai!! WE LOVE YOU!
CONGRATS 🎉 KEEP DOING WHAT YOU LOVE SO PROUD OF YOU 💗
Hello Kai ✨ I'm so glad to see you every time more comfortable with your new life as a RN Nurse working in a hospital🙌👏 Thank you for sharing with us this new vlog. I'm a volunteer in a hospital now and also I'm learning a lot caring patients. Although is tired, at the end of the day that makes me happy. Thank you for inspiring me 🫶
Yess I think the most fulfilling thing is seeing the people we help smile!! Truly it makes all the hard work so much worth it in the end!!
@@Hwaniiee It's true, that's why my favorite part is when I walk them out of the hospital and say goodbye. It makes me happy to see them recovered, with the shine in their eyes, happy to return home.
i relate to you so much ,first days of work are hard to get around but we shall overcome the anxiety, never stop sharing 💪
I had that pre-work/duty nervousness/anxiety for two months when i started working. It was my first job after graduating and i was soooo nervous, that i can feel myself getting sick in my stomach. But trust me, it gets better in time and you wont even notice the anxiety going away! Good luck and hope you adjust quickly! ❤❤❤
I started work at a language school, my first week was also a bit anxious but I told myself that’s okay. We are trying our best and like you said, with our “own pace”. No need to put weight on our shoulders which we already have in some way. Have a nice day✌🏼
Yes our own pace!! We’re not here to run any one else but ours!! ❤
I am also a new grad RN, finished my orientation shifts and have been working independently now for about 7 shifts... I COMPLETELY feel you about the pre and post shift anxiety and feeling this way even on your days off. It happens to me everytime, and I think it will be like this for awhile. It really sucks and is a killer on the mental health, but remember that every new nurse goes through it... we just need to go through the process and consolidate our practice! Thank you for making me feel less alone as another fellow stressed out, anxious new grad nurse hehe
Yes being comfortable around coworkers is the main reason for me to stay at a job or leave it
And also having a smaller circle of friends means you have people who really care about you and you can rely on. I hope you have wonderful days at work, looking forward to the future when you're SUPER confident at work
I plan on becoming the MOST confident version of myself and as a nurse in the future!!’ I’m taking you along with me on this long but filling journey ❤❤
Chi so happy to see another one of your videos I've been missing you and your content congrats on nursing
Kai ykw you are such a inspiration for me❤ i will support you always😊💕
Kai so happy to see another one of your videos love your content congrats on nursing
This is excitinggggg!!! Stay thriving Kai ❤
You have this, my friend! You’ve got a good work ethic and a big heart.❤️
I used to watch you since you were a student and now you're a nurse and you have a job that makes me feel like a proud mom 🥹😭 and I'm really proud of you just keep going 🩷
I KNOW YOU WERE WITH ME THIS ENTIRE RIDE ❤️🥹🥹
thank u for these vids they're really inspiring!
I really do love you kai, u make me feel like it's possibe to become a nurse with anxiety and depression.
You’re doing great sweetie! Keep it up, we’re all proud of you 🥹💕
Thank you for sharing how it is to start something new, I’m going through something similar and I know this is part of the process, being anxious is something that happenes when we do something for the first time. Thank you for sharing that this is part of the process and we can do it.
CONGRATULATIONSSSSSS ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Kai 😊My goodness I’m seeing such positive growth with you so proud of your new approach to this new career / journey ❤ You will definitely do extremely well with this new attitude of I’ll learn this it might be slow at first but I’ll get it approach ! Well done Kai 🥰
Thank you🥹 it was hard at first but I love that I GET to learn and start from scratch!! It’s a very novel feeling and I’m here for it😊
I wished there was someone at my job as fun as I think you would be to work with. Love watching your videos and the fact you seem to be open about venerabilities. I’m also remembering what it was like to be in your shoes.
Proud of you! Hang in there as this is probably the most difficult part!
It will get easier ❤ every seasoned nurse out there started off where you are … in 1-2 years you will be an expert nurse !!
Also.. one thing I’ve learned 8 years in the medical field..don’t worry about making friends as a priority. You’re there to work and be a nurse, friends will come organically if it’s meant to happen when you just be yourself. But don’t go out of your way trying to impress or get people to like you!
Kai i really enjoy your videos i'm extremely proud of you big dawg you inspired me to take my journey to become a paramedic you will overcome your anxiety i know it's hard, but you'll get through it, i just know it. Keep thriving, and you'll get there 💪🏾💪🏾
WHAT THAT IS SO AMAZING TO HEAR❤❤❤ you will become such an empathic and loving paramedic I can jsut FEEL IT!! Lmk how it goes and best of luck ❤❤
@@Hwaniiee will do you keep up the good work pal
Dear kai. I understand all your worries ❤❤.sometimes life is hard. , if you feel nervous, sad or aggressive . Just express it you don't need to pretend just let it bee❤❤
We are here for you. I wish you all happiness . Also you and your girlfriend are a great couple❤ Love you sooo
Congratulations and good luck to you❤❤
Hello mr nurse….really motivated by ur videos..i love it..fighting and good luck ❤ better days coming soon
I love this video ❤❤❤ Thank you for sharing your bedside nursing life. ❤
Hang in there Kai, you got this 😊
You need to get the nervousness in control. You have to find a way asap. When I started my job in finance I was like you and almost went into depression. Don't glorify worry, stress, anxiety...you are exhausting yourself without realizing 😢😢 stay handsome ❤❤
Very proud of you. Starting off is always nerve wrecking. You are doing well.
Like you say patient safety is priority everything else will follow along. Don’t be afraid to say you don’t know and ask for help. I am 8 months in. Definitely the most rewarding career. You got this.
Awwwww that’s amazing!! Congrats on your 8 months in!! I’ll continue to update you and let’s see where I’ll be too in 8 months ❤
Your videos + fav chocolate = perfection ❤
You admitting it's hard for you is so real. I feel the same way and have alot of self doubt so it's helps me knowing someone else is feeling this way and its not all glitz and glammer .
nothing is ever rainbows and perfection!! And anyone that claims that is such a liar❤ but yes yes we’re all broken a little but we’re here to work hard and learn from mistakes ❤
@@Hwaniiee can i be friends with you! 😭💜
I didn’t start bedside because I knew mentally and physically I could not. I started in the OR and I love it. I have zero shift anxiety and enjoy my job.
I am so happy for u ❤
Megatron is getting so big 🥺☺️ too cute. You got this. We’re all here for u on this journey you’re amazing at what u do and great motivation to keep going. You show us to never give up no matter what we’re going thru and the struggles we face. Thank you for your videos and advice on what to do and how to stay healthy while doing everything. 👏🏼💪🏼🙂↔️☺️ you’re amazing!
Ofcccc!! and yea Megatron is already a dam teenager huh 😂😊 but I’m so happy to bring you on this journey seriously it makes life a little less lonelier❤
@@Hwaniiee yes I know the feeling of feeling lonely. So it does make a difference when you have people following you and looking up to you 🙂💪🏼. It’s an amazing feeling. Thanks for this journey and can’t wait to see more 🥹🙂↔️
Hi Kai, well done in your 1st week. 😊 you can do this!! 🎉we all have our own insecurities and weakness, i am in my final year of nursing, can’t wait to grad!!
YOU GOT THIS!! YOULL BECOME AN AMAZING NURSE🎉❤
I ΄m 45 years old with acne scars.I had acne since I was 13 years old and I ΄ve never exprerienced what is like to have clear skin.I watch your videos and I admire your focus!I wish you the best!(you 're awesome)!
I’m still looking for job here in nyc that I really like ❤ you’re doing great Kai
i'm ready for the tea of the weeeeekkkk
HAHAHAHAH❤
Kai, YOu Got This ❣️
Love the content good to hear the perspectives of other male nurses. Take my NCLEX July 9th wish me luck.
YOU GOT THIS!! And also if you don’t do the best the first time take it at your pace!! This is your journey not any of ours!! ❤
The mornings tho! If I didn’t have Siri to hit snooze for me I’d be late everyday 😂 Glad you’re adjusting to the hospital! Definitely learn as much as you can. I’m currently doing that now as I’m looking for other opportunities in my field.
Your shit/ constipations rants are so normal at this point 😂, love it here ✨
HAHAHAH ILL NEVER STOP😂❤
@@Hwaniiee 😂, I'm not even mad at it.
Kai I know how u feel because when my mom is n the hospital I ask the doctors what meds they are giving my mom and make sure that they are using the right size needle on my mom. U got this Kai 😊 u r amazing and I know u can do this 😊 from your sis Mary. Keep up the great work you do 😊.
Kai, I think you are doing your best. Keep doing everything you are doing. Eventually you will not be the new RN on the floor. I love your videos btw.
Hi 👋 Kai, you are too hard on yourself you overthinking it you get in your own way. Stop overthinking things take your time go at your own pace like you said and you’ll be fine. God bless you, your family ,your girlfriend and your friends number# 1 fan here Keep up the good work.❤🥰👍
Yesss my overthinking self is always on!! Just gotta relax and be more patient and graceful to myself 😊❤
Dude good work my first years as a nurse suck and I hated preshift anxiety 😢❤ much love hope you do a meetup someday!
You got this, at least you passsed your NCLEX. I have to retake mine and I wanna be where you're at right now to be a new grad nurse.
Congratulations!
Aww, you are beautiful inside and out :)
Me scared starting corporate at a big 4 bank this August. I feel sooo out of my depth. We got this!
Love how u've always been so raw and real with us sharing all ur insights..watching u navigate this journey from taking your exams to giving ur best for what u truly want makes me so so proud of u.. and grateful to be a part of this beautiful community!!..💖✨🫶🫶
Awwwww🥹🥹 I love that you’re so proud!! It makes me wanna work so much harder to make you smile even harder and to prove to myself that I can BECOME A COMPETENT NURSE!! LETS DO TJIS ❤❤
So impressed by your devotion to your job and your career also the importance you give to patient safety. It s normal to be more stressed for your first professional experience and in need for confirmation that everything ok. But sure you will have a sucess whatever you do 🙏thanks for your girlfriend for being in your side 👍❤❤sending you all the good vibes ans wishes
Thank you to you and my gf and to everyone here on this channel!’ Seriously you guys give me the space to share my vulnerabilities and insecurity which make life a little less lonelier so thank you ❤
Fake it till you make it! I’m leading a crew this summer and on day 1 I had no idea wtf I was doing so I just pretended to lol. It’s been 2 weeks and I haven’t crashed and burned yet haha, I’m making it!
new to the can can but love these vids
I am new here , I love your video's , ❤ i am glad came across your video !!
love it here😍😃
Kai, you're doing so well, remember to journal points at end of the day. Sleeping, I started taking magnesium from this brand "nutrition geeks" I tablet a day and I'm sleeping 7 straight hours. They are UK based but ship everywhere. Read bout them. Keep up the good work. Fighting
Omgggg I’ll def check that Out!! Thank you for the rec 🥹
megatron is so big now! awww :)
Megatron wants to come say hi and tell you that you are doing great!!❤ just focus 1 step at a time. I get the opposite when I'm nervous I need an immodium!! You will do great don't over think it.❤ just double check stuff. When you are at lunch think of happy things try to not think of what you just did. School isn't real life I'm sure. Just give straight answers. How many patients are you in charge of in a day? Coworkers!!! You are making friends❤❤❤ do they know you are on social media. It does get smaller but you will have work friends too. Is charting easier for you?? When did she get camera shy. She is so beautiful 😍 you are great !! Keep showing us your progress ❤❤❤ 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
You'll make friends at work, and probably go out with them socially. Your friends circle will definitely expand.
Hi Kai,
Nursing is exhausting because it involves so much tasks and checks but hang in there, it's a very fulfilling career. I just retired from 39 years of nursing and my first job as a nurse was at Mt. Sinai medical center NYC. Talk about hectic! I ran from the time I started til I got off. Lost 30 lbs in year without trying. What hospital are you at?
Kai, how many different creams do you apply to your face?
Do you leave them all, or do you remove some?
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Congrats! where did you get your necklace from?
I know u can’t rlly compare what I do to what u do but I’m a teenager and I got my first job and I get the first shift anxiety and anxiousness and I see what u do and it’s way worse than what I have to go through and I’m scared because it’s like will I be able to handle the job I want in the future working 9-5 like it’s so scary
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i'm related to every word you say
Congratulations and bro your hella fineeeeee whoever you marry is finna be hella luckyyyyy 🤞🤞❤ love you😍
💜🥰 So, as someone who is also a VA along with my main job, self care is a must!!! Just remember, as someone on the frontline, keep taking that time you need with your boys and gf and taking a knee when you truly need it. You can't help others if you are not in good condition!!! Borahae!!! 🫂 You got this!!! Hwaiting!!! 💪🏽💜 I wish I could give you a big momma bear hug to let you know you are doing great despite what you see yourself...others see the effort and great job you are doing! 🫡
ARMYYYYYYY 💜
@@aditi.ot7 💜🫶🏾🔮ARMY!!!! Borahae!!! 🔮🫰🏾💜
Your gf is amazing ❤
When gym vlog? 😍💪🏻
Hey Kai, try to eat lunch and dinner together with your co-workers. You can ask them exchange the phone number. Eat together and have fun at work. You can also buy a pizza eat with your co-workers together. It is fun. Share your concern and feeling about your job to your co-workers. Working in the hospital is very stressful. I understand. Everything is okay.
Yesss I can def set up more moments of interaction outside of work or on the floor!! ❤
Gd mornug boy... U hv a sweet smile.. ❤
are you in med surg?
Welcome to the real world.
Oh my you are putting way too much pressure on yourself. EVERY JOB has a learning curve and your first two weeks of Nursing on a floor is just how everyone else goes through this!!! You are doing ok. Just give yourself time.
Yesss more patience and grace to myself ❤
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You have a bundle of big responsibilities, but you have the priorities, patient safety, well in hand. I appreciate your being extra careful. That is so commendable! Cohort get together: Hey, did you trade blood types with your co-workers, along with Zodiac signs? LOL. (Btw, you look fab in your Fabletics.) Yah, when you go out in the "real" world, opportunities to get to know people well are fewer. I don't know, it is harder to connect, but I am an introvert, so maybe it's just me. You have work associates, but they aren't really friends. Maybe if you work on cases with others, you'll grow closer to your team. Also, remember you are always being graded; you just don't get a report card anymore. Sigh... I hope I didn't heighten your stress level... Thanks for the wonderful vlog. You're doing great! Also, nice touch: flowers and a drink for your gf! So sweet. Sending you best wishes and chill vibes!
Bro you should join the Air Force
Hi being a nurse is not easy some people can be not nice some people can be verey nice by robert
You overthink too much my man. When your learning anything new in life you have to be prepeard to look the fool. Experience cant be bought only gained. Sit back, Relax and just let it flow mate ;)
Aaahh.. The overwhelming phase of learning and remembering new tasks is common for newly grad nurses, but you will overcome it in time.
Don’t get disappointed nor feel guilty about your progress rather PERSEVERE in your new journey.
You got this, nurse Kai! 💪🙏🩵
yeassss!! The progress I’m making is all a learning journey!! And I’ll continue to keep learning because mindset is what’s so important in times like this!! 💕💕
@@Hwaniiee Hullo! Aww, i appreciate you dropping a comment despite of your busy schedule, thank you❣️
Have a restful night and
Happy Fourth!! 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸❤️
Hii how are you? 😊
Mano kai ,olá tudo bem???
Eu admiro como tu falas e ao mesmo tempo faz tua skin kar😊.Mano eu não consigo falar e fazer minha skin 😊
Mas d boa kai eu gostaria d pedir q vc por gentileza colocasse legenda dublada p o português,mano não dá p entender o tu falas ,d boa meu mano.Teu vídeo é maneiro .❤🧒🏻🫂👍🏻🙏🏼💋🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷
I hope you saving some of your money for your future putting it away in a bank account and a savings in not just blowing it all
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I like you face🥹🌷
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you're the homie I know you got a gf but you might be gay doe
All the best for everything!! You got this🫶🏻🍀🪄the dinner must have felt so good to come back from, I'm sure slowly the information you're trying so hard to process will also become part of your routine and you'll feel just as good walking back from work! Not that you wouldn't feel good right now 🙈🙈 but just less anxious and nervous❤️ when a person works hard for something they want it's a beautiful beautiful thing and seeing you we feel it 🍀🪄💃🏻🫂✨