I have a question. I started a dating app oh my. So many lonely men and some desperate. So far it is a failure. The men want a relationship but not for me.
Yes, people don’t want to take the time to truly read Through a profile. Also there are many folks that won’t even do anything thorough on their profile. A few short words And a photo …I read that as someone shallow not looking for commitment
I appreceate all you're saying Jonathan, but how can we find the perfect relationship when nobody's perfect? Isn't a relationship about compassion, helping each other and growing thru difficult times as well? You're filtering out ppl who are not perfectly meeting the standard at this specific moment in their life. And what value has marriage as a list thing when u can whisper commitment and love in each others ears? Your strategy sounds to me very clinical and even inhuman sometimes. But keep up the good work, I love u all ❤
So true Damona!! Name It and claim it. My guy made The changes but he was never consistent and would Revert back to His bad habits …so my discernment needs to improve and I need to trust my gut more say and claim What I need and don’t tolerate excuses and nonsense !! I must stick to my discernment. My gut instincts. Trust MySELF better!! Thanks you two. Love ya
But a lot of people tell people they're single and a lot of people believe it but the people that you know tell people they're single or think that are the ones that are actually talking to someone or aren't single in the first place and people believe everything nowadays
I really aligned with this podcast. I am dating with intention and I am honest up front if im not feeling a match. I have enough empathy and diplomacy that I have actually gotten thanks and compliments from the guys im dumping 😊🤷♀️ but it is not ever fun. Just necessary to get to my person ☺️
When I asked a guy if he was seeing someone else at the same time, he responded, irritated and said he can’t stand suspicious, insecure women. Therefore it’s a tough one to ask for fear of being dropped. But may be best to not waste your time with them.
When I asked a guy if he was seeing someone else at the same time, he responded, irritated and said he can’t stand suspicious, insecure women. Therefore it’s a tough one to ask for fear of being dropped. But may be best to not waste your time with them.
I love your wisdom Johnathon and you’ve definitely helped me me to make sense of so much when it comes to our intentions and more… Great to hear Damona and her wise words🙏
For my best relationship I made a list of what I really want in a partner that is realistic at its best. I lost my spouse of over 20 years. I started a mourning journey and started healing journey of discovery. I started hanging out with friends, and changing my life to be about positivity. After several years of this, I now have a boyfriend that embodies the new value system I have. Being able to give up the ideal of "The One" is what helped make this shift, and concentrating on not centering my life around just one person.
Loved this interview. You both are a joy to listen to. Very insightful, informative and presented in a way that was easy to understand with interesting analogies and examples. 🤗
@@JonathonAslay thank you. I ordered her book looking forward to reading it. I read yours two years ago and several of the others you recommend. I appreciate your direct but heart felt communication with your guests. Without being mean you get directly to the matter at hand. We need more of this style of communication in our society. 🙏🏻
I have just recently been home by a man I have been communicating with for several days now this exact same thing, that I'm scaring me away because I'm too deep and revealing too much information about myself.. he said that men feel they can't live up to my expectations. I don't feel I have men run away from me more the fact is that I'm not putting up with their BS and dropping them. it certainly is a crazy dating world out there.
These fairy tales in my opinion have been fantasy and changed where the original stories were warnings to women like the original little mermaid she gave up everything for a man and he loved another and little mermaid dies in the end and doesn't find love. The story blue beard similar warning.
Get Damona's Book Here: damonahoffman.com/f-the-fairy-tale/
I have a question. I started a dating app oh my. So many lonely men and some desperate. So far it is a failure. The men want a relationship but not for me.
Needing constant excitement in a relationship can be a sign of mental health issues, in my opinion, might help to see a therapist. 😢
Indeed
Ppl should just be honest cos eventually they will be caught out( this won’t help going forward with an honest authentic relationship)
My own mom was born out of wedlock and her parents married after the fact!😊
Yes I am suffering from dating burnout !!
Yes, people don’t want to take the time to truly read
Through a profile. Also there are many folks that won’t even do anything thorough on their profile. A few short words
And a photo …I read that as someone shallow not looking for commitment
I think the one getting 800 likes l guess it's shit people.its about quality
Why fudge on age or body size? Bye 👋 it's a lie
Noted
This is a really good video! I’m 38 a single Christian female I use your advice all the time Jonathon!
WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you can share this video with friends?
Am single again,all thanks to you. I broke up with my on and off long time boyfriend and it sucks.
I appreceate all you're saying Jonathan, but how can we find the perfect relationship when nobody's perfect? Isn't a relationship about compassion, helping each other and growing thru difficult times as well? You're filtering out ppl who are not perfectly meeting the standard at this specific moment in their life. And what value has marriage as a list thing when u can whisper commitment and love in each others ears? Your strategy sounds to me very clinical and even inhuman sometimes. But keep up the good work, I love u all ❤
Seek alignment meaning, shared values, bendable lifestyles and emotional maturity
Yeah women became more sexualized during the 60s and 70s and Men lost respect I'm as far as the community and with other people and control
So true Damona!! Name
It and claim it. My guy made
The changes but he was never consistent and would
Revert back to
His bad habits …so my discernment needs to improve and I need to trust my gut more say and claim
What I need and don’t tolerate excuses and nonsense !! I must stick to my discernment. My gut instincts. Trust MySELF better!! Thanks you two. Love ya
Exactly
Dating with personal and long-term and when you dated or mated you mated for life
But a lot of people tell people they're single and a lot of people believe it but the people that you know tell people they're single or think that are the ones that are actually talking to someone or aren't single in the first place and people believe everything nowadays
God's blessings to all Amen 🍀🙏😇😇🙏😇🙏
I really aligned with this podcast. I am dating with intention and I am honest up front if im not feeling a match. I have enough empathy and diplomacy that I have actually gotten thanks and compliments from the guys im dumping 😊🤷♀️ but it is not ever fun. Just necessary to get to my person ☺️
Loved this, thank you both!
Glad you enjoyed it!
I agree Jon. Monogamous relationship is respect to the partner. If not, I would walk.
Why cheat your age or anything else. If a partner did that, I could never fully trust them.
When I asked a guy if he was seeing someone else at the same time, he responded, irritated and said he can’t stand suspicious, insecure women. Therefore it’s a tough one to ask for fear of being dropped. But may be best to not waste your time with them.
When I asked a guy if he was seeing someone else at the same time, he responded, irritated and said he can’t stand suspicious, insecure women. Therefore it’s a tough one to ask for fear of being dropped. But may be best to not waste your time with them.
Thank you for another great video Jonathon 😊
Glad you enjoyed it
Are you still going strong with your girlfriend?
My relationship ended 11 months ago
@@JonathonAslay Sorry to hear 🥹 Very inspiring when you spoke about your experiences with her.
Fantastic conversation! Thank you Jonathon and Damona, and hope to see another video with you two in the near future! Cheers from Montreal, Canada
She's great 👍🏼
She is great! I loved listening to this podcast 💕🦋
Johnathon, your example of “Higher Standards “is the best!!!!!!!
WOW! Thank you, and much appreciated. Any chance you can share this video with friends?
I love your wisdom Johnathon and you’ve definitely helped me me to make sense of so much when it comes to our intentions and more…
Great to hear Damona and her wise words🙏
You are so welcome
Thanks Jonathan, you should have her on again and again
For my best relationship I made a list of what I really want in a partner that is realistic at its best. I lost my spouse of over 20 years. I started a mourning journey and started healing journey of discovery. I started hanging out with friends, and changing my life to be about positivity. After several years of this, I now have a boyfriend that embodies the new value system I have. Being able to give up the ideal of "The One" is what helped make this shift, and concentrating on not centering my life around just one person.
Loved this interview. You both are a joy to listen to. Very insightful, informative and presented in a way that was easy to understand with interesting analogies and examples. 🤗
Glad you enjoyed it!
@@JonathonAslay thank you. I ordered her book looking forward to reading it. I read yours two years ago and several of the others you recommend. I appreciate your direct but heart felt communication with your guests. Without being mean you get directly to the matter at hand. We need more of this style of communication in our society. 🙏🏻
Just watched this video and I have to say, Damona was an incredible guest with great insights. Awesome video Jonathon! 🌟
I agree!
Hi Damona!!!
❤😊
🙏❤️
Listening on behalf of my future self. I just don't feel safe to date right now
All my best
Pleasure to meet you.
Haha! I love your analogy😅😅😅
“ as long as he doesn’t have a big gut as long as size of Texas and he’s missing his front teeth”😂😂😂😂
LOL
Saw Damona on Drew. Wrote down a of her word gems. Screenshot book to buy at Barnes & Noble. Loved her! Really grt
She's great
I loved her too
Hello wonderful ladies
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I have just recently been home by a man I have been communicating with for several days now this exact same thing, that I'm scaring me away because I'm too deep and revealing too much information about myself.. he said that men feel they can't live up to my expectations. I don't feel I have men run away from me more the fact is that I'm not putting up with their BS and dropping them. it certainly is a crazy dating world out there.
Gotcha
These fairy tales in my opinion have been fantasy and changed where the original stories were warnings to women like the original little mermaid she gave up everything for a man and he loved another and little mermaid dies in the end and doesn't find love. The story blue beard similar warning.