Please Sheldon with the bant and rant their we would love it to be live so others can get involved and the introduction of the podcast to will help. Just use ur subscription thing to set the target that if you viewers give u 500k over a period you would make bant and rant a live show u go see something ☺️🤣🤣
Scanty is right, 100%. My dad used to tell me a lot of things that I did not listen to. Now, I am seeing everything he said is true. I now take his words seriously and it's really improving my life.
Scanty has a valid point. Freedom is the issue. This is what happens when an immature child gains freedom too early. The problem with this generation is no one wants to be responsible, so they blame everything on mental health. The very cause of that mental health issue is social media. She seems to enjoy the attention she gets online, so I personally think it is just an excuse.
Ideally, I support Phish. The way you approach a delicate matter is key. It's not about giving the child freedom but telling them the negative side of their actions. You always shouting at the child is not really the best thing.
@@THE_LAURENS Define happiness... It is important to be aware of the pros and cons of social media, or anything else we engage in, as adults. One of the major cons of in-balance social media use is you lose the ability to interact with people in real life - an example is her reply to her dad, posting it on social media to seek for attention and sympathy from on her "E-Followers". In a nutshell, when social media is used to validate your identity, it leads to poor mental health. - Facts I never said she needed to be deprived of it. However, since you brought it up, I strongly believe she is not mature enough to be exposed to the social media world. - Respectfully my opinion.
@@BrightOkine-vn6ib I don’t see any fault with how the father approached the matter. He ended his message with "God love you and we love you too”. This means that despite the disappointment, he still loves her. This is proper discipline. There are times when a little shout is needed, and this young lady is a prime example. -Proverbs 22:6 Every father's wish/desire is that their children will bring respect to the family name.
Not just African parents oo.. No well to do family in this world will like to see that. I don’t know why they are even siding with the girl.. this is nonsense.
Scanty is very right!!!...until we understand the point that we're from a different part of the world....relationships between parents and children will always be a problem for us
In Ghana 99.9999% of us are hypocrites… wait till it’s your daughter then we’ll have a conversation … these people saying ‘try to understand the child will be the same people to call a family meeting at 2:00am because their child said "Kwasia"in school
Sometimes people say things for shock and entertainment value, to play devil's advocate but this particular episode is just outrageous. Firstly well done Scanty for presenting a good and thoughtful insight to the topic. Some of the panelist are of the assumption that mental health is unique to young people. Where is the consideration for the parents in all of this? If you've ever been associated with someone who is deliberately breaching what is considered normal by all reasonable people you won't be saying the things you're saying. How many children or young adults have sat down to ask their parents or care givers what it's cost them (not limited to finances) to care for them. The burden it is sometimes cannot be put in words and to have someone say just because you paid for my school fees. We will turn around and condemn them for not taking us to school but when they do it is rubbished because now we are independent. What do you imagine this father is going through? Come to the mental health side, I've worked in mental health for many years now, especially with young adults, in the west that you like to glorify soo much. A large number in fact I would go as far as say 90% of interviews conducted all tell the same story, they wish someone would've set boundaries for them long ago, they wish someone would've been honest with them about the trappings of social media and self discipline. Being a strict parent or desiring to set your child on the right path is not an African thing, stop saying that. Family name means something. Once again well done Scanty. We need to educate the young ones that mental health is not an excuse to indulge any and all behaviour and then to play the victim when things end badly.
It could have been the case where the dad spoke to the daughter and his daughter did not listen and now the father is fed up to the point where he is using aggression. Just like Scanty said, when persuasion fails, force is applied. Maybe the approach of her dad wasn't the best option, but then at the same time, the daughter should know better. To add to this, everyone is different, what may work for one will not work for another. It might be a conversation for one person, but it may require a stern rebuke for another. Definitely a whooping for all. Great job Kwadwo Sheldon studios.
Whenever it comes to African parenting, why do we always use the Western world as yardstick to measure the success of how well our parents did? Let’s not base it on illusions. I know some African parents who are loving and caring more than some Westernised culture. I come from such home. The fact that I am getting disciplined does not mean I am hated or not liked. Sometimes our parents go over board. But if such values of discipline were not instilled in us, how would we have thrived into our adulthood. Why are some kids raised in the Western world brought back to African countries for discipline but not left in the Western world ? Because it is simple. There are no culture and moral boundaries in the Western world to mould a child. Let’s not throw our cultured society away in the name of freedom and knowing your rights. Yes your rights should and must be respected. But your values must be in touch. If the tone or approach of father is wrong, let’s address that rather than saying that she is an adult and can do what she wants. Yet will that not be her family to usher her into marriage she finds her husband ? Why should she not go straight to marry on her own ? Every family have values and conducts that society is built on. Let’s not throw it away but rather address ways it could be improved such as addressing mental health and approaches for that. To me if the lady has raised issues about her mental health and it has been ignored, then that’s really bad
😂😂😂😂 it’s funny how the lady talks about Western training when she doesn’t even stay here😂😂😂😂. Sis what you see on TV is not what is happening. Here in the USA parents are struggling to keep their kids around them when they grow as a result they support whatever thing the kids decides to do. Scanty you are right👍🏽
Have your own child and go through all the pain to raise them to become responsible adults,then you can voice out your opinion when they go wayward. Scanty you made a lot of sense ❤️❤️❤️
Yeah. All those saying they will calm and have a conversation nu should be there...when they give birth take, care of a child and one day someone shows them their children's nudes they will see If ebe easy do am. Scanty win 100%
Mode3 what’s political correct about what the others dey talk.. if that’s how we all dey approach things.. you thing say you go do what you dey do now.. our parent are correct sometimes and are wrong somethings. Like phish said if Ebi Calvin Klein wey she Dey model for like Ebi so he go talk .. wey she Dey make over millions aa
@@yawbamoah2217 What do they say Great minds think alike, must definitely apply to Small minds too If your trajectory in life is defined by money and you believe success is equivalent to having a lot of money then I will advise you to rethink your mindset. We’re living in a Era under the sign of politically correct, people speak being afraid of what it can be said if they don’t align with it and that is how half of them were sounding in this video You’re showing your nakedness for everyone to see and your father is criticizing you for it and then we’re acting as if He is the problematic one for giving moral guidance to the daughter
I’m with Scanty on this topic. Even if the father is too strict or condemns her, that should not be her motivation to be immoral ! You think the dad hasn’t introduce others he thought could get sense into her and she keeps doing it. 😅Unless God let something pass the girl eyes top; no amount of “sweet talk” and conversation can change people who agree what they are doing is wrong but continue to do it regardless .
When I was a child I wasn’t allowed to go out that much, I got to shs I never went out of school unless it was vacation or midsem. I didn’t enjoy shs though but I am proud I was disciplined. So Lexie as scanty said is a bad girl already
Scanty all the way. Hes really standing up for the morals we grew up with that we are so eager to trade away because of what we call modernism. A king or queen still has to keep their royalty
Making arguments based on assumptions 😂....the dad made his points out of pain and fear for his daughter....looks harsh on our side...but no correction looks nice from outside....mental health is always the excuse...we all dey go through am...but we no put for online....call for help... exposing your body doesn't do that...all we see is nudes...all the father sees is a daughter going astray .....Scanty🔥🔥🔥you be the guy
To support SCANTY’s point, Even more, the path this lady has chosen will only (80%) worsen her “ mental health “ than restore it.😊 And This is to ADJOA, the host; Yes times have changed and will continue to evolve but What is GOOD and BAD will FOREVER be the same! Atleast we all KNOW the repercussions of bad decisions and choices! Let’s learn to stop GLORIFYING wrong actions which damage the society. Great job Scanty on being firm on what is morally right in this confused generation😅
Listen, her even posting a private convo with her father on social media to tarnish him shows the 🚩 in this. But as Scanty said; do whatever you want just disown your father so that both of you move on. All this is part of clout chasing strategies
Every generation comes with its moral standards and values. Our parents grew in an era where emotional intelligence wasn’t endemic in their society . When you raise a child you impact your morals into them so they can be a better reflection of you in all angles. Parenting is not an easy thing as we see it to be. Posting your nudes online is not and will not be a normal thing in our African setting and trying to compare our way of life with the westerners will only lead you into an abyss . The girl has gone wayward and the father is trying his best to bring her back to her senses like every father will do . I concur with Scanty and Lemuel on their submission.
No matter how old you think you are, you’re always that baby to your parents and they have every right to reprimand you in any situation. As a parent you don’t leave your kid on the loose cos you’ve cautioned him/her once or twice and she didn’t listen. When it gets worse it’ll still come back to you.
The way the Conversation is going sounds like immaturity…Don’t forget that we will grow up to become parent…💯support Scanty,sometimes in life we wish we were told not to do this in order to waste our time
Scanty is kinda right😂I was also a caged child....and now...I don't even like to go out ...I live his point...I have lots of friends...crazy ones...but they never found me out with them
Yeah it's true... That happens when you're mentally strong and are not moved by what those friends show you. These things are social issues and as the saying goes, "the world is not black or white but a mixture of those two colours to so degree"- hence everyone there actually had a point.
SCANTY ma man, bro u 💯 correct. Africa ankasa nkwasiasem y3 ade a mpenyimfo kyi. Besides as they are saying she is an adult, u don't expect the dad to still scold her as his child while she is an adult. If u ar a child u receive a child's scolding and if u are an adult u receive an adult scolding.
If you expect everything to work in the way you like, you'll never grow. Correction never comes only in a soft way, it comes in both harsh and soft ways. Some corrections need to come in a harsh way to straighten you up instantly. That's where whoever is being corrected must think deeper rather than emotions. This girl has already made up her mind regardless of mental health issues. she thinks she's old enough to take her own path which is fine, but she forgets whatever consequences her actions bring, she's going to deal with it alone. The father has every right to come at her however he wants, cos at the end of the day she's still vulnerable to society being an adult or not.
Scanty you’re very wise. Being a parent I will not want this for my child at all. And I appreciate the training I had from my parents. Morals go a long way.
Eh! Scanty, You have said it all. This particular lady has made her decision to do what she is doing, we shouldn't blame it on mental health. Because a person that is aware of her mental situation would seek help. All those time her Dad was sending her scriptures and stuff to help her, She had already made her decision internally. "when someone does not want to be helped if you do whatever, that person will still remain the same" It's life.
Thank U Guys for this Beautifull content. Scanty is the Best instructor among you guys. We need that your Energies to change the whole world, Big Up Bro
This is why the young ones are dying nowadays, because they see their parents time have passed. Always quoting we're in a technology era and we keep on dying..... Scanty I support you
I’m most definitely with Scanty on this. Just because you’re an adult doesn’t mean you should embarrass your family because of your own selfish actions. Your last name is very important!
For all you know,the dad tried to reason with the daughter but she decided to continue regardless. Every parent at some point will have a heart to heart conversation with their children to find out if everything is okay with them.
Let's be realistic. As a parent, your first reaction will definitely be anger. Because you cannot tell me that you will be calm enough to ask why she is posting her nudes. It does not make sense. Also, let's not forget that the way we are brought up in Africa is different from the Western world, so their methods would not work for us and vice versa. Scanty is right!!!!!!!
@Adam Salia so? If you want to stick to African culture 24/7, give up your smartphones, stop wearing jeans or suit or shirts. Stop speaking English. Pick up and go live in the forest and give up all your modern indulgences.
So are they trying to say that if it was to be their child they’ll be calmly talking to their children? I think the Dad is right and Scanty is totally right
To me, from her Dad's message, it was obvious her father was fed up and was sending the message as a fed up parent. He had already approached her calmly before but this lady is going through things and as a wise father as her father was, he just replied thank you to tell you how her father has been dealing with her. To me the father should just leave her alone, if she dies as in scanty's scenario, her father is ready for that because he had already treatened to disown meaning he is ready for the worse from her. When she grows she will come back to beg as usual.
Scanty is true . I remember I won a huge sum of money through bet and less than a week I spent all the money I didn’t even know what I used the money for I was just spending it anyhow
i think Scanty here is very very right......we need someone on this earth to guide us through it.....someone who has experienced real life like our parents
Scanty you are right These days the youth want to defend negativity with everything they have and it is sad . Wait till their kids turn up to misbehave and look at their reaction
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Please Sheldon with the bant and rant their we would love it to be live so others can get involved and the introduction of the podcast to will help. Just use ur subscription thing to set the target that if you viewers give u 500k over a period you would make bant and rant a live show u go see something ☺️🤣🤣
Wow so amazing 😍😍😍😍😍
Try and invite some adults or parents or probably a counselor to discuss issues like this.
Sheldon you either have to invite some of us to the studio to give our opinions or you make it live.
scanty always has the words to fit every situation
'the dance of a mad man is only funny if the person isnt your family member'
deep quote
Scanty is right, 100%. My dad used to tell me a lot of things that I did not listen to. Now, I am seeing everything he said is true. I now take his words seriously and it's really improving my life.
Say that again.
Very true
Me too. Being a Dad is very difficult.
@@AbdulMajeed-be9xn they are only saying mental health because it's not their relative
@@AbdulMajeed-be9xn if it's their sis that's is involved they will understand what scanty is saying
Scanty has the mind of a matured "old man". I love it👍
How old is Scanty... The guy is just brilliant
A standing ovation for Scanty👏🏽👏🏽❤🎉
Scanty has a valid point. Freedom is the issue. This is what happens when an immature child gains freedom too early. The problem with this generation is no one wants to be responsible, so they blame everything on mental health. The very cause of that mental health issue is social media. She seems to enjoy the attention she gets online, so I personally think it is just an excuse.
And if it's social media engagement that makes her happy, why should she be deprived of it? What do we live for on earth as humans?
Ideally, I support Phish. The way you approach a delicate matter is key. It's not about giving the child freedom but telling them the negative side of their actions. You always shouting at the child is not really the best thing.
@@THE_LAURENS Define happiness...
It is important to be aware of the pros and cons of social media, or anything else we engage in, as adults. One of the major cons of in-balance social media use is you lose the ability to interact with people in real life - an example is her reply to her dad, posting it on social media to seek for attention and sympathy from on her "E-Followers".
In a nutshell, when social media is used to validate your identity, it leads to poor mental health. - Facts
I never said she needed to be deprived of it. However, since you brought it up, I strongly believe she is not mature enough to be exposed to the social media world. - Respectfully my opinion.
@@BrightOkine-vn6ib I don’t see any fault with how the father approached the matter. He ended his message with "God love you and we love you too”. This means that despite the disappointment, he still loves her. This is proper discipline.
There are times when a little shout is needed, and this young lady is a prime example. -Proverbs 22:6
Every father's wish/desire is that their children will bring respect to the family name.
Yes freedom is the ISSUE
In Kwadwo shelden studios, SCANTY is the goat 🐐. He is always right for me 😂😂😂
Scanty is my guy
Spitting facts from start to finish
I’m sooo happy to watch you every time ……You are one of the realest people out there .❤
If you die are you going to hell or heaven??💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Scanty is my G.O.A.T🐐, he said exactly what's in my mind. No African parents will be happy seeing their daughter nudes on social media
Not just African parents oo.. No well to do family in this world will like to see that. I don’t know why they are even siding with the girl.. this is nonsense.
It's quite funny how Scanty is always right on Bants and Rants.💯🔥
Very true ❤️🔥❤️🔥
SCANTY IS TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE BECAUSE EVERYTHING HE SAID IS THROUGH EXPERIENCE 👌👍
I personally think this bants and rants show should be done live cos I sometimes have many questions and counters to make but it is what it is😂
I second
I second this.😂
Same here
Yh sure
My very thought
Scanty is very right!!!...until we understand the point that we're from a different part of the world....relationships between parents and children will always be a problem for us
In Ghana 99.9999% of us are hypocrites… wait till it’s your daughter then we’ll have a conversation … these people saying ‘try to understand the child will be the same people to call a family meeting at 2:00am because their child said "Kwasia"in school
No truer words than these
😂😂
I didn't know the phish guy was this feeble minded. Big ups Scanty, 👏🏿👏🏿
Scanty is the "Encyclopedia Britannica". One man against a thousand.💪💪
Nahh Scanty is that guy😂😂😂 Sheldon has a good replacement here. and he needs to put that boy on a life time contract before a new media comes for him.
SCANTY is the real guy. He always knows how to defend everything he says with no one confusing him.. big ups bro💯❤
Sometimes people say things for shock and entertainment value, to play devil's advocate but this particular episode is just outrageous. Firstly well done Scanty for presenting a good and thoughtful insight to the topic.
Some of the panelist are of the assumption that mental health is unique to young people. Where is the consideration for the parents in all of this? If you've ever been associated with someone who is deliberately breaching what is considered normal by all reasonable people you won't be saying the things you're saying. How many children or young adults have sat down to ask their parents or care givers what it's cost them (not limited to finances) to care for them. The burden it is sometimes cannot be put in words and to have someone say just because you paid for my school fees. We will turn around and condemn them for not taking us to school but when they do it is rubbished because now we are independent. What do you imagine this father is going through?
Come to the mental health side, I've worked in mental health for many years now, especially with young adults, in the west that you like to glorify soo much. A large number in fact I would go as far as say 90% of interviews conducted all tell the same story, they wish someone would've set boundaries for them long ago, they wish someone would've been honest with them about the trappings of social media and self discipline. Being a strict parent or desiring to set your child on the right path is not an African thing, stop saying that. Family name means something.
Once again well done Scanty. We need to educate the young ones that mental health is not an excuse to indulge any and all behaviour and then to play the victim when things end badly.
💯
Tell them...some people are shallow minded, sadly 😢
Sheldon has got some gems on his hands, Adwao and Scanty are made for the microphones, they do it effortlessly. Great show!
Adwoa nt adwao
TOTALLY AGREE
@@overspeedingreport210 💯💯
It could have been the case where the dad spoke to the daughter and his daughter did not listen and now the father is fed up to the point where he is using aggression. Just like Scanty said, when persuasion fails, force is applied. Maybe the approach of her dad wasn't the best option, but then at the same time, the daughter should know better. To add to this, everyone is different, what may work for one will not work for another. It might be a conversation for one person, but it may require a stern rebuke for another. Definitely a whooping for all. Great job Kwadwo Sheldon studios.
Whenever it comes to African parenting, why do we always use the Western world as yardstick to measure the success of how well our parents did? Let’s not base it on illusions. I know some African parents who are loving and caring more than some Westernised culture. I come from such home. The fact that I am getting disciplined does not mean I am hated or not liked. Sometimes our parents go over board. But if such values of discipline were not instilled in us, how would we have thrived into our adulthood. Why are some kids raised in the Western world brought back to African countries for discipline but not left in the Western world ? Because it is simple. There are no culture and moral boundaries in the Western world to mould a child. Let’s not throw our cultured society away in the name of freedom and knowing your rights. Yes your rights should and must be respected. But your values must be in touch. If the tone or approach of father is wrong, let’s address that rather than saying that she is an adult and can do what she wants. Yet will that not be her family to usher her into marriage she finds her husband ? Why should she not go straight to marry on her own ? Every family have values and conducts that society is built on. Let’s not throw it away but rather address ways it could be improved such as addressing mental health and approaches for that. To me if the lady has raised issues about her mental health and it has been ignored, then that’s really bad
😂😂😂😂 it’s funny how the lady talks about Western training when she doesn’t even stay here😂😂😂😂. Sis what you see on TV is not what is happening. Here in the USA parents are struggling to keep their kids around them when they grow as a result they support whatever thing the kids decides to do. Scanty you are right👍🏽
Have your own child and go through all the pain to raise them to become responsible adults,then you can voice out your opinion when they go wayward. Scanty you made a lot of sense ❤️❤️❤️
Respect to scanty for this one. You cant have logical conversations with people who try to be politically correct or speak out of emotion.
Yeah.
All those saying they will calm and have a conversation nu should be there...when they give birth take, care of a child and one day someone shows them their children's nudes they will see
If ebe easy do am.
Scanty win 100%
Exactly
You couldn’t have said it better💯
Mode3 what’s political correct about what the others dey talk.. if that’s how we all dey approach things.. you thing say you go do what you dey do now.. our parent are correct sometimes and are wrong somethings. Like phish said if Ebi Calvin Klein wey she Dey model for like Ebi so he go talk .. wey she Dey make over millions aa
@@yawbamoah2217 What do they say Great minds think alike, must definitely apply to Small minds too
If your trajectory in life is defined by money and you believe success is equivalent to having a lot of money then I will advise you to rethink your mindset.
We’re living in a Era under the sign of politically correct, people speak being afraid of what it can be said if they don’t align with it and that is how half of them were sounding in this video
You’re showing your nakedness for everyone to see and your father is criticizing you for it and then we’re acting as if He is the problematic one for giving moral guidance to the daughter
People Dey use I’m an adult, I’m an adult to do foolish things.
Lexie and phish 😡
You talk all the moment they get in serious trouble now they know they folks
I thought Fish was a smart guy....wow.
Fish, please stay at the back
I’m very disappointed, i thought he was smart
😂
😂😂
Only parents know what it feels like to have kids and investment you make to see ur kids grow to become responsible adults..
This is so painful to watch. The only sensible one is Scanty.
Asuwer it's so irritating to listen to the others
Lemuel too dey Scanty ihn back
I’m even surprised that fish and the other girl could make such statements like wtf
Scanty is right in all angles he's on point and making sense
I’m with Scanty on this topic.
Even if the father is too strict or condemns her, that should not be her motivation to be immoral ! You think the dad hasn’t introduce others he thought could get sense into her and she keeps doing it.
😅Unless God let something pass the girl eyes top; no amount of “sweet talk” and conversation can change people who agree what they are doing is wrong but continue to do it regardless .
When I was a child I wasn’t allowed to go out that much, I got to shs I never went out of school unless it was vacation or midsem. I didn’t enjoy shs though but I am proud I was disciplined. So Lexie as scanty said is a bad girl already
You will not even get the zeal to do it
She wanted it already@lexie
The dance of a mad man at the market square is only funny when he's not a family member..... Elder Scanty....wooooow 🎉
Gosh I love Scanty, he has a very valid point! Wow!
The dark girl's reasoning dey vex me rough, follow by adwoa.
Honestly Scanty is spitting fact and sense but Fish must be sent to be the lady’s camera man 😂
I love this 😊
Exactly 😂😂😂
Sheldon have a gem ..Scanty is that guy 🔥🔥🔥
Scanty is really making sense 🤞
😂😂😂😂
Sure
Oh no no no no I think Sheldon should set a School so Eii Scanty would teach his guys lol
Scanty all the way. Hes really standing up for the morals we grew up with that we are so eager to trade away because of what we call modernism. A king or queen still has to keep their royalty
Phish, you are fish indeed😂
😂
😂😂😂ah
😂😂😂😂
Ohh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂
You’ve proven that you don’t joke with (head , heart , hand) proud of u man 😊
Making arguments based on assumptions 😂....the dad made his points out of pain and fear for his daughter....looks harsh on our side...but no correction looks nice from outside....mental health is always the excuse...we all dey go through am...but we no put for online....call for help... exposing your body doesn't do that...all we see is nudes...all the father sees is a daughter going astray .....Scanty🔥🔥🔥you be the guy
👌🏻👌🏻
💯💯
To support SCANTY’s point,
Even more, the path this lady has chosen will only (80%) worsen her “ mental health “ than restore it.😊
And This is to ADJOA, the host; Yes times have changed and will continue to evolve but What is GOOD and BAD will FOREVER be the same! Atleast we all KNOW the repercussions of bad decisions and choices!
Let’s learn to stop GLORIFYING wrong actions which damage the society.
Great job Scanty on being firm on what is morally right in this confused generation😅
My third comment this 😂, Chale Scanty is that guy 👏👏
Listen, her even posting a private convo with her father on social media to tarnish him shows the 🚩 in this. But as Scanty said; do whatever you want just disown your father so that both of you move on. All this is part of clout chasing strategies
Every generation comes with its moral standards and values. Our parents grew in an era where emotional intelligence wasn’t endemic in their society . When you raise a child you impact your morals into them so they can be a better reflection of you in all angles. Parenting is not an easy thing as we see it to be. Posting your nudes online is not and will not be a normal thing in our African setting and trying to compare our way of life with the westerners will only lead you into an abyss . The girl has gone wayward and the father is trying his best to bring her back to her senses like every father will do . I concur with Scanty and Lemuel on their submission.
No matter how old you think you are, you’re always that baby to your parents and they have every right to reprimand you in any situation. As a parent you don’t leave your kid on the loose cos you’ve cautioned him/her once or twice and she didn’t listen. When it gets worse it’ll still come back to you.
Very true, sometimes I saw my grandma 👵🏽 scold my mom 👩🏽 like a kid 😅, moments like that sweet me ruff🤣🤣
A question is where is the mom?
For the dad to be stressing on this issue means even the mom couldn’t understand the child
The way the Conversation is going sounds like immaturity…Don’t forget that we will grow up to become parent…💯support Scanty,sometimes in life we wish we were told not to do this in order to waste our time
Scanty is kinda right😂I was also a caged child....and now...I don't even like to go out ...I live his point...I have lots of friends...crazy ones...but they never found me out with them
Yeah it's true... That happens when you're mentally strong and are not moved by what those friends show you.
These things are social issues and as the saying goes, "the world is not black or white but a mixture of those two colours to so degree"- hence everyone there actually had a point.
@@johnsonhamster True bro🔥
SCANTY ma man, bro u 💯 correct. Africa ankasa nkwasiasem y3 ade a mpenyimfo kyi. Besides as they are saying she is an adult, u don't expect the dad to still scold her as his child while she is an adult. If u ar a child u receive a child's scolding and if u are an adult u receive an adult scolding.
@Scanty you do all. You have earned my respect kudos to you for always speaking right. You really have a matured mind
If you expect everything to work in the way you like, you'll never grow. Correction never comes only in a soft way, it comes in both harsh and soft ways. Some corrections need to come in a harsh way to straighten you up instantly. That's where whoever is being corrected must think deeper rather than emotions. This girl has already made up her mind regardless of mental health issues. she thinks she's old enough to take her own path which is fine, but she forgets whatever consequences her actions bring, she's going to deal with it alone. The father has every right to come at her however he wants, cos at the end of the day she's still vulnerable to society being an adult or not.
That’s it
The dad saying "thank you" should have meant samtin in your conversation
😅 why is scanty always the wisest person there. I can boil to all comments but as soon scanty made his statement I felt myself there
Eiiiiii Scanty, th guy be family head😂😂
If you are trying to justify something , you are trying to escape from something you don’t want to admit to
Scanty is right, strict parents tend to make their kids introverted.
Scanty spoke with emotions. I'm in support with Scanty❤
Like I figa say Fish be proper oo, aahh 🤣. Only Scanty dey make sense 😂
Scanty you’re very wise. Being a parent I will not want this for my child at all. And I appreciate the training I had from my parents. Morals go a long way.
For once Scanty is right, I now understand why Sheldon is always insulting Phish. 😂😂😂
Lmao 🤣 ikr
😂😂phish mind no reach
😂 phish is mad
He's called phish for a reason
Phish shouldn’t come there again…our kids are not safe😂
Wow, the quote from Scanty in the beginning was epic
Eh! Scanty, You have said it all. This particular lady has made her decision to do what she is doing, we shouldn't blame it on mental health. Because a person that is aware of her mental situation would seek help. All those time her Dad was sending her scriptures and stuff to help her, She had already made her decision internally. "when someone does not want to be helped if you do whatever, that person will still remain the same" It's life.
Thank U Guys for this Beautifull content. Scanty is the Best instructor among you guys. We need that your Energies to change the whole world, Big Up Bro
I just appreciate Scanty ❤ As for fish di3 maybe he should stay behind the camera 😂 success is not dictated by money
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Yes e be like the fish guy de3, empty barrel level.
@@mikevelox3857 Mike, stop fooling.😹😹😂😂😂😂
Why are you so mean?😂💔
@@mikevelox3857 ei boys dey talk ooooooo
This is why the young ones are dying nowadays, because they see their parents time have passed. Always quoting we're in a technology era and we keep on dying..... Scanty I support you
😂😂😂 masa masa they are old
Ayooo😅
I just love Scanty❤
I’m most definitely with Scanty on this. Just because you’re an adult doesn’t mean you should embarrass your family because of your own selfish actions. Your last name is very important!
Phish you Dey vecks me big time😖😖😖
Kraa
My first time watching Phish... I want to see him more... The studio is on fire 🔥🔥
For all you know,the dad tried to reason with the daughter but she decided to continue regardless. Every parent at some point will have a heart to heart conversation with their children to find out if everything is okay with them.
You’ve spoken my mind. Maybe the dad has tried all the approaches in the book. Biblical way koraa mpo. At some point frustration is bound to set in.
not every parent oo. some parents are too strict on their children
The other lady thinks she’s making sense aaama😂
Same thing I said😂😂
@@albertjunior4831 😆
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Let's be realistic. As a parent, your first reaction will definitely be anger. Because you cannot tell me that you will be calm enough to ask why she is posting her nudes. It does not make sense. Also, let's not forget that the way we are brought up in Africa is different from the Western world, so their methods would not work for us and vice versa. Scanty is right!!!!!!!
Scanty is full of wisdom, the others were just ranting. I don't know what they took before shooting that show. It's very disappointing.
The lady in black is very ridiculous 😂. She said “ she wasn’t disrespectful”. 😂😂
i respect scanty alot for the side he took
Scanty always solos everyone when they discuss🔥🔥🔥🔥
Those saying leave them to do what they want de33 as the local proverb says. 3nntoo wo a da!
We should be proud of our African train I swear until you come to the western world you’re going to appreciate African parents always
Scanty is right in all angles
Scanty is wrong on this one
@@Kwami357 like how remember we are in African not in the wast
@Adam Salia so? If you want to stick to African culture 24/7, give up your smartphones, stop wearing jeans or suit or shirts. Stop speaking English. Pick up and go live in the forest and give up all your modern indulgences.
@@Kwami357he is very right on this one
Scanty to the world❤🔥💯
I agree with Scanty, I have 4 sisters for me they are the pride of the family
Scanty always really spit the gospel truth ☝️🙏🙏🫶🏻
Scantyyyyyy!! I love this guy.
So are they trying to say that if it was to be their child they’ll be calmly talking to their children? I think the Dad is right and Scanty is totally right
Scanty nailed bro!
Heh 😂! It's like 7 against Scanty but he still made serious points...😅👏👏👏👏🤝🤝🤝❤my man!
Scanty always being real with the situation, then we have adwoa and the dark girl, always bitting about the bush. smh
Honour thy Father and Mother for this is a commandment with a promise
Y’all should get where scanty is coming from pls ... you’re very intelligent scanty ❤
Wow much respect to Scanty because he's really deep❤
To me, from her Dad's message, it was obvious her father was fed up and was sending the message as a fed up parent.
He had already approached her calmly before but this lady is going through things and as a wise father as her father was, he just
replied thank you to tell you how her father has been dealing with her.
To me the father should just leave her alone, if she dies as in scanty's scenario, her father is ready for that because he had
already treatened to disown meaning he is ready for the worse from her. When she grows she will come back to beg as usual.
Scanty is true . I remember I won a huge sum of money through bet and less than a week I spent all the money I didn’t even know what I used the money for I was just spending it anyhow
i think Scanty here is very very right......we need someone on this earth to guide us through it.....someone who has experienced real life like our parents
Scanty you are right
These days the youth want to defend negativity with everything they have and it is sad . Wait till their kids turn up to misbehave and look at their reaction
But for real scanty be the real dude ,His facial expression saf go make you laugh 😂
Really scanty is like one against all that guy be tooo much😂😊😊
Scanty usually spits facts🔥🔥🔥