Hypergamy is a real thing. A woman cannot take care of a man for a long period of time. She'll resent the man and will leave. But nowadays, a man's value has been diminished to money. So a question you should ask a woman as soon as you encounter her is, "How much does your submission cost?". Because your respect is only tantamount to the amount of money in your account. A man is only loved on the basics that he provides multiple things; whereas a woman just have to look good. That's why a billionaire/millionaire can marry a girl who's not working and it'll not be a problem but a woman who's rich will NEVER marry a jobless man and still give him the respect he deserves. Life isn't fair so play by the rules and make sure you have what the market is looking for every season. Great Discussion
I love the show and I'm enjoying it but I think when it comes to some of these delicate discussions maybe you guys can invite one married man or woman to be part of the panel to bring some real life into the discussion. I laugh at some of the opinions because I feel you are young and don't really know what marriage entails. You all are just speaking from what you think you know and what you think but marriage is more than that. I laughed hard when Scanty said he can marry a self made woman who won't cook, wash or do anything in the home just because she has money. When you get married it's a different ball game. I think a married person will share a real life experience because they are actually living it.
We need to ask ourselves that at the end of the day the kinda of society we want. Because clearly our perception that women submitting means they are doormat is wrong. If you get a good man trust me you will be better off. Also, both parties need to work on themselves. I keep saying a wise woman more powerful than an atomic bomb. A woman of substance who knows her role in a marriage will reign. Respect your man as a head and also play your part.
Scanty you fuck!n really good when it comes to social and relationship talks like this. Man, you really add up something to kwadwo sheldon studios when it comes to all this talks. Well learned guy @scanty
Scanty is talking without thinking. See, men and women are different in all comparisons, physically, emotionally, mentally and even tolerance. So a man should never marry a woman who wants to compete with him for the same role or function in the home. There's always gonna be conflicts. Their different roles complements each other which is necessary to have an all rounded home.
A woman can still be submissive if she wants to, whether she's doing better than him or not. Things do not always go as planned. Your man being broke does not necessarily mean he'll be broke forever
It sometimes depends on the attitude of both Partners. I know a male lawyer and a WAEC official(who is high ranked) and they've both married for long. They're very fun to be with, they understand each other perfectly and the woman is still submissive to the man. I also know a Female lecturer from one of the universities who is a Professor and her husband works in the corporate sector and they're both really admirable, the woman is higher in terms of academics but very submissive to the man. I know a lot more but I really think it has to do with attitude.
Hello 15:10 . It's important to understand that the submission of a woman to a man comes with a BIG condition : LOVE. Ephesians 5 : 22 - 33. A man who is expecting submission from his wife has to love her. Loving her comes with lots of responsibilities. And a woman who feels loved submits easily to her man without a question. Thanks 😊
@@nanayaw7632 I guess that comes down to what everybody wants. But yeah the financial aspect is important. Like Davido said , Love sweet but when money enters love is … 😀
That biblical context is unapplicable today cos women in past are not the same as modern women. Love is something you build together. It's a process which involves several elements from both parties; Submission inclusive. In any case how do you define a man's love?
@@seniorjunior9141 the biblical context remains applicable throughout the ages, even ours. It’s a matter of if one wants to abide by it or not. There are still people living in those context today. And it’s not just a matter of « women »
This whole double standard is based on the fact that a man's traditional role primarily demands money and woman's role doesn't. Which means that if the woman is having more money even if the man is doing well, she must continue to play her role despite. Also you can add your money to the man's so that he plays his role even better. Women must know that their not being submissive because they are expected not to have money but because that's their role. Marriage is about role playing of both feminine and masculine energy. These energies cannot change roles else it fails.
One other thing to consider is what happens when although you both met up at a 100% one gets elevated within the marriage. Say one starts a business and does extremely well.
Scanty is making no sense today. How can u tell me, even if we are at the same level, no one needs to submit to another. A wife should do her job at home as well and a good man will also help when the need arise
Scanty is 💯 right ✅️ As a man, you have to provide for you're Family, the women just play the supportive role. If the woman is superior, the marriage will not last.
Yet again, I feel sad when I hear women reducing the capacity of men to money. When women stress on money, it makes me wonder how this generation of women would have coped if they were born years back during the time of our parents’ marriage. Submission has no link with the ability for the man to make money. Submission is submission, simple. Scanty nailed the point. Just be careful who you go in for.
When a girl is on a higher level than the guy, the lady takes most decision. That's the same way when you both are on the same level, the guy can't dictate to the lady or ask the lady do certain stuffs but then the lady will do stuffs as to when she pleases
Google definition was extreme, most of the modern women will not even agree to this definition. A modern woman with sense and decency is okay, anything than that is frown upon in any culture not Africa alone. Also Scanty can’t marry a modern woman because he himself said his mom or parents must accept the woman he wants to marry and 99% of mothers won’t accept google definition of modern woman😅.
The modern women are the worst thing happening to the family structure now and unfortunately a lot of our African women are copying these behaviors until they reach 40 with no partner but with saggy BBLs and fake hair, bigger belly. Just remember you will never be young and fresh forever. Nothing wrong with having a strong independent woman but both sexes but know and respect their roles.
I know of a lady who was in a relationship with a broke guy but the guy really has some plans (vision). The friends of the lady doesn't support the lady dating the guy but then the lady loves this guy. When ever it the lady's birthday or vals day, the lady sends the guy money to get some stuffs so that her friends won't come talking bad about her guy. She would have been okay if nothing was provided on these day but she does that because of her friends
Lets all agree that Scanty cannot always choose the side of the motion that makes all the sense. He needs to present some opposing views. He is still solid on his submissions and backs his opinions with his arguments. The modern man or woman should remember that everyone around them will also be modern because they will attract thier own community. I love Adwoa.
I always say this, marry someone who is at your level or who is below you. Women naturally feel pompous when they get power and money. They are easily influenced by money and power and it makes submission difficult for them. Granted, there are some women who have power and money more than their husbands but they are genuinely submissive. However, the “modern woman” will be pompous. Just marry someone who is at your level.
I personally believe that the level of wealth of a man should be seen on his wife , If u want to know whether I am rich or not look at how my wife dresses when she goes out. It is that simple
This is such a wonderful programme but the important thing which is Christ being in the middle of the relationship was left out thats my opinion by the way
Submission naturally comes from a woman when a Man is responsible,Lets be frank here if a Man is not responsible then there is nothing making him thean for real,a woman is just helping thats all,and I believe this whole submission thing.also depends on where you come from n brought up,some of us know that matter how much you make or where you are cooking, cleaning and other house chores its yours noatee.what😂
The problem with current high earning modern women is they'll find it difficult to find date a man above their level, who is not already taken or not engaged with multiple women. Because a man who has made it to the top alone will majorly like to play the field and protect his assets then settle with one in his late years.
I don't think morden women are submitting to men at a whole,the fact that u have ur money on point does not mean the morden woman will submit to you. And it bores down to respect. If she respects and admire you,she will submit to you automatically. And it comes natural. She will not force it just because u have money and u can provide and match her energy on the same level. If she does not respect you,it will be difficult for her to submit to you.
We're here for Brie And to add up, as a man you have to be financially stable. If not, don't go for a woman. Keep to yourself and make money first. Money is the new god. Money is everything. Don't make money because of a woman, make money because of yourself, for yourself.
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Hypergamy is a real thing. A woman cannot take care of a man for a long period of time. She'll resent the man and will leave. But nowadays, a man's value has been diminished to money. So a question you should ask a woman as soon as you encounter her is, "How much does your submission cost?". Because your respect is only tantamount to the amount of money in your account. A man is only loved on the basics that he provides multiple things; whereas a woman just have to look good. That's why a billionaire/millionaire can marry a girl who's not working and it'll not be a problem but a woman who's rich will NEVER marry a jobless man and still give him the respect he deserves. Life isn't fair so play by the rules and make sure you have what the market is looking for every season. Great Discussion
100%
Facts.💯💯
Give Bro an Oscar. His IQ is up there.
The sense in this is near total perfection.
Top tier🤝
Detailed.
Fantastic point
The whole Ghana ibi Kwado Sheldon Sudius wey get the best camera quality
Can this show be live streamed? I'd love to interact with the panel and give my thoughts, I'm sure others will also be interested…
That will be dope. Maybe they will add it to the show as time goes on.
I love the show and I'm enjoying it but I think when it comes to some of these delicate discussions maybe you guys can invite one married man or woman to be part of the panel to bring some real life into the discussion. I laugh at some of the opinions because I feel you are young and don't really know what marriage entails. You all are just speaking from what you think you know and what you think but marriage is more than that. I laughed hard when Scanty said he can marry a self made woman who won't cook, wash or do anything in the home just because she has money. When you get married it's a different ball game. I think a married person will share a real life experience because they are actually living it.
Let's Cooooookkkkk❤️❤️❤️
💯👌
Trye
Absolutely agree
well said
Nene is a top notch wise guy👌. Scanty sometimes just dey talk by heart😂
By heart ?? 😮
Nene dey talk sense always 🤲🏾
Nene always know a couple in every situation😂😂😂 Eeii bra Nene😂😂😂
True😂😂😂😂😂
Eei you always I know someone 😂😂
Kudos to you guys because this show is making me learn many this 👏 ❤
Many what? Bro have a better day
We need to ask ourselves that at the end of the day the kinda of society we want. Because clearly our perception that women submitting means they are doormat is wrong. If you get a good man trust me you will be better off. Also, both parties need to work on themselves. I keep saying a wise woman more powerful than an atomic bomb. A woman of substance who knows her role in a marriage will reign. Respect your man as a head and also play your part.
The team is now solid, my heartie Brie is contributing enough also, Big ups.
Mutual respect, consideration and love solves all these issues. Valuing each other will always win period.
Scanty you fuck!n really good when it comes to social and relationship talks like this. Man, you really add up something to kwadwo sheldon studios when it comes to all this talks. Well learned guy @scanty
Versatile Scanty 💯…He Dey everywhere some.The only one who talks on all the KSS channels;Prrr,Bants & Rants,Yawa of the day,etc
I love de way Nene dey take tins from different perspectives
Bossu scanty is a whole mood(you are the tail not even the intestines 😂)
I dey feel Ras NENE waaa❤
eiiiiii scantyyyyy 🔥😂😂😂😂😂 "some don't have neck" s3 s3n 😂😂😂
Scanty carried the day 🔥🤞, wisdom bro
Thanks for that enlightenment Nene
Scanty is funny and sometimes annoying 😂😂 without him too the panelists will be incomplete
Can’t agree less 😂
He just brings some lightness to the convo. They all can't be too rigid/serious.
Scanty is just good at what he does, even on his bad days I think he intentionally change to make the programme more interesting.
Scanty when they meet its a chemical reaction ooh so deadly.
sheldon should find sponsorships for this show it's gonna be lit.
Scanty always makes me laugh ah😂😊.. much love bro ❤
Way to go, guys. Good job on the show. I agree w/ Scanty on his philosphy on his partner's appearance, it's very important. Keep it up!
Nene, you dey talk sense waaaaaa
I love Hw scanty dey talk .sense dey waaaaaa
Scanty is talking without thinking. See, men and women are different in all comparisons, physically, emotionally, mentally and even tolerance. So a man should never marry a woman who wants to compete with him for the same role or function in the home. There's always gonna be conflicts. Their different roles complements each other which is necessary to have an all rounded home.
Faaaaccccctttssss💯
The only rule in marriage is to make each other happy.
Do unto others...
Don’t take scanty serious
Nene knows what's up💯💯
A woman can still be submissive if she wants to, whether she's doing better than him or not. Things do not always go as planned. Your man being broke does not necessarily mean he'll be broke forever
It sometimes depends on the attitude of both Partners. I know a male lawyer and a WAEC official(who is high ranked) and they've both married for long. They're very fun to be with, they understand each other perfectly and the woman is still submissive to the man. I also know a Female lecturer from one of the universities who is a Professor and her husband works in the corporate sector and they're both really admirable, the woman is higher in terms of academics but very submissive to the man. I know a lot more but I really think it has to do with attitude.
Exactly
Hello 15:10 . It's important to understand that the submission of a woman to a man comes with a BIG condition : LOVE. Ephesians 5 : 22 - 33. A man who is expecting submission from his wife has to love her. Loving her comes with lots of responsibilities. And a woman who feels loved submits easily to her man without a question. Thanks 😊
But current times that Love=money
@@nanayaw7632 I guess that comes down to what everybody wants. But yeah the financial aspect is important. Like Davido said , Love sweet but when money enters love is … 😀
That biblical context is unapplicable today cos women in past are not the same as modern women. Love is something you build together. It's a process which involves several elements from both parties; Submission inclusive. In any case how do you define a man's love?
@@seniorjunior9141 the biblical context remains applicable throughout the ages, even ours. It’s a matter of if one wants to abide by it or not. There are still people living in those context today. And it’s not just a matter of « women »
Chale Scanty Dey force waaaaa, he Dey everywhere for the studio
My Scanty is very funny tho 😂😂😂😂
On the more serious note you need to be perfect before expecting your partner to be perfect as well
Eno be copper who dey bark😂😅😅 22:23
Herrrr Scanty paaaaaa 😂😂😂😂😂 we are not the neck sen 😂😂😂😂 we are not the tail biaaa masa
😂😂😭😭cry
These panelists are genius 👌especially my fav.. SCANTY
Sheldon you have to hire Scanty full time after NS oh 😂🤣
Kojo Sheldon studios informative than TV3
This whole double standard is based on the fact that a man's traditional role primarily demands money and woman's role doesn't. Which means that if the woman is having more money even if the man is doing well, she must continue to play her role despite. Also you can add your money to the man's so that he plays his role even better. Women must know that their not being submissive because they are expected not to have money but because that's their role. Marriage is about role playing of both feminine and masculine energy. These energies cannot change roles else it fails.
This scanty guy is different bruh 😂 I feel you bruh that’s facts😅
Whole sense in this 🫶🏿
Scanty it's not too late for you! Man up
Watching this for the second time. Such an insightful discussion. Well done and keep it up.
Once again I'm here for you Adwoa Addy 🥰🤣
Nene on show!!!
One other thing to consider is what happens when although you both met up at a 100% one gets elevated within the marriage. Say one starts a business and does extremely well.
I love Nene's vibe
Scanty is making no sense today. How can u tell me, even if we are at the same level, no one needs to submit to another. A wife should do her job at home as well and a good man will also help when the need arise
Exactly oo bro! Today some of his points were off
He's playing devil's advocate. Make you no biz am
Great submission
😂you wait .He will surely get married
I love these kinda contents. 😊
Scanty is 💯 right ✅️ As a man, you have to provide for you're Family, the women just play the supportive role. If the woman is superior, the marriage will not last.
Yet again, I feel sad when I hear women reducing the capacity of men to money. When women stress on money, it makes me wonder how this generation of women would have coped if they were born years back during the time of our parents’ marriage. Submission has no link with the ability for the man to make money. Submission is submission, simple. Scanty nailed the point. Just be careful who you go in for.
That "Then again" thing the bore me rough. You nor fit express yourself without starting with "Then again"? Ah tsw
"Then again" Nene no go kee person 😂😂
I enjoy this show so much # shout out to you guys ❤
When a girl is on a higher level than the guy, the lady takes most decision. That's the same way when you both are on the same level, the guy can't dictate to the lady or ask the lady do certain stuffs but then the lady will do stuffs as to when she pleases
The way things dey go de3 adwoa n scanty for marry eh😂
Not much are worth marrying. We naa weno wan marrying dada na modern women? SETTINGS SORR!!!
A tell you 😂😂😂
Ashockkkk settings nkoaaaaa
😂😂aswear
Google definition was extreme, most of the modern women will not even agree to this definition.
A modern woman with sense and decency is okay, anything than that is frown upon in any culture not Africa alone.
Also Scanty can’t marry a modern woman because he himself said his mom or parents must accept the woman he wants to marry and 99% of mothers won’t accept google definition of modern woman😅.
The modern women are the worst thing happening to the family structure now and unfortunately a lot of our African women are copying these behaviors until they reach 40 with no partner but with saggy BBLs and fake hair, bigger belly. Just remember you will never be young and fresh forever. Nothing wrong with having a strong independent woman but both sexes but know and respect their roles.
i would like to see Sheldon, Afia Addy, Nabeela and Scanty all on BAnts and Rants
I like Scanty's Vibes 😅😂😂
Herh scanty be some different guy😂😂😂
I know of a lady who was in a relationship with a broke guy but the guy really has some plans (vision). The friends of the lady doesn't support the lady dating the guy but then the lady loves this guy. When ever it the lady's birthday or vals day, the lady sends the guy money to get some stuffs so that her friends won't come talking bad about her guy. She would have been okay if nothing was provided on these day but she does that because of her friends
Scanty 😂😂, akoa maths awu😂😂. Denominator is on top😂😂
Scanty is my favorite person now aswear
Herrr scanty ,no be u wey just graduate ernnn numerator ne denominator 😂😂😂
Scanty is my man. Lovely show guys, i am always learning. Somone please tell Nene am crushing seriously
Are you a gay 🎉😂😂eyyy Kwameisaac
👀
😭😭😂eyyy bra
@@Maradona12-c5h😂😂😂
@@wiizyhimsev6172ei dierr ei 😂😂
Damn! Bri is gorgeous 😻
I switched off at 10:55. Talk about fight for equality.
Seriously where does scanty get these things from...😂😂😂😂😂😂
Sometimes, Scanty's point are off.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
❤ my favorite squad
Love this show guys
As a man de3,Never let a woman buy anything for u even Sachet water cos after the relationship she will talk as if she bought Lamborghini give u😒
I love this episode
Candid submissions
Lets all agree that Scanty cannot always choose the side of the motion that makes all the sense. He needs to present some opposing views. He is still solid on his submissions and backs his opinions with his arguments. The modern man or woman should remember that everyone around them will also be modern because they will attract thier own community. I love Adwoa.
Whats up with we the modern Men ,we have our standard too.FINE BOY N SISI MU DEN NO DEY PAY
I always say this, marry someone who is at your level or who is below you. Women naturally feel pompous when they get power and money. They are easily influenced by money and power and it makes submission difficult for them. Granted, there are some women who have power and money more than their husbands but they are genuinely submissive. However, the “modern woman” will be pompous. Just marry someone who is at your level.
Scanty is making sense 😍
I personally believe that the level of wealth of a man should be seen on his wife , If u want to know whether I am rich or not look at how my wife dresses when she goes out. It is that simple
This is such a wonderful programme but the important thing which is Christ being in the middle of the relationship was left out thats my opinion by the way
Scanty should mention his name 4times before the program start
Scanty you are not allowing the other panelist to share their views. Always relax n observe the others too
Masa allow him oo
Submission naturally comes from a woman when a Man is responsible,Lets be frank here if a Man is not responsible then there is nothing making him thean for real,a woman is just helping thats all,and I believe this whole submission thing.also depends on where you come from n brought up,some of us know that matter how much you make or where you are cooking, cleaning and other house chores its yours noatee.what😂
Scanty this and yawa of the day us your field 😂we love u for this but dont come and do nonfa on prrr s3 wati😂
Ei Nene everytime you know this person you know that person....ei mr.Noah😂😂😂
Barrrrrrrrrssssssss
@@selorm522 your IQ dey very high bro💪🏽😹
The problem with current high earning modern women is they'll find it difficult to find date a man above their level, who is not already taken or not engaged with multiple women. Because a man who has made it to the top alone will majorly like to play the field and protect his assets then settle with one in his late years.
Prrr is the number one show, who is deceiving you?😂😂😂
🤣🤣
Facts! I am not a football fan but enjoys watching prrr.
😂😂😂😂😂
@@soniaainos7244 I thought am the only one addicted to Prrr
Prrrrrrr
Scanty be full street boy😂😂
Nice outfit Adwoa
Who misses Adowa? I came back to watch just because I miss her.
Herrh scanty Aswer 😂 😂💔💔
Nene is a wise man ❤
I don't think morden women are submitting to men at a whole,the fact that u have ur money on point does not mean the morden woman will submit to you. And it bores down to respect. If she respects and admire you,she will submit to you automatically. And it comes natural. She will not force it just because u have money and u can provide and match her energy on the same level. If she does not respect you,it will be difficult for her to submit to you.
We're here for Brie
And to add up, as a man you have to be financially stable. If not, don't go for a woman. Keep to yourself and make money first. Money is the new god. Money is everything. Don't make money because of a woman, make money because of yourself, for yourself.
Eii Scanty 😂... Intestine wahala 😂😂😂
We all know de lifestyle de modern woman dey leave in order to get a job or grade in de uni
Tell them again
I really love to watch scanty anyday
Eeeii Scanty Asuwer Adey Feel You Waaaa Bro💌💌
🤣🤣i watch this show because scanty dieer.., the tail s3n