I think Scanty has established himself as the official unofficial men's spokesperson. Brought up a lotta valid points that plagues masculinity in modern times. P.S. live interaction with viewers in the near future will be greatly appreciated for some of us who'd like to be a part of the conversation.
We bring money, commitment, love, energy, nurturing, encouragement, emotional attachment, putting y’all’s needs above ours and MANY more it’s not always about money
Getting married early b4 30's, I was a victim.the lady normally gave me that pressure but I turned it down whenever she raised that topic..later 1 or 2 things happened that ended our relationship, guess what It didn't take to 6 month and boom she got married ........so guys if you are not read, you are not.
On a serious note tho, if you really observant you’ll find out that the girls who are really independent and know their worth don’t have a problem answering the what do you bring to the table question..it’s the yaanom that eday trigger demma ego cos oni hwee ka. Yaanom just want to chop your money and vibe charlie young kings stay woke..”we living in crazy world”-Prof Akabenezer
You'll never hear " independent man" but independent woman..how many strong independent women have husband's? Most independent women don't have husbands
It’s funny to see how even with Lizzy overcompensating for her broke ex by paying the bill at the restaurant, he still cheated and till today she is hurt by it. Now imagine how the men who build houses or buy expensive phones and bags for their girlfriends would feel if cheated on. Remember, when us men love someone we go all out, even if it means starving for days, as long as the girl is happy. For us koraa , money is a pre requisite to have in a relationship, it’s non negotiable because without money the next best option for women is only one DM away. So if we can invest in a relationship both emotionally and financially and still have our heart broken FOR FREE, then why would we even want to commit? Not to mention that there are so many other things we bring to the table beside money, protection being one of them. For example, If we go out and someone harasses our girlfriend we have a duty to fight back to protect them even if it means getting seriously injured. They can never bring that to the table. All they know is time, love and affection which is still good but its also the bare minimum. We bring a lot more to the table and it can all be rendered useless for free so commitment will always be an issue for some men. Not me tho ✌🏾
This is what I think; Past Negative Experiences: Previous experiences, such as heartbreak, betrayal, or failed relationships, can leave emotional scars and create a fear of being hurt again. These experiences may make some men hesitant to commit to future relationships, as they fear experiencing similar pain or disappointment. Unresolved Personal Issues: Men, like anyone else, can have personal insecurities, unresolved emotional issues, or fear of intimacy. These underlying factors can make it challenging to fully engage and commit to a relationship. Fear of vulnerability or fear of being emotionally exposed can hinder the willingness to commit. Societal and Cultural Influences: Societal and cultural norms can play a role in shaping expectations and perceptions around masculinity, which may include ideas of avoiding commitment or valuing independence. These influences can impact individuals' beliefs and behaviors regarding relationships. Uncertainty and Fear of Failure: Committing to a long-term relationship comes with unknowns and uncertainties. Some men may fear that they won't be able to meet the expectations or maintain a successful relationship. The fear of failure can make them hesitant to fully commit.
If Adwoa earns GH¢2,000 monthly and she alone, she will be content with what she has but when/if she’s in a relationship and her guy earns GH¢1,000 more or less, she will still depend on her guy for shopping and personal upkeeps but what she forget is the guy will own up to his responsibilities.
i am a young lady and i agree with the guys. 💯. most women can’t answer the question “what do you bring to the table”. we can’t bring any logical answer to that. sadly. as i grow, i gradually know what i bring and even be more specific with it. “love, commitment and time” is not an effective contribution on the table. its most definitely part of it but doesn’t cover the whole table.
@@triciak5040we all bring something to the table but i think some women are vague with their answers. men i think bring a lot too but some men are equally the same as women who do not know what exactly they bring. lol i personally hate that question even though i have something to bring to the table
@@marrriiee so everyone does their part. They should just stop asking that question unless of course they have something they want us to bring then we will gladly provide
Naa scanty for talk about ein past relationship(s) onetime cus it looks like them show chairman pepper 😂 anything they dive into conversations like these you could see bruh is talking out of pains 😂😂😂💔
Scanty fails to disappoint 😂
Discussions like this should involve him
He tear pass 😂😂😂
he fool pass
i fit watch am the whole day😂😂
Scanty's confidence is top top!!!! What!!🔥
Please you guys should be releasing these kind of topics 5 times a week chale !
Y’all are doing best!!!
Big shouts to eiscanty!🥂
Make the new guy come around more often. He brings the heat🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Thanks
My guy scanty is the boss 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think Scanty has established himself as the official unofficial men's spokesperson. Brought up a lotta valid points that plagues masculinity in modern times.
P.S. live interaction with viewers in the near future will be greatly appreciated for some of us who'd like to be a part of the conversation.
Scanty said "what did you fvcking bring"😂😂😂
Maybe y’all should sometimes make this show live and allow some subscribers to also engage in the discussions
Yesoo
Yhyh
You are right
Nice one
Very true
Lizzy is talking out of her heartbreak experience😂😂😂😂
Scanty is the reason why I follow this channel 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Ahahahaaaaa herh Scanty🤣🤣🤣he said do you know how much a guy spend before telling you I love you 🤣🤣🤣
Naa scantys’ energy when Lizzy came around 🔥🔥😂😂
We bring money, commitment, love, energy, nurturing, encouragement, emotional attachment, putting y’all’s needs above ours and MANY more it’s not always about money
Commit & get drained?? 😅😅 Hakimi don show us the way 😂😂
Scanty always says everything on my mind,❤😂😂
Getting married early b4 30's, I was a victim.the lady normally gave me that pressure but I turned it down whenever she raised that topic..later 1 or 2 things happened that ended our relationship, guess what It didn't take to 6 month and boom she got married ........so guys if you are not read, you are not.
Y lizzy taking it like a world war. She’s being extra😂😂
The studio is getting heated 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥😍😍💯💯. Shout out to Scanty ❤️
Lizzy's ex broke her heart soo hard 😂😂😂😂 I can see it in her eyes😢.
I swear bro
guy as adey watch I say ah, na )baa b3n ni? n'ano y3den papa😭🤣
We want Lizzy vs Scanty on the next episode
Oh naah, Lizzy no go fit😂😂 she will deff 😂 and won’t come back😂😂😂
Scanty is very knowledgeable. Bless you.
On a serious note tho, if you really observant you’ll find out that the girls who are really independent and know their worth don’t have a problem answering the what do you bring to the table question..it’s the yaanom that eday trigger demma ego cos oni hwee ka. Yaanom just want to chop your money and vibe charlie young kings stay woke..”we living in crazy world”-Prof Akabenezer
You'll never hear " independent man" but independent woman..how many strong independent women have husband's? Most independent women don't have husbands
LOve this show "Bants and Rants" from Cameroon
Scanty be some ruffian😂😂😂😂
Scanty be the realest 😂
The inscription for the Christy ein shirt top dey funny me😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Fadi banku....take chop banku
I feel like you can be committed and still respect each other's space
Yeah
You are right
Absolutely Yes
Scanty to the whole wiase🤣🤣🤣the guy be funny
Small thing lizzy do give ein Guy she said she’ll never forget it eii 😂😂💔
It’s funny to see how even with Lizzy overcompensating for her broke ex by paying the bill at the restaurant, he still cheated and till today she is hurt by it. Now imagine how the men who build houses or buy expensive phones and bags for their girlfriends would feel if cheated on. Remember, when us men love someone we go all out, even if it means starving for days, as long as the girl is happy. For us koraa , money is a pre requisite to have in a relationship, it’s non negotiable because without money the next best option for women is only one DM away. So if we can invest in a relationship both emotionally and financially and still have our heart broken FOR FREE, then why would we even want to commit? Not to mention that there are so many other things we bring to the table beside money, protection being one of them. For example, If we go out and someone harasses our girlfriend we have a duty to fight back to protect them even if it means getting seriously injured. They can never bring that to the table. All they know is time, love and affection which is still good but its also the bare minimum. We bring a lot more to the table and it can all be rendered useless for free so commitment will always be an issue for some men. Not me tho ✌🏾
Heerrrr naaa looking at wat Lizzy is saying eerrr u can see ein ex disturb am waaa 😂😂😂
but why is Lizzy shouting...aden ne boi gyae no yayaaaaya anaa 🤣🤣🤣
Step on their necks Scantyyy💔😂
Scanty and Lizzy are crazy😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I can stop laughing
the truth is....The way to a man's heart is patience...take it or leave it
lizzy should be on the panel next time. she brings more fire
I think they should do part 2 of this particular topic
Yeah
She is just shouting 😂😂😂
She really take the thing personal tho😂
Not her fault tho, Scanty is just annoying more times and 😂😂😂😂
Lizzy ein ex really worry her o ei 😂😂
Now I know that feeling Sheldon gets when there’s vawulence😅😅😅
I love how Scanty took this thing soooo personal 😂
on God🤣🤣🤣
Ei Scanty is making a lot of sense ❤❤❤
Eii Scanty no go break my ribs🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Adwoa's ego is hurt 😂😂
This is what I think;
Past Negative Experiences: Previous experiences, such as heartbreak, betrayal, or failed relationships, can leave emotional scars and create a fear of being hurt again. These experiences may make some men hesitant to commit to future relationships, as they fear experiencing similar pain or disappointment.
Unresolved Personal Issues: Men, like anyone else, can have personal insecurities, unresolved emotional issues, or fear of intimacy. These underlying factors can make it challenging to fully engage and commit to a relationship. Fear of vulnerability or fear of being emotionally exposed can hinder the willingness to commit.
Societal and Cultural Influences: Societal and cultural norms can play a role in shaping expectations and perceptions around masculinity, which may include ideas of avoiding commitment or valuing independence. These influences can impact individuals' beliefs and behaviors regarding relationships.
Uncertainty and Fear of Failure: Committing to a long-term relationship comes with unknowns and uncertainties. Some men may fear that they won't be able to meet the expectations or maintain a successful relationship. The fear of failure can make them hesitant to fully commit.
How LIzzy and Scanty dey argue nu
Is there anything we should know 😂 coz 😂😂😂 it’s like Scanty broke her heart 😂😂😂😂
Scanty be a whole vib 😂😂😂😂
We love y’all ❤️‼️
Bro it’s true we need freedom. I can spend the whole day with her and 90 minutes for football and she gets angry😂
😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Adey feel scanty pass , anytime anyday everywhere, when there's argument.
Scanty be whole mood😂
Ose,you dey make my head conf 😂😂😂😂 Kelly in the building 😂😂😂😂
Girls finds it difficult to answer that question “ what do you bring to the table “ 😂😂😂
Wat do we guys bring to the table
Aswear jah 😂😂..they feel offended if you ask😂
Scanty honestly dey make the show dey beee😂😂😂
At this point i want to know the losses scanty has made cos....he's always stressing on that😂😂
Heat😂🔥🔥. Please there should be part 2😂… Phish or Oojoe should be included
Never commit . We love our freedom
Kelly is that guy😂😂 I think he has a point always 😂🎉❤
Thanks dear
Scanty your mind grow pass ... big ups bro
Scanty to the world 😂😅
Scanty really be some guy😂😂😂😂. Great show . Y’all made very good points . Keep it up guys.
Lizzy relax, you're scaring me on the thumbnail. 😂😂😂
Herh Lizzy is that what you are saying about me😢😢😢😢😢After all I did😢
😂😂
😂😂
If Adwoa earns GH¢2,000 monthly and she alone, she will be content with what she has but when/if she’s in a relationship and her guy earns GH¢1,000 more or less, she will still depend on her guy for shopping and personal upkeeps but what she forget is the guy will own up to his responsibilities.
That aaaaaalll
Scanty fool waaa😅😅😅😅
Always do this like 3 hours 😂😂😂😂
I love scanty’s energy 😂
Finally, a worthy opponent for scanty😅
i am a young lady and i agree with the guys. 💯. most women can’t answer the question “what do you bring to the table”. we can’t bring any logical answer to that. sadly. as i grow, i gradually know what i bring and even be more specific with it. “love, commitment and time” is not an effective contribution on the table. its most definitely part of it but doesn’t cover the whole table.
So what do guys bring to the table?? Coz apart from money, I don't know what they bring
@@triciak5040we all bring something to the table but i think some women are vague with their answers. men i think bring a lot too but some men are equally the same as women who do not know what exactly they bring. lol i personally hate that question even though i have something to bring to the table
@@marrriiee so everyone does their part. They should just stop asking that question unless of course they have something they want us to bring then we will gladly provide
@marrriiee, you are very right especially dating someone who only thinks that sex is all that matters in a relationship
Commit to your job and God if you have one. Don't ever commit to a woman, she's not your family member.
Please Operation we need Lizzy on the panel
🔥🔥 😅
No no no Scanty and Lizzy get beef anaa 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Ask òoh😂😂😂😂
Nabeela should be part of this topic. This girl is straight😀😀😀😀
the brotherhood is always proud of Scanty 😂
If she age 19 and Lizy was able to do that for a guy then she tried, so SCANTY please give her her flowers
Kelly be serious aswear 😂😂
Hahaha thanks
Scanty and the other guy are funny and smart waaaaa
OOH Poor Lizzy talking out of emotions and broken heart...🥹🥹
Scantyyyy and the new guy🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 heat them up heat them up!!!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥
Scanty❤pls u get feelings??😂
Kasa y3 nframa. by now he be Mr otua saf
Scanty always speaks for mandem😂😂😂😂
Team scanty❤❤❤😂
This what do you bring to the table issue ede asem beba😂..ma boy go ask ein woman, she tell am say real men don’t ask that question.. herh😂😂
The guy be good add on lol
Thanks
Ask them which one of them will volunteer to answer the door at 2am or when danger is approaching? We lay our lives literally in relationships.
Charle enor easy oo
Ma guy tell them
This is serious bro
Scanty and Kelly bi LEGENDS 🔥🔥💯
Lol
Lizzy said "Listen" like 10,000 times😂
Scanty geng, lets gather here🎉🎉🎉🎉
couldn't stop laughing. they use Lizzy for case study atear n🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ow u guys stop it Lizzy will cry😢😢😅😅
scantyyyyy 😂😂
Lizzy is just pained.... the restaurant pain am ooo
Heatttttt🔥🔥🔥
I love this discussion ❤❤❤
Scanty is speaking his heart out
heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Lizzy seems too Temperamental 😄😄
Heatttt😂😂😂
Like this Bants fir be live, what the womanhood dey talk hmmm only God knows
A lady told me I should put a halt dancing 🕺 😂😂😂 and also stop replying with videos on TikTok on their comments …heeer ladies 😂
I love u guys ,
Men don't fear commitment. We just know what we want so if a man is not committing to you then just know u ain't it...
Naa scanty for talk about ein past relationship(s) onetime cus it looks like them show chairman pepper 😂 anything they dive into conversations like these you could see bruh is talking out of pains 😂😂😂💔