IS IT NECESSARY TO MOVE IN WITH YOUR PARTNER AT THE RELATIONSHIP STAGE?

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  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +264

    I sometimes just stare at Scanty when he’s commenting on issues like these. This guy speaks a lot of sense. The generation today have little to no morals and have now sugarcoated wrong things as the order of the day. Scanty, you speak facts

    • @KozmotheKid
      @KozmotheKid Год назад +3

      Very true… he’s wise

    • @Zahari_tech
      @Zahari_tech Год назад +4

      Scanty be one top guy.

    • @okaiethel2354
      @okaiethel2354 Год назад +1

      I always see Arnold in hiim❤

    • @enochpanful4988
      @enochpanful4988 Год назад

      This makes so much sense.

    • @davidolegendary2244
      @davidolegendary2244 Год назад +5

      Someone said..
      "Youth today sees Evil as Fun"
      So I don't get surprise when people try defending something which is wrong/bad.

  • @nsafoaphlash679
    @nsafoaphlash679 Год назад +51

    And the way scanty started no, i knew something great was coming😂😂😂. He was on point throughout the whole show🔥🔥🔥

  • @owiredustephen2625
    @owiredustephen2625 Год назад +67

    Low key low key Scanty is wise oo 🎉

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад +4

      i love scanty opinion but girls will think scanty is a cheater.

    • @benblarney
      @benblarney Год назад +4

      He's not biaa 😂😂😂

    • @graceennin4899
      @graceennin4899 8 месяцев назад

      He is!

  • @triciak5040
    @triciak5040 Год назад +71

    I'm with Scanty and Brie on this. You can know someone from a distance if you want to know them. Not necessarily staying with them

    • @xendastark3407
      @xendastark3407 10 месяцев назад +2

      Very true. Character can never be hidden even from afar. You don't need to cohabit to know your partner. I don't know who is teaching Kelly that mentality. He's totally lost.

    • @Frank265
      @Frank265 10 месяцев назад

      💯💯

  • @CruiseComrade
    @CruiseComrade Год назад +87

    Scanty just made me smile with his bars, we are back like a buttock.

  • @kwadwosheldonstudios
    @kwadwosheldonstudios  Год назад +32

    ‼️Kindly Like the video and subscribe to the channel

  • @Memedigester
    @Memedigester Год назад +57

    The success of Bant and Rant must be attributed to Scanty fr. I got more interested in this show because of him.

  • @sethdartey6518
    @sethdartey6518 Год назад +32

    People sey what they want know i have married for 16 years and I still learn everyday I find new things about my partner I mean my wife. So if your girlfriend move in with you and you think that will help you to know her better is a lie you can never know everything till you guys get married even that one it's not easy

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      Still dunno them after marriage.

  • @lucasapinya8832
    @lucasapinya8832 Год назад +31

    Ten mins into the video and I have a feeling Adwoa agrees with Director Kelly

  • @princekent2718
    @princekent2718 Год назад +40

    Brie has talk as any virtuous woman should bee 💥🤘

  • @jefflyn2225
    @jefflyn2225 Год назад +11

    scanty 💯 facts . You lose your job , your family and friends are there . The respect must be kept
    You can't depend on your girlfriend .

  • @stephenasamoa-agyare5637
    @stephenasamoa-agyare5637 Год назад +9

    Cohabiting is fun till one dies in your room.

  • @adamsalia3523
    @adamsalia3523 Год назад +12

    Scanty is talking like an real African man 😂😂😂

  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +71

    I love scanty. “If you’re a guy and you’re in need and the only option you have is your girlfriend, you have failed. “ true fact Scanty

    • @Nofsgivin
      @Nofsgivin Год назад +3

      I somewhat agree with him, you shouldn’t let you girlfriend be your only option. I do not like the idea of asking your woman for your need..

    • @nerogyi7361
      @nerogyi7361 Год назад +2

      Facts

    • @stylzk1830
      @stylzk1830 11 месяцев назад

      I don’t see anything wrong with going to your girlfriend for help

  • @aarontruth
    @aarontruth Год назад +12

    Scanty is the main reason I watch Bants & Rants, from first to finish

  • @crelantnti7575
    @crelantnti7575 Год назад +9

    I agree with Scanty and Bree
    Living with your gf or bf is a no ! They take you for granted and whatever they used to do for you they don’t do again. Like they take you out, buy you gifts 🎁 living together they stop everything because they see you everyday. So I don’t think living together as gf and bf is a good idea. 😊

  • @halidmusah5334
    @halidmusah5334 Год назад +22

    See how Adwoa make quiet dey listen to director and lowkey backing him😂😂😂
    Adwoa de3 ODO ne commitment y3 ne d3 too much.😂😂😂

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂 aah charley

    • @halidmusah5334
      @halidmusah5334 Год назад +1

      @@yawjay 😂😂adey lie

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      @@halidmusah5334 😂 you no dey lie kraa...the way love and commitment dey sweet Adwoa ennn

    • @KkbmultimediaConcepts
      @KkbmultimediaConcepts Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @qc_blogtv
    @qc_blogtv Год назад +29

    I know for a fact that adwoa dont mess around even just listening or watching her!! She really understands what relationship means.... n i love her for that!!

  • @ismailjibriel6991
    @ismailjibriel6991 Год назад +15

    Bro scanty is always on point, he never miss.😂

  • @creepnews
    @creepnews Год назад +29

    You guys are missing an important factor. People change, there’s nothing you can do about that. A successful marriage is just by God’s grace

    • @kwadwoampong9790
      @kwadwoampong9790 Год назад +3

      May the God of our fathers bless u for this comment, stay safe

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      It's luck.

    • @Naya__Brooks
      @Naya__Brooks Год назад +5

      Marriage is not for two perfect people but two imperfect people who understand each other and are both willing to make it work by adapting to each other.

    • @byheartboy925
      @byheartboy925 Год назад +2

      ​@@Naya__BrooksI agree totally.....we live,make mistakes,learn and move on. We build a relationship based on our imperfections

  • @bigg_2.0
    @bigg_2.0 10 месяцев назад +2

    Scanty is really advising. He speaks a lot of sense and am 100% with scanty with what he’s saying …

  • @asarerabbi390
    @asarerabbi390 Год назад +12

    Scanty is smart ! .. You know most of our problem is the type of women or men we go in for that’s why we feel we should be under the same roof during courtship to actually realize what we anticipated … instinctively speaking there are individuals you have strong intuition if you accept to start a journey with there’s a high possibility it will end in marriage even though they aren’t perfect they will definitely be within target but then you will never choose them

  • @Tiana_Asante
    @Tiana_Asante Год назад +82

    I support Scanty, and the lady sitting with him, with 10,000 bags of cement.😂

  • @gabrieltetteh9830
    @gabrieltetteh9830 Год назад +4

    Scanty aced this argument!
    Everything he said is spot on.

  • @matildaadjei4197
    @matildaadjei4197 Год назад +36

    I agree with scanty 100% .Just few hours hanging out is enough. 😂. 😂😂

  • @sethanadjoe1787
    @sethanadjoe1787 Год назад +5

    Scanty has good view about life. Like that. God bless your efforts bruh

  • @zachariahkwesidrake7381
    @zachariahkwesidrake7381 Год назад +12

    Kelly and Adwoa are the only ones being real today.
    I would love to know Nene's POV on this topic. So bad he's not around.

  • @porshiaamankwa36
    @porshiaamankwa36 Год назад +20

    The video hasn’t even started and Eii Scanty 😂😂

  • @owusubempah8011
    @owusubempah8011 Год назад +6

    I agree with Scanty. Such situations usually end up at Ante Naa on radio😂. Y'all must be serious. What compels you to build your own house when you're already living in a rent-free one?

  • @user-nt7me2qd4p
    @user-nt7me2qd4p Год назад +5

    Scanty is spitting facts charlie........🔥🔥🔥

  • @user-py4uu7td8f
    @user-py4uu7td8f 8 месяцев назад +1

    Charlie Kelly be ryt one way the other

  • @maxwelladdison4828
    @maxwelladdison4828 Год назад +3

    Heeerh Scanty I dey feel you okay. What you are saying is the hard truth this generation is failing to accept.❤ Keep going hard Scanty

  • @sandraboo5577
    @sandraboo5577 Год назад +5

    One of the best debates they have had so far

  • @tobesmart7
    @tobesmart7 Год назад +9

    I even remember director Kelly once said he needs freedom in a a relationship in one of their videos
    About commitment
    You can check out what he actually said over there😂scanty is the best ❤

  • @YaaPinaman-he1zs
    @YaaPinaman-he1zs Год назад +25

    I’m getting addicted here because of Scanty 😅he’s just a vibe

  • @ayateyjoshua6190
    @ayateyjoshua6190 Год назад +5

    A swear I really like Scanty ….
    He is always serious in everything he does 👍👍

  • @victorselikem241
    @victorselikem241 11 месяцев назад +3

    Staying with someone or not. You can never know someone fully. You get to know what they want you to know. Aside from the basics like how clean or hardworking and so on the person is. You can visit for just few hours and you can also get to know certain things from friends and family. Staying together, naaah
    In my opinion.

  • @michaelowusu1904
    @michaelowusu1904 Год назад +3

    Scanty just says all these for catchy appealing whiles on set ,he does it opposite in real life,just like Sheldon lied to us to fear women and later got himself one😂💔

    • @delaliakussah6631
      @delaliakussah6631 10 месяцев назад

      Please booo...scanty ain't like that 😂😂

  • @frederickquame8051
    @frederickquame8051 Год назад +10

    Next time please add Nene to this squad😂😂😂

  • @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164
    @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164 Месяц назад +1

    Scanty, you speak facts, I applaud you☺ The new normals in our generation is eradicating our sense of morality.

  • @ohene_Y
    @ohene_Y Год назад +9

    Scanty guy is always spitting true vibes

  • @lennixx3433
    @lennixx3433 Год назад +1

    Two very solid perspectives. All ah go talk bi say what wey go work give u may not work for someone.

  • @theplushnails
    @theplushnails Год назад +5

    My boss back then lost his place to fire. He wanted to stay with his girlfriend for a week while she got his place back together. The issue was supposed to be simple because he got the apartment for the girlfriend and furnished it with tv, couches, fridge, bed, everything. Charle the girlfriend’s father refused. So he went to stay with his sister. See this life 333rh. The person you even trust to be there for you will show you pepper.
    Until you’re married to a person, don’t live together under 1 roof. Have some foolish pride for yourself. Because people show you what they want you to see. People dey pretend and lie on a daily.

  • @chenpuoroger459
    @chenpuoroger459 Год назад +5

    The underlining word is whether it is a "NECESSITY"
    Before I proceed to make comments we must understand that every individual and the amount of time they need to get to know someone depending on what they look out for in the opposite sex. With that said, the necessity depends on the individual.
    1. As Dir.Kelly was saying there are certain attitudes, behaviours or characters that can become obvious when you live under the same roof with the person but that is not the only way you can do so. Involuntarily or unconsciously people become their true self even on phone conversations the only problem is if you are not seeing well or looking out for only the big stuff.
    2. If a human being will want to pretend regardless of he or she living with you or not they can actually do so. People can live a lie their whole life and no one gets to find out. So living together is not a guarantee you will know the other person as it may seem.
    3. We must also know that the dangers of staying under one roof.

  • @ohenebahjoe_1990
    @ohenebahjoe_1990 Год назад +3

    The way Kelly dey defend this thing with passion di3 ebi like he already dey cohabitate

  • @florenceocran534
    @florenceocran534 8 месяцев назад

    The way Scanty heat di333333😂😂😂😂😂

  • @josephatangaagana8993
    @josephatangaagana8993 Год назад +2

    In as much I wouldn't want a partner to stay with you before marriage for valued reasons. But the other guy is making very valued points. The others couldn't defend their opinion

  • @godwindonkor7719
    @godwindonkor7719 Год назад +3

    See, either ways, if it will work, it will if it won't, it won't.
    Why should you pretend in a committed relationship?
    If you put a lot of people relationship in one house, those relationships will collapse. It takes a lot of things to stay with someone. Even married people get fed up with each other.
    This topic is neither here nor there

  • @morvis152
    @morvis152 Год назад +1

    Director Kelly dey counter paaa I like that ein point all dey back with elaboration we dey make sense

  • @dashingmanuel
    @dashingmanuel Год назад +2

    Both arguments are valid. Some things you would know from a distance. Some too you would only know if you leave with them

  • @BigGodStudios
    @BigGodStudios Год назад +2

    27:40.....scanty poured alot wisdom, that was the basis of his argument from the onset.... there is no dignity in paying a price for something you've already owned...it doesn't even make sense.

  • @johnmettle1
    @johnmettle1 Год назад +3

    i am married but listening to your conversation. i want to know by our culture, can a lady leave the parents' house and move in with the boyfriend? we should bear in mind that, there is friendship, courtship and marriage. My stand is that it is very wrong to move in with someone you are not married to and when a comes to your family for a lady's hand in marriage, brings honor to both families.

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star 11 месяцев назад +1

    Moving in at any point in time before marriage is a no no. I agree with Scanty and that fine lady.

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX Год назад +3

    I think everyone is right on his or her point coz human being are not the same so everyone should go on with what they like and not that's all🙏

  • @missajorkor4029
    @missajorkor4029 Год назад +4

    Scanty is just something else 😂😂😂😂

  • @Thecyborg-97
    @Thecyborg-97 Год назад +1

    The way Adwoa is,She go love too much…pls don’t let some coconut headed boy break ur heart for me oo😂

  • @user-sg5et4sk4y
    @user-sg5et4sk4y Месяц назад

    I love the lady sitting next to Scanty,she is wise,always have an exception.

  • @doskylingz13
    @doskylingz13 Год назад +8

    Dr. Kelly has a valid point

  • @harrydeals1298
    @harrydeals1298 Год назад +2

    I think Adwoa should host United Showbiz

  • @Kwabenamankwah
    @Kwabenamankwah Год назад +6

    Ebi true paaaa
    Some ladies dey bath once a day 😂😂😂

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi Год назад +7

    Thumbs up Scanty! We shouldn't replace morals with logic

  • @Fashion_with.MrElegant99
    @Fashion_with.MrElegant99 Год назад +4

    Scanty is on heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @BELOVED_TV
    @BELOVED_TV 11 месяцев назад +1

    I love Sheldon. Am looking forward to taking the mantle some day.

  • @megannaya07
    @megannaya07 Год назад +5

    I totally agree with scanty. I've never n will never live with a boyfriend except my hubby period!! Of what benefit is it to move in with a boyfriend?!! Smh

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад +1

      i hope you stand with your word or are you saying this because of media? 😂😂😂

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 Год назад +2

      ​@@CruiseComradewhy would I say that bcus of media??.... I'm not one of those ppl who are so gullible n easily persuaded by the media oo hwɛ

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 Год назад +4

      ​@@CruiseComradeI'm from a family that doesn't even allow us to sleep over at friend's houses not to talk of move in with a boyfriend boi.

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад

      @@megannaya07 ok I love that ❤️❤️

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад

      @@megannaya07 this is nice.

  • @eminina6570
    @eminina6570 Год назад +8

    I will go with Scanty's submission 😊

  • @claudiabaah1049
    @claudiabaah1049 Год назад +1

    I support Scanty and 2nd Adwoa. Talk sense into the ears of the youth. This things brings abortion and born 3 mothers.

  • @user-tq4ed1rv4u
    @user-tq4ed1rv4u Год назад +3

    Scanty is the reason why I watch rants and bante

  • @albertzagkah8607
    @albertzagkah8607 Год назад +4

    Scanty always speaks facts 🥶😊

  • @nashiruhamza6462
    @nashiruhamza6462 Год назад +3

    Scanty is speaking facts 👍🏼

  • @rockline6114
    @rockline6114 Год назад +10

    Our youth is really fucked up oo😂😂😂 why should a woman move in with her boyfriend ( a man your parents may not even know about). I feel it's a disrespect to the woman's parents. Why treat dating like it's marriage?😂😂😂 Whats the meaning of Bride Price?

  • @eugeniuslamptey1174
    @eugeniuslamptey1174 8 месяцев назад

    Big ups to scanty always on point no sugar coating

  • @enockopoku9974
    @enockopoku9974 Год назад +3

    Committed relationships makes sense but normal relationship de3 daabi daabi. People with different opinions won’t allow you to stay with them.

  • @1brickaday253
    @1brickaday253 Год назад +17

    are we all gonna ignore the fact that Brie said "I CAN PRETEND"? lmao

    • @champ2gaming
      @champ2gaming Год назад

      😂

    • @enochpanful4988
      @enochpanful4988 Год назад +1

      Hmm, this gender😂

    • @xendastark3407
      @xendastark3407 10 месяцев назад

      She's not lying. She's being real. Yeah, she knows herself and her gender. There's no girl, no woman who doesn't know how to pretend.

  • @REAL_BIGG
    @REAL_BIGG Год назад +2

    Sheldon placing education in entertainment 💯fashoo

  • @Hiwo4ld
    @Hiwo4ld Год назад +5

    I'm all in for whatever scanty said😊

  • @laudkitcher753
    @laudkitcher753 Год назад +2

    Scanty has said it all

  • @awondokpaul1365
    @awondokpaul1365 Год назад +3

    The guy is right, some girls don't bath ampa

  • @ernestansong1056
    @ernestansong1056 Год назад +1

    Eii scanty….😂😂😂 you talk true facts….Kelly nor noe wat he Dey talk 😂😂😂😂

  • @Jay_Ice98
    @Jay_Ice98 Год назад +4

    Ebi like Adwoa doesn’t want to draw a distinction between the happenings in relationships and wedlock.😂😂😂😂
    She wants to enjoy in relationships as she would in a marriage.
    Adwoa, you’re warned!😂😂😂
    Our little siblings watch.😹🤝

  • @user-tq4ed1rv4u
    @user-tq4ed1rv4u Год назад +1

    Scanty is goated 🐐🐐

  • @ebenezerduah7967
    @ebenezerduah7967 Год назад +3

    Brie and Scanty you right 👍
    Adwoa my best host of the year ❤❤

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z Год назад +2

    Scanty they like arguements😂😂😂😂Kai….. so far as he give the point de3 he go defend am by force .. no matter what 😂😂😂

  • @lynnemaverick1865
    @lynnemaverick1865 8 месяцев назад

    Director Kelly is speaking facts. Scant should kinda of relax. Why is it bad for a man to stay with a woman, if he is not financially stable at the moment. I don't see anything wrong when you flip the situation otherwise for a lady who wants to stay with the bf, when financially instability.

  • @jeffmoro1605
    @jeffmoro1605 Год назад +6

    Is it only me or y’all also repeat some scenes to see scanty on the guy😂😂😂😂

  • @Abdul-Samad-z9o
    @Abdul-Samad-z9o 9 месяцев назад

    Sheldon always invite Bismark ❤️🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @NanaKwame-np3rw
    @NanaKwame-np3rw Год назад +7

    Keep up with the good work guys 🎉

  • @qwesiharrison9354
    @qwesiharrison9354 Год назад +3

    “Some girls them no dey bath” adey floor😂😂😂 Director Kelly paaa

  • @angeloarde3270
    @angeloarde3270 Год назад +22

    I like scanty 's idea, there is no way your partner should move in

  • @mrcash1838
    @mrcash1838 11 месяцев назад

    Not just in relationship
    In general you get to know people better when you stay with them👌🏿

  • @MR_ACT18
    @MR_ACT18 Год назад +1

    See one thing for sure is that. Everyone has a way to access somebody, it can takes a week, month, two months to knows someone either near or afar.

  • @deboss2914
    @deboss2914 Год назад +3

    Director kelly ladies can hide their attitude n will show after marriage
    I support scanty n brie on this

  • @gman.g
    @gman.g Год назад +4

    Kelly makes points and destroys them.

  • @calebkayyeboah893
    @calebkayyeboah893 Год назад +1

    Scanty is absolutely right.

  • @princeprosper3314
    @princeprosper3314 Год назад +5

    i agree with direct kelly. There're some subconscious things about people you need to know and that is only possible if they move in. But it shouldn't be a long period of time. No one can hide it for a long period of time

  • @nanaagyei4996
    @nanaagyei4996 Год назад +2

    Why are our parents and older generation’s marriage lasting forever and longer than today’s generations who focus too much on dating b4 marriage.
    You can criticize societal morals and values but everyone mostly men, doing the chasing, want things and status that the access is not easy for everyone.
    Men value women who have not had many encounters with men.
    There is a general phenomenon in life and human civilization.
    Easy access or easy to get = less value
    Difficult access or hard to get = high value

  • @emmanuelamofo62
    @emmanuelamofo62 Месяц назад +1

    Herr. Sometimes, when I watch these videos, I wish I was sitting there some la.

  • @kwabenaboakye2423
    @kwabenaboakye2423 Год назад

    who brought the Kelly guy there😂😂😂😂😂😂Today Brie and Scanty💯💯👌👌

  • @user-gh6zn3pp4k
    @user-gh6zn3pp4k 9 месяцев назад +1

    I somehow agree with Kelly because ladies are more secretive and it’s hard to know them better unless you live with them for sometime. A lady can bath before visiting and also bath after intimacy. It might be because of the intimacy but she will not bath when she’s gone. 😅

  • @kimtv476
    @kimtv476 Год назад +1

    D. Kelly analyses is also very true to some extend

  • @kofibankson_
    @kofibankson_ Год назад +1

    Everyone making correct point 🤝