IS IT NECESSARY TO MOVE IN WITH YOUR PARTNER AT THE RELATIONSHIP STAGE?

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  • Опубликовано: 10 фев 2025

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  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +269

    I sometimes just stare at Scanty when he’s commenting on issues like these. This guy speaks a lot of sense. The generation today have little to no morals and have now sugarcoated wrong things as the order of the day. Scanty, you speak facts

    • @KozmotheKid
      @KozmotheKid Год назад +3

      Very true… he’s wise

    • @Zahari_tech
      @Zahari_tech Год назад +4

      Scanty be one top guy.

    • @okaiethel2354
      @okaiethel2354 Год назад +2

      I always see Arnold in hiim❤

    • @enochpanful4988
      @enochpanful4988 Год назад

      This makes so much sense.

    • @davidolegendary2244
      @davidolegendary2244 Год назад +5

      Someone said..
      "Youth today sees Evil as Fun"
      So I don't get surprise when people try defending something which is wrong/bad.

  • @preciousartwork
    @preciousartwork 10 месяцев назад +7

    If u are still here in 2024 let me get a thumbs up.....
    After scrolling through the comment section I have come to the conclusion that director Kelly advise should not be taken and scanty's advise should...kudos to scanty and bry for speaking facts❤❤

  • @kwadwosheldonstudios
    @kwadwosheldonstudios  Год назад +35

    ‼️Kindly Like the video and subscribe to the channel

  • @owiredustephen2625
    @owiredustephen2625 Год назад +70

    Low key low key Scanty is wise oo 🎉

  • @nsafoaphlash679
    @nsafoaphlash679 Год назад +52

    And the way scanty started no, i knew something great was coming😂😂😂. He was on point throughout the whole show🔥🔥🔥

  • @triciak5040
    @triciak5040 Год назад +73

    I'm with Scanty and Brie on this. You can know someone from a distance if you want to know them. Not necessarily staying with them

    • @xendastark
      @xendastark Год назад +3

      Very true. Character can never be hidden even from afar. You don't need to cohabit to know your partner. I don't know who is teaching Kelly that mentality. He's totally lost.

    • @Frank265
      @Frank265 Год назад

      💯💯

  • @halidmusah5334
    @halidmusah5334 Год назад +24

    See how Adwoa make quiet dey listen to director and lowkey backing him😂😂😂
    Adwoa de3 ODO ne commitment y3 ne d3 too much.😂😂😂

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂 aah charley

    • @halidmusah5334
      @halidmusah5334 Год назад +1

      @@yawjay 😂😂adey lie

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      @@halidmusah5334 😂 you no dey lie kraa...the way love and commitment dey sweet Adwoa ennn

    • @KkbmultimediaConcepts
      @KkbmultimediaConcepts Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @CruiseComrade
    @CruiseComrade Год назад +88

    Scanty just made me smile with his bars, we are back like a buttock.

  • @lucasapinya8832
    @lucasapinya8832 Год назад +32

    Ten mins into the video and I have a feeling Adwoa agrees with Director Kelly

  • @Memedigester
    @Memedigester Год назад +60

    The success of Bant and Rant must be attributed to Scanty fr. I got more interested in this show because of him.

  • @florenceocran534
    @florenceocran534 Год назад +2

    The way Scanty heat di333333😂😂😂😂😂

  • @DanielAsiedu-b6t
    @DanielAsiedu-b6t 7 месяцев назад +2

    I love the lady sitting next to Scanty,she is wise,always have an exception.

  • @jefflyn2225
    @jefflyn2225 Год назад +11

    scanty 💯 facts . You lose your job , your family and friends are there . The respect must be kept
    You can't depend on your girlfriend .

  • @bigg_2.0
    @bigg_2.0 Год назад +2

    Scanty is really advising. He speaks a lot of sense and am 100% with scanty with what he’s saying …

  • @qc_blogtv
    @qc_blogtv Год назад +30

    I know for a fact that adwoa dont mess around even just listening or watching her!! She really understands what relationship means.... n i love her for that!!

  • @sethdartey6518
    @sethdartey6518 Год назад +34

    People sey what they want know i have married for 16 years and I still learn everyday I find new things about my partner I mean my wife. So if your girlfriend move in with you and you think that will help you to know her better is a lie you can never know everything till you guys get married even that one it's not easy

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      Still dunno them after marriage.

  • @crelantnti7575
    @crelantnti7575 Год назад +9

    I agree with Scanty and Bree
    Living with your gf or bf is a no ! They take you for granted and whatever they used to do for you they don’t do again. Like they take you out, buy you gifts 🎁 living together they stop everything because they see you everyday. So I don’t think living together as gf and bf is a good idea. 😊

  • @asarerabbi390
    @asarerabbi390 Год назад +13

    Scanty is smart ! .. You know most of our problem is the type of women or men we go in for that’s why we feel we should be under the same roof during courtship to actually realize what we anticipated … instinctively speaking there are individuals you have strong intuition if you accept to start a journey with there’s a high possibility it will end in marriage even though they aren’t perfect they will definitely be within target but then you will never choose them

  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +72

    I love scanty. “If you’re a guy and you’re in need and the only option you have is your girlfriend, you have failed. “ true fact Scanty

    • @Nofsgivin
      @Nofsgivin Год назад +3

      I somewhat agree with him, you shouldn’t let you girlfriend be your only option. I do not like the idea of asking your woman for your need..

    • @nerogyi7361
      @nerogyi7361 Год назад +2

      Facts

    • @stylzk1830
      @stylzk1830 Год назад

      I don’t see anything wrong with going to your girlfriend for help

  • @gabrieltetteh9830
    @gabrieltetteh9830 Год назад +4

    Scanty aced this argument!
    Everything he said is spot on.

  • @aarontruth
    @aarontruth Год назад +13

    Scanty is the main reason I watch Bants & Rants, from first to finish

  • @maxwelladdison4828
    @maxwelladdison4828 Год назад +4

    Heeerh Scanty I dey feel you okay. What you are saying is the hard truth this generation is failing to accept.❤ Keep going hard Scanty

  • @BiGBoY-d4p
    @BiGBoY-d4p Год назад +7

    Scanty is spitting facts charlie........🔥🔥🔥

  • @owusubempah8011
    @owusubempah8011 Год назад +7

    I agree with Scanty. Such situations usually end up at Ante Naa on radio😂. Y'all must be serious. What compels you to build your own house when you're already living in a rent-free one?

  • @Thecyborg-97
    @Thecyborg-97 Год назад +1

    The way Adwoa is,She go love too much…pls don’t let some coconut headed boy break ur heart for me oo😂

  • @sethanadjoe1787
    @sethanadjoe1787 Год назад +5

    Scanty has good view about life. Like that. God bless your efforts bruh

  • @princekent2718
    @princekent2718 Год назад +42

    Brie has talk as any virtuous woman should bee 💥🤘

  • @adamsalia3523
    @adamsalia3523 Год назад +14

    Scanty is talking like an real African man 😂😂😂

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star Год назад +2

    Moving in at any point in time before marriage is a no no. I agree with Scanty and that fine lady.

  • @morvis152
    @morvis152 Год назад +1

    Director Kelly dey counter paaa I like that ein point all dey back with elaboration we dey make sense

  • @ismailjibriel6991
    @ismailjibriel6991 Год назад +17

    Bro scanty is always on point, he never miss.😂

  • @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164
    @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164 7 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty, you speak facts, I applaud you☺ The new normals in our generation is eradicating our sense of morality.

  • @sandraboo5577
    @sandraboo5577 Год назад +5

    One of the best debates they have had so far

  • @eugeniuslamptey1174
    @eugeniuslamptey1174 Год назад +1

    Big ups to scanty always on point no sugar coating

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z Год назад +3

    Scanty they like arguements😂😂😂😂Kai….. so far as he give the point de3 he go defend am by force .. no matter what 😂😂😂

  • @Jay_Ice98
    @Jay_Ice98 Год назад +5

    Ebi like Adwoa doesn’t want to draw a distinction between the happenings in relationships and wedlock.😂😂😂😂
    She wants to enjoy in relationships as she would in a marriage.
    Adwoa, you’re warned!😂😂😂
    Our little siblings watch.😹🤝

  • @victorselikem241
    @victorselikem241 Год назад +4

    Staying with someone or not. You can never know someone fully. You get to know what they want you to know. Aside from the basics like how clean or hardworking and so on the person is. You can visit for just few hours and you can also get to know certain things from friends and family. Staying together, naaah
    In my opinion.

  • @lennixx3433
    @lennixx3433 Год назад +1

    Two very solid perspectives. All ah go talk bi say what wey go work give u may not work for someone.

  • @zachariahkwesidrake7381
    @zachariahkwesidrake7381 Год назад +12

    Kelly and Adwoa are the only ones being real today.
    I would love to know Nene's POV on this topic. So bad he's not around.

  • @emmanuelamofo62
    @emmanuelamofo62 7 месяцев назад +3

    Herr. Sometimes, when I watch these videos, I wish I was sitting there some la.

  • @dashingmanuel
    @dashingmanuel Год назад +2

    Both arguments are valid. Some things you would know from a distance. Some too you would only know if you leave with them

  • @creepnews
    @creepnews Год назад +29

    You guys are missing an important factor. People change, there’s nothing you can do about that. A successful marriage is just by God’s grace

    • @kwadwoampong9790
      @kwadwoampong9790 Год назад +3

      May the God of our fathers bless u for this comment, stay safe

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      It's luck.

    • @Naya__Brooks
      @Naya__Brooks Год назад +5

      Marriage is not for two perfect people but two imperfect people who understand each other and are both willing to make it work by adapting to each other.

    • @byheartboy925
      @byheartboy925 Год назад +2

      ​@@Naya__BrooksI agree totally.....we live,make mistakes,learn and move on. We build a relationship based on our imperfections

  • @ayateyjoshua6190
    @ayateyjoshua6190 Год назад +5

    A swear I really like Scanty ….
    He is always serious in everything he does 👍👍

  • @BigGodStudios
    @BigGodStudios Год назад +2

    27:40.....scanty poured alot wisdom, that was the basis of his argument from the onset.... there is no dignity in paying a price for something you've already owned...it doesn't even make sense.

  • @ernestansong1056
    @ernestansong1056 Год назад +1

    Eii scanty….😂😂😂 you talk true facts….Kelly nor noe wat he Dey talk 😂😂😂😂

  • @nathannatibongo3726
    @nathannatibongo3726 Год назад +3

    Adey feel scanty waa😂😂😂😂 ein strong mouth alone 😂

  • @tobesmart7
    @tobesmart7 Год назад +9

    I even remember director Kelly once said he needs freedom in a a relationship in one of their videos
    About commitment
    You can check out what he actually said over there😂scanty is the best ❤

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX Год назад +3

    I think everyone is right on his or her point coz human being are not the same so everyone should go on with what they like and not that's all🙏

  • @doskylingz13
    @doskylingz13 Год назад +8

    Dr. Kelly has a valid point

  • @frederickquame8051
    @frederickquame8051 Год назад +10

    Next time please add Nene to this squad😂😂😂

  • @ebenezerduah7967
    @ebenezerduah7967 Год назад +4

    Brie and Scanty you right 👍
    Adwoa my best host of the year ❤❤

  • @theplushnails
    @theplushnails Год назад +5

    My boss back then lost his place to fire. He wanted to stay with his girlfriend for a week while she got his place back together. The issue was supposed to be simple because he got the apartment for the girlfriend and furnished it with tv, couches, fridge, bed, everything. Charle the girlfriend’s father refused. So he went to stay with his sister. See this life 333rh. The person you even trust to be there for you will show you pepper.
    Until you’re married to a person, don’t live together under 1 roof. Have some foolish pride for yourself. Because people show you what they want you to see. People dey pretend and lie on a daily.

  • @BELOVED_TV
    @BELOVED_TV Год назад +2

    I love Sheldon. Am looking forward to taking the mantle some day.

  • @Kwabenamankwah
    @Kwabenamankwah Год назад +6

    Ebi true paaaa
    Some ladies dey bath once a day 😂😂😂

  • @Ck_gids
    @Ck_gids Год назад +3

    Big up Kelly you are spitting sense waa👏👏👏👏

  • @matildaadjei4197
    @matildaadjei4197 Год назад +38

    I agree with scanty 100% .Just few hours hanging out is enough. 😂. 😂😂

  • @shanguy1628
    @shanguy1628 Год назад +1

    Thank you Eei Scanty And Brie,you guys have said it all,please end the show and for Adwoa and the other guy❤😅

  • @godwindonkor7719
    @godwindonkor7719 Год назад +3

    See, either ways, if it will work, it will if it won't, it won't.
    Why should you pretend in a committed relationship?
    If you put a lot of people relationship in one house, those relationships will collapse. It takes a lot of things to stay with someone. Even married people get fed up with each other.
    This topic is neither here nor there

  • @qwesiharrison9354
    @qwesiharrison9354 Год назад +3

    “Some girls them no dey bath” adey floor😂😂😂 Director Kelly paaa

  • @Hiwo4ld
    @Hiwo4ld Год назад +5

    I'm all in for whatever scanty said😊

  • @claudiabaah1049
    @claudiabaah1049 Год назад +2

    I support Scanty and 2nd Adwoa. Talk sense into the ears of the youth. This things brings abortion and born 3 mothers.

  • @Fashion_with.MrElegant99
    @Fashion_with.MrElegant99 Год назад +4

    Scanty is on heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @NanaKwame-np3rw
    @NanaKwame-np3rw Год назад +7

    Keep up with the good work guys 🎉

  • @mrcash1838
    @mrcash1838 Год назад

    Not just in relationship
    In general you get to know people better when you stay with them👌🏿

  • @kobbydice8900
    @kobbydice8900 Год назад

    Director dey leave in dreamland o 😂💔
    Scanty you the man ✌️🔥Reality my pro max 🔥🔥🔥

  • @glorious8951
    @glorious8951 Год назад +2

    Scanty is a Gem🔥🔥❤

  • @nashiruhamza6462
    @nashiruhamza6462 Год назад +3

    Scanty is speaking facts 👍🏼

  • @enockopoku9974
    @enockopoku9974 Год назад +3

    Committed relationships makes sense but normal relationship de3 daabi daabi. People with different opinions won’t allow you to stay with them.

  • @MR_ACT18
    @MR_ACT18 Год назад +1

    See one thing for sure is that. Everyone has a way to access somebody, it can takes a week, month, two months to knows someone either near or afar.

  • @chenpuoroger459
    @chenpuoroger459 Год назад +5

    The underlining word is whether it is a "NECESSITY"
    Before I proceed to make comments we must understand that every individual and the amount of time they need to get to know someone depending on what they look out for in the opposite sex. With that said, the necessity depends on the individual.
    1. As Dir.Kelly was saying there are certain attitudes, behaviours or characters that can become obvious when you live under the same roof with the person but that is not the only way you can do so. Involuntarily or unconsciously people become their true self even on phone conversations the only problem is if you are not seeing well or looking out for only the big stuff.
    2. If a human being will want to pretend regardless of he or she living with you or not they can actually do so. People can live a lie their whole life and no one gets to find out. So living together is not a guarantee you will know the other person as it may seem.
    3. We must also know that the dangers of staying under one roof.

  • @albertzagkah8607
    @albertzagkah8607 Год назад +4

    Scanty always speaks facts 🥶😊

  • @Tiana_Asante
    @Tiana_Asante Год назад +83

    I support Scanty, and the lady sitting with him, with 10,000 bags of cement.😂

  • @markarthur108
    @markarthur108 Год назад +1

    Scanty said that guy is a failure 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
    My rib cage is killing me
    So am with scanty and Brie on this you don’t necessarily need to stay with someone to know their character.
    Ma guys should preach on.

  • @eminina6570
    @eminina6570 Год назад +8

    I will go with Scanty's submission 😊

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi Год назад +7

    Thumbs up Scanty! We shouldn't replace morals with logic

  • @ryllisasiedu8830
    @ryllisasiedu8830 Год назад +1

    Nice topic and I agree with both guys

  • @kimtv476
    @kimtv476 Год назад +1

    D. Kelly analyses is also very true to some extend

  • @kofibankson_
    @kofibankson_ Год назад +1

    Everyone making correct point 🤝

  • @ohene_Y
    @ohene_Y Год назад +10

    Scanty guy is always spitting true vibes

  • @qwesiharrison9354
    @qwesiharrison9354 Год назад +2

    low key Director Kelly was making sense chale. The 3-6 hours visit Scanty Dey talk ebi someway😂

  • @josephatangaagana8993
    @josephatangaagana8993 Год назад +2

    In as much I wouldn't want a partner to stay with you before marriage for valued reasons. But the other guy is making very valued points. The others couldn't defend their opinion

  • @rickythequeensman
    @rickythequeensman Год назад

    I support SCANTY and BRIE ❤. You xan know someone even in three days if have effective conversations

  • @christdavison7015
    @christdavison7015 Год назад

    Scanty really talk sense today papa here!!!! a lot of people really don't understand the basic ideologies of marriage. the bible doest lie

  • @justinakiss
    @justinakiss Год назад +1

    I somehow agree with Kelly because ladies are more secretive and it’s hard to know them better unless you live with them for sometime. A lady can bath before visiting and also bath after intimacy. It might be because of the intimacy but she will not bath when she’s gone. 😅

  • @YaaPinaman-he1zs
    @YaaPinaman-he1zs Год назад +28

    I’m getting addicted here because of Scanty 😅he’s just a vibe

  • @kingebenezer3087
    @kingebenezer3087 Год назад +2

    27:59 people stay with people, have kids before even marrying. And this is common. Especially with a lot hardship in Ghana 😢

  • @augustusrockson4660
    @augustusrockson4660 Год назад

    Director Kelly Dey stay plus his woman I sure waaahh 😂😂😂

  • @Ma_Jor_12
    @Ma_Jor_12 Год назад

    Hherr naa ashock for Scanty ah 😂 if woman nuh get money dem dey talk am say make he kam ein man ein der de other way round is forbidden ah SCANTY!!

  • @magmamusic4543
    @magmamusic4543 Год назад +1

    The first time ever Scanty and Brie dey agree on a subject 😂😂💔

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z Год назад +1

    Director Kelly Adey your back .. 1hundred🤞🏿

  • @harrydeals1298
    @harrydeals1298 Год назад +3

    I think Adwoa should host United Showbiz

  • @griffithagyekum1807
    @griffithagyekum1807 Год назад

    I Think both arguements makes a lot of sense and are valid points.However, i concur with director Kelly 100%. Trust me staying with some1 helps you to know exactly what u are getting into expecially if u are considering marriage and its both ways ooo...if a woman comes to stay for a while in her boyfriends house, u get to know some characters of her and the lady also gets to know the character of the guy...people tend to exhibit characters unconciously and it allows u to personally know certain things, both good and bad and if you love the person, u help the person to change that character..

  • @bigsam1141
    @bigsam1141 Год назад +3

    no wonder most of them have 5 children without marriage and they still on have no problem with it cos it has been giving out free of charge

  • @lynnemaverick1865
    @lynnemaverick1865 Год назад

    Director Kelly is speaking facts. Scant should kinda of relax. Why is it bad for a man to stay with a woman, if he is not financially stable at the moment. I don't see anything wrong when you flip the situation otherwise for a lady who wants to stay with the bf, when financially instability.

  • @awondokpaul1365
    @awondokpaul1365 Год назад +3

    The guy is right, some girls don't bath ampa

  • @laudkitcher753
    @laudkitcher753 Год назад +2

    Scanty has said it all

  • @ksurvive8352
    @ksurvive8352 Год назад +1

    Hi Adwoa and my Bby Bri
    I always they laugh before scanty start dey talk😂😂 buh I think he dey make sense waa all jokes aside ❤️💯💯

  • @RosaleeClavert
    @RosaleeClavert Год назад +4

    Scanty is the reason why I watch rants and bante

  • @calebkayyeboah893
    @calebkayyeboah893 Год назад +1

    Scanty is absolutely right.

  • @mhixtaken5235
    @mhixtaken5235 Год назад

    The Kelly guy shouldn't on set again 😂😂😂😂😂 aaah masa he should just direct ooo not to be on the seat ... what at all is he saying ?