IS IT NECESSARY TO MOVE IN WITH YOUR PARTNER AT THE RELATIONSHIP STAGE?

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  • Опубликовано: 3 янв 2025

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  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +266

    I sometimes just stare at Scanty when he’s commenting on issues like these. This guy speaks a lot of sense. The generation today have little to no morals and have now sugarcoated wrong things as the order of the day. Scanty, you speak facts

    • @KozmotheKid
      @KozmotheKid Год назад +3

      Very true… he’s wise

    • @Zahari_tech
      @Zahari_tech Год назад +4

      Scanty be one top guy.

    • @okaiethel2354
      @okaiethel2354 Год назад +2

      I always see Arnold in hiim❤

    • @enochpanful4988
      @enochpanful4988 Год назад

      This makes so much sense.

    • @davidolegendary2244
      @davidolegendary2244 Год назад +5

      Someone said..
      "Youth today sees Evil as Fun"
      So I don't get surprise when people try defending something which is wrong/bad.

  • @preciousartwork
    @preciousartwork 9 месяцев назад +7

    If u are still here in 2024 let me get a thumbs up.....
    After scrolling through the comment section I have come to the conclusion that director Kelly advise should not be taken and scanty's advise should...kudos to scanty and bry for speaking facts❤❤

  • @kwadwosheldonstudios
    @kwadwosheldonstudios  Год назад +35

    ‼️Kindly Like the video and subscribe to the channel

  • @owiredustephen2625
    @owiredustephen2625 Год назад +69

    Low key low key Scanty is wise oo 🎉

  • @nsafoaphlash679
    @nsafoaphlash679 Год назад +52

    And the way scanty started no, i knew something great was coming😂😂😂. He was on point throughout the whole show🔥🔥🔥

  • @triciak5040
    @triciak5040 Год назад +72

    I'm with Scanty and Brie on this. You can know someone from a distance if you want to know them. Not necessarily staying with them

    • @xendastark
      @xendastark Год назад +3

      Very true. Character can never be hidden even from afar. You don't need to cohabit to know your partner. I don't know who is teaching Kelly that mentality. He's totally lost.

    • @Frank265
      @Frank265 Год назад

      💯💯

  • @DanielAsiedu-b6t
    @DanielAsiedu-b6t 5 месяцев назад +2

    I love the lady sitting next to Scanty,she is wise,always have an exception.

  • @sethdartey6518
    @sethdartey6518 Год назад +33

    People sey what they want know i have married for 16 years and I still learn everyday I find new things about my partner I mean my wife. So if your girlfriend move in with you and you think that will help you to know her better is a lie you can never know everything till you guys get married even that one it's not easy

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      Still dunno them after marriage.

  • @CruiseComrade
    @CruiseComrade Год назад +88

    Scanty just made me smile with his bars, we are back like a buttock.

  • @lucasapinya8832
    @lucasapinya8832 Год назад +32

    Ten mins into the video and I have a feeling Adwoa agrees with Director Kelly

  • @jefflyn2225
    @jefflyn2225 Год назад +11

    scanty 💯 facts . You lose your job , your family and friends are there . The respect must be kept
    You can't depend on your girlfriend .

  • @florenceocran534
    @florenceocran534 Год назад +2

    The way Scanty heat di333333😂😂😂😂😂

  • @bigg_2.0
    @bigg_2.0 Год назад +2

    Scanty is really advising. He speaks a lot of sense and am 100% with scanty with what he’s saying …

  • @asarerabbi390
    @asarerabbi390 Год назад +13

    Scanty is smart ! .. You know most of our problem is the type of women or men we go in for that’s why we feel we should be under the same roof during courtship to actually realize what we anticipated … instinctively speaking there are individuals you have strong intuition if you accept to start a journey with there’s a high possibility it will end in marriage even though they aren’t perfect they will definitely be within target but then you will never choose them

  • @crelantnti7575
    @crelantnti7575 Год назад +9

    I agree with Scanty and Bree
    Living with your gf or bf is a no ! They take you for granted and whatever they used to do for you they don’t do again. Like they take you out, buy you gifts 🎁 living together they stop everything because they see you everyday. So I don’t think living together as gf and bf is a good idea. 😊

  • @Memedigester
    @Memedigester Год назад +59

    The success of Bant and Rant must be attributed to Scanty fr. I got more interested in this show because of him.

  • @gabrieltetteh9830
    @gabrieltetteh9830 Год назад +4

    Scanty aced this argument!
    Everything he said is spot on.

  • @aarontruth
    @aarontruth Год назад +13

    Scanty is the main reason I watch Bants & Rants, from first to finish

  • @princekent2718
    @princekent2718 Год назад +42

    Brie has talk as any virtuous woman should bee 💥🤘

  • @BiGBoY-d4p
    @BiGBoY-d4p Год назад +7

    Scanty is spitting facts charlie........🔥🔥🔥

  • @maxwelladdison4828
    @maxwelladdison4828 Год назад +4

    Heeerh Scanty I dey feel you okay. What you are saying is the hard truth this generation is failing to accept.❤ Keep going hard Scanty

  • @halidmusah5334
    @halidmusah5334 Год назад +24

    See how Adwoa make quiet dey listen to director and lowkey backing him😂😂😂
    Adwoa de3 ODO ne commitment y3 ne d3 too much.😂😂😂

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      😂😂😂😂 aah charley

    • @halidmusah5334
      @halidmusah5334 Год назад +1

      @@yawjay 😂😂adey lie

    • @yawjay
      @yawjay Год назад +3

      @@halidmusah5334 😂 you no dey lie kraa...the way love and commitment dey sweet Adwoa ennn

    • @KkbmultimediaConcepts
      @KkbmultimediaConcepts Год назад

      😂😂😂😂

  • @qc_blogtv
    @qc_blogtv Год назад +30

    I know for a fact that adwoa dont mess around even just listening or watching her!! She really understands what relationship means.... n i love her for that!!

  • @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164
    @ahenkorahdorcasboamah8164 5 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty, you speak facts, I applaud you☺ The new normals in our generation is eradicating our sense of morality.

  • @victorselikem241
    @victorselikem241 Год назад +4

    Staying with someone or not. You can never know someone fully. You get to know what they want you to know. Aside from the basics like how clean or hardworking and so on the person is. You can visit for just few hours and you can also get to know certain things from friends and family. Staying together, naaah
    In my opinion.

  • @mathsmadeeasy1102
    @mathsmadeeasy1102 Год назад +72

    I love scanty. “If you’re a guy and you’re in need and the only option you have is your girlfriend, you have failed. “ true fact Scanty

    • @Nofsgivin
      @Nofsgivin Год назад +3

      I somewhat agree with him, you shouldn’t let you girlfriend be your only option. I do not like the idea of asking your woman for your need..

    • @nerogyi7361
      @nerogyi7361 Год назад +2

      Facts

    • @stylzk1830
      @stylzk1830 Год назад

      I don’t see anything wrong with going to your girlfriend for help

  • @eugeniuslamptey1174
    @eugeniuslamptey1174 Год назад +1

    Big ups to scanty always on point no sugar coating

  • @owusubempah8011
    @owusubempah8011 Год назад +7

    I agree with Scanty. Such situations usually end up at Ante Naa on radio😂. Y'all must be serious. What compels you to build your own house when you're already living in a rent-free one?

  • @sethanadjoe1787
    @sethanadjoe1787 Год назад +5

    Scanty has good view about life. Like that. God bless your efforts bruh

  • @adamsalia3523
    @adamsalia3523 Год назад +14

    Scanty is talking like an real African man 😂😂😂

  • @sandraboo5577
    @sandraboo5577 Год назад +5

    One of the best debates they have had so far

  • @ismailjibriel6991
    @ismailjibriel6991 Год назад +17

    Bro scanty is always on point, he never miss.😂

  • @BigGodStudios
    @BigGodStudios Год назад +2

    27:40.....scanty poured alot wisdom, that was the basis of his argument from the onset.... there is no dignity in paying a price for something you've already owned...it doesn't even make sense.

  • @lennixx3433
    @lennixx3433 Год назад +1

    Two very solid perspectives. All ah go talk bi say what wey go work give u may not work for someone.

  • @Tiana_Asante
    @Tiana_Asante Год назад +83

    I support Scanty, and the lady sitting with him, with 10,000 bags of cement.😂

  • @doskylingz13
    @doskylingz13 Год назад +8

    Dr. Kelly has a valid point

  • @emmanuelamofo62
    @emmanuelamofo62 5 месяцев назад +3

    Herr. Sometimes, when I watch these videos, I wish I was sitting there some la.

  • @Fashion_with.MrElegant99
    @Fashion_with.MrElegant99 Год назад +4

    Scanty is on heat 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @dashingmanuel
    @dashingmanuel Год назад +2

    Both arguments are valid. Some things you would know from a distance. Some too you would only know if you leave with them

  • @ayateyjoshua6190
    @ayateyjoshua6190 Год назад +5

    A swear I really like Scanty ….
    He is always serious in everything he does 👍👍

  • @nashiruhamza6462
    @nashiruhamza6462 Год назад +3

    Scanty is speaking facts 👍🏼

  • @morvis152
    @morvis152 Год назад +1

    Director Kelly dey counter paaa I like that ein point all dey back with elaboration we dey make sense

  • @zachariahkwesidrake7381
    @zachariahkwesidrake7381 Год назад +12

    Kelly and Adwoa are the only ones being real today.
    I would love to know Nene's POV on this topic. So bad he's not around.

  • @chenpuoroger459
    @chenpuoroger459 Год назад +5

    The underlining word is whether it is a "NECESSITY"
    Before I proceed to make comments we must understand that every individual and the amount of time they need to get to know someone depending on what they look out for in the opposite sex. With that said, the necessity depends on the individual.
    1. As Dir.Kelly was saying there are certain attitudes, behaviours or characters that can become obvious when you live under the same roof with the person but that is not the only way you can do so. Involuntarily or unconsciously people become their true self even on phone conversations the only problem is if you are not seeing well or looking out for only the big stuff.
    2. If a human being will want to pretend regardless of he or she living with you or not they can actually do so. People can live a lie their whole life and no one gets to find out. So living together is not a guarantee you will know the other person as it may seem.
    3. We must also know that the dangers of staying under one roof.

  • @bigsam1141
    @bigsam1141 Год назад +3

    no wonder most of them have 5 children without marriage and they still on have no problem with it cos it has been giving out free of charge

  • @albertzagkah8607
    @albertzagkah8607 Год назад +4

    Scanty always speaks facts 🥶😊

  • @BELOVED_TV
    @BELOVED_TV Год назад +2

    I love Sheldon. Am looking forward to taking the mantle some day.

  • @creepnews
    @creepnews Год назад +29

    You guys are missing an important factor. People change, there’s nothing you can do about that. A successful marriage is just by God’s grace

    • @kwadwoampong9790
      @kwadwoampong9790 Год назад +3

      May the God of our fathers bless u for this comment, stay safe

    • @jaughnekow
      @jaughnekow Год назад

      It's luck.

    • @Naya__Brooks
      @Naya__Brooks Год назад +5

      Marriage is not for two perfect people but two imperfect people who understand each other and are both willing to make it work by adapting to each other.

    • @byheartboy925
      @byheartboy925 Год назад +2

      ​@@Naya__BrooksI agree totally.....we live,make mistakes,learn and move on. We build a relationship based on our imperfections

  • @laudkitcher753
    @laudkitcher753 Год назад +2

    Scanty has said it all

  • @BoniCryptoFX
    @BoniCryptoFX Год назад +3

    I think everyone is right on his or her point coz human being are not the same so everyone should go on with what they like and not that's all🙏

  • @Hiwo4ld
    @Hiwo4ld Год назад +5

    I'm all in for whatever scanty said😊

  • @ebenezerduah7967
    @ebenezerduah7967 Год назад +4

    Brie and Scanty you right 👍
    Adwoa my best host of the year ❤❤

  • @eminina6570
    @eminina6570 Год назад +8

    I will go with Scanty's submission 😊

  • @tobesmart7
    @tobesmart7 Год назад +9

    I even remember director Kelly once said he needs freedom in a a relationship in one of their videos
    About commitment
    You can check out what he actually said over there😂scanty is the best ❤

  • @ernestansong1056
    @ernestansong1056 Год назад +1

    Eii scanty….😂😂😂 you talk true facts….Kelly nor noe wat he Dey talk 😂😂😂😂

  • @glorious8951
    @glorious8951 Год назад +2

    Scanty is a Gem🔥🔥❤

  • @ohene_Y
    @ohene_Y Год назад +10

    Scanty guy is always spitting true vibes

  • @ajm_star
    @ajm_star Год назад +1

    Moving in at any point in time before marriage is a no no. I agree with Scanty and that fine lady.

  • @NanaKwame-np3rw
    @NanaKwame-np3rw Год назад +7

    Keep up with the good work guys 🎉

  • @Thecyborg-97
    @Thecyborg-97 Год назад +1

    The way Adwoa is,She go love too much…pls don’t let some coconut headed boy break ur heart for me oo😂

  • @kimtv476
    @kimtv476 Год назад +1

    D. Kelly analyses is also very true to some extend

  • @ryllisasiedu8830
    @ryllisasiedu8830 Год назад +1

    Nice topic and I agree with both guys

  • @matildaadjei4197
    @matildaadjei4197 Год назад +38

    I agree with scanty 100% .Just few hours hanging out is enough. 😂. 😂😂

  • @Ck_gids
    @Ck_gids Год назад +3

    Big up Kelly you are spitting sense waa👏👏👏👏

  • @shanguy1628
    @shanguy1628 Год назад +1

    Thank you Eei Scanty And Brie,you guys have said it all,please end the show and for Adwoa and the other guy❤😅

  • @claudiabaah1049
    @claudiabaah1049 Год назад +2

    I support Scanty and 2nd Adwoa. Talk sense into the ears of the youth. This things brings abortion and born 3 mothers.

  • @kofibankson_
    @kofibankson_ Год назад +1

    Everyone making correct point 🤝

  • @graceasantewaatwumasi
    @graceasantewaatwumasi Год назад +7

    Thumbs up Scanty! We shouldn't replace morals with logic

  • @ernestedem5184
    @ernestedem5184 Год назад +3

    Scanty always delivering

  • @frederickquame8051
    @frederickquame8051 Год назад +10

    Next time please add Nene to this squad😂😂😂

  • @stephenasamoa-agyare5637
    @stephenasamoa-agyare5637 Год назад +11

    Cohabiting is fun till one dies in your room.

  • @eugeniabassaw5435
    @eugeniabassaw5435 9 месяцев назад +1

    Scanty you have wisdom

  • @MR_ACT18
    @MR_ACT18 Год назад +1

    See one thing for sure is that. Everyone has a way to access somebody, it can takes a week, month, two months to knows someone either near or afar.

  • @nathannatibongo3726
    @nathannatibongo3726 Год назад +3

    Adey feel scanty waa😂😂😂😂 ein strong mouth alone 😂

  • @godwindonkor7719
    @godwindonkor7719 Год назад +3

    See, either ways, if it will work, it will if it won't, it won't.
    Why should you pretend in a committed relationship?
    If you put a lot of people relationship in one house, those relationships will collapse. It takes a lot of things to stay with someone. Even married people get fed up with each other.
    This topic is neither here nor there

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z Год назад +3

    Scanty they like arguements😂😂😂😂Kai….. so far as he give the point de3 he go defend am by force .. no matter what 😂😂😂

  • @calebkayyeboah893
    @calebkayyeboah893 Год назад +1

    Scanty is absolutely right.

  • @justinakiss
    @justinakiss Год назад +1

    I somehow agree with Kelly because ladies are more secretive and it’s hard to know them better unless you live with them for sometime. A lady can bath before visiting and also bath after intimacy. It might be because of the intimacy but she will not bath when she’s gone. 😅

  • @Jay_Ice98
    @Jay_Ice98 Год назад +5

    Ebi like Adwoa doesn’t want to draw a distinction between the happenings in relationships and wedlock.😂😂😂😂
    She wants to enjoy in relationships as she would in a marriage.
    Adwoa, you’re warned!😂😂😂
    Our little siblings watch.😹🤝

  • @kojoasamoah6838
    @kojoasamoah6838 Год назад +1

    Herh Scanty🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @jerryagbenyefia7570
    @jerryagbenyefia7570 Год назад +2

    Scanty is real 💯💯💯

  • @RosaleeClavert
    @RosaleeClavert Год назад +4

    Scanty is the reason why I watch rants and bante

  • @Kwabenamankwah
    @Kwabenamankwah Год назад +6

    Ebi true paaaa
    Some ladies dey bath once a day 😂😂😂

  • @mrcash1838
    @mrcash1838 Год назад

    Not just in relationship
    In general you get to know people better when you stay with them👌🏿

  • @johnmettle1
    @johnmettle1 Год назад +3

    i am married but listening to your conversation. i want to know by our culture, can a lady leave the parents' house and move in with the boyfriend? we should bear in mind that, there is friendship, courtship and marriage. My stand is that it is very wrong to move in with someone you are not married to and when a comes to your family for a lady's hand in marriage, brings honor to both families.

  • @griffithagyekum1807
    @griffithagyekum1807 Год назад

    I Think both arguements makes a lot of sense and are valid points.However, i concur with director Kelly 100%. Trust me staying with some1 helps you to know exactly what u are getting into expecially if u are considering marriage and its both ways ooo...if a woman comes to stay for a while in her boyfriends house, u get to know some characters of her and the lady also gets to know the character of the guy...people tend to exhibit characters unconciously and it allows u to personally know certain things, both good and bad and if you love the person, u help the person to change that character..

  • @augustusrockson4660
    @augustusrockson4660 Год назад

    Director Kelly Dey stay plus his woman I sure waaahh 😂😂😂

  • @qwesiharrison9354
    @qwesiharrison9354 Год назад +3

    “Some girls them no dey bath” adey floor😂😂😂 Director Kelly paaa

  • @rickythequeensman
    @rickythequeensman Год назад

    I support SCANTY and BRIE ❤. You xan know someone even in three days if have effective conversations

  • @YaaPinaman-he1zs
    @YaaPinaman-he1zs Год назад +28

    I’m getting addicted here because of Scanty 😅he’s just a vibe

  • @priest.0z
    @priest.0z Год назад +1

    Director Kelly Adey your back .. 1hundred🤞🏿

  • @RosaleeClavert
    @RosaleeClavert Год назад +1

    Scanty is goated 🐐🐐

  • @christdavison7015
    @christdavison7015 Год назад

    Scanty really talk sense today papa here!!!! a lot of people really don't understand the basic ideologies of marriage. the bible doest lie

  • @nathanankamah6451
    @nathanankamah6451 Год назад +1

    scanty be killer🔥🔥🔥

  • @porshiaamankwa36
    @porshiaamankwa36 Год назад +22

    The video hasn’t even started and Eii Scanty 😂😂

  • @juliusmadjitey2230
    @juliusmadjitey2230 Год назад

    scanty & brie are absolutely right.

  • @abdulgafar5230
    @abdulgafar5230 9 месяцев назад

    Scanty you are right 100%

  • @josephatangaagana8993
    @josephatangaagana8993 Год назад +2

    In as much I wouldn't want a partner to stay with you before marriage for valued reasons. But the other guy is making very valued points. The others couldn't defend their opinion

  • @megannaya07
    @megannaya07 Год назад +5

    I totally agree with scanty. I've never n will never live with a boyfriend except my hubby period!! Of what benefit is it to move in with a boyfriend?!! Smh

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад +1

      i hope you stand with your word or are you saying this because of media? 😂😂😂

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 Год назад +2

      ​@@CruiseComradewhy would I say that bcus of media??.... I'm not one of those ppl who are so gullible n easily persuaded by the media oo hwɛ

    • @megannaya07
      @megannaya07 Год назад +4

      ​@@CruiseComradeI'm from a family that doesn't even allow us to sleep over at friend's houses not to talk of move in with a boyfriend boi.

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад

      @@megannaya07 ok I love that ❤️❤️

    • @CruiseComrade
      @CruiseComrade Год назад

      @@megannaya07 this is nice.

  • @theplushnails
    @theplushnails Год назад +5

    My boss back then lost his place to fire. He wanted to stay with his girlfriend for a week while she got his place back together. The issue was supposed to be simple because he got the apartment for the girlfriend and furnished it with tv, couches, fridge, bed, everything. Charle the girlfriend’s father refused. So he went to stay with his sister. See this life 333rh. The person you even trust to be there for you will show you pepper.
    Until you’re married to a person, don’t live together under 1 roof. Have some foolish pride for yourself. Because people show you what they want you to see. People dey pretend and lie on a daily.