Growing up from a broken home or two-parent household is one thing, then being raised on love versus survival is another. One doesn't necessarily present an advantage over another when it comes to marriage. Maybe Socio-economics and social mobility but not necessarily marriage. I've dated and known people who were raised in a two-parent household but are extremely entitiled, inconsiderate or narcissistic because they've always had it. I've also known people who were raised in broken homes that used their upbringing as a catalyst for self improvement & build a better family structure for themselves. Introverts respond to these environmental exposures far different than extrovert and can shape ones temperament. Religiousity in Ghana can be a tool to obscure behaviors like chronic cheating, childhood traumas & hypocrisy. Then there's sexual history & past relationship experience that needs to heavily scrutinize far more than the household they grew up from.
Let’s take Sheldon for example, he said he lost his dad when he was a child, Sheldon is always her mom(old girl). But Sheldon is a very good person even though he dey gymie small 😂😂 but he is a good guy. You considering that the person is a broken or not doesn’t matter, if the person is okay for you go ahead. That’s my suggestion
What scanty said at 8:35 is true. Because of my situation growing up, I can’t keep a man . As a result of that I have so many exes . Something I’m not proud of 😢
There’s a perspective that none of you seem to be able to see or maybe don’t care to share, yes people coming from broken home can have these traits but it mostly comes from how the individual sees the world. The are people who grew up seeing their dad beat their mom and vice versa and swear they’ll never touch their woman. It’s all how they see the world and how they interpret it. There are two possible outcomes for every situation.
Most women from broken homes are normally manipulated because we didn't get that fatherly love and for that we see a father figure in the men we go into relationships with
After dating two ladies who didn’t hv a father figure at home, what scanty is saying is very true and I just realize the reason why they fold and becomes selfish and self centered.
I agree with Bri, it all bores down to training. Someone could leave with just the grandmother and end up being a great spouse. It doesn't really matter
I once had a girlfriend who always yearned for me to lay my hands on her. Eventually, she told me that’s how her dad used to treat her mom. Our relationship didn’t work because of that. Broken homes really have a big impact on relationships and marriages
I think it does count because I’m an example. When growing up my parents were separated for a while and then later came back after like some years. During that time I stayed with my Dad and I grew up not really to value the importance of women, I feel like I can do all things all by my self. Even though my mom is back, it still make me feel like I don’t really needs her even though we are very cool. So I think someone from a broken home will have a great effect in the person being a good partner. Aside that I have a female friend too who stayed with her mom whilst growing till date, and with her conversation it’s mostly related to her mom and that kind of feeling that males aren’t that more important. So I think it really count. It affects how we treat our partners
@@kwadwosheldonstudiosthis your show de3 I would love to be on and be part of your team paa ooo. They have quite an interesting set of topics to discuss
Mitigate risk by considering a good background/home in your preferences when mate selecting. It’s not a full-proof consideration but it sure is a hopeful starting point. There’s an entire psych-science behind this already. Read up on it. Only compromise this when the broken-home consideration exhibits exceptional self discipline on various things. Self discipline is a good indicator of a proactive personality type, and proactive people aren’t ‘who they are’ because of what ‘they’ve been through’. If not, proceed at your own risk
Yes, true! Training can make a 'girl' treat a man right or wrong and vice versa. I know people, I see people, I have experienced people and I know how this affects the individual very much..... infact according to research, "Children in divorced families are more likely to be anxious, depressed and their mental health problems tend to persist when they become adult". So yes this is a problem, that being stated an individual can also become a better person whether from a broken home or not.
This is gender specific. Most women will say it's not necessary and most men will differ, because, men look at women's past and women look at men's future. So, if a woman is coming from a broken home, she's statistically behind and has to fight to catch up with status quo. On the contrary, a man will use it as motivation to be better, based on the fact that, he'll logically access the situation. But women have the penchant to decide things with emotions compared to men. P.S. This doesn't mean all women are bound to be like that, but generalization runs society. We don't talk about the exception but the rule, so if you're an exception, don't think that's the rule. Great conversation. Keep it up. Scanty is the real deal
Well... From my experience, regardless of ones background, if you are "bad" you are "bad"... Despite the fact that background plays a role in a person's life... Its simply up to an individual to determine how he or she would treat the people around him. You meet one guy who is the worst person on earth... But may be the best husband or the best father in world. So regardless of the financial status at home... How you view relationships and people determines how u treat them.
Most of your discussions are related to relationships. It's really interesting but the other fields should be involved. Politics, Economy, Health, Business, etc 😊
Witnessed a couple going to through divorce at the court for about 3-5 years and still living together , same room ,same bed , everyone cook their own meals,no conversations except when they meet in court .
Growth is a Nature and Nurture this thing. De Nature is about de Genetic and inbuilt of a person whiles the Nurture is de environment one found him or herself in. So choosing a partner, one must consider that too.
Wen a man grows without a father figure he becomes soft n finds love in d movies , wen a woman grows without a father figure she always thinks u will leave her so she will alwqys try to leave u first 😊
Bree shouldn’t say you having a father figure in your life doesn’t change anything because it does anything you are exposed to when growing up may or will affect you either positive or negative
some people from broken home, advice themselves based on their experience not to let their kid go through same,so they sometimes do everything to keep their marriage
Phish's definition is right if you look at it. Some of us grew up in these instances so you cant say its wrong if you don't relate to it. Scant can't say its wrong. I've lived it.
It’s true with what scanty is saying ,I know someone who said she hate men because of what his dad did ,she now a lesbian some broken home can be very toxic 😢
Girls from a broken home don't know how to love their husbands and I can site my elder sister as 7:49 an exemple. She sometimes attempt to beat his husband, Buh my other sis who grew up when my mom and dad had reconcile or back together (whatever), she's really liking her relationship and it's very strong compared to my elder sis
You are what you are exposed to most of the time and we have something called modeling which we pick up most of the time so it tends to affect people even when they are not aware of
Scanty!!!!! Your introduction assumption is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn’t grew up with my father until I met him in my late 20s. 5 years in the role of knowing my father and staying in the same house with him! I met my partner! I have only one partner and I’m not finding difficulty loving him and building up a long relationship!
I think if you grow up in a home that a father is beating a wife, the wife always advice her children because experience is certainly the best teacher.
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Growing up from a broken home or two-parent household is one thing, then being raised on love versus survival is another. One doesn't necessarily present an advantage over another when it comes to marriage. Maybe Socio-economics and social mobility but not necessarily marriage.
I've dated and known people who were raised in a two-parent household but are extremely entitiled, inconsiderate or narcissistic because they've always had it. I've also known people who were raised in broken homes that used their upbringing as a catalyst for self improvement & build a better family structure for themselves.
Introverts respond to these environmental exposures far different than extrovert and can shape ones temperament. Religiousity in Ghana can be a tool to obscure behaviors like chronic cheating, childhood traumas & hypocrisy. Then there's sexual history & past relationship experience that needs to heavily scrutinize far more than the household they grew up from.
Scanty's opening take on the subject is true. Scanty understands a lot about the society in which we live in now.
Scanty being so serious about money at the end and almost preaching is just golden 😂😂
Money is everything.
@@jaughnekow not everything
I'm here for Scanty's submission🤣🤣. Always on point.
Let scanty mention his “critique” in peace 😂😂😂
Let’s take Sheldon for example, he said he lost his dad when he was a child, Sheldon is always her mom(old girl). But Sheldon is a very good person even though he dey gymie small 😂😂 but he is a good guy. You considering that the person is a broken or not doesn’t matter, if the person is okay for you go ahead. That’s my suggestion
What scanty said at 8:35 is true. Because of my situation growing up, I can’t keep a man . As a result of that I have so many exes . Something I’m not proud of 😢
The Brie girl she dey be oo 😭😭🔥🔥
Adwoa Addy's guy must be lucky, she looks, she can really love him forever
You guys need to give us 1hr max per video, we be missing the show too much 😊
Sure we need that
There’s a perspective that none of you seem to be able to see or maybe don’t care to share, yes people coming from broken home can have these traits but it mostly comes from how the individual sees the world. The are people who grew up seeing their dad beat their mom and vice versa and swear they’ll never touch their woman. It’s all how they see the world and how they interpret it. There are two possible outcomes for every situation.
W bro ❤
Wisdom right there ❤
I completely agree 💯
Good point
Good point
Most women from broken homes are normally manipulated because we didn't get that fatherly love and for that we see a father figure in the men we go into relationships with
Exactly
Eeeeeeiiiii scanty firestick say u dey wear banku😂😂😂
Scanty always got us laugh even before speaking 😂😂
After dating two ladies who didn’t hv a father figure at home, what scanty is saying is very true and I just realize the reason why they fold and becomes selfish and self centered.
I agree with Bri, it all bores down to training. Someone could leave with just the grandmother and end up being a great spouse. It doesn't really matter
Boils down please
scanty is always extra ordinary 😂😂😂
Scanty can't speak English
@@yaaobenewaah1697you're wrong i don't think so.
@@yaaobenewaah1697 so what he has been saying is Latin ?
@@yaaobenewaah1697what is the most spoken language here in Ghana?
Petition to make bants and rants everyday , plus please bring back nabeela the OG
We need the OG
Chale
We need the OG ❤
I once had a girlfriend who always yearned for me to lay my hands on her. Eventually, she told me that’s how her dad used to treat her mom. Our relationship didn’t work because of that. Broken homes really have a big impact on relationships and marriages
That girl needs therapy ….!
I think it does count because I’m an example. When growing up my parents were separated for a while and then later came back after like some years. During that time I stayed with my Dad and I grew up not really to value the importance of women, I feel like I can do all things all by my self. Even though my mom is back, it still make me feel like I don’t really needs her even though we are very cool. So I think someone from a broken home will have a great effect in the person being a good partner. Aside that I have a female friend too who stayed with her mom whilst growing till date, and with her conversation it’s mostly related to her mom and that kind of feeling that males aren’t that more important. So I think it really count. It affects how we treat our partners
what scanty said about girls who grew up without fatherly love is very true
Scanty ein barber do am yawa ooo😂😂😂
Chale back to back ❤❤❤
Eii scanty, oh joo
😅😅
Business Administration students abi you can get something for me to do
I want to develop good communication skills and learn more about media
@@JoshuaOdoi-t9gso ebi comment section you wan take ask for opportunity
@@kwadwosheldonstudiosthis your show de3 I would love to be on and be part of your team paa ooo. They have quite an interesting set of topics to discuss
Really intresting topic, i wish it was explained fully in English so that i could get the full gist.
true what scanty is saying is very true especially when they are been brain washed that the dad is been noted as bad
Mitigate risk by considering a good background/home in your preferences when mate selecting. It’s not a full-proof consideration but it sure is a hopeful starting point. There’s an entire psych-science behind this already. Read up on it.
Only compromise this when the broken-home consideration exhibits exceptional self discipline on various things. Self discipline is a good indicator of a proactive personality type, and proactive people aren’t ‘who they are’ because of what ‘they’ve been through’.
If not, proceed at your own risk
Why I dey feel scanty like that?😂😂😂😂😂
Brie ein side view be solid🔥🔥😂
Shouts to the camera man
I never know say O'Joe dey tear bl3 like this😂...wey Sheldon dey worry am like that🤣🤣
I know 😂
Scanty ein hairline be funny waaa😂😂😂😂
How scanty de watch Ojoe like👀👀 ...😂🤣😂😂
Two sides of the coin. It is a factor but not a key factor. It all boils down to the individual and how he or she sees life
Yes, true! Training can make a 'girl' treat a man right or wrong and vice versa. I know people, I see people, I have experienced people and I know how this affects the individual very much..... infact according to research, "Children in divorced families are more likely to be anxious, depressed and their mental health problems tend to persist when they become adult".
So yes this is a problem, that being stated an individual can also become a better person whether from a broken home or not.
Critique😀 Prince Scanty always makes my day. Brie🥰
This is gender specific. Most women will say it's not necessary and most men will differ, because, men look at women's past and women look at men's future. So, if a woman is coming from a broken home, she's statistically behind and has to fight to catch up with status quo. On the contrary, a man will use it as motivation to be better, based on the fact that, he'll logically access the situation. But women have the penchant to decide things with emotions compared to men.
P.S. This doesn't mean all women are bound to be like that, but generalization runs society. We don't talk about the exception but the rule, so if you're an exception, don't think that's the rule.
Great conversation. Keep it up.
Scanty is the real deal
You're saying facts, that's why women need to make money these days.
What Scanty is saying is so true
Real
Scanty is right about the critique look about ladies not having a father figure when growing ❤
Some of us we take a lot from this show so we don’t want anyone that will come here that won’t say anything better
I want to point out that it's mostly we that come from broken homes that most men usually take advantage of
of course
Critique is a correct word. Scanty is very good
oww my.... scanty with that serious face🤣🤣🤣🤣
scanty we support you!!!!!
33:10 Adwoa hitting the Jackpot at this point 🎉
Well... From my experience, regardless of ones background, if you are "bad" you are "bad"... Despite the fact that background plays a role in a person's life... Its simply up to an individual to determine how he or she would treat the people around him. You meet one guy who is the worst person on earth... But may be the best husband or the best father in world. So regardless of the financial status at home... How you view relationships and people determines how u treat them.
I hundred 100 percent agree with the independent aspect of people from broken homes. They mostly survivors.
Great and wonderful topic 👏🏾 👌 👍
Brie and Adjoa looking dashing as always .
Adwo de3 sometimes she dey vex me oo😂😂
Odo as3m y3 ne d3 too much
It is possible for couples to separate and still live in the same apartment initially. Here in the Uk, and even in the US, it is a very common case.
Scanty be too much critiiiiique look at things 😃 😀 my ribs out
Chale I miss Adwoa 😢❤
OJoe Gh you're not alone
Scanty is the real gem.He just lay it raw no polish
Most of your discussions are related to relationships.
It's really interesting but the other fields should be involved.
Politics, Economy, Health, Business, etc
😊
charlie charlie if u guys know oh joe will be on bants and rants yall need to put some item 13/ small chops there la 😂
Adwoa google dey suffer for ur hands top😂
Witnessed a couple going to through divorce at the court for about 3-5 years and still living together , same room ,same bed , everyone cook their own meals,no conversations except when they meet in court .
go forbid that's hell
It's true, I can't love or treat a man right n it's because I keep attracting men like my dad. I'm working on it though
Growth is a Nature and Nurture this thing. De Nature is about de Genetic and inbuilt of a person whiles the Nurture is de environment one found him or herself in. So choosing a partner, one must consider that too.
Well, you can't fix your genetic makeup so considering it isn't necessarily going to help
Adwoa and Brie you are too beautiful ❤️❤️❤️
YES PLEASE SOMEONE FROM A BROKEN HOME CAN BE A GOOD SPOUSE ❤❤❤
Scanty just makes it look easy😢❤❤
Wen a man grows without a father figure he becomes soft n finds love in d movies , wen a woman grows without a father figure she always thinks u will leave her so she will alwqys try to leave u first 😊
My mum insulting my dad always makes me angry because I don’t want to face such things in my life
Ojoe speaks like our assist 2
1 by 1
Lmfaooo 😭😂😂
Bree shouldn’t say you having a father figure in your life doesn’t change anything because it does anything you are exposed to when growing up may or will affect you either positive or negative
Tell Bridget to straighten/ shape ln the wig well, cos it looks separated and not together.
Among my partner and I. I’m the one from a family that my mom and dad are divorced! But he’s from a blended family.
I like oo Joe he's a vibe❤❤
Scanty is soo good my bestee is a perfect example
some people from broken home, advice themselves based on their experience not to let their kid go through same,so they sometimes do everything to keep their marriage
I love Adwoa ooo 🥲😌
Money and love like terms "o" and "e" they are both the second and fourth same place 🤔
Scanty I support u bro
The probability a child going wayward in a broken home is higher than a child who lived with both parents
Father’s play a very critical role when growing up especially with both parent
Scanty is right.
Parents should learn to talk to their children about relationships.
If they learn from the street, they'll make mistakes before getting it right.
Scanty you're all right ❤️✌️🦖
Scanty is very right
Phish's definition is right if you look at it. Some of us grew up in these instances so you cant say its wrong if you don't relate to it. Scant can't say its wrong. I've lived it.
It’s true with what scanty is saying ,I know someone who said she hate men because of what his dad did ,she now a lesbian some broken home can be very toxic 😢
So scanty, are you saying we the ladies that come from broken homes can't be in healthy relationships
Another life lesson ❤
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I promise. O Joe and I did the eye wink at the same time
What Scanty is saying is true, is very difficult to keep a man
13:27 scanty😭😂
Girls from a broken home don't know how to love their husbands and I can site my elder sister as 7:49 an exemple. She sometimes attempt to beat his husband, Buh my other sis who grew up when my mom and dad had reconcile or back together (whatever), she's really liking her relationship and it's very strong compared to my elder sis
The individual is a product of his/her environment
Scanty is really wise seriously
You are what you are exposed to most of the time and we have something called modeling which we pick up most of the time so it tends to affect people even when they are not aware of
11:29 Brie nailed this one.
There is a survey in the sates that says children who end up in prison are mostly from broken homes 🏡
Scanty is making sense ❤😊
Scanty!!!!! Your introduction assumption is wrong!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn’t grew up with my father until I met him in my late 20s. 5 years in the role of knowing my father and staying in the same house with him! I met my partner! I have only one partner and I’m not finding difficulty loving him and building up a long relationship!
Just cos your story is different doesn’t mean he’s wrong he’s 85% right
Brie is always in a hurry when talking who is after her 😂
Herh 😂😂 scanty u be serious guy pass
I think if you grow up in a home that a father is beating a wife, the wife always advice her children because experience is certainly the best teacher.