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Gerardo I’d say she’s more salty, but he’s definitely more toxic. He was describing how he isolated her from her friends and talked to other girls behind his back while lying to her about it. That’s emotional abuse.
I’m confused. Why are people blaming the girl? He said he only stayed in the relationship for the sex, cheated on her, made her feel down, & he never apologized. He just said “let’s move on”. while the only thing she didn’t do was show affection, but why would she the way she was treated.
Don't know where you guys are getting cheating from? Talking to girls doesn't equal cheating... as for the shady stuff... assuming it's cheating is just as bad as cheating so you guys need to shut your traps
he probably just didn’t notice her looks until later, normally when you start to catch feelings for someone they become more attractive in your own eyes.
Karla De La Pena they wasn’t there just to talk about his cheating, you know that right??? She admitted to her wrongs also just like he did, one of the problems they had was how she was always blaming him for EVERYTHING when she messed up sometimes also and still blamed him. That’s why he said “glad you took initiative to blame yourself for once” he wasn’t being rude, he was just realized she admitted something that she never admitted to before.
People always try and blame their ex for the reason why they are “fucked up” in their next relationship. I ABSOLUTELY love when people absolve themselves of personal responsibility, and blame their lack of growth on someone else :)
@@nunglembaangom3167 well whatever she did worked cuz a 9 rating (but i dont think she did things that weird i just thought she didnt want him to talk about the specifics lmao)
its all about communication and being on the same page, address problems from the beginning don’t let them become a heated argument that builds resentment or stonewalling like the problems don’t exist
I adore how she’s not all dressed up in front of camera. I don’t find it weird when people get dressed up for camera but it’s refreshing. That’s one hell of a chill person.
@Yuju Waterbottle No matter what my outfit looks like, I've always got the same makeup on lmao. Compared to the IG pics they showed, she really was dressed chill
Damn I didn't even notice when they said that. WTF. Is it too late to call the cops, bc he was probably 18 while she either 14 or 15 which is completely illegal?
When Wendy said something about people commenting on her stuff saying “oh any guy would be luck to have you like how come I can attract all these men on the internet.... but I have my own Fucken man not doing the same to me, like what do I have to do for you to see me and look my way” I Fucken felt that...
OliveBranch I like your name, it’s pretty accurate I deleted the earlier comment, I think that obviously a photo isn’t a person and the validation comment wasn’t needed, what SHE needed was to feel loved and he just couldn’t give her that :(
WhiteTiger Gaming - I be moved on but if I had to do this with what I would consider my ex, I’d be crying and yelling so loud the headphones wouldn’t do anything lmaoo
@@trvplxrd7075 Yeah, because your frontal lobe doesn't fully develop till you're 20-24. So you can imagine the decisions an 18 year old makes have at least a bit more sense than the decisions a 14 year old makes.
@@adventuresociety588 I dont think a social media following is a good indicator of someone being mature. Aka tana mangeua, kim Kardashian etc. I generally find from personal experience that people who deflect responsibility are pretty immature and it's quite common these days. Especially among young women
Homeboy8227 Yeah, it’s even more common among young men. Especially the ones that date 14 year old girls as a legal adult. It’s funny how you managed to slip that casual sexism in there, isn’t it.
@@alaaye5237 I simply said from personal experience. I wont deny that it is present in males but just generally from personal experience and the women I've dated that yeah it's kinda common. I dont date men
She’s hyper aggressive it’s true - imagine if a man talked the way she did - he would be called insane and abusive. The fact so many women think this is normal “assertive” behaviour is the problem.
RC Reid if you keep spoiled food in the fridge too long, it will be more toxic. 😂 if that makes sense. The longer you stay and tolerate, the more you don’t realize how toxic it is
Because people like a challenge and a toxic relationship is a full time challenge. It’s horrible for you but it keeps people busy, usually happens if you don’t have much going on in your life.
Sounds like he doesn't really give a damn about her and she is way to salty about it. Typical toxic relationship really. They were togheter only because of habit I guess.
No it looks like she was getting alot of attention online, and he felt insecure. So he was afraid to love her because he thought she was going to leave him for someone who he felt was better than him. Him not showing love was a way to not get his heart broken. Thats probably also why he talked to other girls, he did what he was afraid of her doing, as away to feel in control. Not incontrol of her but of the relationship.
I believe she’s over and moved on but of course the hurt never goes away. This was a man she loved and trusted who then turned his back on her and cheated on her. He seems to think of it as like “ yeah that’s not cool I fucked up” but that’s it. Doesn’t seem exactly understanding of how much damage that can cause someone
LittleRainGames or maybe he’s just that guy who cheats. I mean this entire video was basically her saying she just wanted the attention he didn’t give her. This relationship seems like it was doomed from the start, very one sided. If anything the attention online should’ve pushed him to show her off more and be more involved.
looks are always subjective, for exaple one may look as good as dog crap, but still find other unattractive, which doesn't mean they find themselves attractive...
@@crystal71333 it does not matter tho who is prettier tho because it does not last for long what is most important is who is more mature and wise and both of them fucked up
Too many people pointing out “she wanted a driver not a boyfriend” while ignoring how she was around thirteen/fourteen when they got together and he was seventeen/eighteen 🤨
If i didn’t already know of her, I would’ve found her extremely annoying but since I’ve been following her on social media for years I’m like “oh that’s so Wendy 🤣”
kassy I followed her for quite some times and then all of a sudden I couldn’t find her on my feed anymore. I’m going back to find her but the only thing popping up is missswendyle22
clara.hav apparently I think I must’ve gotten blocked LOL. I’ve followed her for a long time and never made any comments so I wouldn’t see why I would possibly be blocked... 🤔
I’ve been following Wendy for years even when she was with Richard and the fact that she was so civil online when everyone blamed her for the breakup (people assumed because she got her body done) proves that she was in a new chapter in her life that she didn’t want to lose. But I agree there was an IG story about how so many guys compliment her and how Richard was lucky. But this video was proof how he didn’t even bother to hype her up. I almost cried just watching this but her apology was just spot on 🙏🏾 I’m so glad she has her own little family and is being more understanding and loved by her current significant other 🥰
Damn and all this time I would see her being told that she was to blame by everyone on social media for her and Richard not being together cause she got her body done and literally it was his fault for being shady smh and she never once but their business out there about that. Damn just goes to show how people are sheep and just go along with what they assume smh.
“I didn’t even find her that attractive to begin with” bruh... my man could NEVER. Everytime I ask him about our first time meeting he was literally so overwhelmed with how “beautiful” I was and how he’s so thankful and lucky he is to have me. This relationship had lack of communication and insecurity on both sides, probably looked for things in each other that they couldn’t find in each other. Stayed in the relationship just for each other’s existence to have, and unfortunately for Wendy she loved him more than he ever did.
Imaginer seems so, i don’t follow her anymore but who can blame her. With celebs who are exploiting their children for clout/fame it is no wonder this became ethical. I look at it as smth that became usual to society. As long as her son is safe and healthy.
@@SuperWMYB @Sieroni @Ibrahim from social media. she used to post funny videos with him on ig, she always had a plataform. They were always toxic tho lol
I like how y’all asked them the questions separately with earphones and then asked together. This really shows how couples speak about each other when their spouse not around compared to when they are together speaking about the situation. They tend to be blunt separately but when speaking about it together, they tend to tread lightly.
I mentally NEED this with my Ex. We fell apart and he hasn't been able to give me an explanation since or vise versa. Its been almost 8 years now and just last year I finally "got over him." He was the only man in my life that I wanted to marry... it still stings to this day thinking of all the passion and connection that will never be again.
LOU Bna Everyone was calling the guy a predator because they thought she was a High a School Freshman. Classic toxic female deceptiveness and classic toxic male idiocy.
@@katrina8046 well I was a freshman had just turned 15 and the guy was a highschool guy 19 years old he was behind due to changing a lot we had the same class together because he had to take it to graduate and we were dating and no one said a single thing so IDK
I've been following wendy for a while when she was with Richard and then the breakup. Its endearing to see her grow and have a child with her new bf, she really is growing as a person. I'm Viet as well, and I don't have any sisters only brothers so I low key see her as an older sister LOLLL not to sound weird or whatever but she does really give good advice and her personality is really funny and genuine. They definitely make better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend.
They seem like COMPLETE opposites. BOTH of them lived and learned. I think taking time to work on yourself and learning how to benefit yourself and others is really crucial going forward. You make A LOT of realizations once you're out of a relationship. Some of which you could never see while in one. You can choose to learn from your mistakes or continue to repeat them over and over. In the end, its all up to you.
i’ve been following wendy since her relationship with richard & her confidence over the years has changed so much and i’m happy to see her where she is now :)
Ray i mean i don’t really care nor is it any of my business lol if she had a side piece to make her happy then so be it. i’m just saying that she seems more happier and confident now than the past years
Dwight when you’re with someone for 5 + years and you’ve never seen them wear vans yes I will roast him 💀 but hey good for him he’s wearing shoes I didn’t need to buy him for once 😝
The energy between them doesn’t fit. Like Richard radiates hesitance and regret mixed with ego. And she radiates distraction and disconnected pain as if she had to really distract herself from her own emotions. They probably never had communication, trust or honesty within their relationship. They probably knew their whole relationship that they weren’t meant to be but obligation and “what if” kept them hanging on. He never showed her if he loved her so she (probably) assumed he didn’t. Again she had to ignore that because it was so painful so she would (probably) go out with her friends to distract herself from hurtful doubts. And Their families didn’t mix well. That’s just the energy I personally pick up on. Could be wrong though. Glad they’re both doing better. They both hopefully learned a lot from that relationship.
GrizzlySubset20 that’s besides the point, even if they started dating a few months from there, there was pretty much a 4 years gap and he was legal and she wasn’t. The 4 year gap didn’t just disappear just didn’t wait 4 years from knowing him to start dating him. Lmao get my point?
Yea although he did make her choose over him or her friends and still cheated on her however they both seem shitty and we have no way of knowing what truly happened
@@cheerioss-9121 They didn't ask him directly if he found her attractive at first, so why bring it up? It's not wrong to not find someone attractive, but it is wrong and mean to say it to their face....
Knew he was toxic straight away When she had headphones on he said he didn't find her attractive but he then realized she was BUT when he was telling HER, he said he didn't find her attractive and never told her he eventually did. Classic playing on her ego to make her feel small. Well done for leaving girl.
"Thought he was cool, he had a car. Think this will come in handy when I need a ride." Bruh stfu. From the start it was clear that she was the toxic ass one. And her tryna sound ghetto? No wonder people despise asians atm
@@seapickle8666 14 and 18 year old weird. one just started being a teenager and other can legally move out and go to college. Romeo and Juliet laws are mostly to protect older teenagers with young adults. Most states i find that 18/14 is punishable. cant find one that allows 14/18 year olds to have sex. most states i find dont allow more then 3 years. also doesnt matter if its legal, 14/18 is weird as fuck. one is an adult. one barely left middleschool!
Middle ground request folks : Christians vs Witches Please. PLEASE. Edit: okay there are other options like: Christians vs pagans or witches vs widely spread religions or something else... You get the point I just said what I thought might be the best one of them
@@aqqibabs Christians were the ones burning witches for years and some up to this day believe witches are sinners that follow Satan and will burn in hell
Hey Goodhumans, thanks for watching our newest episode of Both Sides! We've always wanted to do an episode with exes. Would you ever do something like this with your ex? Do you think it's possible to be friends with an ex? How do you get closure and move on from relationships?
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Jubilee hi.
Please do do all parents who have adopted amd biological children think the same?
Do all biological siblings with adipeted siblings think the same?
@@michyx2732 👋
Jubilee 😯😯😯
I’d love to do this with my ex but i think she would only do it for money
When she apologized when he couldn’t even hear.. I felt that
Miyyah B that’s interesting
lol us females b like dat
He's obviously gonna watch the video
Oh
Omg I felt that so deep 😔😔😔
Their personalities don't look like they mesh well at all, let's be honest
Sterling Velazquez indeed, too toxic
well they were together for 5 years since high school, they probably changed a lot over that time
She's toxic more tho
Toxic
Gerardo I’d say she’s more salty, but he’s definitely more toxic. He was describing how he isolated her from her friends and talked to other girls behind his back while lying to her about it. That’s emotional abuse.
“You are so salty” you literally cheated on her. She has the right to be salty 👀
I think it was a cholesterol joke lol
Christy it was a pun lmao
@@lunatik383 lmao.
Shes ghetto
I think she deserved it... I cheat on dumbass ghetto chicks too... Theyre below me :)
The whole time she looked like she wanted to beat him up-
Her voice already beat me up 💀
-B a b y C h i c k e n- gonna leave the likes at 69 but imagine i liked it.
and he wanted to get back together 😂
@@blubblab4238 mkay-
-B a b y C h i c k e n- they messed it up
Damn this relationship sounded exhausting
FullMoonFullHeart try dating women
@@appiahallan you sound exhausting
@@asmryag108 You sound annoying not being able to take a joke.
Versaucer it’s not that he couldn’t take the joke it’s the fact that he makes such bad jokes
ASMRYag I am .
I’m confused. Why are people blaming the girl? He said he only stayed in the relationship for the sex, cheated on her, made her feel down, & he never apologized. He just said “let’s move on”. while the only thing she didn’t do was show affection, but why would she the way she was treated.
lit edits Exactly
THANK YOU!!!
THANK U OMG
exactly!!
Don't know where you guys are getting cheating from? Talking to girls doesn't equal cheating... as for the shady stuff... assuming it's cheating is just as bad as cheating so you guys need to shut your traps
*"i didn't find you cute"*
actually that kinda hurt to hear
Well , the dude is an asshole and a terrible partner, but out of all things he said, this one might be one of the few I agree. She's not cute at all
Franco Traversa her insta was though she just not dressed up for him
The I rated sex 2 also hurt her you could see in her face.
he probably just didn’t notice her looks until later, normally when you start to catch feelings for someone they become more attractive in your own eyes.
I’m Tired it was a joke and he then said what he said originally
Bruh, what an epic moment
The sex ratings were 6 and 9
Epic Lit don‘t just don‘t
I was gonna like the comment but i couldnt it was to perfect
@@carlo3706 damn right
They were giving hints
Bruh why you guys ruined it his likes were 69 too..
Jubilee shady for posting this before Valentine’s Day 😂😂😂
Thats facts right there lol
Happy single Awareness day!!!!!!!
And the cheaters video omg
😂😂yup😂😂
The saltiness makes my life feel sweet.
Her - "That's what you gave me, high cholesterol and blood pressure"
Him - "You're so *salty* ...."
I see what you did there 😂😂
Wow I just noticed
same
Sorry to break it to you boys but I doubt he meant it
@@ffaiq well duh
@@dsykes88 It has 2K likes I don't think its a duh moment bro
did he deadass say "it's good that you took the initiative and blamed yourself for once?" nah man
What a jerk!
Lorenna he said that because she always blamed him For everything. Now she realize she fucked up sometimes also, that’s why he said it
Every guy knows exactly where he’s coming from too
225 cuz he literally cheated on her. Why would she blame herself
Karla De La Pena they wasn’t there just to talk about his cheating, you know that right??? She admitted to her wrongs also just like he did, one of the problems they had was how she was always blaming him for EVERYTHING when she messed up sometimes also and still blamed him. That’s why he said “glad you took initiative to blame yourself for once” he wasn’t being rude, he was just realized she admitted something that she never admitted to before.
Her:intensely stares at his lips to see what he’s saying
Him:casually looks around
i think he's trying to not cry almost..idk
Sekai that make sense
4:26 he looks like he’s on the verge of tears
She intimidates him you can tell and he’s nervous with shaking his legs & he’s guilty for cheating
her blames all her problems on him
him casually moves on
“ARE YOU GIVING TOO MUCH DETAIL? DONT GIVE TOO MUCH DETAIL.”
I read this exactly when they said that on the video lol
Zombie Jaba bro... that’s crazy me too literally I stg
I died
shes literally a catfish...i was like wahh those are her pics??|!| i guesss thats what editing , make up and facetune insecurity gets u wtf lol
@@fulldem6888 not here for the hate 😔😤
When she said “i think its because Richard fucked me up” and he looked down and couldn’t look at her ! HE FELT THAT !
Yeah, I think he knew she was right
Pallavi Dass how are there 2 comments...
@@theockfamily5968 What do you mean?
@@pallavidass9737 like not enough commenting on this comment
People always try and blame their ex for the reason why they are “fucked up” in their next relationship. I ABSOLUTELY love when people absolve themselves of personal responsibility, and blame their lack of growth on someone else :)
Ah I see you guys are making us happy we are single this year rather than making us feel bad.
LMAO this is the best comment
Hahahahahahahaha this comment made my day
I'm not single but I feel single. 2 can be the loneliest number
Mznoz probably not she has a baby with someone else
DarthYuYevon not gay or straight and I still single.
her: “ARE YOU GIVING TOO MUCH DETAIL?? DONT GIVE TOO MUCH DETAIL😳”
chloeqvach 6 and 9 😳
also her: *SPILLS MAJOR TEA*
She definitely did some weird weird stuff.
_U guys didn't get the chronology it's 69_
@@nunglembaangom3167 well whatever she did worked cuz a 9 rating (but i dont think she did things that weird i just thought she didnt want him to talk about the specifics lmao)
I dated someone for 3 months and came out bitter af, I can't imagine what it's like to be with someone for YEARS and have a bad breakup
Same here three months too.
My longest relationship was 6 months... Idk how people do that?
2 months for me*
Lmfaooooo. I wonder the same thing too.
I got all of you how bout 21yrs wife decides I’m done! And talks to her ex from high school.. so bitter.... yup ..... yup.
its all about communication and being on the same page, address problems from the beginning don’t let them become a heated argument that builds resentment or stonewalling like the problems don’t exist
She’s straight out of a reality show
Lmaoooo9
Omg
Or she is ready to go straight into a reality show?😂
@A she talks like someone who got hurt x
She reminds of a reality star called Tila Tequila.
She didn’t even dress liked she cared about him 😂😂😂
She’s a new mom and they’re both in other relationships, why would she dress up for him?
she’s not wearing anything fancy but she has a YSL longsleeve on.
Her heavy makeup is enough bish
The Queen stop, people can wear heavy/light or no makeup it’s there choice
@Kalene Paquia yes 👏
these comments are hurting my brainnnn. why are people getting so heated arguing over who’s more toxic?? both of them clearly had their faults
alexlapointe I think it’s more about women vs men..
Day Night wow that actually explains a lot of western women pretty well. Thank you for that.
Lalalisa everyone rates everyone sweetie. Get over it
Finally a reasonable comment
yeah like they broke up for a reason
I adore how she’s not all dressed up in front of camera. I don’t find it weird when people get dressed up for camera but it’s refreshing. That’s one hell of a chill person.
Yuju Waterbottle
I’ve noticed but I was referring to her clothes 👍🏽
@Yuju Waterbottle No matter what my outfit looks like, I've always got the same makeup on lmao. Compared to the IG pics they showed, she really was dressed chill
She is anything but chill
Yuju Waterbottle she’s a makeup guru I’d be shocked if she wasn’t
ALEXANDRA lmao she’s wearing yves saint lauraunt
So he was hanging out with a freshman after he graduated
allen iverson right?????
That was a huge red flag.
allen iverson I DONT SEE WHY NO ONE ELSE COMMENTED ON THIS
Damn I didn't even notice when they said that. WTF. Is it too late to call the cops, bc he was probably 18 while she either 14 or 15 which is completely illegal?
@@romanreignswhore no, maybe 17 and 14/15
When Wendy said something about people commenting on her stuff saying “oh any guy would be luck to have you like how come I can attract all these men on the internet.... but I have my own Fucken man not doing the same to me, like what do I have to do for you to see me and look my way” I Fucken felt that...
Yeah. It’s always like this I feel
@@KateCarew I don't think that just wanting your s.o. to show compassion towards you is "requiring tons of external validation" though...
OliveBranch agreed
He should’ve let her go, dating someone out of convenience is a huge disservice to both partners.
@@KateCarew Yeah, that's true.
OliveBranch I like your name, it’s pretty accurate
I deleted the earlier comment, I think that obviously a photo isn’t a person and the validation comment wasn’t needed, what SHE needed was to feel loved and he just couldn’t give her that
:(
Wendy: *has high cholesterol and high blood pressure*
Richard: *tells her she's salty*
🤣🤣🤣🤣
20 20 I NOTICED THAT TOOOO OMFG 😂😂
lmfaooo i just realized
i just got that 😂
😭😭😭💀💀💀
She’s not dressed up because she’s not trying to impress him lol. Acting like y’all people don’t wear the same thing
billie snow but she’s wearing pounds of make up tho
Yeah but it soobvious shes wearing that to not show that she really cares about him anyways
She's not even that dressed up, people are wildin. And what's so wrong with wanting to look good 🤷🏽♀️ it doesn't have to be for him
@@finthehuman3649 what? everyones saying the opposite lmao.
@@kingakingz1596 .....And?
Wendy walked in dressed like she was going to CVS to grab a antihistamine 😂😂
RedisNotaFlavor Hahahah because I’m still the baddest 🤗
@@missswendyle still the baddest 12AM in the self checkout, fo sho! 😂🤗
RedisNotaFlavor PERIODDDD 😂😂
HAHAHAHAHHH DEAD
or acetaminophen
They’re able to talk about their feelings and not cry. MUST BE NICE. I’d be choking up
Rebecca Danielle because they are both in relationships and have moved on.
WhiteTiger Gaming - I be moved on but if I had to do this with what I would consider my ex, I’d be crying and yelling so loud the headphones wouldn’t do anything lmaoo
Id be crying so much that i wouldnt want the video to be posted
When internet people think they know everything about people and their relationships by watching a 10 minute video.
Oml right
A video that probably had most of the important parts cut
fr
That’s what I’m saying
fr people are so judgy about everything
This guy doesn’t represent all Richards, just saying.
Trueeeee
not sure why this isn’t one of the top comments 😭
@@deathuru Amen.
no you're dumber tru
🤣🤣 you killed me
"I was barely becoming a freshman and he had just graduated high school." Ah, he's one of THOSE dudes...😬😂
Lupus ad Noctem 😂😂😂
For real... so she was like 14 and he was 18? That is hella weird.
@@PabloGonzalez-mp9ni they are only 4 years apart, I'm so confused? I guess it's okay for a 30+ to date a 18 years old but not this
Mr. Heck because she was like THIRTEEN AND HE WAS AN ADULT
@@trvplxrd7075 Yeah, because your frontal lobe doesn't fully develop till you're 20-24. So you can imagine the decisions an 18 year old makes have at least a bit more sense than the decisions a 14 year old makes.
“It was good that you took that initiative and blamed yourself for once.” WHAT
She does kinda seem like the girl to see things the way she wants to see them.
@@Homeboy8227 you must not know what shes really like. Everyone likes her and she was pretty big back on instagram.
@@adventuresociety588 I dont think a social media following is a good indicator of someone being mature. Aka tana mangeua, kim Kardashian etc.
I generally find from personal experience that people who deflect responsibility are pretty immature and it's quite common these days. Especially among young women
Homeboy8227
Yeah, it’s even more common among young men. Especially the ones that date 14 year old girls as a legal adult. It’s funny how you managed to slip that casual sexism in there, isn’t it.
@@alaaye5237 I simply said from personal experience. I wont deny that it is present in males but just generally from personal experience and the women I've dated that yeah it's kinda common. I dont date men
She’s not even passive aggressive she’s just aggressive
No. Shes assertive.
@@Altorac nah she’s aggressive
And??
@@backhandboi5030 no shes not.
She’s hyper aggressive it’s true - imagine if a man talked the way she did - he would be called insane and abusive. The fact so many women think this is normal “assertive” behaviour is the problem.
Why does all toxic relationship last longer?
RC Reid if you keep spoiled food in the fridge too long, it will be more toxic. 😂 if that makes sense. The longer you stay and tolerate, the more you don’t realize how toxic it is
Because they're ignorant and don't know back then...
It be your favorite toxic person. I believe it’s cause you had fun together but in the end you weren’t truly happy
Because people like a challenge and a toxic relationship is a full time challenge. It’s horrible for you but it keeps people busy, usually happens if you don’t have much going on in your life.
because the sex was a 9
When he said “Good for you, taking initiative, blaming yourself..for once” and then an ad played I went 😲😳
Same 💀
Same I’m dead
Same 😂😂
Yea she seems like she’s a lame and terrible partner tbh, and she honestly is ugly roo
@@lokii-1981 Talking about lame and terrible partner, are that judgmental in real life too ?
Sounds like he doesn't really give a damn about her and she is way to salty about it. Typical toxic relationship really. They were togheter only because of habit I guess.
behamut92 Well he gave her a 9 in the sex part that could also be it from his side lol
No it looks like she was getting alot of attention online, and he felt insecure. So he was afraid to love her because he thought she was going to leave him for someone who he felt was better than him.
Him not showing love was a way to not get his heart broken.
Thats probably also why he talked to other girls, he did what he was afraid of her doing, as away to feel in control. Not incontrol of her but of the relationship.
I believe she’s over and moved on but of course the hurt never goes away. This was a man she loved and trusted who then turned his back on her and cheated on her. He seems to think of it as like “ yeah that’s not cool I fucked up” but that’s it. Doesn’t seem exactly understanding of how much damage that can cause someone
she had all the right to be salty, he cheated on her multiple times lmao
LittleRainGames or maybe he’s just that guy who cheats. I mean this entire video was basically her saying she just wanted the attention he didn’t give her. This relationship seems like it was doomed from the start, very one sided. If anything the attention online should’ve pushed him to show her off more and be more involved.
The fact that she didn’t mention that she was a COLLEGE freshman is a troubling for a man.
That’s her fault for not being carefully descriptive.
she did say it, jubilee is just manipulating the facts again, shocker
@@SuspiciousTree-i4l oh... that ain't right.
@@ZatoBravo i mean it is what it is
@@ZatoBravo not surprised
Michael Dwayne college freshman she's older
Even though their relationship was toxic, she is so much happier with a baby and someone who treats her great
And?
She is toxic too. She blames her bad actions on Richard.
Yesss👏🏽
Zaydee Serrano that’s cool and all but nobody asked
@@Helljumper7200 She admitted she used to. Not anymore.
She's clearly moved on and that's good for her.
He didn’t find her attractive but she’s better looking than him 😂
Makeup
looks are always subjective, for exaple one may look as good as dog crap, but still find other unattractive, which doesn't mean they find themselves attractive...
LOU Bna nah even without it she still looks better without him I used to watch her videos without makeup so 🤷🏻♀️
@@crystal71333 it does not matter tho who is prettier tho because it does not last for long what is most important is who is more mature and wise and both of them fucked up
Fuu Yuh she’s really not attractive also she wears so much fkn make up.
Guy looks like an asian Elon Musk
Oh my goodness he almost does😂😂😂😂
😂
Don't insult my boy Elon like that
I’d still smash
😅👍
bruh the guy actually knows what he did wrong, but the girl kept denying everything smh
she apologized- for many stuff
“He was like the driver of the group”
Yeah, because y’all were like 14 and he was already graduated. Yikes, one of those guys.
thats asians for you
Cringe Police
Damn bro you got the whole squad laughing... 😐
@@imbetterthanyou2457 wdym 😬
Take the 76 pounds of makeup off her face and then decide who looks better
Linkux Snooks that was random..?
Sooo is no one going to mention that’s she’s misswendyyy? The girl who made them funny ass videos about makeup on early Insta?
Joxy Hernandez wait that’s really here!
Was wondering the same that’s why I clicked on the video lmao
I KNEW I RECOGNISED HER
I was looking for this comment 😝 exactly what I thought.. haha
I was literally looking for this comment I follow her on insta she’s really funny 👏🏾
Target held their relationship together longer than it was supposed to be 😂
Aye aye credit to target
Too many people pointing out “she wanted a driver not a boyfriend” while ignoring how she was around thirteen/fourteen when they got together and he was seventeen/eighteen 🤨
And?
Wait no, she is older than him she was a college freshman when he was a senior tf???
RIGHT
Nah bro that wouldnt be illegal, she was a college freshman, he was a high school senior.
wait.. isnt that illegal..?
She's legit dressed like she's at a prison visit lmao
Nutella Latte he dont even deserve to see her well dressed, for what?
And am living for it😂😂
Nelly Jtsar if she’s over it she wouldn’t need to dress for him she should dress well for the video smh she ain’t perfect either
She ready
True Vibes
She can dress whatever she wants and whatever matches her mood.
Can we talk about how she came with sweat pants and slippers?? Sis is slying
How is she slaying? Smh
and why she told him he wear vans when she came dress like that?
FBI we got em facts !
she got plastic surgery and still looks like the people from walmart... pls stop lmfao
FBI we got em She’s a new mom cut her some slack 🥴
If i didn’t already know of her, I would’ve found her extremely annoying but since I’ve been following her on social media for years I’m like “oh that’s so Wendy 🤣”
What's her IG/
Sophia missswendyle
kassy I followed her for quite some times and then all of a sudden I couldn’t find her on my feed anymore. I’m going back to find her but the only thing popping up is missswendyle22
Alissa Her I found her IG. It really is missswendyle. Did you only type in two s by mistake?
clara.hav apparently I think I must’ve gotten blocked LOL. I’ve followed her for a long time and never made any comments so I wouldn’t see why I would possibly be blocked... 🤔
It sounds like she wanted a driver more than she wanted a boyfriend.
She was clearly using him at the start but then stopped
@@e.g4519 So then... That's your interpretation?
You have daddy issues too?
Todd Baker u sayin that that’s not how it looks?
Both were at fault, we don't even know the whole relationship
a chaufeur or a moron both
I’ve been following Wendy for years even when she was with Richard and the fact that she was so civil online when everyone blamed her for the breakup (people assumed because she got her body done) proves that she was in a new chapter in her life that she didn’t want to lose. But I agree there was an IG story about how so many guys compliment her and how Richard was lucky. But this video was proof how he didn’t even bother to hype her up. I almost cried just watching this but her apology was just spot on 🙏🏾 I’m so glad she has her own little family and is being more understanding and loved by her current significant other 🥰
Ashley FromGU wow, that’s sad. Too bad her name had to go through the mud like that. Glad to hear she’s doing better now though!
why tf did I get closure from this video lol
Daisy Pacheco 😂😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
🤣
Literally same lmaoo
LITERALLY SAME
she was lowkey listening to him lmao
Trying to read his lips, yeah
@@lillypea yeah i meant that too lol.
High key
@@rmartin6914 oof
She lowkey salty
Everyone is trashing the guy when the girl is such a toxic person in general
Seriously
@@mrclean2518 yes?
@@xenuk5398 what?
im saying theyre not toxic people but for each other they are. yknow
I see what you are saying.
When she said,
I know for a fact I loved him way more he loved me.
That one hit hard
Gotta be that one asshole who don't give a goddamn because when you love them too much they don't care enough to reciprocate that affection
@@FieryJuniper I've learnt that the hard way. Flip side is that when i do that i come off as a cold hearted B.
Good for u
Isa Mash no it didn’t.
Damn and all this time I would see her being told that she was to blame by everyone on social media for her and Richard not being together cause she got her body done and literally it was his fault for being shady smh and she never once but their business out there about that. Damn just goes to show how people are sheep and just go along with what they assume smh.
Karah she did mention couple times about how Richard cheated on her
the fact that you know so much about this subcelebrity scares me
Guilherme Savian for real like, who cares?
Wait...I thought these were random ppl spilling their business to the public for no reason but ig not lmao
You made up a situation then used it to say that people are sheep. What u doin g lol
“I didn’t even find her that attractive to begin with” bruh... my man could NEVER. Everytime I ask him about our first time meeting he was literally so overwhelmed with how “beautiful” I was and how he’s so thankful and lucky he is to have me.
This relationship had lack of communication and insecurity on both sides, probably looked for things in each other that they couldn’t find in each other. Stayed in the relationship just for each other’s existence to have, and unfortunately for Wendy she loved him more than he ever did.
Sophia AP so you dated him too?
@@cole-rl3qd i think she meant whe she ask her boyfriend
Sophia subscribe back
Kinda sounds like a simp
people say that just because they think you expect them to say that to you . not because they really believe that.
bruh, i followed Wendy on ig way before this and her attitude is everything. She was salty to him way before so this just seemed so natural to me
Just look at her ig pics,, so lewd and she is using her son for likes too, wonder what her son feels like when he is old enough
Imaginer seems so, i don’t follow her anymore but who can blame her. With celebs who are exploiting their children for clout/fame it is no wonder this became ethical. I look at it as smth that became usual to society. As long as her son is safe and healthy.
@@veryeskayaa915 this society is going down the drain.
@@veryeskayaa915 She's a single mother and absolutely insane that kid is NOT gonna be healthy
@@Ch0obyHD ikr its like everything once viewed as bad is now viewed as good. Then everything that was once good is now viewed as bad
Usually things are so calm and everybody eventually understands each other's points of view... not this time! xD
People probably are on their best behavior to not air out any dirty laundry. These guys on the other hand do not give a damn!
They were about as calm as they could be, but yeah definitely bad vibes throughout.
They kept it real
“I didn’t think you were that cute.” Uhm he’s not cute at all
ha ha you shouldn't be talking look at the mirror and see urself it looks like a clown
Ryze Gaming say what you want dude, have a nice day 😘
@@oynarn says the person without the confidence to have their own face on their profile picture lmfao
lol, everyone has their own beauty.
Susie Wusie yes yes yes you are right
OMG! I remember them! She's a whole mom and wife now.
were they in another video?
Remember them from what?
remember?
@@SuperWMYB @Sieroni @Ibrahim from social media. she used to post funny videos with him on ig, she always had a plataform. They were always toxic tho lol
so that means they're not actors? Damn lol I serioousy thought they were
I like how y’all asked them the questions separately with earphones and then asked together. This really shows how couples speak about each other when their spouse not around compared to when they are together speaking about the situation. They tend to be blunt separately but when speaking about it together, they tend to tread lightly.
“Yeah that’s the thing... where were you?”- point made.
karanique’s korner 💯💯
Nah😂 you can’t be everywhere
no man can be in his crib and be at her rough moments at the same time like.....
women logic smh i aint goku bruh, I cant teleport
@@hanyello2056 hahahaha best response I've seen to this type o comment
She looks exactly like her personality
Brodha Sattva ugly af?
KΛIDΣЯПΛПDӨ ur rude
@@brisamartinez1 nobody asked
Ryze Gaming 😘 u obviously care what i have to say since you keep replying to my comments
@@brisamartinez1 I only see them reply to you once?
This girl had a viral insta video where she did her makeup with no background music so she just narrated it, or am i the only one who remembers?
Nanise Raga ohhhhh so thats her! She looked familiar & these comments sayin how she viral on IG but cldnt remmbr her lol
@@hollyosima6271 shes a momma now lol
I mentally NEED this with my Ex. We fell apart and he hasn't been able to give me an explanation since or vise versa. Its been almost 8 years now and just last year I finally "got over him." He was the only man in my life that I wanted to marry... it still stings to this day thinking of all the passion and connection that will never be again.
If this girl reminds u of u then that’s the answer
Dam yall won't know why I have 17k likes
Antonio N Riiiiiight LOL
bruh lmaoooo
90% of the asians I grew up around speak like this.
@@MissTear82 Yeah that's a no for me. I would be incredibly annoyed being around that.
No....
"We met in high school"
Alright cool
"I had just become a freshman and he had just graduated"
wuHUT
That's not that much
Its only 4yrs diff. There's people who are 10yrs apart.
@@samlung2724 its very wrong, 4 years if you met at 30 is normal. If you met at 15 he's pedo freak. Seriously think about it
@@ji-di7zr Jesus, people keep using pedo as an umbrella term. Pedo is for prepubescent, below 13.
@@eazypeezy4505 its illegal for an 18 year old to date anyone younger that 18 in the states.
do six professional lie detector people against one professional liar in odd man out
This might work well with 6 body language experts
omg yes
I didn’t think I needed this until I saw ur comment
Who the duck is a professional liar
omg thats a good oneeeee BRUHHHH ima repost this so they see it
College Freshman. She's older than him.
What's wrong with that ?
LOU Bna
Everyone was calling the guy a predator because they thought she was a High a School Freshman. Classic toxic female deceptiveness and classic toxic male idiocy.
@@scarynight999 nothing that's the point of the comment
Oh thank god
she's dropout single mother
Imagine dropping everything you're doing including nothing just to argue with your ex ? LMFAO.
Mánuel Kiatoko ..?elaborate
They getting paid so...
@@MimixLight Title was deceiving it said "fight" if that's the case it would be a complete waste of time.
And yet people do it so often
Mánuel Kiatoko 😂😂😂
Lemme get this straight.... You were barely a freshman STRAIGHT from middle school and this guy was at least 18... He's a predator.
@@katrina8046 well I was a freshman had just turned 15 and the guy was a highschool guy 19 years old he was behind due to changing a lot we had the same class together because he had to take it to graduate and we were dating and no one said a single thing so IDK
2396 p lmao
@@katrina8046 laugh all you want
2396 p You were literally a minor and he was an ADULT. Ummm...ok
@@xestien yes but that only matters when youre and in highschool people marry people 3 and 4 years older than them all the time
I've been following wendy for a while when she was with Richard and then the breakup. Its endearing to see her grow and have a child with her new bf, she really is growing as a person. I'm Viet as well, and I don't have any sisters only brothers so I low key see her as an older sister LOLLL not to sound weird or whatever but she does really give good advice and her personality is really funny and genuine. They definitely make better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend.
“its good that you took that initiative, finally blame yourself for once” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
im here to judge these two strangers to see who really ended the relationship when ive never had one ✌️😗
Same
Same😆😊😐😞
I think it was him
Rania lmao same
He’s still not fully aged yet, still a boy transitioning into adulthood.
Ikr true
He looks like in 8th grade lol cuz of clothes so 1990’s 🤦🏼♀️
nah frrrrrr
If y’all put me and my ex I would be talking to much sh*t. My relationship was the most toxic ever so glad I left. I’m so happier now
I'd really like to hear about it! Like what were the red flags in your relationship
I wonder why exactly. You don't have a tinder account do you. Not like I use it or anything.
@@sonicloud7774 SMOOTH MOVES THERE SONIC BUT WE DON'T WANT ANOTHER ELSIE SITUATION IF YA KNOW WHAT I MEAN
Awesome, who tf asked
I have waited 1 month. Still trying to find who asked.
she "roasted" him for wearing Vans, whe she was wearing sandals
Off-white sandals
Um those are actually bleached egg shell white
He never wore vans for the 10 years I’ve known him so yes I did LMFAOO
@@missswendyle u r a disgusting person that cant take criticism.
@@shisuithelagger5196 What critism ?
They seem like COMPLETE opposites. BOTH of them lived and learned. I think taking time to work on yourself and learning how to benefit yourself and others is really crucial going forward. You make A LOT of realizations once you're out of a relationship. Some of which you could never see while in one. You can choose to learn from your mistakes or continue to repeat them over and over. In the end, its all up to you.
i’ve been following wendy since her relationship with richard & her confidence over the years has changed so much and i’m happy to see her where she is now :)
Ray i never said she had a side piece
Ray i mean i don’t really care nor is it any of my business lol if she had a side piece to make her happy then so be it. i’m just saying that she seems more happier and confident now than the past years
It's hard to judge their relationship from just one video. I just hope they are happy right now
exactly dude. errybody outtere acting all dr phil and i'm like we're literally just seeing ten minutes of five whole ass years.
It’s not hard
@@pinkkitana2468 yeah sure, ten minutes can translate years of a relationship with a lot of details and depth 👍
She made fun of his shoes while she’s wearing socks and sandals
Dwight when you’re with someone for 5 + years and you’ve never seen them wear vans yes I will roast him 💀 but hey good for him he’s wearing shoes I didn’t need to buy him for once 😝
why is the barrel with sandals roasting that guy
@@missswendyle when?
People r saying she’s not dressed up - she’s wearing saint laurent and off white...
It’s not the brand it’s the way you wear it .
money doesn’t buy taste
Kushiiiy You can have all the designer clothes but if you don’t know how to match it, it doesn’t matter
@@tomanwatson4572 whattt?
wut? wut? Just edited
The energy between them doesn’t fit. Like Richard radiates hesitance and regret mixed with ego. And she radiates distraction and disconnected pain as if she had to really distract herself from her own emotions. They probably never had communication, trust or honesty within their relationship. They probably knew their whole relationship that they weren’t meant to be but obligation and “what if” kept them hanging on. He never showed her if he loved her so she (probably) assumed he didn’t. Again she had to ignore that because it was so painful so she would (probably) go out with her friends to distract herself from hurtful doubts. And Their families didn’t mix well. That’s just the energy I personally pick up on. Could be wrong though. Glad they’re both doing better. They both hopefully learned a lot from that relationship.
Richard was expecting a hug at the end lol
KYYC edits YES LOL she straight up swerved him
that would be the humanly thing to do
😭😭😭😮
KYYC edits no he wasn’t
I think she was being a little immature with her responses and attitude. Just something I wanted to say.
yeah like he didn't say that she finally blamed herself smh
Because she was clearly irritated and just responding to respond she was real he sounded like didn’t care
They were both just there for the check
she talks ti him like a dramatic middle schooler.
JxC4L _ a little way immature
But she was hurt for 6 years it does something to you. She was acting that way cuz that’s how she protects herself
There are so many mean comments, clearly they have both been through a lot and having a conversation with your ex is never easy
When they said that they miss going to Target. 🥺 It's the little things.
Case in point: When they started dating he was legal and she wasn’t.
Ladies and Gentlemen we got him!!!!
Karma *FBI busts in*😂 but nah fr tho where these comments at did i miss a huge step in life sumwhere😂like yoo
Well she said that they only met when she was a freshman and he was graduating so what if they didn't start dating for a while
GrizzlySubset20 that’s besides the point, even if they started dating a few months from there, there was pretty much a 4 years gap and he was legal and she wasn’t. The 4 year gap didn’t just disappear just didn’t wait 4 years from knowing him to start dating him. Lmao get my point?
Gotta love how she takes 0 responsibility for anything and even blames him for subsequent relationship failure. No, honey that is not how life works.
exactly and the comments is in her side
Yea although he did make her choose over him or her friends and still cheated on her however they both seem shitty and we have no way of knowing what truly happened
SimplyMoet自害 cuz its females and simps defending
Bruh, she said that she did blame him in the beginning but not anymore while *he* said that it was his fault.
@Emmawat What he dodged a bullet....are we watching the same thing????
'I didn't think you were that cute' lol I mean my guy you're not exactly prince charming either
EXACTLYYYY! She didn't mention anything about his looks even though she's way better looking than he is. Idk why some guys act like this.
lollylollylollycindy lmao wtf he was just being honest he did say she was attractive later.
That doesn’t change anything. Ugly or attractive that doesn’t change the fact that he’s attracted to who he’s attracted to
@@cheerioss-9121 They didn't ask him directly if he found her attractive at first, so why bring it up?
It's not wrong to not find someone attractive, but it is wrong and mean to say it to their face....
@@cookiecookielookies agreed, I don't understand why he'd mention it straight to her face with no emotion either lol it was unnecessary.
Wait so 18 and around 14 is when they started dating? Hold up
the "how was the sex?" question-FBI OPEN UP
what they're 18?!?!? they look like they're approaching middle age
Maybe she meant in college.................... Hoping she meant college
CrOpPeD LoCkS no. I thought so too busy she said “he just graduated high school.” 💀
she was a freshmen (14 years old) and he graduated high school (18 years old)..
Wtf she wearing? She wore those chanclas just in case she wanted to hit him🤣
nobody can dress as good as u mr sunglasses
minecraft 😂😂😂😬
minecraft I swear
minecraft Sunglasses make me well dressed? Fuck yeah
Sexy 😍
She looks different irl than what she posts on in my god
That’s the world we live in
ensayofr she's pretty dude
pr Mbs regardless she kinda cat fishing lets be real
She does looks different but not much effort here so-
Filters
on that note, wish you a good valentine’s day!
lol
Wait todays valentine day?????
@@void-xt8pw lol no tmrw
No u.
Thanks, gonna treat myself like I deserve 🥰🧚♀️
“ I really didn’t find her that attractive in the beginning” DAAAMMMNNNNNNN LMFAO
*"That's good that you took that initiative and blamed yourself for once."*
That part got me. Seem like he threw some shade. LOL! XD
Knew he was toxic straight away
When she had headphones on he said he didn't find her attractive but he then realized she was
BUT
when he was telling HER, he said he didn't find her attractive and never told her he eventually did.
Classic playing on her ego to make her feel small.
Well done for leaving girl.
"Thought he was cool, he had a car. Think this will come in handy when I need a ride." Bruh stfu. From the start it was clear that she was the toxic ass one. And her tryna sound ghetto? No wonder people despise asians atm
トラップ神Yokashi LMAO ‘despise asians’ that’s a bit far, isn’t it? You literally have japanese in your name, ya weeb 🤣🤣
@maya lucia well ur probably a girl to
@@lilbleach7097 and that proves what point?
I personally think they were both toxic
She’s literally a hot Cheeto girl💀💀
LMFAO
I’m British what’s that? 😭😬
Athena W it’s kind of like a chav but at the same time no
@@lovelyismydog the annoying girls that have long nails and do nothing but eat hot cheetos in class.
Yess
He graduated when she was a freshman?
*Chris HaAansen wants to know your location*
Stephen Becerra LMAOOO facts
I think it falls under the Romeo and Juliet laws, and sum states allow people to consent to people 4 years older at 14
Could have been a freshman in university
@@robinwaal-borrebaek6442 start of video said they met at highschool and they started hanging out when she was feshmen and he graduated HIGHSCHOOL.
@@seapickle8666 14 and 18 year old weird. one just started being a teenager and other can legally move out and go to college. Romeo and Juliet laws are mostly to protect older teenagers with young adults. Most states i find that 18/14 is punishable. cant find one that allows 14/18 year olds to have sex. most states i find dont allow more then 3 years. also doesnt matter if its legal, 14/18 is weird as fuck. one is an adult. one barely left middleschool!
Middle ground request folks :
Christians vs Witches
Please. PLEASE.
Edit: okay there are other options like: Christians vs pagans or witches vs widely spread religions or something else... You get the point I just said what I thought might be the best one of them
What an illogical combination. Why not witches and Buddhists or witches and atheists? Why Christians per se? Am I missing the link?
@@aqqibabs Salem
@@aqqibabs Christians were the ones burning witches for years and some up to this day believe witches are sinners that follow Satan and will burn in hell
@Essential4Chu that's why I wanna see it... A good old fight full of hatred
Thatll be a really interesting one