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The CTAD Clinic
Великобритания
Добавлен 23 май 2020
The CTAD Clinic offers assessment and treatment for Complex Trauma and Dissociative conditions. We specialise in treating Dissociative Identity Disorder, as well as training professionals, such as psychologists, psychotherapists and psychiatrists in diagnosing and working therapeutically with Dissociation. The CTAD Clinic actively supports people in the UK to access appropriate treatment for dissociation, and work alongside NHS partners to achieve this.
Dr Mike Lloyd is the Clinic Director of Cheshire Psychology and The CTAD Clinic, lectures on the Doctorate Clinical Psychology course at Liverpool University on Dissociative Disorders. Mike is a past Board Member and UK contact for ESTD and is a lifetime member of First Person Plural.
For more information on The CTAD Clinic and Cheshire Psychology, please visit www.cheshirepsychology.com
We have a resources page, highlighting essential reading in the field of complex trauma and dissociation. Some publications are listed below.
Dr Mike Lloyd is the Clinic Director of Cheshire Psychology and The CTAD Clinic, lectures on the Doctorate Clinical Psychology course at Liverpool University on Dissociative Disorders. Mike is a past Board Member and UK contact for ESTD and is a lifetime member of First Person Plural.
For more information on The CTAD Clinic and Cheshire Psychology, please visit www.cheshirepsychology.com
We have a resources page, highlighting essential reading in the field of complex trauma and dissociation. Some publications are listed below.
DID: How Parts React
In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) discusses what can happen when a trigger event occurs, and different parts/alters within #otherspecifieddissociativedisorder #osdd and #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did react in different ways
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What is Derealization? An outline of essential features.
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) discusses what Derealization is in terms of diagnostic categories, and what needs to be taken into account when working out whetehr it is present or not within the spectrum of dissociation. #dissociation #derealization #derealisation #diagnosis
The clinic ducks having breakfast
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The clinic ducks always love getting breakfast every morning. It gets a bit hectic, but they all eat and are ready for a day in the garden!
Partial DID or OSDD? Classifying and Diagnosing Types of Dissociation
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) discusses the different classification systems for diagnosing dissociation, with a focus on sorting out how to diagnose #PartialDID or #otherspecifieddissociativedisorder #OSDD or #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did using the DSM-V and ICD-11
How to answer the question, "Is DID a real thing?"
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) outlines a way of answering the question , 'is DID (Dissociative Identity Disorder) even a real thing. A subscriber asked Mike to answer this, and he goes through five ways of answering this question. #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did
The 'Therapy Trap'...and how to get out of it
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) discusses a question raised about how to prevent trauma from previous therapies entering into new therapeutic relationships. Mike describes how this problem can form, and what can be done to avoid such a 'therapy trap'. #therapy
What Types of Therapist are there? Choosing a Therapist, part two
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) continues the mini-series on choosing a therapist by looking at the non-medical therapy profesions. Mike discusses the types of therapist and the way they are or are not regulated. #otherspecifieddissociativedisorder #osdd #dissociativeidentitydisorder #did #therapy #therapists Links to the Professional Registers are as foolows...
How to Know if Your Therapist is Good at Working with Dissociation
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) discusses a questions raised frequently, that of how can a person approaching therapy know if the therapist is going to be good at working with their dissociation or not. Mike answers this questions from a personal opinion perspective, as well at from conversations had with patients and therapists in the field over the years. M...
Choosing a Therapist for Dissociation: Part One
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) begins the series on how to choose a therapist to treat dissocation. Folllowing an overview, Mike looks first at psychiatrists, as they are highly likely to feature in a lot of healthcare settings where diagnosis of dissociation is made. #dissociation #therapy #psychiatry
"How Do I Find a Therapist for Dissociation?" - mini-series introduction
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) introduces a mini-series looking at how people with dissociation can make good, informed choices about who their therapist should be. As part of this mini-series, Mike is asking people to leave questions that they would like answered on this topic in the comments section of this introduction. #therapy #therapists #dissociation
Supporting a Person with Dissociation
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) recommends an information resource for those helping a person they know with a complex dissociative condition, such as Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD) and Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). This is linked to a previous CTAD video on ways to communicate with the parts held by someone with DID/OSDD. A link for thi...
Walking the Clinic Ducks
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In this video, we walk the clinic ducks from the patio, across the garden and into their enclosure, ready for their tea!
How to manage Money with DID?
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) answers a subscriber question about trying to manage money / spending when having conditions such as Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD) and Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). #dissociativeidentitydisorder #dissociativedisorder #osdd #dissociation
A Visual Depiction of What is Important in Therapy for Complex Trauma and Dissociation
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) offers a visual approach to show the way that key elements of trauma therapy combine. Mike looks at both tangible and intangible components of therapy to highlight how they can combine and produce the right outcome for conditions such as Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD) and Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID), amon...
Dissociative Identity Disorder Awareness Day 2024
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In this video from The CTAD Clinic, Dr Mike Lloyd (Clinic Director) takes a moment to reflect on and appreciate the experience of people with Other Specified Dissociative Disorder (OSDD) or Dissociative Identity Disorder (DID). Mike also mentions a new charity in the UK which the CTAD Clinic supports, the Dissociative Disorders Alliance, who have a purpose to increase awareness, understanding a...
10 Things That Make Getting Through a Dissociative Day Harder
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10 Things That Make Getting Through a Dissociative Day Harder
What is the 'Dissociative Surface'?
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What is the 'Dissociative Surface'?
What is Often Missing in Therapy for DID?
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What is Often Missing in Therapy for DID?
One minute of Huckleberry with a tap
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One minute of Huckleberry with a tap
Pain and Dissociation: Alters and DID part three
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Pain and Dissociation: Alters and DID part three
Pain and Dissociation: Alters ( part two)
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Pain and Dissociation: Alters ( part two)
Pain in Trauma and Dissociation: part one
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Pain in Trauma and Dissociation: part one
Integration and Fusion in DID/OSDD: part two
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Integration and Fusion in DID/OSDD: part two
Training Doctors about Dissociation
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Training Doctors about Dissociation
The Role of Process with Parts in DID/OSDD part two
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The Role of Process with Parts in DID/OSDD part two
The Role of Process in Trauma Therapy: part one
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The Role of Process in Trauma Therapy: part one
OMG. I have thought about some of these. It didn't include all of these. Thank you for the cheerleading. 🌼
I experience something like this and sometimes seem to go in and out of it. Something I call zooming because it's like a telephoto lens, that is trying to focus. Everything turns grey and people seem very far away and then it goes back and forth being ok and then not ok. Is this derealisation?
Thank you Dr Mike 😊
I’m a first-year psychology student in Poland but i study in english, I’m on bachelors degree module and what actually inspired me to study psychology was my interest in DID, I would love to finish my masters outside of Poland, my question is: Where exactly should I study to get the best knowledge and what masters degree should I choose so that the knowledge i gain will be most useful for me in the future working with individuals with DID?
Oh Mike, this is so helpful! It explains why trigger reactions might feel/ look chaotic... I've wondered why they come across as so unhelpful - I've been treating them like one big, odd response when the reality is that there are multiple responses going on.
I don’t have DID, „only” diagnosed cptsd but strongly suspect p-DID soooo could you do more videos about this disorder? There’s not much educational content as it’s quite new diagnosis. Maybe sth about how intrusions work in p-DID? They are listed in ICD-11 as “cognitive, affective, perceptual, motor, or behavioural” but maybe more information how they present would be helpful for people like me. Also are there any good scientific articles about how p-DID is formed, is it (like in DID) only during first years of life or maybe could be like till 12-13 years old? I’d love to See or read more resources about it.
I just had this issues. I’ve walked away from two therapist in two months. I’m taking a break now.
My boyfriend and my system were out at a Walmart a year ago. As we were leaving, we saw a man who reminded us of one of our abusers. We made it to the car. The body started crying, then numbed out. Soon after a little fronted and bit my boyfriend’s arm. The host came back. Our boyfriend told us what we did. This was one of the moments that led us to look into DID. We thought before it was just dissociation, but it obviously wasn’t.
I'm autistic and I have DID. Derealization is a very common experience for me, so common that is not always something difficult for me. Thank you for your videos
I'm not diagnosed with D.I.D. but I suffer from dissociation. Anytime I go to anything very stressful such as a therapy session or a job interview, I have to bring a notebook and write everything down otherwise I will get brain fog afterwards and forget what we spoke about.
My biggest fear is asking a therapist if I have D.I.D. and being accused of faking or automatically dismissed if I'm the first one to consider it. I truly don't know what's wrong with me, I have been diagnosed with anxiety, major depression, and PTSD. But I feel as though these diagnosis don't encompass my symptoms. I suffer a lot from dissociation. The first time I experienced dissociation was during a s.a. in my childhood. Then in highschool I unknowingly began to dissociate by choice. If I was on the bus I would be imagining myself in a different world with my imaginary family or when I was at home I would sit in my room for hours imagining myself in another world talking to a man named Thomas. I am not a very imaginative person, I never enjoyed imaginary games as a child such as dress up or house. I noticed that as an adult I was unable to handle an entire work shift, I would spend hours in my head with my imaginary family as my body worked. I have also experienced feeling like my voice isnt normal, it would sometimes be too deep or be child like. It felt uncomfortable and I didn't know how to turn it off. I hope I can afford therapy soon and get to the bottom of this.
My girlfriend has 7 alters. One loves me romantically, 2 others view me as a best friend, 3 have no real feelings either way, and one dislikes me immensely. Why is there such a dramatic difference between the alters on how they feel about me? Could you please explain why this would be? It's very confusing.
My response to perceived "threats or triggers" is to hide. To isolate myself from everyone and everything....maybe that is the flight response, I don't know. But being alone, isolated, and emotionally turned off to the world around me, is the only way we can all feel safe. Then I punish myself with negative thoughts and actions...The fact of the matter is, those of us with DID, are damaged beyond repair, and the fight to "learn and understand and accept DID" is extremely hard and difficult...especially when my/our parts are in constant conflict with the reality of the world. I am only speaking for myself, and my DID only. It is so hard getting over "feeling like a freak" in society....The best place for me is to isolate, cut myself off from everything and everybody and keep my mouth, my thoughts, my fears my insecurities and my self-hate to myself. Learning and understanding the level of abuse in my life, being cut off from family because I spoke up about the severe abuse I endured and being called a liar, trying to navigate 8 personalities, is a monumental task, and I have no one to talk to...DID=loneliness.
You’re not alone, I know those feelings well, hang on in there, try imagining good friends from afar who understand your struggle, we are going through the same, we reach out to you, hold your hand, we walk beside you every day ❤️
This was very well spoken on Mike. DID is so complex and so complicated that not having a deep understand of it or understanding the brain itself, can be quite confusing. But once you really put the work into it and find a very caring dr or therapist. It can be like starting over into a whole new life, but as a whole human. The first thing i noticed, is loving myself and everything that is a support on my end. Thank you so much for sharing Mike.
The way you described them makes it sound like you’re suddenly transported into the world of Silent Hill or some horror movie/game with a scene where everything is foggy but is changing and such and like in those games/movies, it!s quite hard to get out of, much less navigate through Hope this made sense
Thank you for this. I understand the term fawn now, it's not confusing anymore. I did that my whole life....i fawned so much, i have DID. I did the other responses too, but they got me nowhere.
Can you make a video on what happens when someone is abused as a child by a parent, moves away from the trauma with the other parent and it's like it never even happened, and then later as an adult they return to live with the parent and everything comes up again?
Returning to live with an abuser might be less safe than being in a homeless shelter. For your child parts, consider it. They want to be safe.
Is it “normal” for a five year old to know of their abuse, but be completely detached from it because it was acted out as a game, between child and perpetrator, and have absolutely no feelings of the abuse?
What you describe does sound possible.
Wow , that’s the first time I’ve heard this.
Hopefully it was helpful!
Wonderful information as always! 💙 I was wondering if you could do a video on the reemergence of traumatic memories, particularly ones that are physical sensations, as one proceeds further into trauma processing therapy? We've been doing somatic experiencing therapy for the past few months with an awesome new therapist who specializes in CPTSD, and these kinds of sensations are surfacing, sometimes forcefully, as we start processing trauma.
Just at the end you state 'learn to do it right'. So we are doing it wrong. The attitude of doing something wrong is upsetting
It's not the way you took it. Listen again. I listened a couple times and I think he meant that the triggered system is handling this in a chaotic and confusing way.... and that doesn't help us and by helping get this better, we will have it right. Hope this helped clarify.
The phrase was ‘and it can be very chaotic and confusing until it learns how to do it right’, meaning the dissociative brain needs to learn how to assess and respond to situations better, not you! The traumatised brain is tricked by triggers (think optical illusions), and needs help organising itself differently, which is a goal of therapy.
I heard it the wrong way too, thanks for clarifying.
I do things wrong every day, all day. Therapy can help you decrease your distress over doing things wrong. No catastrophizing, no all-or-none thinking, etc. Being wrong is the human condition. Traumatic childhoods teach us that it is deadly to be wrong. It isn't.
@@Cathy-xi8cbThank you for your words, they are very helpful & incredibly powerful.
not wanting to exist
OMG, this JUST happened to me. One perceived abandonment potential. The little is "We're gonna die!" The other is "F**k that, Im outta here!" The other is "I will never have a safe life...I suck" etc. All of their emotions swimming around at once. Then i had to call a time-out and fugure out what was really going on. So exhausting.
wow - - -that's so familiar!
Your time out was probably just what was needed. Brava!!
Thank you! 💖
I’m gradually learning to pause my instincts to automatically switch, and take time to evaluate the threat. Even though I’m not always successful I’ve made good progress.
If you can control a switch, then you are doing very well. Many people with DID automatically switch. As in fractions of a second. No time to assess.
@@Cathy-xi8cb With therapy one can hopefully regain ones life and make deliberate decisions but it can take time and (in my case) a lot of therapy sessions.
Great video! Having different and sometimes opposite reactions internally can be a confusing experience. In the future, would you be willing to do a video about EMDR and DID (as in special considerations when doing EMDR)? Thanks so much, your channel is incredibly helpful!
Thank you for the clarity of this video. After a life with this compartmentalisation, I have some issues with being overwhelmed with emotions and memories when I meet a "trigger". I understand I am not in danger, but still feel uncomfortable. I have to do things in slowmotion, almost, to be able to take in what is happening in a situation. When I'm not sucessful, I usually find myself having lost my watch. It is as if I try to control time that way, as though that "triggering" thing never happened. Is this issue with time related to having DID? It follows with amnesia, I usually never find my watch again, and is forced to buy a new one. Perhaps they are all hidden on the same place so I will find them one day. (I wish, but most likely they are not)
The slow motion thing makes sense, when acutely stressed, time gets very strange.
Thank you for another video! Is it possible for there to be action systems that play out longer patterns? So maybe there’s the initial one to seeing the person in the supermarket, but then it continues into reactions and responses to people in your life over the next few days because of emotions or something that got triggered as well? Not sure if I’m using the right words to explain… I know you can’t comment specifically. As I’m trying to notice what goes on for me, it seems there are definite behaviour patterns - not sure which parts what - but it’s not as easy an example. And it’s quite a larger, longer response? Only starting to see it after the fact. So had a psychiatrist appointment, many reasons it didn’t go great, but the dr pulled out a certain reference book at one point in order to write a script. My father used this book. There was a clocking of it at the time, but only in retrospect am I looking at it thinking it was the kick off? Because I thought I was fine. Innocuous thing really. There was no instant reaction, I thought, except the definite clocking of it and an uncomfortable feeling? But following that, over the next week, played out responses and reactions to people around me. Not chosen responses. Almost all in a haze. Definitely relational. And only weeks later as things calmed down do I see the ‘oh it’s happened again’. It’s hard to explain without many details, or try and put it in a more generalised way to explain… I guess, can the action system responses to a thing be a complex behavioural response that plays out over days or weeks? Or are they more instant and then done? Or maybe is it both, depending on the individual? And if this is too specific to answer or comment on, that’s ok. lol I didn’t do well of explaining! Thank you for the videos and sharing the information.
You are most welcome. I think when n action system is triggered under stress, it can flow down through the various layers, generating longer term responses (see video on layering).
@@thectadclinic thank you for replying. Very kind. Yes, I remember your layering video. And might re watch your action system ones too.
I’ve experienced this very thing. Still trying to figure this all out for myself. It’s all so confusing and my dissociation doesn’t always allow certain parts to absorb this kind information.
We also experience the longer term responses as stimuli and triggers filter down through the system. I think, for us, it may have to do with how unbearably covert we had to be, and/or the size of our inner worlds and number of alters (3 complex inner worlds with hundreds of alters).
@@progressnotperfection1839 thank you for replying and sharing, I really appreciate it
If we are also suffering from autistic symptoms, then does the whole system has autism or only some parts?
Autism is a developmental, neurological disorder, so it affects your entire brain, and the rest of your nervous system too. In general, mental disorders present in "the body" will be present in every part, though not always in the same ways or to the same degrees. Autism especially has this because it's not purely psychological. That being said, different parts may have different displays of autistic traits, even contradictory displays, and may lack some.
This is my best guess from reading about dissociation, autism, and experiencing both of those things. I hope it answers your question in the mean time before Dr. Lloyd can respond definitively, as I am nowhere close to a person educated in psychology beyond what has been necessary for my own mental health journey. Have a good day!
@@Atjw3343 Thank you for sharing your thoughts and opinion with me. I do agree with you for the same reason you mentioned. The reason why I asked is because I think that from all of us, it‘s eventually me who shows the autistic symptoms in a more intense way. I can‘t imagine that specially one of our littles has them, too. That‘s why I asked. And yet, I do agree with you.
@@Atjw3343 I think, at the moment these autistic symptoms are more intense than normally is because I‘ve got massive stress. And that‘s normally me who deals with this kind of stress. So therefore it‘s logical that it‘s also me who suffers from more intense autistic symptoms than my other parts because when they are out that kind of stress that I‘m dealing with is reduced.
This reply is spot on, really. While the entire system may be autistic, certain parts could develop extremely proficient coping systems to ‘pass’, or have deep vulnerabilities to the harshest parts of being autistic, and the stress generated could develop larger reactions.
Thank you for this video!
You are so welcome!
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Thank you very much. This explains much of what I've experienced with her. The freeze response led me to both protect/intervene and avoid triggering it at all costs. I avoided anything I perceived as potentially triggering. This meant I couldn't address or move towards emotional intimacy. Also, in our dissolution agreement, she put a no contact clause. To protect myself, I insisted it be applied unilaterally. I once saw her and she had a fawn response. I was terrified and fled. It's quite confusing for me as alters are contacting me-part of her trauma was being spied upon by her mother. They're good friends, occasional lovers (emotionally), and erstwhile caretakers [I've a history of emotional neglect]. So, I'm wondering: What I can do to provide an ideal condition should I happen to see her again in person? I don't believe she's currently aware of her condition. I feel obligated to assist her with being diagnosed. I've sort of put my life on hold to remain in the same city far from family/friends
Thanks Dr. Mike. Cannot seem to settle myself. At some point can you speak about demonization and its severe detriment to progress and healing ??? 💙👊
What do you mean by ‘demonisation’?
And thing is do not understand the big frown that comes up. My sick to stomach feeling. There is anger and a rage that is frightening yet no actual memory. Believe I’m dealing with intrauterine or infant wo words ??? 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 Thanks again as always for your videos 💙💞👊👊
Specific triggers activate specific sections of my brain. Different sections of my brain are where my different parts live. How I react relies on which part of my brain gets activated and which part lives there.
I understand what you're describing, it is quite similar for me. I can feel from where in my brain which of them is slipping into the driver's seat from.
When different parts talk inside, I can feel it in different parts of my brain in real time.
Mixed feeling, is my normal state. Took work to know this. Great info 🙏. 👁️👁️
Thank you!
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Thank you for your videos, Dr. Mike. Your videos have helped us get to where we are in our healing. As you've helped 100s of others, I'm sure.
Thank you for not shying away from having us see your vulnerability. 💜 That voice crack was palpable and I felt it in my own throat. For this video's topic they serve as great examples for how grief, as well as trauma, can't be measured, rated or weighed against each other. It would be easy for some people to say that [naturally, objectively, morally, sociologically or whatever identifier they wanna put here] it should be clear which one is "worse"... But that's the thing: it is NOT objective, it's NOT a morality issue, it's NOT another person's right to judge either way. One person's attachment or trauma or grief or "moral grounds" is not to be confused to another's. That's why I really don't like identifiers like "severe" concerning the event or experience itself; the emphasis should be on the repercussions and long term issues a person has from it, not in what happened itself. I've spent decades invalidating my own feelings because "others have had it worse", and that's incredibky unhealthy. When it is aimed at you from other people and even professionals it's harmful.
So, "Body Memories"... Would that be like, say, Phantom Limb Syndrome, in some way? I have DID with Somatiform Symptomd, with Comorbid Features. I have been in the hospital over a hundred times, with thr same outcomes. It feels, abd shows like in having a heart attack. My blood pressure is usually around 205/115 or higher eirh other duagnostic c testing showing real issues, pain resisting to key arm, narrowing vision, confusion, slurred speech, etc, only to have then go away, basically without a trace. Di testing DIES does show it! I haven't had that particular issue happen as nuch, since my environment has changed, but there safe ither issues. Thank you for educating us with this. In the end, just knowing there is a reason for the unexplainable things, helps a lot
Chronic pain diagnosed in late teens, followed by FND and nonepileptic seizures have brought me to realise how much of these physical symptoms are connected to trauma. I didn’t realise that my lack of understanding of when I’m hungry, whether I’m hot/cold or not and whether I’m tired or not are also related.
I’m right at the beginning of this journey. My husband and I watched a documentary about DID and I could literally feel the internal battle in my head. Almost hyperventilating and trying to keep it all inside so he didn’t ask questions. Then another voice saying, nope we’re not doing this, we got a BPD diagnosis and that’s what we’re sticking with. Then another voice saying, nope, we’re doing this. At least research. So I researched, and keep researching. The more I find, the more hits home and I just can’t deal with it. All the blank spaces of time, all the times I felt I was watching myself and couldn’t stop my body from doing or saying the most crazy embarrassing things. My child part that I have no control over. I could go on. I don’t feel ready to deal with any of this but it’s like someone else inside me is like, nope it’s time and we’re doing it. Thank you so much for creating this channel. Now I just need to work out how and what to tell my husband. I’m terrified he’ll think I’m even more crazy and he’ll just up and leave. He didn’t sign up for this, I wish I was normal.
For me it feels like I have a “ self” that manages the parts but the parts run the body. Sometimes with co-consciousness but other times it feels like the “ self” is just an observing from the back and can collect clues that a part is forward and what part is forward but isn’t able to influence decision making. The “self” is put in the back when I am triggered or if a new part comes forward. I thought I had achieved full integration of parts but just learned of another part I had some awareness of but no access too. That part was triggered forward a few weeks ago and since then I have been losing so much time and feel like I’m in the back more often than the front. It’s been difficult feeling like I have had such a large regression in such a short amount of time.
I haven’t been formally diagnosed but have a great therapist who is understanding and as validating as she can be but sometimes it feels like even she doesn’t understand my experiences as they feel so difficult to articulate to others.
Heck yeah. Great video about something that's very hard to describe to people, and something almost everyone who doesn't experience it doesn't understand.
Dr. Colin Ross talked about "partial DiD" in some of his research.
diagnosed twice with DID via clinical symptoms and The MID but P-DID is really accurate to our experience
I prefer to working with physical reactions. At the moment the threats are real, we are being threatened with war again, our leaders are letting us know we are in a pre war stage. If war hits in our region it will be disasterous for the whole world. I prefer to work with reactions to make sure they are healthy and very natural responses. I prefer to work with processing the emotions to make sure they are healthy. The problem with the thoughts responding, its causing imbalance and processing problems, because people need to get off their behinds and deal with what needs to be dealt with. In other words, its time for actions and thoughts need to come to rest, because its over done. Why people are having so much trouble its the inaction to the inevitable. Had people just deal with things while these things remain a threat, we would all be better off until its too late. So while the world focuses on themselves and the middle east and Ukraine and Russia, our focus is China and the south. So for us its a time, to get fit, healthy and well and make sure we are functioning. What we have to deal with is the world's constant messages we don't care about you.
When people describe being distressed by DP/DR, I am a bit confused because that's just been my reality for as long as I can remember. Most times, I find it comforting, and other times it can be quite annoying if I'm trying to get something done but DP/DR is hindering my ability to do so. It can also make it hard to connect with others, but I would never describe it as "scary" or "distressing". That's just my normal. Is the presence of distress regarding the symptoms necessary to diagnose, or can the symptoms having a negative effect on personal/social/occupational relations in itself make a disorder diagnosable?
It varies from person to person. Commonly, people say they used to be distressed by it, but they became accustomed over time and sometimes don’t notice it, or found a way to compensate.
Thank you for another great explanation ☺️ "trippy" is the wording I use when I feel all of this. Although this does seem to be becoming less now, I feel I'm starting to see our world with much clearer eyes, not so trippy 😉
Interesting!
Can you make a video that different parts have different reactions (even biological) when triggered? Thanks for the good work 🌷
Thanks for the idea! I will look into this.
It’s now considered clinically appropriate to also use identity first language for Autistic people. This is accepted even in peer reviewed literature. Some clinicians are old school but they need educating. There is no need to change your terminology. There is plenty of academic literature to support this should you be criticised for this. From an autism researcher