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Me only friend from uni turned her back on me, she only invited me to hang out with her just to fill some extra spot her group of friends, she damn well knew how bad I had been feeling these last few years, we had really good times together and I really wanted to keep being her friend. It wasn't until she started being distant to me that I finally plucked up the courage to tell her how her actions had made me feel. She wrote back to me with a long written apology, which I willingly accepted and wanted to keep in touch with her, since I really appreciated her presence in my life, she didn't say anything afterwards. It's been 4 months since she sent me her "heartfelt apology". Since then, I find myself coming back to rewatch this episode, which hits harder than ever.

Forgiveness is something you earn with your actions, not someone you're granted automatically by saying "I'm sorry"

herb didn't even need to question bojack. he just simply went right into "oh so you're apologizing" right before the nuke explodes in bojack's face.

I think the best thing Bojack could have done was to not come back and apologise. I did the shitty thing like Bojack with my best friend. Ghosted her for more than an year and yesterday I sent her happy new year wish as if nothing happened. I apologised. But internally i knew I couldn't be forgiven.

Irony is Herb understood why Bojack didn’t defend him, but it really showed Herb how two faced Bojack was

This really reminds me of the situation with Ren & Stimpy and the tension between Kricsfalusi and Billy West

0:04 is that Tom from the boondocks

Bojack’s apology wasn’t really strong and enough he wasn’t specific about the things he’s done in the past he just said” I’m sorry for what happened” a true friend would apologize for real and admit their mistakes

The fact that she was bluffing was insane. Makes me wonder if most CEO’s bluff and are really good at it.

I hated Herb, he was a horrible friend to Bojack. he didn’t deserve an apology

This is the real first episode of the show.

Honestly: Portrait of an Asshole is a more befitting title than One Trick Pony

Holy f guys, maybe I'm wrong but, isn't that Bojacks's therapy horse (from the latest seasons) just there in the background? 0:21

1:24 “Diane currently lives in Los Angeles with a dog.”

Herb was also in love with Bojack and he hinted this many times in the past. When Charlotte was dating Herb, she broke up with him because I think she noticed this as well just she never said anything obviously.

Oh my gosh the penguin is a reference to the real life book production company "Penguins Classics" and hes a penguin that publishes books. Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke? Did you get it? Did get the joke?

HEY BJ! PUT THAT BACK ASSHOLE!

Here's what you (BoJack) could've done right when making amends with cancer-stricken Herb as your closest friend in life: Step 1: Recall everything you did wrong to Herb for 20 years. Now he's on the deathbed...so you gotta do something deeply. Step 2: Tell Herb why you didn't call him that time to stay in touch. Reasons can be taken with sincerity. Step 3: Don't even rub the back of your head and turn your eyes upward or away. It's a gesture of deceit. You shouldn't worry about yourself. Worry about your friend. Step 4: Admit you were wrong and a terrible friend, genuinely. Don't try to defend yourself from Herb. Because learning from failures is how we succeed, and we're not trying to avoid failures. Step 5: Give Herb more space and think what's right. It takes time before apologizing. But you just skipped those steps and immediately apologizes without thinking, just acting it out personally with apathy, and then trying to run away from your own wrongdoings. Herb is right, BoJack is a real selfish coward.

I need youtube to stop recommending me this scene when I'm at my lowest mentally

Bojack: “People were coming to her funeral saying ‘well this was bound to happen’ but it wasn’t bound to happen!” Bro she literally stab’s herself in the gut out of spite, this girl was always destined to die young ☠️

The worst part is that BoJack doesn’t even know what he’s apologizing for. He thinks Herb is mad at him for getting him fired when all Herb cared about was their friendship. This showed Herb that BoJack wasn’t sorry for anything

Seeing Herb run shouldn’t be funny.

Okay but why he fighting him over a telescope?

Corny ahh show make a joke ffs

wht episode is this

So when Bojack gets an old homeless man killed on his bender, its w/e. 🤷‍♂️ But when it’s a washed up female celebrity junkie that sudo looks up to him that dies in Bojack’s watch, she is immortalized into his psyche and gets storylines dedicated to her saga. 🤔 Im sure some intelligent commentators will say “it’s just a show! Don’t think about it too much!” But this kinda comes off as ‘If a man gets affected by Bojack’s actions, who cares!’ 🤦🏽‍♂️

Honestly, Bojak did the right thing by not sacrificing his dream because a friend made a mistake, cancerman is way too egotistocal

0:31 the amount of bottles that appear 😭😭😭

1:43 hey bj! put that back asshole! 😠

With this much negativity I would t surprised if standing up for Herb would’ve litteraly destroyed Bojack

I love pinky's character so much and his problems with money

Todd is the best

Princess Carolyn tells him he needs to change but at the same time she’s being a bit of a pushover, not taking him to rehab and demanding he get help, instead she thinks that she can fix him herself

tl;dr I knew someone kind of like Bojack and they let me down in a similar way. That makes this scene even better for me now.

I had somebody like this in my life. I thought the world of them. We went through a lot together. They were there for me on Discord when I was being falsely admitted to a hospital and I had no idea when I might have been getting out. I got to know them so well, and we had so much in common, and every time we fought, we would work out our differences, and grow closer. Then one day, without any form of warning, they threw me under the bus in one of the most hurtful ways possible. I took it out on myself, and even tried to kermit sewer slide (filter evasion moment lol). Over the next eight months I slowly began to realize that either whatever they felt towards me had withered up and died, they never felt it at all, or just were too self centered and focused on themselves that they never considered my feelings on the matter at all. Hell, they even ADMITTED that they knew what they were going to do would hurt me the most, and they did it anyway without any kind of warning. They warned several other people, but they never warned me. One day everything seemed to click for me, and I lost all sympathy for them. I just suddenly realized one day that all their words rang hollow for me. On the 1 year anniversary of them throwing me under the bus, I sent them the most rancid, hate-filled letter (as fate would have it they seemed to already be upset about something at the time I sent them the message, so that was a bonus for me). They said 'Have a nice life'. She seemed to be typing a really long message after that, but I blocked her before she could send it. At first I was disappointed because it wasn't the response I had been banking on, but when I searched up the phrase I realized it meant she never wanted to have anything to do with me again. Never spoke to her again after that. Never contacted her. I have the means, and I've considered doing it several times in the 2 years that followed, but each time I realize that she's simply not worth it. Narcissists suck. If either of us tried to apologize to each other, it would definitely go like this. I always liked this scene, but going through something somewhat like this personally gives me an even greater appreciation for it now.

Honestly, good on Herb for spending the whole time roasting bojack. He deserves that.

“I don’t forgive you” “I understand” If it had went like that, maybe bojack could gain some sympathy. But he only apologized hoping that he’d be forgiven. That’s not how apologies work.

She threw the coffee away without drinking any of it.

No you should have walked out with his friend his poor friend

I like how BoJack just assumed he’d screwed up again.

Herb was absolutely in the right to not forgive Bojack, after Herb was outed, he knew the industry was gonna turn their back on him, he just wanted ONE friend to be there for him but Bojack was only looking out for himself, that half ass apology wasn’t for Herb, it was for Bojack to feel better about himself :/

When i watched this the first time i sided with bojack, but now i understand herb was totally correct Bojack is a total jackass

Herb didnt care about being fired, he valued bojack more as a friend and thats what he wanted, but bojack let his insecurities convinced him that herb could never forgive him, so he cut ties with his friend that made him famous. Its also implied herb was in love with bojack and while he'd be okay with bojack not returning his affections, it probably hurt even more to know the man you love, never wanted to see you again.

Why is he a human horse?

Ok

Didn't he, like, sexually assault Bojack? And not once.

This scene informed an entire generation.

Todd did the impossible at 1:13 making cotton candy wet

This scene opened my eyes. You're not obligated to accept apology. We've been taught since young to always accept apologies and forgive, no matter the offense, but there are trangressions a simple apology can't wash clean. Especially if the apology is so hollow.

I think Herb would've forgiven him if Bojack had changed, even after years of no contact, but he could see through his shit. Bojack didn't deserve forgiveness until he was a better person.