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Most women are optimizers aka hypergamy.

now why tf am I all three😔

Totally relatable, im hesitator. The clock is ticking, this is so true.

What an underrated channel, this is art

you look like sulli 😢

Some of the best 15 minutes and 37 seconds I've spent on RUclips

I'm a maximalizer 😢 Also you look like a movie star ❤

Love to me is the commitment to making the other person's happiness one of the most important things to you, and vice-versa

Stumbled upon this in my front page and glad I clicked. I have realized alot of what is mentioned myself already over the endless nights of reflecting, but it's always great to see it put into words/video and pick up a few other tidbits. I identify most with the hesitator, but I am learning to let go of it (partly) and just let myself go along with what comes.

My Tip/Advice: When you're Young, just go out & explore the world... Learn/Embrace/Taste/See/Feel......It's the first step to Final Majority...Before you are a grown Adult! Life is really an Adventure.... The most important thing in Life is: Being Happy & Healty plus if possible having a simple Life/style... Don't need Much to make you happy & comfortable.... Each Generation is Different... Example: When you are young your Body Liquid(H20)contains more then 61%...That means your Metabolism is Skyrocketting! You can Eat anything and burn those Calories!!!! True Facts!!! When you are young your Body should function perfectly like a brand new Car(your own Body).... Another example: A CAR is a Luxury thing if you all know what i mean... Everyone has it's own perspective in Life...Is it Materialism? Better Career? etc etc???! Most important for Girls: Don't wait until it's too late....Get Married before <30years!!! Don't go hit the Wall!!! I'm not saying it's the Big Wall Of China! Just Don't Wait Too Long!!! PS it does not matter who it will be as long as you are Happy with it! Just Live & Learn!

Awesome video, I love the color grading you use

Love is extremely rare but nothing matters more. Good luck on your journey and don’t give up.

Maybe people should go for someone who's nice and start a family with them, while they're young. Instead of aiming to fall in love with a 10/10.

Omg I'm doomed lmao I'm all three combined

this video is so... touching, levetating, eye opening, refreshing? you really managed to create this special atmosphere and open my eyes to some things i didnt know before. thank you so much

I’m definitely a hesitator, always having an excuse ready too not think about finding a boyfriend and now already in my thirties, time is catching up on me😅

All you need is Jesus.

😮 you look like sullie the kpop singer who passed away

Beautifully portrayed…thank u ❤

I don't know who you are but beautiful video

I think, I am the Romanticizer

Beyond your appearance(which is momentary), you seem to be a nice woman, it's strange that you can't get a loving partner with whom you can grow up. I think it is true what @beautifulheadache says about self love, but first it is needed to build a strong sense of self, the thing is going through the process of doing it.

I am a hestitator. I don’t have confidence to be in a relationship

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The effort, detail and delicacy put into this video is outstanding. Well done girl, I love that you're bilingual and some way uniting people from your asian roots. Very cinematic experience, i think you should be doing more mini movies ❤

That was irritating... Unbelievably irritating

Idk if anyone has ever told you this but you look like Pham Hanni from NewJeans.

She looks like sulli and im all fir it

Your vidio give power,thanks

你的影片好有电影感，谢谢你让我坚定对美好人生的向往，现在的生活压力很大，磨去了人的精气神，希望我也能慢慢拥抱自己，让自己更幸福一些，so beautiful of you。one day I will go to Taiwan！

Ohh my, you look like hanni, but I love the way you are. you're so pretty.💖

I think i m mixture of romanticizer , maximizer n hesitator or maybe it's all are excuses I do love the idea of love I do believe I have soulmate at the same time I wonder if I am with somebody maybe there is someone better for me at the same time I think I am not ready because I don't have a job I am not stable I could not handle stress I could not cook I could not I could not do many things that are expected from partner I haven't found my purpose I haven't found myself I haven't found something I love inside me😅😅

i think im in love with u 🧎

holy relatable on so many levels

a video worth watching thanks a lot

I'm a hesitator for sure. It was subconsciously ingrained in me when I hit puberty. You can't date, you need to finish your education, have a stable job, be more responsible, be more put together, be mature...And bcos I haven't felt I've accomplished all of this, I never felt I'm ready to be in a relationship

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My perspective of love is from someone who’s completely in love and each day even harder, there was no checklist, just someone I met whom after that I missed without reason.I didn’t met him with the context of dating, in fact not even in the context of meeting each other, we just met and eventually found excuses to meet each other, other times we met by accident… we just kept seeing each other, out of wanting to be with each other, out of wanting to be ourselves with someone else. We tend to not be ourselves with others, well that’s one of the reasons I decided, I don’t care how he views me, even if we don’t get to be a couple but I gotta see him constantly, I cannot let this synergy end here or be forgotten. Eventually we got a little tipsy and kissed each other. For me love, romantic love, is something that could grow beautifully with anyone if both put the effort, but there are sometimes when is something more than beautiful by it’s nature, the only effort you put is searching time to be there, time to be with that person whom if you’re with you feel yourself, you feel free, someone who if you’re with you feel like your own person grows, your spirituality grows. Love has endless beautiful surprises, hope y’all get to experience it

Great video. I’m a Mix of maximizer and hesitator. But I hate that about myself and deeply regret my past decisions. I’m 20 now so I’ve still got some time, but not that much really. In my past I’ve brushed off many people because I simply did not think I needed that at the time and I kept saying myself that I don’t really need to hurry because I’m young and still got a lot of time. I just wasn’t sure. I’m starting to feel like that was a train that I missed and it looks like it’s not a 2-way trip. 2 times in my life have I approached a woman. Once it didn’t work and the other time, the relationship was hell. Every other time I was the one rejecting because something didn’t felt right. Why? What did I think of myself? Naturally, this stopped. It’s not very usual for women to approach men first and I found out the hard way. Recently it happened again, and I felt a spark, a glimmer of hope for love. Long story short - got to know her friends, her habits and most importantly HER and guess how it ended? Exactly….I brushed her off. I don’t do that on purpose, somehow there’s always a problem that I can’t get through, but maybe the problem was me all along. What am I doing? What am I looking for? Are my expectations way too high? How much longer can I even afford to use this “tactic” of literally not doing anything and waiting for a miracle to happen? I feel miserable and it’s only MY fault. The only thing that keeps me pushing through life is the hope of ever experiencing true mutual love. That’s how much it means to me, but it seems like it just wasn’t meant to be. One positive thing is that I’m very open minded and never had any checklist or type, so nothing limits me in that regard…. Let’s hope for a better future because hope lives the longest right?

I cried

I’m not sure how I’ll meet a woman ever. The idea of meeting and going on dates just seems so foreign and impossible to me.

I feel like you're INFP. High standards, uncertainty, constantly looking for a better option. Its nice to see that you are getting wiser and sharing your wisdom. If you want a good book recommendation for your journey, try "Fight Right: How Successful Couples Turn Conflict Into Connection".

I am a combination of a romanticizer and a hesitator.

Great storytelling,,,,, genuinely felt real and good❤

But....the competition is the same even if you change the checklist from title, status, and annual salary to personality.... right??

I think i realized that the love might be a worry for me

Thanks for this amazing video

To everyone reading this comment, I hope you find your love."

this video is just so clicking with me, especially the intro. hope u are doing great and good luck🥺🥺💗💗