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Love watching these videos..grew up USAF lived on base a few times..wow has housing changed!

I wanted to live on base, but there was no housing available so we wound up in a not so great part of town. Hoping something is open when our lease is up here!

It's interesting what you said about getting back the person you are dating. I completely relate to this. My husband is also former military and a police officer. They have so much baggage and they come home and take out their bad mood on you. Sometimes I wonder why do I put up with this? But then he goes on vacation and he instantly turns back into the man I dated. It's like they don't know how to deal with the high stress level and taking time off snaps them out of it. The only reason I put up with the irritated moods is because I made a commitment through my marriage vows and I know the person I married is still in there buried under the stress.

Hello, I’m interested in this career path via the National Guard SF and trying to give my girlfriend an accurate picture of what my time away from home will look like. About how much time per month will I be home vs in training schools or deployed?

Thank you for making this video and please don't worry about talking too much, I came to hear you talk!! 🙏💞 I am really scared for him to start as a TACP and it really made me feel better to hear you just say what happened, so I can know what to expect a little and that I'm not crazy!! Thank you! 💕

5 months into a deployment that will most likely be extended. Almost 6 years with my fiancé! I miss him so much. Thank you for this video!

I appreciate your video so much! Had another bad day and started doubting so watching that helped. I have a great support system but not hearing from him at all is horrible. Was a real sudden deployment and as often no clue for how long he is gone and where exactly he is. We are not married yet but in our 30s so it’s not our first rodeo especially not for him with being SOF but it sucks nevertheless. Any advice on how to deal with weeks or even months without any news?

Thank you for this amazing news. I've found about this through my instagram and applied it yesterday, and they just called me. I felt a bit worried that would be a scam, but now I know it's not. Thank you!

Im trying to find a video about the proccess of finding a house on base and everything ?

Going through this right now with my husband in tech school it sucks so bad because I’m still dealing with the depression from when he first left now I get to talk to him but I’m having such a hard time but I don’t want to tell him because I don’t want to bother him smh 😞

He is deploying again in Feb for the second time… I’m already worried about missing him. Thanks for this advice

My husband is leaving this week. I'm terrified. He's my best friend. We have 3 kids together and we've never spent more than a few days apart. I already feel like crying. We've been through so much together and he's always been my peace. And now my peace is jumping a flight and leaving. It doesn't help either that I'm so antisocial and have no friends and my dfamily is also very negative and judgmental about everything. So it'll just be me and the babies and the dog. I wish they had support groups for wives and husbands that deal with depression during deployment.

I'm already crying and he's not even gone yet

What should I do if we’re already married and he’s going to graduate soon, Should I get ready to move closer to time when he graduates? Or will they give him a few days to help?

Thank you for this video. Really needed to hear this. I’ve been depressed all day today because we got through BCT and so far AIT has been going so well. We’ve been able to FaceTime every night and text here and there and I felt so positive after the rough time that basic training was. But just this morning one of my husband’s DS mentioned his unit (that he’s not even in yet, or guaranteed to even be stationed at) deploys a lot to a certain country and I just started spiraling and have had trouble feeling motivated or happy today. I just can’t even bear the thought of not getting to be with him and live with him after all these long long months of training. I just don’t want to feel lonely and sad forever. I’m wishing and hoping he doesn’t get deployed but I also realize it happens to alot of people in the military. Your video helped me feel less alone. Thank you 🙏🏼 🩵

Watching this now Fort Liberty ( Bragg) it’s quiet now😂

My partner is stationed in Bahrain and I’m regretting this relationship because of the distance. I told him I hate long distance, but we’re somehow still together. I’m a veteran with anxiety, depression, and PTSD, so being here without him is worse. None of the advice I’ve come across is helping me, not even my therapist is helpful. I hate this.

Best of all, A good story about two people that love each other. Prays for your marriage and family.

I’m 22 years old and we just married and fell in love so deep and now my wife went to army basic training for 13 weeks. I just feel so lonely and feel worried too much about what gonna happend with her over there. Any idea how to control this emotion?

What about you or other spouses? How Is your spouse there for you?

I live on Bragg & my house shakes at least twice a week and it’s always in the middle of the night 😂

I absolutely love your videos more than I can express in words. THANK YOU, so much. You are a novelty on RUclips. I hope you are doing well in your soul and I thank you for all of the love and kindness you have shared with us so far!

Military housing is terrible. Live off base and get the TAX FREE BAH.

Thank you this is so helpful my husband is station at North Carolina and we’re decided whether we live on/off post bt ur video is helpful and he decided that we should live off post bc we feel like off post is fun than living on base like we get to do wat we want and all that lol

The mood swing really gets to me, crying like non-stop!

Can you do a life after the military? Transitioning into civilian life work lifestyles etc

I’m at tech school right now, after tech school when me and my wife go to our first base which is mountain home afb, if we want to live on base they just let us live in a home? Do they run my credit or how is the process of them giving us a home on base? I’ll be an E3 after tech school….I would appreciate ur response. Thank you

Hello! I’m been anxious about my husband joining SF. These videos definitely has giving me some ease.

I'm going through it, I'm Army vet, wife is Active Navy, she's away and will be for the most part of the next 3 year tour as she will do three 8 month deplyments.. I'm getting older, I dont do so well alone anymore. Being a male dependant as far as the Navy is concerned has little value over all, along with dealing with all the family, in there minds I'm just not adding up. Iv worked hard all my life adding now 12 years of Navy spouce life, it has really taken it too me mentally. What else is there to say., I'm sorry your going through it, it's not a happy way to do it and that's being completly honest. Iv baisically begged my wife to get out, not happening. Blessings sister.

Can you talk to my wife? Wow. You explain it so well. Especially with the whole being quiet, looking for exits, and needing time to process stuff. We are never truly comfortable.

Hi! Was wondering if you had a video explaining more of what happens and what family life is like after the Q Course and in between deployments? Thank you 😊

what was your mos ?

Are y’all mil to mil ?? Going throw a proxy marriage now

“You yelled at me like a Sergeant Major.” Haha. That’s hilarious.

Man this is really cool of you tell your experience, thanks for sharing!

My husband cheated on me while on deployment

I'm getting goosebumps, hearing you explain why the soldiers are so tensed up. You really get it. That's awesome that you do.

I'm twenty. I don't know much hahahahahahaa but if it matters to you I think you are a very honorable wife and person.

How long are deployments usually for special forces operator my s/o keeps saying no longer than three months but I think he is sugarcoating it are they gone all the time how many deployments a year

More videos like this pleaseee

Everything sound good…until you said you see everyone from work 24/7🥺😑

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Thank you so much for the advice ❤❤❤ my boyfriend is in the military and these tips helps❤

Hey! You can take more then one you just have to pay a certain amount but I know you get 40% off ur second course !

Thank you for your content

Words from the male side of it: My wife has been in for 3 years. She's on her 2nd deployment now, and she's been on 2 TDYs in between. It's so wild cos the last time she left on a TDY, I felt fine. But this deployment feels like the first time when she left for boot camp. It doesn't help that her schedule is different than my work schedule, she's at work when I'm off work, when I wake up, she's getting off duty so we have like 4-5 hours to talk, which is fine, but even at work I find myself completely zoning out. Since i work by myself, I'll watch Netflix while working which helps me stay focused, but as soon as I get in the car on the ride home, it hits me. So, so hard. I make it to the kitchen and start crying. Don't forget, just because you're a man, doesn't mean it's bad to have emotions. A lot of us male spouses get forgotten about. But I'm with you, brothers.

Great info! Thank you for sharing! Especially with the phone number. Awesome quality!! 💖

What Camera, editing, and lighting set up are you using?