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I’ve created Expressthis to give a fresh take on Psychology, Self-expression and personal growth.I’m
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Happy to have you alongside me on the journey!
The most Attractive trait that a person can hold
Sorry that its been a minute! I've been traveling and my mind has been elsewhere... I thought this would be a good monologue to jump back in with. I hope you enjoyed this, and I'll be making more videos moving forward!
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Why stay in Resistance?
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Just an open letter/journal entry kind of one today. I've been noticing a lot of these patterns of holding on or "resistance" in myself recently and just how... It inevitably leads to suffering. I think that a lot of the time its the fear that we're/things are never going to be good enough - and so we don't feel as though we're able to flow downstream and accept things they way they are now tha...
Subtle signs that you're Growing Deeply as a Person
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I notice how a lot of the common indicators of growth that are out there are very externally oriented (goals, achievement, etc). Which is great - the point here though is to share some of what I see as the Subtler signs of deep growth in a person. I think you'll resonate with these if you've been growing deeply. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 2:11 You don't need to distract yourself as much anymore 2:12 - ...
A Guided Meditation for Stress and Anxiety
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I've created this video for you if you've been Stressed or Anxious as of late and are looking for something to help you in winding down. If you're watching, I trust the intention of the video has reached you as needed. Let me know in the comments below how you experienced this! I'm considering making guided meditations apart of the channel moving forward. Reach out to me via my email if you'd l...
The Easiest way to tell if you're in Alignment
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In this video I speak about the easiest way to know that you're in alignment and resonance with something or someone in your life. Its easy to scramble from thing to thing without truly registering where you are in yourself. I'd love to hear what is allowing to most effortlessly relax into presence and manifest from that place in the comments below! My email if you're interested in setting up a...
The last Social Anxiety video you'll ever watch
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In Todays video I'll cover Social Anxiety. If you suffer with Social Anxiety you know how dark it can get, how much mental real-estate it can take up. My intention is for this to be the last video you'll need on the topic of Social Anxiety. I've designed the video such that you will get a comprehensive preframe for Social Anxiety and a way of working on this TODAY. I appreciate you tuning in! T...
Why INFJs can get stuck in a Rut
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Today I'm sharing what I've noticed in INFJs who find themselves stuck in a rut. I explain how Introverted Intuition tends to have a greater aptitude for Abstraction rather than implementation for its own sake, and how INFJs can use Momentum to "Unstick" themselves. I hope you enjoy the video! TIMESTAPS 00:00 - 00:42 Intro 00:42 - 4:50 (Ni) and (Se) 4:51 - 11:55 Abstraction and Action 11:56 - 1...
An Alternative Approach to Meditation
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Today I'm speaking about the Alternative Approach to meditation that might just be the next step you need to take to break through to the next phase of your meditation practice. TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 01:24 Intro 01:25 - 3:44 The Mind is just Fine 3:45 - 5:49 The Alternative Approach 5:50 - 10:05 Why The Alternative Approach? 10:06 - 10:52 Outro If you're interested in a chat with me - nathanelder....
On Embracing Uncertainty
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It's been a minute! As I said I've been bouncing around Japan and figuring myself out. Today's episode is about Embracing Uncertainty and some of what I've learned about that for myself over the last couple of months. I hope you enjoy this. Good to be back! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 00:27 Intro 00:28 - 15:47 The Japan story 15:48 - 20:08 Accepting being Lost 20:09 - 22:52 Values 22:53 - 25:51 Action 2...
Let's talk INTPs: A Journey into the MIND of the Logician
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Let's talk about the INTP in depth! Hope you enjoy this! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 -1:17 intro 1:18 - 9:20 INTPs cognitive functions 9:21 - 13:57 INTPs vibe 13:58 - 25:46 Potential strengths and weaknesses 25:47 - 32:23 examples 32:24 - 32:53 outro THANK YOU to everyone who has helped me reach 2000 subscribers! I'm excited to show you all what I have planned next! INTP, MBTI, psychology, expression, min...
Unveiling the Logician: 3 Oddly Specific Traits of INTPS
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In this video, I outline 3 Oddly Specific Traits that I notice in the INTP Personality! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 00:23 Intro 00:24 - 3:19 Particular sense of humour 3:20 - 5:47 Post-processing emotion 5:48 - 9:45 Labeled as cold unfairly into, personality, psychology, mind, MBTI, person, self-expression, self-development, growth, funny, understanding, specifics, time, knowledge
A Reassurance Message for INFJs: Lets Shine the Light on You for a Change
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I've made this Video as a follow-up to The Hidden Struggles of INFJs Video I made last week - LINK:ruclips.net/video/W2kF2ERDF_8/видео.html&ab_channel=Expressthis I hope you find value in hearing these points, I'd love to hear what you think in the comments! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 2:07 Intro 2:08 - 9:37 Taking your own feelings into account 9:38 - 19:18 You can create the life you want 19:19 - 31:5...
The Hidden Struggles of INFJs: A Peak Behind the Curtain
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I'd love to hear if these resonate with you as an INFJ! TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 1:17 Intro 1:18 - 4:05 Yearning for connection… but wanting to be alone at the same time. 4:08 - 8:01 Knowing no THING can satisfy you 8:02 - 11:39 Not having the words 11:40 - 15:40 The world seems… dystopian
Lets talk INTJs: A Journey into the Mind of the Architect
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Hope you enjoy this one! 3 Oddly Specific INTJ things video ruclips.net/video/2RsfuRM4tBs/видео.html&ab_channel=Expressthis TIMESTAMPS 00:00 - 1:03 Intro 1:04 - 2:32 Introverted Intuition 2:32 - 4:32 Extroverted Thinking 4:33 - 6:42 Introverted Feeling 6:43 - 8:24 Extroverted Sensing 8:25 - 12:20 INTJ Vibe 12:21 - 23:23 Strengths and Weaknesses 23:24 - 28:43 Examples list
Unveiling the Architect: 3 Oddly specific Traits of INTJs
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Welcome back! Apologies for the wait. This week we'll be focusing on the INTJ Personality type (full breakdown will be done by the end of the week). 00:52 - 3:41 People seem to stop short in conversation. 3:42 - 6:20 You love to envision for the sake of it. 6:21 - 10:10 Your way of thinking can be misconstrued as insensitive.
Let's talk INFJs: A Journey into the Mind of the Alchemist
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Let's talk INFJs: A Journey into the Mind of the Alchemist
Unveiling the Alchemist: 3 Oddly Specifc Traits of INFJs
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Unveiling the Alchemist: 3 Oddly Specifc Traits of INFJs
The Hidden Struggles of INFPs: A Peak Behind the Curtain
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The Hidden Struggles of INFPs: A Peak Behind the Curtain
Let’s talk ISFPs: A Journey into the Mind of the Creative Adventurer
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Let’s talk ISFPs: A Journey into the Mind of the Creative Adventurer
Uncovering the Unique: 3 Oddly Specific Traits of ISFPs
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Uncovering the Unique: 3 Oddly Specific Traits of ISFPs
Let’s talk INFPs: A Journey into the Mind of the Idealistic Dreamer
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Let’s talk INFPs: A Journey into the Mind of the Idealistic Dreamer
Unveiling the Quirks: 3 Oddly Specific Traits of INFPs
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Unveiling the Quirks: 3 Oddly Specific Traits of INFPs
Do your friends really want you to grow?
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Do your friends really want you to grow?
If you want to grow, do the opposite
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If you want to grow, do the opposite
The MOST powerful books on TRAUMA healing
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The MOST powerful books on TRAUMA healing
Why you’re not reading the books you keep buying
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Why you’re not reading the books you keep buying
About the 3rd point. Don't tell that ISFP or anyone else are too much or not enough of something, as you say that they're not confident enough about what they think. I would say that you're generalizing your personal experience to the whole ISFP's. And even if they have such trait I think they have their own reasons for that based on their personality and how they see the world and interract with it. I personally love ISFP's the way they are and think that they're perfect and never too much or not enough of something. Just like every type of personality.
1. A coworker at a cafe asked if I had OCD because I wanted the pitchers and blenders in a certain order 2. I’m pretty indecisive so often listen to other people’s opinions, but I do know when I’m uncomfortable and will leave. 3. This is true! I think deeply about the other’s person’s situation, but why I usually respond with makes it awkward or so broad.
I am an INTJ and a dungeon master for D&D. But I have a small bone to pick with you (but nothing is small to us). Do not ever refer to D&D as a board game. Board games (or as I call them, bored games) are a set of repetitive tasks designed within the confines of a board, or a set of rules and pieces, and cannot be anything except that. It’s like a train cannot run where there are no tracks. Even modern complicated/convoluted bored games like Gloomhaven cannot operate outside of what it’s been designed for. Plus there’s never any point of them. You play for the sake of playing. There’s no evolution of story. There’s no room to tell your own stories. If it comes with a story it’s exactly prescribed and printed in the manual. D&D on the other hand has no limits. It’s much more akin to “make believe” except adults are not shamed for enjoying it. There are rules, yes, an element of consistency is required to ensure everyone is playing the same make believe. But as a DM, I can do anything and everything, outside of the players. Any type of stories. Any length of game. Create any character, any scenario. The only limit is one’s imagination. And that’s really how an INTJ mind operates. We are not held back by limits. After being a DM I don’t enjoy being a player anymore.
You are majestic.
✋Nature loves Courage🤚 "You make the commitment and Nature will respond to that by removing impossible obstacles. Dream the impossible dream and the World will not grind you under, it will lift you up. This is the trick. This what all these teachers and philosophers who really counted, who really touched the alchemical gold, this is what they understood. This is the shamanic dance in the waterfall. This is how magic is done. By hurling yourself into the abyss and discovering it's a feather bed." ~Terence McKenna (Food of the Gods)
Thank you, this helps..
"Why does he look so grumpy all the time ?" People been asking since i was pushed round in my pram. "Delivering Milo", anyone ?! Elmore, you f*ing bastard ! I KNEW you were lying !
What personality type are you? I used to think I was an INFJ, but as I took more quizzes and understood the cognitive functions - I realized I was an INTJ. Being present is extremely difficult for this type. But when you do master meditation and being present as an INTJ - it is extremely therapeutic.
Unfortunately, this prevents me from taking criticism from people who aren't like me because the criticism is usually filled with bias and a general lack of understanding of the subject matter.
Thank you for the time stamps and sub-topic titles in the video descriptions.
You come across very well, with great intelligence. Very good knowledge and presented. I appreciate both the INFP as well as ISFP feedback. Greetings
Absolutely agree. Self ownership is so beautiful.
not going to lie i thought it was going to be eye contact
wow surprising amount of wisdom in this video for someone so young, (although you Cantrell your young from your problems/eating disorder well done), its funny ive been wondering why im so liked on the building site recently and id actually arrived at a similar conclusion about authenticity and almost that exact same day this video pops up.
I feel like this is one of those “in theory but not in practice things.” People think they want honesty from another person but in reality when you actually are an honest person, many people end up not being able go handle your honesty or disliking you. Meanwhile a lot of people who are good at lying or manipulating others and being dishonest end up being well-liked by everyone around them. Been in so many environments where this plays out. Even in dating scenarios, people say they want honesty but when they meet an honest person they cannot take it. Many actually prefer those who tell them what they wanna hear, instead of what they need to.
Yes, paradoxically I get what you’re saying here. As I had said in the video - the honesty that I’m attempting to convey here is the Self-ownership and settling into the self aspect. But yes, definitely a lot of people get ahead through disingenuous means.
Ah, you see that's actually a feature, not a bug. You certainly *can* lie and manipulate your way to approval in the short term, but it is exhausting and demoralizing to keep up thr act forever. The more you do it, the more you subconsciously recognize that the people in your life are there because they love the mask, not you. This can lead to all sorts of emotional problems- fear, shame, resentment, loneliness. Other people might not know, but you will. It can also lead to relational problems as you'll drive away people who value honesty and authenticity and bring in other people who value lying and cheating to get what they want, cause that's what you're doing too. Worse still, you can't reach out for support with all of those negative emotions you're racking up, cause to do so would reveal that you've basically been conning them to love you (weirdly, people who value lying and cheating to get what they want only appreciate it when *they* do it 🤔) On the flip side, when you're honest and authentic, you *will* drive some people away. This is a good thing because the people you drive away are the people who don't like or can't handle who you really are. This sounds bad, but it is actually an excellent filter to discover which people who do want to be with the real you. The realer you are, the more polarizing you become, and the easier it is to see who your real friends are
I think your misunderstanding the kind of honesty he's talking about, authentic people who are good at connections can discern when people want honesty and when they need encouragement, and or building up, a very self aware person for example would have a higher threshold for honesty about themselves, whereas someone who's less self aware would have a lower threshold, regardless though being honest has much wider applications than just being brutally honest with others. he actually gives a good definition of this around 11:00, although I would pushback on his version of good actually being very similar to what Jesus encourages, so despite him saying its not protestant it is still very christian in principle.
You can be honest and well liked. There's just a line between honesty and rudeness. If you are both honest and well manered you will be liked by true jenuine people who apreciate it. Only the nasty ones who don't like being called out on their bs won't like you
Thank you. Such a wise message 🌸
You’re very welcome
You're strikingly eloquent and well spoken, much truth in your words🙏
I appreciate you tuning in!
this is so true. you understand intj's well.
interesting reflection
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its so good to hear from you again! great video!
You’re a real one, man! 😂
Great job, thank you.
Thanks!
I'm 52 and have been interested in all things self-help for the vast majority of my life, yet your explanation feels like a revelation to me. I'm deeply thankful. xx
I have listened to a bunch of these I SFP RUclipss. This is definitely hands-down the best and most resonant one. Truly excellent elucidation! Thank you, so very helpful.
1 - You often feel like people dont actually think things through to the point that those things make the most sense
That identity fluidity I think can also be expressed as a very diverse persona, with such a big arrange of interests, passions, etc. Impossible to summarise in small talk 😅
Don't make your dreams into reality, make your reality into a dream 🐰👈🏻👉🏻
great vid i feel called out and also like u are so perceptive to see these patterns that also apply to me lol
I absolutely love your shirt colour Your voice is so distinct Good informative video I feel resonated
Your second point may explain why I feel like the quarter-life crisis I started struggling with in my mid-twenties never really went away and has instead blended and morphed into the mid-life crisis I'm now facing in my early 40's. I'll need to think on this quite a bit...
I can't speak for other INFJs, but I know I tend to attend to other's emotions because I grew up in an environment where everyone had *ZERO* skill, energy or inclination to regulate their emotions. This was absolute *hell* for someone who absorbs the emotional energy of others whether they wanted to or not and is fundamentally unable to remove themselves from the situation. Putting other's emotional needs above my own was often a matter of psychic survival, as well as a roundabout attempt at moving towards my own need for calm and quiet. It rarely worked, of course, and unfortunately, though I am now in a somewhat better environment, the defense habits are still there and I don't know how to adjust them.
What are the fundamental differences between an INFP and INTJ with prominent Fi - can taking a structured approach to a creative project that follows a specific vision and exploiting the elements to maximise intended impact be an INFPs approach to art?
Older INFP here, great great channel, like I accidentally encountered a younger version of myself!👍
Organized sense of imagination….
Argh, busted
The best explanation I’ve ever heard. Very helpful, thank you.
Your voice is so soothing... Really interesting content😊
This is 2nd video I’ve watched of yours. Very impressed! Definitely want to view more.
Very detailed examples were provided in this video! Great work! I fit most of everything that was stated in which these few differences can be explained by just being a unique individual impacted by life experiences and learning. I hope that you keep posting as I’m looking forward to viewing more. Thank you
I just found your channel. 52 year old INFJ here. Thank you so much for putting in words how we INFJs interact with the world. We're deep, intense, and highly misunderstood. Looking forward to more. Subbed. 👍🏻
I found the first very true, especially when house hunting surprisingly. Everything is about how I or it feels to me. If I was not bonded to the image of the house or an environment, or it gave a whiff of 1% negative feeling it was out. Feeling things deeply is a blessing and a curse!
main points (sorry i wanted take notes while watching and refer back to this when i rewatch this video T_T): 1. INFP is influenced through intuition with their environment, but ISFP is grounded and influenced through their physical environment/living spaces. so ISFP are stubborn about their own way of doing things or how they place things in their living spaces because it only feels right to them when done their way. 2. ISFP knows what is the magic/beauty they want in things/life, but they prefer to approach this process in their own pace. Other people rushing them makes them uncomfortable, they prefer marching to their own beat in their approaches to decisions/life. 3. ISFP hear people's stories and have the ability to feel the deep emotions the other person could have experienced (empathy?). But they struggle to communicate/express back that they understood those deep emotions to the other person. This is due to a lack of confidence/trust/awareness in their ability to express their emotions to others. Could be a fear of showing emotions? A lack of understanding/identifying/communicating their deep emotions? Instead, they give a generalised/surface level response to the other person. Making it appear as if the ISFP doesn't fully care/empathize with the person, which is not the case. Only highly intuitive people (INFP) can read between the lines of an ISFP's response to know they did understand and empathize with the story they shared, despite the ISFP's seemingly unemotional/unempathetic words. 4. ISFP's struggle with understanding/communicating their deep emotions can cause them to have a identity crisis. They need to be more aware, confident, and trusting of their abilities and be less fearful of showing emotions or being a perfect ideal to the public. They can express their emotional depth through artistic pursuits (art, dance, music) or communication (writing, poems, speaking) or home design (home decor, organizing of spaces). This is a method for them to understand their identity more. 5. I love how clear and easy to understand your video was , i used to be INFP when young but now i have more clarity in being aware and understanding my thoughts, feelings, and communication. I retook MBTI test and got ISFP and finally it feels more right and at place <3
I love this SO MUCH! Thank you for the beautifull things you said and how well you tried to explain everything. It made me feel so proud and appreciated for the way that I am😊Thank you! I'm proud to be an ISFP and I can TOTALLY relate. I don't know how to completely express the way I'm thinking but I can say that YES I do something if I feel connected to it. I like to feel what I'm doing. In a way I am grounded with the way that things and actions affect my state of being. I like to feel deeply the beauty in little things of our life. For example I feel such a deep connection with our nature, a feeling I can't explain but it makes me feel like home. I love drawing when I want to express the way I'm feeling and I want others to understand the beauty of that feeling that I had. Even if I feel good or bad, I think it's so beautifull that we can FEEL in general and CREATE. I truly think that creating unique things comes from our unique feelings. The best way in which someone can be unique is by listening to their soul because there is no other soul like ours. And the fact that I can express the beauty of my feelings and encourage others to realize and feel that too makes me so happy and fullfilled. I love helping others and making them happy with who they are and helping them follow their own heart.
Unless you are hiding a mountain behind a molehill, I think you meant “a PEEK behind “. - me, being INTJ
Invasioning can also be a strange form of entertainment, but it also helps to see things from all angles. See it from beginning to end, I always complete it in the mind first. Oh, and why come to me with a problem unless you want me to help you solve it? lol
I am not confident about how I feel or what I think , only who/ what I am . 🤨weird to say out loud
Thanks for elaborating our type . And breaking myths
Thank you for the excellent content. I strongly desire to find people who I can speak my truth to but so many of my views are controversial.
Intj girl here just crushing on your serene infp heart. I have greatly appreciated the Ne people in my life who have helped me to open up my perspectives and mental prisons I get myself into.