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Great-- can you publish the PDF?

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In my professional opinion i think she suffers from her not writing her own music instead is sings about somones elses mental issues...just sayin.

I've been telling my man for 27 years what exactly bugs me and it hasn't changed a thing.

My great grandmother was the party kind.

yes please. clips are interesting.

Funny thing is, if you minimize and ignore your feelings, they will take control of the thinking part of your brain and turn it into a basic binary processor. What you think will be driven by your feelings, and you won't even realize it.

Hi Emily! Thank you SO much for- this had made my day 😊 so glad you found them and that they’re actually helpful!

Hey Oliver. I'm a clinical social worker in private practice and I just found your channel. Just wanted to tell you that I love your content and it is helping me revitalize my practice and my own relationships. Just wanted to say thank you and you are making a difference!

Thank you so much for these videos! Please keep them coming!!

Stop touching up your videos with ai it’s so unsettling

As well as that unconscious preparedness had from manifestation practices, I reckon the (figurative) magic (i.e. not 'magik'!) also comes from an unconscious perceptual and behavioural 'nudging' of us to perceive things related to the sought entity and to act in ways compatible with obtaining the said thing. Simply, such as mantras, affirmations & dream boards position the desired - and the idea of possessing it - at the mind's forefront, so one's senses and thoughts are more likely than otherwise to draw us to being involved with it 'in real life'. That involvement may be very 'distant' - a long way from actually having the thing (say, being 'nudged' to looking at an 'American Classics' car magazine in an on-platform newsagents, at a British rail station, whilst whiling away a few minutes (it'll end up hours, given the state of rail transport) waiting for a train; for the Cornish (still West Coast) New-Agey Corvette-craver; um, make that one of those Chevy 'Day Vans'. But then very pragmatic factors could ensue from this that sooner or later sees the person owning such a vehicle (e.g. an ad' in the magazine that - 'would you believe it' - is for a Chevy Van, for sale at a bargain price and near where the person lives); and so 'as if by magic' he/she/they is delighting in choking traffic in Cornwall's narrow rural lanes that were never intended for such vehicles. I'm sure there's one or more/many 'cognitive biases' that could be cited as operational here. But these probably wouldn't detract from the sense of wonder and credulity, from a notable manifestation success; regrettably though, a fillip perhaps inspiring that person to devote too much faith and time at further (trying to) manifest things, instead of knuckling down to trying to get what's wanted 'the hard way' - with blood, sweat and tears (which, of course, could be a misperception - one paradoxically reinforced by continuation, maybe fruitlessly, with the 'easy' (err, 'manifestory') way - so pre-occupying that one overlooks researching the actual practicalities of goal acquisition.) Anyway...love your channel; thanks for all the work you put into it. Wasn't expecting to find a video on this subject here!

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Well, now I watch your videos. You’re so wonderful for spreading this kind of information, please keep going 🫶

Thank you. 🙏

My son is 20, is he too old for this book? He's anti social.

Said a whole bunch of words with no actual meaning. Fuck outta here

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So what if you communicate how you feel qnd the person yells or gets upset is packing bags maniplulation to me its fed up..

I watched and shared with a client asking for a resource on this topic. Thanks, Oliver!

Very helpful, i am looking for The pdf. Thank you for all your Work!

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I wonder: can one have too much of self-differentiation? If one has perfectly separated their thoughts and feelings and self and other, and their other has no influence on their self, they would seem psychopathic. Beyond any impact of human emotions of shame or guilt which stem from what we think we did (or didn’t) to the other. I realize it’s a distant possibility but still. The perfectly self-differentiated would be psychopathic, wouldn’t they?

I don’t understand what you mean by “micro-journalling” ?

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This happened to me. The other person never apologized when I communicated how their actions hurt me. In fact, they continued to shift blame to me because I pulled away after never hearing an apology.

Thank you!

More? Yes please! I love your approach. The simplicity of the visual aids. Thank You.

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I found it very helpful to have real examples shown and explained so that I could hear/see/interpret what people are saying when they speak. I've seen several videos of SOFT explained, yet this really helped with understanding/application.

Love this video - very helpful

I think almost all the kids before the 80s were raised free range until the street lights came on. My parents were free range but i did a lot of dangerous things with heights when i was alone but nothing ever happened thank God. Gave me more confidence in myself and decisions, and knew how to talk to adults. Although i needed more help with homework and i didn't put hope into others doing things for me.

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I would consider client privacy before you use a third-party app. Maybe don't use identifiable information when using the Ai tools.

i wish this was viral

The effort you put into your videos is so valued, thank you so much. I am currently in a process group with 6-7 of my classmates as its apart of my person centered counselling degree and i would love to know how to get the most out of it. I spend most of my time in the group uncomfortable and silent and honestly, bored!. I want to break this resistence but my body feels like a deer in the headlights. Thanks again for your content.

You mentioned an information sheet. Thanks Oliver

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I'm a family system's coach and I enjoy your vids

Volume is too low !!!

I had to let go of guilt and shame first. There was a meditation book I liked called 30 Days to Overcome Guilt by Harper Daniels.

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Just lovely! I've shared this on my practice page (I'm a clinical psychologist who works predominantly with teens and young adults). You are a lucid communicator who conveys comfort even in this format. I expect you're a crackerjack therapist!