Kelsia's Diary
Kelsia's Diary
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Perms & Pools: the price of Black Hair Care and staying alive [ft. Pattern Beauty]
Perms & Pools is a short film by Kelsia that explores the intersection of beauty standards and life-threatening consequences. As Kelsia confronts the cost of prioritizing her hair over her safety, she begins a transformative path to self-acceptance and survival, ultimately learning to swim-both in water and in life. A story of culture, identity, and resilience.
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Видео

9 Tips for JUICY MINI TWIST on Short 4C Natural Hair
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#minitwists #4cnaturalhair In this video, I’m showing you how to do mini twists on natural 4C hair. I’ll cover the whole process from start to finish and share my best tips for keeping your twists looking great for weeks. Whether you’re new to twists or just looking to refine your technique, this video’s got you covered!" Let's Connect! TikTok: @KelsiasDiary Instagram: @KelsiasDiary ✨I host int...
Navigating Predominantly White Spaces As a Black Girl
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4 Key things I’m learning and have learned as a Black Girl growing up in the suburbs. 00:00-00:37 Intro 00:37- 2:27 Represent your race 2:27-5:48 Visibility 5:48-7:38 Their Comfort 7:38-10:56 You're not ugly! You can see the original creator of this thread here www.tiktok.com/t/ZTNrBvwy1/ @vibesofablackgirl
My day as an American living in Rural Colombia
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.Год назад
Let's be friends :) 📷 INSTAGRAM: kelsiacadet 🔔 SUBSCRIBE: goo.gl/ta4GGS
Formal Enough [a short film about black hair]
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Formal Enough [a short film about black hair]
I want to give up.. beach day & burn out
Просмотров 1,8 тыс.2 года назад
I want to give up.. beach day & burn out
Leaving the USA / How to Choose Another Country
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.2 года назад
Leaving the USA / How to Choose Another Country
I Moved to Colombia | Leaving the U.S. FOR GOOD
Просмотров 4,8 тыс.2 года назад
I Moved to Colombia | Leaving the U.S. FOR GOOD
Friendship breakups, why millennials are so lonely & fear of dying alone
Просмотров 4,5 тыс.2 года назад
Friendship breakups, why millennials are so lonely & fear of dying alone
Winter Tiny House Experience in the Mountains (page 7)
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Winter Tiny House Experience in the Mountains (page 7)
I "REGRET" uploading my break up video..
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I "REGRET" uploading my break up video..
(Pg. 6) A Warm Christmas Dinner | Lonely Holiday Without Grandma Vlogmas
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.2 года назад
(Pg. 6) A Warm Christmas Dinner | Lonely Holiday Without Grandma Vlogmas
(pg.5) Learning to love my 4c hair....pt.2
Просмотров 10 тыс.2 года назад
(pg.5) Learning to love my 4c hair....pt.2
Getting My Hair Done in Ktown NYC
Просмотров 5 тыс.3 года назад
Getting My Hair Done in Ktown NYC
Overcoming VERY PAINFUL Periods. #LilyCupOne #CBDCocoaButter
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.3 года назад
Overcoming VERY PAINFUL Periods. #LilyCupOne #CBDCocoaButter
hello, my inner child.
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hello, my inner child.
Fighting Work / Hustle Culture as a Millennial. (page 3)
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Fighting Work / Hustle Culture as a Millennial. (page 3)
(pg.3) What marriage counseling taught me at 24
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(pg.3) What marriage counseling taught me at 24
(pg.2) learning to love my 4c hair again..
Просмотров 246 тыс.3 года назад
(pg.2) learning to love my 4c hair again..
(pg.1) Moving to South Korea BY MYSELF at 21
Просмотров 6 тыс.3 года назад
(pg.1) Moving to South Korea BY MYSELF at 21
I went VIRAL on Natural Hair TikTok for DUMPING my Oils and Butters #NoOilsandButters
Просмотров 20 тыс.3 года назад
I went VIRAL on Natural Hair TikTok for DUMPING my Oils and Butters #NoOilsandButters
5 Red Flags MaryJane Byarm showed us in her OWN videos.
Просмотров 211 тыс.3 года назад
5 Red Flags MaryJane Byarm showed us in her OWN videos.
A Day in the Life of a Black Teacher in South Korea VLOG
Просмотров 14 тыс.5 лет назад
A Day in the Life of a Black Teacher in South Korea VLOG
HOW I TEACH IN KOREA WITHOUT A DEGREE
Просмотров 10 тыс.5 лет назад
HOW I TEACH IN KOREA WITHOUT A DEGREE
Being A Black Girl In South Korea | Part 1 (Korean CC)
Просмотров 58 тыс.5 лет назад
Being A Black Girl In South Korea | Part 1 (Korean CC)
I'm unexpectedly moving to Korea | STORY TIME & REACTIONS
Просмотров 2 тыс.6 лет назад
I'm unexpectedly moving to Korea | STORY TIME & REACTIONS

Комментарии

  • @Mariamox
    @Mariamox 12 часов назад

    Amazing storytelling 💜

  • @mimiwolfprincess
    @mimiwolfprincess 3 дня назад

    Amazing 🥲

  • @DDdelight
    @DDdelight 5 дней назад

    I've been a natural for most of my life. Barely manipulate it but still struggling.

  • @damxn7303
    @damxn7303 9 дней назад

    Beautiful beautiful hair! Let it breathe and be free

  • @KwanitaAllen2468
    @KwanitaAllen2468 9 дней назад

    Heavy on the always

  • @KwanitaAllen2468
    @KwanitaAllen2468 9 дней назад

  • @KwanitaAllen2468
    @KwanitaAllen2468 9 дней назад

    Representation really does matter! It hits no matter how old you are. I remember a swim lesson in elementary school. We were getting dressed as a class. Boy and girls separate of course. After the lesson. A girl classmate of mine Jade, her mother was blow drying her hair. I wanted her to blow dry mine too. I realize now that I asked to chart undiscovered ground. I don’t see any moms who looked like mine or that were willing to help. Your story is amazing

  • @staysafe_eatcake6587
    @staysafe_eatcake6587 9 дней назад

    My parents made sure me and my siblings knew how to swim from a very young age; I think I learned how to swim before I could walk! Seeing other peoples stories about this makes me so so grateful for their effort

  • @agnes_ww
    @agnes_ww 11 дней назад

    Thanks for the vid ❤ y'all need to listen to '' I am not my hair '' by India.Arie, to understand

  • @babiegirl526
    @babiegirl526 12 дней назад

    this is such a beautiful video i never learnt to swim since there was only a pool at summer camp. i remember playing water hose with my cousin and my hair got wet and i didnt know why my eyes kept burning! it was the hair grease! i wish it was easier to accept our hair like nappy being a insult or like somone sayingyour hair is so hard to deal with

  • @vwematu
    @vwematu 12 дней назад

    This is been so so beautiful!

  • @antoniai9630
    @antoniai9630 13 дней назад

    i cried omg i love this whole video

  • @armpitjuiice
    @armpitjuiice 14 дней назад

    wooowww loved this. i loved the way you told a story through film and then told a couple different ones through speech. really really enjoyed this!! so relatable too ❤

  • @TemiDansoArt
    @TemiDansoArt 16 дней назад

    A true cinematic masterpiece, you are a masterful storyteller, and the visuals are chefs kiss 🤌. As someone who can do the freestyle/front crawl and backstroke pretty well, I can relate to you trying to learn the breaststroke, it's still such an unnatural stroke to me 😭

  • @earthling4219
    @earthling4219 17 дней назад

    I'm Southeast Asian and I have a 2b to 2c curls. In my society straight hair is beautiful if you are not then you'll be called names such as witch and etc. Because of this I grew up not loving my natural hair. Even our parents would give us money to spend for a hair treatment whenever they see curls growing. I'm just glad I bumped into YT videos like these helping me to love my natural hair. Now I'm in 1 year not having the rebond treatment and I hope I could survive this transition period and fully appreciate my natural hair. Thank you creating this video. It' an inspiration. Love you❤

  • @7aiya
    @7aiya 17 дней назад

    Speaking as a black young teen who had to deal with lots of racism. I remember how hard it was for me to love myself, Because for some reason the way my hair looked mattered to me so much. some days i always used to spend hours trying to straighten my hair to the bone just to fit in with the other girls. My mom told me "i most definitely don't need to change anything for anyone , because my hair doesn't not define who i am in my heart." Ever since then , i've always been confident to wear my natural curly 3c hair without any shame. this video was a beautiful impact to me. 🥹💗!!

  • @Listening4n0w
    @Listening4n0w 18 дней назад

    I LOOOVE mini twist! That's how I wear my hair 95% of the time.

  • @vincentallen943
    @vincentallen943 18 дней назад

    This was so beautiful thank you so much for this video. I am half Mexican and half black but look more Mexican. The only thing about my features that shows my black side is my very 4c hair when I was younger, my family would just shave it off because I grew up with my Mexican side and they didn’t know how to take care of it so at 30 now I am learning how to finally take care of it love it and accept it this hair is a lot of work, but it’s mine and there is something special about that that I’m learning to love and this video help me appreciate. Lol I have had this hair for my entire life and just started wearing protective stuff at night just doing something like this has made a huge difference in the moisture levels and it’s overall look something small that I didn’t really think about or appreciate before.

  • @Lin10uson
    @Lin10uson 18 дней назад

    You are IT! I thank you so much for being you and so creative! This is amazing, and it's reminding me of *'Little Bill'.*

    • @KelsiasDiary
      @KelsiasDiary 16 дней назад

      Lmao little bill?!

    • @Lin10uson
      @Lin10uson 16 дней назад

      @@KelsiasDiary... Was that offensive, or something? Seeing as this is my first time coming across your channel and our first interaction, I'm confused.

    • @Lin10uson
      @Lin10uson 16 дней назад

      @@KelsiasDiary, you know what, you can keep whatever response you might or might not have been about to prepare after reading that message because I have been turned-away from your channel by just this response. In the future, it would behoove you to understand that people from all walks of life are going to be appreciating your work; therefore, they will make comparisons to other (in my case *excellent Black)* work that reminds them of some of the few things that they grew-up with of this calibre. Some of the best childhood shows that brought me both peace and joy (as did this art) are 'Little Bill', 'Little Bear', & 'Franklin (and Friends)'; but there are not very many Black shows with which I grew-up of that same caliber because I was born in '94. I think that your neglect of a like' and/or a heart to my comment in comparison to all of the other comments posted to your channel says everything that I need to know about your personality, and it surely is not what's being conveyed in this video. I just did not think that comparing a talented Black artist's work to that of one of the greatest Black artists in our community was going to be offensive. Since it is, I will take my leave as this is not my scene and whatever excuse that you might have for this ugly response is null and void. #chasingfansaway

    • @KelsiasDiary
      @KelsiasDiary 16 дней назад

      @ I’m not even about to read all that. Take care ❤️

    • @Lin10uson
      @Lin10uson 16 дней назад

      Oh,@@KelsiasDiary, you too!

  • @hallease
    @hallease 18 дней назад

    This was such a joy to watch 🥹 thank you for sharing yourself with us.

  • @PinkCoils
    @PinkCoils 18 дней назад

    Beautiful story. It is crucial that we all know how to swim or at least float.

  • @toji1898
    @toji1898 18 дней назад

    Can’t find a video I relate to more. When I was in the fourth grade I had gotten my first perm ever, I was excited at first to have nice “Silky Smooth” hair not knowing it would contribute to the frustration I had towards my hair. Fast forward to eight grade (2022), it was when my middle school started opening up after the lockdown and I hadn’t had a perm in a while so my mother put it in two cornrows and send me off to school that same day at lunch I was talking to a few of my classmates and they brought up the topic of hair. Discussing who had nice hair and what not, and when it got to me they all laughed at my hair. And that same month I got a perm and guess what? They started playing with my hair and saying how nice it was. Fast forward to now my hair is now fully natural and I hadn’t had a perm since eight grade and I’m learn to love my curls/coils each day! Lovely video ❤

  • @dtango3531
    @dtango3531 18 дней назад

    you are soo pretty and your voice is so calming :)

  • @isabellezionchipochaishe7103
    @isabellezionchipochaishe7103 19 дней назад

    And no drama, we really don't want the drama, contrary to the popular belief. I hope they will change once they see that Love is Blind UK has higher ratings although they too tried it sprinkling a bit of drama here and there. Love is Blind USA is messy as hell.

  • @louimmature
    @louimmature 20 дней назад

    lovethis

  • @Jvel-bq6qx
    @Jvel-bq6qx 21 день назад

    What pain? I swim, since I was 8 yes old. I am a person of color. Wash your condition it each time, remember skin care as well.

  • @JulianAlbino
    @JulianAlbino 21 день назад

    love the storytelling! you're talented!

  • @sheilalozada6428
    @sheilalozada6428 21 день назад

    This is such an amazing and wonderful video for all of us going through this. Why have so many of us felt that hair is more important than the life-saving skill of swimming? We, as a people, better wake up and learn to prioritize the things that will keep us alive. If we are going to be around water, we need to make sure we are prepared in case of any emergency. Learn to swim and make sure our babies know how to swim as well. I love all my sisters and brothers. Take care! ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @BB-pv6cf
    @BB-pv6cf 22 дня назад

    This is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing, you are such a gifted story teller and film producer! I can’t wait to see more of your films!

  • @MikeSmith-fj3ls
    @MikeSmith-fj3ls 23 дня назад

    Damn you’re Beautiful ❤

  • @isa_virtual
    @isa_virtual 24 дня назад

    beautiful storytelling and takes. your hair is gorgeous!

  • @spark0girl
    @spark0girl 25 дней назад

    I refuse to let my hair limit me ❤

  • @mychannel-hz2uj
    @mychannel-hz2uj 25 дней назад

    I was put in swimming lessons growing up and this video was soooo relatable. My mom forced me to wear a swim cap as my hair would weigh me down when I swam laps, and she didn’t want to re-do my hair. I was embarrassed as the white kids wouldn’t wear caps. One thing that made it easier was having my sister with me and another black girl. Even though I hated those lessons this video made me grateful, and thankful for that experience. I remember all three of us jumping into deep water for the first time and it was freeing.

  • @CurlyVeteran
    @CurlyVeteran 25 дней назад

    The moment you realize this film will become something historical 😊❤ This is a masterpiece 😊 The Story alone is brilliant 💕🥹🙌

  • @CurlyVeteran
    @CurlyVeteran 25 дней назад

    The cinematography ❤😊

  • @CurlyVeteran
    @CurlyVeteran 25 дней назад

    The cinematography ❤😊

  • @CurlyVeteran
    @CurlyVeteran 25 дней назад

    Yassss ❤

  • @HighMaintenanceMinimalist
    @HighMaintenanceMinimalist 26 дней назад

    37 seconds in and I'm already saying WTF. Wetting an apple isn't the same as washing it. Who the hell puts hair product on their furniture? What is wrong with this girl?

  • @Adjoa
    @Adjoa 26 дней назад

    You are a master storyteller, Kelsia! I was hooked from the beginning, and I kept saying out loud, "This is so good. This is so good." I cried and I clapped for you. I can't imagine how much effort this takes to do, but keep at it! You're helping the Black girls who need it most. I'll be sharing your content however I can.

    • @KelsiasDiary
      @KelsiasDiary 26 дней назад

      Thanks Adjoa. That means so much :)

  • @trendy4tmrw
    @trendy4tmrw 27 дней назад

    Your storytelling, I felt your childhood story deeply ❤ beautiful video. I also adore Pattern beauty. I’m saving up for the steamer! I use the entire line for both my partner and I.

    • @KelsiasDiary
      @KelsiasDiary 26 дней назад

      I haven't tried the steamer yet! Please comment here later and tell me how it goes!

  • @nataliemukunduofficial
    @nataliemukunduofficial 27 дней назад

    I love seeing this. Our natural hair is beautiful. 😊

  • @preciousc432
    @preciousc432 27 дней назад

    Ummm love this?!?!?! I haven’t seen a lot of videos featuring storytelling and natural hair this was so good!!!!

  • @dafnetkoulibali5173
    @dafnetkoulibali5173 27 дней назад

    Thats the Best video about black womanhood i have seen in the past 10 yezrs

  • @hereforit2347
    @hereforit2347 27 дней назад

    A huge part of the problem is the historical banning of Black people from the public pools in parks, hotels, and everywhere else. This also meant we were barred from having access to swim schools. The disproportionate number of drownings involving Black children has very little to do with our not wanting to get our hair wet and far more to do with segregation and discrimination. As a result, many Black people began to regard swimming (like golf, tennis, skiing, camping, etc.) as white people activities. Let’s be real, white people literally made many “public” spaces UNSAFE or OFF LIMITS for Black people. I am an African American born in the 1960s and spent my early childhood in Santa Monica, CA. For maybe two summers in a row, our mother took us to the “Y” to take whatever lessons we wanted. In those days there was the YMCA and the YWCA. They offered martial arts, ballet and tap dancing, trampoline and tumbling, etc. I believe the classes were free. One year, my sister got into the ballet and tap class, but there wasn’t a spot for me. Reluctantly, I chose swimming. I was four or five years old. Eventually, all the other kids dropped out and I was getting private lessons. Swimming has been one of my favorite pastimes ever since. I made sure my daughter had lessons too.

    • @KelsiasDiary
      @KelsiasDiary 26 дней назад

      although it happened by mistake to get private lessons I'm so glad you got that opportunity and made sure your daughter got the skill too!

    • @hereforit2347
      @hereforit2347 26 дней назад

      @@KelsiasDiaryThank you, so am I. Unfortunately, I and my siblings did experience racism at a small, privately-owned swim school in our neighborhood that was also open to the public for recreational swimming during the summer months. As unpleasant as the staff could be sometimes, we dealt with it because it was only a couple minutes’ walk away from our house. There were two City-run parks with pools in our area, but the walk there was much longer and we didn’t always have bikes. Thankfully, a few of our neighbors had pools. In those days, of course, most kids, including ourselves, went to and from each other’s homes and roamed our neighborhoods freely.

  • @jh-cg6iv
    @jh-cg6iv 28 дней назад

    Interesting timing. I did the big shop in 2017 and yes, natural hair vs. relaxed hair in chlorinated swimming pool water made a world of difference showing up to class as it was the same time I decided to learn to swim as an adult. What's so interesting about the timing of this video is that for the past 6 months, I've been contemplating relaxing my hair. Thank you for reminding me/us that black hair is beautiful!

  • @Offthebeatenpath.
    @Offthebeatenpath. 28 дней назад

    What a beautiful short film! Well done!

  • @desired117
    @desired117 28 дней назад

    I love this! I wish I would have known about these products as my daughter learned how to swim this summer. It was important that she learned so that her life is in her own hands while in pools. She thinks she's Ariel now with her flips and strokes. I love that for her.

  • @JenFindsGems
    @JenFindsGems 28 дней назад

    Thank you for reminding me to sign myself and my children up for swimming lessons. What beautiful storytelling skills you have. 💛

  • @rbenitez6140
    @rbenitez6140 28 дней назад

    Love Seeing Me!

  • @misspmo
    @misspmo 29 дней назад

    Beautiful black princess... keep up the outstanding work. This was a well done video with relevant product placement! It was inspiring, hopeful, encouraging and included a lesson. I wish u one million followers and am wondering what line of work you aspire to, journalism? Writing? This was A BEAUTIFUL PIECE ❤.