Minerves on the Move
Minerves on the Move
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Saying Goodbye to My Dad l How I'm Dealing with Loss l Growing Up With a White Dad
Opening up about the death of my stepfather is the hardest thing I've ever talked about on camera. I wasn't sure if I would or how I would go about it. But it has provided some closure and transparency for me. I hope this video helps anyone who has ever lost a parent or is going through grief.
CONTENTS OF THIS VIDEO:
0:00 - Intro
1:08 - Tribute to John
3:32 - Leaving DR
4:51 - Growing up with A White Dad
8:26 - If You Ever Lost Someone You Love...
8:32 - ...you go through a shock
8:52 - ...life doesn't stop moving
9:25 - ...it's hard to enjoy things
9:53 - ...you wish for more time
12:00 - ...you struggle with regret
13:00 - ...you ask 'now what do i do?'
14:46 - I almost didn't record this video...
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Видео

Family Vlog: Settling In Indianapolis, Indiana l Life Abroad Vs The States 2024
Просмотров 9655 месяцев назад
Here is a Day in The Life of our family of 5 living in Indianapolis, Indiana. Soo...what's it like moving back to the states after living our best life overseas? How are we adjusting? We're not going to lie it's hard, it's disappointing at times, and we are taking it day by day. Each day there are ups and downs. However, we lean on the love that we have for each other, our family, and our frien...
Moving Abroad Was The BEST THING for our family...so why are we back?
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.5 месяцев назад
This is a pretty vulnerable video about our journey abroad from living a terrible life in the states to a really beautiful life abroad. As you can suspect we are back in the states FOR NOW so this video is really full circle. I don't mention it as much in the video but it wasn't just being abroad. Our lives changed when we finally took control and stopped doing things we hated and invested in t...
TEACHING ABROAD in Dominican Republic l Moving to Cabrera 2024 l Black Expats
Просмотров 5148 месяцев назад
We moved our family from Honduras to Cabrera Dominican Republic and began teaching at a small bilingual school! Awhile back we did "A Day in the Life" of teaching abroad while we were in San Pedro Sula but many of you have asked, "What is it like teaching in Dominican Republic?" Well, it's a lot different. It's not better or worst just different! In this video come with us as we show you what t...
VLOG l Day in the life of a family living in Cabrera Domincan Republic
Просмотров 8158 месяцев назад
Many people ask what is there to do in a small town in Domincan Republic? Well the truth is not much but still...there's more to this than meets the eye. It's the simple life for us! That means the beach, friends, barbecues. However, there are a few restaurants, lounges, and shops that we go to. Watch this day in the life of living in Cabrera Domincan Republic. Today we visit Los Cabos lounge! ...
LAS TERRENAS VLOG l Getaway To The Dominican Republic With Our Family Of Five! 🇩🇴 Black Abroad
Просмотров 8828 месяцев назад
Our family of 5 visits Las Terrenas Dominican Republic for the first to hangout with some of our new friends! A few weeks ago our family traveled from Cabrera to Santo Domingo where we met Jen who is the owner of the luxury recovery house ZenVia in the city. Jen also owns a spa in Las Terrenas and invited our entire family for a weekend in her beautiful home with breathtaking views! Jen also re...
WE FOUND THE PERFECT HOUSE! in Dominican Republic | Black American Family Life Abroad 2024
Просмотров 3,4 тыс.9 месяцев назад
We recently moved to Cabrera, Dominican Republic after moving from San Pedro Sula, Honduras. However, after being in our house for less than a month on the North Coast we had to find a new rental property (we ended up in the house of horrors!) Our budget was SUPER tight and we were looking for something around 15,000 pesos (about 250 dollars). We ended having to increase our budget to 25,000 do...
03 What happened after I got my surgery in Dominican Republic? l Part 3 Surgery VLOG l
Просмотров 4,4 тыс.10 месяцев назад
This is Part 3 of my 3 part surgery vlog series (Before surgery, surgery day, and 1 month after surgery). Part 1 Before Surgery: ruclips.net/video/klrL3k9auKU/видео.html Part 2 Surgery Day: ruclips.net/video/YAVgsPSwD1o/видео.html I had been wanting to get a breast reduction for over 3 years with Dr. Jean Paul Giudicelli (Dr. G) in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. I had struggled with years o...
02 VLOG My SURGERY DAY in Dominican Republic l Medical Tourism l Cosmetic Plastic Surgery Abroad
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.10 месяцев назад
This is part 2 of a 3 part VLOG mini series where my family and I take a vacation and later I undergo a cosmetic procedure (plastic surgery). Part 1 Before Surgery: ruclips.net/video/klrL3k9auKU/видео.html Part 3 After Surgery: ruclips.net/video/NI-L8LCPRtQ/видео.html I had been wanting to get a reduction for over 3 years with Dr. Jean Paul Giudicelli (Dr. G) in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republi...
01 VLOG Our Family's First Trip to Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic + I got COSMETIC SURGERY!
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.10 месяцев назад
This is part 1 of a mini vlog series about getting cosmetic (plastic) surgery in the Dominican Republic. Part 2 Surgery Day: ruclips.net/video/YAVgsPSwD1o/видео.html Part 3 After Surgery: ruclips.net/video/NI-L8LCPRtQ/видео.html I had been wanting to get a reduction for over 3 years with Dr. Jean Paul Giudicelli (Dr. G) in Santo Domingo, Dominican Republic. I had struggled with years of back pa...
We moved our family to Cabrera, Dominican Republic + Why we left Honduras?
Просмотров 9 тыс.10 месяцев назад
We moved our family to Cabrera, Dominican Republic Why we left Honduras?
VLOG l Our Last Week in Honduras l Bittersweet + House Tour
Просмотров 2,3 тыс.11 месяцев назад
VLOG l Our Last Week in Honduras l Bittersweet House Tour
Living in the "most dangerous" city 🇭🇳 1 Year Update on Safety in San Pedro Sula, Honduras
Просмотров 1,6 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Living in the "most dangerous" city 🇭🇳 1 Year Update on Safety in San Pedro Sula, Honduras
Interviewing Uber Drivers in San Pedro Sula Honduras + How To Take Uber in Honduras
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.11 месяцев назад
Interviewing Uber Drivers in San Pedro Sula Honduras How To Take Uber in Honduras
My mom visits San Pedro Sula for the first time! 🇭🇳 VLOG 🇭🇳 Black Expats Abroad
Просмотров 1 тыс.Год назад
My mom visits San Pedro Sula for the first time! 🇭🇳 VLOG 🇭🇳 Black Expats Abroad
Couples Trip in Honduras l D and D Brewery l Road Trip VLOG from San Pedro Sula
Просмотров 957Год назад
Couples Trip in Honduras l D and D Brewery l Road Trip VLOG from San Pedro Sula
Is Honduras really that dangerous? The truth now 🇭🇳 San Pedro Sula 2024
Просмотров 6 тыс.Год назад
Is Honduras really that dangerous? The truth now 🇭🇳 San Pedro Sula 2024
I cut my Sisterlocks and grew out my 4C Hair! Watch 1 year VISUAL journey of 4C hair growth
Просмотров 466Год назад
I cut my Sisterlocks and grew out my 4C Hair! Watch 1 year VISUAL journey of 4C hair growth
We had a GREAT time at THIS Comayagua lounge 🇭🇳 Honduras 2024 🌎 Black Expats Abroad Vlog
Просмотров 844Год назад
We had a GREAT time at THIS Comayagua lounge 🇭🇳 Honduras 2024 🌎 Black Expats Abroad Vlog
Comayagua at NIGHT nightlife, restaurants, plaza de juventud 🇭🇳 Black Families Travel 2024
Просмотров 871Год назад
Comayagua at NIGHT nightlife, restaurants, plaza de juventud 🇭🇳 Black Families Travel 2024
We went to a Water Park in Comayagua Honduras! 🇭🇳 Black Families Travel 2024
Просмотров 743Год назад
We went to a Water Park in Comayagua Honduras! 🇭🇳 Black Families Travel 2024
VLOG l Celebrating with the Garifuna people l food, music, punta l San Pedro Sula Honduras 2023
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.Год назад
VLOG l Celebrating with the Garifuna people l food, music, punta l San Pedro Sula Honduras 2023
VLOG 🌎 THURS/FRI l teaching, uber, going to popeyes l San Pedro Sula Honduras l Week in our life
Просмотров 401Год назад
VLOG 🌎 THURS/FRI l teaching, uber, going to popeyes l San Pedro Sula Honduras l Week in our life
What's it like outside of school as a teacher abroad? VLOG - Day in the Life
Просмотров 356Год назад
What's it like outside of school as a teacher abroad? VLOG - Day in the Life
VLOG 🌎 Teaching abroad with a family l San Pedro Sula Honduras 2024 l Day in our life
Просмотров 720Год назад
VLOG 🌎 Teaching abroad with a family l San Pedro Sula Honduras 2024 l Day in our life
VLOG Living in San Pedro Sula Honduras: Friends visiting, Super Mario Bros Movie, Semana Santa
Просмотров 684Год назад
VLOG Living in San Pedro Sula Honduras: Friends visiting, Super Mario Bros Movie, Semana Santa
VLOG 🌎 DITL Living in San Pedro Sula, Honduras 🇭🇳 Black American Expat Family Abroad 2024
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.Год назад
VLOG 🌎 DITL Living in San Pedro Sula, Honduras 🇭🇳 Black American Expat Family Abroad 2024
VLOG 🇭🇳 Expat in San Pedro Sula Honduras 🌍 Day in the Life: Rivera Hernandez 2023 l Comida Garifuna
Просмотров 1 тыс.Год назад
VLOG 🇭🇳 Expat in San Pedro Sula Honduras 🌍 Day in the Life: Rivera Hernandez 2023 l Comida Garifuna
How much does food cost 🇭🇳 Honduras VS USA 🇺🇸 San Pedro Sula 2024
Просмотров 907Год назад
How much does food cost 🇭🇳 Honduras VS USA 🇺🇸 San Pedro Sula 2024

Комментарии

  • @YANDEX30V
    @YANDEX30V День назад

    I'm sick of this subject..Its illiterate imo. Black people continue to marginalise themselves

  • @BridgetteStadler-gg2bo
    @BridgetteStadler-gg2bo День назад

    Like no one says oh my parents are both white or Mexican. Like you just say oh my dad is coming over. Not oh my dad is white lol 😅

  • @anthonypickering761
    @anthonypickering761 День назад

    Beautifully said!

  • @angelchacon_5902
    @angelchacon_5902 День назад

    ! ❤

  • @pjt3887
    @pjt3887 2 дня назад

    So this cracks me up because I grew up in Southern California where someone cannot make it through a complete sentence without telling you what that person's racial identity is and I started to say to people why did you need to tell me that your Gardener was Mexican what difference does it make? It's interesting when you see who's really racist and who is not it's kind of surprising sometimes.😂

  • @VendettaAllspice
    @VendettaAllspice 2 дня назад

    ❤❤❤ People with good values like you need to be celebrated. Thank You.🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @samuelsmith2596
    @samuelsmith2596 2 дня назад

    Are you also pro white?

  • @meyokon4101
    @meyokon4101 2 дня назад

    You said "Step Dad" correct?

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 2 дня назад

      Yes

    • @melaniatillman6429
      @melaniatillman6429 2 дня назад

      ​​@@MinervesOnTheMoveare these people you speak of from the projects or ghetto or where yall living there before your step father helped your mom out of the situation yall where in. I never met anyone that was surprised that someone had a white step parent. Im from L.A my cousins have actual white fathers and dont seem to have the same issues as you do.

  • @chkolat
    @chkolat 6 дней назад

    Currently planning on moving to Honduras in the very near future with my fiancé. He’s from the states but have family still back there. This video helped me with the worry about moving so far.

  • @drlindaenoh
    @drlindaenoh 7 дней назад

    I’m so sorry Jocelyn 😢😢🙏🙏

  • @sofiroblox6670
    @sofiroblox6670 7 дней назад

    I'm so sorry about your loss, it's very hard. We get you, many people has lost people that has been with us since we are little or saw us grow up. I'm so sorry

  • @NormaMaribelPachecomatheu
    @NormaMaribelPachecomatheu 7 дней назад

    Saludos mis queridos

  • @meditationmama70
    @meditationmama70 8 дней назад

    Girl lol there weren’t many rules back then lol😂😂

  • @sojourneroftheland
    @sojourneroftheland 8 дней назад

    😂

  • @TheTobiasTribe
    @TheTobiasTribe 9 дней назад

    My wife and I live in Metro Atlanta. Whenever you're available we would love to buy you and your family lunch or dinner to pick your brains. Our six child is due in October and we want to raise them all abroad. Your channel has been such an inspiration and we would love to discuss process and more on the intricate details. There are so many similarities between our families. If you guys can do it, I feel like we can also. The moment we narrow down a city that meets our must haves and I secure employment in my field of IT, we're going. My wife's a teacher by trade also but If we can manage, she'd like to continue being a homemaker as she's been the last 8 years. Please, please , PLEASE, reach out and let us know how we can communicate further.😊

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 8 дней назад

      Hey thanks for the comment and reaching out! That’s really encouraging that we’ve been able to inspire you guys. Feel to reach out through our email ♥️♥️ I will admit I am behind on emails but am planning to catch up this weekend

  • @Wanderluster888
    @Wanderluster888 11 дней назад

    We moved back too and it’s been a tough adjustment. Hope it all works out for you all!

  • @TheLightuponLight
    @TheLightuponLight 11 дней назад

    This is a great video! I’m not black (but am from ATL :) but ‘I still learned a lot of course, so thank you. And traveling i often see less Black Americans… love the example your setting and teaching for your broader community. Hope you are enjoying your time with your children!

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 7 дней назад

      I’m glad that you were still able to enjoy it! Although we are speaking from the black american experience we hope to inspire all walks of life ♥️

  • @Kneec0e
    @Kneec0e 14 дней назад

    What a beautiful and touching tribute. ❤️❤️❤️ The enormity and finality of death just hits full force and so painful. Sending you lots and lots of love my friend. I’m a phone call away. 🌸

  • @mmpineda4230
    @mmpineda4230 14 дней назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss..... we miss you guys so much!

  • @meditationmama70
    @meditationmama70 14 дней назад

    Hey friend in my head. We missed yall! May your dad be in energy with you ( and those loved ones) always , all ways and may you reunite in the next life. Thank you for sharing the tribute. Hugs fyi I married a John and I hope my / our children feel the same xoxo PS your hair is hairing and the birds are chirpin hoping they bring you peace PPS … now John can enjoy all the things and it’s always our time to do that.

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 10 дней назад

      Hey friend in my head too. It is really nice to see you here! You and a few other subs I always recognize from the very beginning of our journey and when your name comes across I'm always like wow...still here! Thank you for your kind words and support ❤️

  • @billybekind8120
    @billybekind8120 15 дней назад

    I'm so sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @Gabyg0811
    @Gabyg0811 15 дней назад

    I am a Honduran-American who has been watching since you first moved to Honduras. I am so sorry for your loss. Sending you my condolences. May you find strength from your beautiful family.

  • @annaemilycanta9012
    @annaemilycanta9012 15 дней назад

    I’m so sorry for your loss! May John’s memory forever be a blessing to you and your beautiful family ❤️

  • @coachian.m
    @coachian.m 15 дней назад

    This was vulnerable, honest and real. My condolences to you and your loved ones. What a wonderful tribute to your father. ❤

  • @JoyBringers
    @JoyBringers 15 дней назад

    Soldier On daughter! Its a process. A long, long process. Day by day you'll start a new normal. John will be missed and mourned for a long time but/and in spite of that, life will go on. May God give you and your family the strength to climb this mountain. You have been missed.

  • @tyishathompson998
    @tyishathompson998 15 дней назад

    Girl what are you talking about🥲😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪😪I’m soooooooo sorry friend

  • @chefcherry-cx5th
    @chefcherry-cx5th 24 дня назад

    Leaving for Honduras in 33 days and counting. Any tips?

  • @HAEZCLAN
    @HAEZCLAN 24 дня назад

    Mr Ian me and Adrian from 4e in eis

  • @aminrodriguez4707
    @aminrodriguez4707 28 дней назад

    From San Pedro Sula to Cabrera, what contrast.

  • @juanbengochea1534
    @juanbengochea1534 Месяц назад

    Electric bill for $400 for a family of five reasonable where I live for a family of 5 I paid $280

  • @debora.426
    @debora.426 Месяц назад

    What I love MASSA wont get their firty nasty hands on ur PRIZE POSSESSION‼️🎤💜

  • @moormindful
    @moormindful Месяц назад

    Girl I'm just going to say it... I love you soo much! Energetically, I vibe with this on soo many levels. Your talk and sharing at the end just makes sense to me. I always joke and tell people that I am a tropical being and I thrive in the sun and with access to good fruits. NO place is perfect anywhere but striking that balance is important. Some days I love and appreciate the convenience of the states but other times, I truly appreciate simple God-given things like natural dirt, sea water, and fruit trees lol. I totally resonate with this. I really believe that even tho my son can enjoy some aspects of the snow here, I know he much appreciates going outside freely in the sun and playing. I admire you alls decision to come back home even if for a bit. I'm headed to Nigeria with my son ( I manifesting this) and I plan to always visit and come back home but for now, I need my tropical balance.

  • @moormindful
    @moormindful Месяц назад

    Girl, I was just thinking about you and I was like, let me see if she has given any updates on her life and family in DR. This video has me in tears (sitting in my classroom). This is so so beautiful. I think going abroad is SOOO necessary and important especially when you have children! It is an experience that will humble you and balance your perspective of "home" / living in the states. I don't know how I will do it but I am eager to see how I can balance my life between the states and abroad. I can't wait to watch your next video update on settling back in the states! ...still watching. Prayers to you and your family.

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 22 дня назад

      Girl you are such an amazing person and I always get encouraged to see your comments. I know we haven’t met in person but to know we have subscribers who have been following us, invested, and really care about our lives is inspiring. I just read your comment on our other video as well and…Basically, we love you too 😭😭😭❤️

  • @lingbaebee
    @lingbaebee Месяц назад

    I’m planning on going to DR for mommy makeover!!! Just doing more research on it!

  • @jesseornelas6600
    @jesseornelas6600 Месяц назад

    Lol, you all don't know what the f***** you are doing! 😆😭 I feel sorry for your kids. I love Honduras and visit a few times a year. If you haven't realized it by now, there is discrimination or racism in ever country. Most Honduras discriminate against the Garifunas, you are so IGNORNT!

  • @greyfox3931
    @greyfox3931 Месяц назад

    🇩🇴❤️🇭🇳

  • @sum5clynn470
    @sum5clynn470 Месяц назад

    Where did you guys move from?

  • @rondosanto344
    @rondosanto344 Месяц назад

    Awesome family ❤ Did you see any guys on that recovery house? I've been trying to educate myself. I've been thinking of doing some work on myself. Thank you 🎉

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 24 дня назад

      This is a great question. I personally didn’t but it was one I asked! Jen (the owner of the recovery house) said that they had men in the past and when I left there was one coming. While I was there I did have a male overnight nurse too.

  • @mariaisabeldiazcobo2458
    @mariaisabeldiazcobo2458 Месяц назад

    Apart is the opposite of making them a part of it. 😉

  • @FxCoreyJ
    @FxCoreyJ Месяц назад

    Thank you for the video! Appreciate this content.

  • @nicoleortiz9112
    @nicoleortiz9112 Месяц назад

    Hi! I know you don’t live in Honduras anymore, but I love your content and just wanted to ask a question. I’m 16 years old and I’m going to be moving to Honduras within this year, do you have any schools you recommend?

  • @cynthiashields5341
    @cynthiashields5341 Месяц назад

    SInce the U.S. seems to be going in the wrong direction, screw everyone who is not White, Male, and rich. Honduras looks very good. How is it for American Retiree(s) like myself.

  • @gabrielcorrea2302
    @gabrielcorrea2302 Месяц назад

    I from to Cabrera ❤

  • @1978deon
    @1978deon Месяц назад

    If you have not already, could you do a video about healthcare where you live please & thank you!

  • @DRPropertyGuys
    @DRPropertyGuys Месяц назад

    I saw your video before this one, where the comments are disabled, and the one where you are house hunting in Cabrera. I just wanted to say "re video before this one" wow what an intriguing piece of film work. Your message is very profound, and you say a lot of things that are true. It's a very interesting journey you guys are on, and not an easy one to say the least. Made me think a lot about how blessed I am and at the same time you have to appreciate every moment, every day you wake up and can see a blue sky and palm trees...hope things are well with you guys and your lovely family. You opened my eyes tonight.

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove Месяц назад

      Thank you for your comment and well wishes. Appreciating every single moment is our new journey ♥️

  • @kailahscorner
    @kailahscorner Месяц назад

    Wow I loved this vlog! You are well loved by your students, kids and community. Thank you for sharing a day in your life.

  • @Iamshanelamarte
    @Iamshanelamarte 2 месяца назад

    How much did you pay for your surgery??

    • @MinervesOnTheMove
      @MinervesOnTheMove 7 дней назад

      I am not sure off the top of my head but I mention the price in the first or second video.

  • @dovygoodguy1296
    @dovygoodguy1296 2 месяца назад

    What were your particular problems getting the residency? Couldn't a lawyer there help you get through the hoops? Different visa possibilities etc.??

  • @spiritualaesthetic
    @spiritualaesthetic 2 месяца назад

    I love Dr G!!!

  • @Ikneauxosk
    @Ikneauxosk 2 месяца назад

    The shade, & I live in New Orleans!!!! Yelling lol!!! I loved this, thank you! I’m going to repair my dad’s grave memorial this year and I was ….questioning