Heather Lindsey: Navigating Trust Issues | FULL EPISODE | Better Together TV

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  • Опубликовано: 4 фев 2025

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  • @desilife6435
    @desilife6435 3 года назад +166

    I just want to say thank you for having a diverse panel of women. I often here about God from people who don’t look like me or don’t come from a similar background as me. It is so helpful to know that God can bless anyone from any background. Thank you ladies!

  • @Jasmyne444
    @Jasmyne444 3 года назад +71

    I absolutely LOVED this episode! As a single woman who desires marriage one day, I do feel like it’s hard to know who is the right person to be vulnerable to or share our hearts with, but I’ve gleaned so much wisdom from this episode. Guard your hearts and the Lord will point out the man He has for you. You will recognize him first by his unmistakable love for God and second, by his care and concern for you. And in that order!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +2

      You are so right it is hard to know who to be vulnerable with. I think you'll enjoy my channel it's all about marriage prep, check it out!

  • @thandiwells4905
    @thandiwells4905 2 года назад +18

    I am a licensed therapist and I am very happy to hear therapy added to this conversation. I am also a Christian. But I am also trained. That is the key combination. We need spiritual healing and natural healing. But there are some that only Holy Spirit can heal. Really enjoyed this episode ladies.

    • @katlegosebolao9945
      @katlegosebolao9945 Год назад

      Oh my word . Are you South African?

    • @kissofarose100
      @kissofarose100 11 месяцев назад

      I have a curiosity as you do work in this field maybe you can help me , the world in present is obsessed with going to therapists to fix you but we as Christian doesn't that mean you put more trust in people to heal you then Lord Jesus? Sorry for my bad english, the language is not my maternal one

  • @suzieque7691
    @suzieque7691 3 года назад +105

    I’ve been hurting for almost a year. My kids’ father and I broke up last year and it’s been so hard for me to let go. He has moved on already and it hurts but I’m tired of letting this make me a prisoner. I’m afraid that I wouldn’t find a husband but I believe that God will meet me where I am. Please Pray for my heart❤️🙏🏾

    • @makebacunningham6795
      @makebacunningham6795 3 года назад +11

      This too shall pass. I too am going through this too and dear let me tell you it was very hard and devastating however make a daily routine of activities that will fill up your time. You begin to feel weary put on some praise and worship music or a sermon etc write in a journal. These things help me. Praying for you my sister

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 года назад +3

      @@makebacunningham6795 thanks a lot. I know it will get better by the grace of God.

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 года назад +1

      @Dan thanks you so much!! I really appreciate it.

    • @candacecherrel
      @candacecherrel 3 года назад +3

      Same here! Praying ❤

    • @suzieque7691
      @suzieque7691 3 года назад +2

      @@candacecherrel Praying for you as well

  • @cristalroberts9962
    @cristalroberts9962 3 года назад +71

    Needed to hear this as a new believer am so glad to know that god can heal all my pass hurt😭😭🙏🙏

    • @adeyhenrietta343
      @adeyhenrietta343 3 года назад +3

      Yeah he can do more than you could ever ask or think, just in hang in his word all the time and he will work miracles for you. Welcome to the family.

    • @jojocluddy2534
      @jojocluddy2534 3 года назад +1

      Welcome to the family, yes God will do wondrous things in your life if only you allow Him to, if you surrender and trust in Him. God bless you 🙏🏾

    • @NicoleAllwood
      @NicoleAllwood 3 года назад +1

      Yes girl! His provisions (resources,ways and blessings) are truly UNLIMITED far beyond our understanding! He forgives and heals, so continue to trust in Him. Soak in His word and get to know Him intimately. He loves you girl and He’s happy that you want a relationship with Him. God bless you sis!

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +2

      Oh Yes! God is the ultimate healer! 🤗

  • @briannahuser8315
    @briannahuser8315 3 года назад +37

    Loved this, I feel like a small piece of my heart healed just from hearing other women talk openly about the same things I’ve struggled with..

    • @shoot4themoon406
      @shoot4themoon406 3 года назад

      We [all] overcome by the word of [our testimonies].

  • @mendi5
    @mendi5 3 года назад +17

    When one of you cry I also cry... Love you ladies🌼💖♥️. Sending love from South Africa 🇿🇦

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +1

      God bless...South Africa has been huge a supporter of my channel, feel free to check it out for marriage prep! Enjoy!

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 года назад +21

    The timing of this video in my life is insanely appropriate 😭❤️ This feels like a direct response from God to what he knows has been in my heart

  • @wendycassanova
    @wendycassanova 3 года назад +27

    I needed to hear this. I surrender all my relationships to you father and ask that the Holy Spirt will help me to trust others.

  • @princesswarrior2601
    @princesswarrior2601 3 года назад +21

    It is only when we can open up feeling safe and talk about our vulnerabilities , fears , insecurities that we can be set free. It’s like finally exposing the attacks / lies of the enemy and finding the truth in Gods word to set you free.

  • @lauraclark9140
    @lauraclark9140 3 года назад +3

    The men need a show like this.

  • @nicoleday2305
    @nicoleday2305 3 года назад +4

    Marriage isn't to make you Happy, it's to make you Holy!

  • @cookingwithchefgilliang5405
    @cookingwithchefgilliang5405 3 года назад +14

    This is soooo good.. I’m 53 & have been Single for almost 7 yrs.. healing.. therapy.. growth.. to my Purposemate finding me whole & complete in God..🙏🏾👏🏾🙋🏾‍♀️🙌🏾💚

  • @iyanttahowellmd
    @iyanttahowellmd 3 года назад +13

    Thank you to all you ladies for being so transparent! The body of Christ is hungry for conversation like this. Great point about forgiveness being the 1st step in healing.🌟🌟🌟

  • @racheloshaksmusic
    @racheloshaksmusic 3 года назад +7

    I love all these women of God. They are so beautiful and wonderful because of how graceful they speak. They are filled with wisdom. I am still young and learning a lot from them before I get married and even just living life itself. I'm grateful for these positive side of RUclips, talking about REAL and wholesome things.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +2

      Amen! You'll love the advice on my channel if you enjoyed this video it's all marriage prep!

    • @racheloshaksmusic
      @racheloshaksmusic 3 года назад

      @@BecomingIrresistible just checked out some of your recent videos on your channel! Sounds very good. Your point about looking good for men is true but there are so many Christian women who feel otherwise and who find a man that loves them the way they are. So it’s very interesting how this all works.

  • @mandisagumbi3985
    @mandisagumbi3985 3 года назад +6

    "It's the hard stuff that makes the marriage" love this!

  • @believe8754
    @believe8754 3 года назад +29

    Gosh these women 🥺God bless them🙏🏽. Thank you for impacting our lives

  • @user-zs1sh5xy3l
    @user-zs1sh5xy3l 3 года назад +9

    This was so good. I went through a breakup this week that centered around trust issues. Ironically, I ran across this video right after praying. God knew exactly what he was doing. Thanks for tackling this and for the prayer at the end.

  • @MiilyGarcia0119
    @MiilyGarcia0119 3 года назад +4

    I needed this- I’m good for talking and thinking negatively about husband, but this has just conveyed me and re-enforced for me that I need to see my man how God sees Him.

  • @lesedigololo7485
    @lesedigololo7485 3 года назад +7

    'Guard your heart' yep I should have done that with my best guy friend cause now I regret it. So guys please guard your hearts

  • @prycerobertson4695
    @prycerobertson4695 3 года назад +9

    Love your show! It's about time a faith-based show with beautiful women was made. Come to think of it, it's been two years now since your show hit the airwaves. Keep up the good and blessed work!

  • @unique_monique
    @unique_monique 3 года назад +18

    I know it takes a lot of work to bring you all together and makes these, THANK YOU!! It’s so encouraging and I feel like I’m sitting in the room with you

  • @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr
    @NicolaVimbaiTsaha-mh3zr Год назад

    I have been hurt by almost everyone in my family but by listening to your community shows am at a great place now... thank you guys you are God sent

  • @fredajohnson506
    @fredajohnson506 2 года назад +1

    This very good topic for singles because this definitely certain things need seek God for healing before get married because we can ruined a perfect realationship need be healthy heal and whole and then that's when we are ready for marriage Thank all woman's on this panel speaking about their own personal testimony it's encouraging to others.GOD blessed each one of you.

  • @dexpression4423
    @dexpression4423 3 года назад +10

    Great praise discussion God's word spoke by women who are sharing their hurt and sharing that there is healing because God is with you
    I needed to hear this message. God bless you in Jesus name
    Amen

  • @sheisstrongpodcast
    @sheisstrongpodcast Год назад

    i cried when she cried.. praying for us all,

  • @Randi-e3w6y
    @Randi-e3w6y 3 года назад +3

    Thankful for the vulnerability of all of you ladies

  • @palesamasifhi5108
    @palesamasifhi5108 3 года назад +6

    I needed to hear this to acknowledge the hell I’ve created in my own head. Thank you so much for sharing the experiences in your own lives and how you dealt with them and apply the word to your own lives. We feel heard and understood. Your discussions are so relatable and I’m extremely grateful to learn so much from you ladies ❤️

  • @misskat7437
    @misskat7437 3 года назад +8

    So good. Needed to hear all of this. This carries over to so many types of relationships- work, friends, in laws, children, etc. It is a works based type of thinking that many of us fall into when we do "everything right" but the issue is, we all THINK we're right when only God is. As a woman who is prepping for marriage, I really appreciate the transparency of this message, thank you Jesus.

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад

      So true! You'll love my channel it's all about marriage prep for single Christian women, check it out and enjoy! God bless!

  • @jmelindap8195
    @jmelindap8195 3 года назад +9

    thank you for these honest, intimate conversations which will help put other ladies on the path to healing

  • @tequaldunning
    @tequaldunning 3 года назад +7

    I LOVE THIS!! 😭 .. I was just talking to God about me getting married in December & this video hit so many points 🥺

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +1

      Congratulations to you! My channel will give you some great advice before your nuptials, enjoy! 😊

  • @jewishbride5010
    @jewishbride5010 3 года назад +20

    Lord, help me to trust in your spirit to reveal to me which people to allow in my life and inner circle and which one to keep out. In accordance with isaiah 2:22 and this whole message I pray for safe and saved people with whom I can share my life and share memories and experiences. Lord, heal any unhealthy trust issue in my life. In the name and blood of Jesus Christ, amen and hallelujah!

  • @BrightElisha
    @BrightElisha Год назад

    This episode was very powerful..it really hit me what Laurie said about the mind. It truly is a battlefield and can contribute much difficulty to a marriage if gone unchecked.

  • @babiryewinnifred2079
    @babiryewinnifred2079 3 года назад +1

    This is an important conversation. Praying 🙏

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 года назад +8

    This was Sooo Good!!! Thank You Soo Much Better Together!!!💜

  • @chisomo3957
    @chisomo3957 3 года назад +7

    This was very helpful thank you. I was almost throwing in the towel

  • @just_bee9482
    @just_bee9482 3 года назад +24

    she is lucky to have met a mature and whole man. had he's been broken as she was, her mistrust would have send him straight into the hands of another women. That's why the vicious circle of unfaithfulness is never ending when two broken souls meet.

  • @aliceriley1173
    @aliceriley1173 3 года назад +5

    I really love listening to you women of God, sharing your hearts so openly. My heart is truly blessed and inspired. Love y'all❤💕💞🇹🇹

  • @angiemaiapu763
    @angiemaiapu763 3 года назад +2

    This is the most powerful conversation I’ve ever heard. Ladies, you don’t know how much your words are helping me. Thank you so much

  • @sharonthomas9851
    @sharonthomas9851 3 года назад +6

    Thank You ladies for being real.

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 года назад +6

    This is why I'm waiting on God because He knows exactly what we need and the right one for us who can handle our brokenness. But at the sametime I agree with nicole use the singleness to let God help you work on you and when God says the time is right He will bring the one He has for us into our life

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +1

      This is so true you must work on yourself before getting married and I just posted a video today on my channel to explain just one of the many ways women can do that practically. Check it out for more!

    • @oneof7billion627
      @oneof7billion627 2 года назад

      Yesssss 🙌

  • @tintswalomashinini
    @tintswalomashinini 2 года назад +1

    I love this episode. It just dealt with my perspective when it comes to marriage.

  • @CherryJ2911
    @CherryJ2911 7 месяцев назад

    Omg 3 years later this video is so good. Thank You Jesus for leading me here❤

  • @simply_nikisha
    @simply_nikisha Год назад

    Thank you for helping get me together! Better Together

  • @tittervisionxoxoxo4340
    @tittervisionxoxoxo4340 3 года назад +5

    Thanks i really needed this.

  • @glendamorrison5159
    @glendamorrison5159 3 года назад

    Praise God 😍 bonding with men. I'm single and feeling alone. This was and is me.thank you

  • @OwnYourHealthiestLife
    @OwnYourHealthiestLife 2 года назад

    Yessss! Forgiveness is so critically important.

  • @kenyaoneal9098
    @kenyaoneal9098 3 года назад +3

    Out of Love...I Say Yes!!!!...Love this!!!!❤

  • @Zoeys_treasures
    @Zoeys_treasures 3 года назад +4

    This blessed me. Thank you!!!

  • @marciaphillip3555
    @marciaphillip3555 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for these words of healing.

  • @ayeeda7891
    @ayeeda7891 3 года назад +1

    They all look soooo stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @momeetamee007
    @momeetamee007 3 года назад +3

    Sweet. May Heather and her husband treat the folks at pinky promise better as that is also holy ☺️

  • @lawrencebhatti2280
    @lawrencebhatti2280 2 года назад

    Billions of God bless you all.

  • @jacquelinewelch3021
    @jacquelinewelch3021 3 года назад

    Needed that especially that prayer at the end. God Bless my Sistas! God Strength ✝️🙏🏾. Our Hearts ♥️ are Truly Safe with Him 🙌🏾✝️🙏🏾

  • @cynthia2378
    @cynthia2378 3 года назад +2

    This is a beautiful talk.

  • @ursulag24
    @ursulag24 3 года назад +66

    Nugget ~ marriage isn't to make us happy but to make us holy...hmmm, eye opener👍

  • @calvincovington3109
    @calvincovington3109 3 года назад +2

    Wow that was good God be the Glory

  • @Gomlie1970
    @Gomlie1970 3 года назад +3

    God meets us exactly at our need. Trust and intimacy

  • @sheillaatukunda3366
    @sheillaatukunda3366 3 года назад

    Thank you VERY MUCH Beautiful Moms. Women of God. God bless you and your families!

  • @VenetiaRenata
    @VenetiaRenata 3 года назад +1

    So resonate and so inspired Heather 🤍👣✨

  • @myradeunique7635
    @myradeunique7635 3 года назад +1

    This is soooo good! It is a conversation that need to be had. I have some of the same issues mentioned.TRUST! Thank you for this segment!!!

  • @chichis7768
    @chichis7768 3 года назад +3

    Awesome advice, I love it thank you beautiful ladies..😊💕💕💕😘👏

  • @jemmy924
    @jemmy924 3 года назад +2

    Wow! This was amazing😄 Thanks for uploading the whole episode. Received so much from this discussion

  • @nnnnnnnnnataliem
    @nnnnnnnnnataliem 3 года назад +1

    CALLED ME OUT! "What ammunition do you have to fight back with? It can't be RUclips! You got to fight back with the Word" I laughed!! So hard!! Then did one of these 😬
    Love y'all ladies! Blessings in the new year 2022 💖🔥🌹

  • @brucetenhave6952
    @brucetenhave6952 3 года назад

    Thankyou for your prayer at the end 💗

  • @livelife2507
    @livelife2507 3 года назад +1

    Heather Lindsey! Your on fire girl! 🔥

  • @propellingonpurpose5104
    @propellingonpurpose5104 3 года назад +45

    If he doesn’t love Jesus, he’ll never love you the way you need to be loved! Wow!!!

  • @karynjones4110
    @karynjones4110 3 года назад +2

    loved this! thanks for the advice and for sharing

  • @NinjaLeeful
    @NinjaLeeful 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for the best sisterly relationship advise ive ever received ❤

    • @BecomingIrresistible
      @BecomingIrresistible 3 года назад +1

      Praise God, there's more advice on my channel, check it out!

  • @shaniekmontieth2402
    @shaniekmontieth2402 3 года назад +2

    Love this message

  • @machellesparks4575
    @machellesparks4575 3 года назад

    I like the sidebar conversation away from the group, feel like you're talking to me in depth personally, great job!

  • @fiveyearstoforty313
    @fiveyearstoforty313 3 года назад +3

    Such a wonderful conversation 💕💕💕

  • @lolabolaji_
    @lolabolaji_ 3 года назад +1

    I just love this channel! The best!

  • @sylviahorne5525
    @sylviahorne5525 2 года назад

    Thank you Queens 🙏🏼❤🙌🏼👑😘 I appreciate this video ❤ Happy New Year 👑 ❤ 🙌🏼

  • @melanisewilliams7588
    @melanisewilliams7588 3 года назад +1

    Amen this is needed, God has power beyond our craziness their is a real attacks against relationship because their is so much strength in unity and where there is two or three agreeing on anything in the name of Jesus their God will be in the midst

  • @adayinthelight7575
    @adayinthelight7575 3 года назад +30

    Can you pray for me and my marriage? Need help with intimacy. Also, I’m just not confident right now. How do I learn to love myself again?

    • @mildredchelangat2367
      @mildredchelangat2367 3 года назад +3

      All will be well in Jesus’ name, Amen.

    • @godlygirl
      @godlygirl 3 года назад +5

      Hello sister, prayers sent up for you and your marriage!! One way you can learn to love yourself is to meditate on what God says about you!! Pray and ask God to help you see yourself the way God sees you!

    • @ark198989
      @ark198989 3 года назад +1

      JESUS CHRIST LOVES YOU SO MUCH!!! 🤗🌹🙏🙌🏽🕊😇 YAH IS ON THE MOVE!!! 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 ALLELUIA!!! 🕊🕊🕊

    • @demetricole1687
      @demetricole1687 3 года назад +2

      This is so honest and pure ❤️I’m learning too

  • @kelalife
    @kelalife 3 года назад

    love this conversation ladys God is able to do anything when we let him in and let God take control .🙏🏽🙌 💕

  • @go2yourself
    @go2yourself Год назад

    Great conversation 😊

  • @lindajohnson5782
    @lindajohnson5782 3 месяца назад

    This helps me so much

  • @ntebogengmabilo9036
    @ntebogengmabilo9036 3 года назад +1

    I LOVE ALL OF THIS😭🙌🏾❤️

  • @annatevesbanzon1359
    @annatevesbanzon1359 2 года назад

    Great topic ladies!

  • @debraalexander2466
    @debraalexander2466 3 года назад +2

    Thank you and need to hear it a blessed from God

  • @cathyimani5932
    @cathyimani5932 3 года назад

    Amen! Thank you ladies. Healing it is.

  • @AS3132
    @AS3132 3 года назад

    "He may be hot but so is hell."🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣that was so funny but true. Good point. Love the whole conversation me.Awesome Jesus.
    Oh by the way I love how you all can laugh meins. That s beautiful to watch

  • @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257
    @lisaworkoutfaithhopelove2257 3 года назад +1

    Man Nicloe was speaking it💯

  • @esthobi
    @esthobi 3 года назад

    How I love this channel🥺😍😍😍🙏🏾

  • @chantellrenee
    @chantellrenee 3 года назад

    WOW! This was good!

  • @dianewashington505
    @dianewashington505 2 года назад

    Excellent

  • @4ll4nb31l
    @4ll4nb31l 3 года назад +2

    would love to hear the holy spirit tell me i love you so much. great to hear that some people are loved with special care.

  • @gloryjames4855
    @gloryjames4855 3 года назад

    Just in time 🙏

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 года назад

    I appreciate this!

  • @ishakeister2810
    @ishakeister2810 3 года назад

    Love you ladies God bless

  • @racquelrobinson3030
    @racquelrobinson3030 2 года назад

    Godly women coming together to talk about this is something that God delivered to me and I needed

  • @tammyculp7274
    @tammyculp7274 2 года назад

    So good

  • @Rosheazmusic
    @Rosheazmusic 3 года назад +1

    my fears explained ❤️

  • @tracylee383
    @tracylee383 3 года назад +3

    I still discerned the spirit of HURT. It may not be the baggage from the past but church hurt which is called: "MISUNDERSTANDING HURT" #Assumptions ❤🙇🏾‍♀️

    • @yeyamusic
      @yeyamusic 3 года назад

      Some of that healing just takes time and is more gradual

  • @GrowithChelsey
    @GrowithChelsey 3 года назад

    This is so good

  • @Luxfully
    @Luxfully 2 года назад +1

    This is so good. I’m just learning that God wants us to have a relationship with truth. I ask God earlier what did that even mean. How can I be intimate with truth? This is how! When the enemy tries to control us with lying thoughts to respond with truth. God is so prompt with me! Whenever I ask questions🫂

  • @evertars
    @evertars 3 года назад

    Excellent video,

  • @angelrobinson5257
    @angelrobinson5257 3 года назад +2

    I would ❤️ to have a conversation with one of you Ladies!