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  • Опубликовано: 19 янв 2025

Комментарии • 213

  • @Amanandhismotor
    @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад +235

    Massive thanks to Yianni and his team for their hospitallity during my visit. Video came out great, production team were amazing and the whole experience has been overwhelming.
    Thanks Guys. ❤❤

    • @craigbradley1781
      @craigbradley1781 7 месяцев назад +2

      Love it Rob ❤️

    • @timfitzgerald109
      @timfitzgerald109 7 месяцев назад +5

      Big love Bro. Your Brother and your Mum will be so proud of you ❤

    • @MH-yb8re
      @MH-yb8re 7 месяцев назад +6

      Mate you're a legend in your own right and an inspiration to others suffering, you are a top man for what you're doing for your bro, keep up the good work fella 👍🏻

    • @Amanandhismotor
      @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад +2

      @@MH-yb8re cheers mate. Appreciate that comment ❤️

    • @Cathy84
      @Cathy84 7 месяцев назад +2

      In your storm, you’re building shelter for others. Well done!! I pray that this brings peace to you also and that you continue to be a beacon for the lost. God bless you.

  • @Andyschannel-ph9sw
    @Andyschannel-ph9sw 7 месяцев назад +123

    I lost my dear brother in 1972, he was only nineteen, I have never got over it and now I'm sixty five. All the very best to that young man, I hope you have a good future. André

    • @ACG_Sandwich
      @ACG_Sandwich 7 месяцев назад +1

      I have now subscribed to you Andy

    • @samconroyy
      @samconroyy 7 месяцев назад

      Sorry to hear Andy, I'm glad he lives on and you still think about him.

    • @MarniTurboHoarder
      @MarniTurboHoarder 6 месяцев назад

      Sorry to hear Andy 😢

  • @minigrande1939
    @minigrande1939 3 месяца назад +1

    Huge respect for using your platform to promote a health issue.
    This guy lost his mother and brother due to tragedy.To do what he has is nothing short or magnificent.Huge respect

  • @xandor007
    @xandor007 7 месяцев назад +163

    I lost my brother a year ago, to a cancer. It never gets easier. You just got to keep your head up. 💪💪

  • @adot7867
    @adot7867 7 месяцев назад +97

    We need more people like Rob 🙏🏼

  • @amithalai
    @amithalai 7 месяцев назад +18

    I’m a facilitator at Andy’s Man Club in London and I’ve seen the positive impact the non-judgemental peer-to-peer support has on men who walk through the doors on a Monday evening. Always remember, there’s no shame in feeling vulnerable, scared, emotional or afraid, after all we’re all human.
    #itsokaytotalk #itsokaynottobeokay #mensmentalhealthmatters

    • @ODD_NUT
      @ODD_NUT 7 месяцев назад

      Ditto, im a facilitator in woking!

  • @r4ydaa
    @r4ydaa 7 месяцев назад +50

    Respect to you for actually listening to the man. Deserved a sub 👍

  • @marklivingstone3121
    @marklivingstone3121 7 месяцев назад +34

    Imagine how many people are now going to Andy’s club. Fair play boys this is absolutely brilliant Rob is a geeza.

    • @ODD_NUT
      @ODD_NUT 7 месяцев назад

      Currently we have just under 5000 blokes attend every monday!

  • @phil251170
    @phil251170 7 месяцев назад +15

    Big up to you Rob. It takes a man to open up and share his vulnerabilities. It's a powerful feeling to have that release. Good luck to you.

  • @bjfikky
    @bjfikky 7 месяцев назад +32

    Rest in Peace Mike. May memories of you live forever.

  • @fe9143
    @fe9143 7 месяцев назад +48

    A quote by Brene Brown comes to mind
    "There is no courage without vulnerability. Vulnerability is not weakness. It's the ability to show up and be seen. It's the ability to be brave when you can not control the outcome".
    I've been in those dark places, teetering on the edge of the abyss. After years of suppressing it, in the end, it nearly cost me my life.
    So a message to all the men out there who are struggling, you are loved. Be brave. Talk about how you are feeling. Fight the stigma, my brothers 👊🏽

  • @bmmcgregor3
    @bmmcgregor3 7 месяцев назад +22

    If somebody isnt a Yianni fan this video is all they need to see. too real brother.

  • @SmithBeatZ1
    @SmithBeatZ1 7 месяцев назад +8

    I like this guy and his story. Kudos to Yianny for giving this guy a place to tell his story.

  • @thatcarladmatt
    @thatcarladmatt 7 месяцев назад +15

    Great message to people. It’s okay to talk.

  • @sicr7373
    @sicr7373 7 месяцев назад +6

    I'm a 60 year old man, I have no living relatives left, I have a loving partner and I love her so much..but...I have attempted to end myself twice now, depression is a terrible terrible illness and it's great to see that it, and mental health in general is being regonised more now as a serious illness, my heart goes out to anyone currently struggling, no matter who you are I hope you progress and come out the other side because you DESERVE TO and you DESERVE TO BE HAPPY!....Peace and love to you.

  • @brunothefudge
    @brunothefudge 7 месяцев назад +6

    I have been on the edge so many times and sometimes I have gotten saved in the last second. Pills doesn’t help long term, you need to be around people who will let you be you without any judgement.
    This needs to be talked about more so we don’t loose so many people to this.

  • @Twistandgouk
    @Twistandgouk 7 месяцев назад +1

    Deepest respect goes to this man and his family, god.bless them all, RIP to the brother lifes so hard

  • @foerstuhh
    @foerstuhh 7 месяцев назад +13

    this is beatuful. touched me differently. I'm from Toronto Canada and my dad took his own life last September. I appreciate this video and the movement a lot. big ups

  • @daveharrisonjnr
    @daveharrisonjnr 7 месяцев назад +10

    Losing a loved one is one of life's most profound challenges. The pain can feel overwhelming, and it's natural to want to retreat into yourself. However, it's crucial to remember that you don't have to navigate this journey alone. Talking about your loss, sharing your feelings, and expressing your grief can be a powerful step towards healing. By opening up, you allow others to support you, offering comfort and understanding. Bottling up your emotions can create a heavy burden, but sharing your story can lighten the load and help you find peace. Your feelings are valid, and your journey through grief is unique-embrace it, speak about it, and let the healing begin.

  • @Saint_MUFC
    @Saint_MUFC 7 месяцев назад +2

    Ultimate respect to how you handled this situation Yianni, your empathy and understanding really showed. Shout-out to Rob and Ok 2 Talk

  • @bmmcgregor3
    @bmmcgregor3 7 месяцев назад +18

    big ups to both you guys for talking about this. fair play. ive been through this in a minimal way compared to this and you dont realize what you have been going through till its been awhile and thats whats scary.

  • @phil-5979
    @phil-5979 7 месяцев назад +7

    Such an impactful message and tribute. Props to Rob and Yianni

  • @ancientsounds6989
    @ancientsounds6989 5 месяцев назад +1

    Lost my dad to suicide last year Jan . One thing is it’s okay 2 talk…Two thing is it’s okay 2 listen . Takes a listening ear to show personal interest without people caring about you knowing there is One who cares .

  • @NoMoreFnGames
    @NoMoreFnGames 7 месяцев назад +1

    He nearly got me when he said he hadnt been a good enough brother
    Dont blame yourself bro

  • @ralphkbauer
    @ralphkbauer 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you that you show us the world aside from fun, show and shine.

  • @aarontaylor2815
    @aarontaylor2815 7 месяцев назад +2

    I lost my baby girl at birth 3 years ago tomorrow. I've gone to counselling and they told me about Andy's man club, but haven't gone yet. Your brother lives on through his car. So happy that you got it back and you've done something worth while with it, I think he's looking down on you and the car feeling proud you got it back

  • @ChrisRoughley-do1rs
    @ChrisRoughley-do1rs 7 месяцев назад +4

    So glad that you talked about depression meds. I struggled for years on the meds, feeling like I was behind a glass wall... Seeing the world but not feeling it before I snapped and broke down. Would never recommend them to anyone. Hope anyone who is in pain gets help! It's ok to talk, it really is ❤

  • @markchinery387
    @markchinery387 7 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome video on a really important subject. A great initiative to try to get people the help they need. You have done your brother’s memory proud and I’m sure you have helped save others. Life is hard, let’s all be more kind.

  • @JamesWood-ni4ji
    @JamesWood-ni4ji 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing what a good gesture this is for both your brother and AMC.
    I started AMC in feb this year and it’s the one place that’s really helped me. Well done Rob ❤

  • @LUNATICCOWBOY
    @LUNATICCOWBOY 7 месяцев назад +5

    This has to be one of the best videos I have seen this year. Big up Rob and Yianni. #ANYSMANCLUB #ITSOKAYTOTALK

  • @stevenkerry3101
    @stevenkerry3101 7 месяцев назад +5

    great for you to do this video Yianni and to help make people aware of mental health issues regarding suicided it is a very real issue and needs talking about my condolences to Rob and his family

  • @MikeSlater226
    @MikeSlater226 7 месяцев назад +1

    The car is amazing!!!! I lost my dad to cancer and it’s horrible 😢 RIP Mike and his mum 💙 Keep going Rob you’re doing him and the car scene proud 💙

  • @cot998
    @cot998 7 месяцев назад +1

    Never been in tears watching a youtube video. I been here and it really hits home.

  • @tylerm9902
    @tylerm9902 7 месяцев назад +2

    Powerful video - what a story too. Good on you Rob and Yianni.

  • @Andy-uf8jq
    @Andy-uf8jq 7 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video, thank you Yianni for giving Rob a platform to spread awareness and open up conversations. The car is a great memorial to Mike.

  • @itsjoel
    @itsjoel 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks for putting this on your platform!

  • @jeffwilton-love
    @jeffwilton-love 7 месяцев назад +1

    This had a lump in my throat all the way through. It resonates with me more than I can say.
    Credit to Rob and Yanni for being the perfect host. I love this channel. This just made me love it more even if it did make me want to cry.

  • @megregs7
    @megregs7 7 месяцев назад +1

    Hi yanni and every other person out there..... thankyou so much for this video, I've really connected with this content.... I'm currently in AA, CA, and NA.... I'm a father of 5, and I'm mid 50's.... I've been to more funerals, than I have weddings ans christenings.... all through male addiction and depression, this is a real subject... alcohol drugs depression all go hand in hand... please guys speak out and get some help.... like they say.... its OK to talk.... God bless....

  • @billykeirnan7727
    @billykeirnan7727 7 месяцев назад +10

    You’ve opened up some eyes

  • @davidnewnham6885
    @davidnewnham6885 2 месяца назад +1

    Such a inspiring story rob as a car fan I think you should come to the isle of wight takeover next year with the golf

  • @kalumwilliams4688
    @kalumwilliams4688 7 месяцев назад +2

    What a guy, to stand there so strong and sharing his awful story, but I think you for sharing it with us. And I really hope this video helps one person. It's definitely changed my thoughts on a few things

  • @ZingZingNZ
    @ZingZingNZ 7 месяцев назад +1

    Doing what a man speaks. Deserves the world.

  • @S1M936
    @S1M936 7 месяцев назад +2

    Thanks for this video it really helped me as I’m dealing with the same circumstances 4 weeks in.. you are very inspirational rob thanks for pushing out this important message

  • @bharathalai2238
    @bharathalai2238 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thank you - such a fantastic cause 🙏

  • @ljk5573
    @ljk5573 7 месяцев назад +1

    Rob.. you’re a legend!! Keep doing what you’re doing! it is helping others!! Your brother will be proud..

  • @marcramps666
    @marcramps666 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video… can’t believe you’ve had hate and negative comments… onwards & upwards fella… I tell myself that everyday!

  • @keneason775
    @keneason775 7 месяцев назад +9

    This message was great!

  • @liamrochford3649
    @liamrochford3649 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video on a sensitive subject, fair play to Rob on the way he pays tribute to his brother and to Yanni for being a gent with the whole thing. Keep it up guys and greetings from Ireland 🇮🇪.

  • @dannytrueman7204
    @dannytrueman7204 7 месяцев назад +1

    Shame on you whoever is giving this man negative comments. Go and take a good look at your life. Great video, guys!

  • @MayorSom
    @MayorSom 7 месяцев назад +1

    BLESS UP!

  • @evdokios
    @evdokios 7 месяцев назад +1

    I lost my mother 28 years ago she was 51, also lost my brother 16 years ago he was 41 it gets easier over time but only because you learn to live with it you will never be the same but you live with it in your own way, you can talk about it over time in my case i get teared up speaking about it to this day as we were a very close greek family, i seem to find it easier with other people in similar situations as i find the communication seems to be on a similar level if that makes sense. Life is full of hurdles but what can we do apart from try and pick ourselfes up and carry on for the sake of other loved ones around us. Keep up the great work mate people like you are needed out there 👍

  • @colinwebb397
    @colinwebb397 7 месяцев назад +1

    Just respect to tell such a tough subject story…. Guys… It’s ok to talk…

  • @lvzmyvidz
    @lvzmyvidz 7 месяцев назад +2

    Yianni, definitely new levels of respect for you on this “real-life” video! 🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @TINYPINHEAD
    @TINYPINHEAD 7 месяцев назад +2

    Respect to you, sir. Your brother would be very proud. And you Yannie as always.

  • @RichsRides
    @RichsRides 7 месяцев назад +1

    Absolutely Love AMC. It's Okay To Talk lads. My Monday evenings 7 - 9 are now for Andy's Man Club and the great group of lads I meet every week, they've helped pull me out so much. There's over 200 clubs nationwide, it's free and there's tea/coffee and biscuits. Don't suffer in silence. #ITSOKAYTOTALK

  • @myYouTubechannel123
    @myYouTubechannel123 7 месяцев назад +1

    Thanks yianni, good stuff to promote this type of content for awareness

  • @COUPEDUMMY
    @COUPEDUMMY 7 месяцев назад

    Thank you both for being an advocate for this subject. More influencers should share these messages as as you say, if one life is saved it should be considered a success.

  • @TVSOUNDSYSTEM
    @TVSOUNDSYSTEM 7 месяцев назад

    I lost my Nan just over 3yrs ago and she was my best friend. Struggling now with so many emotions but I try and take each day as it comes. Really appreciate this form of content

  • @romzislot
    @romzislot 7 месяцев назад +1

    Respect to this guy 👌🙌

  • @DaDa-David
    @DaDa-David 7 месяцев назад +1

    Well donw this flla and Yianni!!! - Im 51 struggled with depression and PTSD since 2000 approx. Very positive at this help x :-)

  • @rupertm2542
    @rupertm2542 7 месяцев назад +1

    Rate this! Rate him even more, just shows what putting your heart in to can achieve. That car is credit to him! The fact he ruined those clowns at GVE is just another feather in his cap!

  • @michaelbond1839
    @michaelbond1839 7 месяцев назад +2

    Fair play to you, Rob ❤

  • @n16665
    @n16665 7 месяцев назад +1

    6 yaer ago my marriage fall apart and I tryed to end all but the thing that stop me from going through whit was thing of my kids..
    But every may it is the worst time for me.
    I find it hard chat to anyone about it and not been about to contact whit people or strangers about my problems but I know I'm not the only person who going through a tuff time that men aswell as wemen who are suffering whit depression and thing of ended the lot. But you have to think about who your leaving behind..
    It just passing the parcel.
    We all have to get read of the stigma of not being able. We're all here for the one ride on this rock. Love 4 one another

  • @davidsmith92
    @davidsmith92 7 месяцев назад

    Total respect 🙏
    Such a nice guy, your brothers memory lives on bro.

  • @mandm.444
    @mandm.444 7 месяцев назад

    You're doing a great thing and your brother's memory he lives on with you I had a cousin that took his life it's hard . Keep it up

  • @Dalbayob69
    @Dalbayob69 7 месяцев назад

    I’ve been to Andy’s man club meetings myself when I struggled after an injury that left me disabled and unable to work. And you’re right about the medication, I even messaged you about it at the time, didn’t do any good to me, just made me more depressed.

  • @mitch4749
    @mitch4749 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great content this!
    I actually really liked this one tbh it meant something personal and that’s what it’s about 👌🏾💯 sharing things as each one teach one really does work at times. More luv and power to your guest may the lord bless him n his family w strength to continue in life and get stronger 🤲🏾 as always bless up Yan and the team 👊🏾

  • @jeremythompson3953
    @jeremythompson3953 7 месяцев назад +2

    Great video with a great message. Thank you.

  • @RAGNAAAA
    @RAGNAAAA 7 месяцев назад +2

    What a great lad!!! Honestly Rob. You are a great lad!!!

    • @Amanandhismotor
      @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад

      Appreciate that ❤

    • @RAGNAAAA
      @RAGNAAAA 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Amanandhismotor is this you bro?

    • @Amanandhismotor
      @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад

      @@RAGNAAAA yes mate, that is me 😃

    • @RAGNAAAA
      @RAGNAAAA 7 месяцев назад

      @@Amanandhismotor mate I loved this discussion. Is there a way I can donate to a charity of your choice please x

  • @Djceejofficial
    @Djceejofficial 7 месяцев назад +1

    Amazing guy! Massive respect to you all involved 👊🏼

  • @peterlloyd6337
    @peterlloyd6337 7 месяцев назад +1

    Priceless - helping others - thank you🥰

  • @JakeP-bb5hh
    @JakeP-bb5hh 7 месяцев назад

    Bless him, brilliant guy he is and great video Yianni. Love this side of you.

  • @RastaShark.
    @RastaShark. 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video.
    Big respect to Rob, this is a hard subject and you do it with such grace, keep up the good work, Mike would be proud 👊🏼
    Yanni, your sincerity shows just what a good man you are, big respect to all of you 👊🏼

  • @stevecarter5084
    @stevecarter5084 7 месяцев назад +1

    Brilliant video, what a great message to keep going through the car and wrap… keep the word moving forward 👍

  • @timfitzgerald109
    @timfitzgerald109 7 месяцев назад

    Big love to you Rob ,and also Yianni for bringing this to the people. Be kind, listen and reach out if you need help as we go through some dark times, as that is unfortunately all part of life's journey.

  • @colinchalmers8012
    @colinchalmers8012 7 месяцев назад +1

    "Just be nice" well said

  • @SabaTong
    @SabaTong 7 месяцев назад +1

    Awesome & educative video

  • @golf2430
    @golf2430 7 месяцев назад +1

    Great video. Love rate my wrap and the discussion was even better. Well done 👏

  • @paulhutt9621
    @paulhutt9621 7 месяцев назад +1

    Guys, please reach out and talk to someone, a friend or anyone, there is help out there don't feel you are weak and useless, sh*t happens sometimes and it can feel the whole world is against you but you're not alone don't bottle it up or turn to that crutch to cope, drink drugs etc, it's only a short term fix. Thanks for this video and as said "It's OK to talk" 🤗

  • @bazza4795
    @bazza4795 7 месяцев назад +2

    Potentially your best video ever yanni ❤

  • @nokneedownian8521
    @nokneedownian8521 7 месяцев назад

    Great tribute to your brother i hope the car lives on forever

  • @jordymartin97
    @jordymartin97 7 месяцев назад +1

    Respect rob, what a good bloke you are 👍

  • @insta19
    @insta19 7 месяцев назад

    I typed to you a couple of weeks ago Yianni. You typed back and gave me advice, life is not better today but its getting there

  • @neilcarroll7379
    @neilcarroll7379 7 месяцев назад

    It's a cruel world we live in! Great video!! Total eye opener!! ❤ To all!!

  • @chrisbirchall691
    @chrisbirchall691 7 месяцев назад +1

    Love your car, Rob yianni Thanks for Bring the series back I thought you was a bit harsh on the score on rob car

  • @cjtight-linesn.t2604
    @cjtight-linesn.t2604 7 месяцев назад +1

    Myself I feel your pain the loss of a mum and brother is enough to make a man go left . But you geezer are a true inspiration fact. They both like us are so proud of what you have become and stand for . 3 year's ago my wife and I had to give birth to are son stillborn due to hospital fault now this it's ok to talk could be the something we have been looking for as it's a struggle . I went to the lake put a rope on a branch round my neck jumped and the branch snapped . That told me I need help . Sorry mad love Cee-Jay 🙏💙

    • @Amanandhismotor
      @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад +1

      Stay strong, there is light even in the darkest of places brother ❤

    • @cjtight-linesn.t2604
      @cjtight-linesn.t2604 7 месяцев назад

      @@Amanandhismotor I need to see this light not only for me but for my wife and three other kids that want and need the truth to why. Every day is a struggle believe me and the pain and to see the effect it's got on my family. Sorry to burden you or anyone with this sorry

  • @islamdrai2553
    @islamdrai2553 7 месяцев назад

    Imagine if we have more people like those two . The world will be a better place ❤

  • @debbiemcguire7925
    @debbiemcguire7925 7 месяцев назад +2

    Welldone for giving this guy airtime to get his message across👏🏼also lucky him getting a run in the revuelto😁

    • @Amanandhismotor
      @Amanandhismotor 7 месяцев назад +1

      Humbled to go out in Yiannis new toy. That car should come with a warning label! 😂❤

    • @debbiemcguire7925
      @debbiemcguire7925 7 месяцев назад +1

      @@Amanandhismotor bet it was some experience tho😎

  • @laurencemoore5737
    @laurencemoore5737 7 месяцев назад +1

    Yan - could be a good thing to get more involved in. Sort the materials and get Rob in to wrap in the studio. Another video to spread the word. This video has clearly reached a much wider audience.

  • @Dayswithryan
    @Dayswithryan 7 месяцев назад

    Ignore anyone who dishes out the negativity, they clearly don’t understand. The car community is a group of people who want to express their work and talk, you can meet so many people!

  • @joshfrance1428
    @joshfrance1428 7 месяцев назад +1

    really hard to watch but wow what a great guy to do this for his brother. he would be proud of u fella. #itsoktonotbeok

  • @romzislot
    @romzislot 7 месяцев назад +2

    We all should sub to this guy channel

  • @paultaylor8027
    @paultaylor8027 7 месяцев назад

    True hero ❤

  • @GShockWatchFan.
    @GShockWatchFan. 7 месяцев назад

    Good bless you and your late mum, brother

  • @btc1337
    @btc1337 7 месяцев назад +1

    hope the fella all the best

  • @Elsz247
    @Elsz247 7 месяцев назад

    Lost my dad to suicide near the end of 2022 and I still haven’t cried or “grieved” yet… But after hearing it took 6 years for you to start grieving I should be alright👊🏾👊🏾👊🏾

  • @Walkwithmejohn
    @Walkwithmejohn 7 месяцев назад

    Fair play big respect to you all

  • @petrospetrospetrospetros
    @petrospetrospetrospetros 7 месяцев назад +1

    Regards from Cyprus 🇨🇾

  • @racarpartscare8567
    @racarpartscare8567 7 месяцев назад

    You should promote more him , as he's always at the British Motor Show in Farnborough! I know you do help Sunshine...
    Thank you! I know Rob , from BMS Farnborough..

  • @danofficial117
    @danofficial117 7 месяцев назад

    Sorry for your loss but Iv been through some shit and had the same thoughts ,, but would never leave the kids behind