Gabor is so freaking wise and gentle and humble. I just adore him. And I love his willingness to call himself out. He also brings out a very regulated, gentle energy in Joe
@@ArT-fm6wnJust my thoughts ...Gabor is so soft spoken and such a genuinely compassionate and honest soul that he probably brings out that side in many people. Looks like Joe also is mirroring him to a certain extent like he does with various guests of numerous types of personalities which I think he does fairly often to make the guest and himself feel more at ease.
I met him once at the beginning of my addiction 13 years ago at On-site Rehab on East Hastings. He visited there regularly. I had read his book “In the realm of hungry ghosts”, and was fascinated with his approach to addiction psychology. He was very kind and understanding, and it helped me be kind to myself. 3 years sober now after doing ketamine therapy for my ptsd. Really cool to see him on here.
@@funhole26 Yeah, this was in Vancouver. I had my ketamine therapy done on the island in Nanaimo though through a program called Roots to Thrive. Really great people. It's expensive, and they had funding available for people at the time a few years ago. I sent them a simple email explaining my situation at the time. They have similar clinics in Vancouver too!
@@funhole26 I had the ketamine therapy done in Nanaimo through a society called Roots To Thrive. They have a website if anyones interested in knowing more.
Thank you for bringing Dr. Gabor Mate on your show! He is a gift to humanity. I have learned so much from him regarding the trauma in my life and I am on the road to recovery.
My pop can see beyond the eyes can see! And understand beyond others can understand. Can pin point! Who love unconditional LOVE? My pop will say, my SON have fed and walked among us! And visited all universities and wise and scribes of this world! Have blessed as intended! Humility
Keep in mind that Gabor Mate is a holocaust survivor who has been speaking against Israel crimes against innocent indigenous Palestinians for many years after his rejection of Zionism and ideology of Zionism. He is a man of integrity and honor.
And a Zionist whos speaking about Savage Hamas who are below humane, those you discredit correct?. Or those who CONDEMN THE SAVAGE MURDEROUS HAMAS AND ARAB IDEEOLOGY? INTIFADA? THOSE ARE ALL GOOD YES? I can go on about Arabs and who they truly are but wont matter because I'm a ZIONIST.
I was adopted and my biological mother carried me at age 16 in a home for pregnant teens. My mother who raised me was probably taught all of that conventional wisdom of the 80s. My parents were not good at accepting my emotions and I was dismissed as “too sensitive,” when in reality I was probably needing more nurturing than the average child having been born into a stressful situation and taken away from my biological mother. I have struggled with autoimmune issues and other mysterious health problems for the past 10 or so years. Gabor has helped me to understand how and why so that I can take the necessary steps to nurture my body and mind. He has allowed me to understand the science so I don’t go mad with frustration and he has helped me to be my own gentle and nurturing parent when I need one. Everything he says makes sense and the information he is sharing is invaluable.
I am so glad I never listen to anyone about how to be a parent.Both my babies stayed with me in my arms always and even slept with me till they chose to sleep alone.Both are amazing,smart,thoughtful and have a greater amount of common sense even more so than me.
My mom always gave me love and wouldn't think of leaving me alone when I was upset about something. I've met many challenges in life with confidence as a result. There's no question about it.
I listened to this at release years ago, and since then I've started reading his book, it's been such a wealth of information it's almost overwhelming at times. But it's so, so worth it.
Joe should have this man again in the near future, so much practical knowledge and experience on trauma and addiction which are 2 biggest issues of our society today
Gabor Mate wrote a book on drug addiction which was the BEST most realistic book I've ever read on addiction and addicts- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts (even the title is cool) It's all true and his suggested solutions WORK! Thank you Dr. Mate for your life's work❤🎉
Yea, I agree. It appears Joe is dealing with trauma. It is do education to watch where his explanation wander, as avoids that human connection Gabor is explaining... I have watched endless hours on this subject. Because of where Joe is, this is ckesrestcexsme of how deeply and completely trauma files our identity with protective strategies to avoid...
This is one of the most important conversations Rogan has had to date. We cannot build a healthier society until more people become trauma-informed and able to examine our experience not just through an individual, but through a systemic, lens. In the words of Krishnamurti, "It is no great measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society." I also strongly recommend the extraordinary journalistic work of Dr. Mate's son Aaron with his partner Max Blumenthal over at The Grayzone.
100% what he says. My mom claims i was "colicky" and always needed to be held as a baby, so they remedied that by putting me in a walker or ignoring me so id cry alone. Carried into my childhood, when any display of upset or anger made me forced into a room by myself til i was "normal" The generational trauma stops with me. My daughter has my acceptance, unconditionally
My father was beaten black and blue by his father. He laid a hand on me once (and I most definitely deserved it) and brought me up on his own (mum passed when i was 10) and did his best for me. Absolute fukun hero. I tried to carry on his positive cycle but when outside pressures are tough it's hard. I now see my eldest daughter with my grandson. We see the fruits of our labours. (If we're lucky).
Dr. Gabor is a jewel to humanity!! With just some of this advice he has saved and rescued many people from trouble and given others hope. That is all they need hope and just believe in his message!! If you know anyone with trauma and mental issues send them this video please!!
Amazing interview. Gabor has been such a huge help in helping me heal. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis at 13 years old (that was after a childhood filled with other major illnesses), and fell into major drug and alcohol addiction shortly thereafter. I didn’t know it at the time, but the abusive and very neglectful household I grew up in contributed greatly, and now that I am focused on healing the internal aspect of myself, honouring what I’ve been through, lowering stress and being authentic (among good nutrition and exercise) I am finally starting to heal. I’m now 30 years old and 60 days off of drugs and alcohol, which hasn’t been easy but it’s been oh so worth it. My health is still day to day, and I barely recognize myself at times, but I can feel a new chapter beginning, and healing taking place. This man is so special, and his book is life changing.
@@anonscot89 In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts was Mate's seminal work on individual addiction. The Myth of Normal is about how we live in a fundamentally traumatized and addicted society. And Scattered Minds is about the relationship between ADHD (and other neurodivergent conditions) and trauma. You can't go wrong with any of them. Hope that helps!
I love how Joe asks questions with his guest. This was my absolute favorite podcast I have heard on the Joe Rogan’s Experience. And Dr. Garbor Mate is such an intelligent and wonderful human, I loved his work in his book The Myth of Normal.
“ I’m happy to be here thank you 😑” lmao no emotion when saying that. I love this dude I’ve heard some of his videos and his perspective on life is great.
1:20:31 This is exactly me. I was clinically diagnosed at a young age with ADHD and I used to climb trees, building, mountains with no safety ropes. I still do this now as a cyclist; running red lights and weaving through traffic because I never feel more present in my life when I'm in serious danger. I Summited capital peak in Colorado and on the way there, there is a class 4 mile long ridgeline with a tone of exposure, and along this way, there is a section called the knifes edge. 1,000 foot drop on both sides. Most people shimmy across on there butt. I walked the knifes edge and I never felt more present and calm in my hole life. This seeking of dopamine effected me in many other areas of my life creating serious disfunction, and is exactly how Dr. Gabor Mate describes.
Respect to you. I guess it's better to seek dopamine through sports, even if taken to the knife's edge ;), rather than street drugs. Not trying to diminish your struggles - I know about those myself. I've got the gift of seeing beauty in a human being's uniqueness and appreciating it. You are KINTSUGI, I feel you
@@innuendo4469 I get you. My dad was absent and self medicated his ADHD with alcohol and meth. I feel lucky I never took it any farther then Alcohol, weed and codeine; even if the damage was plenty.
@@Blue-Spiritit’s scary how similar methamphetamine is to ADHD meds, dextroamphetamine (adderall), lisdexamfetamine (vyvanse). Let’s just keep giving children meth!! 🎉
@@Blue-Spirit If you managed to quit codeine, even more respect to you..... Alcohol was never my thing, but other things have done the damage. Too young to be aware, or maybe one cannot be aware until they experience this or that on their own skin. You are free, please remember that on doubtful days. You've changed autodestructive habits for amazing ones. There is no 100% perfect. "I heard" ;) we have the perfectionist and the "right thing to do" gene more active than the average Joe. It is pain in the a**, isn't it? But I am proud of my high morale, although it would be nice to feel the bliss of ignorance from time to time ;)
As a 73 year old I can so relate with Dr. Mate's upbringing and message. Joe, this may be one of the most important podcasts you've ever given us. Thanks and Kudos !
This is one of the most important conversations Rogan has had to date. We cannot build a healthier society until more people become trauma-informed and able to examine our experience not just through an individual, but through a systemic, lens. In the words of Krishnamurti, "It is no great measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society." I also strongly recommend the extraordinary journalistic work of Dr. Mate's son Aaron with his partner Max Blumenthal over at The Grayzone.
Gabor's work helped me greatly to understand the modern world. I found him at the right moment when I was a new mother with my first daughter...I can't thank him enough for what he's done for my life.
I got to know of Gabor Mate through this episode. My favorite of all time. I remember listening without breaks and thinking "this makes total sense, how could I have not heard this line of thinking before?" I was super emotional listening to Gabor Mate wisdom since I could relate to a lot of what he was talking about and I've been a huge fan of him ever since.
Thank you Jo Rogan. This is the first one of your shows I have ever listened to because of my own prejudice. Thankyou for hosting Gabor Mate and Thankyou for your Sensitivity, intelligence care and authentic presentation. It’s a really grown up wonderful conversation and it’s wonderful that it’s two men conversing. As a trauma therapist with over 35 years experience in treating child sexual abuse, domestic violence and adult mental health I feel so hopeful that you are doing these kinds of podcasts.
So awesome to hear two men from different spheres of life get down and be so humbled by the conversation. More men need to understand it's ok to be vulnerable, in fact, it's primary for our survival.
Joe, thank you for this valuable interview. Gabor has helped so many of us. It is a joy to listen to this interview. You gave him space to share, and I know your listeners got a lot out of this! Thanks for all of the valuable content you bring us, Joe!
Thank you for posting this, so important. Gabor has such a great way of creating understanding. I enjoyed seeing the tenderness in Joe too, in his questioning.
Gabor is a specialist on ADHD. His book Scattered written in the late 1990s is as relevant today as ever. He helped me to reframe where it started with me. Genius!
How is it possible for this to have less than 10k views after 5+ days? JRE has 17 million subscribers. You'd think that at least 100k people would have clicked this by now
Joe is posting on RUclips some of the videos of interviews he did when he was exclusively on Spotify. They are not getting many views because people have already watched or listened to them.
Didn't know who Gabor Mate was until my mom introduced me to him and we watched this entire interview together. He seems like such a kind, insightful guy.
It's crazy this has so little views. More people need to listen to Gabor Mate and his perspective on the state of our society and the roots of trauma and addiction. He has inspired me, apart from my own personal history and upbringing, to be that force of change in my community in an unconditionally compassionate, mindful and loving manner.
I wish I could respect The doctor more. He catered to all the Pro-Hamas students occupying the grounds of UBC. He falsely sees the Palestinians, not the Israelis as the ultimate victims since October 7th, 2023. Incomprehensible. So shocking.
@@lisbetsoda4874 No one is Pro-Hamas. I'm an orthodox Jew and I support Palestine. The State of Israel is antithetical to the Jewish face and goes against the will of God, as all Jews are to live in exile until the 2nd coming of the Messiah. Zionists took advantage of the fear in the hearts and souls of the Jewish people following WW2 to create their own political kingdom where the religion of Judaism comes 2nd to their own power. Palestine is simply a victim of delusional Zionist leaders who continously use the name of the Jewish faith to justify their atrocities against innocents. All Orthodox Jews, as far as I'm aware, are against the State of Israel and support Palestines sovereignty.
@@lisbetsoda4874he's not pro-Hamas, he's pro-humanity - I believe I've heard him say exactly those words. He has explained his standpoint in many different talks and interviews that you can listen to online.
I used to lead the sessions with Ibogain at the Addiction Clinic in Serbia, as psychologist. I saw the great job it has done with all the people with substance use disorder. However one should be careful and people should pass certain psychological tests to make sure they are safe to undergo this treatment.
I always said, “There’s two types of people in life both of them get slapped up and what one does to feel better is he slaps everybody else up and what the other person does to feel better is makes sure that everyone else is not getting slapped up”. Gabor is the 2nd example. 💪🏽It’s easy to hurt ppl when you’ve been hurt, in fact, you most likely look forward to hurting someone else. What’s not east it to get hurt, and not hurt everyone else.
In my native Mongolian culture moms usually brag about how long they breast fed their infants. This one only let go because he had to go to school. We grew up with the whole set of family and played with our cousins under the care of extended family and neighbors. I was very shocked on how my friends raising their kids in the states. Very cruel.
These conversations are so important. This is why I prefer to spend my free time listening to podcasts and getting educated intellectually and emotionally rather than dumb myself down with television. So informative, so important, so beautiful. So much respect for those putting more light into the world and how to make it a better place by making us better humans.
& they still blame the victims. How about instead of ostracizing lonely black sheep's of the family, etc people that don't fit in-- Make gift giving check-in celebrations with them? People getting married don't need more help, they have plenty going for them if they can afford to get married & have a partner lol, not to say it is a one size fits all way to find happiness. Some of us need to stay wild and not gamble what sanity we have left on a stranger, humans are known to be unstable and demanding
I wish I had someone like Maté in my family, he seems like such a fountain of warmth and empathy - a safe place where one might retreat when feeling overwhelmed. As a Muslim revert I was so touched when he spoke of leaving Zionism; he evidently desired a homeland but purged this yearning for the sake of the Palestinian people when he realised it was at their expense - there will always be a special place in my heart for him because of that. May Allah guide him. ♥️
He should interview Dr. Jon Connelly, the developer of Rapid Resolution Therapy, his way looking at things are mind blowing! His book is Grief is not Sacred.🎯💯 Amazing getting trauma clear🙏🏽
Thank goodness for people like these two men living on earth at the same time as I am and for the power and the clarity and value of what they offer. Thank you for letting me listen in on this brilliant conversation.
Joe Rogan you keep getting better & better! As you grow...& share your evolving interests....this level of content is so relevant & such high quality! Youre podcast is truly cutting edge
Pop Gabor thank you for attending unto our OWN. To visit to have sincere conversations with thy Host Joe and to visit to ministered to comfort the COMFORTER. Gratitude and Honor pop Gabor! Joe Gratitude and Honor!
Every new mother needs to hear the beginning of this. When my 7 y/o was born, I heard “cry it out” method. Today it infuriates me, I didn’t follow that advice. But I did put him to sleep in his crib and he cried endlessly. I held him but I was afraid of baby suffocation and till this day I wish I would have had some type of way to sleep with him. He’s still afraid to sleep alone today, sometimes I wonder.
As a next guest: Richard C. Schwartz. He invented Internal family systems. One of the most effective therapymodels to heal trauma. Also a friend of Gabor.
I love Gabor, I feel like joe has had so many conversations with incredible ppl he’s kinda numb to his intelligence/amazingness but as a commoner I can appreciate a person like Gabor
Aspirin can help ease a headache, but the headache is not caused by a lack of aspirin. In the same way, with the chemical imbalance theory of mental 'illness', ssri drugs may ease the 'symptoms' of the illness, depression say, but it is not the absence of ssri's that caused it. Gabor Mate's work is so important, revolutionary even, and his trauma based take on mental and physical health and wellbeing should be understood by all
Dr. Gabor's sensitive & insightful words has helped numerous people understand themselves better & walk on the path of self exploration & recovery. Thank You. ❤
This interview couldn't come at a better time. And just recently I've come to my own realization through unfortunate events but nonetheless... I've always felt that I was going against my own gut reaction when it came to raising my own kids. I was blessed with a special girl who is now 20 years old. I only just now realized how wrong society is in how we approach raising and teaching our children. I will now enjoy my children the way God intended us to. Listening to this podcast has reaffirmed my affirmation and although it was not needed, It's great to hear another, especially someone respected, affirm my thoughts. Thank you.
Protect this man at all costs. He reveals so many truths he is hugely special to humankind
I dont think hes in danger
Are you sure @@popaoomowmow
@@luciuslucianski4778 yep
Yes!
I wouldn't normally agree with such a grandiose comment, as the internet is prone to exagerrations, however, you are totally accurate! 🙂
Gabor is so freaking wise and gentle and humble. I just adore him. And I love his willingness to call himself out. He also brings out a very regulated, gentle energy in Joe
I was wondering if I was the only that noticed -- so beautiful isn't it? The effect....... ❤️
Yes!
Nice name. I imagine the male version is Mars Cock
❤
Yes very demure
I love how gentle Joe is with Gabor. I’ve never seen Joe this gentle in his demeanor. So sweet.
totally agree
Excellent observation- thank you for posting this!
I noticed too. What is the reason u think?
@@ArT-fm6wnJust my thoughts ...Gabor is so soft spoken and such a genuinely compassionate and honest soul that he probably brings out that side in many people. Looks like Joe also is mirroring him to a certain extent like he does with various guests of numerous types of personalities which I think he does fairly often to make the guest and himself feel more at ease.
Or maybe Gabors calm demeanour and wisdom calmed the ape
I met him once at the beginning of my addiction 13 years ago at On-site Rehab on East Hastings. He visited there regularly. I had read his book “In the realm of hungry ghosts”, and was fascinated with his approach to addiction psychology. He was very kind and understanding, and it helped me be kind to myself. 3 years sober now after doing ketamine therapy for my ptsd. Really cool to see him on here.
East Hastings Vancouver? They have ketamine therapy locally available?
@@funhole26 Yeah, this was in Vancouver. I had my ketamine therapy done on the island in Nanaimo though through a program called Roots to Thrive. Really great people. It's expensive, and they had funding available for people at the time a few years ago. I sent them a simple email explaining my situation at the time. They have similar clinics in Vancouver too!
@@funhole26 I had the ketamine therapy done in Nanaimo through a society called Roots To Thrive. They have a website if anyones interested in knowing more.
Thank you for bringing Dr. Gabor Mate on your show! He is a gift to humanity. I have learned so much from him regarding the trauma in my life and I am on the road to recovery.
My pop can see beyond the eyes can see! And understand beyond others can understand. Can pin point! Who love unconditional LOVE? My pop will say, my SON have fed and walked among us! And visited all universities and wise and scribes of this world! Have blessed as intended! Humility
@healthylife4eva you got this!
Keep in mind that Gabor Mate is a holocaust survivor who has been speaking against Israel crimes against innocent indigenous Palestinians for many years after his rejection of Zionism and ideology of Zionism. He is a man of integrity and honor.
Yes, that's true and it makes me like him even more😊
True
And a Zionist whos speaking about Savage Hamas who are below humane, those you discredit correct?. Or those who CONDEMN THE SAVAGE MURDEROUS HAMAS AND ARAB IDEEOLOGY? INTIFADA? THOSE ARE ALL GOOD YES? I can go on about Arabs and who they truly are but wont matter because I'm a ZIONIST.
explains the viewcount
He is not really a "holocaust survivor". He was a born in 1944.
I was adopted and my biological mother carried me at age 16 in a home for pregnant teens. My mother who raised me was probably taught all of that conventional wisdom of the 80s. My parents were not good at accepting my emotions and I was dismissed as “too sensitive,” when in reality I was probably needing more nurturing than the average child having been born into a stressful situation and taken away from my biological mother.
I have struggled with autoimmune issues and other mysterious health problems for the past 10 or so years. Gabor has helped me to understand how and why so that I can take the necessary steps to nurture my body and mind. He has allowed me to understand the science so I don’t go mad with frustration and he has helped me to be my own gentle and nurturing parent when I need one. Everything he says makes sense and the information he is sharing is invaluable.
What a privilege to listen to Dr Gabor Mate
It truly is. He is a true healer and a wise observer.
Class innit mate
I am so glad I never listen to anyone about how to be a parent.Both my babies stayed with me in my arms always and even slept with me till they chose to sleep alone.Both are amazing,smart,thoughtful and have a greater amount of common sense even more so than me.
I agree! At one point we had both chin our bed and at that time it was a double bed!!Lol!
Hope for society. Thank you for sharing this.
My mom always gave me love and wouldn't think of leaving me alone when I was upset about something. I've met many challenges in life with confidence as a result. There's no question about it.
Truly one of the best episodes I have ever seen. I didn't take a single break & couldn't tear myself away. This was great -- thank you both!
👍
I listened to this at release years ago, and since then I've started reading his book, it's been such a wealth of information it's almost overwhelming at times. But it's so, so worth it.
I like this fucking shit that gets Deep!!!
Gabor is fantastic.
You need to follow his son Aaron Mate! A great journalist!
Only Gabor could get me to watch Rogan. What a beautiful soul
same here
same dudeeee
Same
haha for real!
Wow...really, and will you be watching Rogan more? What was your reason for not watching him before?
Everyone should listen to this 20 times.
I was thinking the same thing. This world needs a complete reset. Gabor is amazing!
I going to do just that.
A new worldwide generational tradition of watching this with your teenage kids.
Joe should have this man again in the near future, so much practical knowledge and experience on trauma and addiction which are 2 biggest issues of our society today
Gabor Mate wrote a book on drug addiction which was the BEST most realistic book I've ever read on addiction and addicts- In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts (even the title is cool) It's all true and his suggested solutions WORK! Thank you Dr. Mate for your life's work❤🎉
I have that tape. It's wonderful!
Anyone who wrote the book on addiction has to be a cool guy
Joe obviously realizes how important it is for people to hear this. That's why he reshared it.
Yea, I agree. It appears Joe is dealing with trauma. It is do education to watch where his explanation wander, as avoids that human connection Gabor is explaining...
I have watched endless hours on this subject. Because of where Joe is, this is ckesrestcexsme of how deeply and completely trauma files our identity with protective strategies to avoid...
No they reuploaded countless episodes
He didnt reshare it. Spotify had an exclusive deal which just ended. He is uploading a bunch of episodes that were not on youtube before.
I realized that after I wrote this. Oopsies@@ravishkathpal
@@ravishkathpalI think he meant resharing in terms of inviting Dr. Maté to give him a platform to try and reach a bigger audience
I stopped watching Joe a few years ago- but clicked play so fast when I saw Dr. Maté as a guest!!! I hope people really hear what he’s saying.
To be honest, i am 48 mins in, and am getting bored stiff!. Might click off!
This is one of the most important conversations Rogan has had to date. We cannot build a healthier society until more people become trauma-informed and able to examine our experience not just through an individual, but through a systemic, lens. In the words of Krishnamurti, "It is no great measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society." I also strongly recommend the extraordinary journalistic work of Dr. Mate's son Aaron with his partner Max Blumenthal over at The Grayzone.
@@kevincasson9848 ok
100% what he says. My mom claims i was "colicky" and always needed to be held as a baby, so they remedied that by putting me in a walker or ignoring me so id cry alone. Carried into my childhood, when any display of upset or anger made me forced into a room by myself til i was "normal"
The generational trauma stops with me. My daughter has my acceptance, unconditionally
You broke the cycle 👏👏👏👏👏
My father was beaten black and blue by his father.
He laid a hand on me once (and I most definitely deserved it) and brought me up on his own (mum passed when i was 10) and did his best for me. Absolute fukun hero.
I tried to carry on his positive cycle but when outside pressures are tough it's hard.
I now see my eldest daughter with my grandson. We see the fruits of our labours. (If we're lucky).
I love Gabor! His insight is mind blowing, yet makes perfect sense. Thanks for having him on Joe!!
Dr. Gabor is a jewel to humanity!! With just some of this advice he has saved and rescued many people from trouble and given others hope. That is all they need hope and just believe in his message!!
If you know anyone with trauma and mental issues send them this video please!!
Amazing interview. Gabor has been such a huge help in helping me heal. I was diagnosed with multiple sclerosis at 13 years old (that was after a childhood filled with other major illnesses), and fell into major drug and alcohol addiction shortly thereafter. I didn’t know it at the time, but the abusive and very neglectful household I grew up in contributed greatly, and now that I am focused on healing the internal aspect of myself, honouring what I’ve been through, lowering stress and being authentic (among good nutrition and exercise) I am finally starting to heal. I’m now 30 years old and 60 days off of drugs and alcohol, which hasn’t been easy but it’s been oh so worth it. My health is still day to day, and I barely recognize myself at times, but I can feel a new chapter beginning, and healing taking place. This man is so special, and his book is life changing.
Well done on your recovery and wishing you the life you deserve ❤❤
@@racheloconnell1503 thank you Rachel 🙏🏻
Which book specifically?
@@anonscot89 the Myth of Normal
@@anonscot89 In the Realm of Hungry Ghosts was Mate's seminal work on individual addiction. The Myth of Normal is about how we live in a fundamentally traumatized and addicted society. And Scattered Minds is about the relationship between ADHD (and other neurodivergent conditions) and trauma. You can't go wrong with any of them. Hope that helps!
How is there only 68k views? . Dr Mate is a phenomenonal speaker, writer, and full of immense knowledge. Im so glad I discovered him!
Unfortunately you just answered your own question.
It's a re-post. Look at the episode #. This is an older one, just re-posted.
What a powerful teaching about the 'Wounded Healer' Archetype.
And such a deep, calm, intimate conversation.
I love how Joe asks questions with his guest. This was my absolute favorite podcast I have heard on the Joe Rogan’s Experience. And Dr. Garbor Mate is such an intelligent and wonderful human, I loved his work in his book The Myth of Normal.
And then he tunes in so beautifully with his guest...Fabulous...
“ I’m happy to be here thank you 😑” lmao no emotion when saying that.
I love this dude I’ve heard some of his videos and his perspective on life is great.
One of the best guests you've ever had on. Perhaps THE best guest you have ever had on.
1:20:31 This is exactly me. I was clinically diagnosed at a young age with ADHD and I used to climb trees, building, mountains with no safety ropes. I still do this now as a cyclist; running red lights and weaving through traffic because I never feel more present in my life when I'm in serious danger. I Summited capital peak in Colorado and on the way there, there is a class 4 mile long ridgeline with a tone of exposure, and along this way, there is a section called the knifes edge. 1,000 foot drop on both sides. Most people shimmy across on there butt. I walked the knifes edge and I never felt more present and calm in my hole life. This seeking of dopamine effected me in many other areas of my life creating serious disfunction, and is exactly how Dr. Gabor Mate describes.
Respect to you. I guess it's better to seek dopamine through sports, even if taken to the knife's edge ;), rather than street drugs. Not trying to diminish your struggles - I know about those myself. I've got the gift of seeing beauty in a human being's uniqueness and appreciating it. You are KINTSUGI, I feel you
@@innuendo4469 I get you. My dad was absent and self medicated his ADHD with alcohol and meth. I feel lucky I never took it any farther then Alcohol, weed and codeine; even if the damage was plenty.
@@Blue-Spiritit’s scary how similar methamphetamine is to ADHD meds, dextroamphetamine (adderall), lisdexamfetamine (vyvanse).
Let’s just keep giving children meth!! 🎉
@@Blue-Spirit If you managed to quit codeine, even more respect to you..... Alcohol was never my thing, but other things have done the damage. Too young to be aware, or maybe one cannot be aware until they experience this or that on their own skin. You are free, please remember that on doubtful days. You've changed autodestructive habits for amazing ones. There is no 100% perfect. "I heard" ;) we have the perfectionist and the "right thing to do" gene more active than the average Joe. It is pain in the a**, isn't it? But I am proud of my high morale, although it would be nice to feel the bliss of ignorance from time to time ;)
#howcanImakethisaboutme
As a 73 year old I can so relate with Dr. Mate's upbringing and message. Joe, this may be one of the most important podcasts you've ever given us. Thanks and Kudos !
this man helped me realize understand and mediate how my past will affected my future
He’s the epitome of emotional intelligence!
@@Lyndanetyou mean Joe ? Thats truth 😊
@@dr.p33 Dr Gabor Mate not Joe Roga*ne
This conversation is so necessary
Absolutely and maybe the best conversation on trauma ever
Best interview yet. Gabor knows his stuff!!
This is one of the most important conversations Rogan has had to date. We cannot build a healthier society until more people become trauma-informed and able to examine our experience not just through an individual, but through a systemic, lens. In the words of Krishnamurti, "It is no great measure of health to be well-adjusted to a profoundly sick society." I also strongly recommend the extraordinary journalistic work of Dr. Mate's son Aaron with his partner Max Blumenthal over at The Grayzone.
The irony of this wise Dr. talking to Joe Rogan about toxic culture. Guess it's probably the best podcast to get this information out on.
Gabor's work helped me greatly to understand the modern world. I found him at the right moment when I was a new mother with my first daughter...I can't thank him enough for what he's done for my life.
I got to know of Gabor Mate through this episode. My favorite of all time. I remember listening without breaks and thinking "this makes total sense, how could I have not heard this line of thinking before?" I was super emotional listening to Gabor Mate wisdom since I could relate to a lot of what he was talking about and I've been a huge fan of him ever since.
Jordan Peterson could only dream of being this intelligent, humble and honest at the same time.
Gabe, you are a legend, your parents would be proud.
Jordan Peterson is a real gentlemen and a scholar of the highest integrity
@VictoriaHeilman-mo3qb Keep lieing to yourself. He's dishonest and hardly a scholar, he nearly lost his ability to practice!
Thank you Jo Rogan. This is the first one of your shows I have ever listened to because of my own prejudice. Thankyou for hosting Gabor Mate and Thankyou for your
Sensitivity, intelligence care and authentic presentation. It’s a really grown up wonderful conversation and it’s wonderful that it’s two men conversing. As a trauma therapist with over 35 years experience in treating child sexual abuse, domestic violence and adult
mental health I feel so hopeful that you are doing these kinds of podcasts.
17:25 noticing your triggers is a huge part of realising what your trauma is about, that’s a huge epiphany for me
So awesome to hear two men from different spheres of life get down and be so humbled by the conversation. More men need to understand it's ok to be vulnerable, in fact, it's primary for our survival.
The Body Keeps the Score is such a GREAT book!
Dr Gabor and his sons are such beautiful human beings, bring his son Aaron to your show please
Not sure why this got reuploaded, but I am glad to listen to it again
Wef probably tried to take it down
Joe's contract with spotify ended, so all the episodes that you couldn't get on RUclips have come through
@@Psalm144verse1Jordan Peterson flagged it
@@notsure2696 yea him and gabor are not very good friends are they?
Ignoring the crying kid was so common, when you get older and think about it and listening to this man explain it really is a horrible thing to do
Joe, thank you for this valuable interview. Gabor has helped so many of us. It is a joy to listen to this interview. You gave him space to share, and I know your listeners got a lot out of this! Thanks for all of the valuable content you bring us, Joe!
Sending my love Gabor, may you be healthy strong and joyful. Bless you. Super thanks 💙
Dr Gabor is a bad ass so excited to see him here!
Thank you for posting this, so important. Gabor has such a great way of creating understanding. I enjoyed seeing the tenderness in Joe too, in his questioning.
i adore Dr Gabor Mate, his energy is so needed.
I couldn’t help but cry when I listened to this. I wish I had found this before. Thank you 🙏
Gabor is a specialist on ADHD. His book Scattered written in the late 1990s is as relevant today as ever. He helped me to reframe where it started with me. Genius!
Stress: the root of all dis-ease and diseases
Yeah too much cortisol too often which is also survival mode perpetuated alot by the system
How is it possible for this to have less than 10k views after 5+ days? JRE has 17 million subscribers. You'd think that at least 100k people would have clicked this by now
cuz it's a repost
Stop this
I’m thinking it’s becuz he uploaded so many videos at once
I had to turn my fan off to hear him. Also commercial every 3 min.
Joe is posting on RUclips some of the videos of interviews he did when he was exclusively on Spotify. They are not getting many views because people have already watched or listened to them.
Didn't know who Gabor Mate was until my mom introduced me to him and we watched this entire interview together. He seems like such a kind, insightful guy.
It's crazy this has so little views. More people need to listen to Gabor Mate and his perspective on the state of our society and the roots of trauma and addiction. He has inspired me, apart from my own personal history and upbringing, to be that force of change in my community in an unconditionally compassionate, mindful and loving manner.
It's not the original release date. Notice his recent guests are numbered in the two thousands.
I wish I could respect The doctor more. He catered to all the Pro-Hamas students occupying the grounds of UBC. He falsely sees the Palestinians, not the Israelis as the ultimate victims since October 7th, 2023. Incomprehensible. So shocking.
@@lisbetsoda4874 No one is Pro-Hamas. I'm an orthodox Jew and I support Palestine. The State of Israel is antithetical to the Jewish face and goes against the will of God, as all Jews are to live in exile until the 2nd coming of the Messiah. Zionists took advantage of the fear in the hearts and souls of the Jewish people following WW2 to create their own political kingdom where the religion of Judaism comes 2nd to their own power. Palestine is simply a victim of delusional Zionist leaders who continously use the name of the Jewish faith to justify their atrocities against innocents. All Orthodox Jews, as far as I'm aware, are against the State of Israel and support Palestines sovereignty.
@@lisbetsoda4874I think most of the world sees it the same as Gabor
@@lisbetsoda4874he's not pro-Hamas, he's pro-humanity - I believe I've heard him say exactly those words. He has explained his standpoint in many different talks and interviews that you can listen to online.
I used to lead the sessions with Ibogain at the Addiction Clinic in Serbia, as psychologist. I saw the great job it has done with all the people with substance use disorder. However one should be careful and people should pass certain psychological tests to make sure they are safe to undergo this treatment.
I always said, “There’s two types of people in life both of them get slapped up and what one does to feel better is he slaps everybody else up and what the other person does to feel better is makes sure that everyone else is not getting slapped up”. Gabor is the 2nd example. 💪🏽It’s easy to hurt ppl when you’ve been hurt, in fact, you most likely look forward to hurting someone else. What’s not east it to get hurt, and not hurt everyone else.
Ordered 3 of his books after watching this episode. His line of thinking is sorely needed.
I hope he has Dr. Van Der Kolk on soon! Love all these guys! Such an important conversation.
I really Love Gabor, so wise , great man
In my native Mongolian culture moms usually brag about how long they breast fed their infants. This one only let go because he had to go to school. We grew up with the whole set of family and played with our cousins under the care of extended family and neighbors. I was very shocked on how my friends raising their kids in the states. Very cruel.
Cruel is the right word :( that's why we're insane in America lol!
What a beautiful conversation. I didn't want it to end. Thank you Joe and Gabor.
Joe Rogan thank you for talking to Gabor! It sounds like you heard some good stuff for yourself in this one!!❤
Brilliant, loving, gentle, intuitive, considerate man. I love Gabor. Always worth my time.
One of the most open and honest discussions ive seen before. Thank you for having Dr. Mate on your program
These conversations are so important. This is why I prefer to spend my free time listening to podcasts and getting educated intellectually and emotionally rather than dumb myself down with television. So informative, so important, so beautiful. So much respect for those putting more light into the world and how to make it a better place by making us better humans.
Industry has disrupted our connection with nature. We should be living a much more natural life. Depression shouldn't even be a thing.
This is what his book is about... The myth of normal.
& they still blame the victims. How about instead of ostracizing lonely black sheep's of the family, etc people that don't fit in-- Make gift giving check-in celebrations with them? People getting married don't need more help, they have plenty going for them if they can afford to get married & have a partner lol, not to say it is a one size fits all way to find happiness. Some of us need to stay wild and not gamble what sanity we have left on a stranger, humans are known to be unstable and demanding
Nature is hell, it wants to kill you
I wish I had someone like Maté in my family, he seems like such a fountain of warmth and empathy - a safe place where one might retreat when feeling overwhelmed. As a Muslim revert I was so touched when he spoke of leaving Zionism; he evidently desired a homeland but purged this yearning for the sake of the Palestinian people when he realised it was at their expense - there will always be a special place in my heart for him because of that. May Allah guide him. ♥️
I think Dr Gabor is great , went through EST training at 18 and found Louise Hay book you can heal your life , still learning
He should interview
Dr. Jon Connelly, the developer of Rapid Resolution Therapy, his way looking at things are mind blowing!
His book is Grief is not Sacred.🎯💯
Amazing getting trauma clear🙏🏽
1 minute in and he's on the illustration of the toxic culture 👌🏽❤️this man is just a Gem. This video should have more views ❤
Thank goodness for people like these two men living on earth at the same time as I am and for the power and the clarity and value of what they offer. Thank you for letting me listen in on this brilliant conversation.
Joe Rogan you keep getting better & better! As you grow...& share your evolving interests....this level of content is so relevant & such high quality!
Youre podcast is truly cutting edge
im in the first 30 minutes and this seems like a conversation worth listening to at least twice a week in terms of relatability
Gabor you’re the light 🤍🤍
Great interview..love Gabor and was so excited to see him on here. The thoughtfulness he puts into every answer is so genuine.
Pop Gabor thank you for attending unto our OWN. To visit to have sincere conversations with thy Host Joe and to visit to ministered to comfort the COMFORTER. Gratitude and Honor pop Gabor! Joe Gratitude and Honor!
Every new mother needs to hear the beginning of this. When my 7 y/o was born, I heard “cry it out” method. Today it infuriates me, I didn’t follow that advice. But I did put him to sleep in his crib and he cried endlessly. I held him but I was afraid of baby suffocation and till this day I wish I would have had some type of way to sleep with him. He’s still afraid to sleep alone today, sometimes I wonder.
As a next guest: Richard C. Schwartz. He invented Internal family systems. One of the most effective therapymodels to heal trauma. Also a friend of Gabor.
Totally agree!!!
Yes please!!
Love Gabor was geeked to see him on here
One of the wisest observers in our times. Very important!
I love Gabor, I feel like joe has had so many conversations with incredible ppl he’s kinda numb to his intelligence/amazingness but as a commoner I can appreciate a person like Gabor
I wish this was a full week of Gabor, Fantastic.
I love Gabor Mate. He’s been instrumental on my healing journey to overcome trauma.
Mental health for all 2024✊
Your open canbid vulnerability was inspiring to experience Joe... AMAZING INTERVIEW
This has to be one of my favourite Joe Rogan podcasts. Just so much great wisdom to take from this🙏👊
شاهدته بالكامل لأجل الدكتور غابور ماتي
I could liste Dr Gabor all day long ! A humanity treasure ❤
Aspirin can help ease a headache, but the headache is not caused by a lack of aspirin. In the same way, with the chemical imbalance theory of mental 'illness', ssri drugs may ease the 'symptoms' of the illness, depression say, but it is not the absence of ssri's that caused it. Gabor Mate's work is so important, revolutionary even, and his trauma based take on mental and physical health and wellbeing should be understood by all
I can see and hear Joe interviewing his kids in my mind.
Gabor speaks profound truths.
Such a gentle soul in this man.
MR.JOE ROGAN...really loved and appreciated this podcast. .watching from a small town called "malindi" on the Kenyan coast.❤❤
Dr. Gabor's sensitive & insightful words has helped numerous people understand themselves better & walk on the path of self exploration & recovery. Thank You. ❤
So happy you invited Gabor Mate. He heals so many souls and make ppl self aware
He’s actually the best man on earth
This interview couldn't come at a better time. And just recently I've come to my own realization through unfortunate events but nonetheless... I've always felt that I was going against my own gut reaction when it came to raising my own kids. I was blessed with a special girl who is now 20 years old. I only just now realized how wrong society is in how we approach raising and teaching our children. I will now enjoy my children the way God intended us to. Listening to this podcast has reaffirmed my affirmation and although it was not needed, It's great to hear another, especially someone respected, affirm my thoughts. Thank you.
Profound, meaningful, enlightening, life-changing. This is brilliant and amazing discourse!! Thank you Joe for having Dr. Mate!!
Love you Gabor ! Keep doing the great work!
Loved the whole podcast! I just love Gabor, his aura is something else! So pure, genuine, he doesn't try to be charismatic, he is!
Reading the book now, and it is great! It is so helpful in my work with the psychotherapist, got so many insights.
The only appropriate answer when Mate asks if he can tell you a story is yes.
Thank you both Dr. Gabor he got the wisdom & the knowledge & i noticed joe rogan is in his best behavior swear only once 😂