ENOUGH OF THAT "STRUGGLE LOVE" IN 2023 | Common Unhealthy relationship pointers

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  • Опубликовано: 22 окт 2024

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  • @amatwum9673
    @amatwum9673 Год назад +114

    This is timely and I love how God is leading me...I told myself this year I won't force myself on anyone ooo...they will see my worth if they want to...and ur video popped up immediately..God bless you

    • @alexandranwa
      @alexandranwa Год назад

      Me too

    • @amatwum9673
      @amatwum9673 Год назад

      @@alexandranwa 😊

    • @graceakpan4416
      @graceakpan4416 Год назад +1

      AMEN 🙏🏾

    • @GracyIma
      @GracyIma Год назад +1

      Honestly,no forcing

    • @Tchibazz-TV
      @Tchibazz-TV Год назад

      This is super amazing....I have a struggling friend...her guy is always chatting with his female friend and she feels uncomfortable with it..
      Tho he says he loved her,the expression he uses with the other lady makes my friend feel comfortable..like he is the first to get the other lady first,goes to celebrate with the friend without telling my friend...what would you say?

  • @graceijiola1238
    @graceijiola1238 Год назад +11

    PG French accent 🤣🤣
    I just got out of a struggle love relationship, and I was very angry but God is helping me now.
    Have standards, do not settle for less.

  • @Fine_mama
    @Fine_mama Год назад +31

    Watching and listening to this just made me realize that i have not been a good person unknowingly. I find myself in some of these things that was listed down by pg and solutions mama😢. I pray this year I become a better person with so much intentionality

  • @cynthiaawuzie6942
    @cynthiaawuzie6942 Год назад +30

    Who is like me, that loves it when Tolu & Gbemiga always do a sitting down video. I Love it🥰🥰😍😍 Thank you Toluope Solutions for always giving us wholesome contents ❤️

  • @estherjesusanya4067
    @estherjesusanya4067 Год назад +10

    I'm seeing the faces of grown up Soteria and Toviyah in their mama and papa too much ♥️

  • @judezannu7957
    @judezannu7957 Год назад +7

    I love this! I can't imagine as a born again, hiding my phone from my partner. A question that comes to mind is, if I hide from man, can I hide from God? Great content guys!

  • @lolobatubo5750
    @lolobatubo5750 Год назад +12

    Happy new year Fam team solutions. Ahhh 2022 was a glorious year i struggled with love oo, wasted money, time, gifts you see all those descriptions Pst Gbenga was talikng about na mee oo. Mo de ro ooo but i was forming i could handle it, till the holyspirit opened ny eyes oo. This 2023 and beyind na me and holyspirit dey waka together, seeing eyes and hearing ears i o get strength to struggle for love again. Dedicating my life to God, i'm even going to join a workforce in my parish this year, till i meet my future husband, i promise to be a single happy, purpose-filled lady. Thanks Fam, Happy new year again.

  • @Dupesvlog
    @Dupesvlog Год назад +8

    This RUclips channel dishes out so much wisdom and valuable content. Praying God rewards and refills PG and Solutions.
    Such an important video. Me I can not be in struggle love. Lai Lai. Not after all Jesus Christ did for me and invested in my life ✨
    A whole God died for me and you want me to be begging you a merebmortal to love me? Koleshele.
    I will love you completely but you must return and even outdo me.
    But I understand that there are people in these situations. A close friend of mine is in it but she's finally seeing the light after 2 years because the struggle don dey too much. I counselled her and she's gradually coming out. Hers is even worse because the man in question did not ask her out. He's friend zoning her with no commitments and she's still the one doing all the pushing 💔. That is why videos like this are super important.
    They literally save lives.

  • @Ifudiya
    @Ifudiya Год назад +5

    Having PG to do a sit down video is always worth the time…this is definitely the Lord’s work you both are doing here,he who has ears let him hear oo

  • @lewabewa756
    @lewabewa756 Год назад +5

    Like what !!!....we're not even celebrating PG enough on this channel 😒.......what kind of wisdom is this I mean....God will bless you and give you guys more wisdom ❤
    Solutions!!!.... No cap you're truly a solution

  • @moeseries
    @moeseries Год назад +8

    Thank you so much for this. It’s a shame that it took me 8years to realize all these in my ex, but I finally did!. In the aspects of talking
    He didn’t seem it was a good idea to have conversations that involved issues we had, if i insisted he told me I was a nag.

  • @joyobadiah7755
    @joyobadiah7755 Год назад +6

    This's my first time commenting on your channel. I was in struggle love marriage for twenty-three years before l divorce him 8 years ago. I thought l could handle it by praying, taking care of our children, paying all the bills and everybody. But l can't. It affected my health. So l have decided never, never to do struggle love. If l am dating someone and he doesn't pay attention or call me on regular basis or he is always busy. And l have to initial it all the time. I cut it off which l have done many times.

    • @TolulopeSolutions
      @TolulopeSolutions  Год назад +3

      Wow! Better late than ever! Your courage is commendable!! Cheering u on ma’am

  • @AdjoaJosephine7724
    @AdjoaJosephine7724 Год назад +5

    This issue eehh hmmm.... it was a seriously painful season for me in my past relationship....the emotional abuse was huge....hmmm thank God for the courage to walk out of such a relationship...... I went to ABBA FATHER to heal me & He did..... ❤

  • @Beingempresspearl
    @Beingempresspearl Год назад +9

    It’s not maturity it’s bondage to tolerate an abusive partner

  • @debbieayinla
    @debbieayinla Год назад +4

    Whatsapp chat was the first point, if they take days to reply your message (s) "ghosting". I love that PG said we may also be the toxic person here.

  • @JudiiOkechukwu
    @JudiiOkechukwu Год назад +4

    PG is looking freshhhhh!
    Thank you Mama Solutions for taking good care of PG!
    This Video, so timely!
    Thank you ma

  • @ogomsseries
    @ogomsseries Год назад +7

    This is a value added video and knowledge packed. May we continue to build our home in God's way and understanding.. Happy New year Fam.

  • @fowetomi4171
    @fowetomi4171 Год назад +7

    Yessss!!!! I think some of this also applies to friendships as well. No struggle love in friendships too. Both parties must be willing to put in the minimum required effort. Happy New Year mama 🔥🔥

  • @Deliberate_growth
    @Deliberate_growth Год назад +5

    PG the analogist… you were both spot on… all of these is easier for singles, for married (Christians) struggles love is almost a normal thing. I see a lot of our pastors wives endure these things more under the umbrella of i cant be the one to destroy or distract my husband’s ministry… at the end of the day holy spirit the great teacher will guide us all.

    • @spotlightmediatv
      @spotlightmediatv Год назад

      The more reason one needs to look well before he leaped into marriage

    • @Deliberate_growth
      @Deliberate_growth Год назад

      @@spotlightmediatv can we talk more about what can be done now that the deed has been done or are we just saying everyone should go and live with the consequences of their decisions , which is why I conclude my earlier comment the way i did

  • @gabelynnyenp
    @gabelynnyenp Год назад +3

    I just realized that most of the videos i click on from this channel are the ones with your husband in. Cus laughter is guaranteed.

  • @eunicedaniels277
    @eunicedaniels277 Год назад +7

    Tolu married the best husband for her no doubt ❤❤❤😂😂😂😂 two funny persons I love you too plenty

  • @OyeladeDorcas1
    @OyeladeDorcas1 Год назад +3

    Thanks lovely couple.This generation is blessed to have you on this platform….Resetting the single mind making us gain clarity to what to look out for and at the same time gaining insights to how to literally live as a Christian

  • @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439
    @ezinneerhirhieneeukaogo1439 Год назад +7

    And some one said a Virtuous woman doesn't look at her man's phone.
    May God protect you from partners that turn your head

  • @stitchedbyesthy.
    @stitchedbyesthy. Год назад +1

    Amen to PG's prayer.
    Nice to have him here at the beginning of the year.

  • @giftola4161
    @giftola4161 Год назад +3

    Have been a silent follower for awhile now and I am always blessed listening to you solutions and I pray Gods blessings and wisdom on you at all times.
    Pls if one is already in a loveless marriage is separation advisable especially wen you have really tried your best to make it work.

  • @sinachinwachukwu190
    @sinachinwachukwu190 Год назад +2

    The first point was prioritizing you…Paying attention to you.This video is so helpful…God bless you sir and ma.

  • @tasteandbloom
    @tasteandbloom Год назад +5

    Happy New Year to you and yours. You both are goals. PG is such a good orator too. He explains stuff so well. You both are dropping wisdom!!!
    Let me continue watching sha 😜

  • @AdjoaJosephine7724
    @AdjoaJosephine7724 Год назад +7

    Yes ma they always leave clues....even God Himself will give you signs. God bless you for this nuggets of wisdom.....PLEASE THIS YEAR WE NEED THE BLOOPERS....😁😁😁🇬🇭❤🫂

  • @bangibabs
    @bangibabs Год назад +2

    “We know better. We should do better.” Such a valid video. Thank you guys for sharing your wisdom ❤

  • @bisolaayodele7963
    @bisolaayodele7963 Год назад +2

    PG speaking so much like my pastor…
    God bless your well of wisdom sir. God bless you solution mama

  • @odogbilitreasure4828
    @odogbilitreasure4828 Год назад +5

    I was waiting for the bloopers 😂😂 no better time to talk about this topic than now .God bless you guys P.S: Videos with you and PG bang even more ☺️❤️ I love to see😌

  • @FaithAdegboye
    @FaithAdegboye Год назад +4

    PG is here with us this new year, we like it

  • @kimsmotivatebiblebased
    @kimsmotivatebiblebased Год назад +2

    Amen, i will come back next year to share my testimony in JESUS MIGHTY NAME AMEN. Happy new year team solution. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @moyosoluwajejeloye4389
    @moyosoluwajejeloye4389 Год назад +5

    It's the way mama solutions keep looking at PG for me

  • @estherinyang4779
    @estherinyang4779 Год назад +2

    I really love the way you arrange your English dear Tolu. You are very intelligent and it is so obvious. Having a husband that is equally intelligent is a very nice combo 😇and from what I have seen so far, you are not doing bad as a mother. A lot to learn from you dear. keep posting!

  • @dolapoolalekan3405
    @dolapoolalekan3405 Год назад +5

    Honestly, its always a different vibe when we have tolulope and PG creating content together😍💥💥. Beautiful one❤❤❤

    • @akocatherineTV
      @akocatherineTV Год назад

      Ahhhhhh.notice as priceless as a Godly family

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. Год назад +2

    Always a blessing to have PG on this channel. Thank you PG and Mama Solutions❤May God continually use you to bless this generation and replenish your strength

  • @efomaisimoya3738
    @efomaisimoya3738 Год назад +1

    I love how much you respect each other honestly, it's laudable

    • @efomaisimoya3738
      @efomaisimoya3738 Год назад

      how you wait till the other is done talking before you speak and you actually listen while the other speaks

  • @nancyayodele2109
    @nancyayodele2109 Год назад +4

    I love you guys! Yinmu..you're goofy too Mama Solutions!
    Pray for me oh! Emi fe marry oh.

  • @tomi8955
    @tomi8955 Год назад +4

    I love both of you and how you let God's wisdom just seep through youu!

  • @boluwatifeigbasan231
    @boluwatifeigbasan231 Год назад +2

    The last part of I will never cheat on my husband or wife, thank you for the enlightenment. Let he who thinks he stands, take heed lest he falls

  • @sharongbolahan9878
    @sharongbolahan9878 Год назад +1

    Amen! Well said!!! More wisdom and revelation for u both in Jesus Name!👏🏽🙏🏽🎁

  • @wanyoikesophie107
    @wanyoikesophie107 Год назад +2

    Camped here
    Blessed and glorious Year 2023 to you and your family
    Lots of love from kenya 🇰🇪

  • @nwiwuamarachi2920
    @nwiwuamarachi2920 Год назад +2

    Awon temi. From 2019 until now, this famington I love.

  • @OluwafeyikemiAnjola
    @OluwafeyikemiAnjola Год назад +3

    Happy new year 🤗
    I’m always blessed whenever I watch your channel. Thank God for you. As a young lady, I have learned a lot from your channel (I'm still learning). You both are amazing.

  • @lisabethvlogs
    @lisabethvlogs Год назад +4

    We love all your content. But if you are an OG , it’s the rush to click when we see PG because you know it’s gonna be lit n it will drop something hoooge for your relationship knowledge. Happy new year Teamsolutions

  • @jareya
    @jareya Год назад +2

    Thanks for this excellent video and for pointing out that we should also be looking out for signs of toxicity in ourselves, not just our partners.

  • @anitaike9031
    @anitaike9031 Год назад +3

    PG cut his hair like Bobo Tov. Cool...
    Happy New Year Mama Solutions 😘 💖

  • @emmanoel4170
    @emmanoel4170 Год назад +3

    I love it when you always bring pg to video is the ending part for me I brag about that alot saying I can and will never cheat on my husband not until my ex who travelled to abroad and we lost contact not untill yesterday he sent me message on linkedin and at this point in my life things are going awkward and am like babe you have to flee from all evil cos this is a big temptation all am doing now is meditating in fact I need to block him.

  • @MhizGoshen
    @MhizGoshen Год назад +3

    Hummmmmm......Very on point, because it takes two to tangle. Its so easy to break free as single before you say I do....I pray God help every marriages struggling in Jesus name.
    I saw a post recently and the person wrote "Some people think they will make/making a good husband or wife because they are not cheating. Cheating is not the only deal breaker. What about lack empathy, being manipulative, inconsiderable, unappreciative, insecure, lack of communication, disrespectful etc"....
    Thank you Solution .....we all can change if we are ready to allow the change.

  • @rhodaigbaroola8516
    @rhodaigbaroola8516 Год назад +2

    This society thing PG said is the best thing ever.

  • @jacquelineboakye1122
    @jacquelineboakye1122 Год назад +3

    Pls can you do a version for marriage couples? Some of us didn’t look at the signs or clues

  • @akocatherineTV
    @akocatherineTV Год назад +1

    Nothing as priceless as a Godly family

  • @Mercy_Mo
    @Mercy_Mo Год назад +1

    Thank you Jesus for your word to me through this couple. I was practically crying over what I should be dancing and thanking God for removing me out of the situation, thank you @tolulope solution for this vlog, God's undiluted love continue to radiate in your home

  • @ikeoluwasteve-moses9225
    @ikeoluwasteve-moses9225 Год назад

    More strength and grace to you both in Jesus name. Thanks for this!

  • @pelumijegede4696
    @pelumijegede4696 Год назад +3

    PG's Facial expressions wan injure me, even when he is seriously explaining things😅😂😅😂. Thanks so so so much guys

  • @pitchedoma1147
    @pitchedoma1147 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much mama Solutions...
    Just what I needed to start my 2023
    God bless you always🙏🙏🙏

  • @Oluwabukola_Oni
    @Oluwabukola_Oni Год назад +2

    Happy New Year Team Solutions...
    Whenever you see PG just know that something hooge is about to drop😄😄😄😄
    Thank you for constantly modeling how a godly relationship and marriage should look like
    Much love from here 💕💕💕💕

  • @blessingikwunze1025
    @blessingikwunze1025 Год назад +1

    Starting the new year with words of wisdom from PG. I’m here for it!!🎉

  • @princessdamiii6585
    @princessdamiii6585 Год назад +1

    What a way to begin the year.
    It's always a delight to have PG on this channel 🤗. Thank you PG and Solutions mamaaaaa ❤️

  • @opeyemiondemand
    @opeyemiondemand Год назад +2

    I love 'love' this video. PG's humor in delivering his points is top-notch. Thanks for sharing and Happy New Year Mama Solutions ☺

  • @ernestinaasante2735
    @ernestinaasante2735 Год назад +1

    Thank you so much Pastor and Mrs Gbemigah for this timely message.

  • @samuellaantwi8305
    @samuellaantwi8305 Год назад +2

    Solutions mama and Solutions papa. Thank you so much for this blessing.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 Год назад +2

    Thank you ☺️ I feel some of this points can work for friendships too

  • @estherforson5687
    @estherforson5687 Год назад +2

    Wow,such wholesome teachings!!I really enjoyed this and I can't wait for part 2.Thank you guys and a Happy New Year😘🙌

  • @shalewasspace6757
    @shalewasspace6757 Год назад +2

    Aunty Sols this video is Giving ooo!!!! A very merry 2023 to you and yours 😊🤗☺💗

  • @chinemeremchristiana4620
    @chinemeremchristiana4620 Год назад

    Amen 🙏 to all your prayers for us your viewers, thanks so much for always praying for us Tolulope Solutions, God bless you and your Hubby including your children in Jesus Name Amen 🙏

  • @Bookiespace
    @Bookiespace Год назад +1

    PG's reactions to Tolu are cracking me up so hard 🤣🤣. Especially with the tongue twisters. Loving and funny expressions. Love it! 😂

  • @chinemeremchristiana4620
    @chinemeremchristiana4620 Год назад +1

    Thanks so much Tolulope Solutions for this particular topic, I’ve really learned new things through this vlog… God bless you and your Husband for impacting in my life.

  • @Agnes.shines
    @Agnes.shines Год назад +2

    Pastor why did you cut the hair,we loved it❤, but this video is giving wisdom,so good ❤

  • @aprileleventh22
    @aprileleventh22 Год назад +3

    Happy new year Beautiful Couple.
    PG; Your new look is Amazingly Beautiful.

  • @ayegbusitomiloba2720
    @ayegbusitomiloba2720 Год назад +3

    The fact that you guys do include your bloopers after a video😂..
    Thank you for this

  • @kegbeyaleruth9361
    @kegbeyaleruth9361 Год назад

    It's nice having PG here at the beginning of the year
    Amennnnnn

  • @atunbitoluwanimi6208
    @atunbitoluwanimi6208 Год назад +3

    The analogiesss, love it. I enjoyed every bit, thank you.

  • @daaraodugbemi
    @daaraodugbemi Год назад +2

    Brings out my book and pen because this video is full of gemssss

  • @Stephanieiyaye
    @Stephanieiyaye Год назад +1

    Always a delight having your husband on the channel. 🙏🙏

  • @obivictoria1510
    @obivictoria1510 Год назад +2

    Clarity 🔥🔥🔥🔥
    Exactly, what I want for the year

  • @olawaleiyanuoluwa2677
    @olawaleiyanuoluwa2677 Год назад +1

    I really love this video oo especially the part where PG said the devil comes subtly.... Solutions mama.... God bless and keep you both

  • @mercyperez7427
    @mercyperez7427 Год назад +1

    Happy New Year
    Thank God we made it.. hallelujah

  • @saliujoy2707
    @saliujoy2707 Год назад +2

    Happy New Year 🎉🥂
    Thank you so much for this video
    I love you guys so much
    Thanks for being an inspiration ❤️

  • @launakgarosab5058
    @launakgarosab5058 Год назад

    Thank you so much for the blessings for 2023. I wish you all the best dearests👨‍👩‍👦🙏

  • @FavourBabajamu
    @FavourBabajamu Год назад +2

    PG is so deep😩. I love how he broke down the struggle with the flesh part.

  • @uchegbumaryjosephine9746
    @uchegbumaryjosephine9746 Год назад +2

    More of PG on this channel please. Analogies on fleek

  • @faithitohowo507
    @faithitohowo507 Год назад +1

    PG sir thank you for our New year blessings! Mama Solutions please do a Video on how you were able to draw out The Serious talks from PG oooo. We need help because e dey choke ma. Lotsoflove

  • @tosinawolola
    @tosinawolola Год назад +1

    Ahh, this topic!!. I’m sharing with friends and family.
    Thank you so much to the both of you for this. ❤❤

  • @judithm2992
    @judithm2992 Год назад +1

    You married a good man like his father 👏👏👏👏

  • @motunrayoakinsowon608
    @motunrayoakinsowon608 Год назад +1

    The chemistry is topnotch

  • @motunrolaakinwumi6848
    @motunrolaakinwumi6848 Год назад +3

    This video is worth sharing(just as much as most of your videos)
    Résistance! PG I felt that pronunciation! Has PG been taking some French lessons?

  • @daaraodugbemi
    @daaraodugbemi Год назад +1

    Thank you Solutions and PG for the educating and entertaining video❤️❤️❤️

  • @rosemaryumeh599
    @rosemaryumeh599 Год назад +1

    Thanks PG and Solutions for the eye opener and advice

  • @jessicaquansah3335
    @jessicaquansah3335 Год назад +1

    Happy New Year to you Mama Solutions and your gorgeous family!! Happy New Year Team Solutions!

  • @tbajomo
    @tbajomo Год назад +1

    Honestly I am glad you both thought it well to do an insighful and important video as this! God bless and keep you both🙏

  • @Ifedayo0210
    @Ifedayo0210 Год назад +1

    You guys are really talking to me, Gid bless you both and family ❤️

  • @delightfulAdedoyin
    @delightfulAdedoyin Год назад +1

    Happy new year mama and papa; wishing you a great year filled with lots of amazing memories

  • @Mamazone01
    @Mamazone01 Год назад +3

    The first point is been a priority.

  • @tryde_d
    @tryde_d Год назад +1

    Thank you very much for this video Ma and Sir. More of this please😁♥️📌

  • @linnetgithuku
    @linnetgithuku Год назад +1

    Don't drop the standards 💯 step up ..facts only

  • @comfortoluwabukola6579
    @comfortoluwabukola6579 Год назад +1

    Happy new year ma. I receive answers to all Pastor Gbemiga's prayer 🙏💯🔥

  • @Petra_Nyiawung
    @Petra_Nyiawung Год назад +1

    Twas a masterpiece!😊😘
    Happy new year, Solutions and PG! We love....

  • @lisao2189
    @lisao2189 Год назад +1

    Good job to both of you! I like this topic. The phone aspect for some old folks that have been married for a longer time this is an issue but some have to come to resolve that there is nothing they can do but to keep their sanity they just let it be.