Tips on making your long distance relationship work

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  • Опубликовано: 24 авг 2024
  • A lot of people are in a dilemma on wether to move ahead in a long distance relationship with someone they love or just give up. Most of the time, its because they aren't sur if they can cope or have the tools to make it work. Well, we were in a long distant relationship for years and we want to give you some of the tips that worked for us.
    #AkahandClaire #LongDistance

Комментарии • 242

  • @aniesplatter5979
    @aniesplatter5979 3 года назад +235

    For those who don't mind reading this, may God bless you and everything you put your hands to, may it be blessed!!#Blessings🙏🏾✨❤

  • @GinMatt
    @GinMatt 4 месяца назад +1

    Love, forgiveness, and effective communication, are the keys for all relationships.

  • @ogeym9316
    @ogeym9316 3 года назад +106

    Yayyy, lol this came at the right time! We doing Canada and Nigeria 🇳🇬. Been 3years

    • @CeeJayLive
      @CeeJayLive 3 года назад +2

      Wishing you guys all the best

    • @lifethroughoureyes1086
      @lifethroughoureyes1086 3 года назад +11

      Me too and We started dating 4years ago . fingers cross he should be here this year🙏

    • @damselkitchentv2759
      @damselkitchentv2759 3 года назад +4

      Same here we’re doing Cyprus 🇨🇾 nd Nigeria 🇳🇬 just a year

    • @valentineenedah5132
      @valentineenedah5132 3 года назад +3

      That's awesome.

    • @Mo-pg8ei
      @Mo-pg8ei 3 года назад +2

      Awwww

  • @cynthiakakulu2666
    @cynthiakakulu2666 3 года назад +27

    The problem for both long distance and no distance is....... is this person willing to make it work? A lot of us lack respect and discipline and dedication. It is well sha

  • @hrmhannah459
    @hrmhannah459 3 года назад +59

    8 months Long distance relationship with my boyfriend feels like, 8 years already o. It's hard work o.

    • @mbubb4626
      @mbubb4626 3 года назад +1

      Long distant relationships don't work. Break up.

    • @PatriciaAbijah
      @PatriciaAbijah 3 года назад +1

      You’ll be fine

    • @hrmhannah459
      @hrmhannah459 Год назад +1

      @Sakinah Idris we broke up

  • @marvelousterna4245
    @marvelousterna4245 3 года назад +38

    I was in a long distance relationship for a year, hehehe I was In school ,he was always working.
    What helped us sustain the relationship was understanding basically,we both knew our schedules and that helped a lot,so we spoke every morning and at night so no one gets angry about not speaking during the day, cus we were both busy.
    Your tips are helpful as well ☺️

    • @mofeesther4043
      @mofeesther4043 3 года назад +2

      Same situation sis!!! But we barely talk morning and night. It's annoying tho... thinking of giving him space

    • @aciro-atekanena2579
      @aciro-atekanena2579 Год назад

      This is encouraging! I am in the same situation, best wishes to you.

  • @marthazot7515
    @marthazot7515 3 года назад +60

    Distance relationship isn't easy oo.
    It's really hard work
    But when you put your heads together, communicate and understand each other,it will end well

  • @ezinwaekechukwu7650
    @ezinwaekechukwu7650 3 года назад +8

    Been doing dis long distancing relationship with my man for 3years am in Nigeria his in America not easy atall a lot of hard work ,sacrifices and all of dat tanks guys for dis tips

  • @staritanjaberilase5973
    @staritanjaberilase5973 3 года назад +8

    thank you for the video....in a long distance marriage for my masters program and believe me....distance relationships ain't for kids. commitment is key and lots of money is involved.

  • @michaelshollaj6428
    @michaelshollaj6428 Год назад +3

    I'm in LDR for 1 year and 3 months, everything was going so great, full of love, care, and support, she was having hard times, but I supported her, she came to meet me, met my parents, they liked her a lot, then I went to her in the Czech Republic, met her parents, they liked me really a lot, had amazing times, then our parents talked together, and said we want this relationship to work and everything. When she started work in bank, she changed behavior totally, behaves very distant, coldly, and also told me "I started to like you less, thinking about breaking up with you" and last days she ignores my messages :// it hurts a lot, my room is all with her photos, and her room with my photos and together :/

    • @tushabe.j.sherah5261
      @tushabe.j.sherah5261 Год назад +1

      😢sorry abt that

    • @michaelshollaj6428
      @michaelshollaj6428 Год назад

      @@tushabe.j.sherah5261 she was cheating on me with her work colleague that helped her in bank, her parents doesn't talk to her anymore, she lost family and partner that loved her a lot, her lost

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss 3 года назад +16

    Anytime I watch you guys I have to ensure I am not eating because I always choke from laughter. You lot are so funny!

  • @ayomidebakare246
    @ayomidebakare246 3 года назад +13

    I love you guys so much! Just shared video to baby boy 😃. Been dating LD for a year this month! LDR is always the best with the right partner, we’ve learned a lot about communication. Thanks for your videos ❤️❤️🤗

  • @goddesspatriciastrong5917
    @goddesspatriciastrong5917 Год назад

    OMGODdess!! Its challenging on many levels. We are just 5 months into this LDR, Im in America, he is in Kenya, we have set our end date, that is what keeps me going. Technology has been good for US. Communication is strong on both our parts, it is limited funding and his work that challenges us. Visualize the date when we are on the physical aspect of our relationship keeps me energized. We have not sactioned our engagement as of yet. We are still feeling our way with each other. He is so lovingly patient and supportive. It brings out the best in me. I trigger his creativity in the best of ways. I love the direction our relationship is growing. 9 more months to grow, this is equal to a pregnancy for me, I had three children, so I know, how to manage independently. Thanks for sharing. I wish you both much happiness.

  • @RoszyPeterz
    @RoszyPeterz 3 года назад +11

    I was smiling from ear to ear. Totally enjoyed this video. Thank you as always!

  • @ivispark3780
    @ivispark3780 2 года назад +3

    I’m in Texas and he’s in Arizona… so yeah same country, but still so many miles between us. And he is getting his life together after a lot of problems. Me too tbh… we want to be together asap, but we realistically can’t know when the next time will be.
    Thankfully, we know we will see each other again within a few months, but being together permanently is still something we aren’t quite able to determine yet.

    • @ImranKhan-tj3dr
      @ImranKhan-tj3dr Год назад

      I love u so so much really
      I like u
      I m alone
      🙋🙋🌷🌷❤❤😍😍😍😍

  • @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525
    @kennyshairdoafroeuropean4525 3 года назад +6

    So true👌👍...I am in one. Is about being extremely patient, And knowing what you want out of the relationship & all the above you mentioned.

  • @adetolaajayi
    @adetolaajayi 3 года назад +2

    Because I wanted to throw in the 100th comment 😌🥰! LOVE YOU CLAIRE AND AKAH! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @bleu7734
    @bleu7734 2 года назад +2

    This was so helpful watching a couple such as you guys talking about forgiveness love working hard to maintain it I'm in America and he's in Gambia and that's exactly what we doing is keeping busy so we won't get distracted but I meant it is hard because you missed the physical touch the hug when you feeling down just being around that person but I'll see him in the next 3 months it's been so far 3 months away and it's been hard but we love each other and we keep on pushing through pushing forward thank you

  • @aniesplatter5979
    @aniesplatter5979 3 года назад +4

    Hiya My Lovely adorable Akah and Claire we back like we nvr left ❤♥💖😉💜
    Most awaited topic amo grab me notes📝

  • @audiobooksxi4654
    @audiobooksxi4654 7 месяцев назад

    Great video! Very helpful comments, nuggets as Akah calls them 😉

  • @stellanwosu385
    @stellanwosu385 3 года назад +3

    I love you both..God bless you. These nuggets came at the right time..

  • @alicianaka
    @alicianaka 2 года назад

    I agree brother with that visa thing ooohhh ask for it give thanks giving and pray for it because it's not easy

  • @maryslens5330
    @maryslens5330 3 года назад +2

    Talkative Akah and calm C. Good combo

  • @Theglobaldebby
    @Theglobaldebby 3 года назад +6

    I've been waiting for your video🤸 We always anticipate your videos please be quick to upload don't keep us waiting for too long ooooo🤩 I luv you guys 💕

  • @sharonigbokwe8310
    @sharonigbokwe8310 Год назад

    You see those little tongue twisting thing that Akah does!? I love em😩🔥

  • @TinaThom
    @TinaThom 3 года назад +2

    We’ve been apart for 2 years now it’s not easy but we still together 😀😀

  • @thelmafalodun3421
    @thelmafalodun3421 3 года назад +8

    Its the "a whole Melon, ripe mango for plucking" fr me😁💓💓❣

  • @BinawareKore
    @BinawareKore 3 года назад +6

    Thanks guys for the nuggets!
    It was refreshing to watch also knowing that my partner and i are practicing almost every tips you dropped feels good as well!
    I'm in a relationship with the most understanding being ever, I can confidently say he makes it a lot easier to bear the hard days and I'll definitely give that to him anyday anytime!
    Naija - U.S I left the country in 2016, we started dating 2017 it went south in 2018 and now we're back together and this time we're heading for the altar. 2021 is our year by God's grace. Amen!
    P.S: LDR's is not for the faint-hearted my dearsss, you're either committed or you're just playing!😆

  • @wachekemburu5680
    @wachekemburu5680 2 года назад

    Wow!! This just appeared from nowhere, but I appreciate the added info, it's easy and doable only if the couple have respect, discipline and are genuinely committed by also being mindful of the other persons emotions.

  • @rukkyedijana7921
    @rukkyedijana7921 3 года назад +4

    I Enjoyed and learned every bit of this video... love you guys🥰🥰

  • @kambyudeani8828
    @kambyudeani8828 3 года назад +8

    It's the way Akah folded his arms when Claire was talking about him and women for me😂😂

  • @Debbyomunagbe
    @Debbyomunagbe 3 года назад +4

    I needed this..omg. I am going for ny masters soon and it's really bothering..Thanks you guys..

  • @rideedy
    @rideedy 3 года назад +1

    Thanks for the tips.... Don't want to be in such though

  • @oyindamolaodeyemi2955
    @oyindamolaodeyemi2955 3 года назад +2

    I'm here to learn o. In a LDR

  • @thankgodsunday8461
    @thankgodsunday8461 3 года назад +5

    Akah has so much life 😂😂😂😂♥️

  • @ajayiopeyemi401
    @ajayiopeyemi401 3 года назад +16

    This was this shortest 20 minutes and 33 seconds of my lifffeeee🥺🥺🥲🥲
    I love love love you guys
    This content was amaze balls💯🔥🔥

  • @_onyinye_chi_
    @_onyinye_chi_ 3 года назад +20

    I’m leaving my bf to Canada in 2 months time. I needed this 🥺❤️

  • @24magic.
    @24magic. 3 года назад +1

    I’m always falling for girls in a at distance. Honestly I’m tired...but I’m beginning to reconsider with your nuggets. It’s kinda hard though.

  • @TheIntentionalHuman
    @TheIntentionalHuman 3 года назад +2

    Missed you both.... 😁🤗🇳🇬
    ABNG.

  • @dauja9
    @dauja9 2 года назад

    You guys gave me so much hope and encouragement... May God bless you both for using your platform. Lord knows I've felt stuck and unsure for days. This was dope!

  • @Nma_Chi
    @Nma_Chi 3 года назад +3

    Akah throwing Nuggets !!!
    Preach!!!!!!!

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 3 года назад +18

    I’m doing long distance with my Zambian boyfriend and I’m Ugandan. It’s been three weeks so far🙈❤️
    It’s been really easy so far because our communication is really top tier and we video call all the time. The points that struck me the most were commitment and holidays & visits.
    Seeing you come out of distance so happy makes me believe that it can be worth it if it’s the right person.

  • @nanadiycorner
    @nanadiycorner 2 года назад

    Phewww! I feel better now...this was helpful

  • @RebeccaEkwuruke
    @RebeccaEkwuruke 3 года назад +7

    That indefinite long distance relationship is very funny. I have wash my hand commot from anything wey concern long distance relationship. I no get the energy for that.

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 3 года назад +4

    Adorable couples 😍😍😍😍
    Claire is drop dead geogeous
    Akah killed it too
    Nice tips 🙌

  • @JosephAng
    @JosephAng 2 года назад

    You are both so sweet! Thanks for the advice!

  • @aja08210
    @aja08210 2 года назад

    Yes long distance is hard communication actually over communication is what's needed for mine and yes missed calls is a big thing knowing an end date that's a goal thank you for sharing sometimes it's just really hard but worth it

  • @Princess_Emy
    @Princess_Emy 3 года назад +2

    Thanks a lot i really need this right now 😩😩
    Much love ❤️😘

  • @marthazot7515
    @marthazot7515 3 года назад +2

    I'm early today!!!
    My very first time commenting😊
    Thanks so much for the tips 😘

  • @damilolaoyenuga3589
    @damilolaoyenuga3589 3 года назад +2

    Love you guys sooooooooooo much!. Like, I know it's not easy creating video contents and thank you for dropping this. Lol. Kept checking your channel to see if you've released a new video

  • @esthermirembe3908
    @esthermirembe3908 3 года назад +1

    We're doing interdistrict in Uganda...

  • @MissChayBella
    @MissChayBella 7 месяцев назад

    Love this video thank you so much ! 🙏🏽💗

  • @EverythingQueenshono
    @EverythingQueenshono Год назад

    I love you guys so much😍🙏🏼! Thank you for this!

  • @maodigitalsolutionwebsited8834
    @maodigitalsolutionwebsited8834 3 года назад +2

    I love the chemistry between you two. Seeing you here not as Alighenu😄

  • @heathernyakonda1541
    @heathernyakonda1541 3 года назад +1

    Awwwww these guys are soulmates 💘

  • @Exodusllfreedomministry
    @Exodusllfreedomministry 3 года назад +1

    So funny lollll. Had to sub!

  • @saniemmanuel3352
    @saniemmanuel3352 2 года назад

    I love 💕 ur content I was feeling really bad about my ldr but I really discovered myself since being apart from her

  • @borngreat1tv
    @borngreat1tv 2 года назад

    God bless you for your tips I really enjoyed your video.

  • @omojolaomowumi6976
    @omojolaomowumi6976 3 года назад +10

    Is it weird that I like LDR??
    I dated my boyfriend for a year while we were in different countries and now that we’re married, it’s still long distance and I really don’t mind 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @millyanaire1342
    @millyanaire1342 Год назад

    Such a beautiful couple 😭🥹 thank you for the gems ✨

  • @onuhcynthia3758
    @onuhcynthia3758 3 года назад +1

    Beautiful😍😍. I love you guys, was so real. I appreciate u guys

  • @Gemenebe
    @Gemenebe 3 года назад +1

    Another Gem....I'm hereee😌❤❤

  • @jeffersonejeh8816
    @jeffersonejeh8816 Год назад

    Amazing. Thank you!

  • @MoniqueTee
    @MoniqueTee 3 года назад +4

    Excited for this 🥳

  • @ADJonah
    @ADJonah 3 года назад +1

    It’s always the intro for me

  • @lutherhappy1719
    @lutherhappy1719 3 года назад

    My heart is just bursting of love for the two both of you.. serzly tho, love you sooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo much.

  • @oluwafunmilayoojeniyi2035
    @oluwafunmilayoojeniyi2035 3 года назад +1

    You guys are the best! Thank you for this. ❤❤❤

  • @affybillionzcubicle
    @affybillionzcubicle 3 года назад +1

    My people 🤗🤗🤗so good to see you guys 😍

  • @User_Unknown_15
    @User_Unknown_15 2 года назад

    You guys look so great together 😆

  • @iam_Gesa
    @iam_Gesa Год назад

    This was so impactful i love you guys ❤❤❤❤,I couldn't stop laughing through out😂

  • @OnyinyechukwuOkolie
    @OnyinyechukwuOkolie 3 года назад +2

    Loved this video. Great tips

  • @mercyalieh4985
    @mercyalieh4985 3 года назад +1

    Wow thanks so much really powerful

    • @lucyice4208
      @lucyice4208 3 года назад

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  • @taiwo.temitope
    @taiwo.temitope 2 года назад +6

    I’m in a long distance relationship at the moment and we’re 6 months into the relationship and it’s haaaaaaarrrrd. He’s in the US and I’m in Nigeria. And i can only go to see him after 2 years because i have to do a year internship and a year for NYSC and i wonder how I’d survive😪😪 it’s not even a long distance interstate.. it’s international and it’s extremely difficult. I just keep focusing on school and the positive aspect of the relationship. And ignoring what people say cos many people say that I’m a fool for doing a long distance relationship 😔

    • @APEboi1
      @APEboi1 Год назад

      Are y’all still in it. I’m in one with someone from london. I’m in Hawaii. It’s mos def one of the hardest things. 3 months in

    • @taiwo.temitope
      @taiwo.temitope Год назад

      @@APEboi1 No we aren’t 😞😭

  • @XFX-BOUND
    @XFX-BOUND 2 года назад

    I'm doing aruba and netherlands, we are in our teens and we are trying to make this work. We're both 18. Hoping for the best🙏

  • @dearmanager
    @dearmanager 3 года назад +2

    Thank you for this❤

  • @mutungiedmund2355
    @mutungiedmund2355 Год назад

    Thanks for sharing

  • @raisinnrumchocolate
    @raisinnrumchocolate 3 года назад +13

    Akah looking for what to call his next gem 😂
    Akah: another tip not tip gem not gem, what did we call it?
    Claire: point
    Akah: not point, pill....
    Much later
    Akah: another nugget.....that’s the word

  • @keziahgift471
    @keziahgift471 3 года назад +2

    Missed you guys o been long

  • @peaceEU
    @peaceEU 3 года назад +1

    I have been waiting for you guys 😩😩

  • @Thepampereddaughteroftheking
    @Thepampereddaughteroftheking 3 года назад +11

    Can you do a video on how to build up your finances as a young dating couple

  • @kellysings5468
    @kellysings5468 3 года назад +1

    I've really missed you guys

  • @bibiwinnie
    @bibiwinnie 3 года назад

    Been expecting thisssss... Y'all are Awesometastic!!!

  • @realBAO5
    @realBAO5 2 года назад

    Wishing you guys the best
    But It's H A R D
    8months into it now Nigeria and Dublin

  • @bnelsonosas
    @bnelsonosas 3 года назад +3

    Another one Incase d other one loss 🤣🤣 I’m d first ooooo 11 secs Chaii

  • @goodnessemmanuel3295
    @goodnessemmanuel3295 2 года назад

    This thing is not for the faint hearted, just started and it's already ending 😓

  • @Fadererahasmoved
    @Fadererahasmoved 3 года назад +1

    Exactly!!! Focus 👌🏽👌🏽👌🏽

  • @mercyapolot7757
    @mercyapolot7757 3 года назад +1

    What are you going for? Green pasture😂😂😂
    Ah ah that was so funny.

  • @marthazot7515
    @marthazot7515 3 года назад +1

    I've been waiting for this oo
    I clicked so fast😂

  • @beneziaharuna682
    @beneziaharuna682 Год назад

    New subbie love you guys already 🥰

  • @BBN2023.
    @BBN2023. 3 года назад +1

    Really learnt 😍..in a LDR

  • @Tosin_elite
    @Tosin_elite 3 года назад +1

    Love you guys....

  • @eniolaolatunji3042
    @eniolaolatunji3042 3 года назад

    Love you guys, you’re one of my favorite you tubers

  • @miriamimogie6669
    @miriamimogie6669 3 года назад +1

    My faves❤

  • @zainabatanda204
    @zainabatanda204 3 года назад

    I ran down here😃 make I go grab popcorn

  • @naomiaimanosiasekome9266
    @naomiaimanosiasekome9266 3 года назад +2

    "Green pasture" 😂😂

  • @rosemariescorner
    @rosemariescorner 3 года назад +4

    It took me forever to watch this video buh i’m here finally! I tried a long distance relationship but it didn’t work out and it was more like one person was putting in the work. It’s was draining!🤧. I’m never doing a long distance relationship ever again ☹️

    • @lucyice4208
      @lucyice4208 3 года назад

      If you want your ex girl / boy friend back .. ............ If you want your husband or wife back ............. If You want promotion in your office or place of .You want women / men to run after If you want a child .. .......... If You want to be rich .......... .If You want to tie your husband / wife to be yours work. you. forever .. .......... If you need financial assistance ............. If you want your business to be expand and known all over the .For Long life .. ......... If you always have bad dreams .. ............ If you want protection ................. .if you want people to obey your command and do your wish. If world. you have a court case and you want to win the case .. ........... For more information about ........... .her .... Email her on ( drolaogaga@gmail.com) .... via .......... WhatsApp ...., ............ +2349069313955

  • @obrikimercy9690
    @obrikimercy9690 Год назад

    Beautiful ❤️

  • @zainabatanda204
    @zainabatanda204 3 года назад +2

    😂 you don't know, e don't know😂😂 Akah ehn😂

  • @cynthiakakulu2666
    @cynthiakakulu2666 3 года назад +1

    Akah! Preach man!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @karensindisoparimwa6130
    @karensindisoparimwa6130 11 месяцев назад

    Love you guys!!!