Why do people cheat in a relationship?

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  • Опубликовано: 14 окт 2024

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  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 4 месяца назад +49

    Mehn, this video is a solid 100.
    Funny, witty, vulnerable, deep, spiritual, an all rounder.

  • @FaithAdegboye
    @FaithAdegboye 4 месяца назад +38

    Its not easy being vulnerable sharing truths of your marriage...thank you, Akah and Claire

  • @chiomae-asiegbu4096
    @chiomae-asiegbu4096 4 месяца назад +54

    Akahh! “My ppl marry well o! Claire yua a good woman”😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @Ministerpraiz
      @Ministerpraiz 4 месяца назад +1

      That part 😂🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @tech_tm3874
      @tech_tm3874 4 месяца назад

      And his face when Claire was talking about taking only her share😂😂😂

    • @chiomae-asiegbu4096
      @chiomae-asiegbu4096 4 месяца назад

      @@Ministerpraiz that part 😂😂 I laughed so hard! 😅

    • @chiomae-asiegbu4096
      @chiomae-asiegbu4096 4 месяца назад +2

      @@tech_tm3874 🤣🤣🤣 love them both so much! Akah is soooo effortlessly funny 💕

  • @blessingolayemi1527
    @blessingolayemi1527 4 месяца назад +23

    Akah preached a storm on this episode and I resonate deeply with it.
    Meanwhile, Why's Claire blushing sheepishly at Akah's wisdom.

  • @Eninlaloluwa_
    @Eninlaloluwa_ 4 месяца назад +27

    Not Claire opening Akah's nyansh in the most calming way... whattt 😂😂😂

  • @BunmiIgugu
    @BunmiIgugu 4 месяца назад +29

    In my opinion, the holy spirit welled in Akah half way through this episode to the very end. I agreed with everything he said. You guys are a shining example of who christians should be. God bless u for ur transparency and honesty.

    • @AdaEjem
      @AdaEjem 4 месяца назад +1

      I completely agree! I had to even watch all the ads, that's how impressive and inspiring this episode was.

    • @lightconcept9189
      @lightconcept9189 4 месяца назад

      💯 💯

  • @ayaba_eo
    @ayaba_eo 4 месяца назад +28

    Bro Felix😭😭😭
    Get out of my head.
    This is Akah! Claire's man😂

  • @queenamaga8477
    @queenamaga8477 4 месяца назад +3

    What Akah said about showing more love when you find yourself married to a cheating partner just reminds me of the movie "Redeeming Love"

  • @folulala
    @folulala 4 месяца назад +6

    I went from lol to leemao to rotfl (literally), to hmmm! And preach! To kabayaaa!!! Come on pastor Akah!
    This was so good, thank you Claire & Akah for using what the enemy meant for evil to teach light in the most honest beautiful way. ❤

  • @bettyesi
    @bettyesi 4 месяца назад +53

    Claire your love language is "acts of service"...that's why you're so attracted 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @tochiiianiii
      @tochiiianiii 4 месяца назад +2

      Yesss😂😂

    • @promiseonyema9263
      @promiseonyema9263 3 месяца назад +1

      Exactly what I said, not a handy man like akah said 😂

  • @sanusiadedapo3384
    @sanusiadedapo3384 4 месяца назад +14

    This episode is for me. I’m not married yet but I about going into a marriage intended relationship. It before now I didn’t see any wrong in cheating, I had always thought it was the norm. Until I followed breadcrumbs (just like Claire said) and I found myself in a very uncomfortable situation (I had a thing with someone else and she later came to report to me and my partner’s (partner to be) pastor claiming that I raped her (she liked me so much that she was finding every way to break my friendship with this other person). It broke me and broke the other person. But one thing, I had opened up to this my partner about what I did (it really broke her) but when this lady came to report, my partner stood by me, she ensured the truth was known. I realized God used that situation to deal with me and to make me know that cheating is not an option in marriage (if I intend to go into a relationship with his daughter, the I can’t cheat on her). 5 months down the line (waiting for pastors approval to start a relationship) I have learnt a lot. Keeping loving this woman and if it takes longer to wait, I will.

  • @JBrills
    @JBrills Месяц назад

    Akah is just the Geeeee mannnn😂
    Killing us with his facials 😅😅

  • @TheAdedolapo.
    @TheAdedolapo. 4 месяца назад +24

    Loving your wife is not strong enough to keep you from cheating

  • @favourose9611
    @favourose9611 4 месяца назад +51

    Who else fled from Instagram to this space. I nearly broke my already broken tooth😂😂❤❤

  • @edidiongjoshua8478
    @edidiongjoshua8478 4 месяца назад +10

    I love how Claire was so proud of Akah when he started preaching😊😂❤

  • @aderinoladinyo3170
    @aderinoladinyo3170 4 месяца назад +1

    I really like Akah, honestly. So real and hilarious 😂.
    I love Claire's assertiveness and emotional balance 💯

  • @nwaezevictoria8185
    @nwaezevictoria8185 4 месяца назад +30

    Akah said “from your mouth to God’s ears”. Baby no 2 is definitely being formed 🤣🤣🤣
    It’s how Claire always talks about another baby in these podcasts for me🤣🤣🤣

  • @atandazainab4765
    @atandazainab4765 4 месяца назад +20

    To anyone just watching, the conversation started 6:14😅 These two enjoy each other’s conversation so much😂 It’s so obvious

  • @atandazainab4765
    @atandazainab4765 4 месяца назад +2

    Claire is so proud of Akah ☺️😅 That smile😁😆

  • @EmyCynthy-hw8zg
    @EmyCynthy-hw8zg 4 месяца назад +14

    I'm always going to come back to this video
    Akah dropped a whole sermon
    Omoh

    • @martekimartey7649
      @martekimartey7649 4 месяца назад

      Yesssss!!!!

    • @AdaEjem
      @AdaEjem 4 месяца назад

      Yasssss, I agree. He preached!!! He preached! Wow!!

  • @peaceokezie_
    @peaceokezie_ 4 месяца назад +23

    This was so wholesome! I watched this from the first minute to the last minute. Thank you Akah and Claire for this level of vulnerability.❤❤

  • @The_Cruise_Fam
    @The_Cruise_Fam 4 месяца назад +14

    OMG! Claire and I really have the same mindset. Yes, if a man cheats, it is never you as a woman’s fault! This is were most women gets it wrong because in most African societies they’ve cooked up that narratives for women to believe with statements such as “what did you do” is like men are 💯 saints themselves.
    So as a woman never ever feel it’s your fault your husband cheated.
    A man is human just as you. Both man/woman have the will power to choose to do good or bad.
    But once the deed such as cheating is done. In the general misconception of our African mentalities, they suddenly blame the woman if the man is the one who cheated even if the woman cheats, it’s still the woman they’ll blame versus finding the root cause.
    Yes! Yes! And YES! I love this honest conversation.
    Thank you Claire & Akah for your realness❣️🫂❣️🫂👏🏾

  • @kingkris358
    @kingkris358 4 месяца назад +8

    Una love sef too strong 😅 which one be continue… no Go ahead oya .. you go first awwwnnn
    So single ppl 🥲🥲 gather here

  • @kelechikamalu2228
    @kelechikamalu2228 4 месяца назад +8

    Y’all’s chemistry is unmatched 🥰

  • @chilightliving
    @chilightliving 4 месяца назад +18

    Please I love the Bants before you guys get into the topic! The highlight for me all the time!

  • @idongesitarchibong4794
    @idongesitarchibong4794 10 дней назад

    From 44:00 Claire was just blushing anyhow😂. She was like "see my man of God"😂😂😂

  • @otailkuohunene
    @otailkuohunene 4 месяца назад +34

    All back weaving looks good on Claire❣️

    • @oluwatobiope4735
      @oluwatobiope4735 4 месяца назад +1

      She looks like the artwork she gifted Akah in 2020 I think🤔
      I just saw the resemblance today o😂😂

    • @otailkuohunene
      @otailkuohunene 4 месяца назад

      @@oluwatobiope4735 Woah! I would love to see the art work. Team Akah & Claire for life❣️

    • @estheraiyeniwon9551
      @estheraiyeniwon9551 4 месяца назад +2

      She is so beautiful ❤

  • @faithekpo4127
    @faithekpo4127 4 месяца назад +3

    I've been following u guys since when u brought the relationship to RUclips then the Proposal, y'all attending church together etc.. and there's never been a time i didn't admire Akah's maturity n willingness to follow God, like ur husband material na better one 😂. This podcast has been so filled with practical knowledge both for singles and the married. I love u Both and pray for God's covering and enjoyment over you both ❤ I'm definitely ending up with a mn that honours God. So refreshing 😍

  • @dominiononiwide
    @dominiononiwide 4 месяца назад +5

    I've been following you guys for a while, and your growth is really beautiful. I know it takes a lot of work, so I'll like to applaud you guys.

  • @ifeyinwanwaoha
    @ifeyinwanwaoha 4 месяца назад +9

    Akah is soo dramatic!😂😂😂😂

  • @omoleoluwamurewa6599
    @omoleoluwamurewa6599 4 месяца назад +9

    Akah's laughter ehn😂😂😂🤦

  • @deolaronipede372
    @deolaronipede372 4 месяца назад +19

    Claire’s beauty ehn😍😍😍

  • @akuaferguson2736
    @akuaferguson2736 2 месяца назад

    I’m learning ooo but Mr. Nnani made me laugh all through, guy, you are indeed an actor ❤

  • @deolaronipede372
    @deolaronipede372 4 месяца назад +2

    Accountability structures are so underrated and not spoken of enough. It can be hard to maintain but it’s easier than living life loosely, only to find yourself in situations you can’t get out of. I pray our generation learns it early.
    Thank you Akah and Claire!❤️

  • @TukeMorgan
    @TukeMorgan 4 месяца назад +2

    This Akah's laughter 😂😂😂 Abi na him wan do podcast 😃 Love the honesty and openness 💛💛

  • @ChinLhiet
    @ChinLhiet 4 месяца назад +1

    The part Akah said "marry well o"😅😅😅
    So enlightening and hilarious
    Nice one Akah and Claire

  • @sarahcypriano2063
    @sarahcypriano2063 4 месяца назад +12

    Guys, please, give more thumbs up to this video. Let it reach a wider audience, thank you.

  • @Unapologetic_Christian
    @Unapologetic_Christian 4 месяца назад +4

    Is there a way I can like this video over and over again. The honesty 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥. Thank you, Akah and Claire 💞

  • @jenniferkato1503
    @jenniferkato1503 4 месяца назад +20

    This episode will definitely trend and thank God I watched before the trend😂

    • @kellymeliko8586
      @kellymeliko8586 4 месяца назад +1

      See 😂😂😂 say "what we are looking for we will find" the fear of Insta gist bloggers😂😂😂 twist and turn

  • @candidwithoyinda6887
    @candidwithoyinda6887 4 месяца назад +1

    Akah why are you sweating? I don't know 😂😂😂 I've been laughing since but it's the grace to be able to pass this honest message even with humour 👏🏾

  • @tg_blossy
    @tg_blossy 4 месяца назад +23

    Claire accept the compliment😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Madichi
    @Madichi 4 месяца назад +5

    Informative,enlightening and most importantly the inclusion of the GOD FACTOR in analysis👏👏👏
    Thank you very much Akah and Claire for this❤

  • @lifewithnikmuna
    @lifewithnikmuna 4 месяца назад +2

    Claire literallly brought akah to this episode to butcher akah 😂😂😂😂wow I can’t stop laughing

  • @ebubeokoyeblogs
    @ebubeokoyeblogs 4 месяца назад +8

    "Anything that breaks a union is not a norm"
    ~Claire

  • @ObonatazeDivine
    @ObonatazeDivine 4 месяца назад +1

    This is a beautiful conversation

  • @sussanekene6672
    @sussanekene6672 4 месяца назад +5

    This episode is giving 'butterflies in my belle'😂😂
    Thank you Akah&Claire for such wholesome episode.🥺☺️🙌 Definitely the content we signed up for!!😄💯

  • @EmyCynthy-hw8zg
    @EmyCynthy-hw8zg 4 месяца назад +9

    Very unserious humans 😂😂😂😂
    Claire accept the compliments
    That particular scene killed me 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @oluwatobiope4735
    @oluwatobiope4735 4 месяца назад +1

    Akah & Claire is back!!! This is Education 🔥🔥🔥

  • @angelprincess818
    @angelprincess818 4 месяца назад +1

    I ran here from another RUclipsr’s channel, she posted snippets from this video and I got hooked.

  • @queenamaga8477
    @queenamaga8477 4 месяца назад +1

    Had to stop half way in the middle to share. Good stuff😂😂😂

  • @christabelnonyelum2472
    @christabelnonyelum2472 4 месяца назад

    Claire was standng on business all through... if Akah like make e laugh fall down, Claire will circle back to the point😂. Loved this episode so much. Thank you for sharing.

  • @YourstrulyMo_
    @YourstrulyMo_ 4 месяца назад +1

    This was such a well rounded and wholesome video. Thank you so much guys for being vulnerable too. Love love love you!

  • @LADYJAX
    @LADYJAX 4 месяца назад +2

    🤣🤣the banter at the introduction was hilarious
    I laughed so much. Love it

  • @beckyosae
    @beckyosae 4 месяца назад +1

    I love the vulnerability and the openess you two share. Thank you for sharing this with us ❤❤

  • @BeatriceOmowunmi
    @BeatriceOmowunmi 4 месяца назад +2

    This video is really a blessing. I don't know what to comment i pray God continue to Blessing this marriage with wisdom as you impact others. So touched watching this video.

  • @OlayideM
    @OlayideM 4 месяца назад +5

    lol Claire is just blushing and giggling in this episode 😂😂😂

  • @TheOyinsLifestyle
    @TheOyinsLifestyle 4 месяца назад +2

    The next reason is “mistake”! Lmaooo!!

  • @jenniferkato1503
    @jenniferkato1503 4 месяца назад +11

    Akah's facial expressions😂

  • @faithekpo4127
    @faithekpo4127 4 месяца назад +1

    I also agree with Claire about having a belief on how things will go in your life and speaking ovwr youe self and family rather than flowing with the world when they say negative things concerning life n marriage❤

  • @janetoluwasola7112
    @janetoluwasola7112 4 месяца назад +2

    Thanks so much Akah and Claire❤
    Living our lives based on God's principle is the best. may we never lack and frustrate the grace of God🙏

  • @adesolaadedeji2830
    @adesolaadedeji2830 4 месяца назад +1

    This was an amazing episode! Not married or even in a relationship but I was thoroughly blessed and just had a deeper perspective of marriage and the kind of love God has shown us and called us to show. Thank you so much and God bless you abundantly!

  • @lightconcept9189
    @lightconcept9189 4 месяца назад

    My goodness, so much wisdom in a person👏👏
    I could feel the expression of the Holyy Spirit in those words👏👏
    God bless you both.
    Thank you for being vulnerable, am so blessed with this particular video and topic♥️

  • @olamoyegunmercy7420
    @olamoyegunmercy7420 4 месяца назад

    How can I like this video multiple times? It's filled with wisdom. God bless Akah and Claire

  • @edidiongjoshua8478
    @edidiongjoshua8478 4 месяца назад +1

    This episode is so good, it brought light, Thank you guys. I didn't know that about marrying an unbeliever.

  • @candidwithoyinda6887
    @candidwithoyinda6887 4 месяца назад

    Thank God for His grace through your marriage journey 🙏🏾

  • @El_Ade
    @El_Ade 4 месяца назад

    I thoroughly enjoyed this 🥰🥰 thank you so much Akah and Claire 🙏🏾
    May God strengthen you both 🙏🏾

  • @Ufedo-Ojo
    @Ufedo-Ojo 4 месяца назад +1

    Akah and Claire your chemistry is on another level 😂 I just keep laughing throughout

  • @osewokoma6412
    @osewokoma6412 4 месяца назад +3

    “ shirt up”😂😂😂 Claire off ya mic😂😂😂😂

  • @cordeliachinelo2604
    @cordeliachinelo2604 4 месяца назад +2

    😂😂😂 so dun as usual and definitely so educational. Im also so happy this is coming gro a young couple. God bless you guys

  • @osayanmonosagie3460
    @osayanmonosagie3460 3 месяца назад

    This was very insightful!
    Thumbs up guys.

  • @s0fire_
    @s0fire_ 4 месяца назад

    The story is so sad. People are wicked. ThankGOD her sister-in-law told her.

  • @esthernwanekezie6308
    @esthernwanekezie6308 4 месяца назад +3

    Choose to believe! Thanks Claire 😊

  • @rowenakadiri8636
    @rowenakadiri8636 4 месяца назад

    😂😂😂😂😂😂Akah being called out was way too funny for me 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @MojiOgunlola-l9m
    @MojiOgunlola-l9m 4 месяца назад

    Claire is a good woman!!! I remember listening to that cheating story and thinking “Ah. If it’s me, would I take only my share of the money?” Lol.

  • @PreciousTemiloluwa-me4ft
    @PreciousTemiloluwa-me4ft 4 месяца назад +1

    It is the way Claire remembered every little detail for me

  • @StellaChiedu
    @StellaChiedu 4 месяца назад

    There is so much to learn from this content. Well-done!

  • @KingdomKeyCommunity
    @KingdomKeyCommunity 3 месяца назад

    It’s the vulnerability for me! God is work in and through this marriage ❤️

  • @ladyfay2503
    @ladyfay2503 4 месяца назад +2

    Akah entered preaching mode Las las😊

  • @marveldera
    @marveldera 4 месяца назад +1

    I learnt a lot from this video💯 and then it was really funny as well😂😂
    From Claire being attracted to Akah for his plumbing and then Akah telling Claire to accept the compliment😂😂
    Akah fell down so many times while laughing😂
    Honestly, you guys are such a beautiful pair😍😂

  • @faithagbede5076
    @faithagbede5076 4 месяца назад +1

    Honestly clair you're amazing i love your originality. This kind of topics ladies always dig in this i can relate this where we want to ask 😂😂😂 so many questions i love your content ❤

  • @ZainabShekoni
    @ZainabShekoni 4 месяца назад +1

    Akah’s advice is sweet 😂

  • @TheToyePraise
    @TheToyePraise 4 месяца назад

    I would love to be on this production team. This is so insightful,exciting and inspiring to watch. Learnt a whole lot!!!
    Weldone Akah and Claire.
    Love you as always

  • @Fearless634
    @Fearless634 4 месяца назад

    Wow this was such a good conversation! Thank you both for your vulnerability!! As someone who is dating, this reminded me why its important to pick someone who has their own relationship with God

  • @Oluwatimilehinfgt
    @Oluwatimilehinfgt 4 месяца назад +5

    44:04 Claire proud of her husband when he went preaching mode😅

  • @FaithNwani
    @FaithNwani 4 месяца назад +3

    Fingers crossed that one day the Nnanis have an episode with The Wellingtons

  • @Chiinemerem
    @Chiinemerem 4 месяца назад +1

    See me smiling like a fool and I’ve not even gone half way😂😂

  • @bisolaandtunde
    @bisolaandtunde 4 месяца назад +1

    Akah is naturally funny my gosh I’m laughing so hard😅😅😅😅

  • @SebunaTV
    @SebunaTV 4 месяца назад +1

    I was so blessed by this episode! This was divine and word-inspired

  • @ONYIBERYL
    @ONYIBERYL 4 месяца назад +1

    🤣🤣🤣Akah! Claire and inside jokes😄. Love you guys ❤

  • @The-Jay02
    @The-Jay02 4 месяца назад

    Beautiful people with beautiful minds

  • @estherezekiel7875
    @estherezekiel7875 4 месяца назад

    I had been postponing listening to this episode. At some point, I felt there was no need for me to. But I'm glad I did. I learnt so much value. Thank you.

  • @deborahamachree5138
    @deborahamachree5138 2 месяца назад

    Love this episode ... really understood alot ❤.

  • @zobachizobam3496
    @zobachizobam3496 4 месяца назад

    Why did I start to tear up towards the end. God bless you guys

  • @godiverbbw9113
    @godiverbbw9113 4 месяца назад

    This just opened my eyes to the real meaning of marriage. It is a service to God first. Wow!

  • @Atma_Isa
    @Atma_Isa 4 месяца назад

    Aka the end of this podcast was 🔥🔥🔥
    The whole episode was engaging!

  • @owoeyejesulobagrace5092
    @owoeyejesulobagrace5092 4 месяца назад

    I see so much growth in the both of you and I can directly link that to your faith in God and being intentional about living based on what the word of God says.

  • @Tututhebrand2u
    @Tututhebrand2u 4 месяца назад +2

    Whispers it was claire😂😂😂 so cute

  • @adenikehabib2155
    @adenikehabib2155 4 месяца назад

    Loved every bit of this. Well done guys

  • @ginatalks2829
    @ginatalks2829 4 месяца назад

    Ahhh this video and everything in it is exactly what my husband and I spoke about and had to deal with in our first year in marriage. Akah and Claire undiluted 💯

  • @otobongAkrasi
    @otobongAkrasi 4 месяца назад

    Akah’s face for me 😂😂whrn Claire said I will take my share of the money 😂