The song is “why are you lying!!!” He sang it in 2014 when you were doing the never have I ever in Akah’s apartment when Claire came back from the Uk. Yes I’ve been following this glorious relationship from ages past😎🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
Awesome video💛💛 Also ask, especially if you're a believer - Who do you listen to (what preachers have your ears)? - Who are you accountable to, do you have a mentor - what are your Doctrinal beliefs? - do you believe that given the right circumstances, any man can hit a woman or vice versa - FOR GUYS ask the lady “Do you believe all men cheat? (cause you are not all men, you're you and cheating shouldn't be projected on you) -Do you have a plan to not cheat, if faced with temptation, what's your escape plan? - what's your love language and apology language? - how do you resolve conflict? - do you keep a grudge? - is there someone you haven't been able to forgive? - do you believe in waiting till marriage, abstinence… - do you practice purity and honour me, even in your mind regardless of being attracted to me? Self-control and all… Also, find out how teachable the person is, you can do that by seeing how they react to corrections. So, step by step, you pace the questions but do not shy away from deep conversations. Amongst other things… should I continue?👀
@@user-rz9dp7wz8v Sure, you could also ask: - How close they are to their family and extended family because we marry into families, especially in Nigeria. - ask (stylishly) if a spouse should come before their parents, e.g to know if he's a Mama's boy or she's a Papa's girl (the responses I've heard when instances are used is shockingggg) We should honour our parents but our spouse comes first. - Who are you closest friends (their circle matters), it's not cute to have no friends. You can find out the kinds of people they are. - their take of having kids (some people don't want any, it's good to know early). - even been to therapy? I believe people who have had some form or therapy and more self-aware and a better version of themselves. - How often do you reflect and have personal reviews? - Do you read books? Top 5 books you've read (help you have a sense of the kind of knowledge they have). - what's your bucket list? - any past trauma you don't mind sharing? this is a big deal! Especially if they end up sharing. - FOR BELIEVERS AGAIN, do you believe The Bible is God's word and final authority in the life of a Believer or you believe it's outdated or incomplete? - what's your playlist like, again, Who do listen to matters So yeah, pace them, ask diplomatically in love and God help us all as He writes our love story 💛🤗
I agree with Claire on the blood type conversation. When you are dating intentionally, I'm of the belief that at that point dating should be a time to collect data. With something as important as creating a family together I would be asking that question within the 1st month of dating just so Im not setting myself up.
Loved this! I’d really recommend that if you’re both serious people, please ask about each other’s genotype by the second or third date. Get it out of the way, like Claire said. Let’s not get too deep into our feelings and forget these things. A lot could be riding on just that.
I'm of the opinion that you should discuss your blood group and genotype during the talking stage, just playfully, so that you can quickly know if your talking stage will lead to ordinary friendship or dating.
Great Video. Totally agree with Claire on questions on job and medical factors in talking stage. So much wisdom in this video. May be you guys should develop the talk on the non-spiritual youths; very interesting topics. Thanks guys
@Akah and Claire, thank you both for this video... I have few questions though. I.e how long should talking stage last for? Can you talk about the list of test one should do before marriage aside from blood type? Thank you and I will be looking forward to your response.
These days, genotype most especially should even be in the introduction phase, especially for people that are of the AS or SS genotype To avoid future disasters
😂😂😂😂 interesting video 😂…. For the genotype and blood group I feel that question should be asked early enough to avoid stories that touch oh… hmmmmm before emotions gets really deep
Please o I am of the opinion you ask of blood Group early it's not even that deep to ask that question. Especially if it's some one you intend or will be interested in dating and marrying.
I have a question Akah and Claire, please help. What do you do when someone you just met thinks they are not on the same level with you but you like them?
This hair is really giving!
The song is “why are you lying!!!”
He sang it in 2014 when you were doing the never have I ever in Akah’s apartment when Claire came back from the Uk.
Yes I’ve been following this glorious relationship from ages past😎🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️🚶🏼♀️
I’m of the opinion that blood group and genotype should be asked early
The same here
I love this conversation, thank you for sharing ❤.
You guys are so funny. I can't listen to you without laughing 😅
Same here
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Awesome video💛💛
Also ask, especially if you're a believer
- Who do you listen to (what preachers have your ears)?
- Who are you accountable to, do you have a mentor
- what are your Doctrinal beliefs?
- do you believe that given the right circumstances, any man can hit a woman or vice versa
- FOR GUYS ask the lady “Do you believe all men cheat? (cause you are not all men, you're you and cheating shouldn't be projected on you)
-Do you have a plan to not cheat, if faced with temptation, what's your escape plan?
- what's your love language and apology language?
- how do you resolve conflict?
- do you keep a grudge?
- is there someone you haven't been able to forgive?
- do you believe in waiting till marriage, abstinence…
- do you practice purity and honour me, even in your mind regardless of being attracted to me?
Self-control and all…
Also, find out how teachable the person is, you can do that by seeing how they react to corrections.
So, step by step, you pace the questions but do not shy away from deep conversations.
Amongst other things… should I continue?👀
Yes
Thank youu!!!
@@user-rz9dp7wz8v
Sure, you could also ask:
- How close they are to their family and extended family because we marry into families, especially in Nigeria.
- ask (stylishly) if a spouse should come before their parents, e.g to know if he's a Mama's boy or she's a Papa's girl (the responses I've heard when instances are used is shockingggg)
We should honour our parents but our spouse comes first.
- Who are you closest friends (their circle matters), it's not cute to have no friends. You can find out the kinds of people they are.
- their take of having kids (some people don't want any, it's good to know early).
- even been to therapy? I believe people who have had some form or therapy and more self-aware and a better version of themselves.
- How often do you reflect and have personal reviews?
- Do you read books? Top 5 books you've read (help you have a sense of the kind of knowledge they have).
- what's your bucket list?
- any past trauma you don't mind sharing? this is a big deal! Especially if they end up sharing.
- FOR BELIEVERS AGAIN, do you believe The Bible is God's word and final authority in the life of a Believer or you believe it's outdated or incomplete?
- what's your playlist like, again,
Who do listen to matters
So yeah, pace them, ask diplomatically in love and God help us all as He writes our love story 💛🤗
Claire is really beautiful!😍
I agree with Claire on the blood type conversation. When you are dating intentionally, I'm of the belief that at that point dating should be a time to collect data. With something as important as creating a family together I would be asking that question within the 1st month of dating just so Im not setting myself up.
I really love the hair on Claire🥰🥰🥰 its so gorgeous
Love love Claire's submission about the genotype question
I actually support asking about genotype early on, so you won't commit your heart and later be disappointed.
Loved this! I’d really recommend that if you’re both serious people, please ask about each other’s genotype by the second or third date. Get it out of the way, like Claire said. Let’s not get too deep into our feelings and forget these things. A lot could be riding on just that.
Mrs Claire, you look gorgeous, the hair is cute
Watching you guys at ×1.5 hits differently😂 .I love your vibe😊
13 minutes in, and I’ve been laughing non-stop 😂 Love y’all!
I also love deep questionsss... Claire we're in this together
😍❤ Claire's beauty and hair...
You look extremely gorgeous Claire🥺 I love your hair😍
Love the hair. 🎉
I'm of the opinion that you should discuss your blood group and genotype during the talking stage, just playfully, so that you can quickly know if your talking stage will lead to ordinary friendship or dating.
Great Video. Totally agree with Claire on questions on job and medical factors in talking stage. So much wisdom in this video. May be you guys should develop the talk on the non-spiritual youths; very interesting topics. Thanks guys
Love they way she called him my husband. Sound really good ❤❤❤
@Akah and Claire, thank you both for this video...
I have few questions though.
I.e how long should talking stage last for?
Can you talk about the list of test one should do before marriage aside from blood type?
Thank you and I will be looking forward to your response.
You can get a video of this on Aproko Doctor's channel, he recently made a video talking about the necessary tests to do before marriage
Claireeee we need a video on this hairrr
You guys are so cute 🥰 I’m glad i found you guys ❤
Truly, the question, What do you do is mostly asked
I loveee deep questions too
Blood group is a talking stage talk ooo.
You can't be discovering things when your heart is already knitted
How I love this two😂😂😂
How I love Akah and Claire because they make me laugh ooh(sing the song)
These days, genotype most especially should even be in the introduction phase, especially for people that are of the AS or SS genotype
To avoid future disasters
Very insightful videoand fun too😊❤. Pls can you do a video for friendship(Questions to ask when getting into a plain male-famale friendships).
Yes I agree with Claire, ask those questions first thing!!!! Obviously if both of you are serious people heading in the same direction, why not?
Is this Brother Felix from Just us Girls😂😂😂
Stop eet o😂. This is Akah
It’s so fun to watch you both🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 interesting video 😂…. For the genotype and blood group I feel that question should be asked early enough to avoid stories that touch oh… hmmmmm before emotions gets really deep
Yeah i would like to know the blood type and genotype before involving feelings
i love the hair Claire
Claire is brilliant ❤
You will just know that one is on broom stick😂😂 11:07
Pls we need a part 2 😢😢😊
I want that hair. What a beaut❤
Claire your hair is looking lovely
Na me first comment ooh😌😂❤️
Please o I am of the opinion you ask of blood Group early it's not even that deep to ask that question. Especially if it's some one you intend or will be interested in dating and marrying.
Just curious, how long should a talking stage be? If a person is interested in being in a relationship with the other
If I reach exclusive stage and I find out we're both AS, I'd be too heartbroken o. Please it's a first date question
What was that ending 😂😂❤️
I have a question Akah and Claire, please help. What do you do when someone you just met thinks they are not on the same level with you but you like them?
The way I hate you Akah in 'just us girls series'
Claire is so pretty and cute❤
Claire looks like a diva 😍
Not claire saying 'otisapamomilori'
Akah, so i should be exclusive then now see say u be AS? iro ooo! Only if one is already AA then you don't bother about those things.
Claire's bombs 😅😅😅
You're both so cutesy 😂😂
Second comment 😊😊😊
😂😂😂😂😂😂