When you set boundaries, that is where you find out who your friends are. I had problems setting boundaries many years ago and my life was a complete misery, but now these horrible people are out of my life. I have very few friends and that’s how I like it. 🙂
Also I warn those who don’t respect or have boundaries themselves will view your boundaries as rude, unnecessary, and nonsense. Let them have their temper tantrums and elegantly move on.
Talking about setting boundaries, yes this is ME. The moment you cross my boundaries you get to see my true colors. Those who are not close to me say I'm proud, arrogant blah blah blah but I don't give a damn. This is me & this is how I wanna live my life. Great video Vivianne. ❤❤❤❤
I honestly think I for one need to set some emotional boundaries. At work, some people joke at my expense, and I'd prefer not to be made a clown at their will.
Such a wonderful video👏 that’s what I’m trying to impose now, becos some people are so rude and disrespectful, thanks for sharing Woman of Elegance, ur hair suite’s you🥰❤️❤️
Thank you for doing this video. My SIL is a person who actually likes to have relationships with people who just show up to her house unannounced or go in her backyard and "borrow" items. She has managed to create relationships with neighbors like this. It blows my mind. And my theory is that she likes this because she is trying to recreate the dynamics of her family of origin where there were no boundaries. She has managed to convince my brother that this is the way it should be. We were not raised this way. He married into a family that had no boundaries and while he was the one who came from a healthy family, he has somehow allowed her to teach him that having no boundaries with others is a better way to be. It's sick and confusing.
How do they know who borrowed the items? It sounds like they are all setting themselves up for theft. Some teenagers will catch wind of it and help themselves take things they can sell for drugs. When it happens, you have my permission to tell your brother I warned him.
Thanks, Vivian, but, "When other people have no manners, one is at their mercy". Henry James, novelist Boundaries are for the second encounter; the first encounter, rude people just trespass.
When you set boundaries, that is where you find out who your friends are. I had problems setting boundaries many years ago and my life was a complete misery, but now these horrible people are out of my life. I have very few friends and that’s how I like it. 🙂
Also I warn those who don’t respect or have boundaries themselves will view your boundaries as rude, unnecessary, and nonsense. Let them have their temper tantrums and elegantly move on.
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Thanks for the update. If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.
Boundaries are essential for your personal happiness, you will also respect yourself and others will respect your space and time.
THIS!!! 🎉
Talking about setting boundaries, yes this is ME. The moment you cross my boundaries you get to see my true colors. Those who are not close to me say I'm proud, arrogant blah blah blah but I don't give a damn. This is me & this is how I wanna live my life. Great video Vivianne. ❤❤❤❤
Congratulations Woman of Elegance for such high value advices.
I honestly think I for one need to set some emotional boundaries. At work, some people joke at my expense, and I'd prefer not to be made a clown at their will.
Such a wonderful video👏 that’s what I’m trying to impose now, becos some people are so rude and disrespectful, thanks for sharing Woman of Elegance, ur hair suite’s you🥰❤️❤️
I'm happy I discovered this channel 👏🏾❤
Wise advice. Thank you Woman of Elegance 🌹
Thank you for doing this video. My SIL is a person who actually likes to have relationships with people who just show up to her house unannounced or go in her backyard and "borrow" items. She has managed to create relationships with neighbors like this. It blows my mind. And my theory is that she likes this because she is trying to recreate the dynamics of her family of origin where there were no boundaries. She has managed to convince my brother that this is the way it should be. We were not raised this way. He married into a family that had no boundaries and while he was the one who came from a healthy family, he has somehow allowed her to teach him that having no boundaries with others is a better way to be. It's sick and confusing.
How do they know who borrowed the items? It sounds like they are all setting themselves up for theft. Some teenagers will catch wind of it and help themselves take things they can sell for drugs. When it happens, you have my permission to tell your brother I warned him.
@@wittymystic7361 That's a really good question! I never thought to ask.
This is such a relevant topic as the holidays approach. Thank you for sharing!
This was a much needed video, thank you so much!❤
Another good video. Thank you very much for sharing. And as usual, you look beautiful!
Happy Holidays to you!
Very wise advise.
Thanks, Vivian, but, "When other people have no manners, one is at their mercy". Henry James, novelist
Boundaries are for the second encounter; the first encounter, rude people just trespass.
Thanks for sharing.
I always learn new values from your videos. Thanks a lot
Good advice
Such a helpful video! Thanks for posting. BTW, where did you buy your nice blue pullover sweater? Thank you! 🤩
Excellent! 🤗🙏🏼💟
We've been waiting to hear from you Viv! Thanks and happy holidays ❤
Vivienne ❤
Love your hair! It's pretty.
🎉connected from 🇰🇪 Kenya ❤
I wish this had been around 50 years ago.
I communicated my boundaries to a “friend” and she told me it’s unnecessary and I am just being petty.
I just let her go. This was just 5days ago 😢
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