Rebecca, thank you for bringing your expertise to this arena. So often, lawyers don't understand what a narcissist is and doesn't have strategies to help you get through a high conflict divorce. You bring badly needed experience to those of us leaving a difficult narcissist.
THANK you for being our virtual mentor on empowered, unapologetic, no-bullshit women. I started down the path almost 2 years ago - you're the next part of it. BAM! I think you're awesome! 😍
First Red Flag- After engaging in the first 3 conversations with a narc it always goes back to be about them no matter what the topic is. It’s exhausting!
I have custody of 3 kiddos that have SIGNIFICANT trauma. A small tiny mosquito bite can cause them to have crocodile tears. It’s part of the “look at me, feel bad for me” personality of narcissism. I was also raised by a narcissist and have a BPD sister
Rebecca, for me personally writing a chronicle of my 32 years with my ex-wife, our families, our aging parents, and our two daughters has helped me tremendously to start to put the pain behind me. I started writing on April 24th, 2020, and will hopefully complete it for the most part by the end of the week. In the process of writing it, the memories flooded back in bits and pieces, dribs, and drabs, and bolts of light, but on the whole it coalesced to elucidate one primal fact. What happens to a child when they are young, impressionable, vulnerable, defenseless, and then are betrayed by sick misguided parents, irrevocably damages many of them forever. Down through one generation after another Narcissism undulates like a scythe through heads of wheat as it takes its grim toll on each succeeding generation. Sadly, with no on being the wiser, or ever coming close to having an epiphany of what really happened in so many lives, over so many years, it's all swept away. Now my journey through the past is almost at and end, thank you Rebecca for all your help, and wonderful insights. Jack
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you for what you are doing, you are changing the world. Arming us kind people with the wisdom to recognize and to change our lives. So far I have booted out 2 Narcs from my life this year. My spirit is already lighter. 2017 I moved across the country from the Briese Clan or Mob, so I was doing really good. When I get free completely I will soar, I plan on getting a dog and staying single.
Watching from hospital bed. Love Rebecca. Your explanatiohs are vy clear. Going to court (for 5th time) 13 July 2020 from hosp. May God Bless you. Rokiah (Rocky) from Malaysia.
Thanks for your hard work it's the best treatment and you do it for free, amazing .You are sharp ,clear,and easy to understand your explanation ,a lot off other expert make much more difficult to understand ,they make it to technical..best greetings .
I missed it! I was too busy reading the domestic violence injunction that was just served to me. Apparently I have been making violent threats, but I don't recall anything of the sort! 🤣😂🤣
I feel your pain. She punched me in the face and shoved me. When I grabbed her hand to stop her she dreamed bloody murder and called the cops. Then told them I hit and shoved her.
My narcissist will not let be go anywhere without him. Been married 59 years. He was womanizer and now he thinks I am running around. Is he reflecting his guilt off on me? I’ve never been unfaithful
Birdie Blue Lol! No, I am grateful that you responded- my daughters are never bathed or their hair brushed- but he does have them brush teeth- again- I am so grateful that their are others that have been in this and understand. The rest of the world looks at me like the crazy mom- who lost the marital home in divorce- the judge thought so- and my atty told me my judge does NOT like domestic violence cases so I was NOT to bring it up. He just put in a swimming pool- more things to lure my girls- but they tell me he just sits on couch and watches tv. Anyway- could go on and on for days- and I have done that already- Thanks Birdie! 😉
rebecca, i think it's so cute that you acted like christmas morning in your excitement about your first live YT. i get it. keep on keeping on. you offer great insight and advice on the topic of narcissism. cheers!
Rebecca, thank you for bringing your expertise to this arena. So often, lawyers don't understand what a narcissist is and doesn't have strategies to help you get through a high conflict divorce. You bring badly needed experience to those of us leaving a difficult narcissist.
THANK you for being our virtual mentor on empowered, unapologetic, no-bullshit women. I started down the path almost 2 years ago - you're the next part of it. BAM! I think you're awesome! 😍
I was told constantly that I needed to apologize for offending the narcissist.
Thank you for the support.
I am very close to celebrating my freedom in Arizona. Friday Afternoo I am Moving out onto a peace filled future.
so happy for you. much luck and love in your future.
@@sophiemorrison9820 thank you so much.
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you so much
First Red Flag- After engaging in the first 3 conversations with a narc it always goes back to be about them no matter what the topic is. It’s exhausting!
Okay, I’m dealing with a new one: over exaggerating & complaining about “health problems”
Anyone?
On a daily basis!
I have custody of 3 kiddos that have SIGNIFICANT trauma. A small tiny mosquito bite can cause them to have crocodile tears. It’s part of the “look at me, feel bad for me” personality of narcissism.
I was also raised by a narcissist and have a BPD sister
Victim narc! Do not fall for it!❤️
You have been a big help for my sanity
Rebecca, for me personally writing a chronicle of my 32 years with my ex-wife, our families, our aging parents, and our two daughters has helped me tremendously to start to put the pain behind me. I started writing on April 24th, 2020, and will hopefully complete it for the most part by the end of the week. In the process of writing it, the memories flooded back in bits and pieces, dribs, and drabs, and bolts of light, but on the whole it coalesced to elucidate one primal fact. What happens to a child when they are young, impressionable, vulnerable, defenseless, and then are betrayed by sick misguided parents, irrevocably damages many of them forever. Down through one generation after another Narcissism undulates like a scythe through heads of wheat as it takes its grim toll on each succeeding generation. Sadly, with no on being the wiser, or ever coming close to having an epiphany of what really happened in so many lives, over so many years, it's all swept away.
Now my journey through the past is almost at and end, thank you Rebecca for all your help, and wonderful insights. Jack
They never ever love you! It is all about control and supply... so sad
Wow, hard to read and accept but now I am aware of the signs.
Thank you so much for your post. I'm sick of all crying myself to sleep this week xx
True Lip Service ONLY. Actions speak louder than Empty words. You can't express TRUE Love to "someone" who is incapable of Loving 💯%
I love your channel, really good information about narcissism.
Hi Rebecca, Missed your live presentation, but listening now!!! THANK YOU SO MUCH!
Thank You and God Bless 🙏.Nice to see you so excited on your first live video👍
Sorry I missed your first Live Stream. Love your content. God bless you for helping others recognize the dangers of the narcissist.
Great replay - looking forward to the next livestream!
U r very good and knowledgeable. I am grateful to u. I watch lots of ur videos
Thank you for all of the videos!! They have been so helpful!!
Thank you from Japan. Trying to end the relationship!!
Praying for you. I am a survivor. There is a much better life on the other side of narcissistic abuse.
Good job rebecca !
Just watched your first YT live. Awesome to see how you were so excited about your first live. Keep it up!
My husband is exactly this.
@@RebeccaZungEsq thank you for what you are doing, you are changing the world.
Arming us kind people with the wisdom to recognize and to change our lives. So far I have booted out 2 Narcs from my life this year. My spirit is already lighter. 2017 I moved across the country from the Briese Clan or Mob, so I was doing really good.
When I get free completely I will soar, I plan on getting a dog and staying single.
Watching from hospital bed. Love Rebecca. Your explanatiohs are vy clear.
Going to court (for 5th time) 13 July 2020
from hosp. May God Bless you. Rokiah (Rocky) from Malaysia.
Thanks for your hard work it's the best treatment and you do it for free, amazing .You are sharp ,clear,and easy to understand your explanation ,a lot off other expert make much more difficult to understand ,they make it to technical..best greetings .
HOW TO DEAL WITH A TOXIC PERSON: you just don't. You leave..is that simple..
Wonderful!! 💯
Life saver
Daryl from Pennsylvania!
Hello from Fulton, Missouri
Kellie here
Hey glad to be here 😊
They try to suck blood out of empathy
Been married with a narc for almost 13 years
I missed it! I was too busy reading the domestic violence injunction that was just served to me. Apparently I have been making violent threats, but I don't recall anything of the sort! 🤣😂🤣
I feel your pain. She punched me in the face and shoved me. When I grabbed her hand to stop her she dreamed bloody murder and called the cops. Then told them I hit and shoved her.
Can we sue them for pain and suffering?
My narcissist will not let be go anywhere without him. Been married 59 years. He was womanizer and now he thinks I am running around. Is he reflecting his guilt off on me? I’ve never been unfaithful
Quick Question: Does the Narcissist love their children? If they are incapable or is it different with their children?
Birdie Blue Lol! No, I am grateful that you responded- my daughters are never bathed or their hair brushed- but he does have them brush teeth- again- I am so grateful that their are others that have been in this and understand. The rest of the world looks at me like the crazy mom- who lost the marital home in divorce- the judge thought so- and my atty told me my judge does NOT like domestic violence cases so I was NOT to bring it up. He just put in a swimming pool- more things to lure my girls- but they tell me he just sits on couch and watches tv. Anyway- could go on and on for days- and I have done that already- Thanks Birdie! 😉
Thanks, right back at you! ;-)
ur so on this thanks again
I missed It, so sorry. Love from Switzerland
@@RebeccaZungEsq i sure will, thankyou
M from india. Daughter of narcissistic parents. How can I get a session with u? I need to talk to someone who knows what narcissism really is!
Rebecca thank you for the videos. Subscribed and notified. Do you know a good lawyer or mediator in Coeur d'Alene, ID or Spokane, WA?
Hi from New Mexico! Thank you for what you do!
Marcia Linn I am from New Mexico too ☺️
@@lorielyasevich1472 which city?
Marcia Linn Carlsbad
Hi mike from Washington d c
Are you still doing videos on Instagram Become a NarcSlayer?
Oh no 😣 missed the live chat.
Ready for divorce, but he has me locked me out of all money/finances., 41 years married:.should I hire a investigator/FBI..to get access?
Get yourself an attorney ASAP.
I hope you are in a different place, 4 years later. Living a peaceful and wonderful life. 30 years divorced from mine. Life is good!
Hi from in Hampshire uk
hello
from florida
36yrs come July 11
Had a bad day? Personally attack a narcissist....and make your day better again!
hi from the uk!
@@RebeccaZungEsq fab videos and advice, thank you, you come from an empowered stance as a strong independent women and that's great!
rebecca, i think it's so cute that you acted like christmas morning in your excitement about your first live YT. i get it. keep on keeping on. you offer great insight and advice on the topic of narcissism. cheers!
🌻👍Oklahoma
Too distracting saying people’s names as you go along can’t listen