How To Find A Godly Spouse | Specific Details and Advice!

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  • Опубликовано: 12 сен 2024
  • What’s up guys, my name is Jacob Petersen and I am joined by my wife Julia Petersen to talk about a question we get VERY frequently. If you're anything like me, you probably have spent a lot of time thinking about your future spouse. Who are they, what will they look like, what makes them who they are, will they like the same things that I do, and the list could go on forever. Well, just like you, I wanted an answer to these questions, but there was one thing I knew; I wanted to date and marry a woman of God - this meaning someone who was equally yoked with me and was living for Christ. Since then, we have seen what it looks like when God places that person into your life, and we want to go ahead and share specific details and advice to the same questions that we used to ask, for anybody who may be asking these questions now! I hope our advice and story help and inspire you in trying to find a Godly spouse to spend the rest of your life with!
    You can expect videos every Saturday at 10:30 AM CST, and maybe an extra weekly vlog here and there.
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Комментарии • 88

  • @gmj2025
    @gmj2025 Год назад +58

    My Dad wasn't even a Christian. He met my mom and he now is a Christian and preacher and brought several to Christ. There's hope for the unbeliever, just don't marry them until they believe like you do. 😊

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 месяцев назад +6

      Yes. They must be sincere in their love for Christ .

  • @zozo.annaa09
    @zozo.annaa09 Год назад +76

    the fact that i found this video right after going to church camp and meeting a guy that i think likes me and he’s into christianity as much as me…

    • @bella-fq9ev
      @bella-fq9ev Год назад +1

      Same

    • @user-te4bf6ye7r
      @user-te4bf6ye7r 10 месяцев назад +1

      Love Jesus

    • @Itsorloff
      @Itsorloff 8 месяцев назад +3

      What ended up happening?

    • @abbyluttrell
      @abbyluttrell 5 месяцев назад

      That happened to me too! I still am in love with him but........

    • @BlakeGurnee
      @BlakeGurnee 5 месяцев назад

      @@abbyluttrell But what?

  • @marysue_albertson
    @marysue_albertson Год назад +33

    I love hearing God speak through the both of you through your videos. I know He has abundant blessings for the both of you now and as you both continue to grow together and individually

  • @FilipinaAndTheForeigner
    @FilipinaAndTheForeigner 7 месяцев назад +6

    Make sure you BOTH love God

  • @crispyz2864
    @crispyz2864 3 месяца назад +7

    I'm 18, Trying to find a godly woman. God is Good✝

    • @Kayleebug451
      @Kayleebug451 3 месяца назад +2

      Im trying to find my husband also!! Ive found I need a lot of things I need to work on in myself before I want to start my family and my find my husband. I know this is hard to expect but gods timing is always perfect !!! Trust in him!

    • @crispyz2864
      @crispyz2864 3 месяца назад

      @@Kayleebug451 I'm the same way, I need to work on myself more and i have been for a while now. I do want to find my wife while I am still younger tho, and start my family sooner rather than later. You seem sweet and in the spirit of God, you won't have any problem🙂 Trust in God always, God bless you

    • @Kayleebug451
      @Kayleebug451 3 месяца назад

      @@crispyz2864 i don’t think you should have a problem either!! You just have to trust god in timing!! I am young too but I’ve found its always best to let God set everything up for me and my future family!! And this single time for me is so important to learn life lessons that I will need as a mother or a wife for my future husband and kids. Not only that, but God is building me in my single era. You seem really sweet also! I think once you put yourself out there and become more involved in your Christian community will find the one. God bless you on your journey and good luck to you and your wife and kids!!

    • @Kayleebug451
      @Kayleebug451 3 месяца назад

      @@crispyz2864 trust in him!! I know that may seem difficult at the moment. Know you are not alone and i struggle with trust also. Even though im only 15 I’ve been through some things that have really helped me build my faith with god. Thank you i appreciate the compliment!! You seem like you shouldn’t have a problem either and you seem very sweet! Let me ask you, how is your relationship with God?

    • @Kayleebug451
      @Kayleebug451 18 дней назад

      @@crispyz2864 you seem sweet to!! I don’t think you’ll have a problem either! Be patient! God isn’t only working on you but her too. Have a blessed day!!

  • @janna4994
    @janna4994 Год назад +10

    I learned pretty early on in my journey to Jesus that a lot of Christians aren't actually Christians. So yeah make sure that the person you're looking for is Christ centered, not church centered

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 11 месяцев назад +4

      My ex-husband and subsequent ex boyfriend pretended to be Christians. They lied so they could be with me. Be careful.

    • @May_Lord_be_Glorified
      @May_Lord_be_Glorified 9 месяцев назад +4

      You need to ask the Lord first before getting married. Ask him if you’re marrying the right person!

  • @NancyMiller-or1bo
    @NancyMiller-or1bo Год назад +28

    God is good and faithful 🙏 ❤

    • @Arseniom13
      @Arseniom13 2 месяца назад

      Are you single ?

  • @warnerboyz5495
    @warnerboyz5495 Год назад +8

    I hope your aware of how many lives your changing through your videos! God bless you both

  • @mattcsmith47
    @mattcsmith47 Год назад +10

    Love the video! Thank you, Jacob and Julia. I love the point about knowing yourself. Something that's been on my head and heart lately is the nature of emotional dependence and the sense and security of personal identity in relationships. I have experienced girls wanting a relationship but the "motive" behind it is that they want a relationship to only say they are in a relationship or are only looking for like counseling. It is good that people want help and recognize the need for counseling. And some degree of emotional dependence is normal in relationships. I have been told one of my gifts is in counseling. However, it's never a good foundation for a romantic lifelong relationship and can go one-sided very quickly. Because if someone insecure tries to get in a relationship for the sake of their identity fulfillment or are entirely emotionally dependent on their partner, it can turn into an emotional "choke-hold."
    Love the practical advice.
    Matt Smith

  • @braelynh2549
    @braelynh2549 Год назад +4

    I’m a Christian Penecostal and the things that y’all are saying and her are like spot on I love that y’all are sharing his contact on the Internet for more questions after like me being a Pentecostal and stuff like that thank you and I hope that you’re marriage goes good❤

  • @jacobj6257
    @jacobj6257 Год назад +3

    Even thow i watched this video a month after you posted it, i needed to here this because it brang a few things to my attention. I am waiting for the woman that God has for me. I have been wating for 21 years.

  • @laviniak_freitas
    @laviniak_freitas Год назад +6

    This was so heartwarming. It’s helped me and encouraged me to enjoy each and every season of life

  • @juliaapoee
    @juliaapoee Год назад +5

    i love doing life with you ❤

  • @PNW-LIPP-RIPPERZ
    @PNW-LIPP-RIPPERZ Год назад +4

    Hi guys!!!! Love watching you both thanks for all the great videos you do and bring us.

  • @abbymarie4187
    @abbymarie4187 Год назад +4

    I love this video! Thank you for giving this great advice. ❤🙏🏻

  • @mitzianngoodgion3180
    @mitzianngoodgion3180 Год назад +2

    It’s was nice to hear from god bless your heart guys god loves you guys

  • @_putJesusfirst_
    @_putJesusfirst_ Год назад +4

    My favorite food is probably chocolate but also chips and pizza 😂and sandwiches

  • @mattcsmith47
    @mattcsmith47 Год назад +2

    One of my favorite foods is definitely shepherds pie

  • @Erykah_Mia
    @Erykah_Mia Год назад +4

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤Thank you for this video!

  • @pintolovespepper
    @pintolovespepper Год назад +5

    Praise God!

  • @hitoritsukumi8175
    @hitoritsukumi8175 4 месяца назад +1

    God is good ❤❤ Amen ❤️ ❤️

  • @meagengillman2094
    @meagengillman2094 Год назад +3

    Looking forward to this video ❤

  • @OLThomas-y9j
    @OLThomas-y9j 25 дней назад

    My last comment here is all board readers really ought to hear Hank Snow's rendition of the 1952 song " Married by the Bible Divorced by the Law " ! I'm serious about this one, no jokes ! Divorces really mess up little kids' lives forever ! I have survived to now at 85 thru one myself ...my parents ! It's a rotten shame and Satan loves to see them !

  • @dominickcrider4582
    @dominickcrider4582 Год назад +2

    Thank you guys very mutch I needed this.

  • @pintolovespepper
    @pintolovespepper Год назад +3

    God Bless Y’all!

  • @chistinasong6065
    @chistinasong6065 Год назад +2

    My favorite food is anything sweet!

  • @brookyonas
    @brookyonas 11 месяцев назад

    Love from Ethiopia 🇪🇹 for you both. I am learning alot from you guys

  • @user-zd9lo5pm5v
    @user-zd9lo5pm5v Год назад +1

    hiiiiiii! i love y’all’s videos!

  • @anelezondo1817
    @anelezondo1817 Год назад +3

    I love this content, thank you

  • @MusicJunkie08
    @MusicJunkie08 Год назад +2

    J and J.❤ yall are so cute.😊

  • @bayleeking496
    @bayleeking496 Год назад +1

    fav food is definitely Mac and cheese

  • @Brunette_hottie
    @Brunette_hottie Год назад

    my fav food is pasta!! i’m from ur tt live new follower❣️

  • @divineprovidence803
    @divineprovidence803 3 месяца назад

    I've prayed for over 16 years for a wife and marriage. I've used dating apps and cold approaching but nothing. I'm in my early 40's and honestly it's looking bleak with no options available. I trust God but surely if I have a need for companionship the Lord would meet that need? I understand if a person wants to blessed with the gift of singleness then that's fine but when a person really wants to share their love with another person wouldn't God bless that person with a spouse?

    • @DejanaBekfi
      @DejanaBekfi 3 месяца назад

      Trust the lord. His timing is perfect ❤

  • @josiepye
    @josiepye Год назад +1

    Thank you a lot for this video❤ Jesus bless you!

  • @JasonMathieu-ni1no
    @JasonMathieu-ni1no 9 месяцев назад

    Thanks for setting the example

  • @_putJesusfirst_
    @_putJesusfirst_ Год назад

    HII JACOB IM ON YOUR TIKTOK LIVE

  • @raionasmith8
    @raionasmith8 Год назад

    Love y’all 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽

  • @user-oj8hp7ot5s
    @user-oj8hp7ot5s Год назад

    My favorite food is pasta créole (Haitian food)

  • @shelleywinger8628
    @shelleywinger8628 Год назад +1

    My favorite food is pizza 🍕 😋

  • @brendachaves6375
    @brendachaves6375 Год назад

    Hey Jacob and Julia

  • @Lintoo_rizz
    @Lintoo_rizz Год назад

    My favourite food is Norwegian Taco

  • @katiehaughin6698
    @katiehaughin6698 Год назад

    My favourite food is pasta 🍝

  • @rexjenkinssimracing
    @rexjenkinssimracing 8 месяцев назад

    Work at Frontier Camp

  • @lightoftheworld5455
    @lightoftheworld5455 11 месяцев назад

    Believers have fallen even after following Jesus/Yeshua BUT as God hath said
    ”thou shalt be PERFECT with the Lord thy God.”
    And even His son said “Be ye PERFECT even as your Father in heaven is perfect.”
    Read
    Deuteronomy 18 is 🍞for those who have ears to hear.
    📜📜📜 Hear ye the Word of the Lord. ☝️☝️

  • @raionasmith8
    @raionasmith8 Год назад

    Love u guys 🫶🏽🫶🏽🫶🏽❤❤❤

  • @Darktacomic
    @Darktacomic 9 месяцев назад

    I found a girl and we dated and go the point that I loved her but she turned out to be gay

  • @marisnutt4425
    @marisnutt4425 Год назад

    My favorite food is spaghetti and meatballs

  • @tylermccoy6938
    @tylermccoy6938 Год назад

    God bless you Jacob i love you so much god is great for you and I am so grateful 🥲
    God wath us forever all i need is you so god bless your name Jacob lol Amen 🙏🙌

  • @taylorbrooks6171
    @taylorbrooks6171 Год назад

    i'm here

  • @hitoritsukumi8175
    @hitoritsukumi8175 4 месяца назад

    In Jesus mighty name ❤️ ❤️ Amen ❤️ ❤️

  • @anthonydamato0803
    @anthonydamato0803 Год назад

    Steak or grilled chicken

  • @LiliandEmmalove
    @LiliandEmmalove Год назад

    hi

  • @richardkelsey2
    @richardkelsey2 Год назад

    My favorite food is pizza.

  • @lifewithjessica6855
    @lifewithjessica6855 Год назад

    Burger and fries

  • @anneliesepainter7038
    @anneliesepainter7038 Год назад

    Baked potatoes!

  • @DavidGaltry
    @DavidGaltry Год назад

    Do u have c D's u u singin to sell

  • @lewisjones3327
    @lewisjones3327 10 месяцев назад

    This is so cringe.

  • @tylermccoy6938
    @tylermccoy6938 Год назад

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️✝️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @katiehaughin6698
    @katiehaughin6698 Год назад

    I can’t wait for this video 🤍