4 signs you are READY for a relationship. 1. You’re not willing to settle for less than your standards in a potential spouse (You won’t compromise). 2. You don’t stop seeking the Lord when you meet someone (You don’t lose motivation in your walk with Christ). 3. You go to church to hunger, seek, worship and pursue the Lord first and don’t idolise the idea of having a spouse (You seek God before seeking a relationship). 4. You are fine when doors close for relationships that were not meant to be (You trust when God closes and opens doors).
I no longer want to pursue a relationship. I only want to pursue God. In fact, I will idolize a partner, so it is imperative that I seek only God and leave relationships to others.
@marcoAKAjoe Basically, when you're first looking for a relationship, you often go to events and places with potentially finding your significant other on the peak of your mind.
I’m not giving up on finding someone, but I think I’m done looking. It’s honestly exhausting being worried about it. I just want to relax with where I’m at.
I have given up completely. It's just not in the cards for me. Marriage is for the general population, but it's a no go for me personally! Couples like Sam and Sadie are very rare even among Christians.
@HamiltonRowan-r6z it's exhausting when you try to find a spouse with your own efforts. I have personally decided to stop searching. But I know with God it is possible. I want to focus on everything else I can improve like my relationship with God, with family friends, my career/finances, my health (mental or emotional health), my hobbies I mean the list is endless when you focus on just living life and enjoying it how God intended for us to live by putting our hope in Him and resting in His presence
It’s so hard because the wider Christian family tell the singles that they can’t be sat at home and expect to find a husband. That we have to go and hunt… like God has hidden him somewhere and is playing a cruel game of hide and seek. This is not who our God is. And so many singles are rushing into relationships and not waiting longer because of this pressure. The amount of times I’ve been told I’m too fussy and have too hi hi standards… is it too much that I want a man around my age/generation who loves the lord? I think not. So I have stopped listening to people as I will be the one who has to live with the consequence of my decision of who I marry. I’m listening to the voice of my loving father who really knows what’s best for me ❤
See I think that dating is like walking down a path and God aligns our path with another person as we walk along it. We work on the type of Husband/Wife we want to be within the will of God and we look for the Husband/Wife we want and we eventually find each other. There is no rush, but as you date or court people be willing to say no to those that wouldn’t be right for you and also consider what you gotta work on in yourself until you find the right person.
Also women usually marry older men, because it usually works out better that way and older men usually are better set up in their life and can be a better provider/protector for a family. A lot of women seem disappointed after dating or marrying men the same age as them.
@@andrewmallard1974 Most women are too age prejudiced to marry older men. I got screwed over by 2 of them last year. They wanted to date me until they learned my age then they changed their mind. 😎
I was just thinking of the hide and seek analogy a few days ago. You can’t force anything, just go about your daily life following Christ and supposedly the one will come along. For me as a still single guy, it gets to the point where I’d rather give up everything including my life before I find anyone with whom to live out the rest of my life.
I love how Sam mentioned the beginning how he had a checklist and was wondering if there's someone who's like that and he met Sadie and they were a perfect match with lots of things in common from childhood even though each lived in a different state, it's beautiful and was worth mentioning, it's very inspirational and helpful ✨
Y’all have been so encouraging to me ❤️ I never really had any advice on relationships and my parents are separated. Praying to God to not only find a Godly husband, but to be that help for him .
You are so right about God closing some doors and opening others. We need to trust the Lord in the easy times AND the hard times, otherwise we aren't trusting him at all!
Your advice is really good. Ive been feeling really discouraged about relationships in general. I wonder why i feel so invisible to God in this area of life. I dont go to church to find women but i do admit being discouraged not making progress relationally while other around me keep finding love and marriage. I don't like the stuck in place feeling but im sure most people feel the same. Thank you for your video. God bless you both.
I felt the same way, but then I realized that God is protecting me from the wrong people and relationships this way. Only your spouse will have eyes for you and vice versa when you meet her. She will want to be with you and you with her no matter what. Trust me on this. Pray to God about everything, for he cares that much to hear from us in prayer. I felt completely invisible too during college, but yet the true daughters of the Lord gravitated towards me because they knew I wouldn’t compromise like they wanted in a man with the party, sex, and drinking culture in college. I didn’t have a full roster to use and dump like the world encourages, but my ex and I from 8 years ago just felt like we always knew each other when we first met. She knew what she saw and wanted from me and was determined to keep the relationship and grow it with me, even when I wasn’t sure about things and what to do. She only had eyes for me and sought me out more than her until I realized why since I was always felt invisible. We only spilt up because of life circumstances separating us when she transferred out to study the major she wanted after we talked about it.
As a woman, it seems odd you say this. Your in the position to pursue or ask a woman out. Your the one who will eventually propose, not her. There are so many single sisters desiring marriage. Help me understand. Maybe your shy?
@@danilaroche1156women need to start pursuing. Its not just the guys job. That said its possible the Op like me has given up entirely because why bother trying when the result is always the same. If no one wants you then no one ever will. Not even God can change that. So it doesn't matter anymore.
Love listening to your wisdom as a young Christian couple! Keep sharing, Sam and Sadie! Yes, we need to fix our eyes on Jesus wherever we go and trust that in His timing He will give us the desires of our heart according to His good and perfect will. ❤️
I have decided that, although I think marriage is a beautiful gift, I personally don't believe that marriage is for me. I like living by myself, I feel more peaceful alone rather than in a relationship, and finally I am with the Apostle Paul about how the unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord and doesn't have divided loyalties.
Thank you so much for this! I was so encouraged by this! I felt like I checked all the boxes, which is why perhaps the Lord has finally placed a man in my life, but I know they only reason I have is because of his grace and work in me, and that I still need to keep my focus on Him, my King, in all things, regardless of where this relationship goes. Again, thank you guys, God bless!
I could've done with this video 5 years ago. Especially the on/off/ break up, red flag. My marriage split 3 times before he left 2 mths ago. I see why it wasnt successful and as a 2nd one, there were more hurdles.
I agree with everything you guys said here! I stopped looking after a previous relationship which I knew God would not have approved, I got out of that situation we remained friends! But I gave up on looking because I’m leaving it in Gods very capable hands! And another thing that you said that stood out to me is trying to meet your soul mate at church there is this guy that is pursuing me in church and I’m like hello I didn’t come in here to find a man !? in his head he thinks that something can materialize from what he’s trying to achieve but he met a very closed door because I feel no connection, I’m not attracted to the man and like he does not get it 😂 but thanks for this video! I just stumbled upon you guys ❤️❤️
reminds me of the guy stuck on a roof waiting for god to save him "hey buddy, we got room in our boat wanna hop in?" "No, I leave my fate in the hands of the Lord!" the water rises "hello down there, we got room in the helicopter you want us to hoist you up?" "No Sir, I believe in God he will deliver me." the water carries him away out to sea and he drowns "God... why did you forsake me?" "Did I not send you aid twice and twice you refused?"
I don’t know how long it takes! I will not ever drop my standers!! lol here a year later! And have been recently wondering when God would have me on a dating season. Never wanna go against God’s will I believe that God’s timing is everything more recently. I’ve also been scared of marrying the wrong man, but I believe that God will guide me to the right man. ❤🙏🏻🤗🙌🏻
Wow you guys both were homeschooled? That’s awesome. I was homeschooled and wanted to have that in common to. I think having me and my husband both experienced in it would aid in us having more of a partnership when homeschooling future kids, I just rencently got in touch with a guy who was homeschooled also and I like him alot, he is very compatible with me, our family’s go way back but we were out of touch because they moved. I wonder if he likes me or not - he seems very focused on pursuing the lord. Ive gotten side hugs thoug… :p
Being autistic, I had to let go of many secondary standards in favor of purely dogmatic ones such as Beliefs in the Trinity, Jesus substitutional death on a cross, reading correct translations of the gospel and avoiding aberrant theology. Chemistry was there but I was no longer locked onto a type or image in my mind. I stopped expecting her to appear in my congregation and that was a huge difference. Also having a job and pursuing an education didn't hurt either.
Muslims and Conservative Christians have a lot in common because they both want to serve God with their lives. Christians and Muslims don't succeed in always doing what God asks, but Christians have the joy of knowing their mistakes were paid for by Jesus's death. I know Jesus is mentioned in the Koran, but if you read or listen to the testimony of his friends, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John (the Gospels) you'll get to know the whole story of Jesus.
Its hard to let my fiance go. I thought he loved me and the Lord. I was certain he was it. Certain of his love. We had a misunderstanding and he walked away. He said he had anxiety attacks. I get that but he left and refused to communicate. Refused to sort things out. Completely shut me out for months! I guess I was wrong. I don’t think a man who loves me would do this.
I don't know. These are the typical christian tips that I am a little tired of. I think there is nothing wrong with going to a church and looking around if there is somebody cute. It is okay to have the longing for someone and it is only a virtue if you are seeking inside the church and not outside. I feel like this gets shamed a lot amongst believers and I don't understand why. This makes me frustrated and sad. Of course we go to church to wroship God but also to build relationships with other believers.
Hi Marketa! Everything that we said in this video we thought made it clear that desiring a relationship is perfectly normal and healthy! We were just saying that it shouldn’t be the ONLY thing you go to church for!
For me, it doesn't appear that there is a woman for me in my church, so I have the prospect myself of going around and looking, perhaps in other churches or on ChrisrianMingle. I understand your point.
I ain’t never been married just don’t think it’s a good idea to talk about experiences with another person to their spouse I’m hoping it’s not damaging your wonderful marriage views for us maybe overthinking things wish y’all the best!
We think it’s a good idea to talk some about the different doors God closed to bring us to where He wanted us to be! Dwelling on the past usually isn’t good unless we are dwelling on the good things God has done for us! And Sadie and I are both thankful for the doors He shut in order to bring us together! God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I was just planning to go to this church tomorrow where there's a girl i'd like to meet, i don't really feel well for going there just for that purpose though.
Hi there! If you can still worship the Lord when you attend the church tomorrow, you should go for it! There is no wrong in attending a church if you can still worship the Lord. God bless!
How did things go brother? I am curious to hear, but remember that God only wants us to marry inside his family and not outside with unbelievers or lukewarm Christians. Ask God about it in prayer and He will answer you.
@@csnjsro be patient in prayer and ask God for clarity and to show you if you are lusting after her or are truly looking for a companionship in your heart. Let Him guide you and just pay attention to the external things like if she has interest in you and if she wants to spend time with you. Next time you see her interact and start a conversation to connect with her asking about her walk with God and faith. You will learn a lot from that.
As much as I like being single I intensely desire someone that is both pleasing to my eyes but also pleasing in the eyes of the Lord and when I see women whom are pleasing in my eyes but are taken it burns and hurts so badly inside because I desire and feel like I deserve that same thing 😢😭 and I feel like nobody understands despite their claims that they do. I want a beautiful women that is pleasing to my eyes and pleasing to the eyes of the Lord so bad that it hurts I know and believe with all my heart that there is someone out there like that for me but for the life of me attracting a woman is not something that I am good at I could ask for help but I fear that nobody would honor my wish and standards for women in the process Lord please help me!!!
Have faith in God and ask Him to illuminate your motivations for desiring a marriage. Sometimes like I experienced, I thought I was asking with pure intentions, but there was impure desires behind it until the Holy Spirit told me this and helped me work in the underlying issue. Other times, we just need to ask God for help in making us grow to be a better person by putting us through the furnace and fire to make us stronger and better for that desire we have.
Make sure that you are a masculine man. Build muscle, get lean, dress well, take care of your grooming, maintain a powerful presence, and lastly speak in a deep voice if you are able.
@@ModelJames13 All those are fine points that you mentioned the part that I completely disagree with you on is the building muscle part. It’s important to show that you are masculine, dress representable, take care of yourself properly, exercise your faith, and maintain a strong belief within yourself but I don’t think you exactly need to be an Arnold Schwarzenegger though and that’s all that I am going to say in regards to your comment sir.
My guidelines are basic! I believe that my future spouse should love GOD first and foremost in her life!! Must not have children from a previous marriage!! Must not consume alcohol to aid in relaxation( in other words codependency) Pet free!! I work my job as often as I can to pay bills!! I will not tolerate a partner who sacrifices work and paying bills for Church!! Praying in tongues is non-negotiable!! A Christian that doesn’t believe in the Holy Ghost is not of GOD!!!!
The Bible is the most unboring most fascinating & thrilling book in the world. It takes time to understand and absorb it. The more you grow in Christ, the more you will love the Bible.
I'M IN A SUICIDAL HELL. I DESPERATELY WANT TO DIE. *I broke my own heart, into a million-billion-trillion shreds... By so DEEPLY desperately totally loving: a fantasy, an illusion, instead of the real man, in front of me (who had a zillion red flags).* please, please, please, God, help me. I cannot bear the darkness any longer. please. please, angel of mercy, help! please, I'm dying inside. I'm terrified and alone. I DESPERATELY WANT TO DIE. I CANNOT TAKE THIS HELL ANYMORE. UNBEARABLE PAIN. DROWNING IN TERROR AND GRIEF. I WANT TO DIE. HOW WILL I EVER HEAL? I AM DYING OF PAIN. I AM DESPERATELY TERRIFIED AND ALONE AND PANICKED. my soul is raped. I'm in so much pain. I'm in hell with no escape. I'm a tortured prisoner to the darkness. darkness envelopes me and surrounds me... I live in frantic panicked terror. I am paralyzed with trauma. I have hyperventilating panic attacks. ALL. THE. TIME! I die of the pain. I am tormented. TORTURED. ALONE. alone and dying. desperate and in despair. I want to die. I can't bear the pain and the grief and the panic. I can't bear it. I suffocate with panic attacks. I am paralyzed with trauma. I DIE die die OF PANIC!! the suffering and grief are unbearable. I am tortured and haunted and suicidal. I am tormented and terrified and all alone. so so so very alone!!! I want to die. I can't bear this pain. CANNOT BEAR IT. CANNOT BREATHE. DO NOT BREATHE. nightmares all night. panic attacks all day. he replaced me. disposed of me. I WAS GARBAGE TO HIM. I've been viciously maliciously brutally violently raped, at the level of my soul, by my so-called best friend, who abandoned, and betrayed me, and disposed of me like garbage... the suffering is unbearable. the trauma and the panic truly suffocate me. I am horrified and haunted. I am terrified and alone. but, if anything, there are some things I've learned to appreciate about myself (through all this), like: - my kind eyes - my gentle ways - my depth - my curiosity - my poetry - my insights - my writing - my magic - my sweet smile - my intelligence - my femininity - my divinity - my wisdom - my incredible ability to truly listen and to really hear - my softness - the bitch in me - the poet in me - when I love, I give EVERYTHING - my innocence - my sweet gentleness - my willingness - my openness - my discernment - my unfolding - my empathy - my talents - my heart - my beautiful magical self-healing wise miraculous gorgeous body... please, God, help me remember these following things: - not to try to attract people, but rather, to trust the universe... to trust life... that the right people will enter my life in the right moments... - to set boundaries... Philippians 4:6 - "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..." Also, In the name of Jesus, I bind any and all evil spirits: of PTSD/terror/aloneness/loneliness/pain/panic/shame/grief/distress... And command you and demand you, in all authority given to me, by God... To leave me now! Go to the abyss and never return! In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Yeshua, my salvation! I DECLARE YOU Leave me: NOW!!! I 100% completely totally entirely renounce PTSD and I come into agreement, with any spirits associated with my pain, to leave me right now and forevermore! This is a spiritual war. I have been an injured warrior. NOW I RECLAIM MY POWER! HALLELUJAH!! No weapon formed against me shall prosper! 🙏 ALSO: I KNOW GOD IS THE BEST MATCHMAKER AND HIS DIVINE TIMING IS ALWAYS PERFECT! I PRAY! I TRUST! I RECIEVE! TO GOD BE THE GLORY! 💙
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4 signs you are READY for a relationship.
1. You’re not willing to settle for less than your standards in a potential spouse (You won’t compromise).
2. You don’t stop seeking the Lord when you meet someone (You don’t lose motivation in your walk with Christ).
3. You go to church to hunger, seek, worship and pursue the Lord first and don’t idolise the idea of having a spouse (You seek God before seeking a relationship).
4. You are fine when doors close for relationships that were not meant to be (You trust when God closes and opens doors).
God bless you! ❤️
Thank you 🙏🏽
I no longer want to pursue a relationship. I only want to pursue God. In fact, I will idolize a partner, so it is imperative that I seek only God and leave relationships to others.
I'm at the point where I don't want to only go somewhere to look for a guy.
Huh??
@marcoAKAjoe Basically, when you're first looking for a relationship, you often go to events and places with potentially finding your significant other on the peak of your mind.
I’m not giving up on finding someone, but I think I’m done looking. It’s honestly exhausting being worried about it. I just want to relax with where I’m at.
I have given up completely. It's just not in the cards for me. Marriage is for the general population, but it's a no go for me personally! Couples like Sam and Sadie are very rare even among Christians.
I agree with you man. It is exhausting tryna find a godly partner.
@HamiltonRowan-r6z it's exhausting when you try to find a spouse with your own efforts. I have personally decided to stop searching. But I know with God it is possible. I want to focus on everything else I can improve like my relationship with God, with family friends, my career/finances, my health (mental or emotional health), my hobbies I mean the list is endless when you focus on just living life and enjoying it how God intended for us to live by putting our hope in Him and resting in His presence
You don't have to search!!! Lay it in the hands of God and trust Him just like you would with everything else in your life!
It’s so hard because the wider Christian family tell the singles that they can’t be sat at home and expect to find a husband. That we have to go and hunt… like God has hidden him somewhere and is playing a cruel game of hide and seek. This is not who our God is. And so many singles are rushing into relationships and not waiting longer because of this pressure.
The amount of times I’ve been told I’m too fussy and have too hi hi standards… is it too much that I want a man around my age/generation who loves the lord? I think not. So I have stopped listening to people as I will be the one who has to live with the consequence of my decision of who I marry. I’m listening to the voice of my loving father who really knows what’s best for me ❤
You shouldn't be age prejudiced against older/younger men, if they have the qualities you seek that is. 😎
See I think that dating is like walking down a path and God aligns our path with another person as we walk along it. We work on the type of Husband/Wife we want to be within the will of God and we look for the Husband/Wife we want and we eventually find each other. There is no rush, but as you date or court people be willing to say no to those that wouldn’t be right for you and also consider what you gotta work on in yourself until you find the right person.
Also women usually marry older men, because it usually works out better that way and older men usually are better set up in their life and can be a better provider/protector for a family. A lot of women seem disappointed after dating or marrying men the same age as them.
@@andrewmallard1974 Most women are too age prejudiced to marry older men. I got screwed over by 2 of them last year. They wanted to date me until they learned my age then they changed their mind. 😎
I was just thinking of the hide and seek analogy a few days ago. You can’t force anything, just go about your daily life following Christ and supposedly the one will come along. For me as a still single guy, it gets to the point where I’d rather give up everything including my life before I find anyone with whom to live out the rest of my life.
I love how Sam mentioned the beginning how he had a checklist and was wondering if there's someone who's like that and he met Sadie and they were a perfect match with lots of things in common from childhood even though each lived in a different state, it's beautiful and was worth mentioning, it's very inspirational and helpful ✨
Y’all have been so encouraging to me ❤️ I never really had any advice on relationships and my parents are separated. Praying to God to not only find a Godly husband, but to be that help for him .
I, too, am in a very similar boat, looking for my wife
You are so right about God closing some doors and opening others. We need to trust the Lord in the easy times AND the hard times, otherwise we aren't trusting him at all!
Amen🙏💗
Your advice is really good. Ive been feeling really discouraged about relationships in general. I wonder why i feel so invisible to God in this area of life. I dont go to church to find women but i do admit being discouraged not making progress relationally while other around me keep finding love and marriage. I don't like the stuck in place feeling but im sure most people feel the same. Thank you for your video. God bless you both.
I felt the same way, but then I realized that God is protecting me from the wrong people and relationships this way. Only your spouse will have eyes for you and vice versa when you meet her. She will want to be with you and you with her no matter what. Trust me on this. Pray to God about everything, for he cares that much to hear from us in prayer.
I felt completely invisible too during college, but yet the true daughters of the Lord gravitated towards me because they knew I wouldn’t compromise like they wanted in a man with the party, sex, and drinking culture in college. I didn’t have a full roster to use and dump like the world encourages, but my ex and I from 8 years ago just felt like we always knew each other when we first met. She knew what she saw and wanted from me and was determined to keep the relationship and grow it with me, even when I wasn’t sure about things and what to do. She only had eyes for me and sought me out more than her until I realized why since I was always felt invisible. We only spilt up because of life circumstances separating us when she transferred out to study the major she wanted after we talked about it.
As a woman, it seems odd you say this. Your in the position to pursue or ask a woman out. Your the one who will eventually propose, not her. There are so many single sisters desiring marriage. Help me understand. Maybe your shy?
@@danilaroche1156women need to start pursuing. Its not just the guys job. That said its possible the Op like me has given up entirely because why bother trying when the result is always the same. If no one wants you then no one ever will. Not even God can change that. So it doesn't matter anymore.
EXACTLY THIS.
Love listening to your wisdom as a young Christian couple! Keep sharing, Sam and Sadie! Yes, we need to fix our eyes on Jesus wherever we go and trust that in His timing He will give us the desires of our heart according to His good and perfect will. ❤️
You both are wise beyond your years!
God bless your marriage!
I have no idea where to begin! I have started to ask God to show me!
I have decided that, although I think marriage is a beautiful gift, I personally don't believe that marriage is for me. I like living by myself, I feel more peaceful alone rather than in a relationship, and finally I am with the Apostle Paul about how the unmarried man is concerned about the things of the Lord and doesn't have divided loyalties.
Point two is so so underrated. Praise God you guys are talking with so much wisdom.
There is purpose in the pain .
Thank you so much for this! I was so encouraged by this! I felt like I checked all the boxes, which is why perhaps the Lord has finally placed a man in my life, but I know they only reason I have is because of his grace and work in me, and that I still need to keep my focus on Him, my King, in all things, regardless of where this relationship goes. Again, thank you guys, God bless!
THIS IS AMAZING. I go to a congregation where everyone is single, and everyone needs to hear this! #3 was revalatory.
I’ve been living my life wrong and I really appreciated your video.🙏
I could've done with this video 5 years ago. Especially the on/off/ break up, red flag. My marriage split 3 times before he left 2 mths ago. I see why it wasnt successful and as a 2nd one, there were more hurdles.
I agree with everything you guys said here! I stopped looking after a previous relationship which I knew God would not have approved, I got out of that situation we remained friends! But I gave up on looking because I’m leaving it in Gods very capable hands! And another thing that you said that stood out to me is trying to meet your soul mate at church there is this guy that is pursuing me in church and I’m like hello I didn’t come in here to find a man !? in his head he thinks that something can materialize from what he’s trying to achieve but he met a very closed door because I feel no connection, I’m not attracted to the man and like he does not get it 😂 but thanks for this video! I just stumbled upon you guys ❤️❤️
It’s hard when guys don’t get the message 😅
reminds me of the guy stuck on a roof waiting for god to save him
"hey buddy, we got room in our boat wanna hop in?" "No, I leave my fate in the hands of the Lord!"
the water rises
"hello down there, we got room in the helicopter you want us to hoist you up?" "No Sir, I believe in God he will deliver me."
the water carries him away out to sea and he drowns
"God... why did you forsake me?" "Did I not send you aid twice and twice you refused?"
I didn’t know Sam was from Cleveland! My dad and bonus mom are from Cleveland! They live less than half hour from the lake!
I don’t know how long it takes! I will not ever drop my standers!!
lol here a year later! And have been recently wondering when God would have me on a dating season. Never wanna go against God’s will I believe that God’s timing is everything more recently. I’ve also been scared of marrying the wrong man, but I believe that God will guide me to the right man. ❤🙏🏻🤗🙌🏻
Great points and perspectives from you both!!! Thank you for this video!!! 🎉✝️🔥🥰
This content is 🔥
Keep 👏it 👏up 👏
Thanks Jenna!! That means a lot to us!! 😃
Spot on! This video is so impactful. Thank you Sam and Sadie.
Thank u so muchh may God bless both of u im currently healing from my 1st bf we broke up last night😢
You two are literally marriage goals!!
Hello :))
This video came up on my feed and was very helpful for me, thank you and praise the Lord! God bless 🤍
I’m always encouraged by your content! Praying for you guys and your ministry! ❤
Yes
Thank you for such videos and your effort you put in them to help us
Wow you guys both were homeschooled? That’s awesome. I was homeschooled and wanted to have that in common to. I think having me and my husband both experienced in it would aid in us having more of a partnership when homeschooling future kids,
I just rencently got in touch with a guy who was homeschooled also and I like him alot, he is very compatible with me, our family’s go way back but we were out of touch because they moved. I wonder if he likes me or not - he seems very focused on pursuing the lord. Ive gotten side hugs thoug… :p
❤ amar a Dios sobre todas las cosas 🙏
Being autistic, I had to let go of many secondary standards in favor of purely dogmatic ones such as Beliefs in the Trinity, Jesus substitutional death on a cross, reading correct translations of the gospel and avoiding aberrant theology. Chemistry was there but I was no longer locked onto a type or image in my mind. I stopped expecting her to appear in my congregation and that was a huge difference. Also having a job and pursuing an education didn't hurt either.
Fantastic video. Sadie is so pretty! Your handsome too
Im a muslim girl and i really like your videos, we have a lot of in common ❤
Muslims and Conservative Christians have a lot in common because they both want to serve God with their lives. Christians and Muslims don't succeed in always doing what God asks, but Christians have the joy of knowing their mistakes were paid for by Jesus's death. I know Jesus is mentioned in the Koran, but if you read or listen to the testimony of his friends, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John (the Gospels) you'll get to know the whole story of Jesus.
Thank you so much for making this Video! You both are an encouragement to me😃
Great advice
Thank you Sam and Sadie
Great Content!
Thanks!! That means a lot to us! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
Those are all very good points.
Amen
Thank you for this video ❤
You are very welcome!! Thanks for watching! 🙏🏻
Its hard to let my fiance go. I thought he loved me and the Lord. I was certain he was it. Certain of his love. We had a misunderstanding and he walked away. He said he had anxiety attacks. I get that but he left and refused to communicate. Refused to sort things out. Completely shut me out for months! I guess I was wrong. I don’t think a man who loves me would do this.
Thank you for these great videos!!
Thank you guys, God bless!
Yes another video of how you met 😃
How old are you guys? And thank you for the advices!
23 and 24! Thanks for watching!
Thankyou so much for making these videos! Im tring to get all my friends to help suport this channel!
I don't know. These are the typical christian tips that I am a little tired of. I think there is nothing wrong with going to a church and looking around if there is somebody cute. It is okay to have the longing for someone and it is only a virtue if you are seeking inside the church and not outside. I feel like this gets shamed a lot amongst believers and I don't understand why. This makes me frustrated and sad. Of course we go to church to wroship God but also to build relationships with other believers.
Hi Marketa! Everything that we said in this video we thought made it clear that desiring a relationship is perfectly normal and healthy! We were just saying that it shouldn’t be the ONLY thing you go to church for!
I got a different impression from your video. But perhaps as this is something I’m sensitive to I interpreted in a way you didn’t mean.
For me, it doesn't appear that there is a woman for me in my church, so I have the prospect myself of going around and looking, perhaps in other churches or on ChrisrianMingle. I understand your point.
This was so wonderful thank you!
Awww❤ 😅Thanks
Amen!!!
Thanks
🙏🏼👏🏼
I ain’t never been married just don’t think it’s a good idea to talk about experiences with another person to their spouse
I’m hoping it’s not damaging your wonderful marriage views for us maybe overthinking things wish y’all the best!
We think it’s a good idea to talk some about the different doors God closed to bring us to where He wanted us to be! Dwelling on the past usually isn’t good unless we are dwelling on the good things God has done for us! And Sadie and I are both thankful for the doors He shut in order to bring us together! God bless you! 🙏🏻🙏🏻
I think you should be honest with your spouse. I wouldn't want to hear details about sexual sin but I'd want my spouse to feel free to share.
How do you define someone falling into place?
I was just planning to go to this church tomorrow where there's a girl i'd like to meet, i don't really feel well for going there just for that purpose though.
Hi there! If you can still worship the Lord when you attend the church tomorrow, you should go for it! There is no wrong in attending a church if you can still worship the Lord. God bless!
There’s nothing wrong in going there to see the girl.
How did things go brother? I am curious to hear, but remember that God only wants us to marry inside his family and not outside with unbelievers or lukewarm Christians. Ask God about it in prayer and He will answer you.
@@Justyouraverageguy172 thanks for asking, she didn't show up 💀
i'm positive, if i have patience, the best outcome will arise.
@@csnjsro be patient in prayer and ask God for clarity and to show you if you are lusting after her or are truly looking for a companionship in your heart. Let Him guide you and just pay attention to the external things like if she has interest in you and if she wants to spend time with you. Next time you see her interact and start a conversation to connect with her asking about her walk with God and faith. You will learn a lot from that.
As much as I like being single I intensely desire someone that is both pleasing to my eyes but also pleasing in the eyes of the Lord and when I see women whom are pleasing in my eyes but are taken it burns and hurts so badly inside because I desire and feel like I deserve that same thing 😢😭 and I feel like nobody understands despite their claims that they do. I want a beautiful women that is pleasing to my eyes and pleasing to the eyes of the Lord so bad that it hurts I know and believe with all my heart that there is someone out there like that for me but for the life of me attracting a woman is not something that I am good at I could ask for help but I fear that nobody would honor my wish and standards for women in the process Lord please help me!!!
Have faith in God and ask Him to illuminate your motivations for desiring a marriage. Sometimes like I experienced, I thought I was asking with pure intentions, but there was impure desires behind it until the Holy Spirit told me this and helped me work in the underlying issue. Other times, we just need to ask God for help in making us grow to be a better person by putting us through the furnace and fire to make us stronger and better for that desire we have.
Make sure that you are a masculine man. Build muscle, get lean, dress well, take care of your grooming, maintain a powerful presence, and lastly speak in a deep voice if you are able.
@@ModelJames13 All those are fine points that you mentioned the part that I completely disagree with you on is the building muscle part. It’s important to show that you are masculine, dress representable, take care of yourself properly, exercise your faith, and maintain a strong belief within yourself but I don’t think you exactly need to be an Arnold Schwarzenegger though and that’s all that I am going to say in regards to your comment sir.
@@ModelJames13good points, but how many people do you know have muscles but are a weakling when it comes to spirituality and mental toughness ?
@@saintfrancis9619Probably most of them. 😎
My guidelines are basic!
I believe that my future spouse should love GOD first and foremost in her life!!
Must not have children from a previous marriage!!
Must not consume alcohol to aid in relaxation( in other words codependency)
Pet free!!
I work my job as often as I can to pay bills!!
I will not tolerate a partner who sacrifices work and paying bills for Church!! Praying in tongues is non-negotiable!! A Christian that doesn’t believe in the Holy Ghost is not of GOD!!!!
No. Checkbox theology is killing Christian dating.
Its hard.. sometimes i find the bible boring.
The Bible is the most unboring most fascinating & thrilling book in the world. It takes time to understand and absorb it. The more you grow in Christ, the more you will love the Bible.
lol tall
I'M IN A SUICIDAL HELL.
I DESPERATELY WANT TO DIE.
*I broke my own heart, into a million-billion-trillion shreds...
By so DEEPLY desperately totally loving: a fantasy, an illusion,
instead of the real man, in front of me (who had a zillion red flags).*
please, please, please, God, help me.
I cannot bear the darkness any longer.
please. please, angel of mercy, help!
please, I'm dying inside.
I'm terrified and alone.
I DESPERATELY WANT TO DIE.
I CANNOT TAKE THIS HELL ANYMORE.
UNBEARABLE PAIN.
DROWNING IN TERROR AND GRIEF.
I WANT TO DIE.
HOW WILL I EVER HEAL?
I AM DYING OF PAIN.
I AM DESPERATELY TERRIFIED
AND ALONE AND PANICKED.
my soul is raped.
I'm in so much pain.
I'm in hell with no escape.
I'm a tortured prisoner to the darkness.
darkness envelopes me and surrounds me...
I live in frantic panicked terror.
I am paralyzed with trauma.
I have hyperventilating panic attacks. ALL. THE. TIME!
I die of the pain.
I am tormented.
TORTURED.
ALONE.
alone and dying.
desperate and in despair.
I want to die.
I can't bear the pain and the grief and the panic.
I can't bear it.
I suffocate with panic attacks.
I am paralyzed with trauma.
I DIE die die OF PANIC!!
the suffering and grief are unbearable.
I am tortured and haunted and suicidal.
I am tormented and terrified and all alone.
so so so very alone!!!
I want to die.
I can't bear this pain.
CANNOT BEAR IT.
CANNOT BREATHE.
DO NOT BREATHE.
nightmares all night.
panic attacks all day.
he replaced me.
disposed of me.
I WAS GARBAGE TO HIM.
I've been viciously maliciously brutally violently raped,
at the level of my soul,
by my so-called best friend,
who abandoned, and betrayed me,
and disposed of me like garbage...
the suffering is unbearable.
the trauma and the panic truly suffocate me.
I am horrified and haunted.
I am terrified and alone.
but, if anything, there are some things I've learned
to appreciate about myself (through all this), like:
- my kind eyes
- my gentle ways
- my depth
- my curiosity
- my poetry
- my insights
- my writing
- my magic
- my sweet smile
- my intelligence
- my femininity
- my divinity
- my wisdom
- my incredible ability to truly listen and to really hear
- my softness
- the bitch in me
- the poet in me
- when I love, I give EVERYTHING
- my innocence
- my sweet gentleness
- my willingness
- my openness
- my discernment
- my unfolding
- my empathy
- my talents
- my heart
- my beautiful magical self-healing wise miraculous gorgeous body...
please, God, help me remember these following things:
- not to try to attract people,
but rather, to trust the universe...
to trust life...
that the right people
will enter my life
in the right moments...
- to set boundaries...
Philippians 4:6 -
"Do not be anxious about anything,
but in every situation, by prayer and petition,
with thanksgiving, present your requests to God..."
Also, In the name of Jesus,
I bind any and all evil spirits:
of PTSD/terror/aloneness/loneliness/pain/panic/shame/grief/distress...
And command you and demand you, in all authority given to me, by God...
To leave me now! Go to the abyss and never return!
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, Yeshua, my salvation!
I DECLARE YOU Leave me: NOW!!!
I 100% completely totally entirely renounce PTSD
and I come into agreement, with any spirits associated with my pain,
to leave me right now and forevermore!
This is a spiritual war.
I have been an injured warrior.
NOW I RECLAIM MY POWER!
HALLELUJAH!!
No weapon formed against me shall prosper! 🙏
ALSO:
I KNOW GOD IS THE BEST MATCHMAKER
AND HIS DIVINE TIMING IS ALWAYS PERFECT!
I PRAY! I TRUST! I RECIEVE! TO GOD BE THE GLORY! 💙
This is alarming. Sounds like y'all had sex which will open portals of hell.
You guys are cute.
you know people
Kill me
I see anyone
I really need help me
So by that, no one should date under the age of 16-17-18.
Cause you never experienced any of that.
Total BS by you guys.
Thank you for this video ❤