WAS WAITING FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS!! 👏 I stutter and would prefer to be fluent! I’m sure many stutterers feel the same way. But society (specifically people who don’t stutter) say that stuttering is part of us and we should just be ok w it. Easy for them to say…they don’t stutter!! I’ve noticed speech therapy now is about learning to live with a stutter rather than learning to be fluent…which is not good in my opinion. If you are happy living your life as a person who stutters, that’s totally fine! But no one should feel bad for wanting to be fluent! Thank you so much for making this video ❤
Hello your video helps me a lottt. I listen to to your daily routine daily and practice speaking. It helped me a lottt. I am improving and becoming confident. This is my achievement. But only bad thing is sometimes now also when I listen to some long lecture or see some movie I started to anticipate that I Stutter or not and this makes me anxious sometimes. Especially words start with ‘k’ or ‘c’. But I am trying to normalise this also by adopting modified air flow technique in my behaviour. Hope I will improve and reach to my highest fluency
Sir your me motivation and I definately overcome this small problem..we have to learned lot in life, so what i say "thrust yourself and love yourself anything possible but never ever give up
Hello everyone, I want to share my experience, recently since Iam looking for new job, I had to give multiple interviews/mock interview. Since I have stuttering problem I faced many speech problem from childhood. But after giving many online interviews I would like to give few advice which I practiced during my interview session and it really reduced it quiet a bit- 1) Before interview session I did 2min of breathing exercise to calm myself. 2) During the interview, I widen my eyes that shift my focus away from the stuttering itself onto my eye muscles. 3) Above eye contact as possible, I like to look up or down like Iam thinking. 4) squeezing my asshole also helped me to transfer my focus away. based to experience, more I think about interview more I stutter thus I try transfer my focus away. it really helped me, u guys can try.
I don't see anything wrong with the sentiment of the comment that we should stop seeing stuttering as less worthy and fluency as worthy. Especially because that toxic mindset chips at your self-worth every time you stutter, destroying your mental health and resulting with even more stutter. This mindset shift from a bad to neutral attitude towards my stuttering is something that reduced my stutter from extreme to low. The comment never said that the world owes you anything, but why not strive to live in a more inclusive world? That being said, why do you think you cannot intertwine these two paths, that include not seeing stuttering as bad and yourself as guilty, but at the same time try to improve fluency? That seems to me like the healthiest way to deal with it. A lot of doctors even encourage this mindset to not see stuttering as something bad but different, yet still keep working on fluency. I'll just say stuttering is the only disorder where the person who has it is blamed for it, so please don't feed that toxic narrative.
WAS WAITING FOR SOMETHING LIKE THIS!! 👏 I stutter and would prefer to be fluent! I’m sure many stutterers feel the same way. But society (specifically people who don’t stutter) say that stuttering is part of us and we should just be ok w it. Easy for them to say…they don’t stutter!! I’ve noticed speech therapy now is about learning to live with a stutter rather than learning to be fluent…which is not good in my opinion. If you are happy living your life as a person who stutters, that’s totally fine! But no one should feel bad for wanting to be fluent! Thank you so much for making this video ❤
Amazing video
Hello your video helps me a lottt. I listen to to your daily routine daily and practice speaking. It helped me a lottt. I am improving and becoming confident. This is my achievement. But only bad thing is sometimes now also when I listen to some long lecture or see some movie I started to anticipate that I Stutter or not and this makes me anxious sometimes. Especially words start with ‘k’ or ‘c’. But I am trying to normalise this also by adopting modified air flow technique in my behaviour. Hope I will improve and reach to my highest fluency
Sir your me motivation and I definately overcome this small problem..we have to learned lot in life, so what i say "thrust yourself and love yourself anything possible but never ever give up
mate your articulation skills are on different scales... would appreciate a vid on that
Hello everyone, I want to share my experience, recently since Iam looking for new job, I had to give multiple interviews/mock interview. Since I have stuttering problem I faced many speech problem from childhood. But after giving many online interviews I would like to give few advice which I practiced during my interview session and it really reduced it quiet a bit-
1) Before interview session I did 2min of breathing exercise to calm myself.
2) During the interview, I widen my eyes that shift my focus away from the stuttering itself onto my eye muscles.
3) Above eye contact as possible, I like to look up or down like Iam thinking.
4) squeezing my asshole also helped me to transfer my focus away.
based to experience, more I think about interview more I stutter thus I try transfer my focus away.
it really helped me, u guys can try.
I don't see anything wrong with the sentiment of the comment that we should stop seeing stuttering as less worthy and fluency as worthy. Especially because that toxic mindset chips at your self-worth every time you stutter, destroying your mental health and resulting with even more stutter.
This mindset shift from a bad to neutral attitude towards my stuttering is something that reduced my stutter from extreme to low.
The comment never said that the world owes you anything, but why not strive to live in a more inclusive world?
That being said, why do you think you cannot intertwine these two paths, that include not seeing stuttering as bad and yourself as guilty, but at the same time try to improve fluency?
That seems to me like the healthiest way to deal with it.
A lot of doctors even encourage this mindset to not see stuttering as something bad but different, yet still keep working on fluency.
I'll just say stuttering is the only disorder where the person who has it is blamed for it, so please don't feed that toxic narrative.
well said buddy