STOP overusing "how are you?"! Ask the question in a better way!

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  • Опубликовано: 21 дек 2024

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  • @sabaeylulozyurt9152
    @sabaeylulozyurt9152 5 лет назад +7003

    • informal ways to say 'how are you?'
    how are you doing?
    how have you been?
    what's going on?
    what's new (with you)?
    what's up?
    what are you up to?
    how are things going?
    how are you feeling?
    how's it going?
    how is everything?
    how's things?
    how's life?
    how's your day been/going?
    are you alright?
    • formal ways to say 'how are you?'
    how do you do?
    are you well?
    how do you fare?
    how are things coming along?
    how's everything coming together?
    how's your health?
    • funny ways to say 'how are you?'
    howdy?
    how's it hanging?
    how's tricks?
    what's sizzling?

    • @chandrasekhar-rd8yu
      @chandrasekhar-rd8yu 5 лет назад +69

      Superb baby

    • @CraigSteelyard
      @CraigSteelyard 5 лет назад +77

      What's happening?
      Alright mate?

    • @13nour
      @13nour 5 лет назад +24

      Write the funny form too

    • @dilo7811
      @dilo7811 5 лет назад +44

      howdy my turkish friend?

    • @sugarandpie9123
      @sugarandpie9123 5 лет назад +119

      It was just the start of the video and as usual I was scrolling down through the comments and I read your comment. And I didn't watch the video anymore cause I already knew what was Lucy gonna tell in the video.......So,
      Thank u so much😘

  • @laurenbruner1850
    @laurenbruner1850 Год назад +33

    I’m a Native American-English speaker and I ove these. We get in such a rut and start to just automatically have things fly out of our mouths without thinking. I found your videos today and I love how it breaks down that automatic response to give a more thoughtfully worded conversation.

  • @johnalleman8139
    @johnalleman8139 3 года назад +280

    I am a native English speaker, but I still love to watch these videos! They make me think about my own personal use of the language. Love it!

  • @tshepo_trx
    @tshepo_trx 2 года назад +29

    It is nice to be taught English in the language of English because where I'm from we get taught English in our native language. Thank you, Lucy.

  • @ilta-communicationtraining
    @ilta-communicationtraining 2 года назад +195

    I have been using number 13 for 20 years with all my students. It blends professional, personal and private aspects of life. "How's life?" Is great for establishing further communication. Great videos!!!

  • @mtnblubird4304
    @mtnblubird4304 3 года назад +494

    As a physician in a small town, I learned to say “Good to see you!” Otherwise I ended up hearing about kidney stones and ear infections at the grocery store.

    • @windsong1a
      @windsong1a 3 года назад +10

      I do NOT blame you!

    • @tebogochebani7998
      @tebogochebani7998 3 года назад +1

      😂 😂 😂

    • @SedaB
      @SedaB 3 года назад +1

      😄😄😄

    • @amyhenningsgard8618
      @amyhenningsgard8618 3 года назад +1

      Great!!😉😁

    • @violetwilliamson1300
      @violetwilliamson1300 3 года назад +11

      So true! That's why I usually use the greeting " Hello...It's so nice to see you".... I was a nurse for 30 years so I learned my lesson too!

  • @jonathanl2748
    @jonathanl2748 5 лет назад +33

    People are stunned when I actually answer the question of “How are you?” Well, I actually have a booming headache right now. Or: I just came from the gym and I am full of energy!
    I can see that they are stunned that I actually answered the question and that I answered honestly.
    If you don’t want an answer to the question, don’t ask the question.

    • @jhieSnowGaming
      @jhieSnowGaming 5 лет назад +3

      Hahaha ur right!

    • @Scion141
      @Scion141 5 лет назад +5

      😂
      They don't want your life story. Just a simple, "Good. And You?"

    • @alandavidson2840
      @alandavidson2840 3 года назад +1

      😂😂😂

    • @janiece8439
      @janiece8439 8 месяцев назад +2

      Yes the question shows disinterest or a lack of imagination I say "good to see you" (again)

  • @nalohendricks3071
    @nalohendricks3071 Год назад +20

    Quite true. I'm a Kenyan teacher, recently retired after teaching English language in a primary school for about 30yrs. We hear, speak, read and finally write. I enjoy your lessons quite a bit.

  • @mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087
    @mcdonnell-douglasdc-1087 5 лет назад +12

    You are an extremely-powerful trainer-and-connoisseur of spoken English. You rank, easily, among the world's top-five trainers!

  • @michaeldumais1784
    @michaeldumais1784 3 года назад +7

    I like that you recognize the person you are speaking to. I try to do that every day I care for my patients. It's respectful, but more importantly, the 51% of my 23&Me report that told me my ancestors are from greater London, and my being a puritanical Yankee, it seems to resonate with me. Keep calm and Carry on! Love your videos.

    • @islandtat3414
      @islandtat3414 3 года назад +1

      I’ve enjoyed listening to you with your beautiful face😍

  • @EnglishwithLucy
    @EnglishwithLucy  5 лет назад +1498

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    • @mysticvibez8408
      @mysticvibez8408 5 лет назад +40

      No issue Dear teacher🥰💖

    • @chococat6528
      @chococat6528 5 лет назад +31

      It's totally okay for me‪(*ˊᵕˋ* )

    • @basarkarakus
      @basarkarakus 5 лет назад +30

      No worries, I barely noticed it

    • @kapilsharma6171
      @kapilsharma6171 5 лет назад +11

      Oh don't be so upset .smile

    • @jatothrajender7060
      @jatothrajender7060 5 лет назад +2

      Mam Is there any question form to ask, What kind of person he is ?
      As-What's he like?
      What's your dad like ?

  • @MsFotoFaB
    @MsFotoFaB Год назад +14

    Stumbled upon your video and decided to give it a listen. And was absolutely floored when you talked about the reading/listening process with an audio book and the written counterpart. I’ve been doing this for years. And when shared people think I am crazy. But I retained more info as well as growing my vocabulary. So glad to know that you recommended this process!!

  • @Fan_Made_Videos
    @Fan_Made_Videos 3 года назад +224

    I think the best phrase to say and saying it with meaning is "Hey, good to see you!" followed up by a memory of the last time you hanging out, followed then by a short summary of what you're doing there in the first place. For me, this always works because it puts the acquaintance at ease that you're just there doing your thing and that you acknowledge their presence, especially if it's at a social event with dozens or hundreds of other people.

    • @marianl3447
      @marianl3447 2 года назад +6

      i like that ..thanks for contributing

    • @Pebblesmas
      @Pebblesmas 2 года назад +1

      So true

    • @timothyfuhrman
      @timothyfuhrman Год назад +1

      fwafwa123

    • @DMDvideo10
      @DMDvideo10 Год назад

      But what if it isn't good to see you? You're at a funeral... Hey good to see you... Yea that's a great way to greet someone...

    • @ellabella7071
      @ellabella7071 Год назад

      Surly you don't do this with everyone?

  • @miletinic920
    @miletinic920 4 года назад +5

    Sitting here at the other end of Europe, listening to this beatuiful voice. Sometimes words goes trought my ears, sometimes not. Thank you for bettering my engliish.

  • @pbasswil
    @pbasswil 3 года назад +6

    Greetings have changed umpteen times over the history of the language. There's a constant tension between ritual and style, convention and novelty, formality and casualness. Back when How d'you do? was the de facto standard, How are you? was a fresher, more youthful variant. But the wheel keeps on turning... what was new is now old. Imho, for new learners of English, almost any functional greeting will do (we'll make allowances for a foreigner whose choice of phrase doesn't quite suit the occasion). Once they're more fluent, they can start to distinguish which greeting feels right in the context of different social situations.

    • @unattractiveraven8579
      @unattractiveraven8579 3 года назад +1

      ruclips.net/video/Q1DoxLBwPhA/видео.html

    • @pbasswil
      @pbasswil 3 года назад

      @@unattractiveraven8579 Cute! How many people attempt a foreign language (for instance), but feel crushed every time they make a mistake, or misunderstand something. In fact, we all put too much effort into maintaining our self-image as someone who's competent and capable, at all times. Learning depends on us loosening up that perfectionist self-image.

  • @tristramcoffin926
    @tristramcoffin926 Год назад +6

    So much of this depends on how you ask. There is no way to avoid appearing dismissive when you ask dismissively. However, my favorite is specific to type of day. So, 'how is your evening?' or 'how is your morning going?'

  • @user-my8qj
    @user-my8qj 5 лет назад +201

    Here are my notes :
    •How are u doing?
    I'm doing good ❌
    I'm doin well / i'm good✅
    •how have u been?
    I've been great
    I've not been so good
    •what's going on?
    Nth much / not much
    •what's new / what's new w u
    •what's up?
    •what are u up to?
    •how are things going?
    •how's it going?
    It' doing great / everything is good
    •how's everything?
    •how's life?
    •how's ur day been / how's ur day going?
    V FRIENDLY:
    •how's it hanging?

    • @evanthan8312
      @evanthan8312 5 лет назад +5

      Someone
      What are you up to?
      I solemnly swear that I am up to no good

    • @nicgunner6805
      @nicgunner6805 5 лет назад

      Mine's hanging to the right

    • @nataliakurylina7124
      @nataliakurylina7124 5 лет назад +1

      Thanks!

    • @ImanIman-qs6ib
      @ImanIman-qs6ib 5 лет назад +1

      Thank you

    • @ThatGirlJD
      @ThatGirlJD 5 лет назад

      @@nicgunner6805 Lmao, I'm sure your tailor would like to have that information before taking your measurements!

  • @RaserAlfante
    @RaserAlfante 3 года назад +10

    I've watched your "YOU'RE WELCOME" video. First, I want to know why I should not say "YOU"RE WELCOME. While watching you, I forgot my reason why I want to watch your video. 😁😂😂😂 Because you are very funny and so lovely to watch. 😍😍😍 you are so unique, sincere and beautiful. Thank you so much for this.

  • @Lone_Wolf313
    @Lone_Wolf313 4 года назад +5

    The best thing I have ever found on RUclips is the channel English with Lucy

  • @royalnavarre1673
    @royalnavarre1673 Год назад +2

    The best communication is honest and from the heart. Choose kind words that matter to you and that edifies the hearer.

  • @stevehouston6208
    @stevehouston6208 3 года назад +177

    I now understand why we had reading groups in elementary school! Thank you Lucy for explaining why reading and hearing a word at the same time is so important!

    • @goldnutter412
      @goldnutter412 2 года назад +4

      ha clever man, well said

    • @wangziyang5702
      @wangziyang5702 2 года назад +1

      It's a pity that it's difficult to have this condition in China

    • @rezagrans1296
      @rezagrans1296 2 года назад

      @Wang Ziyang
      Gongjinqooowaa nang shim huuuwaaa gonqınhuuuyùuuwaa nan zhianggooowaa🐼㊗🈶 ; )🔴🔴🌟🔴🔴

  • @pieceofpeace35
    @pieceofpeace35 4 года назад +36

    Fun fact! There's actually a direct link in the brain between reading and speaking! The more you read, the better you speak. But, for some reason, not the other way around. I learned that in my Cognitive Processes class in college. Pretty neat, huh? Reading also especially improves verbal acuity, which is your ability to say exactly what you mean. And that is a really important skill which is the number one predictor of future success across every subject. So, actually reading in your target language WILL benefit your speaking skills. Just don't use it as your only form of speaking practice, because your mouth still needs the practice too. :)

  • @dr-stephennewdell3882
    @dr-stephennewdell3882 4 года назад +7

    Lucie, At least half the world has no idea how to answer "How do you do?" I just adore you. Continue teaching! "I do well thank you, and how do YOU do???"

    • @Cu3oid
      @Cu3oid 3 года назад

      There is no answer to "How do you do?" except to respond with "How do you do?" It's another way of saying "Pleased to meet you." I disagree with Lucy on this one.

  • @booksRegencyEraHEAromance
    @booksRegencyEraHEAromance 8 месяцев назад

    I love your advice about reading and listening together. I am an American, who writes fictional HR novels in England's 17th and 18th centuries. I read only British historical novelists, whilst listening to the book on audible. It has genuinely helped me to think in British English. When I read anything, I interpret it with a British accent, it is lovely. I still sound like a Southern Texas American hick. Alas, I have really tried for years to lose it, really, I have. But it appears there is something seriously wrong with my brain-to-ear connection. I have only recently found your channel, but I believe it has already helped a little.

  • @nnvincent3
    @nnvincent3 4 года назад +16

    A common greeting from the 1970s was, "what's happening?" It was okay when coming from acquaintances, but felt intrusive when approached by strangers with a "What's happening?". Thank goodness it fell out of favor decades ago.

    • @zelljubovic9390
      @zelljubovic9390 4 года назад +1

      I still use it

    • @onlineenglishadventures7190
      @onlineenglishadventures7190 4 года назад +2

      ..and around where I lived it morphed into 'what the haps' - only cool people can say that... ' it can be modernized for these days with 'what's happening, yo'

    • @andrewjohnston4811
      @andrewjohnston4811 4 года назад

      what's happening? now?

  • @laurieslade7223
    @laurieslade7223 7 месяцев назад +28

    I think a nice alternative when greeting someone you know is simply "How nice to see you".

    • @merrim7765
      @merrim7765 Месяц назад

      Yes! And, "It's so good to see you!"

  • @khorramf
    @khorramf 4 года назад +407

    Most beautiful teacher I can imagine❤️

    • @Auth_user
      @Auth_user 4 года назад +4

      Brother she is beautiful have any problem 🤔🤔🤔

    • @creaticx4063
      @creaticx4063 4 года назад +2

      Yo do you even know if he is a guy or a girl 😂😂

    • @creaticx4063
      @creaticx4063 4 года назад +4

      But my dad makes me go to Germany 😂😂😂

    • @alitaa1154
      @alitaa1154 4 года назад +4

      SIMP

    • @notdeadbuthappy5614
      @notdeadbuthappy5614 4 года назад

      I am the 100 like yay

  • @dominiquetoussaint1455
    @dominiquetoussaint1455 2 года назад

    Merci!

  • @TLDsProductions
    @TLDsProductions 5 лет назад +28

    "How are you?" that's exactly what it is and it's fine. If you say it to someone you are friends with they will give an answer... If you say to someone you are only a acquaintance with they will simply acknowledge your polite gesture. It is perfectly fine to use. And you're examples are no different than, "How are you?"

    • @XiahouJoe
      @XiahouJoe 3 года назад +6

      EXACTLY nothing but pretentious language police. Pass.

  • @smonfre1874
    @smonfre1874 4 года назад +19

    I just started to lern English with Lucy wish me good luck guys .

  • @scarlettredluna7440
    @scarlettredluna7440 4 года назад +563

    Normal people: How are you?
    My friends, whom I didn't talk for days, months and years: Oh? You're still alive?

    • @jpk1893
      @jpk1893 4 года назад +8

      😆😆😆

    • @saimonislam7240
      @saimonislam7240 4 года назад +12

      @@jpk1893 I can relate as an introvert

    • @daffaiqbal4436
      @daffaiqbal4436 4 года назад +4

      hahahahaha

    • @yukir.9156
      @yukir.9156 4 года назад +9

      😂😂😂😆 Totaly true! 😂😂😂

    • @garumandai1806
      @garumandai1806 4 года назад +2

      i,m weak english please improve me

  • @prof.emanuelpaiva
    @prof.emanuelpaiva Год назад +6

    I'm a Brazilian man. I didn't know this channel. And I have learned a lot. Thanks a million.

  • @oldgraybeard3659
    @oldgraybeard3659 3 года назад +23

    "How are you?" is a phrase that suggests you care to hear about the recipient of the greeting. But most people do not want to share their private lives with acquittances. Peers should not ask this question as a greeting to avoid putting others in a position where they lie by saying that they are fine when they have a real issue they want to keep to their self. However, where job performance is at stake, a boss or manager is opening the door for a serious conversation, IF NECESSARY.... Otherwise, any personal concern is pretentious.

  • @nealgrey6485
    @nealgrey6485 4 года назад +320

    I don’t like “How are you?” Because I have to lie and say, “Fine, thank you.”

    • @carmelorodriguez6898
      @carmelorodriguez6898 4 года назад +4

      Hola, si no tienes confianza con esa persona, puedes mentir y decir que bien, que le importa como me encuentro, pero si es un amigo, un familiar, entonces si puedes decir la verdad. Yo al menos eso es lo que hago.

    • @nealgrey6485
      @nealgrey6485 4 года назад +10

      carmelo rodriguez I am sure that this is a helpful reply, unfortunately, I do not understand it.

    • @mikehopkins4040
      @mikehopkins4040 4 года назад +9

      No you dont have to lie.
      Just say ,not too good
      not bad I feel shit ,I'm ok
      didnt sleep a wink last
      night,I feel terrible,
      could be better .
      It's not hard is it dont make life complicated.If I ever meet the lady who
      made this video I would
      say how are you just to piss her off.

    • @ashfaqjuna
      @ashfaqjuna 4 года назад +1

      Or you can use the most annoying way to reply
      Not tooooo bad!

    • @1anonymous_moon
      @1anonymous_moon 4 года назад +1

      relatable😭

  • @marthaindrati2771
    @marthaindrati2771 3 года назад +4

    I am still learning English and I wonder, can you explain the difference or whether consistency of grammar is needed here? At the beginning it is explained about not saying "I am doing good"; instead, we'd better say "I am doing well" or "I am good". But what about the question in the formal one when you ask "Are you well?" instead of "Are you good?" So is it okay for me to say "I am well" in the casual one too? And one more, what about "How's things?" (using 'is' for plural ''things"? Your answer is "Things are good/great." So, can we also ask "How are things?" or that's weird?

    • @dmsalisbury
      @dmsalisbury 2 года назад +1

      Having said that, you will often hear native speakers saying, "I'm doing good", meaning "I'm doing well".

  • @rekorake7029
    @rekorake7029 11 месяцев назад +1

    I really like to see Lucy's performance. Lucy is also good looking. The way she talks and pronuns every single word is really nice. Good luck Lucy!🎉

  • @christeltaljaard1329
    @christeltaljaard1329 2 года назад +17

    This is helping me with some of my writing. Most times my writings between the characters speaking is boring and kind of repetitive. Thanks this helps to spice it up.

  • @jakesatov7454
    @jakesatov7454 3 года назад +64

    Good day. I enjoy watching your content as a native speaker of English - a realm which has taught me to recognize the value of maintaining the mindset of a beginner. Thanks for doing what you do! ☺️

    • @eternalempire7
      @eternalempire7 2 года назад

      Just answer the question. Lol

    • @wangziyang5702
      @wangziyang5702 2 года назад

      English is not my mother tongue,however,I have made much progress with these videos

  • @OvidiuHretcanu
    @OvidiuHretcanu 5 лет назад +336

    "How you doin'?" -- Joey Tribbiani

    • @kishori5067
      @kishori5067 4 года назад +13

      I was looking for this comment.. 😂

    • @no-lg1xl
      @no-lg1xl 4 года назад +4

      @@kishori5067 same 😂

    • @_WillCAD_
      @_WillCAD_ 4 года назад +13

      No, no, no... it's all in the emphasis.
      "Hey, how YOU doin'?"

    • @belindaahedor1767
      @belindaahedor1767 4 года назад +2

      You are the man

    • @sherancp
      @sherancp 4 года назад +4

      @@_WillCAD_ Damn it Carl, go wait in the hall😅😅

  • @nancynjee8789
    @nancynjee8789 Год назад +1

    I love your pronunciation, easy to understand for an African from a British colonised country....the American English is a bit rough to understand... thanks teacher Lucy.

  • @darrenplumpton8900
    @darrenplumpton8900 4 года назад +160

    SHE IS QUITE SIMPLY.... STUNNING AND BREATHTAKINGLY BEAUTIFUL.

  • @johannesmp3
    @johannesmp3 3 года назад +45

    The expression on your face when saying how are you is BRILLIANT. Love it 😀 😍

  • @nikaolsevska9503
    @nikaolsevska9503 Год назад +10

    What I love about your approach is the suggested situations and answers to the current phrase/question, it's amazing. Thank you!

  • @emmanuelconstantine
    @emmanuelconstantine 2 года назад +1

    Dear Lucy, at 5:07, what is the reason that you found it necessary to create a new word: “familiarality”?

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    • @acorn6330
      @acorn6330 5 лет назад

      ❤️❤️❤️

    • @deleted-xp7xw
      @deleted-xp7xw 5 лет назад

      Lucy you are the most amazing english teacher i have ever seen.

    • @rudeinbuster5296
      @rudeinbuster5296 5 лет назад

      Thank You Lucy

    • @Yazan_wael
      @Yazan_wael 5 лет назад

      Like ❤️

    • @norahzehra8202
      @norahzehra8202 5 лет назад +1

      English is not a phonetic language ..can u explain this please I m not gettong this point

  • @lihoong0909
    @lihoong0909 4 года назад +5

    If I have so beautiful English teacher in my class, I won’t failed my English subject!

  • @LukeoNet
    @LukeoNet 3 года назад +11

    “How do you fare” I find this one very amusing, didn’t expect it, I’ve never heard it before, well maybe because I’m not an English native speaker, but I so want to give it a try, for fun, here in Australia, to see if people actually understand it and how they will react, LOL.

  • @debbralehrman5957
    @debbralehrman5957 Год назад

    Thank you. I do use several of these. And yes I am one of those who says " Have a good day". I sometimes say "Great day".
    I don't mean to sound trite. I really do wish people a Good, Great, or Nice day. But I guess we say it a lot. Thanks for the video.🌹

  • @evamazer3409
    @evamazer3409 4 года назад +19

    I love the dancing in the end and the music. Thanks for your clear pronunciation, so helpful.

  • @kk6aw
    @kk6aw 3 года назад +25

    I have been saying these thing for 83 years, I am not about to change now

    • @luisalonso959
      @luisalonso959 3 года назад +4

      @@nice2behere808 That's not ok. She's going to confuse a lot of foreigners.

    • @claudinetshimbiye4810
      @claudinetshimbiye4810 3 года назад +4

      @@nice2behere808 I know right, I am an English learner. Or english as a second language so she is telling me to do not say what they teach me in school. No way I'll fallow het

  • @TheJavaMonkey
    @TheJavaMonkey 5 лет назад +9

    “How are you?” can come across very differently depending on your sense stress. It comes across a bit meaningless if the words are sort of rolled together the way you did at the beginning; the tone of voice seems to indicate that you’re disinterested in the answer. However, if you put the stress on the second word and you don’t slur your words, it comes across as enthusiastic and engaged-“How ARE you?” And, of course, you can emphasize the last word-“How are _you?”_ after having been asked that by someone else. Pitch, pace, and power can change the sentiment a great deal.

  • @AnthonyHall-u5z
    @AnthonyHall-u5z Год назад +1

    I was skeptical at first until I decided to try and now am glad i did, It’s huge returns is awesome! I can’t say much. thanks mrs michelle howard.

  • @saifrehman2776
    @saifrehman2776 5 лет назад +96

    There's only one answer to "How are you up to?"
    "I solemnly swear that i am up to no good."

    • @sabrinaaziz9613
      @sabrinaaziz9613 5 лет назад +4

      Exactly what I was thinking 😂😂😂 #potterheads 🙌

    • @olivia-ol7ie
      @olivia-ol7ie 5 лет назад

      Yes definitely

    • @sherridangelmici5644
      @sherridangelmici5644 4 года назад +2

      How are you up to? Makes no sense what ever in the English language.

    • @sherridangelmici5644
      @sherridangelmici5644 4 года назад +1

      I think this is mostly bunk, someone has way too much time on their hands. There is nothing wrong with “how are you?”. It expresses interest in the persons well being.

    • @dickon728
      @dickon728 3 года назад

      Boy, did you miss the point.

  • @baturkhan
    @baturkhan 5 лет назад +728

    Lucy: do NOT say how are u
    Audience: so what should we use ?
    Lucy: how are you doing
    Me: OMG! What a big diffence

  • @martinlee5604
    @martinlee5604 5 лет назад +11

    Lucy!"I'm WELL, thank you." (Are you saying that is not the correct English?)"I'm good" sounds VILE, even though everyone seems to say it nowadays.Bring back beautiful English!Martin (born Bournemouth 1957)

    • @Laladust
      @Laladust 5 лет назад

      Food is "good". People are 'right. In Australia "alright" is simply shortened to "right". So when you say "I'm right mate" or "he's right mate", contextually you're saying "I'm(he's) doing alright"

    • @B_Ruphe
      @B_Ruphe 5 лет назад +1

      I totally agree with Martin. In actual fact, "I'm good" is not all all popular in Britain. Most people I know, including youngsters, react to it with anything from mild dislike to strong loathing. It seems to have arrived from the **@@ Friends (a widely touted American comedy show, for those who don't know).
      Fundamentally, this is about impoverishment of the language. People welcome new usage that enriches the language and dislike usage that weakens and bluntens it.
      A similar arrival that is disliked intensely over here and being resisted is xxx "hey" as a greeting, as in "hey guys..." For many people here, this feels downright rude, the more so because "hey!" already has a meaning here (an exclamation of startlement or annoyance) and people generally hate it when their language gets impoverished.

  • @manipuspakmajumdar3238
    @manipuspakmajumdar3238 2 года назад

    Hi Lucy, in "casual" part you jumped from number 8 to 10, where is 9 ? & can you please teach stylish English for "I love you", if any ?

  • @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat
    @mspears_bobobuddytheseniorcat 2 года назад +30

    I like saying “how is your day going so far?“ Sometimes people had a hard day and just being able to talk about it makes their day a bit brighter. 😺

    • @sailorconan
      @sailorconan 2 года назад +1

      Heard it a lot over the phone!

    • @streaming5332
      @streaming5332 Год назад

      So nosy. Perhaps you should mind your own business.

  • @Pygmygerbil88
    @Pygmygerbil88 4 года назад +9

    i would broadcast Lucy's courses in hospitals for the the Covid patients to get well soon. she is such a sight for sore eyes.

  • @jenny_j11
    @jenny_j11 4 года назад +53

    Thank you, Lucy. Very useful and helpful. Your comments on the nuances of each of those phrases make it even more informative. You are a brilliant teacher.

    • @tyyepes935
      @tyyepes935 3 года назад

      Nice one , actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating ,Needed someone to talk to

    • @debrarobinson1892
      @debrarobinson1892 3 года назад +1

      Yes I learned a new thing from her today

    • @goldnutter412
      @goldnutter412 2 года назад

      NEW ONTCED ? :) very.. words matter !
      Imp or tant

    • @leeyan8392
      @leeyan8392 Год назад

      She's brilliant and she's beautiful.❤

  • @trattogatto
    @trattogatto 6 месяцев назад +1

    It is the same feeling I have with "what's up?", literally it is the equivalent of "what is going on?", I don't understand when and how this became a salutation. I stick to "hi" and "hello".

  • @williamhalejr.4289
    @williamhalejr.4289 4 года назад +4

    I do not generally liked to be asked "how am I? so my usual response is "well, I am not dead yet!" I understand it is used as a greeting, as if "Hello, how are you?" and in most cases the person does not generally care to know about your cancer, your wrecked love life, your horrific boss, etc etc!? LOL I do however, say "How are you?", but when I do say it, I generally say it to close friends and DO ACTUALLY want to know how they are, how they have been since we last spoke.

    • @anntics
      @anntics Год назад

      Love your response, I might steal it 🤣🤣 I have been tempted, at times, to say ‘well actually, I’m so glad you asked …..’ and watch their expression change !

  • @fadilahbadra
    @fadilahbadra 2 года назад +6

    As an American, I can assure you that no one says "Howdy!" any longer...lol! Very commonly we'll ask "What's new?". I really enjoy these videos. Thank you!

    • @Watchoutforsnakez
      @Watchoutforsnakez 2 года назад +4

      I say howdy. But it’s clearly said for fun and not in very serious situations.

    • @jaret4t
      @jaret4t Год назад

      I say howdy seriously with pride.

    • @phil3stine
      @phil3stine Год назад

      Sure we do, it just depends where you're at. Funnily enough we got it from the Brits, it being a shortened/corrupted rendering of "How do ye?"

  • @anastan835
    @anastan835 4 года назад +4

    The examples you presented are specific, some very personal, and cannot replace "How are you?"

  • @MH-nh2yz
    @MH-nh2yz Год назад

    (I’m a “grandma “ and just had to say) I love your little dance at the end; youre so cute! You remind me of my daughter.❤

  • @nouyaz2229
    @nouyaz2229 5 лет назад +67

    Alternatives for HOW ARE YOU
    CASUAL
    How are you doing?
    How have you been?
    What’s going on?
    What’s new?
    What’s new with you?
    What’s up?
    What are you up to?
    What have you been up to?
    How are things going?
    How’s life?
    How’s life going?
    How are you feeling?
    How’s it going?
    How’s everything ?
    How’s things?
    How’s your day been?
    How’s your day going?
    Alright?
    Are you alright?
    FORMAL
    How do you do?
    Are you well?
    How do you fare?
    How are you faring?
    How are things coming along?
    How are you getting along?
    How’s everything coming together ?
    How’s your health?
    Hello, I hope you’re well?
    I trust you’re well?
    Funny
    Howdy?
    How’s it hanging ?
    How’s tricks ?
    What’s sizzling ?

    • @Prk0499
      @Prk0499 5 лет назад

      Thanks a lot!

    • @australian1018
      @australian1018 5 лет назад

      We do not use formal and informal like German, just more polite.

    • @dinhle5751
      @dinhle5751 5 лет назад

      thanks

  • @sunnyjim1355
    @sunnyjim1355 5 лет назад +12

    Interesting. My default responses to any such questions are: "What's it to do with you?", "What do you care?", "What are you after?", or if I'm in a good mood, "Who are you again?".

  • @wilkinsbrito6160
    @wilkinsbrito6160 5 лет назад +6

    I'm in love of your voice and your British accent

  • @southaustinukes
    @southaustinukes Год назад +1

    A caution about “How’s it hangin’?”
    I have always heard that it refers to a part of the male anatomy, and the expected reply is usually “On the left.”, “On the right.”, or something else potentially more graphic.
    So I recommend not using this phrase, unless in somewhat rauncy company and you want to indulge in the raunch.

    • @hermanbotha1444
      @hermanbotha1444 7 месяцев назад

      Glad you daid this. I find it tasteless and quite unacceptable. I have not and never will use it.

  • @brendankinane8273
    @brendankinane8273 3 года назад +8

    Lucy, here are few from Ireland that you might enjoy: 1. How's she cuttin'? ( a rural expression which may have more to do with how the harvest is coming along than it does about your health) 2. What's the story? (a Dublin expression) 3. Hey! (this one is American I think but is rapidly increasing in use over here) 4. Good! (this one comes from Co.Cork I believe and is a greeting given from a distance with a hand raised in salute; say from the other side of the road, without stopping to chat. It is often said in a slightly inquiring tone and may be a shortened "Are you good"?) 5. There ye are! (as if you needed to know where you are) 6. Good man! 7. Another one that I have always found rather funny is the response to the common or garden "How are you"? It is "Shook enough"! which presumably infers that the person is not feeling the best. This response is usually given by someone of the older generation. I have only ever heard this one in rural areas. 8. How are you keeping? 9. Any craic? (which means "Are you having any fun"?

  • @zenogaming6053
    @zenogaming6053 5 лет назад +366

    The evolution of "what is up":
    1.what is up
    2.what's up
    3.whad up
    4.whatup
    5.wassup
    6.sup

  • @melissah.5319
    @melissah.5319 5 лет назад +7

    "Are you well?" Love it. Glad to have found your RUclips. I love all the lessons

  • @livingston5398
    @livingston5398 2 года назад +2

    I’m confident to learn more from you miss 🤴Lucy, God will retain you for entire plethora of world to learn from you it’s not easy to know non-native language but you’re making it much easier for us beautiful queen 👸.

  • @visvimcubism
    @visvimcubism 5 лет назад +7

    It is one of most beautiful teachers I saw.

  • @quinn0110
    @quinn0110 5 лет назад +10

    Lucy, I find you so funny 😁. Such a good teacher.

    • @tyyepes935
      @tyyepes935 3 года назад

      Nice one ,actually I’m really depressed right now, lost a coworker. very devastating , Needed someone to talk to

  • @WingmanDino
    @WingmanDino Год назад +4

    wonderful - it's so nice to hear your English and joy while learning - I'll hope to improve my English pronounciation with your help ❤

  • @randyranderson690
    @randyranderson690 Год назад

    I like the reactions I get when I greet people with: Greetings and felicitations. So much fun

  • @iangmarshall
    @iangmarshall 4 года назад +54

    Thank you Abelardo. Nice to learn that people further down the list and back in time (in terms of posts/date) are still kept informed. A word to all of you in this 'community' I love this forum and Lucy's commit/ment (even though it seems to be carrying a commercial interest - Audible announcement). My presence here is to enjoy and learn, plus offer any complementary point of view or experience = knowledge. By the way, I am British .... just to be clear on what version of the English language is native to me.... British English is supposed to represent the English language as it is used in the U.K : in England, Scotland Wales, Ireland. We should be aware though that each member country of the U.K has its own idioms, expressions, and language-grammar variants. Each member country can be broken down into regional English language usage. Getting a bit complicated right ???? But that's how it is. No worries, if you're not living in the U.K or corresponding with people resident in the U.K from abroad, you don't have to worry about such details. Just use the English language as best you know and be happy when people understand you rapidly. Cheers ( a very English sign off meaning = All the Best to You)

    • @rianariana446
      @rianariana446 2 года назад +1

      Thank you Ian, I've tremendously enjoyed your comment!

    • @bigdestiny6212
      @bigdestiny6212 2 года назад

      Hello dear

    • @bigdestiny6212
      @bigdestiny6212 2 года назад

      Have you heard about cpyto trader this is my 7 years with this cpyto intvest

  • @melany.muraour
    @melany.muraour Год назад +4

    In South Africa we say "howsit" #howsit is actually spelled and said as if it's one word. Our national tourism agency uses this greeting and hashtag to promote our country as a tourist destination 😊

  • @GB_i25
    @GB_i25 5 лет назад +23

    I love your channel
    Thank you Lucy
    ありがとございます。

  • @WhitentonMike
    @WhitentonMike Год назад +2

    I often try to come up with a funny or clever response to being asked how I am. One of my favorites is "I'm not sure I want to know how I'm doing." or "I haven't figured that out yet."

  • @hjddissa2988
    @hjddissa2988 3 года назад +43

    Me - What's up?
    My friend - the ceiling 😒
    Better to use how're you doing 😁

  • @aidynaubakirov3244
    @aidynaubakirov3244 5 лет назад +9

    Cutest English teacher ever I swear 😊

  • @laura.haines
    @laura.haines 5 лет назад +12

    My favorite is “how are you doing today?” It lets me express my interest in a current way. I often say this to people who are ringing up my groceries, or helping me in some other way. I want them to know I care about them. It can be said cheerfully, with concern, or any number of other ways. Usually I put the emphasis on the word “doing”, because emphasizing “you” seems too direct, unless I want them to know my focus is squarely on them. It never fails to captivate and disarm the person. It’s usually followed by a look that suggests I just pulled them from their automation and anonymity, right into the situation. Then they become animated and refreshed.

    • @asfawmekonen5103
      @asfawmekonen5103 5 лет назад

      Bella Donna thank you very soon as possible and if you have any questions please contact me if you want to make the most important to me and my husband has a great time and effort you put into this matter please contact me.

    • @kwazirich8447
      @kwazirich8447 5 лет назад +2

      Hm.. You're right. I'm going to start using 'how are you doing today'. It is more current and shows real interest.

    • @laura.haines
      @laura.haines 5 лет назад +1

      kwazi rich Mvuyana - 😊💕🌸

    • @misslane1640
      @misslane1640 2 года назад

      Captivating english 😘😘

  • @anthonymugisha204
    @anthonymugisha204 5 месяцев назад

    Yeah, I am from East Africa, particularly uganda. I agree with you that the best way to know English is to read it, write it, and listen to how to speak it.

  • @goldenmagnolia333
    @goldenmagnolia333 2 года назад +10

    Now I’m going to memorize the whole lot. Thanks Lucy! 🤗

  • @vampirewitchfate7202
    @vampirewitchfate7202 5 лет назад +5

    Hello, we were talking at home how to say good day in english or Hi or Hello just diferent forms. I wonder if you could make video about that.
    Thank you very much 😊

  • @eternity449
    @eternity449 4 года назад +7

    i hate when people ask me how im doing because 1) i am almost always overwhelmed by negative emotions that people can't relate to or 2) im doing things people can't relate to. i know there are people out there who can, but those people are not the people chatting me up.

  • @alphonseshare1748
    @alphonseshare1748 Год назад

    I am a learner and I love to watch this video, thanks for sharing your talent and your knowledge

  • @gasasirairagenaphoebe2299
    @gasasirairagenaphoebe2299 4 года назад +83

    Lucy speaking.
    My head: I want Lucy's English and pronunciation to be in my head now 😂😂😂😂

  • @THEtodd_83
    @THEtodd_83 3 года назад +5

    My Lord, you're an Angel with a British accent!

  • @fiddah
    @fiddah 5 лет назад +97

    I like to say “how are you?”
    الحَمدُ لله

  • @slavomatush9523
    @slavomatush9523 Год назад

    I like how you've added a bit of humour in that video. Makes it way more fun to watch.

  • @robertsen7268
    @robertsen7268 4 года назад +5

    Hey Lucy, how are you? 😄 Sorry, but I couldn't help it. I always find your videos interesting, because you tell me what I learned wrongly in English class in Germany (ages ago). I think it's nice that you make your lessons a lot of fun. Greetings from Germany.

    • @GalaSalv
      @GalaSalv 4 года назад +1

      that is so interesting!! your english is very good!! i am from the us and i want to help u improve your English!!

  • @mystericaladventure
    @mystericaladventure 5 лет назад +7

    The lesson starts by 2:45
    You’re welcome

  • @AlplaYou
    @AlplaYou 4 года назад +11

    Honestly, I had no idea there were so many ways to say "How are you?". Thank you so much.
    I liked your video and your jokes 😁. ¡Saludos desde Colombia! 🇨🇴

    • @EstherNosike-b5u
      @EstherNosike-b5u 8 месяцев назад +1

      Really 😊 . Same with me. I found it interesting learning more ways. All thanks our tutor

  • @wwvasudathsudath5577
    @wwvasudathsudath5577 2 года назад

    I'm sri lankan I'm Senashi
    And student
    Very helpful to this viedio for talking with others .so thanks a lot. So god bless you!

  • @gurryshark6027
    @gurryshark6027 4 года назад +9

    I like this Canadian response when say someone says for example, "I (have) got a brand new car today" and the response is "take off, you didn't?"

  • @virginiatorrevillas1424
    @virginiatorrevillas1424 5 лет назад +4

    Thanks for your tutorial video, so helpful

  • @albertwoods3921
    @albertwoods3921 Год назад +12

    This video Is like A breath of fresh air. I like the idea of reading and listening in tandem. It's good to hear and see 👀 quality content. Thank you, Keep up the good work 🙂

  • @saintinlower48
    @saintinlower48 Год назад

    I don’t know how I stumbled on your videos, but I’m delighted!