Thank you again and for ever Kurt.. yes I followed your instructions word by word and yes he is back and he is the chaser now.. but Kurt.. one thing I always did and still do when ever I feel his energy overwhelming me.. I smile and I pray for him then I continue living my nonmale day.. wishing him a happy fulfilling life and BOOM he calls me asking for a date! EVERY TIME KURT! the weird part is I don't want a romantic relationship with him any more! I love him unconditionally but I don't (need) him you know what I mean? I'm totally fine!
you never chase him right... I feel his sexual energy.. more often lately.... I think he likes that I'm focusing only on me. cause when I text him and chase him he is like whatever. even though I know he wants me, mine only blocked me once and then I texted him on his work mail, that he needed to block me on his work mail too, and then he texted me that he couldn't do that and he texted me he open the blocking on his phone. this journey is so weird. and when I focus on me my ex (was with him for 11 years) keeps calling me. I've blocked my ex, he has a girl friend, I not need to talk to him, its like I need no-one right now, I don't even feel like texting my twinflame either. I actually don't know what to text him either.. maybe I'm becoming the runner. I feel fed up of chasing. I've been chasing him for 3 years. I think Im fed up of chasing .... will the chasing stop by itself? because you get fed up? its like I don't care if he comes back or not either.... I don't know. maybe my heart is closed.......
I detached so heavily from my twin flame that I even burnt her pictures. I was tired of the chasing and the games and ready for me and what you would call my awakening. Within a week, she is calling me, coming to visit for hours on end, etc. I did not jump back into old habits. I told her to do what she wants, she who she wants, and be happy. I did not care what she does, and I let her know that. Guess who she still calls and visits almost every other day. I still do not give her the emotional attention, and she is still there almost every day. So BELIEVE what Kurt is saying because he is 100% correct.
@@killmenowyou actually, she was using me, conning me, and lying to my face about her breaking up with her ex. She never did. She is a pure narcissist, and karma will make its way back to her. I’m better without her in my life.
@@DG-no1oo it’s been easier since I realized she was just using me for personal gain. If she pops into my mind, the only thing I think about is her negatives. Before long, her beauty is gone, her kindness is seen as fake, and who she is, is someone I do not care to see again.
I meditate for 20 minuets when i first wake up and usually try my best to stay present as I am working or fixing up my house & then again for atleast an hour before I sleep. So twice a day is where I'm at and I noticed that I accidentally experienced satori while doing a crossword puzzle it felt amazing😇🌟
Thank you Kurt, I've just finished "The power of now" I am not only my twin flame, "we" are also the universe as the love of being able to wake up, this idea has freed me from all pain, thank you for recommending this book, I will continue to listen to you to remind me being awake
Gr8. Eckhart Tolle's teachings are life chaging for so many, in case u r on clubhouse, join the club. his teachings are discussed there n how to apply in daily life, all the time.
My twin flame showed up right after I broke through dark night of soul. I often forget him because I enjoy my inner happiness.The funny thing is that he becomes crazier and crazier now.
I weatched Kurt's free coaching and followed his suggestions. After 3 weeks, my twinflames showed up , we talked on line and I made fun of him. He was pissed off about it and dissapeared again. I even didn't know why. Then I realized my ego is so big! He targeted me and kicked me down the cliff. That's why I broke through (My TF has no idea about it)
It's painful. Its like ripping open my chest and digging out my heart. I switched my attention on something else. Such as watching Kurt's vedios until I was convinced that I and my twin are one soul and we never be apart. I stopped texting him and watching his photoes. I observed my "thought" and facused back on my heart chakra .I also menditate everyday.
This is so true. My TF and I were in runner chaser. I was talking to a friend, twice, same friend. Told them I was done shutting it all down I couldn’t take the back and forth anymore. Shut my thinking down and less then 30 min here he goes in my texts about wanting to see me or needing me. The second time my friend couldn’t believe it… totally weirded out how instantly he reached out when I shut down like that. Now I realize this has been happening a lot over the last 9 months. As of today I’m shutting it down to follow Kurt’s coaching.
It wasn’t that easy and I did go in and out of it. I’d shut it down and there he’d be and fall right back in… this last time I just made the decision to shut it down and really follow Kurt’s steps. I decided I want to do this for me and no other reason and that made it easier. I still get in my moods where I miss him and want to reach out and I think about it even have him pulled up to text…I’m on the tail end of dark night of the soul now I believe…but then I literally stop and look at my thoughts and call out the pattern and close my phone.
Ok so you want to be with your twin flame but now you in separation????? Time to make the best version of you.... 1 alkaline your body. 2 - meditate. 3- work out and get the perfect body. 4 - learn how to get out your mind ( ego). 5 - learn from all the mirrors of yourself you learned through your twin... 6 - learn to love yourself..... After you practice all this who cares whether your twin comes back or not....... looks what this journey has made you into..... An evolved soul🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I watched parts 1 and 2 of Sumadhi and during I observed the thoughts that wanted to resist. I was able to quiet them and continue listening and watching. I was introduced by a grad school professor to the Tao and I have spent ever since internalizing and incorporating it into all aspects of life. You're work is very important and I've been telling my friends since we were teenagers, we just need to remember who we are and the rest will just flow.
Kurt you're the voice i actually needed watching this now as you said "shut down" I am done with fucking chasing and i deleted our photos and whatsapp messages while watching this. So im going to focus on me and be free doing meditation and care for myself.
Another analogy could be that we (our self/soul) are the users, the body is the hardware, and the mind/ego is the computer software. We have to use the mind to interface with the physical world much like one would use an Operating System to interface with the digital space of their computer. Software is limited to its programming and hardware is limited to its components. But the user isn't limited in such fashions. Much like consciousness isn't limited while our minds and bodies are. And we need to realize we can step away from the computer at any point to just watch the thing operate.
Yes it happens to me a lot !!! I feel like emotionally I have detached but mentally the mind still thinks about it as a "them" and I notice that the mind is doing that and I pull in my energy and I say "ITS ME!"
I found the best way to clear my mind is to meditate on this question: WHO IS THE THINKER? Your mind can’t answer this question and clears itself immediately. Much Love
Hi, Kurt. I've been following you recently. Thanks for all the info! Im separate from my Twin for 3 years. Runner/Chaser constantly. But tks to an awakening process early this year's and now to your videos, I have overcomed the obssessive thinking these last 3 weeks, and I also started dating other guy a few days. At the beginning I used to dream a lot with him and I always felt I was the one looking for him in the astral. But in the last year its been decreasing a lot, and since December 2021 no dreams... except today. I felt he came to me...saying his not happy, his relationship is ending, bla bla bla...and I was in silence. No emotions, good or bad. Just watching in silence...I don't feel bad. I don't feel emotional or miss him, cause I realized his me. All the signs are there and when I woke up just said "you are me in other experience's. You need to go through all that. It makes you/ me stronger. Good luck". I love him unconditionally but I've come to realize that I was loosing my energy and focus. I was drifting. Now the love is still fulfilling me but I don't need him around. I'm even curios about this new guy, I need to kiss somebody else and feel alive again! His living an experience with somebody else, was his choice. I want also to experience this one. It will be good for both...as we are one! One question: do they chase us also in dreams? Maybe like a teaser before this realm?! I don't know what I feel about him coming back now...I know we are going to be together, but...I like this "new live" without him. I feel free...ackward?! 😜👍🏻
How is it going with your story? This is exactly what is happening on my life the exact time 3 years, 3 month’s and even my peace for opening my heart for something new…wishing him the best for his 2 years relationship and his life, but then he contacted to me (after years no contact) this weekend for his father lost i told him kind and respectful words but we didn’t talk about us i was very respectful…. Then he started to be on my mind so hard and i thought i care and prayed for him. I thought “i can’t wait for so long my love, i have to continue with my life as you did”. But let’s see what is going to happen because deep in my heart i feel like we’re going to be together.
@@HT69MM I engaged in Bert Hellinger therapy and also hipnose. We are apart but we'll. He's with his partner and I have also a partner. He is my twin and the Love is unconditional, but for now I feel safe and grounded with my new partner. The future I don't know and don't think about it.
i can't use word to describe you, you're the best I wish I could say more than this but maybe if I say anything I would put your goodness on the limits and your goodness is beyond limits, thanks for helping ♥️
I am Kurt's student and his program has helped me INMENSELY and I am not getting paid to write this comment 😂 but the more I detach and inform myself, the more I see the similarities between being in a devastating relationship with a narcisist and meeting your twin flame. I do not wait for this person nor do I intend to have a romantic relationship with him again. But I am starting to doubt this whole twin flame theory. I am growing spiritually and that's all that matters. I whish him well. I hope he finds love (self love) and the best life have to offer.
Hi lovely When I met this man in 2004. I felt at one with him. Dreamt of him before meeting. (Never told him wish I had) I am older than him ) He was in a relationship. So didn’t push. Although I felt as if we were and had always been together. Left my details in 2006. ( We worked at the same place) I don’t have his. We both talked about our lives .He really opened up to me and told me he had had a NDE like me. He was so say to talk too. He did call me. At my new work. But it was noisy so couldn’t really talk. Then I felt the same energy. And guided to ring m old place. to talk to my friend. Turns out he was standing next to her. So we spoke a little. Then nothing. In 2016. Felt the energy again. Turns out the bus I was on was passing where he used to live. I again was guided to look up Twin Flames( I hadn’t heard of TF). I still feel him as he is me. So weird. But just want to talk to him again and explain everything. 💚
Thank you! I’ve never met my TF, but been in a long term relationship for the past decade. Lately been seeing 444, 1111, 111, and 1040. Wonder if that means I’ll meet someone special.
Won't happen until you're out of that long-term relationship obviously you've been stuck in a cycle and the universe isn't going to bless you with you're TF until you break out of that cycle
I heard a beautiful voice saying ' he is the one you are to marry" I was 14 he was 8. 10 years later I met him again and it was love at first sight. But by now I lived in London and he never moved away from home far west of Ireland. In his 30's we agreed that us being with others was so upsetting so we agreed to stay single until we raise kids and then we'd get married he couldn't sfford me and two kids and he had one with a girl and a nephew to look after. But now he's with someone else and has dumped me for good. I've waited 15 years for him bringing up 2 boys alone. Love life is nil, a life has been too hard without him.
Does everyone else have an inner voice, that i believe is God, that tells you what to do but if you dont listen your tf pulls away and goes away. I do . I know i need to be present but it often seems like i need to also listen to this voice .
I’m going to follow your advice RIGHT NOW! And I Love you no BS approach to this entire situation! This is how I like to roll! THANK YOU! Will let you know what happens!
So amazing to hear you describe exactly what I went through with my DM as I asked him to let me move away. Amazing knowledge.... much appreciated Kurt!
I get what you are saying and it’s really making sense 2 years down the line from this push and pull thing . Every time I detach he comes in , then after we have spent time together he does something to trigger me and then this push pull thing starts over again ! So want this to end and for us to be together permanently. It is an addiction !. Actually I want to be free of this push pull thing and just enjoy life again ….
I am trying so hard to detach mentally and it is hard. Emotionally I am detached and have not talked to him over a month but my mind goes around and around. I am going to detox for sure. Thank you
The “I AM” is more attractive than the twin flame person I Am is the detachment from not only the Twin flame person but the whole ego mechanism I was never “it” to begin with
Last year I said I am done, so done. He also said he is done, after I pushed him with my questions... I moved on, planned new life for 3 weeks, he ran back... then after 6 mo again, I stared asking what we do next... together or alone... he pulled away, I swared that is it, I am sooooo done, saying this to him and started again planning my own life without him, he came back within hours.... grazy life. However listening to Kurt has helped, this grazyness seems to be over most of the time🤪🤪😎😎😎
Kurt, I'm going to try this. I will read the book, and I have already watched all three movies from your other videos. You do be on point with your information. I was madly in love with this guy after 6 concurrent visits like you mentioned, however we've known each other almost 20 years. I'm the chaser he is now on the run. It's been three years since we've spoken I reached out three times and no answer. I thought I had already detoxed, but lately he's popped up in my spirit in me having dreams this week of us reuniting. I have always had synchronicities since the day we separated. I see his name everywhere. I can't wait until he returns in us doing God's big commission.
I no longer want him in physical. I am okay with wherever he is and whomever he is with. I flow and let him flow. I don't block him, I don't stop communication, I call when I want to even if he rarely calls or texts it doesn't bother me anymore.
I've got the feeling that I didn't knew why I've saw him on TV but at the moment I didn't knew it but I think I've been awaking for 8 years now and now all of a sudden I started to fee attracted to him and I noticed that before I've never felt attracted to anyone remotely similar to me physically.
It happened. As soon as I moved on, started finally seeing someone else after years, I almost immediately heard from my TF. He lives in another state now and had me blocked from everything.
Wow! Thank you for the message. I am the one apologizing for kicking him out of my life. Three weeks ago I started to obsessively thinking of him. I even reached out to his friends that had connected with me when he was connected to me. Anyway I messed up the connection because I listened to others regarding my connection with my soulmate/twin flame. 2 main people in my life didn’t want me speaking with him they were against the connection because of the high vibes they saw. I had met another person (female who was so jealous) and she ended up manipulating me and convincing me to detach from my twin flame so I did. That happened two years ago and now in the present time I started thinking of him and wanting to reconnect. I’m blocked everywhere because I told him I didn’t want to be friends just to appease others.
Thank you, Kurt! hard to delete all the chats etc 🙈 just did it and pushed myself to do so… After almost 40-50 your videos watched, i finally ordered “The Power of now”😄🙈🙏🏻
Def happens. I did that two times deleting texts and prevent myself from having to be in the same space of where we might meet. Next thing they send a text. Still on the run but feeling union coming.
My twin is coming to the same event I am all of a sudden and idk what to think. I almost feel like I’m fighting regression with all the energy bc I don’t want to get into the negative cycles with him. I’m walking in faith that I raised my vibration and I can make it through this weekend. Lol! I feel like running and it’s not healthy either. I’m finally in a good place I feel and now this. Totally blindsided. There’s nothing I want to do, say, etc to my twin. I did all I’m gonna do. We are the same, it is what it is. I surrendered the connection. You’re right. I’ve detoxed. I’m healing. I just don’t want to regress. Did you feel nervous when fate (after you started the soul journey) pushed you and your twin back together ?
It’s normal to feel a little nervous about an event of this magnitude - encountering your soul in another body! Ancient knowledge of this was not accessible until Kurt’s expertise.
I suspected my TF dating with someone during the time he was disappeared. He said "Stop the crap" and gave the love confession . However, my "thought" botheted my inner peace so I decided to detach him for few days.
This is so relatable because whenever I work he talking to my self with in on my beach all alone my twin flame would always come over at the top of the stairs as if he was tuning into what I’m doing whenever I go within myself I always find him there too as of now we have an internal connection I’m newly awakened to our situation and I have been seeing his truck, boat name and numbers 1111 and so much more he even appears in my sleep even though we are 94 miles apart some times I feel like he’s with me
Wow - very good. I am following you for a while now and saw a lot of your videos: this one is by far one of the best! Maybe because of transformation, research and work I already put in, this video is a pretty good summary - thank you so much!!! Helps a lot!
I just found you tonight so I'm gonna be doing all of these steps and I've watched a few of your videos and I gotta say thank whoever all of us the collective thank you because I never thought I would figure out what the h*** is going on. I have had a weird year. I am known this person In this life for a few years now well I guess almost 10 but we only realized we were Special to each other In the last year and a 1/2 7 months ago we split up. It was awful he was awful I was awful. But during that time of separation all these weird experiences started happening to me And my conscience is awakening and I can feel it and this is the 1st time in all my research I have felt real guidance and hope And my conscience is awakening and I can feel it and this is the 1st time in all my research I have felt real guidance and hope. Well inspiration I guess that I'm gonna be fine and that all is well and he recently came back into my life before this but Due to circumstances out of our control we may be separated for a long time period. And I wasn't sure how I was gonna handle that thanks to you I feel so much relief that I can still be myself and not feel like I'm torn to half constantly
Yes im on right path already. Feeling incredible. Blown away with repeating numbers all day everyday. All time. I'm doing great already. I detached n i say like "who cares abt thisperson" fuck off... I'm feeling incredible already with me.
I detachted like you said in your course. I didn't block her because i knew i had control. She started to msg me like sort of as a mate i guess to try keep the connection. I told her to not msg me unless she wants to actually catch up or properly express something to me. But, it has been hard to shut down the thoughts of missing her or thinking of the future with her. It's been a few months now.
I’ve got it bad Kurt so many screenshots of our conversations text messages our last conversation on the phone was he says don’t delete the messages it’s my mind my mind and thinking is over edge I’m going to take your advice and I believe and know for a fact that he’s coming back he always comes back but I’ll still go for the heart.
Omg this is happening 😆 I stopped looking at their Instagram today I don't cry anymore over them and I deleted all their texts and stopped obsessing over them I am positive coz I'm watching this!
Ok im truly asking this question because I don't get it....so is the goal to have them come running back to you so you can reject them? If so then when and where do we find companionship after this twin flame lesson is over? Im a bit jaded because my life was going fine and this darn twin dropped in my life because I needed my a/c fixed and he has totally disrupted my life and now I don't know how to get rid of it or make it better. I also don't understand why the universe would bring this kind of connection to me and then just let it be for pain purposes😔 I was fine before this.
Exactly!! The moment I stopped looking about him!! He start doing weird things , trying to apologise 😆😆 crazy ha? But I haven’t open the contact! We are separated at this moment
Yes I be so happy moving on think this time is over and then he starts texting I tell him is like you know I am getting over you what a journey is has been
curious question.. I've been meditating and practicing mindfulness. I started looking at myself as a part of a whole soul, and my twin flame as another part of that soul, setting aside his physical body and his personality, everything '3D' about him and he starts talking to me again. Am I doing something right?
Today i was out and i saw 11:11 in a sign board then 999 and i went inside the shop and suddenly one guy shout his name so loud hahahaha . I know his thinking of me. And letting me know that.
Now he knows better than to tell me F off lol 😂 either way I miss him Week 2 But as the chAser I had my awakening and that is why i need him to talk tell Me everything so I can look at him feel his energy Cancer woman Pisces male
Okay I don't know why I think of Drop Dead Fred when you talk about wrapping "them" in a box and putting "them" away 😅😂... But you do that and "they" come back just like he did!! Of course "they" aren't imaginary friends lol... Or are "they"?? 🤔
My mom told me to watch your videos as they helped her with her TF journey. I am confused because I am the runner (I thought) but I am the one aware. The one watching your videos. But I don’t want him. But there is a pull towards him. And he is so confused as to why I am not with him. He’s in my dreams and I see his name everywhere: but I do not want to be with him. Do I still get out of my mind or will that just keep pulling him towards me
I feel heavy in my chest, sometimes my heart beats a little bit faster. And yes, butterflies in my stomach. It’s like I feel nervous/anxious about something. It goes away, then message comes within a few minutes.
I certainly feel this way. The last time I texted was Friday. I text here and there as he responds (idk if I should let go of the human aspect of him just yet, but I can be patient). I'm just focusing on me (or at least that's the intention lol) otherwise. I understand us crossing paths once again or him reaching back will take time. He didn't actually stop messaging since we went our separate ways (we live on opposite coasts), it was just a little here and there. The past week, the texting did slow down. I was going crazy about it last week and felt like I really wanted to see him. While I still feel that on the inside, I also understand that this is a process that cannot be rushed. Nonetheless, just when I think I've got him off my mind, the energy fills me with more and they overwhelm me. I really need to become super aware of my own thoughts and mind, it seems. Perhaps I'll stop talking about him now. I don't want to "unfriend" him. But I'm not looking at his pictures or profiles right now or texts. I'm not texting him while he's silent (there could be his own reasons for this though so I'm leaving him space and time). I'm still coming to terms and going back and forth with this connection though. It almost seems too good to be true. This guy is popular (we're both LGBT, me being gay and I think he said he was bi but leaning gay more these days) in the LGBT community and goes to at least some of the same events I do now. Is feeling him in the heart and soul also going to push him further away? From what others have said including Kurt, I thought the key was to be in the heart and soul space which is also where the connection comes through. It's coming through there more and the thoughts are a little less distracting and obsessive as the days go though I do feel him and his heart and soul more. Can I truly "separate" from his feeling at the heart and soul level, or is that where I'm going to feel him no matter what I do? I'm only a few weeks into this connection, almost a month, but still trying to play it smart to manifest union in divine timing and try to avoid pushing them away or hurting him. I do feel myself ascending more, and others have said the higher you ascend, the closer you will get towards union with their soul in the 5D then it makes connection a little easier in the 3D.
Thank you again and for ever Kurt.. yes I followed your instructions word by word and yes he is back and he is the chaser now.. but Kurt.. one thing I always did and still do when ever I feel his energy overwhelming me.. I smile and I pray for him then I continue living my nonmale day.. wishing him a happy fulfilling life and BOOM he calls me asking for a date! EVERY TIME KURT! the weird part is I don't want a romantic relationship with him any more! I love him unconditionally but I don't (need) him you know what I mean? I'm totally fine!
How do you feel his energy?? Thought it only goes from positive to negetive?
How do you stop the obsession? Honestly I'm trying real hard to just focus on my life but damn it's hard!
You got this ))) so glad for you as we are all here still on the way to …:)
Thank you for this tender comment
you never chase him right... I feel his sexual energy.. more often lately.... I think he likes that I'm focusing only on me. cause when I text him and chase him he is like whatever. even though I know he wants me, mine only blocked me once and then I texted him on his work mail, that he needed to block me on his work mail too, and then he texted me that he couldn't do that and he texted me he open the blocking on his phone. this journey is so weird. and when I focus on me my ex (was with him for 11 years) keeps calling me. I've blocked my ex, he has a girl friend, I not need to talk to him, its like I need no-one right now, I don't even feel like texting my twinflame either. I actually don't know what to text him either.. maybe I'm becoming the runner. I feel fed up of chasing. I've been chasing him for 3 years. I think Im fed up of chasing .... will the chasing stop by itself? because you get fed up? its like I don't care if he comes back or not either.... I don't know. maybe my heart is closed.......
Wow I get overwhelmed b4 he even pops up... like I don't even want him around cuz the enegy is so physiclly overwhelming
I detached so heavily from my twin flame that I even burnt her pictures. I was tired of the chasing and the games and ready for me and what you would call my awakening. Within a week, she is calling me, coming to visit for hours on end, etc. I did not jump back into old habits. I told her to do what she wants, she who she wants, and be happy. I did not care what she does, and I let her know that. Guess who she still calls and visits almost every other day. I still do not give her the emotional attention, and she is still there almost every day. So BELIEVE what Kurt is saying because he is 100% correct.
So you hurt her on purpose knowing she loves you you push her away. Just fucking leave her along 🤢🤮
@@killmenowyou actually, she was using me, conning me, and lying to my face about her breaking up with her ex. She never did. She is a pure narcissist, and karma will make its way back to her. I’m better without her in my life.
Ok well forget that girl and you did the right thing
How did you detach from her besides burning her pictures ?
@@DG-no1oo it’s been easier since I realized she was just using me for personal gain. If she pops into my mind, the only thing I think about is her negatives. Before long, her beauty is gone, her kindness is seen as fake, and who she is, is someone I do not care to see again.
I meditate for 20 minuets when i first wake up and usually try my best to stay present as I am working or fixing up my house & then again for atleast an hour before I sleep. So twice a day is where I'm at and I noticed that I accidentally experienced satori while doing a crossword puzzle it felt amazing😇🌟
Thank you Kurt, I've just finished "The power of now" I am not only my twin flame, "we" are also the universe as the love of being able to wake up, this idea has freed me from all pain, thank you for recommending this book, I will continue to listen to you to remind me being awake
Do not apologize for your English. Your language skills are good
Gr8. Eckhart Tolle's teachings are life chaging for so many, in case u r on clubhouse, join the club. his teachings are discussed there n how to apply in daily life, all the time.
My twin flame showed up right after I broke through dark night of soul. I often forget him because I enjoy my inner happiness.The funny thing is that he becomes crazier and crazier now.
How did you break through dark night of the soul??
I weatched Kurt's free coaching and followed his suggestions. After 3 weeks, my twinflames showed up , we talked on line and I made fun of him. He was pissed off about it and dissapeared again. I even didn't know why. Then I realized my ego is so big! He targeted me and kicked me down the cliff. That's why I broke through
(My TF has no idea about it)
How did you stop thinking about your twin?? I'm finding it soo hard
It's painful. Its like ripping open my chest and digging out my heart. I switched my attention on something else. Such as watching Kurt's vedios until I was convinced that I and my twin are one soul and we never be apart. I stopped texting him and watching his photoes. I observed my "thought" and facused back on my heart chakra .I also menditate everyday.
Ok but does this me you will go without companionship forever?
This is so true. My TF and I were in runner chaser. I was talking to a friend, twice, same friend. Told them I was done shutting it all down I couldn’t take the back and forth anymore. Shut my thinking down and less then 30 min here he goes in my texts about wanting to see me or needing me. The second time my friend couldn’t believe it… totally weirded out how instantly he reached out when I shut down like that. Now I realize this has been happening a lot over the last 9 months. As of today I’m shutting it down to follow Kurt’s coaching.
How did you shut the thinking down just like that???
It wasn’t that easy and I did go in and out of it. I’d shut it down and there he’d be and fall right back in… this last time I just made the decision to shut it down and really follow Kurt’s steps. I decided I want to do this for me and no other reason and that made it easier. I still get in my moods where I miss him and want to reach out and I think about it even have him pulled up to text…I’m on the tail end of dark night of the soul now I believe…but then I literally stop and look at my thoughts and call out the pattern and close my phone.
Yes he will respond at least initially…especially if it’s been a few days.
Everything you say is actually happening. Your the real MVP
💯✍🏽
Ok so you want to be with your twin flame but now you in separation?????
Time to make the best version of you.... 1 alkaline your body. 2 - meditate. 3- work out and get the perfect body. 4 - learn how to get out your mind ( ego). 5 - learn from all the mirrors of yourself you learned through your twin... 6 - learn to love yourself.....
After you practice all this who cares whether your twin comes back or not....... looks what this journey has made you into..... An evolved soul🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
How true 👏🏻
Kurt, you are a person with a very big heart,thank you!
I watched parts 1 and 2 of Sumadhi and during I observed the thoughts that wanted to resist. I was able to quiet them and continue listening and watching. I was introduced by a grad school professor to the Tao and I have spent ever since internalizing and incorporating it into all aspects of life. You're work is very important and I've been telling my friends since we were teenagers, we just need to remember who we are and the rest will just flow.
Kurt you're the voice i actually needed watching this now as you said "shut down" I am done with fucking chasing and i deleted our photos and whatsapp messages while watching this. So im going to focus on me and be free doing meditation and care for myself.
Hands down 🙌🏻 the best TF coach out here no question you have given me so much advice that worked 💯 % always !! 🤯👌🏼
Another analogy could be that we (our self/soul) are the users, the body is the hardware, and the mind/ego is the computer software. We have to use the mind to interface with the physical world much like one would use an Operating System to interface with the digital space of their computer. Software is limited to its programming and hardware is limited to its components. But the user isn't limited in such fashions. Much like consciousness isn't limited while our minds and bodies are.
And we need to realize we can step away from the computer at any point to just watch the thing operate.
Best description bar none. Thanks!!!🙏🏻
Yes it happens to me a lot !!! I feel like emotionally I have detached but mentally the mind still thinks about it as a "them" and I notice that the mind is doing that and I pull in my energy and I say "ITS ME!"
I found the best way to clear my mind is to meditate on this question:
WHO IS THE THINKER?
Your mind can’t answer this question and clears itself immediately. Much Love
Hi, Kurt. I've been following you recently. Thanks for all the info! Im separate from my Twin for 3 years. Runner/Chaser constantly. But tks to an awakening process early this year's and now to your videos, I have overcomed the obssessive thinking these last 3 weeks, and I also started dating other guy a few days. At the beginning I used to dream a lot with him and I always felt I was the one looking for him in the astral. But in the last year its been decreasing a lot, and since December 2021 no dreams... except today. I felt he came to me...saying his not happy, his relationship is ending, bla bla bla...and I was in silence. No emotions, good or bad. Just watching in silence...I don't feel bad. I don't feel emotional or miss him, cause I realized his me. All the signs are there and when I woke up just said "you are me in other experience's. You need to go through all that. It makes you/ me stronger. Good luck". I love him unconditionally but I've come to realize that I was loosing my energy and focus. I was drifting. Now the love is still fulfilling me but I don't need him around. I'm even curios about this new guy, I need to kiss somebody else and feel alive again! His living an experience with somebody else, was his choice. I want also to experience this one. It will be good for both...as we are one! One question: do they chase us also in dreams? Maybe like a teaser before this realm?! I don't know what I feel about him coming back now...I know we are going to be together, but...I like this "new live" without him. I feel free...ackward?! 😜👍🏻
How is it going with your story? This is exactly what is happening on my life the exact time 3 years, 3 month’s and even my peace for opening my heart for something new…wishing him the best for his 2 years relationship and his life, but then he contacted to me (after years no contact) this weekend for his father lost i told him kind and respectful words but we didn’t talk about us i was very respectful…. Then he started to be on my mind so hard and i thought i care and prayed for him. I thought “i can’t wait for so long my love, i have to continue with my life as you did”. But let’s see what is going to happen because deep in my heart i feel like we’re going to be together.
@@HT69MM I engaged in Bert Hellinger therapy and also hipnose. We are apart but we'll. He's with his partner and I have also a partner. He is my twin and the Love is unconditional, but for now I feel safe and grounded with my new partner. The future I don't know and don't think about it.
i can't use word to describe you, you're the best I wish I could say more than this but maybe if I say anything I would put your goodness on the limits and your goodness is beyond limits, thanks for helping ♥️
444 watching this and did exactly what Kurt said. No more IG.
The first 4 min were funny and so true..... Wow, you have really knowlegde about the mind and the soul. Very educational. Awsome video. thanks
I am Kurt's student and his program has helped me INMENSELY and I am not getting paid to write this comment 😂 but the more I detach and inform myself, the more I see the similarities between being in a devastating relationship with a narcisist and meeting your twin flame. I do not wait for this person nor do I intend to have a romantic relationship with him again. But I am starting to doubt this whole twin flame theory. I am growing spiritually and that's all that matters. I whish him well. I hope he finds love (self love) and the best life have to offer.
This is what I am going through now I don’t know if he is a narcissist and I got love bombed or I really am supposed to be with this man
I had done all this a few months ago because I had reached my limit. Within 2 days he was texting, emailing, chatting..... WOW
I just ordered the payment plan from your site. I chose you above all others in my research. So, here’s to re-union
Hi lovely When I met this man in 2004. I felt at one with him. Dreamt of him before meeting. (Never told him wish I had) I am older than him ) He was in a relationship. So didn’t push. Although I felt as if we were and had always been together. Left my details in 2006. ( We worked at the same place) I don’t have his. We both talked about our lives .He really opened up to me and told me he had had a NDE like me. He was so say to talk too. He did call me. At my new work. But it was noisy so couldn’t really talk. Then I felt the same energy. And guided to ring m old place. to talk to my friend. Turns out he was standing next to her. So we spoke a little. Then nothing. In 2016. Felt the energy again. Turns out the bus I was on was passing where he used to live. I again was guided to look up Twin Flames( I hadn’t heard of TF). I still feel him as he is me. So weird. But just want to talk to him again and explain everything. 💚
Thank you! I’ve never met my TF, but been in a long term relationship for the past decade. Lately been seeing 444, 1111, 111, and 1040. Wonder if that means I’ll meet someone special.
Won't happen until you're out of that long-term relationship obviously you've been stuck in a cycle and the universe isn't going to bless you with you're TF until you break out of that cycle
I heard a beautiful voice saying ' he is the one you are to marry" I was 14 he was 8. 10 years later I met him again and it was love at first sight. But by now I lived in London and he never moved away from home far west of Ireland.
In his 30's we agreed that us being with others was so upsetting so we agreed to stay single until we raise kids and then we'd get married he couldn't sfford me and two kids and he had one with a girl and a nephew to look after.
But now he's with someone else and has dumped me for good. I've waited 15 years for him bringing up 2 boys alone. Love life is nil, a life has been too hard without him.
Does everyone else have an inner voice, that i believe is God, that tells you what to do but if you dont listen your tf pulls away and goes away. I do . I know i need to be present but it often seems like i need to also listen to this voice .
I’m going to follow your advice RIGHT NOW!
And I Love you no BS approach to this entire situation! This is how I like to roll! THANK YOU! Will let you know what happens!
So amazing to hear you describe exactly what I went through with my DM as I asked him to let me move away. Amazing knowledge.... much appreciated Kurt!
There is truth in this video, as soon as I really stopped thinking about him he popped up.
This was happening before i even knew she was my TF. Known her 11 years and just found out she's my TF 3 weeks ago.
It seems that the deeper we explore....the farther we expand conscious experience
Every damn time!
I get what you are saying and it’s really making sense 2 years down the line from this push and pull thing .
Every time I detach he comes in , then after we have spent time together he does something to trigger me and then this push pull thing starts over again !
So want this to end and for us to be together permanently.
It is an addiction !.
Actually I want to be free of this push pull thing and just enjoy life again ….
Another great read is “The Untethered Soul”
I'm working on detaching also, these are good steps. Thanks ❤️
One day I didn't think about him and the same night I had a telepatic conversation with my twin flame. He started the conversation first.
Very useful, I think a more appropriate term would be its science other than technology. Makes it an easier concept to grasp
I am trying so hard to detach mentally and it is hard. Emotionally I am detached and have not talked to him over a month but my mind goes around and around. I am going to detox for sure. Thank you
You had me at, “Get TF outta your head rn.” XD
Yes that has happened , I was just decided to forget completely about him and suddenly he called😲
Thank you Kurt you have been the best teacher 🙏
We had our first 3 hours of conversation on 1/4/24 via phone call. It's steps forward in a new foundation of friendship ❤
Brilliant, totally resonate with it. Will experiment with this technique and will feedback once tried & tested. Thanks.
The “I AM” is more attractive than the twin flame person
I Am is the detachment from not only the Twin flame person but the whole ego mechanism
I was never “it” to begin with
Last year I said I am done, so done. He also said he is done, after I pushed him with my questions... I moved on, planned new life for 3 weeks, he ran back... then after 6 mo again, I stared asking what we do next... together or alone... he pulled away, I swared that is it, I am sooooo done, saying this to him and started again planning my own life without him, he came back within hours.... grazy life. However listening to Kurt has helped, this grazyness seems to be over most of the time🤪🤪😎😎😎
I did it. Feeling better !!
Kurt, I'm going to try this. I will read the book, and I have already watched all three movies from your other videos. You do be on point with your information. I was madly in love with this guy after 6 concurrent visits like you mentioned, however we've known each other almost 20 years. I'm the chaser he is now on the run. It's been three years since we've spoken I reached out three times and no answer. I thought I had already detoxed, but lately he's popped up in my spirit in me having dreams this week of us reuniting. I have always had synchronicities since the day we separated. I see his name everywhere. I can't wait until he returns in us doing God's big commission.
I no longer want him in physical. I am okay with wherever he is and whomever he is with. I flow and let him flow. I don't block him, I don't stop communication, I call when I want to even if he rarely calls or texts it doesn't bother me anymore.
Hi Kurt! Can we have a soulmate and a twinflame in one person? Or is it just one twinf and one soulmate separate?
Thank youfor the video 🙏
Wow! This resonates like you can’t believe!!! I’m in the “shut down” phase…
I've got the feeling that I didn't knew why I've saw him on TV but at the moment I didn't knew it but I think I've been awaking for 8 years now and now all of a sudden I started to fee attracted to him and I noticed that before I've never felt attracted to anyone remotely similar to me physically.
AYOOO KIRK, I SALUTE YOU HOMEBOY!!! LIKE 50•CENT TOLD EMINEM, “YOU KNOW YOU’RE MY FAVORITE WHITEBOY RIGHT??!!!”💯💯💯
Givin it all away Kurt ❤️
Yes he is I'm a former student but doing the work is a personal Journey thanks for helping in raising the vibration for Humanity Kurt!!!
It happened. As soon as I moved on, started finally seeing someone else after years, I almost immediately heard from my TF. He lives in another state now and had me blocked from everything.
Wow! Thank you for the message. I am the one apologizing for kicking him out of my life. Three weeks ago I started to obsessively thinking of him. I even reached out to his friends that had connected with me when he was connected to me. Anyway I messed up the connection because I listened to others regarding my connection with my soulmate/twin flame. 2 main people in my life didn’t want me speaking with him they were against the connection because of the high vibes they saw. I had met another person (female who was so jealous) and she ended up manipulating me and convincing me to detach from my twin flame so I did. That happened two years ago and now in the present time I started thinking of him and wanting to reconnect. I’m blocked everywhere because I told him I didn’t want to be friends just to appease others.
We are the same soul with two minds 💘
What are the 3 signs ?
Thank you, Kurt! hard to delete all the chats etc 🙈 just did it and pushed myself to do so…
After almost 40-50 your videos watched, i finally ordered “The Power of now”😄🙈🙏🏻
🙏❤️you are incredible. Such a relief n so much understanding of all this eachtime I hear you
Thank you for everything Kurt , you have successfully helped me reprogram and live a peaceful life.
Def happens. I did that two times deleting texts and prevent myself from having to be in the same space of where we might meet. Next thing they send a text. Still on the run but feeling union coming.
My twin is coming to the same event I am all of a sudden and idk what to think. I almost feel like I’m fighting regression with all the energy bc I don’t want to get into the negative cycles with him. I’m walking in faith that I raised my vibration and I can make it through this weekend. Lol! I feel like running and it’s not healthy either. I’m finally in a good place I feel and now this. Totally blindsided. There’s nothing I want to do, say, etc to my twin. I did all I’m gonna do. We are the same, it is what it is. I surrendered the connection. You’re right. I’ve detoxed. I’m healing. I just don’t want to regress.
Did you feel nervous when fate (after you started the soul journey) pushed you and your twin back together ?
It’s normal to feel a little nervous about an event of this magnitude - encountering your soul in another body!
Ancient knowledge of this was not accessible until Kurt’s expertise.
I feel it is just thinking, being in the mind that creates nervousness, a sign for me to breathe and be one with soul
Felt quite nervous, but also kind of xcited
I suspected my TF dating with someone during the time he was disappeared. He said "Stop the crap" and gave the love confession . However, my "thought" botheted my inner peace so I decided to detach him for few days.
That is hilarious that is exactly what happens when I decide to be done he calls or texts instantly wow amazing!
This is so relatable because whenever I work he talking to my self with in on my beach all alone my twin flame would always come over at the top of the stairs as if he was tuning into what I’m doing whenever I go within myself I always find him there too as of now we have an internal connection I’m newly awakened to our situation and I have been seeing his truck, boat name and numbers 1111 and so much more he even appears in my sleep even though we are 94 miles apart some times I feel like he’s with me
Wow - very good. I am following you for a while now and saw a lot of your videos: this one is by far one of the best! Maybe because of transformation, research and work I already put in, this video is a pretty good summary - thank you so much!!! Helps a lot!
I just found you tonight so I'm gonna be doing all of these steps and I've watched a few of your videos and I gotta say thank whoever all of us the collective thank you because I never thought I would figure out what the h*** is going on. I have had a weird year. I am known this person In this life for a few years now well I guess almost 10 but we only realized we were Special to each other In the last year and a 1/2 7 months ago we split up. It was awful he was awful I was awful. But during that time of separation all these weird experiences started happening to me And my conscience is awakening and I can feel it and this is the 1st time in all my research I have felt real guidance and hope And my conscience is awakening and I can feel it and this is the 1st time in all my research I have felt real guidance and hope. Well inspiration I guess that I'm gonna be fine and that all is well and he recently came back into my life before this but Due to circumstances out of our control we may be separated for a long time period. And I wasn't sure how I was gonna handle that thanks to you I feel so much relief that I can still be myself and not feel like I'm torn to half constantly
"Think of your mind as a tree... there is wind blowing through the leaves of the tree"
I am doing lots of meditation tumbs up kurt🙏🙏👍👍
Thank you
Tumbs up
Yes im on right path already. Feeling incredible. Blown away with repeating numbers all day everyday. All time.
I'm doing great already. I detached n i say like "who cares abt thisperson" fuck off... I'm feeling incredible already with me.
I detachted like you said in your course. I didn't block her because i knew i had control. She started to msg me like sort of as a mate i guess to try keep the connection. I told her to not msg me unless she wants to actually catch up or properly express something to me. But, it has been hard to shut down the thoughts of missing her or thinking of the future with her. It's been a few months now.
Watched the whole video and didn’t hear specifically what those 3 signs were. Anyone know if he actually answered the question?
No..😅🤣😂
You are great !! Its all so true !!
I wanna meet my soul , not the other half ! not the mate ! Just my own soul. I feel disconnected from it.
Love yourself 💓🙏🏾✨
I’ve got it bad Kurt so many screenshots of our conversations text messages our last conversation on the phone was he says don’t delete the messages it’s my mind my mind and thinking is over edge I’m going to take your advice and I believe and know for a fact that he’s coming back he always comes back but I’ll still go for the heart.
I find meditating to Violet flame very helpful to transmute..
When I feel his energy I see purple auras..
I’m in a relationship with my twin finally ❤😂 We are working through our polarization. It’s just a matter of acceptance and focusing on ourselves?
Omg this is happening 😆 I stopped looking at their Instagram today I don't cry anymore over them and I deleted all their texts and stopped obsessing over them I am positive coz I'm watching this!
Ok im truly asking this question because I don't get it....so is the goal to have them come running back to you so you can reject them? If so then when and where do we find companionship after this twin flame lesson is over? Im a bit jaded because my life was going fine and this darn twin dropped in my life because I needed my a/c fixed and he has totally disrupted my life and now I don't know how to get rid of it or make it better. I also don't understand why the universe would bring this kind of connection to me and then just let it be for pain purposes😔 I was fine before this.
Exactly!!
There are also false twins, which may be worth considering
@@ricekrissietreat yea I asked this 10 months ago I got my answers thank you
Impressive speech thank you 🙏👌
My twin flame is a bit stubborn but every time I pull away he always come back after a couple days. Texting calling want to hang out.
22:22. Perfect.
Exactly!! The moment I stopped looking about him!! He start doing weird things , trying to apologise 😆😆 crazy ha? But I haven’t open the contact! We are separated at this moment
What a beautiful T-shirt 😻
Yes I be so happy moving on think this time is over and then he starts texting I tell him is like you know I am getting over you what a journey is has been
Has anyone ever thought if your twin would die you felt a pain so horrible and also if they do will we feel that?
curious question.. I've been meditating and practicing mindfulness. I started looking at myself as a part of a whole soul, and my twin flame as another part of that soul, setting aside his physical body and his personality, everything '3D' about him and he starts talking to me again. Am I doing something right?
My twinflame thinking about me: I am not calling her, I won’t call her, I am glad I don’t call her
🥺resonate….🤭
I don't know if I should watch this. I was trying to stop watch twin flames related videos 😁
I like that you say it like it is thats cool😎 keep up the good work 👍
Today i was out and i saw 11:11 in a sign board then 999 and i went inside the shop and suddenly one guy shout his name so loud hahahaha . I know his thinking of me. And letting me know that.
Now he knows better than to tell me F off lol 😂 either way I miss him
Week 2
But as the chAser I had my awakening and that is why i need him to talk tell
Me everything so I can look at him feel his energy
Cancer woman Pisces male
Yep! The moment I say fuck it I’m done..they come back🤦🏼♀️
Kurt , you're the best 🙂✌🏼🙏🏼
“Omgggg when you said on and off like a computer mmmmm” I mmmmndd with you that’s crazy!😆❤️
Okay I don't know why I think of Drop Dead Fred when you talk about wrapping "them" in a box and putting "them" away 😅😂... But you do that and "they" come back just like he did!! Of course "they" aren't imaginary friends lol... Or are "they"?? 🤔
My mom told me to watch your videos as they helped her with her TF journey. I am confused because I am the runner (I thought) but I am the one aware. The one watching your videos. But I don’t want him. But there is a pull towards him. And he is so confused as to why I am not with him. He’s in my dreams and I see his name everywhere: but I do not want to be with him. Do I still get out of my mind or will that just keep pulling him towards me
The further he pushes me the more I run and I don’t want to run but I do
This resonates with me
I’m that one that knows what I wanted and couldn’t stop thinking about my twin flame and they pulled away lol
Video last 22:22 and comments 222 😊 I am grateful.
22.22 🤣🤣 i love your humor
Do some positively polarized twins need deeper satories because of their unique connection with their twin in order to get them to unblock you?
Focus on YOU and enjoy the summer.
Does anyone get that strong gut, butterfly feeling, especially before they decide to reach out?
I feel heavy in my chest, sometimes my heart beats a little bit faster. And yes, butterflies in my stomach. It’s like I feel nervous/anxious about something. It goes away, then message comes within a few minutes.
I certainly feel this way. The last time I texted was Friday. I text here and there as he responds (idk if I should let go of the human aspect of him just yet, but I can be patient). I'm just focusing on me (or at least that's the intention lol) otherwise. I understand us crossing paths once again or him reaching back will take time. He didn't actually stop messaging since we went our separate ways (we live on opposite coasts), it was just a little here and there. The past week, the texting did slow down. I was going crazy about it last week and felt like I really wanted to see him. While I still feel that on the inside, I also understand that this is a process that cannot be rushed. Nonetheless, just when I think I've got him off my mind, the energy fills me with more and they overwhelm me. I really need to become super aware of my own thoughts and mind, it seems.
Perhaps I'll stop talking about him now. I don't want to "unfriend" him. But I'm not looking at his pictures or profiles right now or texts. I'm not texting him while he's silent (there could be his own reasons for this though so I'm leaving him space and time). I'm still coming to terms and going back and forth with this connection though. It almost seems too good to be true. This guy is popular (we're both LGBT, me being gay and I think he said he was bi but leaning gay more these days) in the LGBT community and goes to at least some of the same events I do now.
Is feeling him in the heart and soul also going to push him further away? From what others have said including Kurt, I thought the key was to be in the heart and soul space which is also where the connection comes through. It's coming through there more and the thoughts are a little less distracting and obsessive as the days go though I do feel him and his heart and soul more. Can I truly "separate" from his feeling at the heart and soul level, or is that where I'm going to feel him no matter what I do?
I'm only a few weeks into this connection, almost a month, but still trying to play it smart to manifest union in divine timing and try to avoid pushing them away or hurting him. I do feel myself ascending more, and others have said the higher you ascend, the closer you will get towards union with their soul in the 5D then it makes connection a little easier in the 3D.
@@gumaber_I experienced this many times as well.