It’s kind of the same I would say, I am also researching why things like this happen. My TF is 3 years older than me and has a female body , like me. We have to deal with society. I wanted always kids, so like her. She always said, it’s a great expierience with a woman but she feels more attracted to men. After many years we finally got to a point, where it doesn‘t matter anymore, if I am a woman or men. But I’d say, this was the hardest trigger for me! Thanks Kurt. I‘ve observed my mind a year, so my tf unblocked me after 17 months . 🎉 this channel is truth. We don‘t have that many in Germany, who are explaining this phenomenon of twin flames this way. So thank you 🙏🏽
But I'm not sure if she is a twin flame or a soul mate the intuition I have combined with this deep knowing makes me feel soulmate but some of the signs I've seen has me thinking TF and what is crazy is MY TF/ Soulmate ended up being my bosses daughter who has dual citizenship in America and Lebanon and was in Lebanon for 3 years before returning back home. This is where it gets a lçil weird out of no where my intuition told me that she was coming soon and I needed to get ready and the first day she came back her and I was in the same room I had this overwhelming feeling that there was like a rope attached to my heart pulling me into hers something I've never felt before that goes way deeper than attraction She's been back for about 8 weeks and for 6 of those weeks I felt like I was going crazy out of my mind because the path forward just seems to be so illuminated that I know we're going to be together and I know that she's the one and I also know her and I made some kind of agreement before coming here and that she is apart of this next chapter in my life. How I even came across twin flame was because I always see 11:11 but since she came back I always see 111 so I decided to look up 111 which led me to Twin flame number which led me to here and I'm so glad it did because the obsessive thoughts definitely felt like it was happening to me. We haven't talked about it yet but it's clear as day she feels it to. She has given me clear signs she feels it to but my intuition tells me it's not time yet to be patient
I am DF female and my DM is male, 3 year older than me. We are different culture too I am Indian and he is polish. We are in separation now. We met through work, I have never seen instant connection, push and pull like this ever. We are both married in our individual life with kids. I was not looking for this to happen, but now I am seeing why my current relationship is not good for my creative spiritual soul purpose after initiating my spiritual awakening journey which was ignited after soul recognition. I am currently in surrendering to the process and let universe make us meet at divine time. It’s crazy how we are so compatible and work amazing together, the one week we work together - we worked like power team bringing so much improvements In his business, I was his business advisor. And then after soul recognition , I was crazy chaser, he won’t reply to my text ! The waiting game felt so hard. He knows about the twin flame and I had to let him go and get into separation .
I (DF, woman) am 14 years older than mine (DM, man). Our social background is also different, he is very rich and I am penniless but very rich in love 🤣💘
Well this is all the confirmation I need. I’ve wanted someone to address the age gap. My TF is 16 years younger.... we are wild for one another but he does take off once ina while.
I am 55 and he is 23 years younger. Thank you for this clip and all the comments for a long time I thought I was losing my mind. He has disappeared from my life not a Day goes by that he is not in my thoughts. I have learned to trust in Divine timing and to continue working on self. I hold hope there will be union in this lifetime 💜🙏
I got an envelope bigger gap, I am 52. It’s hard to forget the age gap for us, as most people see it as an instant block. I don’t think it ever should be, as long as both parties take it into account.
When I saw this man for the first time, I told my son, “I know him. How do I know him?” After talking to him for a year, I wanted to email him an article and realized that I had never asked his email address. I tried to conjure up his address when I realized that we have the same initials (MF), and I laughed that he was also a member of the “M-Fers club”. When I saw him again, I asked his middle initial and again it matched. He is 27 years younger and should have been my son. And yes, he noticed the undeniable attraction between us and was VERY CONFUSED. This was a frustrating situation. I cannot be around him due to his confusion.
I think the universe it trying to get everyone to wake up and see that we are all souls (not body) so it will incarnate twins at all age gaps, same sex, and different religions. Love is love. It comes with no judgement.
When I met him, I felt like I instantly belonged to him. Almost like he owned me. It was insane. I don't even like getting into relationships. I can't explain it
I'm 45 female and my TF is 33 male and we are in union, my understanding is that we are incarnated with this age gap to break all the stereotypes of conventional relationships to the world. That's why so many TFs are in union more than ever.
i am 26 and my twin is 17... its so hard not only because of EVERYTHING but the age difference PLUS him being basically a kid until he's like 21 at least... he doesnt understand much. although when he had ,,opened" stage he was messaging me things NO MAN ever did.. it was like God, Love was talking through him.
@@Underyourbedeyes i actually had explained it elaborately above but although not violating, it was deleted in a jiffy. talk about freedom of speech. it is of course not all about breeding, breeding is just a facet of it. its about the female being the older and chaser, whilst according to the nature, it should be the other way around. men are hunters, they hate being chased. older women have lost sexual market value, are unattractive for a young guy, have no appeal. this appeal is the first step to mating and procreating. menopause is there for a reason. imagine if every old woman met their younger oh so called tf, the future of mankind would be jeopardized. yet another proof that tf is nothing but a buddhistic fairy tale
I’m the DF at 45 and he is 26 and it’s the most powerful love I’ve ever experienced. We also always have so many synchronicities it was almost scary. However we argue in such toxic ways that get intense and lead to a temporary break up and over nothing. We are currently in separation but I hope not for long I miss him and can’t see myself loving anyone else.
My twin flame is half my age. We only met because we worked together. He asked me to hang out with him and we just clicked instantly! I fought my feelings because he was so much younger until we just couldn't anymore. He's perfectly perfect for me. We're so much in love it's nuts. We both had to go through all the bad with others to appreciate each other. We make each other want to be a better person and we lift each other up. He's the yang to my yin🥰
My twin flame and I are 10.5 years apart. My wife is younger and was the chaser. I was the runner, but I ran toward her instead of away. We've been in union for over 10 years and our daily love feels like the first day love.
I’m 10 years and about a week younger than mine as well. I wonder what the numerological patterns might mean with twin flame journeys? Of course that is the mind looking for information haha
He is 3 years younger then me. But he is extremely handsome for his age. He is very physically fit. I am going to be 66 in an hour. Happy Birthday to me! Thank you. 💜
Yep. I'm the DF and 17 years older than my runner. He wasn't my "type" either, but boy did he turn my head when we met. He was so familiar..It was like something inside me said "oh, there you are."
Yes, it’s true my twin flame is 12 years younger than me. We fell madly in love and we are so happy! We have never ever been better it’s like a perfect match. Age doesn’t matter only the soul connection. 😀
I think when there is that huge age gap it is the soul "enough" lesson. How am I enough for this accomplished older DF, how am I enough for this sexy younger DM? The soul(s) need to learn the lesson of being enough just as they are. 💜 I love your journey and explanation.
Shes 9 years younger then i am , and she told me often “youre so smart and wise , you have everything together why you want me i have nothing to offer im a mess” and i told her so many times your beatiful soul and heart are enough for me... and in my turn i had a small insecurity and thought what would you want of me im almost 40 but i think she just love my soul as much as i love hers , we in sep atm im sure when she finds the love for herself she finds the love for me again bc it might sound weird but i love myself for who ive become in the same way i love her for who she is.
Yes absolutely I agree I don't feel like I'm enough I am older and he says if I was younger we would be married that caused me to run for the hills I was the chaser, now just in contact again after 3 months. I initiated it let's see what happens next it's certainly a painful journey.
I am 68 and 18 years older than my twin. I think the purpose is that I am more patient, have more experience in life, so I am fit to teach him unconditional love. My soulcontract says that there is a pupil/teacher relation, admiration is the keyword, and also I am the High Priestess and he is my protector in previous lifes. As he is now, and he is slowly awakening in his own time, walking his own path. I am able to let his do this without expactations for myself. His love made me love myself so that I can follow my soulmission. For me, this is the truth.
i am 68 and 31 years older....thank you for sharing your story...this has been quite a surprise for me. I am grateful for all the tremendous growth it gives. It surely teaches detachment with unconditional love. What a blessing even as i am struggling with the latest sudden separation this week. All my best to you.
I'm the male (chaser), 12 years younger. My best guess for the age gap is to break societal norms. I'm barely older than her kids and also have socioeconomic factors to contend with, as well as an avoidant attachment style. Despite being an odd couple, it was the most childish, loving, and supportive relationship I've ever known. The absence of lust, massive heart opening, and connection to source / intuition were my major signs with her. We trigger each other so much, unlike anything else I've ever seen. After we met, kissed for hours, she had a panic attack when I left 😔 It triggered a major abandonment wound and started the separation after the deepest, most open and intimate connection I had ever known. DNOT for months and I stopped chasing. Throughout I have tried to maintain the good and let go of the bad but it's easier said than done. It only takes memories to bring back the overwhelming love for her and myself, the intuitive state, but looking at how she treats me now has the opposite effect. I get torn between it all being lie and meaning nothing to her, or her staying distant thinking she's sparing me. Communication is limited but she replies. It's typically warm, loving and then after that's acknowledged she distances but I don't pursue anymore. If it helps anyone then ❤ I've been through a lot of hard times in life: losing my dad as a teenager, a long term relationship with a narcissist that ended brutally, but nothing has compared to her absence. You spend your whole life looking for connection, find it in a way that's clearly mutual and it's over too soon. It's the emptiness afterward that's hard to deal with because nothing else compares. Self-love is the only answer hence my insistence on keeping the good. I fell in love with myself the same time I did her because it brought out the best in me.
Yeah, we alternate reaching out once every 2-3 months at this point. She says she want to be friends but it never works that way which is why it leaves me feeling torn. The chemistry too much and it turns to heavy flirting or overly affectionate before she realizes what she's doing and then distances. I don't know that all runners have avoidant attachment styles but mine openly does and is trying to change it / self-love. Initially, during the "bubble love" she was open about how she felt and her fears, suggesting I was the only one that really saw her. Anymore, she just wants to know that I'm okay and tells me little. I'll see her typing a small novel, acknowledge it, and her as well before she deletes it. We always have long intellectual/ spiritual conversations before feelings become a problem 😄 The timing of it all was horrendous from her point of view. She's in the process of a divorce and had been separated for 6 months when we met. It was acknowledged she wasn't supposed to fall in love that soon. I never questioned whether it was mutual when she said things like "right person, wrong time", "the one", and described kissing me as some otherworldly stand alone experience only comparable to her first kiss and discovering love. We often spoke 5-6 hours straight both in some altered consciousness with bliss and euphoria like MDMA. When she finally confronted her feelings after 5 hours of making out on the first date, it scared her in a way that I could never resolve. Too much of her past wounds surfaced and she tied me to them.
@@sibel8290 There's one last thing I'll add to the "signs" and I apologize for the length. The narc mentioned, my ex, I was with for 5 years and she was also 12 years older. The chemistry and pull was over the top but I knew she was a soul mate from the start. I didn't go down the twin flame / false twin flame path with it til I could not detach from trauma bonds. Because of the experience, I had no issues with the age gap regarding my tf. She asked me after we met if I noticed and she said she didn't either 😄 It was an afterthought but there is less of a gap between me and her oldest son than her. The synchronistic part I intentionally waited to ask in person because of all the others. Her birthday is a day after my "false twin's". No years, just one day apart. I also pulled her ex's name out of thin air when it was relevant to the conversation. I still miss knowing things for no apparent reason 🤣
Time doesn’t exist when I’m with him. He is younger then me. I’m finally ok with the way things are even though we don’t talk often. Focusing on myself and not going to let him trigger me anymore
@@nyxnightlinger7719 divide the male age with 2 and add 7 years to the result. the end result is the minimum ideal female age for that specific guy. anything above that is ok too. the older the male the better (as long as he is intact down there of course). social norms know the best.
@@nyxnightlinger7719 nothing crazy about that. when guys hit their midlife crisis they're prone to prove their sexual power and start chatting up young girls. that bears the risk of the poor wife being set a pair of antlers on ber head. the older the guy, the better. my motto. 👌
@@nyxnightlinger7719 in any case. woman being even a couple of years older than the male is heavily frowned upon. i personally wouldn't want to be the target of society. plus, being much younger makes me feel like a chick while being older would hurt my ego, making me feel like a senior citizen
My twin flame is a DM and he is 17 years older than me. He challenged my beliefs, cracked my heart open and pulled me through a massive awakening. I think the age gap challenged him to let go of his ego and find his voice in life. We are energetically connected but still physically separate.
Don't judge but I was chased by my so called twin flame who is 22 years younger than me. I'm 43 and she's 23. Yes, ran like hell. I asked myself why this young beautiful woman is after me lol. I've experienced all the tf journey and finally surrendered lol.
@@neosayiengood for you...I can relate of what you felt. My TW (male 14 years older than me) can't believe I want him. He asked me several times when we are still in communication. He ran last June, I don't know what's wrong but it happened suddenly. He cares for me, maybe that was why he ran because he got scared 😔. We meet in an online dating site (from another country). This was the second time that he did that. Anyway, hope we can be together someday soon 🙏. God bless...
He's 9 years younger. Put me through a dark night of the soul. Made me value myself, find self-love, self-worth. The age gap bothered me before. I was picking myself apart. Feeling too old..too this, too that...frustrated with any wrinkles or any signs of aging. Now I couldn't care less. I'm happy in my own skin. I'm a beautiful soul. He even wrote to me when we were still communicating that anyone that had me in their lives were lucky. 💖🙏🏻
No more communication between you two? Same here, 9 years older, been together for 10 years, never argued, never fight each other, we were just the same in many ways: thinking, like same things, same places, same... same and last year we broke. Out of nowhere. We were like children together and laugh all the time. Now we don't talk anymore, he blocked me and I don't know anything about him anymore. Sometime I want to go to see him, but I know he will be cold and will reject me so I don't. I always felt he is the other me, just didn't know about Twin Flames then.
@@cranta1 it's simple but painful. They met someone else that suits them better & raises their matrix image.The DM don't care to be alone especially if they are younger & attractive. Also they are very charged sexually. Just my opinion.
My twin is a male, I'm a female 21 years older than him. I'm just learning to detach and live my life without the crazy overthinking about him. Wow-what a rollercoaster! ok breathe such a relief when u can finally let go . I see the world with new eyes, and I can now appreciate all the pain I've gone thru. Namaste and Blessed Be Peace and much Love from me , I wish u all the best on your journey.
My twin flame is older than I am... but he isn’t awakened..! He awakened me when we meet and I felt crazy, after months of not knowing what was wrong with me, things and information about twin flames came up on my IG newsfeed never heard of this before. Kept looking into it. All the things you have said it your videos make sooo much sense ✨✨ thank you
Wow I’m 45 and he’s 33. In the beginning I was struggling w accepting my age and afraid of getting older. He straight up looked me in the eyes one day, after I broached the subject of “our relationship” and said, it’s your age. Everything else is perfect, but I need to be w someone closer to my age. I felt like he had stabbed me in the heart. This led to another separation and ultimately to me experiencing my dnots. I believe he taught me self love and age acceptance. 😳🙏🏻✨
He’s 6 years younger. And it was necessary because if I was his age we wouldn’t have the connection we have now. And I NEVER considered dating a younger guy on a serious note before him. Lol
@@whitneygallon7047 yes I would consider the whole relationship this far the separation phase because it’s a constant state of him fighting himself from coming towards me. So he runs a lot and karma bites him hard in the butt every time
Mine too, i was watching the comments and everybody was 12 years, 16 years and i was like, there is nobody of 6 at least? And Boom! Your comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i was always having this believe of "dating someone younger ñeñeñe" and when i knew him i run after a few weeks because of that🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣but now i understand and we are having this pull and push time but im trying not to chase and align😤😤🤧 happy to see people in the same sircunstances as me (i mean in age difference) is the call of the soul so we might answer🤣🤣🤣💖💕
19 year difference and of course it’s a trigger for both our egos. Thank you Kurt for speaking about the age difference that can be within the TF spiritual journey💫👁🙏
The age gap is so weird. I’m almost 48 and my DM recently turned 29. It IS a trigger that he’s so much younger! I’ve had to do a lot of internal work bc of it. I agree with what another person said - the age gap is there to change the way unconditional love is viewed by society AND to help us heal those triggers.
Maybe the reason it's older female with a 10+yrs younger "hot" male is because from an ego perspective....it's not as acceptable. Because society always says it's only because the woman is in her prime & the guy will leave her after a few years. If it's meant to anchor in & prove that unconditional love exists...well, it's kinda a perfect way to do that.
unconditional love does not exist. there are couples who work out well even with a 30 years older female but these are exceptions to the rule. the younger guy has a fetish of a sort perhaps. but older women are heavily frowned upon and roasted by the society because of the ways nature works. society is the collective conscious and unconscious, meaning it is "common sense". and common sense is always right. not almost, but "always" right.
@@jmsessn , unconditional Love does exist!! And after more than 2 years I finally came to it first time in my life. My TF is 26 younger than me . I am a runner. I hope we never be together. But God! How much I love him! All my admirers much younger ( 26, 32 and another 32, 34, 40 ) BTW, my girlfriend is 44 older than her TF, now official husband! Never have seen such a big unconditional love and happy couple!
@@ЦирцеяСибирская who is who in your story? i didn't understand jacksh. who is the girlfriend, are you m or f? wth did you just talk about? your relations seem to be much more complex than the netflix series dark. i'm lost here
I am a twin flame (feminine Energy) and my twin flame and I are same AGE, same YEAR same MONTH. - Me (Nov 22 1971), my Twin is (Nov 8 1971) we both carry the 11:11 - the number for November is 11 and the year has 11. - I carry the master numbers 1122, Love and light for all.
I’m almost 10 years older - how amazing it’s over 90% of us. I’ve heard of twin flames for a few years now- but just realized a few days ago that i cant even begin to deny that this is what is happening. Thank you for your videos 🙏🏻❤️
He is 32 and I am 63. It’s definitely blowing his conditioning through the roof and I am being awesomely shaken to my core and realigned all chakras opening and esp gifts madly climbing etc .. by the intensity of the emotional intellectual sexual passion that drew us together. He is in full running for three months after a break down when our 6th meeting didn’t take place. I do chase in the most controlled way I could devise and working ok myself enormously as I have learnt all the arsenal of practices already and can barely keep up with the speed and depth of the ascension process. Help! ❤️🔥❤️🔥
I think the DF incarnates first and when she starts to wake up the DM incarnates. I’m 13 years older and remember having a profound experience when I was 13 that I was aware I was able to manifest things through thought alone.
Wow exactly the same for me. 13 years older than my DM and yes at the age of 13 i started searching for “God”. I also dreamt of Jesus around this time. I’m not a religious person, but I’ve always felt pulled to Jesus. And something that came to my attention, back when Jesus walked the earth he had a friend Simon, and later simon became known as Peter. My DM is called Simon and my name is Peta. May mean nothing but it intrigued me.
Female 19 years younger than my male twin. We’re ageless and timeless. Also, to comment on the age gap. For me, a big part of my awakening had to do with forgiving my father. He was absent from my life and an alcoholic. Ben showed up in my life at my age 56 and his age 75. He was nurturing, kind, intentional and extremely uplifting emotionally. He was also incredibly sexy and we had a fulfilling physical relationship. I’m sure there’s some sort of father/daughter psychological statement here!
Omg yes I’ve never been attracted to younger men . I am 17 yrs older ! But yet he looks old and I look younger ❤️ it doesn’t matter ! I do thank him for what he has triggered in me 💫❤️💫
I started my spiritual journey almost 3 years ago. I am a married woman with children. I am researching twin flames because I met someone that triggers me horribly. This guy opened up my heart chakra, made me realize alot of things about myself that I never knew and the attraction is there. He is in a relationship as well. I feel him all around me and see signs everywhere. There is an age gap: He is 30 and I am 38. In the past, I went for guys that I were at least 5 years younger/older. My husband is 3 years younger. Even though the guy is 30, he is an old soul. He says things that you don't hear anymore. It is so intriguing. In a way, I hope we get together in the next lifetime.
Hello, sorry to intrude, same happend to me, he's 17 years younger, met thru work, I'm married. , he at the time separated, it's been years and he's 5 min away, went back to his relationship and I worked on me and my marriage of 34 yrs. My question is if he ever know who you where? I've accepted it all and grateful for this heart braking, soul sucking life changing experience, nothing compares and I'm free❤
@thegoldenticket298 Unfortunately, the guy and I do not speak anymore. I live in another town and I stopped thinking about him. I am in the process of getting a divorce as well. I've been separated from my soon to be ex-husband for 10 months now. You are not intruding and thank you for the comment.
Agreed it's a major trigger for the woman to be older I think...my opinion...absolutely! It's a woman thing lol probably the hardest to accept for self worth/self esteem. "This is a test...this is only a test" lmao! 🤣😂🤣🤔😬
I never felt weird about being 4 years older. If you see you wouldn't even be able to tell whose older. People always think he's older. People think I'm 24 but I'm 33
I am a DF and my DM is 15 years older. I agree with a lot of the thoughts you have about why there is an age gap. It’s never bothered me, as I am so intensely attracted to him physically and mentally, but I know and feel the judgment from others. And I feel like that is part of “my” reason why my counterpart is so much older and is who he is. Because it is triggering. It’s controversial. But it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. My journey is my own 💜
I’m a woman, the positive polarity or the so called DF, and my twin is one year older than me. I’m no longer obsessed with my twin (the physical person) but this area of study really intrigues me. I think the best answer is that time is an illusion (read “brief history of time” by stephen hawking). Beyond the physical reality and the astral level, everything happens all at once. When you’re incarnated before/after your twin, the separation (gap) is just as much as an illusion as the time they’re incarnated. Same goes with when one of you dies first, it’s only the physical body and the mind that cease to exist, but the soul belongs to eternity.
As DF (chaser), I am 35 and my twin flame (DM) is 51, so it sounds like we're an exception like you said. I had no idea that the age gap was even a thing in TF relationships. I've been watching your videos for about a week, and it has become my exclusive go-to for all things TF because you are honest. I love how, no matter the video or topic, you always remind us of the spiritual ascension that is key, "This is about your spiritual ascension and you should treat it that way." And yes, no more watching tarot videos (though satisfying) to get to the real stuff like this 😉 I got Eckhart Tolle's book and all of it makes sense. As for your theory about the triggers during the soul's journey, I agree. I triggered DM's sense of self-worth after his divorce and he triggered a lot of my father wounds that I has suppressed for decades. I think the age gap (independent of who is older) is a factor with TFs because since this is about our spiritual ascension, this also means that we are dissolving limits and conventions imposed by society. Our souls are limitless after all. We are all connected and age shouldn't impede our spiritual awakening.
Im twelve years older, but the numbers were only in the head, as while being together never felt this age gap. I did cry in the beginning because of it, not any more. We are in the separation right now. Im totally trusting the divine is working behind the scenes for us to be together.
Yep, I’m the DF and I’m 15 years older. But we look similar in age. It’s definitely not the mother thing with us, because I’m more childlike personality-wise and he’s more serious.
Yep, he’s 12 years younger and not what I’d normally be attracted to 💕 and yet I’m so attracted to him! I started researching twin flames when I began getting signs and synchronicity around him. The relationship is different than anything I’ve ever experienced; I have a sense of knowing regarding us, so I have never cried over him-he always comes back to me after we “break up”. I had my dark night of the soul around the same time that we met and he did, as well. I haven’t told him any of this, it sounds pretty crazy if you’re not enlightened! 🔥🔥
Thank you for addressing this, Kurt! It is a relief to “the mind” to grasp this is a real experience that is not exclusive to me, since it makes you feel crazy for a while and everyone else thinks you’ve lost your mind or are having a mid-life crisis. Met my twin flame at age 45, he was 20 😳
He is 16 years younger than me, and I think that is the only reason to make him run, in our culture it is not acceptable to date a woman much older than you, although when we are together no one can notice this difference in age I look younger than my age and he looks older than his age، Thank you Kurt 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💞💕💞💕
He was 20 years older than me & I didn't even care!!! I was 27 & he was 47. He died 2 years after we split. 😪😪😪 He died in 2000. He wasn't the "type" I'd normally go for but wow! He brought about my awakening and still does, even now. Losing him devastated me. The 1st time he looked at me, I knew my life would never be the same. It was instant. We had a lot of fun & I wouldn't be who I am today without him💞💚💕
Him being older is one of my triggers based on early life experiences. He has helped me that way when I felt with what he was triggering in me. To heal the past. Huge in my awakening
I never thought I would be brave enough to share this story, but I loved this channel because the information is so reliable and resonates with what I needed to know during the dark night of my soul. A couple of years ago, I wasn't a big fan of the topic of twin flames, but I always saw myself finding my twin flame as a woman. I read some information about the topic before travelling abroad to study because intuitively I always knew I would meet my twin flame on this journey. However, when I met my twin flame, the hardest thing to accept was the fact that he was a man. This triggered me in such a way that I was blown away, at first I thought I was losing my mind! I questioned myself by thinking that I might be mentally ill. I started crying, sometimes feeling happy and always thinking about my TF. We are the same age, 39, and I am just three months older. We are in contact, but my TF doesn't want to meet in person once more. Thanks for all your comments and for reading this, I appreciate it.
I think that from a woman's perspective the age gap triggers a lot of insecurity linked to appearence, maternity and so on. And, of course, in some case unfair social conditions according to which usually the female partner is younger than the male one. This has to do with ego's death. It seems to be the most difficult thing to "digest" - for me. And I am sure it's the same for the other counterpart. He cannot see a future with me. And I know that is for this reason. 10 years apart.
I'm 37 and my Twin is 56 and we have such a deep connection, as you (we) say, a deep soul connection... He feels we knew each other in a past/different life... It is an amazing feeling how our energy connects when we are with each other; undescribable ♥️
This is an eye-opener and it's comforting to know I'm not the only one this has happened to. My twin flame is 9 years younger, but I have always thought of him as my age or older because of his level of maturity. I had never heard of Twin Flames until I found your channel and everything finally made sense. Thank you for validating my experiences and reassuring me that I am not going insane. I only hope I can figure this out. I fully expected him to propose but, he seems to be more distant lately, possibly thinking of running for the second time.
I'm 42 male DF and my twin is 27 female DM. I think it's partially the intense physical attraction and also combining energies from two different generations more or less. Also social norms don't always approve making the relationship harder to come together making one twin usually have to let go of what others think of them and follow they're heart.
Update:😁 shortly after posting this comment, my twin showed back up in my life after not communicating for over 2years. We have been together ever since!
20 years deference, meet him 20 years ago, meet him again 20 years later, we connected, had an incredible, unbelievable relationship, 8 weeks later he ran .I chased, have been for 2 years, it's painful, he comes back then disappears. Kurt your videos are really helping.me alot, you describe it so well damn correct, thank you x
I am a student of Kurt and my TF and I are both in male bodies. He is 41 years younger than me. Go figure. I remember looking at him one day and I saw me looking back at me. I laughed about the event at the time but shortly there after everything changed. I remember telling him I was going to use him as a catalyst for change. He quickly asked me what I meant by that and I told him I wasn't sure. I told him he had the most beautiful light shining within him of anyone I had met in decades and now I understand why. I told him I wanted to be his friend, the best friend he ever had, but he told me no. He said I'm too old and we wouldn't have anything in common. I also remember telling him that if I had had a son I really wish it could have been him. But I haven't heard from him in two years.
41? My man, you take the gold on this one. I just scanned through all the comments (nearly 600 at the time of this writing) and you are unbeaten (though there is a close second at 40, and a very few more in the 30s).
Yes ego death started few years back. Then it seemed like a bit of libido wake up/lust but when we do connected-in a vivid dream that was bat-s… crazy. He’s 8 years younger which is flattering for 45 yo woman. Thought it was a bit of fun/ hunk watching if you get my drift until he messaged me from the other side of continent and we had crazy in-depth conversations. I don’t know why the age gap though I was never mature enough for my age before and needed a trigger to heal some deep inherited and childhood traumas. Luckily being a serious student of yoga philosophy the DNOTS is manageable. The key seems to be immense self/love and attitude of gratitude. Thank you for putting things bluntly Curt
Kurt, have you read any of Brian Weiss, M.D.'s books? I believe possible explanations for TF age gap phenomena is described in the books Many Lives, Many Masters and Only Love Is Real. OLIR even has a passage describing the occurrence of a single soul inhabiting two human bodies simultaneously. Very interesting stuff.
Thank you so much for this. And thank you to others who have posted. I feel like I could write a book about my journey. Coming to terms with the powerful emotions of this relationship has been a journey in itself. The 'well over 20 year' age gap defiantly leaves us questioning how this even works. But it is persistent. We met four years ago at a party and felt we'd known each other forever. He is a deep thinking old soul and I am a forever young spirit. Personality wise I sometimes feel he is the older one. Have 'gone separate ways' possibly 8 times. Always him leaving but always him coming back. Gaps in between from 6 months to 2 weeks. Sometimes this has been crushing, and sometimes I knew I'd see him again and just got on with life. I've likened our relationship over the years as someone holding a mirror up in front of me and I don't always like what I see. And visa versa. Right now we are trying to embrace a 'buddhist style' non-attachment relationship. It's a lesson we are still learning. We are not the same people we were when we met in a progressively good way. We've both healed a lot of wounds but there is still work going on. We were both ruled by ego and conditioning when we met but now have both taken spiritual healing paths. But we still have things that need a lot of work. And these videos are such a help to me. Thank you ❤️ No matter what happens with us, I am eternally grateful he came into my life and turned it upside down. And I know we will always be in each other's life in some form.
I am 11 years older than my DM and I would consider myself the runner. I hate it, too (running, that is) but I'm working it out. He was awakened when we crossed paths and 11 months later I was awakened ❤
OMG.... thankyou so much for this video , My TF is 8yrs younger to me & initially he was the chaser for almost 3yrs , It took me time to truly trust n understand that such a young & fit man is genuinely in love with me. He's a DM in truest sense ❤ !!... There's such a strong connection between us I'm my truest sense with him & though he's younger to me he's got maturity and stability & I got free spirit ...we r opposite in nature & likes but at the soul level we feel same❤ He's the one who has tested my patience to the max & slowly I'm learning not be anxious, now I know on deeper level that we belong together so I'm not anxious anymore, I'm more relaxed n happy n confident about us & the distance between us (he's in different city & we don't get to meet too)
This was one of the main tf traits that stood out. I am 15 years older & I didn't want him to know (or anyone else for that matter) exactly how old I was until last September! Eight and a half years into our journey. I avoided my birthday because I didn't want him to ask me how old I was. He knew I was older, but not a big gap. At this point it didn't matter to me letting him know & he was surprised-in a good way. :)
I am the DF (chaser) and my DM (runner) is 22 years my senior. My consciousness has awakened so much in the time I have known him. He has cut relations with me twice so far over a 5 year period. This last ghosting forced me to deal with abandonment issues from my childhood which is priceless growth. I know he has commitment issues and HIGHLY attached to his ego, therefore time will tell if he chooses to grow or stay asleep in his meat suit. I obviously adore and love him beyond all but thank God for finding this channel. This is so much more tolerable knowing I'm not crazy or alone in this quest TF journey. No matter what, I know everything is what it is and absolutely everything is going to be okay. I just never thought I'd ever feel like someone completely has my heart but he does, and that just feels, sooooooo good. Im content with that, with or without him.
Yes as someone who was scared of getting older, and never wanted to think about it, I met someone 12 years younger than me. We were so in love. The first month, we didn't even care about the age. Then as I started to worry about the longevity of the relationship due to the age, he did too and ran off. It was the first time I had to overcome or think about my age. A year later, I'm still working on it. And yes he is gorgeous.
I think your theory is correct...Often the female, being older, develops the self more than the male does, who may put his effort more into business or hobbies. In my case, I'm 16 yr. older and crossed an ocean to be w my Twin Flame, before I even understood what a Twin Flame is. He not only is much younger but his culture was stifled by Communist rule, whereas, I'm a former refugee and educated in the US, which, nonetheless, was a heck of a lot better place to be than my former homeland...where I have returned. Thank you. And...and...and, I just noticed that I listened to your session a year ago and commented. Talk about being on the right road, again.
Kurt can you do a video about what the first 6 months are like during reunion from your experience and the common things you see from your students? There is so much info out there about meeting your twin flame, the love bubble phase, then the separation running and chasing. Hardly anyone talks about whats its like when the DM starts talking to you again. You are a trust worthy source.
I believe the age gap is present along with other "gaps " to balance out current societal norms and stigmas. We are all one collective soul and to break down those barriers is one of the things that we need to work through.
I was exactly twice his age when I met him (24/48). I've always considered youth to be the standard of beauty and had a midlife crisis in my mid thirties because I didn't want to get old, so yes, big triggers for me. It's funny how you begin this journey worrying about your looks, even when they tell you and act like you're not too old, but after reaching inner union, the clinging energy finally drops off, you meet God through self realization and the twin stops meaning as much. Loving him has always been the easiest thing to do but I'm no longer obsessed, he's inside me but also a free person and I actually prefer him not to come back at this time because I'm dedicated to my growth and supporting others waking up, the same ones who supported my awakening.
i also had this ,,im getting old" triggered in me although he at first accepted it very fast and when i was like ,,damn i wish i could be this sweet 16 again" he'd message me ,,you're my sweet 26 :) ". were in separation now. so much pain. i loved the love he was giving me.
@@chickenontheocean What do we do when we feel pain? We pull back from it. The soul wants you to pull back from him and find what you are missing, inside yourself. I promise you with all my heart, sweet love, that the pain will leave you just as soon as you are ready for self realization, or inner union as others call it. You will never stop loving them, but its a love that just exists, it can ONLY be free.
@@Bellazme I used to be able to tell when I was in my masculine, the energy is different. It was all about doing and if the doing didn't go to plan there was a plan to botch up the original plan. I could laugh at my failings. Emotional levels were greatly reduced. Life wasn't serious all the time. I could communicate with my masculine, for example one time running, I developed a strain on my left side and noticed that my feminine was doing all the work, so I asked my masculine to step up and it did, and finished the run. After self-realization, it took about a week for the clinging energy to properly fizzle out. There was a couple of places I was still holding on to the physical that needed to be released. The ego is incredibly sneaky. Now I am totally at one. I don't feel my twin anymore. Not one bit, because his energy is no longer on the outside. If I go internal, he is there fully embodied but it's also stopped being about two people. He is me, I see me, I feel me, I want to be with me because its me, not him. That's why I don't need him, he cannot give me what I already am. It's a process of merging until there is nothing left to merge. Hope this helps. I visit these places to help the feminine.
@@Bellazme I have a soulmate in my situation, a divine masculine who is not my divine masculine but we have been together 30+yrs and I told him from the beginning that I was looking for a second person and would never have met my twin, if it wasn't for my soulmate. Of course we didn't know about twinflames back then. I thought my divine quest was original, lol the shock to discover there's a label and forums and whole communities. My soulmate became my healer when I was waking up and cleared out every chakra, and gave me shaktipat when he unblocked my kundalini. My consciousness was teleported through my third eye and I exited the body to wake up from the dream. This is what I knew, as I landed in a void space where I saw my body being worked on by my soulmate who turned into a golden elephant man. Later, I came to understand what I saw was Lord Ganesha and my soulmate had given me shaktipat, which is when a guru merges with the divine energy and releases kundalini with his touch. Crazy stuff, I know, but it was more real to me than life itself. The place I went to, was far more real than the life we are living every day haha. I still don't know why I was blessed this way, I talk with my kundalini on a daily basis, it never leaves me, and the most important thing I've learnt on this journey is that the path is absolutely ours alone. It's entirely personal, truly unique and utterly magical, just don't expect others to understand or believe you. xx
By the way Kurt. You are an absolute legend. Your channel is perfect. You have honestly helped me so so much. This guy is the real deal. So much gratitude to you. Love your work so much. Thank you
I’m so happy you brought up the issue of abuse and twin flames Kurt! I was in a seriously sick trauma bond and thought he was my twin flame because the feelings were so intense. Still recovering after years of this.... and curiously, my mom is over ten years older than my dad! I saw the runner chaser thing all through growing up and wonder about the toxicity of their bond. Thanks for raising such an important topic! Seriously contemplating taking your program.... these dynamics can be mistaken for other things on the quest to a healthy relationship to myself and others. To top it off, I have a man who’s 20 years younger who’s been pursuing me for a year! I don’t feel the sexual chemistry, though there is some kind of chemistry. It’s definitely triggering for me the “idea” of being with someone that much younger. He’s the one who initiated a talk on “twin flames” with me (even though I was already aware of it). I don’t know, but you’re definitely on to something there Kurt!
He is 16 years younger than me.. we met while I was on vacation.. I am divorced and he was married.. we talked for hours and hours one night.. I left the next day.. we kept the conversation going for around 4 weeks then he blocked me.. I was devastated.. I thought I was going to die.. I came to peace with it months and months later.. I was just unblocked .. 3 years later. He is divorced now.. things are super slow going but I am just happy he is in my life again... we have a big age gap and distance .. we don’t live in the same state.. not far about 3 hours away 🤷🏻♀️ yes I a super Attracted to him.. 😊
There is no age difference between me and my otherself. But I am a single mother with a child and he is a single who never had any obligations. When we met, he didn't know I had a son. I remember he said he never wanted a woman with a baby again. It is possible that the differences are there to trigger this ego-death. You may be right. I wanted to write to you that I am grateful for the videos you share. Thanks to them, today I am in a completely different place on this journey. Obviously my Twin showed up after a year of absence as if nothing had happened. It happened when I started to treat this journey as working on my soul. Thank you so much for everything, you are amazing !!! :)))
My twin flame has just passed away Oct 25 suddenly and unexpectedly. (Liver issues) he was 51 I am 34. We were together only 3 years but the most profound beyond amazing wonderful 3 years of both of our lives. It felt like we knew each other a lifetime such a familiar feeling like we had been in love for an eternity… strange but beautiful. I’m extremely devastated that he’s gone and by gone I mean in the physical sense…I understand that the only difference is that I am embodied and he is not any longer. None the less it’s still a complete nightmare the person I waited for which seemed an eternity is just gone and I’m angry, sad and grateful and thankful all at the same time… it’s put me on this pathway of spirituality because he was truly my biggest fan no matter how big of a spoiled brat or an a-hole I was (sometimes) he still saw the best in me always and loved me unconditionally no matter what the circumstances were… I have no interest in ever being married or in a relationship again. I met my person I still am madly in love with him, and losing him has to be for a bigger purpose and reason that is beyond me because I can’t find a reason. I wish you all knew him, such an amazing guy, loved everyone and everyone loved him his nickname was “Hollywood” because people would always surround him to speak to him or get his attention.. he just looked like a celebrity always cared about his appearance but the most humble person I’ve ever met in my life , he wanted nothing more then to just LIVE!! He completed me, I felt whole, as did he. It was so amazing to finally have that feeling of being loved unconditionally and to love him back unconditionally at the same time. I never thought it would be possible for us to be apart. All he wanted was life and then he just left… I feel lost and incomplete again without him and I just can’t believe this is my life. any advice would be appreciated greatly by the twin flame doctor and his students (lol) as I am just trying to get by second by second and minute by minute at the moment. His birthday is in 5 days the 15th, plus the holidays. I have no idea how I will get through this. Anyway. Thank you for letting me borrow the comment section to vent.❤blessings to you all
I have ALL the exceptions in my twin flame dynamic. I am the twin flame “chaser” I am 37. My twin flame “runner” is also female and she is 60! The physical and sexual attraction is definitely there even though we identify as heterosexual 💜💋 but the love is so unconditional even though we are apart 4yrs this spring.
I am so glad to know I am not the only one in a female - female twin flame situation. I will be 59 and she will be 25 and is from a different culture. I am married to a man and she is not married.
I think you are right but i also think that the DF is more mature and have come further in her ascension before she meet the DM, so she eventually can help the DM raise higher💕
We’re both female, I’m 5 years older. I think part of the reason for large age gaps is to break us out of societal norms and realize none of that matters. Different religions, cultures, being halfway across the world, gender, and age, all of those can be factors that completely tear apart our ego’s ideas of normal or acceptable lol. I guess for me we had enough issues without a huge age gap hahaha but literally everything else 🤷🏻♀️
We are both female as well. I am 34 years older and married and our birthdays are 11 days apart. I I will 59 this year and she will be 25 and we click together so well.
I’m 24 years older than my DM (22/46) and it’s definitely kicked my soul ascension into high gear. So even though it’s been a challenging 1.75 year journey so far of the highest highs and lowest lows, it’s been worth it and I appreciate the gift that has been given to me / us. And we have many more “obstacles” than just huge age gap, so I’m focusing on me, family, travel. I’m thankful to be in surrender now and able to release everything I needed to.
Valuable message here. I don't know about age gap...as I met him only once! My heart & soul was in pain and he didn't want to connect on any level with me. I got rejected. But in me all process as Ego death and dark night was on...is mostly balanced and harmonized now. Now let's see what life will unfold or where Soul will take me.
Same here. I've met mine twice but the last time triggers an awakening 100% sure. After that we never really talked. I'm just so good at stalking before so I found his birthday.
I'm 8 years older. I remember having a recurring dream when I was 8 years old about these two cherubic toddles, male and female. They used to play and tumble and giggle but no one else could see them. It was only recently that I realised these dreams would have started when my twin was born.
I’m a lady and I’m older than my twin male as well. Kurt, I did not think you guys had an age gap.. You both look about the same age. I’m surprised at your age gap.. lol. I’m happy you’re talking about this because I was beginning to think that perhaps our age gap is an issue. I’m realizing that it’s not.Thank you so much.
Wow, we're in separation. We met last year I was 64 and he's 39. I think we are energy levels not number labels. Think the age is a gap, that pulls you back together undeniably. Experience a mystery, I forgot about age until we were apart. Never interested in younger men.
That was comforting, confirming, and so clearly communicated! Great coaching!! Thank you kindly. I am a 60 year Aries woman. I believe I met my TF. He is a 69 year Capricorn man. I did not even know anything about TF, never heard of it. My experience was like no other in many ways. This journey has brought me so much. We are not together. That is ok I am grateful for the experience. Love is within us individually and shared. Blessings and Gratitude
I’m 10 yrs older than my TF . And we’re both not each other’s types but he was the most attractive person I’ve ever saw. And I never would go for a younger man, especially that much of a gap. But after the few weeks of the loving phase and we broke it off and I was wondering why I became so obsessed with this younger guy that I barely knew. Then I randomly came across twin flames and nothing has been the same. And I’m so glad I’ve found this channel. Everything is making sense now and now I don’t feel like I’m losing my mind.
This happens to be my experience with my twin. I even told him, ie me, that I was to old for him. It really triggered me that I was so-attacked to him when he was so much younger. There were other aspects as well and they all caused me to scream out WHY! Lol it was a significant part of my dark night of the soul. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
So, yes, I can confirm your theory. My DM is 16 years younger then me. His charisma and sexiness is definitely a trigger for me. But we also have some intense spiritual conversations. Just now going through dark night episode with him and somehow found courage to tell him I need some space. Then I found your videos. I’m signing up for the course. I know that releasing the ego and getting into that zen state is the answer. I see your course as facilitating the next step in my soul’s journey. So grateful that I found your video! And I’m still on my DM’s RUclips account so I’m grateful for him, too. Not just for that reason, but I’m feeling the synchronicities...
I am just over 9.5 years older than him. I was going through very similar circumstances at his age that he is currently going through now so I can resonate with his struggles. The moment I saw him I was floored, he was perfect and I know he remembers the moment he saw me too. The connection, the sex, when it’s on point it’s all exceptionally amazing. The push-pull and the separation at times, isn’t. I don’t feel a gap at all, I just know he’s my person. We were both born on the 26th of our birth months. I’ve tried not to label it this. But it’s becoming clearer to me that it is. I went through massive transformation in the year and a half leading up to meeting him, a week before we finally went on a date I closed out a massive karmic cycle in my life with a previous soulmate. It was like the universe delivered him right to me after it was done.
I never heard of a twin flame until today. I watched your pinned video about the dark night of the soul and well yeah, hard relate. I'm almost 43 he just turned 28. We dated casually for 6 weeks just over 2 years ago. I ended it as he stood me up one night and after I sent the message I felt an immediate mutual devastation. He never replied but his friends posted on his social media asking why he wouldn't answer their calls for several weeks. He came back into my life a few months later and disappeared again so I removed him from social media. He has reappeared over the past 2 weeks and has been very clear about wanting to see me and his strong attraction. I have been hesitant after all the hurt and I think he has pulled away again. It's only been 24 hours since he pulled away but I can feel the moment he does and have been right each time that he won't be replying again. I have spent 2 years trying to understand what is wrong with me, is he a narcissist, am I delusional about this powerful connection. I'm a sensible woman who doesn't lose her head like this. I have always been the one to end things officially by removing him from social media etc and he is always the one to reach out but I still feel like the chaser anyway. I want to learn satori but don't know where to start.
Geez...quit removing him from social media... Social media is a pit so it can be used to turn the screws ....if you keep doing that to people it may not be a good place for you.
@@vsee2207 I don't want to see what he is doing. I know what I'm like, I will look. So the last update is that we stayed connected and spoke several times a day for 7 months. Then he started seeming flakey and I again told him we have to leave it. You don't understand how devastating it is for me when i feel him pull away. I have to run because I can't even imagine how I would feel if he shut me out completely and I don't want to wait around for him to do that.
and when i say we spoke several times a day, i mean all day everyday for 7 months. We just can't stop talking once we start. A month later he has got a new gf who is 25. I'm dying haha.
Wow awesome!~~~ I resonated with 'the gap was to break down another societal barrier that blocks unconditional love in our interpersonal relationships.' Like everyone says to me if I was the man and he was the woman our very big age gap wouldn't matter nearly as much.to them. Also that it is another layer in Soul's plan, beyond the ascension process , to help move the process along through the relationships of the awakened. Multipurpose in so many ways. I ran over and over and over because of it, but now I stand tall and proud with as much courage as I can muster to show the world who we really are in the truest sense of the word. The speed with which TFs evolve spiritually is shocking and I think really grabs attention so I think the Soul's strategy is brilliant. Its ust that the DF and DM both have to have balls to carry it off. I'm finding the fun and joy we have during our disagreements has to be inspiriting to others.
He is 12 years younger and our reunion got me out of my bad marriage with a narc who destroyed our oldest son emotionally. My TF is in a bad marriage as well but he did not leave. We have been connecting and disconnecting since 2007. But all of this got me to heal myself and my son. It definitely awoke me in a much deeper level. Although I look younger than he look he does have an age discrimination. That I have more energy and live a healthier lifestyle, he has an age discrimination deep down and bringing it up when mad. This though awoke me to move back home at the other end of country where my family is with their unconditional love. Although i love him tremendously, I cut ties completely. He is so different as well so much it is my family that wouldn't accept and so making it impossible. I will never love like this again. I'm done but sso blessed I experienced this.
I am a lady, 26 years older than he is..We are from different countries, we have different language and religion..and also gap in education level.. I can't forget him, I feel guilty and overwhelmed...always asking myself why it has happened to me.
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It’s kind of the same I would say, I am also researching why things like this happen. My TF is 3 years older than me and has a female body , like me. We have to deal with society. I wanted always kids, so like her. She always said, it’s a great expierience with a woman but she feels more attracted to men. After many years we finally got to a point, where it doesn‘t matter anymore, if I am a woman or men. But I’d say, this was the hardest trigger for me! Thanks Kurt. I‘ve observed my mind a year, so my tf unblocked me after 17 months . 🎉 this channel is truth. We don‘t have that many in Germany, who are explaining this phenomenon of twin flames this way.
So thank you 🙏🏽
I'm 5 years older than mine
But I'm not sure if she is a twin flame or a soul mate the intuition I have combined with this deep knowing makes me feel soulmate but some of the signs I've seen has me thinking TF and what is crazy is MY TF/ Soulmate ended up being my bosses daughter who has dual citizenship in America and Lebanon and was in Lebanon for 3 years before returning back home.
This is where it gets a lçil weird out of no where my intuition told me that she was coming soon and I needed to get ready and the first day she came back her and I was in the same room I had this overwhelming feeling that there was like a rope attached to my heart pulling me into hers something I've never felt before that goes way deeper than attraction She's been back for about 8 weeks and for 6 of those weeks I felt like I was going crazy out of my mind because the path forward just seems to be so illuminated that I know we're going to be together and I know that she's the one and I also know her and I made some kind of agreement before coming here and that she is apart of this next chapter in my life.
How I even came across twin flame was because I always see 11:11 but since she came back I always see 111 so I decided to look up 111 which led me to Twin flame number which led me to here and I'm so glad it did because the obsessive thoughts definitely felt like it was happening to me. We haven't talked about it yet but it's clear as day she feels it to. She has given me clear signs she feels it to but my intuition tells me it's not time yet to be patient
I am DF female and my DM is male, 3 year older than me. We are different culture too I am Indian and he is polish. We are in separation now. We met through work, I have never seen instant connection, push and pull like this ever. We are both married in our individual life with kids. I was not looking for this to happen, but now I am seeing why my current relationship is not good for my creative spiritual soul purpose after initiating my spiritual awakening journey which was ignited after soul recognition. I am currently in surrendering to the process and let universe make us meet at divine time. It’s crazy how we are so compatible and work amazing together, the one week we work together - we worked like power team bringing so much improvements In his business, I was his business advisor. And then after soul recognition , I was crazy chaser, he won’t reply to my text ! The waiting game felt so hard. He knows about the twin flame and I had to let him go and get into separation .
I (DF, woman) am 14 years older than mine (DM, man). Our social background is also different, he is very rich and I am penniless but very rich in love 🤣💘
My other half is 16 years younger than me. When we are together we’re like two free spirited and authentic children 😍
Didn't you comment somewhere else that he died?
It might be your soul mate?
Mine is also 16 years younger !
Well this is all the confirmation I need. I’ve wanted someone to address the age gap. My TF is 16 years younger.... we are wild for one another but he does take off once ina while.
Mine is 18 years younger but I agree with what you said it's like we balance each other out he gives me energy and I calm him down
I am 55 and he is 23 years younger. Thank you for this clip and all the comments for a long time I thought I was losing my mind. He has disappeared from my life not a Day goes by that he is not in my thoughts. I have learned to trust in Divine timing and to continue working on self. I hold hope there will be union in this lifetime 💜🙏
I am 55 and he is 29!!! Happy to read this here!!!!! 👍🏼
@@thespiritualadvocate 54 me, he 27
I got an envelope bigger gap, I am 52. It’s hard to forget the age gap for us, as most people see it as an instant block. I don’t think it ever should be, as long as both parties take it into account.
Here’s my crew… almost 49 and he’s 30.
When I saw this man for the first time, I told my son, “I know him. How do I know him?” After talking to him for a year, I wanted to email him an article and realized that I had never asked his email address. I tried to conjure up his address when I realized that we have the same initials (MF), and I laughed that he was also a member of the “M-Fers club”. When I saw him again, I asked his middle initial and again it matched. He is 27 years younger and should have been my son. And yes, he noticed the undeniable attraction between us and was VERY CONFUSED. This was a frustrating situation. I cannot be around him due to his confusion.
I think the universe it trying to get everyone to wake up and see that we are all souls (not body) so it will incarnate twins at all age gaps, same sex, and different religions. Love is love. It comes with no judgement.
yesss 🙌💯💯💯
Amen
I have a twin with 28 years age gap and we're both women !
The soul has nothing to do with religion, age, sexual preference. That's the mind.
Still fast asleep if they're attached to religion and identity
When I met him, I felt like I instantly belonged to him. Almost like he owned me. It was insane. I don't even like getting into relationships. I can't explain it
I felt the same for my TF too it's so confusing i never felt that way before
I literally said those exact words. Owned, belonging to them. Its different than romance
Ur story really reasonates with mine 💯like 100%
Ive felt this exact same way
Exactly and times i see nothing as an issue and then there are times where it freaks me out lol wtf
I'm 45 female and my TF is 33 male and we are in union, my understanding is that we are incarnated with this age gap to break all the stereotypes of conventional relationships to the world. That's why so many TFs are in union more than ever.
i am 26 and my twin is 17... its so hard not only because of EVERYTHING but the age difference PLUS him being basically a kid until he's like 21 at least... he doesnt understand much. although when he had ,,opened" stage he was messaging me things NO MAN ever did.. it was like God, Love was talking through him.
so you decided to strip him from his prospects of fathering a child, no? clap clap clap
@@jmsessn not everyone is a breeder.
@@Underyourbedeyes i actually had explained it elaborately above but although not violating, it was deleted in a jiffy. talk about freedom of speech. it is of course not all about breeding, breeding is just a facet of it. its about the female being the older and chaser, whilst according to the nature, it should be the other way around. men are hunters, they hate being chased. older women have lost sexual market value, are unattractive for a young guy, have no appeal. this appeal is the first step to mating and procreating. menopause is there for a reason. imagine if every old woman met their younger oh so called tf, the future of mankind would be jeopardized. yet another proof that tf is nothing but a buddhistic fairy tale
@@Underyourbedeyes Not everyone is into cougars, maybe?
I’m the DF at 45 and he is 26 and it’s the most powerful love I’ve ever experienced. We also always have so many synchronicities it was almost scary. However we argue in such toxic ways that get intense and lead to a temporary break up and over nothing. We are currently in separation but I hope not for long I miss him and can’t see myself loving anyone else.
My twin flame is half my age. We only met because we worked together. He asked me to hang out with him and we just clicked instantly! I fought my feelings because he was so much younger until we just couldn't anymore. He's perfectly perfect for me. We're so much in love it's nuts. We both had to go through all the bad with others to appreciate each other. We make each other want to be a better person and we lift each other up. He's the yang to my yin🥰
My twin flame and I are 10.5 years apart. My wife is younger and was the chaser. I was the runner, but I ran toward her instead of away. We've been in union for over 10 years and our daily love feels like the first day love.
I'm 10 years younger than him
I'm also 10 years younger than my twin flame!
I’m 10 years and about a week younger than mine as well. I wonder what the numerological patterns might mean with twin flame journeys? Of course that is the mind looking for information haha
Omg really.. i think i have a twin flame too and he is 10 years older than me sadly he's the runner.
13 year difference for me I'm the feminine and younger
He is 3 years younger then me. But he is extremely handsome for his age. He is very physically fit. I am going to be 66 in an hour. Happy Birthday to me! Thank you. 💜
Happy belated!
Yep. I'm the DF and 17 years older than my runner. He wasn't my "type" either, but boy did he turn my head when we met. He was so familiar..It was like something inside me said "oh, there you are."
Yes, it’s true my twin flame is 12 years younger than me. We fell madly in love and we are so happy! We have never ever been better it’s like a perfect match. Age doesn’t matter only the soul connection. 😀
How did you come to union ?
I think when there is that huge age gap it is the soul "enough" lesson. How am I enough for this accomplished older DF, how am I enough for this sexy younger DM? The soul(s) need to learn the lesson of being enough just as they are. 💜 I love your journey and explanation.
Shes 9 years younger then i am , and she told me often “youre so smart and wise , you have everything together why you want me i have nothing to offer im a mess” and i told her so many times your beatiful soul and heart are enough for me... and in my turn i had a small insecurity and thought what would you want of me im almost 40 but i think she just love my soul as much as i love hers , we in sep atm im sure when she finds the love for herself she finds the love for me again bc it might sound weird but i love myself for who ive become in the same way i love her for who she is.
Yes absolutely I agree I don't feel like I'm enough I am older and he says if I was younger we would be married that caused me to run for the hills I was the chaser, now just in contact again after 3 months. I initiated it let's see what happens next it's certainly a painful journey.
I am 68 and 18 years older than my twin. I think the purpose is that I am more patient, have more experience in life, so I am fit to teach him unconditional love. My soulcontract says that there is a pupil/teacher relation, admiration is the keyword, and also I am the High Priestess and he is my protector in previous lifes. As he is now, and he is slowly awakening in his own time, walking his own path. I am able to let his do this without expactations for myself. His love made me love myself so that I can follow my soulmission. For me, this is the truth.
i am 68 and 31 years older....thank you for sharing your story...this has been quite a surprise for me. I am grateful for all the tremendous growth it gives. It surely teaches detachment with unconditional love. What a blessing even as i am struggling with the latest sudden separation this week. All my best to you.
How did you find out your soul contract ?
Beautiful 🍃♥️🍃
Exact same age difference. He would be all for it. It is me who turns into a school girl and runs!
I'm the male (chaser), 12 years younger. My best guess for the age gap is to break societal norms. I'm barely older than her kids and also have socioeconomic factors to contend with, as well as an avoidant attachment style. Despite being an odd couple, it was the most childish, loving, and supportive relationship I've ever known. The absence of lust, massive heart opening, and connection to source / intuition were my major signs with her.
We trigger each other so much, unlike anything else I've ever seen. After we met, kissed for hours, she had a panic attack when I left 😔 It triggered a major abandonment wound and started the separation after the deepest, most open and intimate connection I had ever known.
DNOT for months and I stopped chasing. Throughout I have tried to maintain the good and let go of the bad but it's easier said than done. It only takes memories to bring back the overwhelming love for her and myself, the intuitive state, but looking at how she treats me now has the opposite effect. I get torn between it all being lie and meaning nothing to her, or her staying distant thinking she's sparing me. Communication is limited but she replies. It's typically warm, loving and then after that's acknowledged she distances but I don't pursue anymore.
If it helps anyone then ❤ I've been through a lot of hard times in life: losing my dad as a teenager, a long term relationship with a narcissist that ended brutally, but nothing has compared to her absence. You spend your whole life looking for connection, find it in a way that's clearly mutual and it's over too soon. It's the emptiness afterward that's hard to deal with because nothing else compares. Self-love is the only answer hence my insistence on keeping the good. I fell in love with myself the same time I did her because it brought out the best in me.
Amazing story ! Do you guys still keep in touch
Yeah, we alternate reaching out once every 2-3 months at this point. She says she want to be friends but it never works that way which is why it leaves me feeling torn. The chemistry too much and it turns to heavy flirting or overly affectionate before she realizes what she's doing and then distances. I don't know that all runners have avoidant attachment styles but mine openly does and is trying to change it / self-love.
Initially, during the "bubble love" she was open about how she felt and her fears, suggesting I was the only one that really saw her. Anymore, she just wants to know that I'm okay and tells me little. I'll see her typing a small novel, acknowledge it, and her as well before she deletes it. We always have long intellectual/ spiritual conversations before feelings become a problem 😄
The timing of it all was horrendous from her point of view. She's in the process of a divorce and had been separated for 6 months when we met. It was acknowledged she wasn't supposed to fall in love that soon. I never questioned whether it was mutual when she said things like "right person, wrong time", "the one", and described kissing me as some otherworldly stand alone experience only comparable to her first kiss and discovering love. We often spoke 5-6 hours straight both in some altered consciousness with bliss and euphoria like MDMA. When she finally confronted her feelings after 5 hours of making out on the first date, it scared her in a way that I could never resolve. Too much of her past wounds surfaced and she tied me to them.
@@sibel8290 There's one last thing I'll add to the "signs" and I apologize for the length. The narc mentioned, my ex, I was with for 5 years and she was also 12 years older. The chemistry and pull was over the top but I knew she was a soul mate from the start. I didn't go down the twin flame / false twin flame path with it til I could not detach from trauma bonds.
Because of the experience, I had no issues with the age gap regarding my tf. She asked me after we met if I noticed and she said she didn't either 😄 It was an afterthought but there is less of a gap between me and her oldest son than her.
The synchronistic part I intentionally waited to ask in person because of all the others. Her birthday is a day after my "false twin's". No years, just one day apart. I also pulled her ex's name out of thin air when it was relevant to the conversation. I still miss knowing things for no apparent reason 🤣
@@JoshWest06 Wow you seem to be a real twin!I hope everything will be better soon i will pray for you !
What a beautiful story, i pray for your Divine union Brother 🍃♥️🍃
Time doesn’t exist when I’m with him. He is younger then me. I’m finally ok with the way things are even though we don’t talk often. Focusing on myself and not going to let him trigger me anymore
My Twin is 22 years my senior. However, when we’re together we are like two kids.
Same. He is 21 years older
the ideal male/ female age ratio. you're lucky, best wishes 👍
@@nyxnightlinger7719 divide the male age with 2 and add 7 years to the result. the end result is the minimum ideal female age for that specific guy. anything above that is ok too. the older the male the better (as long as he is intact down there of course). social norms know the best.
@@nyxnightlinger7719 nothing crazy about that. when guys hit their midlife crisis they're prone to prove their sexual power and start chatting up young girls. that bears the risk of the poor wife being set a pair of antlers on ber head. the older the guy, the better. my motto. 👌
@@nyxnightlinger7719 in any case. woman being even a couple of years older than the male is heavily frowned upon. i personally wouldn't want to be the target of society. plus, being much younger makes me feel like a chick while being older would hurt my ego, making me feel like a senior citizen
My twin flame is a DM and he is 17 years older than me. He challenged my beliefs, cracked my heart open and pulled me through a massive awakening. I think the age gap challenged him to let go of his ego and find his voice in life. We are energetically connected but still physically separate.
Don't judge but I was chased by my so called twin flame who is 22 years younger than me. I'm 43 and she's 23. Yes, ran like hell. I asked myself why this young beautiful woman is after me lol. I've experienced all the tf journey and finally surrendered lol.
Um what is DM
@@neosayiengood for you...I can relate of what you felt. My TW (male 14 years older than me) can't believe I want him. He asked me several times when we are still in communication. He ran last June, I don't know what's wrong but it happened suddenly. He cares for me, maybe that was why he ran because he got scared 😔. We meet in an online dating site (from another country). This was the second time that he did that. Anyway, hope we can be together someday soon 🙏. God bless...
He's 9 years younger. Put me through a dark night of the soul. Made me value myself, find self-love, self-worth. The age gap bothered me before. I was picking myself apart. Feeling too old..too this, too that...frustrated with any wrinkles or any signs of aging. Now I couldn't care less. I'm happy in my own skin. I'm a beautiful soul. He even wrote to me when we were still communicating that anyone that had me in their lives were lucky. 💖🙏🏻
No more communication between you two? Same here, 9 years older, been together for 10 years, never argued, never fight each other, we were just the same in many ways: thinking, like same things, same places, same... same and last year we broke. Out of nowhere. We were like children together and laugh all the time. Now we don't talk anymore, he blocked me and I don't know anything about him anymore. Sometime I want to go to see him, but I know he will be cold and will reject me so I don't. I always felt he is the other me, just didn't know about Twin Flames then.
@@cranta1 it's simple but painful. They met someone else that suits them better & raises their matrix image.The DM don't care to be alone especially if they are younger & attractive. Also they are very charged sexually. Just my opinion.
@@cranta1 wtf!! That’s sad!!! Mines is 6 years younger than me 😳
@@QueenAmethyst55 I hope you’re not right, but that does sound like him. He’s a Sagittarius
My twin is a male, I'm a female 21 years older than him. I'm just learning to detach and live my life without the crazy overthinking about him. Wow-what a rollercoaster! ok breathe such a relief when u can finally let go . I see the world with new eyes, and I can now appreciate all the pain I've gone thru. Namaste and Blessed Be Peace and much Love from me , I wish u all the best on your journey.
My twin flame is older than I am... but he isn’t awakened..! He awakened me when we meet and I felt crazy, after months of not knowing what was wrong with me, things and information about twin flames came up on my IG newsfeed never heard of this before. Kept looking into it. All the things you have said it your videos make sooo much sense ✨✨ thank you
Like reading my own story 🙈 the info caught up to me afterwards too... my twin propelled my awakening like crazy🔥🔥🍀💕
Same story here!
Same here, he's 2 years older than me and I too got to know about twin flames through Instagram
My story lol
Except information started coming up on RUclips
Wow I’m 45 and he’s 33. In the beginning I was struggling w accepting my age and afraid of getting older. He straight up looked me in the eyes one day, after I broached the subject of “our relationship” and said, it’s your age. Everything else is perfect, but I need to be w someone closer to my age. I felt like he had stabbed me in the heart. This led to another separation and ultimately to me experiencing my dnots. I believe he taught me self love and age acceptance. 😳🙏🏻✨
He’s 6 years younger. And it was necessary because if I was his age we wouldn’t have the connection we have now. And I NEVER considered dating a younger guy on a serious note before him. Lol
Me too!!
Did you two bump heads a lot at first? Have you experienced the “separation” phase?
@@whitneygallon7047 yes I would consider the whole relationship this far the separation phase because it’s a constant state of him fighting himself from coming towards me. So he runs a lot and karma bites him hard in the butt every time
😂 Same Here LoL... He's 5 Years Younger Than Me & Definitely Universe Teaches Us Against Our Own Old Beleives😏🤪🤣
Mine too, i was watching the comments and everybody was 12 years, 16 years and i was like, there is nobody of 6 at least? And Boom! Your comment🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 i was always having this believe of "dating someone younger ñeñeñe" and when i knew him i run after a few weeks because of that🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣but now i understand and we are having this pull and push time but im trying not to chase and align😤😤🤧 happy to see people in the same sircunstances as me (i mean in age difference) is the call of the soul so we might answer🤣🤣🤣💖💕
19 year difference and of course it’s a trigger for both our egos. Thank you Kurt for speaking about the age difference that can be within the TF spiritual journey💫👁🙏
The best of your younger self and older self coming together as one could be a theory as well for the age gap
The age gap is so weird. I’m almost 48 and my DM recently turned 29. It IS a trigger that he’s so much younger! I’ve had to do a lot of internal work bc of it. I agree with what another person said - the age gap is there to change the way unconditional love is viewed by society AND to help us heal those triggers.
I too believe this scenario is just a test. Remember, time doesn’t really exist.
Maybe the reason it's older female with a 10+yrs younger "hot" male is because from an ego perspective....it's not as acceptable. Because society always says it's only because the woman is in her prime & the guy will leave her after a few years. If it's meant to anchor in & prove that unconditional love exists...well, it's kinda a perfect way to do that.
unconditional love does not exist. there are couples who work out well even with a 30 years older female but these are exceptions to the rule. the younger guy has a fetish of a sort perhaps. but older women are heavily frowned upon and roasted by the society because of the ways nature works. society is the collective conscious and unconscious, meaning it is "common sense". and common sense is always right. not almost, but "always" right.
@@jmsessn , unconditional Love does exist!! And after more than 2 years I finally came to it first time in my life. My TF is 26 younger than me . I am a runner. I hope we never be together. But God! How much I love him! All my admirers much younger ( 26, 32 and another 32, 34, 40 ) BTW, my girlfriend is 44 older than her TF, now official husband! Never have seen such a big unconditional love and happy couple!
@@ЦирцеяСибирская who is who in your story? i didn't understand jacksh. who is the girlfriend, are you m or f? wth did you just talk about? your relations seem to be much more complex than the netflix series dark. i'm lost here
@@jmsessn I thought we are talking about situation when a woman is older ;)) I’m a woman lol
@@ЦирцеяСибирская and you have a girlfriend? who is the guy in this love triangle? is this a love triangle? who is who
I am a twin flame (feminine Energy) and my twin flame and I are same AGE, same YEAR same MONTH. - Me (Nov 22 1971), my Twin is (Nov 8 1971) we both carry the 11:11 - the number for November is 11 and the year has 11. - I carry the master numbers 1122, Love and light for all.
@Nabanita Pramanik jajajaja
Thank you for your comment. I was beginning to question some things. Me and my twin are the same age also …8 months difference.
@@ScorpioGlowI’m also almost 2 years older than my, I’m DF
I’m almost 10 years older - how amazing it’s over 90% of us. I’ve heard of twin flames for a few years now- but just realized a few days ago that i cant even begin to deny that this is what is happening. Thank you for your videos 🙏🏻❤️
No age gap here... My twin is 3 weeks, TO THE DAY, older then me.
He is 32 and I am 63. It’s definitely blowing his conditioning through the roof and I am being awesomely shaken to my core and realigned all chakras opening and esp gifts madly climbing etc .. by the intensity of the emotional intellectual sexual passion that drew us together. He is in full running for three months after a break down when our 6th meeting didn’t take place. I do chase in the most controlled way I could devise and working ok myself enormously as I have learnt all the arsenal of practices already and can barely keep up with the speed and depth of the ascension process. Help! ❤️🔥❤️🔥
I think the DF incarnates first and when she starts to wake up the DM incarnates. I’m 13 years older and remember having a profound experience when I was 13 that I was aware I was able to manifest things through thought alone.
I had a similar experience at 13 and that is the age difference between us
Yees Kate! I think so too. Mine is 9 years younger and remember I asked universe "where are you"? at that age like I already knew he was out there.
Wow exactly the same for me. 13 years older than my DM and yes at the age of 13 i started searching for “God”. I also dreamt of Jesus around this time.
I’m not a religious person, but I’ve always felt pulled to Jesus. And something that came to my attention, back when Jesus walked the earth he had a friend Simon, and later simon became known as Peter. My DM is called Simon and my name is Peta.
May mean nothing but it intrigued me.
Female 19 years younger than my male twin. We’re ageless and timeless.
Also, to comment on the age gap. For me, a big part of my awakening had to do with forgiving my father. He was absent from my life and an alcoholic. Ben showed up in my life at my age 56 and his age 75. He was nurturing, kind, intentional and extremely uplifting emotionally. He was also incredibly sexy and we had a
fulfilling physical relationship. I’m sure there’s some sort of father/daughter psychological statement here!
Omg yes I’ve never been attracted to younger men . I am 17 yrs older ! But yet he looks old and I look younger ❤️ it doesn’t matter ! I do thank him for what he has triggered in me 💫❤️💫
@@rata4428 I wonder if that’s the way it’s to be . So they are attracted as well and people don’t think your their mother 😂✌️💫❤️💫
The age gap is 17 years in my case, too🙂My DM is 40 and I am 57. People who saw our pic together, usually say 5-8 years difference. 🙂
I'm also 14 yrs older but looks younger
I'm also older and never into younger guys . Lol
My story is basically the same
I started my spiritual journey almost 3 years ago. I am a married woman with children. I am researching twin flames because I met someone that triggers me horribly. This guy opened up my heart chakra, made me realize alot of things about myself that I never knew and the attraction is there. He is in a relationship as well. I feel him all around me and see signs everywhere. There is an age gap: He is 30 and I am 38. In the past, I went for guys that I were at least 5 years younger/older. My husband is 3 years younger. Even though the guy is 30, he is an old soul. He says things that you don't hear anymore. It is so intriguing. In a way, I hope we get together in the next lifetime.
Hello, sorry to intrude, same happend to me, he's 17 years younger, met thru work, I'm married. , he at the time separated, it's been years and he's 5 min away, went back to his relationship and I worked on me and my marriage of 34 yrs. My question is if he ever know who you where? I've accepted it all and grateful for this heart braking, soul sucking life changing experience, nothing compares and I'm free❤
@thegoldenticket298 Unfortunately, the guy and I do not speak anymore. I live in another town and I stopped thinking about him. I am in the process of getting a divorce as well. I've been separated from my soon to be ex-husband for 10 months now. You are not intruding and thank you for the comment.
Agreed it's a major trigger for the woman to be older I think...my opinion...absolutely! It's a woman thing lol probably the hardest to accept for self worth/self esteem. "This is a test...this is only a test" lmao! 🤣😂🤣🤔😬
I never felt weird about being 4 years older. If you see you wouldn't even be able to tell whose older. People always think he's older. People think I'm 24 but I'm 33
I am a DF and my DM is 15 years older. I agree with a lot of the thoughts you have about why there is an age gap. It’s never bothered me, as I am so intensely attracted to him physically and mentally, but I know and feel the judgment from others. And I feel like that is part of “my” reason why my counterpart is so much older and is who he is. Because it is triggering. It’s controversial. But it doesn’t matter what anyone thinks. My journey is my own 💜
I’m a woman, the positive polarity or the so called DF, and my twin is one year older than me. I’m no longer obsessed with my twin (the physical person) but this area of study really intrigues me.
I think the best answer is that time is an illusion (read “brief history of time” by stephen hawking). Beyond the physical reality and the astral level, everything happens all at once. When you’re incarnated before/after your twin, the separation (gap) is just as much as an illusion as the time they’re incarnated. Same goes with when one of you dies first, it’s only the physical body and the mind that cease to exist, but the soul belongs to eternity.
Wow I’ve never thought about that
As DF (chaser), I am 35 and my twin flame (DM) is 51, so it sounds like we're an exception like you said. I had no idea that the age gap was even a thing in TF relationships. I've been watching your videos for about a week, and it has become my exclusive go-to for all things TF because you are honest. I love how, no matter the video or topic, you always remind us of the spiritual ascension that is key, "This is about your spiritual ascension and you should treat it that way." And yes, no more watching tarot videos (though satisfying) to get to the real stuff like this 😉 I got Eckhart Tolle's book and all of it makes sense. As for your theory about the triggers during the soul's journey, I agree. I triggered DM's sense of self-worth after his divorce and he triggered a lot of my father wounds that I has suppressed for decades. I think the age gap (independent of who is older) is a factor with TFs because since this is about our spiritual ascension, this also means that we are dissolving limits and conventions imposed by society. Our souls are limitless after all. We are all connected and age shouldn't impede our spiritual awakening.
Here we go... I, df, chaser, 25 years younger.
The soul was very smart picking a dm 9 years younger than me who is exactly my type. Looking back, I was dreaming of him before we met face to face.
Im twelve years older, but the numbers were only in the head, as while being together never felt this age gap. I did cry in the beginning because of it, not any more. We are in the separation right now. Im totally trusting the divine is working behind the scenes for us to be together.
Yep, I’m the DF and I’m 15 years older. But we look similar in age.
It’s definitely not the mother thing with us, because I’m more childlike personality-wise and he’s more serious.
Same here! ❤️
Totally relay to this s comment.
Yep, he’s 12 years younger and not what I’d normally be attracted to 💕 and yet I’m so attracted to him! I started researching twin flames when I began getting signs and synchronicity around him. The relationship is different than anything I’ve ever experienced; I have a sense of knowing regarding us, so I have never cried over him-he always comes back to me after we “break up”. I had my dark night of the soul around the same time that we met and he did, as well. I haven’t told him any of this, it sounds pretty crazy if you’re not enlightened! 🔥🔥
We needed the age difference to keep our divine appointment.
I agree.
Highway Huntress he had to be born twice. Was killed.?? & born in a different body two years later…….. guided me with dreams & visions to meet again .
Thank you for addressing this, Kurt! It is a relief to “the mind” to grasp this is a real experience that is not exclusive to me, since it makes you feel crazy for a while and everyone else thinks you’ve lost your mind or are having a mid-life crisis.
Met my twin flame at age 45, he was 20 😳
He is 16 years younger than me, and I think that is the only reason to make him run, in our culture it is not acceptable to date a woman much older than you, although when we are together no one can notice this difference in age I look younger than my age and he looks older than his age، Thank you Kurt 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💞💕💞💕
He was 20 years older than me & I didn't even care!!! I was 27 & he was 47. He died 2 years after we split. 😪😪😪 He died in 2000. He wasn't the "type" I'd normally go for but wow! He brought about my awakening and still does, even now. Losing him devastated me. The 1st time he looked at me, I knew my life would never be the same. It was instant. We had a lot of fun & I wouldn't be who I am today without him💞💚💕
@@Angie.GiGi.Ari.86 thank you so much for your kind words! 💕💖💞
@@trishhill7563 🌹❤️
@@Angie.GiGi.Ari.86 💕💖💞
Him being older is one of my triggers based on early life experiences. He has helped me that way when I felt with what he was triggering in me. To heal the past. Huge in my awakening
I never thought I would be brave enough to share this story, but I loved this channel because the information is so reliable and resonates with what I needed to know during the dark night of my soul. A couple of years ago, I wasn't a big fan of the topic of twin flames, but I always saw myself finding my twin flame as a woman. I read some information about the topic before travelling abroad to study because intuitively I always knew I would meet my twin flame on this journey. However, when I met my twin flame, the hardest thing to accept was the fact that he was a man. This triggered me in such a way that I was blown away, at first I thought I was losing my mind! I questioned myself by thinking that I might be mentally ill. I started crying, sometimes feeling happy and always thinking about my TF. We are the same age, 39, and I am just three months older. We are in contact, but my TF doesn't want to meet in person once more. Thanks for all your comments and for reading this, I appreciate it.
I think that from a woman's perspective the age gap triggers a lot of insecurity linked to appearence, maternity and so on. And, of course, in some case unfair social conditions according to which usually the female partner is younger than the male one. This has to do with ego's death. It seems to be the most difficult thing to "digest" - for me. And I am sure it's the same for the other counterpart. He cannot see a future with me. And I know that is for this reason. 10 years apart.
Yes ive just been told he thinks hes too young for me im 60 hes 48 think i look good for 60
@@Andrea-cy8hr 😓
I agree with you.
I'm 37 and my Twin is 56 and we have such a deep connection, as you (we) say, a deep soul connection... He feels we knew each other in a past/different life... It is an amazing feeling how our energy connects when we are with each other; undescribable ♥️
She started chasing me and after she caught me now I'm the one chasing her
This is an eye-opener and it's comforting to know I'm not the only one this has happened to. My twin flame is 9 years younger, but I have always thought of him as my age or older because of his level of maturity. I had never heard of Twin Flames until I found your channel and everything finally made sense. Thank you for validating my experiences and reassuring me that I am not going insane. I only hope I can figure this out. I fully expected him to propose but, he seems to be more distant lately, possibly thinking of running for the second time.
I'm 42 male DF and my twin is 27 female DM. I think it's partially the intense physical attraction and also combining energies from two different generations more or less. Also social norms don't always approve making the relationship harder to come together making one twin usually have to let go of what others think of them and follow they're heart.
I’m 28 DF and he’s 47 DM. I was looking to see if anyone else could relate.
😮…I feel you bro.
Update:😁 shortly after posting this comment, my twin showed back up in my life after not communicating for over 2years. We have been together ever since!
@@chadkitchin913 Happy to know that. Tanhk you for returning here.
Like my DM and me! But the opposite! 😮I’m the DF and him the DM! almost same the ages! I’m amazed how this things happens for the spiritual awakening!
20 years deference, meet him 20 years ago, meet him again 20 years later, we connected, had an incredible, unbelievable relationship, 8 weeks later he ran .I chased, have been for 2 years, it's painful, he comes back then disappears. Kurt your videos are really helping.me alot, you describe it so well damn correct, thank you x
I'm DF female and I'm 18 years older then my DM male. Ty for sharing this.
I’m 25 and he’s 36, and I’m the chaser. I am so intensely attracted to him, I love older men so that very much works for me.
Mine is an older man as well. So happy I'm not alone and I agree about older men. Good luck to you!
I am a student of Kurt and my TF and I are both in male bodies. He is 41 years younger than me. Go figure. I remember looking at him one day and I saw me looking back at me. I laughed about the event at the time but shortly there after everything changed. I remember telling him I was going to use him as a catalyst for change. He quickly asked me what I meant by that and I told him I wasn't sure. I told him he had the most beautiful light shining within him of anyone I had met in decades and now I understand why. I told him I wanted to be his friend, the best friend he ever had, but he told me no. He said I'm too old and we wouldn't have anything in common. I also remember telling him that if I had had a son I really wish it could have been him. But I haven't heard from him in two years.
41? My man, you take the gold on this one. I just scanned through all the comments (nearly 600 at the time of this writing) and you are unbeaten (though there is a close second at 40, and a very few more in the 30s).
@@silentsentinel1 I guess one good thing about this is it's easier to understand this is not meant to be a romance. But it's still just as intense.
Yes ego death started few years back. Then it seemed like a bit of libido wake up/lust but when we do connected-in a vivid dream that was bat-s… crazy. He’s 8 years younger which is flattering for 45 yo woman. Thought it was a bit of fun/ hunk watching if you get my drift until he messaged me from the other side of continent and we had crazy in-depth conversations. I don’t know why the age gap though I was never mature enough for my age before and needed a trigger to heal some deep inherited and childhood traumas. Luckily being a serious student of yoga philosophy the DNOTS is manageable. The key seems to be immense self/love and attitude of gratitude.
Thank you for putting things bluntly Curt
Kurt, have you read any of Brian Weiss, M.D.'s books? I believe possible explanations for TF age gap phenomena is described in the books Many Lives, Many Masters and Only Love Is Real. OLIR even has a passage describing the occurrence of a single soul inhabiting two human bodies simultaneously. Very interesting stuff.
Thank you so much for this. And thank you to others who have posted.
I feel like I could write a book about my journey. Coming to terms with the powerful emotions of this relationship has been a journey in itself. The 'well over 20 year' age gap defiantly leaves us questioning how this even works. But it is persistent.
We met four years ago at a party and felt we'd known each other forever. He is a deep thinking old soul and I am a forever young spirit. Personality wise I sometimes feel he is the older one.
Have 'gone separate ways' possibly 8 times. Always him leaving but always him coming back. Gaps in between from 6 months to 2 weeks. Sometimes this has been crushing, and sometimes I knew I'd see him again and just got on with life.
I've likened our relationship over the years as someone holding a mirror up in front of me and I don't always like what I see. And visa versa.
Right now we are trying to embrace a 'buddhist style' non-attachment relationship. It's a lesson we are still learning.
We are not the same people we were when we met in a progressively good way. We've both healed a lot of wounds but there is still work going on. We were both ruled by ego and conditioning when we met but now have both taken spiritual healing paths.
But we still have things that need a lot of work. And these videos are such a help to me. Thank you ❤️
No matter what happens with us, I am eternally grateful he came into my life and turned it upside down. And I know we will always be in each other's life in some form.
I am 11 years older than my DM and I would consider myself the runner. I hate it, too (running, that is) but I'm working it out. He was awakened when we crossed paths and 11 months later I was awakened ❤
OMG.... thankyou so much for this video , My TF is 8yrs younger to me & initially he was the chaser for almost 3yrs , It took me time to truly trust n understand that such a young & fit man is genuinely in love with me. He's a DM in truest sense ❤ !!... There's such a strong connection between us I'm my truest sense with him & though he's younger to me he's got maturity and stability & I got free spirit ...we r opposite in nature & likes but at the soul level we feel same❤ He's the one who has tested my patience to the max & slowly I'm learning not be anxious, now I know on deeper level that we belong together so I'm not anxious anymore, I'm more relaxed n happy n confident about us & the distance between us (he's in different city & we don't get to meet too)
This was one of the main tf traits that stood out. I am 15 years older & I didn't want him to know (or anyone else for that matter) exactly how old I was until last September! Eight and a half years into our journey. I avoided my birthday because I didn't want him to ask me how old I was. He knew I was older, but not a big gap. At this point it didn't matter to me letting him know & he was surprised-in a good way. :)
I am the DF (chaser) and my DM (runner) is 22 years my senior. My consciousness has awakened so much in the time I have known him. He has cut relations with me twice so far over a 5 year period. This last ghosting forced me to deal with abandonment issues from my childhood which is priceless growth.
I know he has commitment issues and HIGHLY attached to his ego, therefore time will tell if he chooses to grow or stay asleep in his meat suit. I obviously adore and love him beyond all but thank God for finding this channel. This is so much more tolerable knowing I'm not crazy or alone in this quest TF journey. No matter what, I know everything is what it is and absolutely everything is going to be okay.
I just never thought I'd ever feel like someone completely has my heart but he does, and that just feels, sooooooo good. Im content with that, with or without him.
My TF is 2 years older but his emotional maturity is much younger than mine.
I'm sorry I laughed a bit. Just to mess with you im sure he would be like the little boy beating a bad man to death. L;
Dude sameee
Same
Yes as someone who was scared of getting older, and never wanted to think about it, I met someone 12 years younger than me. We were so in love. The first month, we didn't even care about the age. Then as I started to worry about the longevity of the relationship due to the age, he did too and ran off. It was the first time I had to overcome or think about my age. A year later, I'm still working on it. And yes he is gorgeous.
I feel the age gap is also a lesson of love transcending boundaries of the norm on behalf of the collective.
I like you!!. What a cool guy. Boy, I wish I could live near a group of people like you and your twin and have sessions and hang out.
Yes! She is 26 years old and I'm 59 years old huge age gap...I'm the positive and she is the negative...
I think your theory is correct...Often the female, being older, develops the self more than the male does, who may put his effort more into business or hobbies. In my case, I'm 16 yr. older and crossed an ocean to be w my Twin Flame, before I even understood what a Twin Flame is. He not only is much younger but his culture was stifled by Communist rule, whereas, I'm a former refugee and educated in the US, which, nonetheless, was a heck of a lot better place to be than my former homeland...where I have returned. Thank you. And...and...and, I just noticed that I listened to your session a year ago and commented. Talk about being on the right road, again.
Kurt can you do a video about what the first 6 months are like during reunion from your experience and the common things you see from your students? There is so much info out there about meeting your twin flame, the love bubble phase, then the separation running and chasing. Hardly anyone talks about whats its like when the DM starts talking to you again. You are a trust worthy source.
I believe the age gap is present along with other "gaps " to balance out current societal norms and stigmas. We are all one collective soul and to break down those barriers is one of the things that we need to work through.
I was exactly twice his age when I met him (24/48). I've always considered youth to be the standard of beauty and had a midlife crisis in my mid thirties because I didn't want to get old, so yes, big triggers for me. It's funny how you begin this journey worrying about your looks, even when they tell you and act like you're not too old, but after reaching inner union, the clinging energy finally drops off, you meet God through self realization and the twin stops meaning as much. Loving him has always been the easiest thing to do but I'm no longer obsessed, he's inside me but also a free person and I actually prefer him not to come back at this time because I'm dedicated to my growth and supporting others waking up, the same ones who supported my awakening.
i also had this ,,im getting old" triggered in me although he at first accepted it very fast and when i was like ,,damn i wish i could be this sweet 16 again" he'd message me ,,you're my sweet 26 :) ". were in separation now. so much pain. i loved the love he was giving me.
@@chickenontheocean What do we do when we feel pain? We pull back from it. The soul wants you to pull back from him and find what you are missing, inside yourself. I promise you with all my heart, sweet love, that the pain will leave you just as soon as you are ready for self realization, or inner union as others call it. You will never stop loving them, but its a love that just exists, it can ONLY be free.
@@Bellazme I used to be able to tell when I was in my masculine, the energy is different. It was all about doing and if the doing didn't go to plan there was a plan to botch up the original plan. I could laugh at my failings. Emotional levels were greatly reduced. Life wasn't serious all the time. I could communicate with my masculine, for example one time running, I developed a strain on my left side and noticed that my feminine was doing all the work, so I asked my masculine to step up and it did, and finished the run. After self-realization, it took about a week for the clinging energy to properly fizzle out. There was a couple of places I was still holding on to the physical that needed to be released. The ego is incredibly sneaky. Now I am totally at one. I don't feel my twin anymore. Not one bit, because his energy is no longer on the outside. If I go internal, he is there fully embodied but it's also stopped being about two people. He is me, I see me, I feel me, I want to be with me because its me, not him. That's why I don't need him, he cannot give me what I already am. It's a process of merging until there is nothing left to merge. Hope this helps. I visit these places to help the feminine.
@@Bellazme I have a soulmate in my situation, a divine masculine who is not my divine masculine but we have been together 30+yrs and I told him from the beginning that I was looking for a second person and would never have met my twin, if it wasn't for my soulmate. Of course we didn't know about twinflames back then. I thought my divine quest was original, lol the shock to discover there's a label and forums and whole communities. My soulmate became my healer when I was waking up and cleared out every chakra, and gave me shaktipat when he unblocked my kundalini. My consciousness was teleported through my third eye and I exited the body to wake up from the dream. This is what I knew, as I landed in a void space where I saw my body being worked on by my soulmate who turned into a golden elephant man. Later, I came to understand what I saw was Lord Ganesha and my soulmate had given me shaktipat, which is when a guru merges with the divine energy and releases kundalini with his touch. Crazy stuff, I know, but it was more real to me than life itself. The place I went to, was far more real than the life we are living every day haha. I still don't know why I was blessed this way, I talk with my kundalini on a daily basis, it never leaves me, and the most important thing I've learnt on this journey is that the path is absolutely ours alone. It's entirely personal, truly unique and utterly magical, just don't expect others to understand or believe you. xx
@@themeep2494 Beautiful 🍃♥️🍃
By the way Kurt. You are an absolute legend. Your channel is perfect. You have honestly helped me so so much.
This guy is the real deal. So much gratitude to you. Love your work so much. Thank you
I’m so happy you brought up the issue of abuse and twin flames Kurt! I was in a seriously sick trauma bond and thought he was my twin flame because the feelings were so intense. Still recovering after years of this.... and curiously, my mom is over ten years older than my dad! I saw the runner chaser thing all through growing up and wonder about the toxicity of their bond. Thanks for raising such an important topic! Seriously contemplating taking your program.... these dynamics can be mistaken for other things on the quest to a healthy relationship to myself and others.
To top it off, I have a man who’s 20 years younger who’s been pursuing me for a year! I don’t feel the sexual chemistry, though there is some kind of chemistry. It’s definitely triggering for me the “idea” of being with someone that much younger. He’s the one who initiated a talk on “twin flames” with me (even though I was already aware of it). I don’t know, but you’re definitely on to something there Kurt!
He is 16 years younger than me.. we met while I was on vacation.. I am divorced and he was married.. we talked for hours and hours one night.. I left the next day.. we kept the conversation going for around 4 weeks then he blocked me.. I was devastated.. I thought I was going to die.. I came to peace with it months and months later.. I was just unblocked .. 3 years later. He is divorced now.. things are super slow going but I am just happy he is in my life again... we have a big age gap and distance .. we don’t live in the same state.. not far about 3 hours away 🤷🏻♀️ yes I a super Attracted to him.. 😊
There is no age difference between me and my otherself. But I am a single mother with a child and he is a single who never had any obligations. When we met, he didn't know I had a son. I remember he said he never wanted a woman with a baby again. It is possible that the differences are there to trigger this ego-death. You may be right. I wanted to write to you that I am grateful for the videos you share. Thanks to them, today I am in a completely different place on this journey. Obviously my Twin showed up after a year of absence as if nothing had happened. It happened when I started to treat this journey as working on my soul. Thank you so much for everything, you are amazing !!! :)))
My twin flame has just passed away Oct 25 suddenly and unexpectedly. (Liver issues) he was 51 I am 34. We were together only 3 years but the most profound beyond amazing wonderful 3 years of both of our lives. It felt like we knew each other a lifetime such a familiar feeling like we had been in love for an eternity… strange but beautiful. I’m extremely devastated that he’s gone and by gone I mean in the physical sense…I understand that the only difference is that I am embodied and he is not any longer. None the less it’s still a complete nightmare the person I waited for which seemed an eternity is just gone and I’m angry, sad and grateful and thankful all at the same time… it’s put me on this pathway of spirituality because he was truly my biggest fan no matter how big of a spoiled brat or an a-hole I was (sometimes) he still saw the best in me always and loved me unconditionally no matter what the circumstances were… I have no interest in ever being married or in a relationship again. I met my person I still am madly in love with him, and losing him has to be for a bigger purpose and reason that is beyond me because I can’t find a reason. I wish you all knew him, such an amazing guy, loved everyone and everyone loved him his nickname was “Hollywood” because people would always surround him to speak to him or get his attention.. he just looked like a celebrity always cared about his appearance but the most humble person I’ve ever met in my life , he wanted nothing more then to just LIVE!! He completed me, I felt whole, as did he. It was so amazing to finally have that feeling of being loved unconditionally and to love him back unconditionally at the same time. I never thought it would be possible for us to be apart. All he wanted was life and then he just left… I feel lost and incomplete again without him and I just can’t believe this is my life. any advice would be appreciated greatly by the twin flame doctor and his students (lol) as I am just trying to get by second by second and minute by minute at the moment. His birthday is in 5 days the 15th, plus the holidays. I have no idea how I will get through this. Anyway. Thank you for letting me borrow the comment section to vent.❤blessings to you all
Sarina, read "I'm STILL With You" by Sherrie Dillard...via amazon
I have ALL the exceptions in my twin flame dynamic. I am the twin flame “chaser” I am 37. My twin flame “runner” is also female and she is 60! The physical and sexual attraction is definitely there even though we identify as heterosexual 💜💋 but the love is so unconditional even though we are apart 4yrs this spring.
I am so glad to know I am not the only one in a female - female twin flame situation. I will be 59 and she will be 25 and is from a different culture. I am married to a man and she is not married.
I think you are right but i also think that the DF is more mature and have come further in her ascension before she meet the DM, so she eventually can help the DM raise higher💕
We’re both female, I’m 5 years older. I think part of the reason for large age gaps is to break us out of societal norms and realize none of that matters. Different religions, cultures, being halfway across the world, gender, and age, all of those can be factors that completely tear apart our ego’s ideas of normal or acceptable lol. I guess for me we had enough issues without a huge age gap hahaha but literally everything else 🤷🏻♀️
We are both female as well. I am 34 years older and married and our birthdays are 11 days apart. I I will 59 this year and she will be 25 and we click together so well.
I’m 24 years older than my DM (22/46) and it’s definitely kicked my soul ascension into high gear. So even though it’s been a challenging 1.75 year journey so far of the highest highs and lowest lows, it’s been worth it and I appreciate the gift that has been given to me / us. And we have many more “obstacles” than just huge age gap, so I’m focusing on me, family, travel. I’m thankful to be in surrender now and able to release everything I needed to.
Me too...exact same age difference and ages!!😮
@@_fromthedivine_ that’s interesting!! Now we’re 23/47. (I was really into New Kids too haha - Jordan.)
He is 10 years younger than me. And the crazy part is that I’m 36 and he’s 25. So much love but soooo frustrating 😑😑😑
I am watching a vid after other, I think that a smart guy with glasses saved my life
Valuable message here. I don't know about age gap...as I met him only once! My heart & soul was in pain and he didn't want to connect on any level with me. I got rejected. But in me all process as Ego death and dark night was on...is mostly balanced and harmonized now. Now let's see what life will unfold or where Soul will take me.
Same here. I've met mine twice but the last time triggers an awakening 100% sure. After that we never really talked. I'm just so good at stalking before so I found his birthday.
I'm 8 years older.
I remember having a recurring dream when I was 8 years old about these two cherubic toddles, male and female. They used to play and tumble and giggle but no one else could see them.
It was only recently that I realised these dreams would have started when my twin was born.
I’m a lady and I’m older than my twin male as well. Kurt, I did not think you guys had an age gap.. You both look about the same age. I’m surprised at your age gap.. lol. I’m happy you’re talking about this because I was beginning to think that perhaps our age gap is an issue. I’m realizing that it’s not.Thank you so much.
Curious, where did he did show his TF? The two videos I saw on RUclips with her she was hidden from the camera.
Wow, we're in separation. We met last year I was 64 and he's 39. I think we are energy levels not number labels. Think the age is a gap, that pulls you back together undeniably. Experience a mystery, I forgot about age until we were apart. Never interested in younger men.
That was comforting, confirming, and so clearly communicated! Great coaching!! Thank you kindly. I am a 60 year Aries woman. I believe I met my TF. He is a 69 year Capricorn man. I did not even know anything about TF, never heard of it.
My experience was like no other in many ways. This journey has brought me so much. We are not together. That is ok
I am grateful for the experience. Love is within us individually and shared.
Blessings and Gratitude
I’m 10 yrs older than my TF . And we’re both not each other’s types but he was the most attractive person I’ve ever saw. And I never would go for a younger man, especially that much of a gap. But after the few weeks of the loving phase and we broke it off and I was wondering why I became so obsessed with this younger guy that I barely knew. Then I randomly came across twin flames and nothing has been the same. And I’m so glad I’ve found this channel. Everything is making sense now and now I don’t feel like I’m losing my mind.
This happens to be my experience with my twin. I even told him, ie me, that I was to old for him. It really triggered me that I was so-attacked to him when he was so much younger. There were other aspects as well and they all caused me to scream out WHY! Lol it was a significant part of my dark night of the soul. 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻
So, yes, I can confirm your theory. My DM is 16 years younger then me. His charisma and sexiness is definitely a trigger for me. But we also have some intense spiritual conversations. Just now going through dark night episode with him and somehow found courage to tell him I need some space. Then I found your videos. I’m signing up for the course. I know that releasing the ego and getting into that zen state is the answer. I see your course as facilitating the next step in my soul’s journey. So grateful that I found your video! And I’m still on my DM’s RUclips account so I’m grateful for him, too. Not just for that reason, but I’m feeling the synchronicities...
I'm 20 years older than my tf... He's so much a reflection of my life...brings out the child in me
I am just over 9.5 years older than him. I was going through very similar circumstances at his age that he is currently going through now so I can resonate with his struggles. The moment I saw him I was floored, he was perfect and I know he remembers the moment he saw me too. The connection, the sex, when it’s on point it’s all exceptionally amazing. The push-pull and the separation at times, isn’t. I don’t feel a gap at all, I just know he’s my person. We were both born on the 26th of our birth months.
I’ve tried not to label it this. But it’s becoming clearer to me that it is. I went through massive transformation in the year and a half leading up to meeting him, a week before we finally went on a date I closed out a massive karmic cycle in my life with a previous soulmate. It was like the universe delivered him right to me after it was done.
I never heard of a twin flame until today. I watched your pinned video about the dark night of the soul and well yeah, hard relate. I'm almost 43 he just turned 28. We dated casually for 6 weeks just over 2 years ago. I ended it as he stood me up one night and after I sent the message I felt an immediate mutual devastation. He never replied but his friends posted on his social media asking why he wouldn't answer their calls for several weeks. He came back into my life a few months later and disappeared again so I removed him from social media. He has reappeared over the past 2 weeks and has been very clear about wanting to see me and his strong attraction. I have been hesitant after all the hurt and I think he has pulled away again. It's only been 24 hours since he pulled away but I can feel the moment he does and have been right each time that he won't be replying again. I have spent 2 years trying to understand what is wrong with me, is he a narcissist, am I delusional about this powerful connection. I'm a sensible woman who doesn't lose her head like this. I have always been the one to end things officially by removing him from social media etc and he is always the one to reach out but I still feel like the chaser anyway. I want to learn satori but don't know where to start.
Geez...quit removing him from social media... Social media is a pit so it can be used to turn the screws ....if you keep doing that to people it may not be a good place for you.
@@vsee2207 I don't want to see what he is doing. I know what I'm like, I will look. So the last update is that we stayed connected and spoke several times a day for 7 months. Then he started seeming flakey and I again told him we have to leave it. You don't understand how devastating it is for me when i feel him pull away. I have to run because I can't even imagine how I would feel if he shut me out completely and I don't want to wait around for him to do that.
and when i say we spoke several times a day, i mean all day everyday for 7 months. We just can't stop talking once we start. A month later he has got a new gf who is 25. I'm dying haha.
Wow awesome!~~~ I resonated with 'the gap was to break down another societal barrier that blocks unconditional love in our interpersonal relationships.' Like everyone says to me if I was the man and he was the woman our very big age gap wouldn't matter nearly as much.to them. Also that it is another layer in Soul's plan, beyond the ascension process , to help move the process along through the relationships of the awakened. Multipurpose in so many ways.
I ran over and over and over because of it, but now I stand tall and proud with as much courage as I can muster to show the world who we really are in the truest sense of the word. The speed with which TFs evolve spiritually is shocking and I think really grabs attention so I think the Soul's strategy is brilliant. Its ust that the DF and DM both have to have balls to carry it off. I'm finding the fun and joy we have during our disagreements has to be inspiriting to others.
He is 12 years younger and our reunion got me out of my bad marriage with a narc who destroyed our oldest son emotionally. My TF is in a bad marriage as well but he did not leave. We have been connecting and disconnecting since 2007. But all of this got me to heal myself and my son. It definitely awoke me in a much deeper level. Although I look younger than he look he does have an age discrimination. That I have more energy and live a healthier lifestyle, he has an age discrimination deep down and bringing it up when mad. This though awoke me to move back home at the other end of country where my family is with their unconditional love. Although i love him tremendously, I cut ties completely. He is so different as well so much it is my family that wouldn't accept and so making it impossible. I will never love like this again. I'm done but sso blessed I experienced this.
I am a lady, 26 years older than he is..We are from different countries, we have different language and religion..and also gap in education level.. I can't forget him, I feel guilty and overwhelmed...always asking myself why it has happened to me.