1) your twin flame will never tear you down or hurt you on purpose. 2) Your twin flame will always encourage you to grow In a direct or indirect way. Every trigger is a blessing and bring you closer together.
fucking true if you meet your twin flamme of course, me i meet my false twin and even its really rare i really never recommanded this experience . you need to be be fucking strong and in real inconditionnal love. now i do not know if i am now on the rare path of meeting my twin but if iwill, i definitively tell and teach people that this stupid new age concept to accept bullshit and toxicity is tottaly wrong! as you i know twin flamme are love and in fact jesus parents was a twin flamme couple , thats the real shit.
@@LorraineVesterink and dont forget the false twin or the dark empath please , i have to deal 3 yearzs with my dark twin and its was horrible but the link and my unconditionnal love was at a level i never experienced before, i read some people say a false twin is there to activated the real twin, well we will see , but its definitively not an experience for everyone on this planet and i fed up people claim alltime now, wow i am with my twin flamme, for me its totally not true because no more soul can reach this level of empathy and love, you have to be super empath and even for super empath a dark twin is extremly hard to deal , but your soul heal really quickly ( the souls wounds , by the way i was healed when i was young by lise bourbeau in south france so allready i got luck but it wasnt enough thats why maybe this but i repeat its not for all )
Often if they run or keep distance it's very much because they fear hurting you or getting hurt by you, and know they can't really provide what you want right now (and they can't anyway; everything you need is within your self). And that running/distance dynamic is what usually triggers an ego death/dark night of the soul to push the "divine feminine" into undergoing a spiritual awakening and align with their soul by letting go of the physical self and going on a spiritual journey. Then the "DM" tends to come back once the DF has achieved harmony/union within their self (the soul) as the physical is merely coming to match the spiritual. But putting any energy into the other self is just going to keep them running (as they operate on the opposite polarity of yourself) because everything you want from them is already within you, and to some degree they are you on a soul level.
Your twin soul is within you. As within so without! If you are in touch with the god or goddess energy within, you are already united. The twin may or may not appear on a physical level. But what is physical? It's just energy. There is no being alone, you are never alone . Standing in awareness is the key, and spiritual practices such as inner alchemy and tantra reveal the truth of the matter. Of course I could expound at length, but this is not the time or place.
Exactly your twin soul is within you and will appear in the physical when you choose union from within. 💞 (And yeah... going at length is better on your own channel...).
@@LorraineVesterink PLEASE can you explain this more Lorraine. So did I "manifest" her out of my daily asking God to bring someone? Does whats going on inwardly effect what is happening outwardly with this person? Like we are both what the other asked for, but she isn't going for it. But there is too much mirroring of things and synchronicity and such. And I desire her in a way never felt before, like NEVER. Like God said you been through enough here's perfect now chill....So if this came from within, I can just let them go and find another like her? There is too much waves of emotion within me just thinking about her, like it's beyond my known levels, like other worldly. I don't know what to do. I need some clarity here. I don't even know how I got here, well...I do. I asked God for guidance and here I am. Like I've been having divine guidance for awhile, going through stuff. She is currently going through stuff too. But somehow we are helping each other guide the other through their own personal stuff. But she says she is just being a good friend, but the way we locked eyes when we first met, and all the other things. So just let it go, right. I can do it again?
In astrology he is my karmic partner (venus conjuct SN) but he feels like a twin flame.I said this before I found out about our synastry. Can they be the same? or karmic is strictly karmic?
I met my partner on the dance floor at a wedding of mutual friends. There was a strong push of divine energy to reach out my hand and take her dancing. During our first date i felt so harmonious with her, like we had already been together for years, i knew with certainty she is the one. Ten years later we still have the same harmonious connection. We mirror a lot, both struggle with self love, but seeing it in each other helps us in the healing process.
Hi Loraine, I met mine in 2012 and he passed away in 2017. He taught me so many things and was so loving and selfless with me. We both knew our connection was unique even though at the time had no knowledge of twin flames. There are no words in human language to describe it. I still miss him so much but feel him everywhere and he is still looking after me. Btw, when we met I was 56 and he was 75. This made it all the more extraordinary because it was perfect timing even though to most it wouldn’t seem so. ❤
All the signs says he’s my twin flame and I know it + god gives me signs like so obvious But I’m still confused if twin flames are real I know it’s real but I’m scared of being despondent
A lot of people also misunderstand the "twin soul" concept. It's not about ego or a romantic relationship. It's a union to be of higher service to humanity.
I think many confuse the twin flame signs with narcissist traits because the context of each dynamic are really similar. The running and chasing phase runs close with bread crumbing. Someone only giving small bits of love or returning to get what they need out of you is not love. I myself have often thought the one of the purposes of the twin flame journey was recognize unloving behaviors in order to love and respect myself better, learn boundaries and appropriate behavior from people around me. There is too much literature about twin flames where I believe the information is beginning to border on gaslighting and causing a belief system that accepting the narcissistic abuse is a twin flame connection. That inter-relation and knowing the difference opened up a big fat wound and revealed a narcissistic relationship in my life. One that I did not see coming. So let me leave you with this… if you firmly believe you are a twin flame (and you are reading and taking this comment seriously) research the signs of a TF connection and compare with narcissistic abuse. Understand that your true TF will not intentionally hurt you, but a narcissist will. Write in a journal and document if you need to, it’s worth comparing and understanding the difference. Because had that similarity not been pointed out to me, I would have been stuck in a very unhealthy and vicious cycle without a means to get myself out. Best of luck on your souls journey. The TF is an incredibly deep connection with yourself, and I truly hope you find yourself. As within, so without.
@@LorraineVesterink I never implied you were confusing it. I offered a possible insight to how it can cause confusion. I feel it is important to consider how the signs of a TF connection and narcissistic abuse appear similar on the outside, especially to those unfamiliar with both twin flames and narcissism. Your comment is congruent to mine. A true twin flame does not cause intentional hurt or pain, and I believe I said that. The love that one needs is self love. Yes, that is the purpose of the twin flame, I’m not disagreeing with you. But I also included a personal experience about how the comparison helped me start a plan of getting out of an unhealthy dynamic I am currently. I’m encouraging reflection and research.
Another big distinction between TF and narcissistic abuse is that a TF runner/chaser dynamic will likely trigger you into an ego death/dark night of the soul, and you just have a knowing that they aren't gone for good. And they typically come back (if they're meant to) after you align with your soul (or higher self) which is also them. I suppose if a narcissistic abuse cycle is traumatic enough that could also trigger an ego death out of necessity, but Twin Flames come in and then leave in an explosive fashion for a reason, and often TFs will go through this phase multiple times until the "DF" chooses to give up *or* they surrender to the spiritual awakening and pursue the journey that their soul/God/the universe has been trying to set them on through the triggers and ego death(s). Then the "DM" comes back to join them (if they're meant/choose to considering free will and all that) because the physical level comes to reflect what's been achieved on the spiritual level.
@@Sorenthaz Yes definitely! Twin Flame journey is a soul growth until soul maturity is reached. It is up to the Twin that recognizes the connection to do their part, whatever inner work that entails. I love your insight about what is achieved on the spiritual level is what is reflected on the physical level. I'm going to save that!
Thank you for your comment. I had 3 Dark night of the souls. The second one happened about 6 weeks ago. I seen everything that that Narc had done and was doing to me. Wow incredible that I took that toxic abuse for 3 years. The brain fog was powerful consumed my thoughts. I found out last week he had been having an affair with my friend. I knew he was being unfaithful but I did not know with who. She probably was not the only one either. He made me so sick physically and mentally I lost 15 kilos in 3 weeks from his energy draining vampire fest he was feeding on me to survive I had no idea. I am a Heyoka Empath I have just found out. And last night I met my twin flame he looks like me. He knew what had just happened I was in complete and utter shock. He even knew the Narcs name and we live in different countries. Now Ive found him. Whether we form a relationship or not is for the future. But he appeared. It says your Soul family and twin flame will appear after being in Karmic Narcisistic relationships. And your Soul family will appear. 🆘❤️
I don't chase. I attract. Karmic has no way at all to contact me. I made sure of that. Unhealthy. However I have learned lessons from this brief connection.
My first time to comment here. And it is so timely coz I am being triggered to doubt again my connection with my twinflame. Perhaps my angels led me to see your video. I've been in separation. So many trigger moments and yes you are right I can only be grateful when I recall those times. Thank you, Lorraine. Thank you.
I have a TWIN FLAME 🔥🔥. We met 1990. We worked together on our RADIO 📻 station 95.7 BEN FM tune us in. After 33 year's apart. With perfect successes. I'm going home to him home to HIM. Next month. We love each other very, very much!❣️
He never insulted me, and he had always encouraged me to do better in my career. Even my own parents never encouraged me that way. However, that time when I was triggered 😢 I was the one who had bombarded his phone with tons of messages asking him answers for my questions. My tone was harsh and rude at that time, I was engulfed in anger. But I was always sweet and funny and comfortable with him before. So maybe I'm not the twin flame? 😢
Now I recognize the toxic and narsistic relationships in my life. I see and feel it now crystal clear. I release now alk the strings, pains and trauma wounds of all the toxic karmic and narsistic relationships in my life this life and past lives. Today I set myself free. My twinsoul is in my life always. I am in perfect union with my twinsoul. My own Devine sacret femenine is in wholeness I'm in full alligment with my highest frequency of my soul, I am body my soul essence fully embraced in the pure sacret Devine femenine in complete wholeness in alligment with my inner goddess and Devine priestess that I am. I am my soul. I am in full alligment and embodiment with my core essence of being. 💜🙏 Knowing and feeling this right now is pure Devine timing and the biggest gift of the universe today for me to receive all I prayed for this night💜🙏
I wish my twin flame would say “You’re my dream woman but not now”. At this point I’d be happy with that. The most I got was “I love you only as a friend”
Omg, same with me and my bf, who i start to believe he is narcissist, but he never really said anything to put me down, but worse, i think, his actions did... running away, blocking me for couple of months every time we have an argument that he creates by his actions and makes it look like it happened because i ask too much from him. Which i never did. That only in his blurred mind! Anyway, i now let him go, and i try to convince myself he is not good for me. I still can't define if he is a flame or a manipulative narcissist:( But i feel good 👍 😌 Love and light to all of you, beautiful souls!
I don't wanna hurt you, you seem to be a beautiful women ❤ but I once read true twin flames can't be friends there energy won't let it be that way. That's a way u can tell for sure hun. Who knows maybe it was wrong, but I want u too find your true love and not wait. It's not fun waiting for someone if they have no real interest.. God bless you hun
@@schase6007 The energy between us wasn’t giving “just friends” vibes. I sense this is just part of the 3D illusion. Intuitively I feel that he does love me too, the same way I love him. I find that DMs do tend to be in denial. It would just be nice to have the confirmation for once. But I know a lot of things now that I didn’t earlier on in my journey. And part of that is not needing the external confirmation.
That can't be your twin flame, just because you like them. Twin flames have a mutual attraction to themselves. You can't just claim someone as your twin flame, and be angry they don't feel the same way or reciprocate.
What you are describing is Limerence and Trauma Bond. It's magical thinking to assume someone is a fragment of yourself, and to tolerate mixed signals, waiting out life for someone who is just stringing you along (or said no, and you keep pushing for something).
If this is your reality you are always right... We are happier than ever and also lots of our clients.. that's no limerence, I also had that believe.. this must be limerence... but with your karmic you share the same wounds.. and when you resolve them you don't want to be with them anymore. With your twin flame you share the same soul DO want to be with them and you will get closer to each other!
Limerance is often one sided with unrequited love and is unhealthy because people haven't done any healing and it doesnt promote healing. TF is where two healed people attract one another in a soulful connection that isn't like any other love. It sounds like you haven't experienced TF. TF is healthy not unhealthy.
I'm so elated over finding your channel 😃 I've always wanted to understand a twin flame soulmate and I never really had anybody to explain that as well as you and give examples and there's a channel on it! Which is Absolutely Awesome❤❤❤ Thank You
You're very welcome! 🦋💖 Many people tend to put the Twin Flame concept on a pedestal, making it seem special and complicated. However, we're just ordinary individuals in an unconditional love relationship that continues to flow once you allow it into your life. This morning, I woke up next to my Twin Flame. As I looked at him, I couldn't help but think, "After 10 years, my love for you still flows so strongly. I enjoy him so much! Every day anew.
Point number two hit me like a balloon of hearts!! That's the game changer point for me! The growth without even trying it just happened because we were together and then apart and my heart broke but it broke open into my divine feminine empress energy ❤️
I discovered your channel today with this video. And I feel I was led to you. Everything about this video Resonates with me. My DM has inspired me to follow through my goals and work for my own stability. In the past, when he ran from me and then when he returned, I was angry with him, I did say some mean things to him. But you're so right about them never saying anything mean. He's always heard me out, withdrawn so that i cool down and returned. There's so much I could write about what I've experienced. Thank you for posting this video. Many blessings ❤❤
😩😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️I said some mean things too girl 😩 I kinda wanna take it back but I had to get it off my chest. Normally when I act out he would do the same thing. Retreat and in hopes I’ll calm down. But he would just leave me alone and be in his head about what I said . No action. It’s been 6 months since I seen him and I miss him so much. We’ll be together soon
Thank you for explaining this twin flame journey. I've being waiting for my twin for almost 2 years now I always thought why cant I get this person out of my head hopefully 1 day we can come together
About 3 yrs ago my tf angrily told me he had a lot to do, he was not ready for me. I wish I had kept reminding myself of this, it would have saved me a lot of heartache !
Hi. I really wanted to share my story too. Its been two years since I met my twinflame. Since then I haven't been attracted to anyone and the thought of even thinking of being with someone else is unpleasant because I don't think I can ever love someone like I love him. But we have been separated since forever. We are close friends but we don't meet or talk much but we do know each other from depth. Whenever we met, it was like a huge ball of energy bursts and we forget there's a world outside us. I usually telepathically know what he's up to and the spiritual growth is real. i haven't been this healed and happy before. yes we are still in separation but I feel the growth everyday. The thing that actually bugs be a little is that, he has been dealing with his karmic situation. today he told me they broke up but he's heartbroken. At times like this, I really cant help but to doubt if he really loves me or not. but deep down I know he does but when will he just start healing himself so we can move forward together to the union? I just really hope my unconditional love will always support him. no matter what.
I ran from my twin flame, 5 years later he ran. 8 years later he and I know we’ll be together someday but the timing is wrong right now because we each have obligations we can’t escape from
😅 Everything suddenly clicks! As the pieces in a puzzle! I reached out to a common friend, when my twin suddenly went no contact with me. My twin and I had not yet engaged in intimicay, but we both felt the strong bond between us. Now I started doubting everything. Especially since I've been in some ugly relationships before. Our common friend (who is highly spiritual just like my twin) said to me: You must get this old narcissist mindset out of your head! She recommended a bunch of videos on narcissists and at first I was terribly confused. I thought I had worked through all of this. And despite me feeling hurt I still couldn't make it fit in with my twinflame, who had always been kind, respectf and caring towards me. After viewing this video I'm giggling: Our friend probably saw that this is a twinflame situation.
Thank you so much for this informative video I'm just beginning to learn about the different connections and I appreciate you sharing your life experience as well. Much love and respect ma'am ✌️❤️🕯️
Hello there is a woman I see every now & again. She is very attractive & most guys find her attractive. I don’t really have romantic feelings towards her but every time I see her she always looks down . I do feel however that there is some connection because I feel a sense of calmness when I see her something I don’t feel very much with other women.
Mam ,what if Df trust on Dm lost? because Dm don't realize yet, Will Df give him Second chance , he didn't verbally insult but he prirotize himself & just go away without any kind of reason, he blocked me at first, he just run , I confess my feeling to him but again no any direct reply just return my chocolate & the note. No doubt his each act trigger me, I realized my love for him & Even I started taking care of me he teach me self love , but its really irritating to feel stuck as i can't accept him as I have trust issues that he can leave me whenever he want, but it rally difficult to get him out my mind but I give my all effort, my mind says he is not good for me my heart taking favour of him. I don't know but from now onwards I am just going to focus on myself,I wish he feel what I feel, just think of all the coincidence happen between us which we just can't ignore like no matter where we meet each other, same colours cloths almost every day. 😅 I wish he realized but I don't know what should i do if he come back as it's not easy to trust I just don't want to go through that pain, If it was lesson I believe i learned it. ❤
This is true until you’re triggered badly and hurt by them over and over. And yes. I’m a twin flame . Unfortunately my twin lied to me broke up with me and went with a karmic again. Long story , but was not my finest moment and I’m ashamed of the things I said to him. Really awful things I had never ever said or would have during the 10 years I’ve known him. I reached a point in my journey I guess that I was just worn out from triggers . So d now and sorry . Though don’t know how I’ll ever get over it . I went really nuts , but god help me I felt pushed beyond my limits . The numbers 555 kept showing up so I knew I was in for somthing .
555 means change is here! When we change, our mirror soul changes too!! After five tough years, I learned to let go of what kept me from my twin flame. Are you ready to do the same? Welcome to our channel! If this isn't for you, that's okay. I hope you find what you need. Much love.
Thank you unfortunately he suddenly was gone. We were living together and he got back with a karmic . He said he knows we are tf but I’m too old for him now talk about a trigger!
Thank for your messages, you are very sweet.. I never got an 'I love' you, just 'I m not in that vibration' and after 7 years that we were without someone else, and I was 'the One' and sacred as he had say and dont block me, he chosed someone (else) and opened the door of his house besides his heart, and they are living together for almost 10 months. I saw him with her on the 9th of December 2022 and he sent a message telling me that our choises dont matter !! So he satisfies his desires and needs with One Else.. I dont believe anymore in the Twin Flame staff.. 💕💕💕💕
@@LorraineVesterink Thank you for your answer. Dont I have to respect his choise? Maybe this choise is a karmik to teach him a lesson. How can I interrupt a karma?
If he had said anything close to “you’re my dream woman” I’d have been fine to wait, but he didn’t even say he liked me. He just said he wasn’t ready and proceeded to date everyone else.
Don’t compare! Every journey is different. This doesn’t happen to every one. It’s just an example. In my connection many bad things happened where I don’t talk about an you would be happy that it didn’t happen in your connection! If you feel that he’s your man. Go for it!!💞
My false twin was very supportive and it didn’t bring us closer at all. He never tore me down like ever he adored me and was almost in awe that he had me but his actions he used silent treatment as punishment and that hurt there were other reasons like he wasn’t honest and sexually free so I had to distance myself
@@LorraineVesterink I had been struggling with my TF connection (as always) the day or so before finding your video & hope, now that I've found them, watching the others can give some more insight & help make more sense of this journey.
I really enjoy your content. It’s so sincere and you share parts of your journey that are similar to mine. I not only wanted to die when I went into separation with my twin, but I wanted to destroy the entire cosmos for allowing me to feel such devastating heartache. I felt so betrayed…. Other ppl on these channels never admit to feeling such despair so I appreciate your vulnerability. Thank you. I have experienced so much growth over these past SEVEN years spiritually and in the physical world. I thank him energetically all the time because my entire focus has shifted and it’s bc of his love and all of the success I used to dream of is finally falling on my lap bc of this overflowing love I have for him. I subscribed to your site and will start listening to the free webinars. Is the school available in English?
So great to hear this. The DNOTS and your immense growth during separations is a huge sign you are probably dealing your twin soul. The school will be available in English in one or two months. So stay tuned. You already can book a twin soul talk with one of our coaches. Send you love !
My twin flame was my first girlfriend as 14 year old kids I never asked her to be my girlfriend and she never broke the relationship but run away , I end up moving to other country for many years and I lived a very dark and sad life , I’m starting the journey right now , I’m changed
Hello! I’m new to your channel and felt like I’m drawn to your videos/messages. We have about 17 years gap, different cultural background/belief and no communication for months now. Is this common? Thanks!
I've heard many twin flames (not in union yet) talk about it.. I've never studied it. It didn't appeal to me, because I preferred to search the wisdom within with God, The Universe. Does that help?
@@LorraineVesterink thank you so much for reply. Imet a person whom I believe he's my twin flame. As came from nowhere but felt straight away like HOme. We are both married, not too each pthers so no in contact. Had huge dark period but then felt connected to my soul and my inner child like never before. Then recently had reading of this Akashic register and got told he is in fact a karmic. Big hige blow!
Hoi Lorainne, dank voor de waardevolle filmpjes. Ik weet dat ik een twinflame heb. Nu heb ik een vraag, kan er een groot leeftijdsverschil in de ander zijn? En dan bedoel ik 10 of 20 jaar? Warme groet, Roald🙏
3 years on and I’m still lost. His behavior doesn’t fit in to any of the classic groups, flags for twin flame and for karmic dark masculine, but everytime I let it go the universe doesn’t stop sending me signs about them.
This is exactly happening to me. I tried everything to escape him - prayer, healing , blocking on social media, calls etc etc but he haunts me still now.
I am the masculine energy in the bond. I am a woman with extremely wounded feminine energy, and although I am healing, my words and impulsiveness hurt him a lot and in some way I feel like I ruined him. He is a dream for me but I have never felt so afraid of a connection. I felt the need to expel him from my life to be able to live in peace because he sparked all my wounds. I thought I would forget him easily but I see his name everywhere, I see things that remind me of him all the time, and it feels like torture. He used to tell me “you are my person, but you are scared and it is not our time”… guess he was right. And yes… I blocked him like 63729 times 😩
I can imagine it feels that way. It might feel easier to run away to be sure you won’t get hurt. I decided only to run if I don’t like it but never run away from fear. That isn’t always easy….
SIGN 1️⃣ 2:06 omg he never called me in a bad way,or call me names,never,but by behaviour yes cause he’s triggering me a lot 5:57 his excuse is that I’m 18 years older an age gap is a blockage and his culture..he always says his mum wouldn’t accept me😢 SIGN 2️⃣6:32 yes I’m trying to love myself more and to be happy with myself…but I was already on my spiritual journey before I’ve met him but I still need to work on myself My previous long term relationship was toxic my ex was a narcissist..
I now I have a Karmic conection but I don t know how can I leave this connection because she leaves in my own block you know I think she drean my energie .. in fact I feel she is trying to put me down .. and envy my gifts . Thank you for all your time.. I know my Divine masculine choose me ..when I leave all mental lyers and fears.
Hi Lorraine. Thanks to your powerful content. So inspiring and educative. I believe I am in a TF connection looking at the signs you have mentioned. However, mine has been a bumpy ride and the ride makes me feel that I need to validate this connection with you. We met, fell in love and got married. However, we separated within 1 year of our marriage, We are still in touch and meet each other. We have been caring and understanding to each other more so post separation despite family issues and insecurities. I know he loves me still, he has shown signs plenty of times. While I have been chasing him since last couple of months, I failed doing the necessary healing I am supposed to. I started doing the healing when to my surprise he suggested the same at two incidences in the last 2 weeks - that I should work towards healing myself and self love. Is it possible for a TF connection to be married, get separated and come in union again? Would love to talk you in detail on this as I am really curious to know and need guidance. Thanks in advance!
@@LorraineVesterink By being guilty of unnecessary chase since last few 2 months, how do I take it forward now that I am investing completely into myself and self healing? also, there is a third party dynamic now on his side which is making it all the more trivial
Thanks, this is good advice for relationships in general. It took me a long time to get my mind back after nearly losing it, over what I believed to be a tf connection. I never want to feel that deluded again, but I still hope that I deserve good luck and genuine connections at this stage of my life.
Hello Lorraine and thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge. Can you please make a video about a twin flame unblocking? I don't think she has actually blocked me but we are not in contact right now. However I keep seeing signs everywhere, I see her in my dreams from time to time, I think about her all day everyday & I see the type of car that she drives all of the time! We also bumped into each other a couple of times during the last month and I can see in her eyes that deep down she still desires me as I do her. Please and Thank you again
@@LorraineVesterink I feel duty-bound to inform you that you have failed both the humour test and the authenticity test, Lorraine - and please try to remember that that which you seek to hide still remains within your life Review for later processing/balancing - bummer huh...
I am more confused now…. Not sure if it’s toxic… or not……it did look toxic in the beginning … but now after clearing my lessons of guilt, shame, and feeling offended looks like peaceful loving relationship ….just friends though
It can sometimes be difficult to distinguish, especially in the beginning! That's why I created this video. I would only give up on this possible relationship if you are absolutely certain that you are dealing with a karmic soulmate. Did this help you?
@@LorraineVesterink thank you for response…..I’m still not sure 100% …. it is strange but during this 2 years I came to like or even love the guy that I was annoyed with …. It seems like I let myself open and everything changed …I guess I have to trust my intuition … it won’t go beyond friends anyway and I feel like I do benefit from it by growing ….
Nice videos. I have a doubt. If one of the twin flames identifies the other person is our twin flame when he was in coma recovery stages, can the female twin flame had the power in bringing back the male TF back to life & in memory recovery.
If someone sees too many angel numbers den How to understand whether dat person is on spiritual awakening journey or twin flame journey….please answer.
Dear Lorraine…I didn’t find my twin flame yet… how can I manifest him in my life? It seems that many many people have found their twin flames already (despite being separated). How did it happen to you and all the people? Do I need to say out loud this desire? What can I do? I desire this so much!!! So much!!! Could you help me? Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
What a lovely energy you have and wow, you have described some exact issues I feel like I'm experiencing with a particular woman - there has been some indirect growth and I really do feel like this could take some time. This video gives me hope that perhaps this person could be...we shall see. 😊
We’ve only been together (not together) since November 2022, but it feels like years. I just realized about the not offending…neither of us have done it. I have told him on multiple occasions “I can’t stand you” but it’s in good fun. It’ll be when yet ANOTHER thing comes out that we have in common or we know what the other is going to say. The closest thing is recently I texted him “have I ever told you you’re a d***head? If not, let me tell you now” I felt he needed to hear that. And when I saw him, he confirmed he’d seen the text. Good. We weren’t hanging out that night, so we’ll discuss the “why’s” next time we’re together. But there was no weird or awkward moment..we hugged and kiss goodbye. I hate that I can’t hate him.
that's so funny.. and you are right! I always think that in myself about my tf.. I can't be mad at you... and he can't be mad at me and he is surprised about that... We are now very caring and loving to each other now... so we don't have to be mad anyway... 😘
❤ I met my twin flame he was my Elementary School Crush however I am married now and then doing my research I am in a karmic marriage because my husband even though he's a nice person but he threw me under the bus a few times and he just doesn't get in tune with me he's an emotionally unavailable and my twin flame is recovering from breast cancer knee surgery and he says he wants to wait for me but I want to not leave my marriage because of him which I want but or however I know I'm in the wrong marriage and I want to do it correctly so that I can read good fruit from what the fruit is that I will so and ending this relationship so I'm just playing it day-by-day but my twin flame is everything that love says it is when it comes to me🎉
Weer een fijne video ! Mag ik u misschien een prive bericht sturen, met een kopie van het laatste appje van mijn Twin voor onze seperatie ? Ben benieuwd of u dezelfde "hints" ziet als ik ☺️
Ha Jeroen, zoals je begrijpt hebben wij geen tijd en ruimte om te doen. We hebben daar wel een twin soul school voor opgericht waar je talks kan doen en de twin soul app etc!! Liefs
Hi Loraine!!! What is happening with me last 6 months i could not describe at first…But i found myself to search twin flame subject…And than after 5 years being single.Because i was fully focused about my own growing process even did not need anyone actually… Buy when i met that one girl something just destroy the lock on my heart and she went in already i could not help… But it did not happen at that time first When she also felt the feeling what i had…As you said on your previous video…The moments were like honey moon (i can call it paradise)… But i am being the divine feminine here just because i have broke the seal of 3D world 7 years ago and keep growing and doing my best to it…She knows everything in theoretically actually (we talked about it) but she fears to go in her own rabbit hole and be free…(She does also feminine side,but thats what she escapes.There is only one problem mu divinity is 50%50 feminine and masculine from my horoscopes elements.When she pushes the limit of my feminine divinity my masculine comes in and she steps back and escape,at the end of this journey we both will reach to balance the both sides of our divinities i guess) And Funny i broke all my NO’s with her and said to her i will marry with you but not yet as your twin flame told you… And it happened as you described,she escaped suddenly when there is no reason.And yeah it was painful with darkness too much but lucky i am that i put my life and my journey always on first so that the darkness process took short 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 But it burnt for sure 😊But the more it burnt i felt lighter…As you said the fears i had without i notice,she cleaned them she also doesnt know And one more thing…After i attached with her fully in all way and be one in that honey moon (paradise) moment…It cleaned all the darkness and negativity and the habits that i was spending time often got also destroyed by that light/love…It was like God touched my heart i can not describe it actually but i had this 7 years ago when i broke 3d world…They say 7 years cycle are important to catch and be awake… Anyway Loraine…As you mentioned many times nothing is coincidence…Me also finding your account and even typing this !!!! Actually i watched ur video earlier,and something pushing me to write this to your comments and i cant help it…Hope it helps for everyone Thx you for your lovely service for spreading light Loraine ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🕊🕊🕊
Hi loraine, how to know for sure if it is true your twinflame. Two and half years along with a lot of breakups, back together and so on. So much doubt all this time resides within me , as I have had codependancy issues in previous relationships
I discovered this is an inward connection... so if you think you are not worth more, then your twin flame acts accordingly... the dm always follows the df....send you much love.
@@LorraineVesterink thank you dear Lorraine, I understand what you are saying. and can post it too. I NEVER valued myself. NEVER worth being loved. wounds from childhood. which I have been looking at more and more in the past 2 years and whole. I also feel my dm more and more. and synchronicities are also coming more. I telepathically send him love and strength every day. and wish that he may begin to discover his spiritual path and live his best life as God intended for him whatever that may be. that I wish him happiness regardless of whether it is with me. i love my Twin Flame unconditionally! we live far from each other but he is so close to me energetically. ❤️
Hi maam, i had a few questions to say about tf journey… i hope you reply this may be a little long but would appreciate your insights…My questions and feeling on all of this is to start with The 5D - people talk about the intense energy you feel and the depth of the connection.. what if i didn’t feel them.. maybe not even a what if i just okay and even if i did what if after knowing it was tf i made it up what if it was all just extreme physical infatuation and lust and attraction that could be mistook for 5D which clearly if i dont feel so was the former itself like i just dont relate when people say some magical connection and all that our relationship was anyways in the beginning not tf like was always more like a situationship which already maybe is unhealthy and toxic which is what this is ig too cause what 5D feelings ? 2 years and if i have none maybe they don’t exist at all right? The spiritual growth and self love- i dont think i have had any to begin with i am clearly as you and i can and everyone else can see just fairly obsessing over this.. the part where they say surrender to god go closer to god yes he was my only solace in the pain but all i greedily asked was to bring this person back and when spiritual awakening happens you life apparently falls apart and nothing fits into your old life anymore reality seems different internally and externally so for me i moved cities because i got selected in different colleges both times during separation.. 1) this can be me running away and distracting myself so where is the awakening more like a karmic partner right and 2) how was life falling apart here? And why the hell would i wish that just so that this person is my tf that’s pathetic and makes me think if i think like that he cant be my tf to begin with…with the spiritual journey you grow self love think about your purpose your truth and not your tf like everything you thought of as real falls apart maybe one that can happen with any painful heartbreak so how is this any different and two very clearly i am still obsessing over my tf with as you can see no truth unravel or spiritual awakening or self love for self and also in the process criticise myself cause i feel unworthy and not a good daughter and sister and a greedy selfish obsessed person..this is clearly not self love and more obsessed towards the so called tf .. i am not meditating everyday.. more like crying every day holding on to this pain and waiting on him only in hopes if i let go i let go of all but i am forcing myself to be in the pain and feeling of absolute shit? Whereas i also dont really care? I cried today as to how god is great but I selfishly just want this one and only one person cause that was my source of happiness and now its no more there so where am I imbibing any form of self love i am just obsessing and whatever maybe little i do i do because i have read that it should be done so and this is how it is but if self love and spirituality doesnt come naturally to me then what is at all the point of this if i force it which i am and leave it which i do as proof of forcing maybe then in all action and truth he cant be my tf and me just holding on and wanting him to be is another very big sign he isnt and if i am not even open to the idea if maybe him being a karmic and somewhere i doubt it cause i know doubt is a sign he is my tf but all mu actions say against that and if i doubt only with the intention that he is or will be my tf and not open to the idea he could be anything else like an unhealthy toxic obsession which it looks so or karmic or nothing really means i am stuck and nothing else i am clearly asking for only validation and reassurance while hoping it makes me feel better with no true self love and i dont even wish to do it which means it cant be right?
Don't doubt yourself! You are not crazy. The real depth is not in your twin soul, but in connecting with yourself, learning to trust yourself, and the connection you have with the divine. Doubt delays receiving love! I also recommend you watch this video. ruclips.net/video/jfNxD9M0HtA/видео.html
I am afraid that even if I met my twin flame it would seem boring to me. Maybe I am not yet ready to be loved so much and harmony seems like I wouldn’t appreciate it.
Everything in life can be or seem boring, even being alone can be boring or not? You can create by affirming .... we have such a great and wonderful time together! Even in a twin flame relationship you have to plan fun things together, but it takes no effort. It will feel natural!
So I struggled with whether my DM was real or a karmic, because he would say awful, hurtful things to me and call me names. So he automatically failed this first sign, right? WRONG. We had a unique connection where we met on a BDSM site. I was fresh off 8 years of celibacy, and I was exploring my sexuality for the first time in almost a decade. He identified as a Dom and I identified as a sub. I had NO idea what I was doing, so I tolerated his treatment of me for two reasons- 1. I thought that's how it worked, and that I couldn't say no, and 2. I didn't want to stand up to him and risk losing him. So I put up with it. When I finally had enough and tried to put an end to it, I told him how I felt and that I didn't want to do this anymore. His response? "I thought that was part of our dynamic. I don't really think of you as XYZ." And I realized two things in that moment- 1. HE had no idea what he was doing, either- he thought being a Dom meant being mean. And 2., that this was one of my growth lessons- to stand up and say no to treatment I don't like. Looking back now, I think it's actually funny. We're still not in union, but the energy and dynamic between us has COMPLETELY changed. He still tries to act like a Dom, but he's no longer mean, and it just cracks me up now. He is SO OBVIOUSLY playing a role that he's got NO IDEA how to do. I can't wait for the day he finally admits to me that he never knew what he was doing. 🤣🤣🤣
1) your twin flame will never tear you down or hurt you on purpose. 2) Your twin flame will always encourage you to grow In a direct or indirect way. Every trigger is a blessing and bring you closer together.
oh yes
fucking true if you meet your twin flamme of course, me i meet my false twin and even its really rare i really never recommanded this experience . you need to be be fucking strong and in real inconditionnal love. now i do not know if i am now on the rare path of meeting my twin but if iwill, i definitively tell and teach people that this stupid new age concept to accept bullshit and toxicity is tottaly wrong!
as you i know twin flamme are love and in fact jesus parents was a twin flamme couple , thats the real shit.
@@LorraineVesterink and dont forget the false twin or the dark empath please , i have to deal 3 yearzs with my dark twin and its was horrible but the link and my unconditionnal love was at a level i never experienced before, i read some people say a false twin is there to activated the real twin, well we will see , but its definitively not an experience for everyone on this planet and i fed up people claim alltime now, wow i am with my twin flamme, for me its totally not true because no more soul can reach this level of empathy and love, you have to be super empath and even for super empath a dark twin is extremly hard to deal , but your soul heal really quickly ( the souls wounds , by the way i was healed when i was young by lise bourbeau in south france so allready i got luck but it wasnt enough thats why maybe this but i repeat its not for all )
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Often if they run or keep distance it's very much because they fear hurting you or getting hurt by you, and know they can't really provide what you want right now (and they can't anyway; everything you need is within your self). And that running/distance dynamic is what usually triggers an ego death/dark night of the soul to push the "divine feminine" into undergoing a spiritual awakening and align with their soul by letting go of the physical self and going on a spiritual journey. Then the "DM" tends to come back once the DF has achieved harmony/union within their self (the soul) as the physical is merely coming to match the spiritual. But putting any energy into the other self is just going to keep them running (as they operate on the opposite polarity of yourself) because everything you want from them is already within you, and to some degree they are you on a soul level.
When I'm with him there a sense of serenity, harmony and peace.
Your twin soul is within you. As within so without! If you are in touch with the god or goddess energy within, you are already united. The twin may or may not appear on a physical level. But what is physical? It's just energy. There is no being alone, you are never alone . Standing in awareness is the key, and spiritual practices such as inner alchemy and tantra reveal the truth of the matter. Of course I could expound at length, but this is not the time or place.
Exactly your twin soul is within you and will appear in the physical when you choose union from within. 💞 (And yeah... going at length is better on your own channel...).
@@LorraineVesterink PLEASE can you explain this more Lorraine. So did I "manifest" her out of my daily asking God to bring someone? Does whats going on inwardly effect what is happening outwardly with this person? Like we are both what the other asked for, but she isn't going for it. But there is too much mirroring of things and synchronicity and such. And I desire her in a way never felt before, like NEVER. Like God said you been through enough here's perfect now chill....So if this came from within, I can just let them go and find another like her? There is too much waves of emotion within me just thinking about her, like it's beyond my known levels, like other worldly. I don't know what to do. I need some clarity here. I don't even know how I got here, well...I do. I asked God for guidance and here I am. Like I've been having divine guidance for awhile, going through stuff. She is currently going through stuff too. But somehow we are helping each other guide the other through their own personal stuff. But she says she is just being a good friend, but the way we locked eyes when we first met, and all the other things. So just let it go, right. I can do it again?
@@ronheiland6250 Be a good friend back, what more could you ask for?
In astrology he is my karmic partner (venus conjuct SN) but he feels like a twin flame.I said this before I found out about our synastry. Can they be the same? or karmic is strictly karmic?
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I met my partner on the dance floor at a wedding of mutual friends. There was a strong push of divine energy to reach out my hand and take her dancing. During our first date i felt so harmonious with her, like we had already been together for years, i knew with certainty she is the one.
Ten years later we still have the same harmonious connection. We mirror a lot, both struggle with self love, but seeing it in each other helps us in the healing process.
Thank you so much for sharing your beautiful story. It gives me hope. 🙏🙏🙏💕🌈👼
Hi Loraine, I met mine in 2012 and he passed away in 2017. He taught me so many things and was so loving and selfless with me. We both knew our connection was unique even though at the time had no knowledge of twin flames. There are no words in human language to describe it. I still miss him so much but feel him everywhere and he is still looking after me. Btw, when we met I was 56 and he was 75. This made it all the more extraordinary because it was perfect timing even though to most it wouldn’t seem so. ❤
I am so sorry for your loss and so happy that you knew your man💞
@@LorraineVesterink thank you 💕
🌬️❤️💙💛💜💚... beautiful
@@ybscorpio41 thank you 💕
All the signs says he’s my twin flame and I know it + god gives me signs like so obvious
But I’m still confused if twin flames are real I know it’s real but I’m scared of being despondent
A lot of people also misunderstand the "twin soul" concept. It's not about ego or a romantic relationship. It's a union to be of higher service to humanity.
True ! And I noticed that if you see it like that then your tf wants to be with you in stage 8
Romance can be part of it but yes higher purpose is for service to humanity
I think many confuse the twin flame signs with narcissist traits because the context of each dynamic are really similar. The running and chasing phase runs close with bread crumbing. Someone only giving small bits of love or returning to get what they need out of you is not love. I myself have often thought the one of the purposes of the twin flame journey was recognize unloving behaviors in order to love and respect myself better, learn boundaries and appropriate behavior from people around me. There is too much literature about twin flames where I believe the information is beginning to border on gaslighting and causing a belief system that accepting the narcissistic abuse is a twin flame connection. That inter-relation and knowing the difference opened up a big fat wound and revealed a narcissistic relationship in my life. One that I did not see coming. So let me leave you with this… if you firmly believe you are a twin flame (and you are reading and taking this comment seriously) research the signs of a TF connection and compare with narcissistic abuse. Understand that your true TF will not intentionally hurt you, but a narcissist will. Write in a journal and document if you need to, it’s worth comparing and understanding the difference. Because had that similarity not been pointed out to me, I would have been stuck in a very unhealthy and vicious cycle without a means to get myself out. Best of luck on your souls journey. The TF is an incredibly deep connection with yourself, and I truly hope you find yourself. As within, so without.
I am not confusing it… a narcissistic person will never give you the love you need. A twin flame does
@@LorraineVesterink I never implied you were confusing it. I offered a possible insight to how it can cause confusion. I feel it is important to consider how the signs of a TF connection and narcissistic abuse appear similar on the outside, especially to those unfamiliar with both twin flames and narcissism.
Your comment is congruent to mine. A true twin flame does not cause intentional hurt or pain, and I believe I said that. The love that one needs is self love. Yes, that is the purpose of the twin flame, I’m not disagreeing with you. But I also included a personal experience about how the comparison helped me start a plan of getting out of an unhealthy dynamic I am currently. I’m encouraging reflection and research.
Another big distinction between TF and narcissistic abuse is that a TF runner/chaser dynamic will likely trigger you into an ego death/dark night of the soul, and you just have a knowing that they aren't gone for good. And they typically come back (if they're meant to) after you align with your soul (or higher self) which is also them. I suppose if a narcissistic abuse cycle is traumatic enough that could also trigger an ego death out of necessity, but Twin Flames come in and then leave in an explosive fashion for a reason, and often TFs will go through this phase multiple times until the "DF" chooses to give up *or* they surrender to the spiritual awakening and pursue the journey that their soul/God/the universe has been trying to set them on through the triggers and ego death(s). Then the "DM" comes back to join them (if they're meant/choose to considering free will and all that) because the physical level comes to reflect what's been achieved on the spiritual level.
@@Sorenthaz Yes definitely! Twin Flame journey is a soul growth until soul maturity is reached. It is up to the Twin that recognizes the connection to do their part, whatever inner work that entails. I love your insight about what is achieved on the spiritual level is what is reflected on the physical level. I'm going to save that!
Thank you for your comment. I had 3 Dark night of the souls. The second one happened about 6 weeks ago. I seen everything that that Narc had done and was doing to me. Wow incredible that I took that toxic abuse for 3 years. The brain fog was powerful consumed my thoughts. I found out last week he had been having an affair with my friend. I knew he was being unfaithful but I did not know with who. She probably was not the only one either. He made me so sick physically and mentally I lost 15 kilos in 3 weeks from his energy draining vampire fest he was feeding on me to survive I had no idea. I am a Heyoka Empath I have just found out. And last night I met my twin flame he looks like me. He knew what had just happened I was in complete and utter shock. He even knew the Narcs name and we live in different countries. Now Ive found him. Whether we form a relationship or not is for the future. But he appeared. It says your Soul family and twin flame will appear after being in Karmic Narcisistic relationships. And your Soul family will appear. 🆘❤️
He has NEVER said an unkind word to me in 2.5 years. I have said many mean things to him before I started awakening.
@@stace222 me too, me too. but whatever label it is, i learnt my lesson to not let my emotions choose my words, so i'm still grateful👍🏼
I don't chase. I attract. Karmic has no way at all to contact me. I made sure of that. Unhealthy. However I have learned lessons from this brief connection.
My first time to comment here. And it is so timely coz I am being triggered to doubt again my connection with my twinflame. Perhaps my angels led me to see your video. I've been in separation. So many trigger moments and yes you are right I can only be grateful when I recall those times.
Thank you, Lorraine. Thank you.
You are so welcome. Every trigger is a blessing and brings you closer together! If you mirror it ! Much love.
2024-The year he chose me.😂 We made our new family with his two and my two all living together happier than we thought possible.🤞🙏
I have a TWIN FLAME 🔥🔥. We met 1990. We worked together on our RADIO 📻 station 95.7 BEN FM tune us in. After 33 year's apart. With perfect successes. I'm going home to him home to HIM.
Next month. We love each other very, very much!❣️
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Thank you for this. I was holding on to someone I saw as a soulmate. Now I see him as a karmic and feel satisfied with that. Time to shut that door.
then a new door will open 💖
Indeed, after that experience, I was directed here to grow. Thank you for this relieving explanation. It has opened my eyes.
He never insulted me, and he had always encouraged me to do better in my career. Even my own parents never encouraged me that way. However, that time when I was triggered 😢 I was the one who had bombarded his phone with tons of messages asking him answers for my questions. My tone was harsh and rude at that time, I was engulfed in anger. But I was always sweet and funny and comfortable with him before. So maybe I'm not the twin flame? 😢
Now I recognize the toxic and narsistic relationships in my life. I see and feel it now crystal clear. I release now alk the strings, pains and trauma wounds of all the toxic karmic and narsistic relationships in my life this life and past lives.
Today I set myself free.
My twinsoul is in my life always. I am in perfect union with my twinsoul. My own Devine sacret femenine is in wholeness I'm in full alligment with my highest frequency of my soul, I am body my soul essence fully embraced in the pure sacret Devine femenine in complete wholeness in alligment with my inner goddess and Devine priestess that I am. I am my soul. I am in full alligment and embodiment with my core essence of being. 💜🙏 Knowing and feeling this right now is pure Devine timing and the biggest gift of the universe today for me to receive all I prayed for this night💜🙏
I wish my twin flame would say “You’re my dream woman but not now”. At this point I’d be happy with that. The most I got was “I love you only as a friend”
Omg, same with me and my bf, who i start to believe he is narcissist, but he never really said anything to put me down, but worse, i think, his actions did... running away, blocking me for couple of months every time we have an argument that he creates by his actions and makes it look like it happened because i ask too much from him. Which i never did. That only in his blurred mind!
Anyway, i now let him go, and i try to convince myself he is not good for me. I still can't define if he is a flame or a manipulative narcissist:(
But i feel good 👍 😌
Love and light to all of you, beautiful souls!
I don't wanna hurt you, you seem to be a beautiful women ❤ but I once read true twin flames can't be friends there energy won't let it be that way. That's a way u can tell for sure hun. Who knows maybe it was wrong, but I want u too find your true love and not wait. It's not fun waiting for someone if they have no real interest.. God bless you hun
Truly you are beautiful women ❤😊
@@schase6007 The energy between us wasn’t giving “just friends” vibes. I sense this is just part of the 3D illusion. Intuitively I feel that he does love me too, the same way I love him. I find that DMs do tend to be in denial.
It would just be nice to have the confirmation for once. But I know a lot of things now that I didn’t earlier on in my journey. And part of that is not needing the external confirmation.
That can't be your twin flame, just because you like them. Twin flames have a mutual attraction to themselves.
You can't just claim someone as your twin flame, and be angry they don't feel the same way or reciprocate.
🤯 I was just thinking to myself a few days ago "I love that my guy triggers me, because it makes me grow" 😯
Yess!! Every trigger is a blessing and brings you closer together... that makes triggers less worse...
While watching this video, I cried because I proved that I am really in a twin flame connection. Thank you so much for this knowledge!!!
You are so welcome!!
My twin soul is Marianne Williamson, can't understand why I could receive such a beautiful woman, it's God, he is real
Her book 'return to love' helped me tremendously when my twin flame and I separated after the bubble love phase!!
Bubble love, I rate far better revues than that, I'm a man of love, not a monk, or pope,
is it me or anyone else noted the length of video..Angels are always at point to direct at least me..Thank you God..keep going guys...😍🙏🙏🙏
I have a lot of karmic relationship in my life. I also have karmic debt. So many lessons to learn.
Thank you so much Lorraine. Your energy always captivates me in a good way 😊🍀
What you are describing is Limerence and Trauma Bond. It's magical thinking to assume someone is a fragment of yourself, and to tolerate mixed signals, waiting out life for someone who is just stringing you along (or said no, and you keep pushing for something).
If this is your reality you are always right... We are happier than ever and also lots of our clients.. that's no limerence, I also had that believe.. this must be limerence... but with your karmic you share the same wounds.. and when you resolve them you don't want to be with them anymore. With your twin flame you share the same soul DO want to be with them and you will get closer to each other!
@LoVe by Lorraine NOT true.. what you believe in and what's actually true are two different worlds! I learned that firsthand..
There may be genuine TFs/soulmates, but it's a horribly ingenious cope to think that someone not into you is really running from the intensity.....
Limerance is often one sided with unrequited love and is unhealthy because people haven't done any healing and it doesnt promote healing. TF is where two healed people attract one another in a soulful connection that isn't like any other love. It sounds like you haven't experienced TF. TF is healthy not unhealthy.
I'm so elated over finding your channel 😃 I've always wanted to understand a twin flame soulmate and I never really had anybody to explain that as well as you and give examples and there's a channel on it! Which is Absolutely Awesome❤❤❤
Thank You
You are so welcome ❤️
THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR YOUR COMMENTS ON TWIN FLAMES, THEY WERE VERY UPLITING ! 😊
You're very welcome! 🦋💖 Many people tend to put the Twin Flame concept on a pedestal, making it seem special and complicated. However, we're just ordinary individuals in an unconditional love relationship that continues to flow once you allow it into your life. This morning, I woke up next to my Twin Flame. As I looked at him, I couldn't help but think, "After 10 years, my love for you still flows so strongly. I enjoy him so much! Every day anew.
Point number two hit me like a balloon of hearts!! That's the game changer point for me! The growth without even trying it just happened because we were together and then apart and my heart broke but it broke open into my divine feminine empress energy ❤️
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@Quirini Copie oh wow!!! That is so beautiful!! I have full body goosebumps right now! Head to toe! Thank you for sharing that with me ❤️
I discovered your channel today with this video. And I feel I was led to you. Everything about this video Resonates with me. My DM has inspired me to follow through my goals and work for my own stability. In the past, when he ran from me and then when he returned, I was angry with him, I did say some mean things to him. But you're so right about them never saying anything mean. He's always heard me out, withdrawn so that i cool down and returned. There's so much I could write about what I've experienced. Thank you for posting this video. Many blessings ❤❤
Good to hear🙏🏼🦋💞
@@LorraineVesterink Sending you love and light 🙏💕
😩😂😂😂🤦🏽♀️I said some mean things too girl 😩 I kinda wanna take it back but I had to get it off my chest. Normally when I act out he would do the same thing. Retreat and in hopes I’ll calm down. But he would just leave me alone and be in his head about what I said . No action. It’s been 6 months since I seen him and I miss him so much. We’ll be together soon
Thank you for explaining this twin flame journey. I've being waiting for my twin for almost 2 years now I always thought why cant I get this person out of my head hopefully 1 day we can come together
You will if you turn hoping into knowing💕💕
@@LorraineVesterink can you enlighten what do you mean by knowing we will come together? Do we have to manifest that we are already together?
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About 3 yrs ago my tf angrily told me he had a lot to do, he was not ready for me. I wish I had kept reminding myself of this, it would have saved me a lot of heartache !
We understand… the good thing is: You know it now. There is only now💫💫💞💞
Hi. I really wanted to share my story too. Its been two years since I met my twinflame. Since then I haven't been attracted to anyone and the thought of even thinking of being with someone else is unpleasant because I don't think I can ever love someone like I love him. But we have been separated since forever. We are close friends but we don't meet or talk much but we do know each other from depth. Whenever we met, it was like a huge ball of energy bursts and we forget there's a world outside us. I usually telepathically know what he's up to and the spiritual growth is real. i haven't been this healed and happy before. yes we are still in separation but I feel the growth everyday. The thing that actually bugs be a little is that, he has been dealing with his karmic situation. today he told me they broke up but he's heartbroken. At times like this, I really cant help but to doubt if he really loves me or not. but deep down I know he does but when will he just start healing himself so we can move forward together to the union? I just really hope my unconditional love will always support him. no matter what.
Might he be a karmic?
Good luck to you
Thanks to Universe that this video reached my feed❤
I really needed these confirmations, thank you so much for making this video💖
🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️
I ran from my twin flame, 5 years later he ran. 8 years later he and I know we’ll be together someday but the timing is wrong right now because we each have obligations we can’t escape from
I trust our connection ❤
Beautiful! Trust the universe, trust love, trust your connection, trust yourself and trust yourself. Trust = key.
😅 Everything suddenly clicks! As the pieces in a puzzle!
I reached out to a common friend, when my twin suddenly went no contact with me. My twin and I had not yet engaged in intimicay, but we both felt the strong bond between us. Now I started doubting everything. Especially since I've been in some ugly relationships before.
Our common friend (who is highly spiritual just like my twin) said to me: You must get this old narcissist mindset out of your head!
She recommended a bunch of videos on narcissists and at first I was terribly confused. I thought I had worked through all of this. And despite me feeling hurt I still couldn't make it fit in with my twinflame, who had always been kind, respectf and caring towards me.
After viewing this video I'm giggling: Our friend probably saw that this is a twinflame situation.
Thank you so much for this informative video I'm just beginning to learn about the different connections and I appreciate you sharing your life experience as well. Much love and respect ma'am ✌️❤️🕯️
Glad it was helpful! Welcome 💞
Lorraine u are a beautiful soul thank u for your kind words
Hello there is a woman I see every now & again. She is very attractive & most guys find her attractive. I don’t really have romantic feelings towards her but every time I see her she always looks down . I do feel however that there is some connection because I feel a sense of calmness when I see her something I don’t feel very much with other women.
You give me really cool aunt vibes
Mam ,what if Df trust on Dm lost? because Dm don't realize yet, Will Df give him Second chance , he didn't verbally insult but he prirotize himself & just go away without any kind of reason, he blocked me at first, he just run , I confess my feeling to him but again no any direct reply just return my chocolate & the note.
No doubt his each act trigger me, I realized my love for him & Even I started taking care of me he teach me self love , but its really irritating to feel stuck as i can't accept him as I have trust issues that he can leave me whenever he want, but it rally difficult to get him out my mind but I give my all effort, my mind says he is not good for me my heart taking favour of him.
I don't know but from now onwards I am just going to focus on myself,I wish he feel what I feel, just think of all the coincidence happen between us which we just can't ignore like no matter where we meet each other, same colours cloths almost every day. 😅 I wish he realized but I don't know what should i do if he come back as it's not easy to trust I just don't want to go through that pain, If it was lesson I believe i learned it. ❤
Stop looking outside yourself for your tf. You ARE whole and loved already.
Exactly!
This is true until you’re triggered badly and hurt by them over and over. And yes. I’m a twin flame . Unfortunately my twin lied to me broke up with me and went with a karmic again. Long story , but was not my finest moment and I’m ashamed of the things I said to him. Really awful things I had never ever said or would have during the 10 years I’ve known him. I reached a point in my journey I guess that I was just worn out from triggers . So d now and sorry . Though don’t know how I’ll ever get over it . I went really nuts , but god help me I felt pushed beyond my limits . The numbers 555 kept showing up so I knew I was in for somthing .
555 means change is here! When we change, our mirror soul changes too!!
After five tough years, I learned to let go of what kept me from my twin flame.
Are you ready to do the same? Welcome to our channel!
If this isn't for you, that's okay. I hope you find what you need.
Much love.
Thank you unfortunately he suddenly was gone. We were living together and he got back with a karmic . He said he knows we are tf but I’m too old for him now talk about a trigger!
Thank for your messages, you are very sweet..
I never got an 'I love' you, just 'I m not in that vibration' and after 7 years that we were without someone else, and I was 'the One' and sacred as he had say and dont block me, he chosed someone (else) and opened the door of his house besides his heart, and they are living together for almost 10 months.
I saw him with her on the 9th of December 2022 and he sent a message telling me that our choises dont matter !!
So he satisfies his desires and needs with One Else..
I dont believe anymore in the Twin Flame staff..
💕💕💕💕
That's your reality now and it was the reality of many. twin souls before... but you can change it, if you really want this !
@@LorraineVesterink Thank you for your answer.
Dont I have to respect his choise?
Maybe this choise is a karmik to teach him a lesson.
How can I interrupt a karma?
If he had said anything close to “you’re my dream woman” I’d have been fine to wait, but he didn’t even say he liked me. He just said he wasn’t ready and proceeded to date everyone else.
Don’t compare! Every journey is different. This doesn’t happen to every one. It’s just an example. In my connection many bad things happened where I don’t talk about an you would be happy that it didn’t happen in your connection! If you feel that he’s your man. Go for it!!💞
Holy shit! ♥️✨ Thank you!
What a lovely channel you have, hope many more people will find it. Love and light
Thank you so much !
My false twin was very supportive and it didn’t bring us closer at all. He never tore me down like ever he adored me and was almost in awe that he had me but his actions he used silent treatment as punishment and that hurt there were other reasons like he wasn’t honest and sexually free so I had to distance myself
Shalom Much love ❤️ Kingdom Blessings to you and yours ❤️ 🙏
Such a pleasant surprise
❤ glad to have found your channel
A twin can have narcissist characteristics towards a karmic but not towards the twin😊
well said!!
Thank you for this video, I somehow needed to see this today
You are so welcome!
@@LorraineVesterink I had been struggling with my TF connection (as always) the day or so before finding your video & hope, now that I've found them, watching the others can give some more insight & help make more sense of this journey.
Thumbs up ... for your log cabin 😍
I really enjoy your content. It’s so sincere and you share parts of your journey that are similar to mine. I not only wanted to die when I went into separation with my twin, but I wanted to destroy the entire cosmos for allowing me to feel such devastating heartache. I felt so betrayed…. Other ppl on these channels never admit to feeling such despair so I appreciate your vulnerability. Thank you.
I have experienced so much growth over these past SEVEN years spiritually and in the physical world. I thank him energetically all the time because my entire focus has shifted and it’s bc of his love and all of the success I used to dream of is finally falling on my lap bc of this overflowing love I have for him.
I subscribed to your site and will start listening to the free webinars. Is the school available in English?
So great to hear this. The DNOTS and your immense growth during separations is a huge sign you are probably dealing your twin soul. The school will be available in English in one or two months. So stay tuned. You already can book a twin soul talk with one of our coaches. Send you love !
@@LorraineVesterink Thank you for taking the time to reply. I appreciate the information. Happy Sunday 🥳
My twin flame was my first girlfriend as 14 year old kids I never asked her to be my girlfriend and she never broke the relationship but run away , I end up moving to other country for many years and I lived a very dark and sad life , I’m starting the journey right now , I’m changed
I know one man is a karmic to me. He even had synchronize on his phone one morning as am email he is the karmic for sure.
Hello! I’m new to your channel and felt like I’m drawn to your videos/messages. We have about 17 years gap, different cultural background/belief and no communication for months now. Is this common? Thanks!
Yes, very common!
Do you believe in the Akashi registers saying for sure you are on a twin flame journey?
I've heard many twin flames (not in union yet) talk about it.. I've never studied it. It didn't appeal to me, because I preferred to search the wisdom within with God, The Universe. Does that help?
@@LorraineVesterink thank you so much for reply. Imet a person whom I believe he's my twin flame. As came from nowhere but felt straight away like HOme. We are both married, not too each pthers so no in contact. Had huge dark period but then felt connected to my soul and my inner child like never before. Then recently had reading of this Akashic register and got told he is in fact a karmic. Big hige blow!
Thanks Lorraine for your videos! Can I be someone’s twin flame but they’re not mine? I’m very curious.
In my opinion you are one on a soul level! Can a someone be your brother but you are not his sister?
Hoi Lorainne, dank voor de waardevolle filmpjes.
Ik weet dat ik een twinflame heb. Nu heb ik een vraag, kan er een groot leeftijdsverschil in de ander zijn? En dan bedoel ik 10 of 20 jaar?
Warme groet, Roald🙏
Zeker! Daar is ook een video over op dit kanaal…
Dank je voor je reactie, ik ga deze opzoeken@@LorraineVesterink
3 years on and I’m still lost. His behavior doesn’t fit in to any of the classic groups, flags for twin flame and for karmic dark masculine, but everytime I let it go the universe doesn’t stop sending me signs about them.
the signs!! you will see them everywhere... I changed it by focussing less on the signs and more on my true desires!
This is exactly happening to me. I tried everything to escape him - prayer, healing , blocking on social media, calls etc etc but he haunts me still now.
Outta topic but you’re really pretty. :)
Thanks 😅 There are some days that I look not that bad:))
@@LorraineVesterink you’re welcome
I am the masculine energy in the bond. I am a woman with extremely wounded feminine energy, and although I am healing, my words and impulsiveness hurt him a lot and in some way I feel like I ruined him. He is a dream for me but I have never felt so afraid of a connection. I felt the need to expel him from my life to be able to live in peace because he sparked all my wounds. I thought I would forget him easily but I see his name everywhere, I see things that remind me of him all the time, and it feels like torture. He used to tell me “you are my person, but you are scared and it is not our time”… guess he was right. And yes… I blocked him like 63729 times 😩
I can imagine it feels that way. It might feel easier to run away to be sure you won’t get hurt. I decided only to run if I don’t like it but never run away from fear. That isn’t always easy….
I think I have found mine 😊
❤️
SIGN 1️⃣ 2:06 omg he never called me in a bad way,or call me names,never,but by behaviour yes cause he’s triggering me a lot
5:57 his excuse is that I’m 18 years older an age gap is a blockage and his culture..he always says his mum wouldn’t accept me😢
SIGN 2️⃣6:32 yes I’m trying to love myself more and to be happy with myself…but I was already on my spiritual journey before I’ve met him but I still need to work on myself
My previous long term relationship was toxic my ex was a narcissist..
very good!
I now I have a Karmic conection but I don t know how can I leave this connection because she leaves in my own block you know I think she drean my energie .. in fact I feel she is trying to put me down .. and envy my gifts .
Thank you for all your time.. I know my Divine masculine choose me ..when I leave all mental lyers and fears.
Hi Lorraine. Thanks to your powerful content. So inspiring and educative. I believe I am in a TF connection looking at the signs you have mentioned. However, mine has been a bumpy ride and the ride makes me feel that I need to validate this connection with you. We met, fell in love and got married. However, we separated within 1 year of our marriage, We are still in touch and meet each other. We have been caring and understanding to each other more so post separation despite family issues and insecurities. I know he loves me still, he has shown signs plenty of times. While I have been chasing him since last couple of months, I failed doing the necessary healing I am supposed to. I started doing the healing when to my surprise he suggested the same at two incidences in the last 2 weeks - that I should work towards healing myself and self love. Is it possible for a TF connection to be married, get separated and come in union again? Would love to talk you in detail on this as I am really curious to know and need guidance. Thanks in advance!
Yes !!
@@LorraineVesterink By being guilty of unnecessary chase since last few 2 months, how do I take it forward now that I am investing completely into myself and self healing? also, there is a third party dynamic now on his side which is making it all the more trivial
I was married to him and separated during the first year as well. Yeah tf get married and divorce too.
I let go of it easily....
Great video ❤️
Thanks, this is good advice for relationships in general. It took me a long time to get my mind back after nearly losing it, over what I believed to be a tf connection. I never want to feel that deluded again, but I still hope that I deserve good luck and genuine connections at this stage of my life.
Of course🌸💞💗
Hello Lorraine and thank you for making this video and sharing your knowledge. Can you please make a video about a twin flame unblocking? I don't think she has actually blocked me but we are not in contact right now. However I keep seeing signs everywhere, I see her in my dreams from time to time, I think about her all day everyday & I see the type of car that she drives all of the time! We also bumped into each other a couple of times during the last month and I can see in her eyes that deep down she still desires me as I do her. Please and Thank you again
will do that... for now.. assume he didn't blocked you and that he's thinking about wanting to send you a message!
Hi lorraine!! Ik zag 80 000 views!!wowww gaat goed ❤❤❤
seperation sickness is worse feeling
I know!!!
I have a question for you Lorraine - what is the difference between love and light???...
love = light... light = love
@@LorraineVesterink I feel duty-bound to inform you that you have failed both the humour test and the authenticity test, Lorraine - and please try to remember that that which you seek to hide still remains within your life Review for later processing/balancing - bummer huh...
@@TerryBlake-c1j thanks for your information😘
@@LorraineVesterink You are most welcome, Lorraine - may your path be free of all negative karma - :-) :-) :-) ...
I am more confused now…. Not sure if it’s toxic… or not……it did look toxic in the beginning … but now after clearing my lessons of guilt, shame, and feeling offended looks like peaceful loving relationship ….just friends though
It can sometimes be difficult to distinguish, especially in the beginning! That's why I created this video. I would only give up on this possible relationship if you are absolutely certain that you are dealing with a karmic soulmate. Did this help you?
@@LorraineVesterink thank you for response…..I’m still not sure 100% …. it is strange but during this 2 years I came to like or even love the guy that I was annoyed with …. It seems like I let myself open and everything changed …I guess I have to trust my intuition … it won’t go beyond friends anyway and I feel like I do benefit from it by growing ….
Nice videos. I have a doubt. If one of the twin flames identifies the other person is our twin flame when he was in coma recovery stages, can the female twin flame had the power in bringing back the male TF back to life & in memory recovery.
Solved 🙏🏻👍🏻
If someone sees too many angel numbers den How to understand whether dat person is on spiritual awakening journey or twin flame journey….please answer.
Thank you so much💐💐💐
Most welcome 😊
I have already 7 years my twin flames jurney
I'm first time here :) do we have more than one twin flame?
most of us only have one...!
@@LorraineVesterink thank you! :)
Dear Lorraine…I didn’t find my twin flame yet… how can I manifest him in my life?
It seems that many many people have found their twin flames already (despite being separated). How did it happen to you and all the people? Do I need to say out loud this desire? What can I do? I desire this so much!!! So much!!! Could you help me? Thank you so much!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Decide you will meet him and you will! Very soon!
@@LorraineVesterink 🥲 I love you!!! Thank you so much!!!!!!!!
Alright so I gotta keep growing…. Oof okay. Man that’s all I ever do… but it’s worth it. 😅 he’s a QT and so am I! 🥰
You got this!
Hoi Lorraine , 100% herkenbaar
Keep up the good work !🙏🏼
Thank you! Will do!
What a lovely energy you have and wow, you have described some exact issues I feel like I'm experiencing with a particular woman - there has been some indirect growth and I really do feel like this could take some time. This video gives me hope that perhaps this person could be...we shall see. 😊
Thank you 🙏🏼 your name is pronounced like mine ❤I spell mine Lorén.
That’s nice, nice to meet you♥️
We’ve only been together (not together) since November 2022, but it feels like years.
I just realized about the not offending…neither of us have done it.
I have told him on multiple occasions “I can’t stand you” but it’s in good fun. It’ll be when yet ANOTHER thing comes out that we have in common or we know what the other is going to say.
The closest thing is recently I texted him “have I ever told you you’re a d***head? If not, let me tell you now”
I felt he needed to hear that. And when I saw him, he confirmed he’d seen the text. Good.
We weren’t hanging out that night, so we’ll discuss the “why’s” next time we’re together.
But there was no weird or awkward moment..we hugged and kiss goodbye.
I hate that I can’t hate him.
that's so funny.. and you are right! I always think that in myself about my tf.. I can't be mad at you... and he can't be mad at me and he is surprised about that... We are now very caring and loving to each other now... so we don't have to be mad anyway... 😘
❤ I met my twin flame he was my Elementary School Crush however I am married now and then doing my research I am in a karmic marriage because my husband even though he's a nice person but he threw me under the bus a few times and he just doesn't get in tune with me he's an emotionally unavailable and my twin flame is recovering from breast cancer knee surgery and he says he wants to wait for me but I want to not leave my marriage because of him which I want but or however I know I'm in the wrong marriage and I want to do it correctly so that I can read good fruit from what the fruit is that I will so and ending this relationship so I'm just playing it day-by-day but my twin flame is everything that love says it is when it comes to me🎉
Thank u 💓
Thank you
My twin flame/soul mate has such an age difference of 16 years! Is that possible?? 🤔
He is so patient with me, never screams, he's gentle with me.
yes, there often is an age gap!
Oh wow!🙂👌Thanks 👍 😃
The person I thought was my twin has the same birthday as me, even the same year! But he broke up with me
@BlessingsfromBridget Oh no! Sorry to hear that 😞
Hi Lorraine
Weer een fijne video ! Mag ik u misschien een prive bericht sturen, met een kopie van het laatste appje van mijn Twin voor onze seperatie ? Ben benieuwd of u dezelfde "hints" ziet als ik ☺️
Ha Jeroen, zoals je begrijpt hebben wij geen tijd en ruimte om te doen. We hebben daar wel een twin soul school voor opgericht waar je talks kan doen en de twin soul app etc!! Liefs
@@LorraineVesterink Geen probleem haha. Ik zal eens kijken naar de app, fijne avond !
Hi Loraine!!!
What is happening with me last 6 months i could not describe at first…But i found myself to search twin flame subject…And than after 5 years being single.Because i was fully focused about my own growing process even did not need anyone actually…
Buy when i met that one girl something just destroy the lock on my heart and she went in already i could not help…
But it did not happen at that time first
When she also felt the feeling what i had…As you said on your previous video…The moments were like honey moon (i can call it paradise)…
But i am being the divine feminine here just because i have broke the seal of 3D world 7 years ago and keep growing and doing my best to it…She knows everything in theoretically actually (we talked about it) but she fears to go in her own rabbit hole and be free…(She does also feminine side,but thats what she escapes.There is only one problem mu divinity is 50%50 feminine and masculine from my horoscopes elements.When she pushes the limit of my feminine divinity my masculine comes in and she steps back and escape,at the end of this journey we both will reach to balance the both sides of our divinities i guess)
And Funny i broke all my NO’s with her and said to her i will marry with you but not yet as your twin flame told you…
And it happened as you described,she escaped suddenly when there is no reason.And yeah it was painful with darkness too much but lucky i am that i put my life and my journey always on first so that the darkness process took short 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
But it burnt for sure 😊But the more it burnt i felt lighter…As you said the fears i had without i notice,she cleaned them she also doesnt know
And one more thing…After i attached with her fully in all way and be one in that honey moon (paradise) moment…It cleaned all the darkness and negativity and the habits that i was spending time often got also destroyed by that light/love…It was like God touched my heart i can not describe it actually but i had this 7 years ago when i broke 3d world…They say 7 years cycle are important to catch and be awake…
Anyway Loraine…As you mentioned many times nothing is coincidence…Me also finding your account and even typing this !!!!
Actually i watched ur video earlier,and something pushing me to write this to your comments and i cant help it…Hope it helps for everyone
Thx you for your lovely service for spreading light Loraine ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🔥🔥🔥🕊🕊🕊
Thank you so much for sharing !! Welcome to our channel!
Hi loraine, how to know for sure if it is true your twinflame. Two and half years along with a lot of breakups, back together and so on. So much doubt all this time resides within me , as I have had codependancy issues in previous relationships
You can always book a twin soul talk with a coach... !
His accrued pension and stability in Germany was worth more than his love for me and his greatest wish to have a family of his own. 😢
I discovered this is an inward connection... so if you think you are not worth more, then your twin flame acts accordingly... the dm always follows the df....send you much love.
@@LorraineVesterink thank you dear Lorraine, I understand what you are saying. and can post it too. I NEVER valued myself. NEVER worth being loved. wounds from childhood. which I have been looking at more and more in the past 2 years and whole. I also feel my dm more and more. and synchronicities are also coming more. I telepathically send him love and strength every day. and wish that he may begin to discover his spiritual path and live his best life as God intended for him whatever that may be. that I wish him happiness regardless of whether it is with me. i love my Twin Flame unconditionally! we live far from each other but he is so close to me energetically. ❤️
Hi maam, i had a few questions to say about tf journey… i hope you reply this may be a little long but would appreciate your insights…My questions and feeling on all of this is to start with
The 5D - people talk about the intense energy you feel and the depth of the connection.. what if i didn’t feel them.. maybe not even a what if i just okay and even if i did what if after knowing it was tf i made it up what if it was all just extreme physical infatuation and lust and attraction that could be mistook for 5D which clearly if i dont feel so was the former itself like i just dont relate when people say some magical connection and all that our relationship was anyways in the beginning not tf like was always more like a situationship which already maybe is unhealthy and toxic which is what this is ig too cause what 5D feelings ? 2 years and if i have none maybe they don’t exist at all right?
The spiritual growth and self love- i dont think i have had any to begin with i am clearly as you and i can and everyone else can see just fairly obsessing over this.. the part where they say surrender to god go closer to god yes he was my only solace in the pain but all i greedily asked was to bring this person back and when spiritual awakening happens you life apparently falls apart and nothing fits into your old life anymore reality seems different internally and externally so for me i moved cities because i got selected in different colleges both times during separation.. 1) this can be me running away and distracting myself so where is the awakening more like a karmic partner right and 2) how was life falling apart here? And why the hell would i wish that just so that this person is my tf that’s pathetic and makes me think if i think like that he cant be my tf to begin with…with the spiritual journey you grow self love think about your purpose your truth and not your tf like everything you thought of as real falls apart maybe one that can happen with any painful heartbreak so how is this any different and two very clearly i am still obsessing over my tf with as you can see no truth unravel or spiritual awakening or self love for self and also in the process criticise myself cause i feel unworthy and not a good daughter and sister and a greedy selfish obsessed person..this is clearly not self love and more obsessed towards the so called tf .. i am not meditating everyday.. more like crying every day holding on to this pain and waiting on him only in hopes if i let go i let go of all but i am forcing myself to be in the pain and feeling of absolute shit? Whereas i also dont really care? I cried today as to how god is great but I selfishly just want this one and only one person cause that was my source of happiness and now its no more there so where am I imbibing any form of self love i am just obsessing and whatever maybe little i do i do because i have read that it should be done so and this is how it is but if self love and spirituality doesnt come naturally to me then what is at all the point of this if i force it which i am and leave it which i do as proof of forcing maybe then in all action and truth he cant be my tf and me just holding on and wanting him to be is another very big sign he isnt and if i am not even open to the idea if maybe him being a karmic and somewhere i doubt it cause i know doubt is a sign he is my tf but all mu actions say against that and if i doubt only with the intention that he is or will be my tf and not open to the idea he could be anything else like an unhealthy toxic obsession which it looks so or karmic or nothing really means i am stuck and nothing else i am clearly asking for only validation and reassurance while hoping it makes me feel better with no true self love and i dont even wish to do it which means it cant be right?
Don't doubt yourself! You are not crazy. The real depth is not in your twin soul, but in connecting with yourself, learning to trust yourself, and the connection you have with the divine. Doubt delays receiving love! I also recommend you watch this video. ruclips.net/video/jfNxD9M0HtA/видео.html
LOVE FROM THE ARCHAIX FAMILY 💚138...
I am afraid that even if I met my twin flame it would seem boring to me. Maybe I am not yet ready to be loved so much and harmony seems like I wouldn’t appreciate it.
Everything in life can be or seem boring, even being alone can be boring or not? You can create by affirming .... we have such a great and wonderful time together! Even in a twin flame relationship you have to plan fun things together, but it takes no effort. It will feel natural!
Twin flame journey is definitely not boring 😂
So I struggled with whether my DM was real or a karmic, because he would say awful, hurtful things to me and call me names. So he automatically failed this first sign, right?
WRONG.
We had a unique connection where we met on a BDSM site. I was fresh off 8 years of celibacy, and I was exploring my sexuality for the first time in almost a decade. He identified as a Dom and I identified as a sub. I had NO idea what I was doing, so I tolerated his treatment of me for two reasons- 1. I thought that's how it worked, and that I couldn't say no, and 2. I didn't want to stand up to him and risk losing him. So I put up with it.
When I finally had enough and tried to put an end to it, I told him how I felt and that I didn't want to do this anymore. His response? "I thought that was part of our dynamic. I don't really think of you as XYZ." And I realized two things in that moment- 1. HE had no idea what he was doing, either- he thought being a Dom meant being mean. And 2., that this was one of my growth lessons- to stand up and say no to treatment I don't like.
Looking back now, I think it's actually funny. We're still not in union, but the energy and dynamic between us has COMPLETELY changed. He still tries to act like a Dom, but he's no longer mean, and it just cracks me up now. He is SO OBVIOUSLY playing a role that he's got NO IDEA how to do.
I can't wait for the day he finally admits to me that he never knew what he was doing. 🤣🤣🤣