Agree with everything except for the 4th one. Persuasion is a dance and you have to follow the tempo of those you are interacting with, but in a manner that feels and seems natural, which takes practice
I agree. People doesn't really have one default personality. Everyone are always adapting. And to get a good job or be more likable people has to adjust.
Well, I do everything of this. I am not even respected among people. They are usually treat me like nothing. Nobody is interested in my personality either. So, it is not always the case, guys) It is also depens of the ground of people you are currently in, and also depens of YOU and the things you don't see about yourself. Those "magic tricks" are the aspects inherent a charismatic person, but they won't make you magnetic for everyone.
True. It's not 100% on YOU. I'd say that at least half of it is on the person with whom you're interacting. Most people are generally receptive. But if that person is a goddamn piece of SHIT, then yeah you're obviously not the one with a problem that's them
Sometimes you are wrong, if you met that kind of person, because you couldn't beforesee that and leave this person. So not whole responsibility is on him/her) Some people tend to blame everyone for their sadness and mysery. I don't tell that everything is on YOU (100%). More likely YOU ARE the case, because you let someone treat you terribly.
@@iuoutugene No, I agree; I distance myself from nearly anyone who would treat me in such a way, if there's nothing for me to gain out of it. But my twin flame, who is the person I had in mind when I said that, is an exception. The way he talks down to me is completely unacceptable, but I tolerate it for now because he is dealing with deep wounds from childhood that are going to heal with time. Part of me absolutely adores him, and I'm not sure how to feel about it. 🤔 But I just go with it, because I know he really does love me. He just doesn't know how to express feelings. But he'll figure it out.
Step 1: do research ;Name-calling alters a child's inner world. Feelings of worthlessness, depression and a loss of control are not unusual when a child suffers in the company of their schoolmates. Some victims turn to suicidal ideation; others express major shifts in their moods
It's gotten to the point that I genuinely don't know how NOT to wear the mask. I'm pretty sure I've MERGED MY INTRINSIC BEING WITH the mask. It's awesome 🤣 No one can tell me what to do anymore
@@Noir0rioN Honestly, I don't find it scary. To me, what's scary is whom I used to be. 🤣 That's what's scary. I love the person I am nowadays. Wouldn't have it any other way. 😁
*Instructions Unclear* : I Smiled, said Hi Lola, are you okay Lola? How’s your day going Lola?, waiting for her response which was “umm good thanks..?” I then proceeded to cry my eyes out as my true authentic self is a Miserable Man. She ran, and she ran away *FAST* Can you blame her though?
#2 doesn't work on me from my experience when ever someone says my name in my head I'm thinking of oh crap they want something or I have to do something it's like hearing my own name makes me cringe.
You are the outlier bro. Most people definitely love the sound of their own name being called, especially in a group conversation because you help them stand out
Hearing my full name make me cringe a bit since my name is quiet weird. I live in Indonesia, half chinese, but has a western name 😅 But i guess calling people by their nicknames would do, not just calling them with "hey" or "dude"
No. 1: smile when you smile people perceive you as someone who is friendly and trustworthy and smiling also puts you in a positive mood and people can pick up on that energyy... No. 2: call people by their names doing this make people LIKED VALUED AND RESPECTED No. 3 listen more than you speak instead of just talking about yourself give your full attention to the other person No. 4 be what you are instead of trying to change your personality to impress others be your true original self
Yeah I've got asd so most of this is my social tactics but as I'm deaf in one ear and a I'm a chatter box I'm totally useless at listening people more than I talk to them but the next time I see them their always pleased with my attention to details when asking follow up questions related to whatever we last talked about!
well then that means I'm naturally charismatic because I do that already. I was wondering because when I came to my family reunion my father told me that so many people were asking about me, and I was the most popular one there when I got there. also sometimes I am surprised at the nice things I discover that people say about me when I'm not around....event tho I just being myself.. I never saw myself as charismatic because I can be introverted after I interact with people. I thought I was just too nice and awkward..I'm not insecure anymore, I own my awkwardness....but this tells me that I am charismatic. It doesn't matter to me personally, but I want to be better as far as business and I want to make the best of it. I also enjoy bringing possible energy and positivity into others lives.
Not everyone can be a manipulator, even if the tricks seem simple. A manipulator is often a product of our imagination, shaped by how we perceive that person. Be careful, as they are rarely as real as we think.
I do all of these naturally, but I still feel like my social skills are shit. And also, the reason I listen more than I speak is not to be charismatic, but because I’m afraid of talking too much and being annoying, so I just listen.
Its not about role playing or adapting to the atmosphere its just about being yourself naturally it is precisely because understanding how difficult it is that it becomes even more interesting. ~Ayanokoji
Just writing this to remember 1.Smile when meeting someone 2.Say their name in conversation 3.Listen more and get info about them to keep the conversation longer 4.Be yourself
1. smile *smiles with a scary thing behind it* 2. call people by their name *simple* 3. listen more *almost doze off* 4. be yourself *draws my oc not paying attention to anyone* -_-
My das is an ex salesman...And the least knowledge I've gathered from him acknowledges the points mentioned in the video are some of the most essentials of Marketing. But yeah except for the last one mentioned.
Please help me How manipulate people bully I am tired let people doing this of me I don't know because I am so kind so please help me, I don't want have feelings or love I don't need this anymore and I am serious
Yes message delivered however what anime is that he uses all the time I know one of them is death note but which one is this It makes the whole message authentic 😅
I don't smile much as I have teeths that don't look normal and have due to this it looks very bad smile. Also I had accident on my forehead near eyebrows so it looks I am in timid mood but I am not, uts near eyebrows area and if you look in a certain angle it looks I am in timid mood also your front camera from mobile makes it a different look.
Be yourself So i am very talkative guy who talks a lot , like have hijacked a conversation ,but according to previous rule , talk less listen more so how can i aplly both of them
![MISSING: SLIM SHADY [Expanded Mourner’s Edition Trailer]](http://i.ytimg.com/vi/xh8qgHrOO1g/mqdefault.jpg)
Step 1 : Leave your home and go to public conversations.
😂
OMG I WAS JUST ABOUT TO SAY ,NOW ALL I HAVE TO DO IS JUST BE BRAVE ENOUGH TO LEAVE MY HOUSE.
That is the most difficult step 💀
@@cata2.091 real
@@cata2.091 fax
“The name is the sweetest thing someone can hear..”
My mother calling my full name.
😂😂😂😂😂
That's when you know you're dead.
@@NinaNoel-ze9yg exactly
Same too
💀
i could just tell from ur content that you’ve read “how to win friends and influence people” it’s a great book about psychology, i’d highly recommend
Where to get it
I already read these principles in book (How to win friends and influence people )❤
Me to
The best book for tomioka
@@ranjaysingh2425😂😂
" A persons name is the sweetest sound or the worst sound they can hear"
~me after reading quote
Yeah like your name getting yelled by an authority figure
Guts yelling Griffith💀
@@KaneLane-zg9qe mom yelling your full name 💀
@@sigmaBALLS123 you just know something bad is about to happen
I can’t “act” a smile. It’s just wrong. With me, it’s, “what you see is what you get.”
Death note and monster are both amazing and well-written shows. A very nice choice of background
Which anime is in the background
@@Y0uTubeFuRy Death Note
@@Y0uTubeFuRyIts mostly Monster, The blonde guy is Johan liebert from Monster
Agree with everything except for the 4th one. Persuasion is a dance and you have to follow the tempo of those you are interacting with, but in a manner that feels and seems natural, which takes practice
I agree. People doesn't really have one default personality. Everyone are always adapting. And to get a good job or be more likable people has to adjust.
The second trick will always work as long as you'll not use it to me.
"A person's name is the sweetest thing they can hear."
Someone in my room calling me by my name at 2:47am:💀
Bro..introduced the book "How to win friends and influence people"😅❤
This dude's videos are so useful that I've liked almost every of his videos
Your name is the sweetest sound you can but not when you are home ALONE
@@richardbisnauthshhhhhh
It's like his name is youtube not American xd
My ass psychology tricks, in the first place they don't act smiling, they truly smile from their heart
Well, I do everything of this. I am not even respected among people. They are usually treat me like nothing. Nobody is interested in my personality either. So, it is not always the case, guys) It is also depens of the ground of people you are currently in, and also depens of YOU and the things you don't see about yourself.
Those "magic tricks" are the aspects inherent a charismatic person, but they won't make you magnetic for everyone.
So true❤i feel for you...
True. It's not 100% on YOU. I'd say that at least half of it is on the person with whom you're interacting. Most people are generally receptive. But if that person is a goddamn piece of SHIT, then yeah you're obviously not the one with a problem that's them
Sometimes you are wrong, if you met that kind of person, because you couldn't beforesee that and leave this person. So not whole responsibility is on him/her) Some people tend to blame everyone for their sadness and mysery. I don't tell that everything is on YOU (100%). More likely YOU ARE the case, because you let someone treat you terribly.
@@iuoutugene No, I agree; I distance myself from nearly anyone who would treat me in such a way, if there's nothing for me to gain out of it. But my twin flame, who is the person I had in mind when I said that, is an exception. The way he talks down to me is completely unacceptable, but I tolerate it for now because he is dealing with deep wounds from childhood that are going to heal with time. Part of me absolutely adores him, and I'm not sure how to feel about it. 🤔 But I just go with it, because I know he really does love me. He just doesn't know how to express feelings. But he'll figure it out.
Step 1: do research ;Name-calling alters a child's inner world. Feelings of worthlessness, depression and a loss of control are not unusual when a child suffers in the company of their schoolmates. Some victims turn to suicidal ideation; others express major shifts in their moods
Its fun wearing mask (metaphorically)
It's gotten to the point that I genuinely don't know how NOT to wear the mask. I'm pretty sure I've MERGED MY INTRINSIC BEING WITH the mask. It's awesome 🤣 No one can tell me what to do anymore
@@Ms.JingleBerriesyeah-it gets scary after a while. To where, sometimes, you don't even know who you are anymore.
@@Noir0rioN Honestly, I don't find it scary. To me, what's scary is whom I used to be. 🤣 That's what's scary. I love the person I am nowadays. Wouldn't have it any other way. 😁
The mask will become yourself after a while. No one really has one default personality. Human always adjust and adapt
*Instructions Unclear* : I Smiled, said Hi Lola, are you okay Lola? How’s your day going Lola?, waiting for her response which was “umm good thanks..?” I then proceeded to cry my eyes out as my true authentic self is a Miserable Man. She ran, and she ran away *FAST*
Can you blame her though?
Thank you for the well put together video
People : trying to understand
Me : Watching Johan Liebert and Light Yagami In Background 😅
„To become interesting, be intrested“
This dude’s videos are so useful that I’ve liked almost every of his videos
#2 doesn't work on me from my experience when ever someone says my name in my head I'm thinking of oh crap they want something or I have to do something it's like hearing my own name makes me cringe.
You are the outlier bro. Most people definitely love the sound of their own name being called, especially in a group conversation because you help them stand out
Hearing my full name make me cringe a bit since my name is quiet weird. I live in Indonesia, half chinese, but has a western name 😅
But i guess calling people by their nicknames would do, not just calling them with "hey" or "dude"
Thanks for your help God bless you ❤❤❤❤❤
the anime background is so nice
Its The monster
No. 1: smile when you smile people perceive you as someone who is friendly and trustworthy and smiling also puts you in a positive mood and people can pick up on that energyy...
No. 2: call people by their names doing this make people LIKED VALUED AND RESPECTED
No. 3 listen more than you speak instead of just talking about yourself give your full attention to the other person
No. 4 be what you are instead of trying to change your personality to impress others be your true original self
Well said, that's me after all 😊
Yeah I've got asd so most of this is my social tactics but as I'm deaf in one ear and a I'm a chatter box I'm totally useless at listening people more than I talk to them but the next time I see them their always pleased with my attention to details when asking follow up questions related to whatever we last talked about!
I agree with all except the last point for personal reasons
Step 5 be your self, step 1,2,3,4 leaves the room
Ikr
Just few lines from """""how to win friends and influence people """"😊
True very true smile and be open and listen be yourself and listen very interesting wow.
I stay in my room 24/7 im already the most and least charismatic perosn in the room
are you an introvert?
@@Yuri-nc9vl kinda, I really want to have more friends tho but I get anxious about social interactions
Same
well then that means I'm naturally charismatic because I do that already. I was wondering because when I came to my family reunion my father told me that so many people were asking about me, and I was the most popular one there when I got there. also sometimes I am surprised at the nice things I discover that people say about me when I'm not around....event tho I just being myself.. I never saw myself as charismatic because I can be introverted after I interact with people. I thought I was just too nice and awkward..I'm not insecure anymore, I own my awkwardness....but this tells me that I am charismatic. It doesn't matter to me personally, but I want to be better as far as business and I want to make the best of it. I also enjoy bringing possible energy and positivity into others lives.
The last tip is the best :)
Not everyone can be a manipulator, even if the tricks seem simple. A manipulator is often a product of our imagination, shaped by how we perceive that person. Be careful, as they are rarely as real as we think.
If i be myself i don't smile,call my friends by their nicknames and i hate listening to some people talking because i can feel when someone lies.
10/10 BE YOUR SELF STAY HARD
How to win friends and influence people by dale Carnegie
Plz make a video on how to know your authentic self?
It is simple but quite unbreakable
This is all really good advice, but you also gotta say something that meaj something and make an impact on everyones lives.
#2 can't work on me because I can't remember anyone names 😢😂
I do all of these naturally, but I still feel like my social skills are shit. And also, the reason I listen more than I speak is not to be charismatic, but because I’m afraid of talking too much and being annoying, so I just listen.
I love when my name is called out in The Hunger Games ❤🎉🎉❤❤
Its not about role playing or adapting to the atmosphere its just about being yourself naturally it is precisely because understanding how difficult it is that it becomes even more interesting.
~Ayanokoji
If I were to be myself 😂 everyone☠
Eye contact its important
Step 1 ayanokoji be like 😐
I called principal by his name... Trust me it works 😳
Can you do some for women
"A person's name is the sweetest sound they can hear"
Me when my mom calls me by my full name: 💀💀💀
Name of the song?
Alien flame-shometyle
i all ready do this
Smile because its the Sunnah of Prophet PBUH❤
Okay I'll do this from now and lets see what happens...
Just writing this to remember
1.Smile when meeting someone
2.Say their name in conversation
3.Listen more and get info about them to keep the conversation longer
4.Be yourself
But my smile is annoying 😅
bro just read thebook how to win friends and influence people
Thank you ❤
Teachers?? I'll start calling my teachers by there name now
Gemini be like: we have so many personalities
Lmao
Im a virgi
I'm currently doing these..❤❤
Good advice ❤
(while showing a psychopath in a popular anime...)
1. smile *smiles with a scary thing behind it*
2. call people by their name *simple*
3. listen more *almost doze off*
4. be yourself *draws my oc not paying attention to anyone* -_-
I know number three well. All I do is listen and never talk.
📛 Background music name pls 📛
Alien Flame-Shomestyle
As an Indian when my parents call me by my name it is a death threat
Video 💀💀
Music 🗿🗿
Video with music 🎶 💥💥🥶🥶☠️☠️
rule no.1: smile
but rule no.4: be yourself
what a paradox
what if someone's character is serious
i am totaly confused should i smile like johan liebert or should i have to give no reaction like ayanoukoji
Go outside and touch some grass first instead of being an edgy loser who wants to be like fictional characters
i do exactly opposite of these. because i never want any kind of attention
No. 1 : Be Yourself and care for your loved ones & fuck others they are gonna adjust
I would smile but my teeth look so bad and I really need to get them fixed
My authentic energy is straight up dark , & so i keep my fake personality on....!
My das is an ex salesman...And the least knowledge I've gathered from him acknowledges the points mentioned in the video are some of the most essentials of Marketing.
But yeah except for the last one mentioned.
Please help me
How
manipulate people bully I am tired let people doing this of me I don't know because I am so kind so please help me, I don't want have feelings or love I don't need this anymore and I am serious
Whole lot of Dale Carnegie influence in here lol, this is all in how to win friends and influence people
Smiling is sunnah
The Joker 🃏 😊
Bro listen can you combine all these rules only in one video
i already do all of this
But my true self never smiles
Backgroud music
Bullseye 🎯 Amen 🙏🏻 ✝️🤍🕊🌟🦋🌈
Righ well said
Charismatic meaning pls
So, the narcissists learn all of their nasty ways to damage nice and loving people?
I can't fake a smile.
In this video sharing tricks mean indirectly telling us to change from being ourselves wow😂😂😂
Yes message delivered however what anime is that he uses all the time I know one of them is death note but which one is this
It makes the whole message authentic 😅
My authentic energy includes not smiling what do i do 😭
Now i am the rizzler
Manga name ?
“Monster” I guess
I don't smile much as I have teeths that don't look normal and have due to this it looks very bad smile. Also I had accident on my forehead near eyebrows so it looks I am in timid mood but I am not, uts near eyebrows area and if you look in a certain angle it looks I am in timid mood also your front camera from mobile makes it a different look.
But when my mom calls me by full name 😝
I have no "myself" seriously, i change my characteristics depending on the person infront of me
Be yourself
So i am very talkative guy who talks a lot , like have hijacked a conversation ,but according to previous rule , talk less listen more so how can i aplly both of them
Instructions unclear, I called my dad by his name during dinner and it didnt work out so well.
They can't handle the original me 😈
How can i be myself i don't really know it ?