If He Disappeared or Ghosted After Lovebombing You - Here’s What to DO (hint: it’s not about him 💚)
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- Опубликовано: 29 сен 2024
- If a man is coming on really strongly…almost lovebombing you…
Chances are high that you’ll feel really good! Especially if you’re anything the anxious type, or someone seeking validation or just want to be loved.
I know it feels good - because this was me in the past (and one of the reasons why I now have the mission to help women get out of or end these kinds of situations).
What you need though if he disappears…is not him…💛
Lmk in the comments how this works for you!
x Eva
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Sometimes the trash takes itself out. Honestly. 🤷♀️
True. 🩷
That man is a NARCISSIST. RUN as fast as you can. That is a main tip.
🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️🏃🏽♀️ Dealing with him sets you up for heartbreak 99.99%of the time. It’s all about his ego
Remove them immediately after giving it a little time to gain your own clarity.
Yes. Whatever is needed to keep ourselves sane 💛
This happened to me last year. I ended up cutting him off altogether bc I couldn’t deal with the inconsistent emotions, it confused me & always had me on edge. I didn’t like that. Haven’t seriously dated anyone since then bc it p!ssed me off so bad and hurt my feelings.
I absolutely get that. Worst case it can actually add to create an insecure attachment for the future. It IS hurtful. Yet we can heal with loving & tending to ourselves and a new dating strategy ❤️ you’re awesome thank you for sharing
Geez, this is so rampant. Happened to me recently. He wanted to get me into bed after we met, the fact I said No and then the disappearing act tells me that I was wise, ladies make a guy earn your body as they will lie and manipulate a weak woman. Shame on him as he knew that I recently lost my father. Seriously F him!
This just happened to me . I wasted months of my life for this loser . He found me when I was weak, and I fell for BS. Never again .
I know, it sucks…🥺 that’s why the self love part is so important to our healing. Personally, it happened to me more than once until I healed that part of me and started to show up differently in relationships, both the one with myself & with men 🩷 thank you for being here
@@carmelafernando7823im so sorry to hear that. Big hugs.
As a man listening to it and relating to it....
Once confessed to a girl my love after 7 years of being connected closely...
She was not committed to any body and said that she do not want to bring disrespect to her family by getting into these things at the moment...
I agreed.
However...another guy from her college by his very "bad guy tricks" was able to convince her for the same.
She still wanted me as one of her best friends and I simply ghosted her.
Yes, as you said, she tried various means to contact me....but the price of breaching my trust has to be paid anyways....
Women indeed are complex to be understood.
They do not like good men...they like men who pretend good....
Just block
Loving the love and compassion for ourselves... and giving ourselves all the importance about allowing the feelings to come up and take care of our needs and our selves... rather than the individual that generate the feelings .. its tricky ... but it feels good to empower ourselves getting clear about our feelings that rise with the situation.
Yes…you got it ❤️ it’s easy to say “just forget” … but a part of us will still be very hurt & confused so this helps reclaiming our power.
Wow beautiful aya 😘 I love you
Thank you 🙏
current situation.
So sorry to hear that. How are you feeling? Sending you love
@evaellycoaching just taking it 1 day at a time.. doing a lot of self care and self love.
❤👍
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If a man is treating you especially well, why not just enjoy it...just don't read anymore into it...if you are treating him fairly and not taking advantage of him and not making promises you aren't going to keep, then your conscience will be clear...
I was ghosted then found out he had a new gf.
Ouch 🥺 so sorry to hear that. How are you doing now…?
@@evaellycoaching well at least I now why. I'm ok but feel betrayed and I'm trying to improve myself.
I now know why.
@@gabriellewhalley1328 I know how you feel it is excruciating. I’m sorry you had to go through that
P r o m o S M
So true ❤