alhumdulilah, I feel blessed that my husband and I were able to marry at a relatively young age. We were 19 and 20 years old. We have increased in deen together, and duniya. All glory is due to Allah, Al-Haadi, who guided us.
Mashallah, may Allah bless you both. May Allah grant me a righteous husband as soon as possible as well, Im 26 and its really hard out here. SubhanAllah
I became Muslim before #YusufEstes I was also in my early 20s. Got married after practising for a while and learned the basics. Marriage is work and commitment. Think about ur future children and choose a good spouse even if he's not rich or very handsome but you like him 😊 Pray 'stikhara' b4 u make up ur mind about a person. Even if ppl get divorced some time later it's not a sin. You should still behave decently especially for ur children's well being.
I couldn't agree with you more...my wife and I decided to remove our three children from public school. Alhamdullilah, all three of our kids are now home schooled.
While I can't say I'd do that to my kids, I can definitely respect your decision, public schools in most countries are very bad, I've sent my kids to private school, it definitely hurts my budget but for their future I think it's worth my current situation.
To be honest, I saw some of brothers who got married at their 19th and some neighbor girl who got married at 18 and their marriage failed. Now I realized that these marriages could've easily been successful if both sides were in ome page when it comes to deen, but still it drove me back from thoughts of marriage. There is definitely other factors as well, and I personally know brothers who at the same circumstances kept their marriage. But in the end, not understanding our religion well made me forgot about this for now. I'm 23 now and Insha Allah I'll do my masters, but if I can find a muslimah who has strong emaan and knowledge of her deen I'm ready to step into real adulthood. And may Allah reward you for your efforts to call us to the good.
Salaamu alaykum ustadth. Im a 52 yr old salafi who has been married for 23 yrs and you are 100% on point keep up the good work for the sake of Allah. Jazak Allahu khyran
Allah may take care of you, but Muslims today aren't like before. "The Game" has infiltrated our ranks, and now, Muslimahs want the same traits in men disbelieving women want, and Muslims want in women what is idealized in women through media. Hypothetical example: I don't want to raise someone else's kids, and I don't expect a Muslimah to want a man that is inexperienced with women.
@@ManhaJSalafee asalam alaukum im man salafi alhamdolilah i wanna to marry not problem if you have kids but i wanna serious woman with hijeb pray afraid allah This my number whatsup 00212638791419
very true. i went to an all girls school in high school but in middle school the environment was very hard to be around and you do get influenced sometimes. but alhamdulilah my mom instilled in me to always be proud as a muslimah
Saajid, u really opened my eyes; I'm always saying I won't get marry until I get a better job or opportunity , but I'm realising now that I'm getting older . Greetings from Tunisia :)
mashaAllah a very good video, you are quite right in saying thst Islam has made things easier for us, its we that make it difficult by adding our terms and conditions on to the matter, jazakaAllah for spreading a good word
salamu alaikum akhi, I found this talk very beneficial and filled with haqq.i married my wife knowing she wasn't religious ie didn't pray often or fast the full month of Ramadan excetra.I didn't care much because I wasn't fully devoted to my Deen either meaning holding down my five pillars.now I'm 30 she's 25 and we have been married for 3 years of i have alhumdulillah become devoted to my Deen and bettering myself and now she doesn't pray at all subhan Allah and didn't fast one day in the month of Ramadan.Now I feel so separated from her and it saddens me that I didn't marry for her Deen as prescribed by our prophet saw.
Akhi if it has been that long then I think it's best that you move on. Any longer can put your Deen at risk !! If you really have been giving her naseeha from the beginning till now, and she still doesn't PRAY (Pillar of ISLAM btw...) then Wallahi you can do so much better.
You need to be patient and practice your nassiha and da’wah towards her softly. It’ll take time.. don’t forget, she could have been the one who became devoted to the deen instead of you.. don’t let her down. You married her knowing that and you were like her. May Allah swt help you achieve your goal!
you were at a low point of your deen as well. the religious are for the religious, that's kinda how it works. The same way you slowly became religious, your wife can too. Just advise her often. If after years of trying it's too much, then go to a sheikh or smth and sort it out in shaa allah
Couldn't agree more, it's really sad to see young muslim teens from as young as 16 stop losing hope in keeping chaste untill mariage just because the endgoal(marriage) feels so far away. These are issues that need to be spoken about more really
Good god you are all as brain dead as him. The picture he paints is rubbish. Islam is for people with no self control You have to be ruled by an evil draconian set of rules to be able to behave like decent human beings. God help you all..
Why are there so much rape and domestic violence in Islamic societies? Those stats are available too. In many cases, women are too scared to come forward. Our Ummah is far from clean in this matter. Maybe it has nothing to do with Islamic or non-Islamic societies. Maybe it has to do with many millennia of men oppressing women.
i dont know why non muslims have to comment on each of our videos its nothing to do with you guys go away we dont need you ....your not welcome here because you come here with intensions to make fun ....but in real your making fun of your own selves .... .ALLAH is great ......end of story
Golden words right here! Its so frustrating how muslim parents delay marrying off their kids. The pros of marrying young (warding off fitnah which has become overwhelming in modern times) far surpasses the cons (having an actual career).
islam is a religion that incorporates logic alhamdullilah. wisdom is found after analyzing any piece of guidance in the Quran and sunnah. great video as usual
the marriage that is islamic nikkah gives honour to spouses for graceful relationship. you cant just do something bad and be at the back or quit without treating somebody in the most humane way. Nikkah even allows a women and man to have relationship while they can progress in their career and help and support one another with love. Brother i totally agree with all problems of society but their should be more awareness platforms, people even the muslims do not thoroughly understand the eases they are blessed with bcoz they donot study Quran
Sheikh we have a lot of communities in America that get married very young. Unfortunately the track-record is very poor. Very common to find teenage divorcees and people going through a number of marriages by their early and mid 20's. Often times this creates a lot of turmoil and particularly the young women rebel against the deen at this point thinking it is the only means to a stable life. The flipside of course is those waiting until they're much older, but the reality is for most of those who grew up here they'll be dating in that time period and their parents will have minimal influence on them. Those with stronger parental influence are those you'll most often see married in their 20's.
BaarakaAllahufeek, I'd love to know more about the specifics of this because I've never really heard about brothers & sisters getting married as teenagers in the U.S. or their experiences, seems like an important thing to learn from. Also I love your Muslim Tapes series, please keep em coming insha'Allah, jazakaAllahukhair.
Umar Lee Big problem is the lack of real commitment and they have to work harder on the marriage instead of fighting. We had sisters and brothers literally punching each other in their car outside the masjid on Eid! That was a smaller masjid in Montreal 25 yrs ago. Ppl maybe need to leave behind their Jahiliyah ways b4 marriage is even considered?
We would have to raise our children from very young ages to expect to be married while young in order for this to work. As is, we raise OUR sons and OUR daughters, forgetting we're raising someone else's wife or husband, leaving them unfit to marry at any age. Because if this phenomena, and the encroachment of western materialism and feminism into the Muslim community, I had to tell my son to prepare for the eventuality of never marrying, as nowadays we imitate all the negative traits of non-Muslims and feminism has gone haywire. But if he does marry, he must tell his kids at a young age to be responsible enough to marry, or they'll fail and divorce no matter what age they marry.
Assalamu alaykum I personally think it has to come from parental guidance, sadly parents are failing to teach their children in many factors, talking to the children whilst growing up is a must and I really feel society has an affect but the home life has to be firm, consistent and no compromising of the Deen. Many parents safeguard children upto a certain age and then let them go at teenage years, these years they need the parental control the most. Relationship development is so important. Parents really need to fear Allah and stop blaming society. Actually what these kids are doing under the parents roof is unbelievable. Contradiction of the Deen from the parents is a big factor and is confusing our youth. We are following the non Muslim in so many factors. May Allah guide us all. Aameen.
Haq upon Haq upon Haq akhi. If only those born into Islam could see it the way most converts do.... There is no harm in men and women marrying in college even if they can't afford to move out together. Just like non Muslims have girl friends and boy friends who visit each other's houses every weekend or whatever... Why can't Muslims do the same by marrying each other? Why such taboo? inshaAllah we need to not repeat the mistakes of our parents with our children. Excellent video mashaAllah.
Ma Shaa Allah. You right brother 💯. Subha a Allah I got that book while ago although it's translate French. It's. Amazing to to see how different we are male and female
afwan there are many different books from the scholars that are way better than the book men r from mars... and it's translated into English. Rights of the Spouses by Sh. Ruhaylee, Concise Marriage Manual by Sh. Uthaymeen n more. that's better for us as Muslims to avoid books on this topic from Non Muslim Authors Allahu Aliim jaza ka Allahu khairan akhii for the efforts
I agree with you brother,but many people complicated this issue. I hope Muslim brothers and sisters understanding theirs relegions it's not complicated it's easy take it easier!!!! Money and materialise is not all in life.... Thank you brother.
I pray that Allah opens the hearts and minds of those who seek to save their selves and their families from destruction in this life and the next. This is no joke! Brother Saajid, بارك الله فيكم
As a 16 old living in Saudi Arabia, I can tell you that this extends problem far beyond the US. Now of course Saudi Arabia has laws and a society that go by Islamic rules that facilitates the life it dictates for Muslims, but through the west's shows and anime and manga from japan, we get exposed to this the life style you mentioned. I can only speak for myself but the result is utter hatred for the religion, from the heart, and how conservative it is. It's like I have missed out on a far more rich, fulfilling (to some extent), interesting, fun (to a good extent) and dynamic life because of the society the religion has brought about. All the while not truly finding religion as false so as a result being further in pain for hating on it.
That is absolutely true, even in the Arab world and in Saudi Arabia it is hard now unfortunately to get married, society epically in big city doesn’t accept marriage for young men and women, girls and their parents want her to live in a palace, men want to marry extremely beautiful women and this is the only thing they care about. Then when they reach to their 30s they start regretting their decisions, why not before?
Parents are accountable for all that the youth are going through. And it does not help in the Arab culture where parents are always thought of as right.
Assalam Alaykoum brother, well spoken, when it comes to polygamy in USA, the brothers are using Islam to used and manipulate the sisters, they barely have enough to take care themselves, most of them have this records that the wife have to be dealing with for the rest of her life, the brother needs to work for about 12 hours a day, no time to even give the wife her Intimacy right, sometimes 1 time a week or 2 weeks, Howe in the world Islam can Allow that brother to have more than one wife? When the first wife don't have 10% of her right, they need to lower their gaze , man have they answer from Allah, they cheating because they want to have different women all the time, I know Muslims with 3,4 wives and still cheat, remember when some man use to have 40 wives before Islam, they can't satisfy all those 2,3or 4 wives, not in USA, sisters will never forgave them for not providing all their rights
@@GNALENKonate72 That's right, So I suggest brothers save up their money for a year or two and move to a country like Egypt where the dollar goes a lot farther and make a business so they can have enough money to do what they want and afford to give the rights to their wives.
From my personal experience, I can say that only those who have a really high "iman" along with a great chance (because it doesn't all depend on us), jump into marriage when young and without being rich or with a good salary. Most of us, me the first, are terrified of fear of facing such a thing as marriage, without really possessing the financial means already. Often then, it is the brides and their families who are terrified of accepting a young man who does not have much. Intellectually speaking, almost all of us Muslims have the mathematical certainty that it is Allah who decides the wealth or poverty of each of us, and when and how to deliver it to us, but in practice, the perception we have from the behavior of most of us contradicts this our belief. Our fear is stronger than our reason on this matter.
This is exactly what I always think when Muslims want to migrate to west and think it's the paradise there!! I mean they either are puting their deen after everything else or they are not really thinking logicaly and honesly about all this! May Allah guides us and them
alhumdulilah, I feel blessed that my husband and I were able to marry at a relatively young age. We were 19 and 20 years old. We have increased in deen together, and duniya. All glory is due to Allah, Al-Haadi, who guided us.
Great.. for some reason ur comment made me cry sis.. u made a great decision
Nouman SAGHIR turning 37 and been wanting to get married for more than 10 years. Qadr...
@@Hannah-xj1dz Allah tests the ones He loves.
Masha Allah، لا حول و لا قوة الا بالله
Im happy for you sister
Mashallah, may Allah bless you both.
May Allah grant me a righteous husband as soon as possible as well, Im 26 and its really hard out here. SubhanAllah
I became Muslim before #YusufEstes I was also in my early 20s. Got married after practising for a while and learned the basics. Marriage is work and commitment. Think about ur future children and choose a good spouse even if he's not rich or very handsome but you like him 😊 Pray 'stikhara' b4 u make up ur mind about a person. Even if ppl get divorced some time later it's not a sin. You should still behave decently especially for ur children's well being.
Jazakillahu khairon sister for the advice 😊
can you make this kind of video LONGER. I wouldn't mind to watch even if it's an hour. I am atheist but love your content.
You can watch his all of his videos. He makes really eye opening content.
Read Quran 52:35-36
I couldn't agree with you more...my wife and I decided to remove our three children from public school. Alhamdullilah, all three of our kids are now home schooled.
Brother trust me you did your kids a huge favour and saved them from massive fitnah. May Allah reward your family for doing the right thing.
Kraixo Jazakulllah khair akhi may Allah bless you.
As long as my kids don't grow out to be like you I will be more then happy.
you're basically destroying your kids social skills. they will grow up unprepared in the world
While I can't say I'd do that to my kids, I can definitely respect your decision, public schools in most countries are very bad, I've sent my kids to private school, it definitely hurts my budget but for their future I think it's worth my current situation.
Marriage is sacred and to be taken seriously.
I will be 75 in Dec, but I'm learning keep up the good work Allahu wa aalam
To be honest, I saw some of brothers who got married at their 19th and some neighbor girl who got married at 18 and their marriage failed. Now I realized that these marriages could've easily been successful if both sides were in ome page when it comes to deen, but still it drove me back from thoughts of marriage. There is definitely other factors as well, and I personally know brothers who at the same circumstances kept their marriage. But in the end, not understanding our religion well made me forgot about this for now.
I'm 23 now and Insha Allah I'll do my masters, but if I can find a muslimah who has strong emaan and knowledge of her deen I'm ready to step into real adulthood.
And may Allah reward you for your efforts to call us to the good.
Salaamu alaykum ustadth. Im a 52 yr old salafi who has been married for 23 yrs and you are 100% on point keep up the good work for the sake of Allah. Jazak Allahu khyran
jazakalah khayr Saajid, this making sence alot
I am a muslim girl studying psych and bio in America, but men in here they want only one stand relationships and it is not for me!
00966553590936 ... Looking for a serious muslima , am religion student in Saudi madinah university Inshallah.
☝Ignore this brother astagrifullah . Stay strong sister stay on islam
Marriage depresses me. I am a revert to Islam and I have two children as a single mother. Who wants to marry a woman that already has kids?
Allah may take care of you, but Muslims today aren't like before. "The Game" has infiltrated our ranks, and now, Muslimahs want the same traits in men disbelieving women want, and Muslims want in women what is idealized in women through media. Hypothetical example: I don't want to raise someone else's kids, and I don't expect a Muslimah to want a man that is inexperienced with women.
Somebody who have kids will marry you
In sha Allah
@@ManhaJSalafee asalam alaukum im man salafi alhamdolilah i wanna to marry not problem if you have kids but i wanna serious woman with hijeb pray afraid allah
This my number whatsup
00212638791419
Maybe you can find another revert with children?
Hope Allah swt has eased your problems sister
SubhanAllah... #haqq! May Allah make it easy for us shabaab to get married and make us steadfast before that.
Ameen
very true. i went to an all girls school in high school but in middle school the environment was very hard to be around and you do get influenced sometimes. but alhamdulilah my mom instilled in me to always be proud as a muslimah
جزاك الله خيرا ❤️🇩🇿
This hit me very deeply. I appreciate your videos, it is helping me to become a better person.
When you don't fear Allah, your on a downhill spiral
Barak'Allah'feekum ya sheikh. Very good video.
Thank you for the video, lots of great info, and the way you put it is just flawless.
Saajid, u really opened my eyes; I'm always saying I won't get marry until I get a better job or opportunity , but I'm realising now that I'm getting older . Greetings from Tunisia :)
mashaAllah a very good video, you are quite right in saying thst Islam has made things easier for us, its we that make it difficult by adding our terms and conditions on to the matter, jazakaAllah for spreading a good word
I am in tune with everything you are saying we are on the same page, thank you brother for spreading the positive message
Thank you so much! 💓
salamu alaikum akhi, I found this talk very beneficial and filled with haqq.i married my wife knowing she wasn't religious ie didn't pray often or fast the full month of Ramadan excetra.I didn't care much because I wasn't fully devoted to my Deen either meaning holding down my five pillars.now I'm 30 she's 25 and we have been married for 3 years of i have alhumdulillah become devoted to my Deen and bettering myself and now she doesn't pray at all subhan Allah and didn't fast one day in the month of Ramadan.Now I feel so separated from her and it saddens me that I didn't marry for her Deen as prescribed by our prophet saw.
Akhi if it has been that long then I think it's best that you move on. Any longer can put your Deen at risk !! If you really have been giving her naseeha from the beginning till now, and she still doesn't PRAY (Pillar of ISLAM btw...) then Wallahi you can do so much better.
You need to be patient and practice your nassiha and da’wah towards her softly. It’ll take time.. don’t forget, she could have been the one who became devoted to the deen instead of you.. don’t let her down. You married her knowing that and you were like her. May Allah swt help you achieve your goal!
you were at a low point of your deen as well. the religious are for the religious, that's kinda how it works. The same way you slowly became religious, your wife can too. Just advise her often. If after years of trying it's too much, then go to a sheikh or smth and sort it out in shaa allah
It is for you to leave her. It i not allowed for people who are striving for piety to be with people who aren't.
very good advice. JazakAllahuKhair
Wow very good video you are right brother it is not easy especially for the elder sisters and all praise to the most HIGH ALLAH is the GREATEST!
One of the best scholars I'm following, may Allah bestow on you his rahamat and bless you with more and more knowledge
جزاكم الله الجنة من الفردوس الأعلى.
Having a righteous wife is the most enjoyable thing in the world.
Brother I have been reading the book you recommended 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus', it really is an eye opener! JazakAllah Khair
Jazaka Allhu khairan brother.
Couldn't agree more, it's really sad to see young muslim teens from as young as 16 stop losing hope in keeping chaste untill mariage just because the endgoal(marriage) feels so far away. These are issues that need to be spoken about more really
MA SHA ALLAH Beautiful video...May ALLAH bless you always Ameen.
May Allah bless you Sajid
Always love your videos, Sallam from Indonesia akhi
Lipham! honestly you are a blessing to this Ummah and I pray Allah preserve you for us. Love from Nigeria.... Salaam
that speaks to me so much !
Mansha Jzkalaah, nice brotherhood talk
Absolutely right brother, and a very beneficial video
well said 💯 brother saajid
Good god you are all as brain dead as him. The picture he paints is rubbish. Islam is for people with no self control
You have to be ruled by an evil draconian set of rules to be able to behave like decent human beings. God help you all..
why u have so many rape cases in the non islamic socities? you can look up the stats
Why are there so much rape and domestic violence in Islamic societies? Those stats are available too. In many cases, women are too scared to come forward. Our Ummah is far from clean in this matter. Maybe it has nothing to do with Islamic or non-Islamic societies. Maybe it has to do with many millennia of men oppressing women.
i dont know why non muslims have to comment on each of our videos its nothing to do with you guys go away we dont need you ....your not welcome here because you come here with intensions to make fun ....but in real your making fun of your own selves .... .ALLAH is great ......end of story
@@DarlingEbony
Maybe it has to do with the fact that you're lying and the fact that the US has a higher rape rate than any Muslim country.
I haven't subscribed to the brother channel but I keep get suggestions of his videos. Here am subscribing now
LOVE AND RESPECT FROM LONDON
Thank you so much brother. May Allah protect and bless you amin.
ربي يحفظك من ليبيا
well talk my brother جزاكم الله خيرا
ان لم تنصروه فقد نصره الله
سبحان الله يرتد العرب ويسلم العجم
اللهم بارك في امة محمد صلى الله عليه وسلم
brother I'm not even Muslim but I agree with some of the points you made that are solid as a rock
MaşALLAH elhamdulillah my brother
Golden words right here! Its so frustrating how muslim parents delay marrying off their kids. The pros of marrying young (warding off fitnah which has become overwhelming in modern times) far surpasses the cons (having an actual career).
ماشاءالله سلام salem de france akhy
Thanks for the talk on marriage in Islam. I have learnt so much from you. Alhamdullilah
May Allah bless you
you are so right Masha'Allah!
ماشاء الله بارك الله لنا في عمرنا و جعل من أهل الجنة أخي i'm Mohammed from algéria wish you the best from god and for US
Well said, brother. Jazakallahu kheiran.
islam is a religion that incorporates logic alhamdullilah. wisdom is found after analyzing any piece of guidance in the Quran and sunnah. great video as usual
In hindsight it's crazy that High Schools had daycares ...
May Allah bless you brother
Amiin
You are really shading a light to a very important factor
Massa-Allah tabarakallah brother your speech will enlighten both male and female and the ummah at large.
the marriage that is islamic nikkah gives honour to spouses for graceful relationship. you cant just do something bad and be at the back or quit without treating somebody in the most humane way. Nikkah even allows a women and man to have relationship while they can progress in their career and help and support one another with love. Brother i totally agree with all problems of society but their should be more awareness platforms, people even the muslims do not thoroughly understand the eases they are blessed with bcoz they donot study Quran
Excellent book recommendation, ma sha Allah.
JazakAllah kheir, good naseeha
Mashallah, may Allah bless you brother and all muslims and guild all whom seek the truth to his mercy.
Mashaallah you right and path guider to light bless you
Ameen. Salam ...
This came exactly when I needed it. But how am I suppose to marry if I'm still studying and not working ? How will I hold the house together.
Sheikh we have a lot of communities in America that get married very young. Unfortunately the track-record is very poor. Very common to find teenage divorcees and people going through a number of marriages by their early and mid 20's. Often times this creates a lot of turmoil and particularly the young women rebel against the deen at this point thinking it is the only means to a stable life. The flipside of course is those waiting until they're much older, but the reality is for most of those who grew up here they'll be dating in that time period and their parents will have minimal influence on them. Those with stronger parental influence are those you'll most often see married in their 20's.
BaarakaAllahufeek, I'd love to know more about the specifics of this because I've never really heard about brothers & sisters getting married as teenagers in the U.S. or their experiences, seems like an important thing to learn from. Also I love your Muslim Tapes series, please keep em coming insha'Allah, jazakaAllahukhair.
Umar Lee Big problem is the lack of real commitment and they have to work harder on the marriage instead of fighting. We had sisters and brothers literally punching each other in their car outside the masjid on Eid! That was a smaller masjid in Montreal 25 yrs ago. Ppl maybe need to leave behind their Jahiliyah ways b4 marriage is even considered?
We would have to raise our children from very young ages to expect to be married while young in order for this to work. As is, we raise OUR sons and OUR daughters, forgetting we're raising someone else's wife or husband, leaving them unfit to marry at any age. Because if this phenomena, and the encroachment of western materialism and feminism into the Muslim community, I had to tell my son to prepare for the eventuality of never marrying, as nowadays we imitate all the negative traits of non-Muslims and feminism has gone haywire. But if he does marry, he must tell his kids at a young age to be responsible enough to marry, or they'll fail and divorce no matter what age they marry.
Assalamu alaykum I personally think it has to come from parental guidance, sadly parents are failing to teach their children in many factors, talking to the children whilst growing up is a must and I really feel society has an affect but the home life has to be firm, consistent and no compromising of the Deen. Many parents safeguard children upto a certain age and then let them go at teenage years, these years they need the parental control the most. Relationship development is so important. Parents really need to fear Allah and stop blaming society. Actually what these kids are doing under the parents roof is unbelievable. Contradiction of the Deen from the parents is a big factor and is confusing our youth. We are following the non Muslim in so many factors. May Allah guide us all. Aameen.
Thank you for talking about this my brother may Allah rewards you inshallah
Haq upon Haq upon Haq akhi. If only those born into Islam could see it the way most converts do.... There is no harm in men and women marrying in college even if they can't afford to move out together. Just like non Muslims have girl friends and boy friends who visit each other's houses every weekend or whatever... Why can't Muslims do the same by marrying each other? Why such taboo? inshaAllah we need to not repeat the mistakes of our parents with our children. Excellent video mashaAllah.
Keep up the good work! I trust that you will come back to the U. S. to teach your people when you are ready Inshallah.
بارك الله فيك
Wallahi this video is priceless, alhamdolelah
Well said, Brother!
Great thinking and explanation
Well said.. i couldn't agree more. May Allah reward you Jannah
JazakAllahu khaira💕
Ma Shaa Allah. You right brother 💯. Subha a Allah I got that book while ago although it's translate French. It's. Amazing to to see how different we are male and female
What's the book? Missed the name
Great advice. We need more of these discussions
جزاك الله خير.
Your channel is excellent
afwan there are many different books from the scholars that are way better than the book men r from mars... and it's translated into English. Rights of the Spouses by Sh. Ruhaylee, Concise Marriage Manual by Sh. Uthaymeen n more. that's better for us as Muslims to avoid books on this topic from Non Muslim Authors Allahu Aliim jaza ka Allahu khairan akhii for the efforts
Jazakillahu khairon sister for your recommendation 😊
Mashallah spot on
I agree with you brother,but many people complicated this issue.
I hope Muslim brothers and sisters understanding theirs relegions it's not complicated it's easy take it easier!!!!
Money and materialise is not all in life....
Thank you brother.
brother you are right! the ideology came out through your talk I trust on it. many muslim family I saw, they don't take it seriously.
I pray that Allah opens the hearts and minds of those who seek to save their selves and their families from destruction in this life and the next. This is no joke! Brother Saajid, بارك الله فيكم
As a 16 old living in Saudi Arabia, I can tell you that this extends problem far beyond the US. Now of course Saudi Arabia has laws and a society that go by Islamic rules that facilitates the life it dictates for Muslims, but through the west's shows and anime and manga from japan, we get exposed to this the life style you mentioned. I can only speak for myself but the result is utter hatred for the religion, from the heart, and how conservative it is. It's like I have missed out on a far more rich, fulfilling (to some extent), interesting, fun (to a good extent) and dynamic life because of the society the religion has brought about. All the while not truly finding religion as false so as a result being further in pain for hating on it.
It is only when you lose something you later realize its true value.
This is the religion I love and I’m walking away it’s too hard
may Allah reward you brother
That is absolutely true, even in the Arab world and in Saudi Arabia it is hard now unfortunately to get married, society epically in big city doesn’t accept marriage for young men and women, girls and their parents want her to live in a palace, men want to marry extremely beautiful women and this is the only thing they care about.
Then when they reach to their 30s they start regretting their decisions, why not before?
What you said is 1000% on point and true
Spoken like a legend
he is right
Let’s frequently seek forgiveness from Allah because nobody knows what will happen in the next minute Astagfirullah wa atuubu ilaihi🤲🏼
Parents as well should make things easy for their children. They make marriage so difficult.
Parents are accountable for all that the youth are going through. And it does not help in the Arab culture where parents are always thought of as right.
As I'm watching this video I'm trying to see if I recognize any scenery in the background.
brother can you please show the roads when you are making video we'd love to see madinah
mohammad zohorul Asalam aleykum I'd , too
mohammad zohorul great idea! a two camera setup, put his face as a video-in-video and see Madinah.
Masha allah Alaahu akbar Alaahu akbar Alaahu akbar Alaahu akbar Alaahu akbar Alaahu akbar Alaahu waa lilaahi hamdi
Assalam Alaykoum brother, well spoken, when it comes to polygamy in USA, the brothers are using Islam to used and manipulate the sisters, they barely have enough to take care themselves, most of them have this records that the wife have to be dealing with for the rest of her life, the brother needs to work for about 12 hours a day, no time to even give the wife her Intimacy right, sometimes 1 time a week or 2 weeks, Howe in the world Islam can Allow that brother to have more than one wife? When the first wife don't have 10% of her right, they need to lower their gaze , man have they answer from Allah, they cheating because they want to have different women all the time, I know Muslims with 3,4 wives and still cheat, remember when some man use to have 40 wives before Islam, they can't satisfy all those 2,3or 4 wives, not in USA, sisters will never forgave them for not providing all their rights
@@GNALENKonate72 That's right, So I suggest brothers save up their money for a year or two and move to a country like Egypt where the dollar goes a lot farther and make a business so they can have enough money to do what they want and afford to give the rights to their wives.
BROTHER IS MORE PURE MUSLIM THEN WE MUSLIM BY BIRTH,
ALMIGHTY LORD BLESS YOU ,AMIN,
From my personal experience, I can say that only those who have a really high "iman" along with a great chance (because it doesn't all depend on us), jump into marriage when young and without being rich or with a good salary. Most of us, me the first, are terrified of fear of facing such a thing as marriage, without really possessing the financial means already. Often then, it is the brides and their families who are terrified of accepting a young man who does not have much.
Intellectually speaking, almost all of us Muslims have the mathematical certainty that it is Allah who decides the wealth or poverty of each of us, and when and how to deliver it to us, but in practice, the perception we have from the behavior of most of us contradicts this our belief. Our fear is stronger than our reason on this matter.
1:27 is that a Toyota hilux or am i wrong ?
This is exactly what I always think when Muslims want to migrate to west and think it's the paradise there!! I mean they either are puting their deen after everything else or they are not really thinking logicaly and honesly about all this! May Allah guides us and them
JazakAllah khair i need one but how. ?
Just to hear a brother who speaks the truth. Masha Allah
Assalamualikum