Accountability is a love language | Tafadzwa Bete Sasa | TEDxLusaka

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  • Опубликовано: 5 окт 2020
  • Could a conversation change the fate of an individual, a family, organisations, or whole countries facing failure, underperformance and disappointment? In this talk, Tafadzwa Bete Sasa shares two questions and a skill that can transform accountability conversations from awkward exchanges about elephants in the room to acts of love that help our loved ones, colleagues, and leaders improve and do better. Tafadzwa Bete Sasa is a high-performance strategist who designs and facilitates tools and knowledge for sustained growth and success that benefit people and organisations. She holds a BSc in Human Resource Management and (at the time when this Talk was delivered) is an MBA candidate at the African Leadership University. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

Комментарии • 78

  • @traycie9559
    @traycie9559 3 года назад +81

    "Its Good intention with no plans that keep people in destructive cycles" Wow🙌🙌

  • @thelightwithinpodcast
    @thelightwithinpodcast 2 года назад +7

    When deviations are not addressed, they become norms - well said!

  • @Davidxpiano
    @Davidxpiano 3 года назад +16

    This is the kind of wisdom I need in my life. Tafazdwa you were called for this.

  • @slightsloan
    @slightsloan 2 года назад +2

    thank you

  • @tusojumbe8150
    @tusojumbe8150 3 года назад +13

    Every time I speak to you, I feel I'm in a safe space.
    "Good intentions and no plan." That's an ah huh moment.
    This was beautiful Taffy!

  • @michellemercy2715
    @michellemercy2715 Год назад +2

    establish boundaries, principles, guidelines, standards, ethical understanding and create goals to get you to where you want to be. We all need a roadmap and this is how to get there. With a vulnerability in your heart and a willingness to pursue it with kindness and empathy.

  • @kapambwelupali7120
    @kapambwelupali7120 2 года назад +2

    Thanks a lot. Really applicable and beneficial. Plus a good speaker

  • @bmevolunteers
    @bmevolunteers 2 года назад +3

    Flawless

  • @somskid2118
    @somskid2118 3 года назад +2

    Ask the question. Hold the space. And ask what's the plan.

  • @tiwongembale2770
    @tiwongembale2770 4 месяца назад

    simply beautiful and indeed great insights shared

  • @Mele472
    @Mele472 3 года назад +5

    Boarding school vs university life... Its such a transition

  • @allenchilekw5698
    @allenchilekw5698 3 года назад +4

    Great motivator and teach, well articulated

  • @lyapampempulwambewe5597
    @lyapampempulwambewe5597 3 года назад +7

    Accountability redefined👏. Thank you for this Tafadzwa

  • @alibeaumont-filder3185
    @alibeaumont-filder3185 3 года назад +5

    Wow ... brilliant presentation , thank you . Accountability is cognitive love .. forever thankful .

  • @TafadzwaSamanga
    @TafadzwaSamanga 3 года назад +5

    Thought-provoking!Thank you Taffy.

  • @leahgodson2319
    @leahgodson2319 3 года назад +4

    Excellent concept; well delivered. Thank you Taffy.

  • @sairabintesalek
    @sairabintesalek 3 года назад +2

    For me this is the best at TED talk
    It is the foundation of every great speech TED has

  • @mellisandlovu7026
    @mellisandlovu7026 3 года назад +2

    Taffy you are such an inspiration to many

  • @kuzipanams6228
    @kuzipanams6228 3 года назад +5

    Amazing Taffy, thank you.

  • @dzidzaimangombe
    @dzidzaimangombe 3 года назад +5

    Well done Taffy, you belong at the top 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽. We should normalize accountability conversations

  • @sandramathiaslennert1759
    @sandramathiaslennert1759 2 года назад +2

    A lot of good insights for me. Congrats!!!

  • @RainCloudat3am
    @RainCloudat3am 2 года назад +5

    I'm gonna take this and apply it to my relationship. This is one of the best Talks I've seen I'm I'm excited to see more of your videos, thank you so much ❤️

  • @michele3631
    @michele3631 2 года назад +3

    LOVE THIS TALK! I will be sharing it with my Anger Management students. Thank you.

  • @zawakenphiri6915
    @zawakenphiri6915 3 года назад +2

    Wow my president. Thanks so much taffy for sharing such profound insight. May God bless

  • @mc_bollaz565
    @mc_bollaz565 3 года назад +2

    Woow..let me share widely

  • @ngosachibuye6650
    @ngosachibuye6650 3 года назад +11

    Beautiful. So many important things said and you've put perspective to what we need to do as individuals and communities to be better. Keep it up!!

  • @panes840
    @panes840 Год назад +1

    What a wonderful young lady.

  • @ruthkayira1539
    @ruthkayira1539 3 года назад +4

    So so so proud of you Tafadzwa.. 😍😍

  • @samuelgazimbi679
    @samuelgazimbi679 3 года назад +4

    Simple but powerful truths presented so genuinely. Accountanility is a love languge.

  • @suparnamalhotra
    @suparnamalhotra 3 года назад +2

    Excellent talk! Wise, talented and gifted speaker. Thank you, Tafadzwa.

  • @keanuestrada
    @keanuestrada 3 года назад +3

    Got this game from a ted talk

  • @Skywalker29
    @Skywalker29 2 года назад +1

    Thank you for this message

  • @gibsonhabib
    @gibsonhabib 2 года назад +2

    Absolutely profound💥👌👌 Awesome piece Tafadzwa

  • @sarahmwamba1557
    @sarahmwamba1557 3 года назад +2

    Wow Taffy Bless you....we are learning

  • @sylvestermumba981
    @sylvestermumba981 3 года назад +4

    This story is genuinely inspiring

  • @IAMKO517
    @IAMKO517 Год назад

    "Is taken me a DECADE to understand the gift that I was given" - message!! Do it now-Arnold voice

  • @natashashapolamwamba5683
    @natashashapolamwamba5683 3 года назад +3

    Absolutely love Tafa ❤️❤️❤️

  • @wombayikona4032
    @wombayikona4032 3 года назад +1

    Thank you Miss Taffy. ♥️

  • @TheLeelabee
    @TheLeelabee 3 года назад +2

    I love this so much. Well done Taffy!

  • @somskid2118
    @somskid2118 3 года назад +3

    A safe space the address what happened. An create a safe space to discuss what happened. Isn't that love.

    • @KiRetteCouture
      @KiRetteCouture Год назад

      Yes. A safe space is necessary. Sometimes it's the fear of reactions to accountability conversations that put people off.

  • @shinymaddertv21
    @shinymaddertv21 3 года назад +5

    Beautiful talk, love her vibe!

  • @tedhogan
    @tedhogan Год назад

    Wonderful! Accountability is love, indeed it is!

  • @sinqobilendlovu8280
    @sinqobilendlovu8280 3 года назад +3

    Thought provoking and very refreshing! thank you for this

  • @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish
    @SpeakWritePlayinEnglish Год назад

    A conversation about languages and learning experience is something unique.

  • @890luxor
    @890luxor Год назад

    Total eye opening 💯

  • @kasondechipoka8864
    @kasondechipoka8864 3 года назад +1

    This is beautiful. Definitely saving this for reference

  • @nanjic6932
    @nanjic6932 5 месяцев назад

    My God!!!! This talk checked me 🙈 it’s only when people can take ownership that we can begin to solve problems that we have.

  • @markhemsworth2670
    @markhemsworth2670 2 года назад +2

    Tough crowd. No laughs at all. Congrats on a great presentation

  • @sugamama1011
    @sugamama1011 2 года назад +1

    This is definitely what I needed on my spirit before bed. Thank you!

  • @jessiemhaka3548
    @jessiemhaka3548 3 года назад +2

    This is beautiful Taffy, well done. I have taken rich notes ☺️

  • @faith_momPrenuer
    @faith_momPrenuer 3 года назад +3

    What a perspective, what a powerful shift..thank you for this timely talk. Accountability is indeed a love language👌👌💪

  • @michaelmusarurwa9116
    @michaelmusarurwa9116 3 года назад +1

    Well done Taffy. Nicely said

  • @thischimavoice7706
    @thischimavoice7706 3 года назад +3

    Thank you so much Mrs Sasa, the relevance of the topic spreads from the board room to the bedroom... 😅
    I’m grateful for the lessons here, it also helps to know that certain ways of addressing the elephant in the room could just make things worse, getting people into defense mode and getting nowhere.
    I salute you, ma’am.

  • @KiRetteCouture
    @KiRetteCouture Год назад

    This is a great talk that makes one pause for reflection for better action. Accountability is important not just to ourselves but because others can suffer as a result of our lack of it.

  • @Naluca1988
    @Naluca1988 Год назад

    Beautiful! Learned a lot from this talk.

  • @chippo2522
    @chippo2522 3 года назад +2

    Way to go Taffy 👊

  • @tracydorsey
    @tracydorsey Год назад

    EXCELLENT.......WELL SAIDGOODWORDS OF WISDOM. THANK YOU.

  • @nasantemargretnakamba6354
    @nasantemargretnakamba6354 3 года назад +2

    I relate to this ted talk so much. We are never prepared for transitioning i still havent fully and this is my 3rd in University and next year will be my final year. The frustration😥😥😥

  • @jason55ward
    @jason55ward 2 месяца назад

    Incredible

  • @princessemuke1604
    @princessemuke1604 3 года назад +2

    Amazing

  • @michellemercy2715
    @michellemercy2715 Год назад

    yes yes yes we stand on the shoulders of others.

  • @ngonisasa3950
    @ngonisasa3950 3 года назад +2

    Loved it *_*

  • @jaimeacostasanchez5
    @jaimeacostasanchez5 Год назад

    Wow... so true.

  • @tatendabete2243
    @tatendabete2243 3 года назад +2

    Nice Taphy

  • @elsiemacauley4069
    @elsiemacauley4069 3 года назад +1

    Taffy😍💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙌🏾

  • @yogitakhanna3964
    @yogitakhanna3964 3 года назад +2

    🤩🤩

  • @vividh1578
    @vividh1578 3 года назад +2

    yayyyy

  • @vividh1578
    @vividh1578 3 года назад +2

    i am awesomeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

  • @eyebloom__
    @eyebloom__ Год назад +1

    👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

  • @vividh1578
    @vividh1578 3 года назад +2

    first to comment and like

  • @monaiannucci7831
    @monaiannucci7831 2 года назад +1

    Lotus

  • @GT-ig2pg
    @GT-ig2pg 2 месяца назад

    1. Ask the question "What happened?"
    2. The skill: Hold the space.
    3. Ask "What's the plan?"

  • @Kudakwashe.Chikonyora
    @Kudakwashe.Chikonyora 3 года назад +2

    Who else's here from the Soul Avenue💜

    • @tafadzwabetesasa4357
      @tafadzwabetesasa4357 3 года назад

      You redeemed Arnold. He owes you 😂😂😂

    • @Kudakwashe.Chikonyora
      @Kudakwashe.Chikonyora 3 года назад

      @@tafadzwabetesasa4357 😁😁 The SoulProfound, where are you at, i got you here😂😂

  • @lixmariangelpreciado5408
    @lixmariangelpreciado5408 Год назад

    no entendi nada al chile