The Power of Responsibility | Joelle Casteix | TEDxPasadenaWomen
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- Опубликовано: 23 ноя 2024
- Joelle Casteix, the leading national “in the trenches” expert on the prevention and exposure of child sex abuse and cover-up, uses her own experiences to illustrate how to move past the trap of victimhood by taking responsibility.
Joelle Casteix is author of the upcoming book THE WELL-ARMORED CHILD: A PARENT'S GUIDE TO PREVENTING ABUSE. She is also the leading national “in the trenches” expert on the prevention and exposure of child sex abuse and cover-up. A successful writer and blogger, her other books include THE COMPASSIONATE RESPONSE: HOW TO HELP AND EMPOWER THE ADULT VICTIM OF CHILD SEXUAL ABUSE and YES, MY SON, WINE IS ONE OF THE FIVE FOOD GROUPS. Since 2003, Joelle has been the volunteer Western Regional Director of SNAP, the Survivors Network of those Abused by Priests. Joelle took the TEDxPasadenaWomen audience through her own experience as a survivor of child sexual abuse and how it has shaped the work she does now.
This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at ted.com/tedx
“ I have to take responsibility for my life”
“ Not blame but responsibility”
This is a motivation for me. Thank you so much
I can feel the truth in that, I know it’s there. But at the moment I’m still not able to see the difference between responsibility and blame in that context. Especially if it’s about abuse. I understand that after such an event it’s the victims choice to either stay a victim or not. But in the moment the abuse was happening, how was I as a child supposed to take responsibility for it?
I'm here because I'm not happy with my current situation; wanting to change it I was examining what brought me to the situation. This line of thought brought me to writing down the question " Why do I NEED someone else to help me be more responsible?".
Thank you for posting this.
Joelle's courage in telling her story and sharing her path provides hope to those who may be suffering. The lessons of her journey suggest a path to those burdened by past events. Bravo!
I like how encouraging she was even when she was talking about her past crisis. The Ted talk is awesome and life changing
1:18 It's not the moment that define us, but our choices and our reactions that make us who we are.
When you think you're a victim,you're self-destructive.
7:06 Don't just live. But thrive!
❌Blame (stop blaming yourself for your failure or the bad decisions you made even when the decisions were not our fault)
✔️Responsibility (make peace with the bad things that has ever happened to us). We can create our potential
Thankyou, Joelle, for this excellent presentation. You have not only empowered yourself by taking responsibility, you are generously helping others to become empowered as well.
Remember, with great power comes great responsibility
Ive never benefitted from responsibility. Id I could I would abandon all duty and try something else to be happy instead. Maybe different people need different things.
@@someonesomeone25 Cool
On this day, I am inspired to watch this! You are courageous, brave, and admirable! Thank you for the work that you do!
uncoupling guilt and shame to engage with personal responsibility and power! I love this. Thank you Joelle xx
“There is benefit in every kind of hard work.”
A timely message that everyone needs to hear. Your voice is empowering. Kudos! Taking responsibility is awesome.
Responsibility means excepting whatever happens to you... is your own choice... we choose whatever happens to us... even being "abused"... choice...
Amazing. Beautiful. Inspiring. The world is lucky to have you. ~
Renee
“When you take responsibility, you have power to change the whole world”
The best Ted talk I ever heard
One of the most insight opening sessions ever.❤✨☮️
Not Blame, But Take Responsibility
This talk is informative, well organized and inspiring. The Power of Responsibility is a book I will purchase and read. Awesome job.
Connie Bend comma splice
Thankyou for RESPONSIBILITY
Great job! You're no longer a victim.
Remarkable talk as well as presentation! I have taken down some notes as well as some ideas I can personally use in my life.
Thank you!!
I need it this thank you ... You are a strong woman and you inspiree alot of people her
Great
Content
Thank
You
Tedx
You put yourself as a victim
Thrive
Take
Resp
Let go
Design
Speechless!
Respect ✊ to her courage
You are amazing, thank you for sharing your story..!
I feel like the most important responsibility in life is to be respectful to yourself
I agree with that, as a person should determine and improve their self worth
Sure, but what about helping their family?
Socrates, dude, yes someone should help their family, but to be positive from a family standpoint, a person has mtk about themselves which lets them be a better family and parental figure
Laozi's right, how can someone be good for their family if they lack themselves?
You guys are soooo boring. To have support for others, a person must have the resources. IMO, an excellent employee is the first real step to becoming an excellent person
I'm responsible for my own happiness
Thank you
"Hi I'm here to talk you about growing up, by talking to you like you are a child, Ted 2015-style".
Sooo good! Thank you, Joelle!
hi, i was wondering if I could reccomend this video for Abuse/domestic violence and violent crime victims who are clients taking part in a recovery/empowerment project/program I'm running? thanks.
Thanku very much from my soul
A great talk!! Thank you!"
Hey, How to I learn to shift behavior towards accepting responsibility ? Any recommendations guys, like youtube links, books, articles I should watch/read to speed up being responsible for myself process?
thank you pretty much ! You help me a lot !!
Thanks!
thankyou thank you thank you
As Real as it gets.
I appreciate the content - defining responsibility is so important, yet sometimes overlooked! Though I have just 45 subscribers now, I hope my latest video on raising my son to be responsible makes people reflect on defining responsibility as this video does. Thank you again for the perspectives.
There are many women/girls that are in such conditions, where due to the selfish nature of some men they lived a terrible life. And such things are even more in societies where they can't share their stories and get some help!
I needed this
Love it❤
A great woman
you need to clarify the content
this is what i was serching
the man is keeping me down
Awesome
On the surface... sure. This feels nice and prophetic and hits on some feels...
But seriously, "Taking Responsibility will solve your problems!?"
Just no. At best, you meant something along the lines of "baggage holds us back" and "coming to terms with circumstances and finding ways to ditch the baggage and move forward" are what we strive to do when we accept and forgive ourselves...
The message you are peddling couldn't be more sinister: it's the individuals fault and you shouldn't feel bad for them.
LoOk, sOm3oNe dOwN oN tHeIr LuCk! WhAt aN iNcReDibLe OPPORTUNITY tHeY hAvE to TaKe On MORE RESPONSIBILITY(!?)
Wild concept: maybe what people need is help accepting, finding peace, laying the baggage to rest, and moving on.
Not saying "Yep. My bad. I chose poorly. I'm to blame. You can rest easy knowing I'm to blame. I take responsibility!?"
Thanks! :)
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Why???????
You are cool 💪🤘👍
This has no educational value what so ever!!!!! This should be labeled consequentialism with poor choices
i love you
Would this psycho-babble work for soldiers who've been traumatized by war?
+Sam Walker yes yes yes.. it would x
no, sam, it would not ... soldiers are not little cry-babies who need to whine about their life.
Yes, it worked for my ptsd (I am a survivor of a false alarm terrorist attack that caused panic in a 30’000+ crowd and wounded 1500 people)
Emdr therapy
empowering! Thank you