What happens next...do we stop giving current boyfriend wife benefits without explanation? Do we break up with them and wait to do the right thing next time?
@@Joy_736 Well I can't tell you what to do about your relationship. However if marriage is something that you do want. If not now maybe in your future? I feel a line in the sand has to be drawn. Tough decisions have to be made. The fact that you are in here listening to this video of Tony's is a good start though and something to think about. God bless you.
I learned my damn lesson that’s for sure! From 19-24 I praised boyfriends, treated them like kings and got nothing out of it besides wasted time and trauma. Now I do not believe in boyfriends at all, I wasted so much time treating them well and they’re all STILL SINGLE running game on any beautiful woman 🤣 Now I’m 25, dating strategically and staying positive. Thank you for all you do Tony!!
Yes I definitely did too. It was a waste of time with the one guy. I stopped everything cold turkey and he got mad ... We have to set boundaries because they wont.
So divorces don't happen in America?! That's temporary as well. Do what you must to maintain your relationship no matter the title. Titles don't mean your relationship will be long nor successful, put the work in and if it doesn't work out with him you'll be better suited for the next cause you've been building
@@darnell607 For those who want to be married it's not just a "title" you are under the covenant. However if people don't believe in marriage they can say titles don't matter. Not everyone wants to be married I guess.
@@darnell607 I think the issue is, women aren’t feeling like their are built up and ready for the next relationship, once they’ve given their to temporary boyfriends.. . I don’t do it but I have friends who have given EVERYTHING to a boyfriend for him to marry another woman in less than a year later.. . They built the boyfriend up, depleting their own needs… In a *HEALTHY* marriage you are both building a life together and making a true commitment.. . We acknowledge divorce, we acknowledge things not working out, but giving lots of years and energy to not even produce a tangible outcome or a legacy for you and your family is so painful.. . Hope this message finds you well 🙏🏾❤️
I see girls who I work with all the time, of all ages but especially early 20s, moving in with their boyfriend. From a young age I Always thought it was desperate. You don’t even really know him, he hasn’t given you a ring, but you’re already sharing a living space? SMH. I think the reason men expect these things Is because women just do it so easily, and it ruins things for women who have the bar set high. I’ve had men insult me, throw things ( not at me), try and seek revenge, get in their feelings because I refused to sleep with them. They always bring up how their ex girlfriend did xyz with and for them. So? Go running back to her. Women with standards, boundaries, and self control are not for the weak.
Yesss I see this all the time in my age group!! But I also see women 40 and up moving a man into their home to me it looks more foolish than a girl that may not know better
I wouldn’t call them desperate and judge them. They probably in their head think it’s a good idea, people do what works for them lol. Some women don’t want marriage.
100%agree with you sister. I met a grown boy recently and he started to cuss me out.called me out of my name simply because i have boundaries and i didn't want to go to his house and sleep with him. Mind you at the beginning he was sweet and nice until he started making requests i told him no lol never spoke to that devil again. I ran away
I see a lot of comments from young ladies around my age (27). Saying they wish they knew sooner, meanwhile I’m thanking god I learned while I’m still young. It’s women in their 50’s that still haven’t learned. My time is valuable, and will never be wasted again.
FR. Some women even in their 60’s and up that still don’t have this knowledge. I’m much older than you but still grateful I got the knowledge now. Society has women thinking 25 is old as a single woman. It’s wild.
Ladies don't be afraid to be single working on yourself and waiting on GOD.people will judge you and laugh at you. they will call you names.keep doing you.its better to remain single than to be in an unhealthy relationship.its 👌 okay to be single and keeping your legs closed.yess its not easy however it takes discipline.prayer and self control.Guard your heart.
Amen. People don't realize how detrimental it is to leave your heart unguarded/vulnerable. It can take years to recover and ONLY GOD CAN HEAL IT! No human being can contrary to what media🙄😑 makes you believe. Important note you have to be grounded in God and ask him for the strength. Even if you're heart is guarded the enemy can send someone along(whom you end up truly loving) and your defenses end up weakend. Love can be blind it's truly a powerful entity. If you have the right foundation and bow to our loving Master you can love that person truly and have clear vision and be willing to walk away no matter how much it hurts.
Thank you Tony. I am so tired of these men that are over 35 still asking me can I cook,do I cook, can I keep a clean house. Instead of wondering what kind of woman I am inside and in my head. it can be very frustrating please pray for me I really do want to be off the dating market.
I talked to my bf who yes we had sex a lot and I’m just gunna keep it real a year later he’s still my bf,but the honey moon stage is gone I asked him yesterday if he fell out of love with me because he doesn’t do the things he did to me a year ago and God answered my prayers today with this video I done have gave him everything and I should have treated my body as a temple.
Absolutely right Tony, I didn’t do anything like cooking or cleaning and even living with a man. Makes me glad I didn’t give my ex all of me, he didn’t deserve me anyway.
2:52 STOP COOKING & LAUNDRY. when your comfortable, invite him over let him watch you cook and clean for a while then offer food thats it. Let him see your work don't do it for him
I was led astray.😔The environment that I was raised in modeled the wrong behavior. I realized after the damage was done, it wasn't the way. I'm thankful that God has given me the chance to heal, learn and know myself to be and do better.🙌🏾💃🏾 Thank you Tony Gaskins 🙏
I salute you for the honesty that the environment you were raised in modeled the wrong behavior. Me too in a different way.. I learned from my ppl to have my own as a woman and that's not because they were encouraging me to but because I witnessed how guys took advantage when they're the ones providing so much financially and requiring you to stay home.
This is a great message to us women that knows our value and self worth. Young and older women that just dating without a purpose need to listen to this. I had to learned years ago that if dating is not going to lead to marriage, then stop wasting your time.
Tony you have been on FIRE lately! 🔥 . I’m so happy you addressed this, women are truly doing it ALL for a boyfriend and leaving the relationships so depleted and sad and lonely.. It’s sad to see.. . If a man wants you, he KNOWS it takes time and effort.. Making it ‘easy’ on him results in you losing yourself ladies.. . I’ve had friends date men for 5+ years, break up, marry another woman in a year.. They were devastated, but the issue was 1 woman REQUIRED marriage as a commitment and they didn’t.. . Thanks so much Tony 🙏🏾
I was at a friends marriage yesterday (was the only single woman without plus one lol) and all the couples were forever girlfriends/boyfriends, living together. 6 years, 7 years. It’s ridiculous. My friend was waiting for 9 years to get the ring. Listen, better stay alone until the right grown man comes into your life and d Stop giving them husband treatments. Thank you tony for very video! 🙏🏼💯
Men will always try to get maximum of what ever for minimum of a price. If he isn't forced to, why would he? They aren't as sentimental and empathetic as woman are *on average*.
Whew, this was a lesson I had to learn the hard way. Too young and blind to know for myself. Before I discovered Tony I read a book a lady wrote on similar topics and it definitely changed my dating knowledge…however I had already given my ex two kids by then, I definitely wished I would’ve learned sooner. Still the knowledge I’ve gained lead me to my husband. I had stopped listening to Tony after I got married , not intentionally just didn’t crave the knowledge like I did while single. I’ve recently tapped back in. Many of his videos have given me knowledge on how to now keep my marriage strong.
It was called Why Men Marry B****es. It’s basically what he’s saying teaching woman to stop bending over backwards for a man whose going to end up choosing a woman that didn’t have to put in much work at all lol. That book is what started the journey I got hungry and started searching for more knowledge and strength and I found Tony and many other great speakers.
Wow this gives me hope. I am definitely fearful of leaving my son’s father although I feel he’s never going to marry me considering it’s been 8 years so far. I figure if I show him I can “be a wife” he’ll propose but I might have to move on
This was the ONE!! A man is gonna think "what more can she do for me if I wife her; I'm getting everything I want & need as a boyfriend." They will get tired of you and devalue you.
Brother Tony, I’m cracking up about your description of the “pencil” and some men having issues with their “pencils.” ✏️🍆👀😆😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for this video!!! I wish I had heard this long ago. Better late than never. I’ve been single for 4 years, working on myself, and I’ve been celibate and abstinent. Ladies, you really want to know what a man wants, tell him you’ve rededicated yourself to the Lord and purity, waiting for the man God has for you and that you won’t give it up until marriage, you better believe it weeds out those who want to use you. Set your standards of yourself AND him high.🙏🏼☝🏼✝️🙌🏼Thank you again brother, it’s wonderful to hear a Godly man’s advice on relationships and one who keeps it real 💯.
@@grandreactionsnreviews3508 true, true😂😂 Thank you. The Good Lord is blessing me on this journey of my Walk with Him. My season of singleness has solidified my faith like nothing else. I have come to a point where I know He knows the desires of my heart…but EVEN IF He doesn’t give it to me, I will STILL praise Him for Who He Is and What He Did!!!
@@LA-wv7gf correct and I agree, Tony said it's best not to tell a man about being celibate...alot of woman are driving good men away, men who may end up in love and marrying you, by sharing that information before he has any feelings for you.
Mr. Gaskins is right on with this here! That was the #1 mistake I made. Treating a BF like a husband. I did ALL of the things and he married someone else. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
So true. I've talked to a baby daddy whose ex cooked everyday, and had sex multiple times a week then had his baby 👶 kept her body thin and he STILL DID NOT MARRY her. He claims 🤣 he dodged a bullet by not marrying her. I told him you were common law married! She got upset when she realized he was playing with her. She went and filed child support and reduced visitation of their now 10 yr old. Both child and father feeling the pain of boyfriend behavior
He doesn’t sound like a good man to begin with, I learned anytime a man laughed at a woman he was playing/using isn’t a good guy and god will deal with him, she has every right to be upset nobody wants to feel played/used.
Thank you, I needed this message because I’m way too nice and I love to help people, but I have to separate that behavior from my dating life. I’ll focus more on just being a peaceful woman ❤️
It hits differently especially if you know you have been dating wrong. Lesson learned the hard way. Am always that giving and supporting girlfriend and i never get the support when i need it. Am now single and working on myself. Thank you Tony.
Yes ladies, never do wifely things for a man until he marries you.Even when you are married the man has got to do things by himself otherwise ladies you are far better of single and independant
@@mneal8994 are you planning to marry her after the first date? You make it sound as though you're expecting her to give wifey duties because you carried her out on a first date
Wished I knew this when I was younger, I had to learn the hard way. A woman I know buys for her man, cooks for him and just a girlfriend. Poor thing thinks other women jealous of her.
Yes Sir....I look at it as two realities - either I'm sinning or I'm married. Keeps me from ending up in situationships/long term relationships like I did before. Nope ain't got time for nonsense, confusion or diseases.
Tony's advice is absolutely right!! Following it and being able to have a coaching call with him stopped me from pursuing bad relationships -saving me so much pain!
I'm learning but hey the laugh always kicks in..Mr. Tony's facial expression is on a whole other level. I kid you not when I say here's my second happy place. Be blessed.
TONY DONE PLAYING & Felt all of this energy and the genuine message always remains the same! For us to know & do better!! I love it here. Blessed Tribe for Life 🔥🔥🔥
THIS‼️‼️ My God🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Tony yes sir yes sir‼️‼️ That was me in the past always trying to prove myself to so called boyfriends, cooking for them, giving them wifey duties & all it landed me was being with Satan’s spawns!! & like you said, TG, 10 year olds know how to cook, clean & do laundy & thats trrue because i taught all 3 of my children how to do all of that around that age or younger‼️Thank God for true DELIVERANCE & all of your teachings Tony🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Right now all i am praising is God & myself for maintaining & keeping myself for my husband🙌🏾 Tony God bless u🙏🏾💙
Boi my friend/co- worker really need to hear this..she's so hard up for a man she serves him out the gate and still can't keep him.. smh I told her to stop being so forward with these men.. he don't have to work for anything...imma send this video to her..
Great video!! We need an part 2 of this video. Sadly I see girls ( and grown women) over sharing posting online doing wifey things for their boyfriends.
If y'all don't share this video a thousand times Say it louder Bringing woman home for him.making meals.taking care of the kids and giving money to them, giving all the benefits but he won't even marry you. Kid after kid with him wasting your years on him and he won't do half of that for y'all .
Thank you Tony for caring enough to teach us how to love ourselves! You speak the truth. I'm so glad I have your advise. Thanks for letting God use you. You speak in an understanding manner with a little humor that makes complete since and with wisdom! I am so thankful for God's blessing through you!
I was always told a man ain’t did a thing for you until he’s made you his wife
True
Facts!
*and being a loyal, providing, respectful husband
That is soooo correct! Eureka!
BIG FACTSSS
If he really wants you he'll put a ring on your finger. Boyfriends should not be given husband benefits. Thank you for speaking on this Tony.
Yup...
What happens next...do we stop giving current boyfriend wife benefits without explanation? Do we break up with them and wait to do the right thing next time?
@@Joy_736 Well I can't tell you what to do about your relationship. However if marriage is something that you do want. If not now maybe in your future? I feel a line in the sand has to be drawn. Tough decisions have to be made. The fact that you are in here listening to this video of Tony's is a good start though and something to think about. God bless you.
Agree
Sadly I have seen women get the rings and still haven’t been married lol
I learned my damn lesson that’s for sure! From 19-24 I praised boyfriends, treated them like kings and got nothing out of it besides wasted time and trauma. Now I do not believe in boyfriends at all, I wasted so much time treating them well and they’re all STILL SINGLE running game on any beautiful woman 🤣
Now I’m 25, dating strategically and staying positive. Thank you for all you do Tony!!
Girl same
Excellent
Yes I definitely did too. It was a waste of time with the one guy. I stopped everything cold turkey and he got mad ... We have to set boundaries because they wont.
😄 Ikt'sR
Same!
💯 so sad to see women giving a temporary boyfriend all of themselves when they just may turn out to be another baby mama...
So divorces don't happen in America?! That's temporary as well. Do what you must to maintain your relationship no matter the title. Titles don't mean your relationship will be long nor successful, put the work in and if it doesn't work out with him you'll be better suited for the next cause you've been building
Yup, preferences and all
@@darnell607 ⁰
@@darnell607 For those who want to be married it's not just a "title" you are under the covenant. However if people don't believe in marriage they can say titles don't matter. Not everyone wants to be married I guess.
@@darnell607 I think the issue is, women aren’t feeling like their are built up and ready for the next relationship, once they’ve given their to temporary boyfriends..
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I don’t do it but I have friends who have given EVERYTHING to a boyfriend for him to marry another woman in less than a year later..
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They built the boyfriend up, depleting their own needs… In a *HEALTHY* marriage you are both building a life together and making a true commitment..
.
We acknowledge divorce, we acknowledge things not working out, but giving lots of years and energy to not even produce a tangible outcome or a legacy for you and your family is so painful..
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Hope this message finds you well 🙏🏾❤️
I see girls who I work with all the time, of all ages but especially early 20s, moving in with their boyfriend. From a young age I Always thought it was desperate. You don’t even really know him, he hasn’t given you a ring, but you’re already sharing a living space? SMH. I think the reason men expect these things Is because women just do it so easily, and it ruins things for women who have the bar set high. I’ve had men insult me, throw things ( not at me), try and seek revenge, get in their feelings because I refused to sleep with them. They always bring up how their ex girlfriend did xyz with and for them. So? Go running back to her. Women with standards, boundaries, and self control are not for the weak.
Yesss I see this all the time in my age group!! But I also see women 40 and up moving a man into their home to me it looks more foolish than a girl that may not know better
I wouldn’t call them desperate and judge them. They probably in their head think it’s a good idea, people do what works for them lol. Some women don’t want marriage.
@@emayan06 he’s not judging he’s telling the truth. Most people don’t have common sense.
Exactly
100%agree with you sister. I met a grown boy recently and he started to cuss me out.called me out of my name simply because i have boundaries and i didn't want to go to his house and sleep with him. Mind you at the beginning he was sweet and nice until he started making requests i told him no lol never spoke to that devil again. I ran away
I see a lot of comments from young ladies around my age (27). Saying they wish they knew sooner, meanwhile I’m thanking god I learned while I’m still young. It’s women in their 50’s that still haven’t learned. My time is valuable, and will never be wasted again.
FR. Some women even in their 60’s and up that still don’t have this knowledge. I’m much older than you but still grateful I got the knowledge now. Society has women thinking 25 is old as a single woman. It’s wild.
Ladies don't be afraid to be single working on yourself and waiting on GOD.people will judge you and laugh at you. they will call you names.keep doing you.its better to remain single than to be in an unhealthy relationship.its 👌 okay to be single and keeping your legs closed.yess its not easy however it takes discipline.prayer and self control.Guard your heart.
Amen. People don't realize how detrimental it is to leave your heart unguarded/vulnerable. It can take years to recover and ONLY GOD CAN HEAL IT! No human being can contrary to what media🙄😑 makes you believe. Important note you have to be grounded in God and ask him for the strength. Even if you're heart is guarded the enemy can send someone along(whom you end up truly loving) and your defenses end up weakend. Love can be blind it's truly a powerful entity. If you have the right foundation and bow to our loving Master you can love that person truly and have clear vision and be willing to walk away no matter how much it hurts.
🙏🏾
Amen 🙏🏾
Thank you Tony. I am so tired of these men that are over 35 still asking me can I cook,do I cook, can I keep a clean house. Instead of wondering what kind of woman I am inside and in my head. it can be very frustrating please pray for me I really do want to be off the dating market.
This hits different when you realize your parents missed this lesson and modeled all the wrong behaviors. Thank you for the lesson Uncle T 💯💯🙏🏽
Girl
Facts
Agree!
Yes!! Def learned this from childhood experiences.
It’s so unfortunate 🙏🏾
POINT.BLANK.PERIOD 👏🏾
I talked to my bf who yes we had sex a lot and I’m just gunna keep it real a year later he’s still my bf,but the honey moon stage is gone I asked him yesterday if he fell out of love with me because he doesn’t do the things he did to me a year ago and God answered my prayers today with this video I done have gave him everything and I should have treated my body as a temple.
EXACTLY. Your body is the temple of The Holy Spirit... A real person. Christ living INSIDE of you. Watching and listening to everything.
Absolutely right Tony, I didn’t do anything like cooking or cleaning and even living with a man. Makes me glad I didn’t give my ex all of me, he didn’t deserve me anyway.
2:52 STOP COOKING & LAUNDRY.
when your comfortable, invite him over let him watch you cook and clean for a while then offer food thats it. Let him see your work don't do it for him
THAT SHIRT***DEFINITELY A KEY I LOOK FOR IN MEN
For sure!
" Learn how to appreciate a woman who respects her Queenship" ABSOLUTELY 💯
This is definitely a PSA. 👍🏾
I was led astray.😔The environment that I was raised in modeled the wrong behavior. I realized after the damage was done, it wasn't the way. I'm thankful that God has given me the chance to heal, learn and know myself to be and do better.🙌🏾💃🏾 Thank you Tony Gaskins 🙏
SAME SIS ❤️
I salute you for the honesty that the environment you were raised in modeled the wrong behavior. Me too in a different way.. I learned from my ppl to have my own as a woman and that's not because they were encouraging me to but because I witnessed how guys took advantage when they're the ones providing so much financially and requiring you to stay home.
Same
This is a great message to us women that knows our value and self worth. Young and older women that just dating without a purpose need to listen to this. I had to learned years ago that if dating is not going to lead to marriage, then stop wasting your time.
You Better say it loud Bro Tony 🗣️ Stop praising a Boyfriend ‼️💯🎯❤️ stop cooking and cleaning and washing there clothes. This was on point 🙌🏿🙌🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Tony you have been on FIRE lately! 🔥
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I’m so happy you addressed this, women are truly doing it ALL for a boyfriend and leaving the relationships so depleted and sad and lonely.. It’s sad to see..
.
If a man wants you, he KNOWS it takes time and effort.. Making it ‘easy’ on him results in you losing yourself ladies..
.
I’ve had friends date men for 5+ years, break up, marry another woman in a year.. They were devastated, but the issue was 1 woman REQUIRED marriage as a commitment and they didn’t..
.
Thanks so much Tony 🙏🏾
I was at a friends marriage yesterday (was the only single woman without plus one lol) and all the couples were forever girlfriends/boyfriends, living together. 6 years, 7 years. It’s ridiculous. My friend was waiting for 9 years to get the ring.
Listen, better stay alone until the right grown man comes into your life and d
Stop giving them husband treatments. Thank you tony for very video! 🙏🏼💯
9 years??? I know a girl who is living with her boyfriend and had his kids still not married after 11 years
@@shutit4024 its just insane!
Men will always try to get maximum of what ever for minimum of a price. If he isn't forced to, why would he? They aren't as sentimental and empathetic as woman are *on average*.
Whew, this was a lesson I had to learn the hard way. Too young and blind to know for myself. Before I discovered Tony I read a book a lady wrote on similar topics and it definitely changed my dating knowledge…however I had already given my ex two kids by then, I definitely wished I would’ve learned sooner. Still the knowledge I’ve gained lead me to my husband. I had stopped listening to Tony after I got married , not intentionally just didn’t crave the knowledge like I did while single. I’ve recently tapped back in. Many of his videos have given me knowledge on how to now keep my marriage strong.
What was the name of the book you read?
Yes I would also like to know what book...
It was called Why Men Marry B****es. It’s basically what he’s saying teaching woman to stop bending over backwards for a man whose going to end up choosing a woman that didn’t have to put in much work at all lol. That book is what started the journey I got hungry and started searching for more knowledge and strength and I found Tony and many other great speakers.
Wow this gives me hope. I am definitely fearful of leaving my son’s father although I feel he’s never going to marry me considering it’s been 8 years so far. I figure if I show him I can “be a wife” he’ll propose but I might have to move on
Same me too young and dumb thank God I've grown out of that
It's some things I'm just now learning at 28 years old and the truth really hurts but I'm very thankful for this video and the lessons im learning.
😂🤣🤦 He said,"It's certain size pencils that's hard to right with"🤣😂🤣😆
Tony said THIS IS HOT OFF THE PRESS , u know this gonna be good.
This was the ONE!! A man is gonna think "what more can she do for me if I wife her; I'm getting everything I want & need as a boyfriend." They will get tired of you and devalue you.
The title alone had me clicking 👌🏾✨ time to get this wisdom
Women are out here praising some other woman’s man and another woman’s HUSBAND…it’s really sad out here 🤦🏾♀️
Facts it’s really sad out here
Your ministry helped me delete the word boyfriend from my vocabulary....I don't even know what that means anymore 💯
Exactly? Boyfriend who?
Exactly like what the hell is that
Brother Tony, I’m cracking up about your description of the “pencil” and some men having issues with their “pencils.” ✏️🍆👀😆😅🤣🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for this video!!! I wish I had heard this long ago. Better late than never. I’ve been single for 4 years, working on myself, and I’ve been celibate and abstinent. Ladies, you really want to know what a man wants, tell him you’ve rededicated yourself to the Lord and purity, waiting for the man God has for you and that you won’t give it up until marriage, you better believe it weeds out those who want to use you. Set your standards of yourself AND him high.🙏🏼☝🏼✝️🙌🏼Thank you again brother, it’s wonderful to hear a Godly man’s advice on relationships and one who keeps it real 💯.
TONY’S JOKE DO BE FUNNY LOL. AND CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR JOURNEY.
@@grandreactionsnreviews3508 true, true😂😂 Thank you. The Good Lord is blessing me on this journey of my Walk with Him. My season of singleness has solidified my faith like nothing else. I have come to a point where I know He knows the desires of my heart…but EVEN IF He doesn’t give it to me, I will STILL praise Him for Who He Is and What He Did!!!
@@LA-wv7gf correct and I agree, Tony said it's best not to tell a man about being celibate...alot of woman are driving good men away, men who may end up in love and marrying you, by sharing that information before he has any feelings for you.
Riiight!!! 😂😂😂😂 I was jus laughing my butt off on my lunch brk!!!
@@LA-wv7gf thanks for that info!
Mr. Gaskins is right on with this here! That was the #1 mistake I made. Treating a BF like a husband. I did ALL of the things and he married someone else. 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
So true. I've talked to a baby daddy whose ex cooked everyday, and had sex multiple times a week then had his baby 👶 kept her body thin and he STILL DID NOT MARRY her. He claims 🤣 he dodged a bullet by not marrying her. I told him you were common law married! She got upset when she realized he was playing with her. She went and filed child support and reduced visitation of their now 10 yr old. Both child and father feeling the pain of boyfriend behavior
She filed for reduced visitation to hurt the father even thought she knew it would ultimately hurt the child?
Dodged a bullet!? Whaat🤣👀 why!?
He doesn’t sound like a good man to begin with, I learned anytime a man laughed at a woman he was playing/using isn’t a good guy and god will deal with him, she has every right to be upset nobody wants to feel played/used.
The title being in all caps, with an explanation point.. says it all. Thanks TG 💯
🗣THIS NEEDS TO GO VIRAL SO THE GIRLS CAN HEAR IT!!! 👏🏾 a lot of women are going above and beyond yet getting barely anything in return.
NOTHING in return! It looks desperate
I APPROVE THIS MESSAGE !!!
Did he say: "stitches in da booty?" 🤣🤣🤣🤣
🤣🤣🤣
Weakkk🤣🤣🤣
PRECISELYYYY!!! Lol
My butt hurt hearing that 🤣🤣🤣
I hope women are not really out here getting bent over in the exit area or swallowing babies I find both gross
Thank you, I needed this message because I’m way too nice and I love to help people, but I have to separate that behavior from my dating life. I’ll focus more on just being a peaceful woman ❤️
YOU.......BETTAH.........PREACH!!!!!!! I heard a minister say, "Never become a wife before you're married." Boom goes right there!
It hits differently especially if you know you have been dating wrong. Lesson learned the hard way. Am always that giving and supporting girlfriend and i never get the support when i need it.
Am now single and working on myself. Thank you Tony.
Tony is keeping it super real on this one.
I thank God for your shared wisdom 💚
Yes ladies, never do wifely things for a man until he marries you.Even when you are married the man has got to do things by himself otherwise ladies you are far better of single and independant
So we just supposed to get treated like shxt unless we marry them after the first date?
@@mneal8994 ur missing the point…certain benefits are reserved for marriage
@@mneal8994 are you planning to marry her after the first date?
You make it sound as though you're expecting her to give wifey duties because you carried her out on a first date
& Tony has preached to the congregation yet again!! STOP GIVING HUSBAND BENEFITS TO BOYFRIENDS!!! Let that man prove himself by ACTIONS
Boom!
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Not the pencil!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
HIS EXAMPLES ARE HILARIOUS LOL
Wished I knew this when I was younger, I had to learn the hard way. A woman I know buys for her man, cooks for him and just a girlfriend. Poor thing thinks other women jealous of her.
I know a girl like this too and takes care of his son On top of that
Ladies...Stop giving boyfriend HUSBAND benefits!!!
“Stop opening entries n exits” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Yes Sir....I look at it as two realities - either I'm sinning or I'm married. Keeps me from ending up in situationships/long term relationships like I did before. Nope ain't got time for nonsense, confusion or diseases.
Yes, this is so true. I learned the hard way and will never do it again!
Boyfriends are friends that are guys, they don't support you n a home for both of you, women today don't see it, they are nobody.
WOW THAT WAS DEEP
You are telling the truth
Nothing but facts🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼
HAVEN'T BEEN HERE IN A LONG TIME***ALWAYS ON POINT***LOVE IT!!!
Thanks! It’s like I knew all this stuff in my head but then a male or woman will come along and say you trippin smh never again!
Thank you Tony for always speaking the HARD TRUTH!!! 🙏🏽❤️
Tony's advice is absolutely right!! Following it and being able to have a coaching call with him stopped me from pursuing bad relationships -saving me so much pain!
Thanks Tony. Nowadays, there's no title and many a women are going extra miles for men that aren't claiming them as a "girlfriend".
That’s what I’m saying to me that’s even more embarrassing than a woman with a girlfriend or fiancé title
Praise God. Honor thy husband. Anything else is too much.
Say that Tony!!!!!
Make that man work. Reserve stuff. Best advice ever.
Thanks again for making it plain, Tony! Whew chile!
Wow nothing but truth in this message!!!! 😅😅💥
I'm learning but hey the laugh always kicks in..Mr. Tony's facial expression is on a whole other level. I kid you not when I say here's my second happy place. Be blessed.
TONY DONE PLAYING & Felt all of this energy and the genuine message always remains the same! For us to know & do better!! I love it here. Blessed Tribe for Life 🔥🔥🔥
Not stitches in the booty 😂😂😂
Lord I got a few folk I'd like to send this to!!!!
i just came to watch the commercials so they can get paid $$$
THIS‼️‼️ My God🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Tony yes sir yes sir‼️‼️ That was me in the past always trying to prove myself to so called boyfriends, cooking for them, giving them wifey duties & all it landed me was being with Satan’s spawns!! & like you said, TG, 10 year olds know how to cook, clean & do laundy & thats trrue because i taught all 3 of my children how to do all of that around that age or younger‼️Thank God for true DELIVERANCE & all of your teachings Tony🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 Right now all i am praising is God & myself for maintaining & keeping myself for my husband🙌🏾 Tony God bless u🙏🏾💙
Be blessed Sir!
Mr. Gaskins, You have no idea how refreshing your channel is.
Omg. Yes
This is the BEST MESSAGE!! Thank you Mr Gaskins I am learning through you! Thank God . I am happily single and will remain single
Great video mentor Tony, got teary for a moment. The journey isn’t easy but we keep moving. Thank you sir
If that man ain't got character, ain't nothing you can do to give him character. " - One of the most truest statements 👏🏾👏🏾
Great message for all women
That part….they don’t realize that how people get good at stuff 🙄
Period!! My Grandmother put me on as I became an adult . 💗
Lmao loving the humour and loving this video.
WOW! The examples you gave of benefits in every other area of life are eyeopening in comparison to dating!
Stop giving him money.
My friend (mother of 4) gave a dude 3k for lawyer. He got shot, paralyzed ,can't work to can't pay it back. Smf
Aint nobody tell her to deal with a dopeboy lol thats her own fault. She knew the consequences
You sure he's paralyzed? People pretend, sitting in wheelchairs😂😂
Wow! that's a hard lesson to learn
@@thelookout5802 i’m dying 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂
@@wills.9422 yup. Low self esteem & fat took the first thing moving. Now he can't move.
This message🔥
Thank you Tony . Men know exactly what they want I don't care how good you are. I needed to hear this you are always on point.
Please keep going hard like this w/ the video titles. it’s rough out here this summer.
Tony can you explain why men always ask me why am I single with no substance behind it?? Or people always assume I’m in a relationship???
Such an important message!!
Whew I needed this! God Bless You Tony!!! 😇😇😇🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️❤️
Boi my friend/co- worker really need to hear this..she's so hard up for a man she serves him out the gate and still can't keep him.. smh I told her to stop being so forward with these men.. he don't have to work for anything...imma send this video to her..
Great video!! We need an part 2 of this video. Sadly I see girls ( and grown women) over sharing posting online doing wifey things for their boyfriends.
Facts like girl you a baby mama and that man still ain’t marry you
@@shutit4024 yupppp
Thanks!
Hearing you own how you became complacent and didn’t appreciate her gave me peace for some reason.
My God Tony truly has a way with being able to portray the word of God for all to understand.
I appreciate your transparency Uncle T 💯 currently working on the 3 Bs. No room for a relationship but I definitely would make room for 1 guy 😂
If y'all don't share this video a thousand times
Say it louder
Bringing woman home for him.making meals.taking care of the kids and giving money to them, giving all the benefits but he won't even marry you. Kid after kid with him wasting your years on him and he won't do half of that for y'all .
THIS HURT READING BUT ITS SO GOOD.
I have seen women get “rings” but still haven’t been married after 2/3 years
This video is EVERYTHING!!! Thank you so much Tony!!!
👏👏👏👏Well said as always Tony. Thanks for being real.
Thank you Tony for caring enough to teach us how to love ourselves! You speak the truth. I'm so glad I have your advise. Thanks for letting God use you. You speak in an understanding manner with a little humor that makes complete since and with wisdom! I am so thankful for God's blessing through you!
This video was so good and funny! I really appreciate your perspectives Tony.
God bless Tony Gaskins with more wisdom, the world needs it.....thank you am blessed ❤️
Jesus! I needed to hear this!
Facts I learned the hard way!
It was he who helped me restore my ex 3 days ago without delay
Preach ‼️
Dropped a GEM!!
Amen to all of this! 👏👏👏👏
Know your worth ladies
*mic drop*