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I’ve learned “Single women keep Women Single.” If you are in a serious relationship stop letting your girl hang out with her single friends. Those single friends always have something to say about the man the other friend is dating. Remember you’re not dating her single friend and there’s a reason she’s still single. Or watch out for those toxic women that are taken.
@@KatariaGujjar Correct, what that means is when a woman is dating or married she allows her single friends to have a say in who she’s with. Usually it’s nothing but negative things they say or they compare him to the last guy which leaves the woman single instead of just letting her enjoy the time she has with the guy.
"You cant get a girl like you did in high school when you're an adult" That was a truth bomb, and something that really hit my in my late 20's, and part of what fueled me to get my sht together
I had to learn to be assertive. I learned you don’t have to be mean or a jerk to be assertive and high self esteem isn’t arrogant, proud or narcissistic
Even though I find "science backed" and 'God created us that way' a bit contradicting, I deeply respect your insight. Besides your great advice in the content, I actually watch some of your Vids before I give a talk to calibrate my inner smile. You have absolutely mastered inner smile. I recently discovered, there is only one trait in women that decides If I could love her: She can lough from the bottom of her Heart. And a smile like that tells just so much about your ability to lough from the deepest part of your Soul. Also some Goofyness is great. Love it :)
I love your videos. It's taken awhile after a breakup to heal. But I'm in a much better place ready for the next phase. There's a woman at church that is just amazing and I really don't want to make the wrong move. I keep watching and just keep being real.
That's great! Here are some videos that will help you with this. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XsyVNxjH6S9-iRe-S5q4rO And these ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk And these too ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-Vg7g_huxM6KRbr1KTmITuK Best of luck!👍
I just subscribed found it refreshing i think im getting my confidence back after a 7 yr break up but i needed to hear stuff like this to get back to my old me.
A guy in red and blue tighties with a cape is very masculine . Especially when they have x-Ray vision. I tried being a superhero. It didn't work. Got a lot of laughs though. Especially when I jumped off a building and found out I couldn't fly.
I’m male 5’4”, brown skin, bald, and was last year .... 60 pounds overweight Double chin Sloppily dressed Bad foods Bad hygiene 100% rejected by ALL women Me this year ... Went vegan and lost 60 pounds Chiseled face, lean body, trimmed beard, great hygiene Now looking and smelling fabulous and went into complete fashion from head to toe in men’s Versace, Giorgio Armani, Prada, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Christian Dior, Hermès etc and collecting designer watches and top colognes Women now approach and compliment me EVERY DAY everywhere I go They don’t care that in looks I’m from 1-10 maybe a 4 They see me looking amazing and they get turned on by short little me And yes I’m finally getting dates
You dont need all that fancy stuff to attract the female... All you need is proper bank account, they all love that stuff and then you can skip your showers and fragrances becouse you doing it for a show anyway Be yourself Be as dirty as you like, just be yourself lol
Great video. I'm also a Christian. I'm not judgemental, but humble , helpful to those in need if I can do so, protect those who are weaker who can't defend themselves in the right way. Again great tips. I enjoy ur video s.
I was looking for the typical immature highschool video on "how to attract woman" but this video has so much truth! No need to be the toxic bad boy, gentle and kindness is better!!
As a Christian, I'm happy to have found a female dating and relationship coach who gives real, down to earth advice to men from a Christian perspective that is not overbearing. I would seriously consider purchasing the coaching package if or when I come into some extra money. In any event, thanks for your wisdom.
Men are great, women need to understand their role and stay in their lane. My proof? Ever see the Great Pyramids of Giza, the Golden Gate Bridge, The statue of liberty, The empire State building, The Taj mahal or the Roman coliseum? All built by men. Unless you're a super huge A-hole... Men need to have confidence and remember how society got where it got.
i was married to the woman of my dreams for 16 years, then she passed away. I may be unhappy that we never had kids, but ultimately no one is like her, so if i ever meet someone that makes me fall again then we will see, i just don't believe I'll ever find that again.
My wife left our marriage of 42 years to go live with another man and his mom last year. I found out a couple of weeks ago that they are now getting married this month. I’m wanting to move on to the next chapter of my life but I haven’t dated since high school. Things are really different dating at this age. I appreciate your videos and any help you can give. God bless, Elvin P.S. You have a beautiful smile and eyes. You can tell you enjoy what you doing.
Sorry to read about your situation but God does have a plan for all. As for dating at your age...Just go out and do what you love doing and you will find yourself surrounded by people who love doing the same things/activities and these people will be of all ages and ethnic backgrounds...you'll be sure to have plenty of opportunities meeting partners this way
Lord Heavenly Father I want to thank you for everything you done and about to do . I humbly ask that you heal this man heart . Even bring them back together if that is your will . If it is not then I ask that you send someone who would appreciate him and love him for the person you are inside of of him without you their is no love and without love we have no power because love overcomes all trails and God is love so I pray you send him many blessing and comfort as you said the Holy Spirit is our comforter and we are to remind you of your promises to his word you word says it not good for man to be alone so I ask you send him a wife that all well be made well and do it in away that brings you glory in Jesus name amen Jesus loves you brother so do I ! Jesus loves you more !
Treecio Tuason Amen praise God I agree he said Jeremiah 29:11 For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
edward casey thank you, you have no idea how much your payer means to me. I’ve been in hopes for a year that she would come back but I found out from my sons she plans on marrying this guy this month ( October) . I’m not sure what happened to her after 42 years of marriage it’s like over night she changed into a different person even in her eyes she looked different. I can’t explain it but when she left and at the time she was living with her sister but she didn’t even say goodbye to our two sons or five grandkids. She just got on a plane and flew down to be with this guy and his mom the week before thanksgiving last year. When my sons asked why she didn’t say goodbye she said she had to clean her sisters bathrooms before she left. We haven’t talked since last September and even when I texted her to tell her our dog had past away she didn’t even send back a thank you for letting her know or I’m sorry. She did come back for a couple of days to pick up her things from her sister and the boys and their families went to see her. They said she barley talked to them and she sat in the corner the whole time texting her fiancé and and ignoring them and the grandkids. They said they wish they hadn’t gone to see her. It was very hurtful and my granddaughter cried on the way back home. That’s not the same woman I married. I do hope I find someone that will fill that void that she’s left in mine and my families life.
Hi Coach Melannie!! When you said the meaning of physically attractive, I remembered another video where you said women observes if our things (from a pen to a screwdriver) are falling to pieces or are in a good shape. So, it looks like women are looking for a man who: Can take good care of his external beeing (body, clothing, health) Can take good care of his internal beeing (relationship with God, set boundaries, appropiate behaviours) Can take good care of his belogings (things, tools, everything that is in his hands) Can take good care of other people (compassion, gentle, kind, supportive) If something is wrong, please let me know. As always YES!! this videos prepare us to avoid mistakes. Thanks to you I am learning a lot. :)
Really enjoy you.. you are down to earth and honest!! Thank you and keep it up.. we need help the world has changed. My wife of 20 years has passed and it can be strange out there.
Thank you for your kind words. I'm so very sorry for your loss! Let me know if I can answer any questions for you. melannie@coachmelannie.com God bless!
@@CoachMelannie Anyone who gives you hate comments should be called a toxic man, because he is not being a Christian, for our Lord says in the scriptures, love your enemy.
Be gentle and an assertive man. A gentleman. Anger comes from weakness. Love your help, giving me confidence to get that classy woman I have my eye on.
I liked a lot of advice about this video, but it was especially refreshing to hear you say” religion is about your relationship with God, not in how to judge others”. Love this, thank you.
Your physical features..hair, eyes, and smiles ☺ you're very attractive and your voice and how down to earth you are makes u even more attractive. Came upon this video randomly btw. Good video though.
Are females evil or setting you up for failure? & what to watch out for. - Is she telling you to meet her somewhere secluded the first time you meet. - Does she unlock the home doors/windows. - Is she trying to imprison you. Does she need protection. Does she want you to hurt someone or rob them. Is she trying to set you up with someone younger. - Is she trying to bate and switch you with other friends. - Does she steal to get what she wants. Do you need to take important things with you if you leave her in your home. Do you have to hide money/cards. Can you sleep before she does. Can you shower with her around. - Does she shower properly. - Is she a mess and doesn't clean up after her self. - Is she wasteful or squander food. - Is she addicted to drugs/alcohol. Do they make her paranoid or unpredictable. - Does she lock herself in the bathroom then seems different after. - Does she ever show up bare foot or always has dirty feet. - Does she make any coherent statements. - Is she pacing back and forth non stop. - Is she grinding her teeth or talk with a locked law. - Is she constantly scratching herself. - Does she claim she's missing money implying you took it. - Do drugs cause her to leave. - Does she leave after sex. - What hour does she show up and why. - Did you meet her at a bar. - Is she diseased. - Is she thinking of others. - Do other men come looking for her when in your presence. - Is she flirtatious towards others. - Does she claim she's taking birth control and allergic to prophylactic. - Did she take her birth control. - Does she have kids from more than one man. - Does she want many kids, the best car, the house, the business. - Does she work. - Does she manage money well. - Is she high maintenance. - Has she ever bought you anything. - Where does her money go. - Does she make plans with you/for you. - Has she broken plans to be with you. - Is she always quite. - Does she share her thoughts, dreams or goals. - What does she say to others. - Is she honest about everything. Does she lie about the past, or change the things you have said. - Does she remember anything about you. - Does she have female friends. What kind of women are they. - Does she like the company you keep. - Is she an idolizer of media celebrities. - Does she watch reality tv shows that are filled with shmut or swanky. - Is she on her phone all the time/social media. - Does she listen to corrupt music. - Does she care about the rest of the world. - Does she laugh when others are injured. - Does she make fun of others or laugh when others do. - Is she tolerant of others. - Is she moody and get angry for simple reasons. - Is she racist/prejudice. - Is she spiritually aligned with heaven or hell.
Public comment. Great message to man.. God bless you. Thank you so much. In any relationship between two persons needs trust and respect and care and commitment by understanding the principles of life. Serving the purpose.. it is important to be discipline and self control very important. Self realization.
Melanie, I've recently subscribed to your videos. Haven't had a chance to email you back but just wanted to say how great you are at replying to these post. I've noticed you have a very flirty countenance/demeanor in these videos that is warm and welcoming. To you it may be nervousness of publoc speaking possibly but the way you smile, sway, and make eye contact but then flutter your eyes and then like partially close them as if you're looking into light is excellent. You should mention this body language in a video! Great job and thank you for your guidance and help!
I'm was never looking for easy and fast to pick up the girl. I just wanted it to be right... and it's worked out for me so far. Has any guy ever set polite boundaries and she says... or what? Exactly, You have just given her an ultimatum and in her mind that's exactly how she takes it. If anybody expects that a woman wants 50/50, you are in a world of disconnect. 51/49 (her) at minimum. I have never met a woman who truly believes that she's not perfect. Have you ever met a female who was ever wrong? 🤣 Good thing I learned everything I needed to know at an early stage by both men and women when it comes to attraction and relationships. Taking psychology in college just cemented almost everything I was taught. Goodluck everybody!! 😁
Some women I like so badly preach the bible to me on ad on and have invited me to their noisy religious services in modern christian congregations..... what a drag ! i d hook up a whore as she would be more humane , that simple
Great content! I have to confess the that Trait #2 Setting health boundaries was a surprise! I dont like conflict with my partner, so I allow too many things slide until it because an issue or problem in the relationship. Setting boundaries would eliminate most of these issues.
You will never be happy. The man needs to be the leader. Otherwise nobody is happy long term. If they are really in love with you they will stick with you. If not, it’s better to split
Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I hope that helps. God bless!
I'm totally happy being a man of faith in my 50's with no wife and kids. I'm sure for some people marriage is the answer. But, for me being on my own I'm very content. Either way, I wish you nothing but the best.
A real man... The rich, church going, cute, tall and buff guy,.. For that ultimate family support and security, that all women dream about. Well I'd say something else about that, but I'm keeping my cool :)
Am 73 yrs old some of what your advising seem hard to do at this age. I am a man of faith and have been healed of cancer twice. Seem to turn ladies off got any advise
I'm single and I certainly believe materialism and superficiality is the matter. People put the two of them first before anything else. I'm not sure what is the definition of a Mature man theses days.
Yes! This is a great video. I am a Christian man, and I want to connect with a Christian woman. Your comments helped me consider my approach to what I’m looking for in a woman.
Why do women have to be complicated? I'm glad someone is making you tube vid about Christian dating. Most of the vids out there just tell u how to hookup with a toxic girl for one night. I want a Wife not a One night stand. God Bless you Melanie.
O.k vid, seems to assume you're drowning in women, but you work from home, live in a small rural town of 15,000 people, no nightlife, just scummy pubs full of old crusty farmers, no decent women to be found to attract, anywhere, & at 52 yrs old, you're meeting women with more baggage than Hethrow Airport....
I'm back now Melannie, I took a nap. I'm a real man, I brush my teeth three times a day but I always run low on after shave. I also make sure that my shadow play the back when I'm on a date, and not a word out of him.
Mm, I think everyman ove woman go thru this stuff I m a very good looking guy. And i say that not just because of my looks z but because I have been around and u know very well that no matter what u say confident peaple rbgona do thing like I said I've been an athlete all my life and I agree with you woman e wirw different, but If y wana be nice dont charge this insecure guys th5a im sure they r good people. But yet y want to exploit there shyness and make $ of 8f them that's wrong, and u consider yourself a Christian woman. Remember GOD will judge u
It's all mind games. People don't want the truth. They run from the truth and would rather play manipulative games. People just want confirmation, affirmation, adoration, validation, and acceptance. It's sad. I just want someone who is real and sincere. I want someone who appreciates truth. Where are these people in the world? I know they are not in south Florida.
That may be true if you are talking about toxic people. Here are some videos that will explain what I mean. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Please let me know if you have any questions. I promise there really are good people in this world! Take care!
Which of these tips do I like the most ? Christian women looking for Christian men and vice versa. That is actually Biblical. Thank you for another good video. God bless you.
I am so sorry that has been your experience! Usually that happens if she is toxic. Here are some videos that will explain this. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA You can email me if you have any questions! Take care.
Really enjoy watching your video. So much sense, and straight forward suggestions, advice, and help. What is eaten, clothing and how to hold yourself, it really seems too simple, that as well as you talking about religion are the two topics that stunned me.
After finding your channel and watching countless videos av noticed that am gradually becoming more and more aware of the kind of woman that I want in my life.
Yes I would like to learn more I'm extremely scared of getting close to people because of me being hurt as bad as I have I'm 51 I love Jesus more than you can believe but I need your master class
I feel like I’m stuck in this toxic relationship w her and I’m a gentleman who’s compassionate and gentle, yet she doesn’t like me showing my love w those actions of expressing my love in affectionate ways. She dislikes holding hands hugging and things of that sort. I’ve tried bringing God into the midst and she doesn’t commit to that 100% either. I’m not perfect I know but I feel as if I constantly put in effort, and she doesn’t respect the boundaries I put up. Maybe God has someone else in mind for me or maybe not. But my relationship w God now is coming first 💯
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I’ve learned “Single women keep Women Single.” If you are in a serious relationship stop letting your girl hang out with her single friends. Those single friends always have something to say about the man the other friend is dating. Remember you’re not dating her single friend and there’s a reason she’s still single. Or watch out for those toxic women that are taken.
Every woman is single at some point in life.
@@KatariaGujjar Correct, what that means is when a woman is dating or married she allows her single friends to have a say in who she’s with. Usually it’s nothing but negative things they say or they compare him to the last guy which leaves the woman single instead of just letting her enjoy the time she has with the guy.
Lol stop letting my girl do something?...
She has a mind of her own.
She does whatever she wants and so do I
So you're suggesting trying to control who the person you are dating hangs out with? I feel sorry for anyone who date's you
@@MahkyVmedia1 finally someone sane
"You cant get a girl like you did in high school when you're an adult"
That was a truth bomb, and something that really hit my in my late 20's, and part of what fueled me to get my sht together
The part about not being appropriately assertive, setting boundaries, hit home with me. Thank you.
I had to learn to be assertive. I learned you don’t have to be mean or a jerk to be assertive and high self esteem isn’t arrogant, proud or narcissistic
I learned the most about relationships with women when I learned to partner dance.
We can never have enough videos on how to attract amazing women!
Thanks for letting me know! 😀 And thanks for your kind comment!
This girls' smile is contagious.
Thanks for watching! 🙏
Yeah, really gorgeous...great videos, also really nice voice, i bet she can sing very good c:
Yes
Even though I find "science backed" and 'God created us that way' a bit contradicting, I deeply respect your insight. Besides your great advice in the content, I actually watch some of your Vids before I give a talk to calibrate my inner smile. You have absolutely mastered inner smile. I recently discovered, there is only one trait in women that decides If I could love her: She can lough from the bottom of her Heart. And a smile like that tells just so much about your ability to lough from the deepest part of your Soul. Also some Goofyness is great. Love it :)
Agreed
I love your videos. It's taken awhile after a breakup to heal. But I'm in a much better place ready for the next phase. There's a woman at church that is just amazing and I really don't want to make the wrong move. I keep watching and just keep being real.
That's great! Here are some videos that will help you with this. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-XsyVNxjH6S9-iRe-S5q4rO And these ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-X_ynv6PY785bErqiZoqbSk And these too ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-Vg7g_huxM6KRbr1KTmITuK Best of luck!👍
Go up and approach her at church, ASK her if she wants the body of Christ. Amen
Next. Not be a coward.
I just subscribed found it refreshing i think im getting my confidence back after a 7 yr break up but i needed to hear stuff like this to get back to my old me.
I’m so happy it was helpful! Let me know if I can help in any way. Thanks for watching! 😀
A guy in red and blue tighties with a cape is very masculine . Especially when they have x-Ray vision. I tried being a superhero. It didn't work. Got a lot of laughs though. Especially when I jumped off a building and found out I couldn't fly.
Lol! Thanks for watching! 😀
Bonus points for comedy😂
Still here though/ or are you a superhero 🤔🤔🤔🤔🙄
Ayo wtf
What kinda weed do u smoke??
I’m male 5’4”, brown skin, bald, and was last year ....
60 pounds overweight
Double chin
Sloppily dressed
Bad foods Bad hygiene
100% rejected by ALL women
Me this year ...
Went vegan and lost 60 pounds
Chiseled face, lean body, trimmed beard, great hygiene
Now looking and smelling fabulous and went into complete fashion from head to toe in men’s Versace, Giorgio Armani, Prada, Gucci, Louis Vuitton, Christian Dior, Hermès etc and collecting designer watches and top colognes
Women now approach and compliment me EVERY DAY everywhere I go
They don’t care that in looks I’m from 1-10 maybe a 4
They see me looking amazing and they get turned on by short little me
And yes I’m finally getting dates
I'm so happy for you!
Stop the cap bro, women wouldn't approach and complement a guy. They would just look at you and smile at most.
You dont need all that fancy stuff to attract the female...
All you need is proper bank account, they all love that stuff and then you can skip your showers and fragrances becouse you doing it for a show anyway
Be yourself
Be as dirty as you like, just be yourself lol
So true, women don't compliment, they smile blush and stare at me
Great video. I'm also a Christian. I'm not judgemental, but humble , helpful to those in need if I can do so, protect those who are weaker who can't defend themselves in the right way. Again great tips. I enjoy ur video s.
Thanks for watching 😀
@@CoachMelannie no problem my friend love your videos they have great insight
You're Christian? What are you doing here?)))))
Thank you for another amazing video! Please keep them coming!
Thank you! Will do!
Dear Mellanie - your enthusiasm shines through in your videos. As does your wisdom. I appreciate it so much, and wish you a wonderful life. Thank you!
You’re very kind! Thanks for watching! 🙏
I just love this woman. I find myself watching her videos purely because it gives me joy.
Maybe it's the Christian spirit.
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
Sucker!
@@alimantado373
Behave, now.
I was looking for the typical immature highschool video on "how to attract woman" but this video has so much truth! No need to be the toxic bad boy, gentle and kindness is better!!
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
As a Christian, I'm happy to have found a female dating and relationship coach who gives real, down to earth advice to men from a Christian perspective that is not overbearing. I would seriously consider purchasing the coaching package if or when I come into some extra money. In any event, thanks for your wisdom.
Thanks for watching! 😀
@@CoachMelannie that bite on the add was fine……
This is entirely unnecessary for true Christians (orthodox) in which people get married early and divorce rates are lower then Mormons lol
People are capable of being GREAT....GREATEST THEY' CAN' B'!!!
and that's all they ever are. Lol
Men are great, women need to understand their role and stay in their lane. My proof? Ever see the Great Pyramids of Giza, the Golden Gate Bridge, The statue of liberty, The empire State building, The Taj mahal or the Roman coliseum? All built by men. Unless you're a super huge A-hole... Men need to have confidence and remember how society got where it got.
@@chriscrocker6783 Most achievements pre 20th century done by Women were disguised as Men.
@@chriscrocker6783 Yes obviously millions of men were sacrificed in major engineering.
i was married to the woman of my dreams for 16 years, then she passed away. I may be unhappy that we never had kids, but ultimately no one is like her, so if i ever meet someone that makes me fall again then we will see, i just don't believe I'll ever find that again.
As usual, great advice Melannie!!
And as usual, a very entertaining blooper reel at the end! Keep on blushing! ☺
I'm so glad it was helpful! Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
My wife left our marriage of 42 years to go live with another man and his mom last year. I found out a couple of weeks ago that they are now getting married this month. I’m wanting to move on to the next chapter of my life but I haven’t dated since high school. Things are really different dating at this age. I appreciate your videos and any help you can give. God bless, Elvin
P.S. You have a beautiful smile and eyes. You can tell you enjoy what you doing.
Sorry to read about your situation but God does have a plan for all. As for dating at your age...Just go out and do what you love doing and you will find yourself surrounded by people who love doing the same things/activities and these people will be of all ages and ethnic backgrounds...you'll be sure to have plenty of opportunities meeting partners this way
Feel free to email me with any questions! melannie@coachmelannie.com God bless!
Lord Heavenly Father I want to thank you for everything you done and about to do . I humbly ask that you heal this man heart . Even bring them back together if that is your will . If it is not then I ask that you send someone who would appreciate him and love him for the person you are inside of of him without you their is no love and without love we have no power because love overcomes all trails and God is love so I pray you send him many blessing and comfort as you said the Holy Spirit is our comforter and we are to remind you of your promises to his word you word says it not good for man to be alone so I ask you send him a wife that all well be made well and do it in away that brings you glory in Jesus name amen Jesus loves you brother so do I ! Jesus loves you more !
Treecio Tuason Amen praise God I agree he said Jeremiah 29:11
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope.
edward casey thank you, you have no idea how much your payer means to me. I’ve been in hopes for a year that she would come back but I found out from my sons she plans on marrying this guy this month ( October) . I’m not sure what happened to her after 42 years of marriage it’s like over night she changed into a different person even in her eyes she looked different. I can’t explain it but when she left and at the time she was living with her sister but she didn’t even say goodbye to our two sons or five grandkids. She just got on a plane and flew down to be with this guy and his mom the week before thanksgiving last year. When my sons asked why she didn’t say goodbye she said she had to clean her sisters bathrooms before she left.
We haven’t talked since last September and even when I texted her to tell her our dog had past away she didn’t even send back a thank you for letting her know or I’m sorry.
She did come back for a couple of days to pick up her things from her sister and the boys and their families went to see her. They said she barley talked to them and she sat in the corner the whole time texting her fiancé and and ignoring them and the grandkids. They said they wish they hadn’t gone to see her. It was very hurtful and my granddaughter cried on the way back home. That’s not the same woman I married.
I do hope I find someone that will fill that void that she’s left in mine and my families life.
I became more confident because of your videos. Thank You. I m having fun watching your videos from time to time
That's great!
Hi Coach Melannie!!
When you said the meaning of physically attractive, I remembered another video where you said women observes if our things (from a pen to a screwdriver) are falling to pieces or are in a good shape.
So, it looks like women are looking for a man who:
Can take good care of his external beeing (body, clothing, health)
Can take good care of his internal beeing (relationship with God, set boundaries, appropiate behaviours)
Can take good care of his belogings (things, tools, everything that is in his hands)
Can take good care of other people (compassion, gentle, kind, supportive)
If something is wrong, please let me know.
As always YES!! this videos prepare us to avoid mistakes.
Thanks to you I am learning a lot. :)
Really enjoy you.. you are down to earth and honest!! Thank you and keep it up.. we need help the world has changed. My wife of 20 years has passed and it can be strange out there.
Thank you for your kind words. I'm so very sorry for your loss! Let me know if I can answer any questions for you. melannie@coachmelannie.com God bless!
Randy,strange is being kind in todays world
@@CoachMelannie Anyone who gives you hate comments should be called a toxic man, because he is not being a Christian, for our Lord says in the scriptures, love your enemy.
I’m sorry to hear how are you feeling?
Be gentle and an assertive man. A gentleman. Anger comes from weakness. Love your help, giving me confidence to get that classy woman I have my eye on.
I'm so happy to help! Thank you! God bless 🙏
You know what you are saying. Thanks for keeping it simple and real.
I liked a lot of advice about this video, but it was especially refreshing to hear you say” religion is about your relationship with God, not in how to judge others”. Love this, thank you.
Your physical features..hair, eyes, and smiles ☺ you're very attractive and your voice and how down to earth you are makes u even more attractive.
Came upon this video randomly btw. Good video though.
Yes! I would really like more videos on this topic. Thank you for this insightful video! I'm learning some extremely practical tips.
Your cheery attitude, combined with straight forward encouragement and explanations; are wonderful. Thanks Melannie
Are females evil or setting you up for failure? & what to watch out for.
- Is she telling you to meet her somewhere secluded the first time you meet.
- Does she unlock the home doors/windows.
- Is she trying to imprison you. Does she need protection. Does she want you to hurt someone or rob them. Is she trying to set you up with someone younger.
- Is she trying to bate and switch you with other friends.
- Does she steal to get what she wants. Do you need to take important things with you if you leave her in your home. Do you have to hide money/cards. Can you sleep before she does. Can you shower with her around.
- Does she shower properly.
- Is she a mess and doesn't clean up after her self.
- Is she wasteful or squander food.
- Is she addicted to drugs/alcohol. Do they make her paranoid or unpredictable.
- Does she lock herself in the bathroom then seems different after.
- Does she ever show up bare foot or always has dirty feet.
- Does she make any coherent statements.
- Is she pacing back and forth non stop.
- Is she grinding her teeth or talk with a locked law.
- Is she constantly scratching herself.
- Does she claim she's missing money implying you took it.
- Do drugs cause her to leave.
- Does she leave after sex.
- What hour does she show up and why.
- Did you meet her at a bar.
- Is she diseased.
- Is she thinking of others.
- Do other men come looking for her when in your presence.
- Is she flirtatious towards others.
- Does she claim she's taking birth control and allergic to prophylactic.
- Did she take her birth control.
- Does she have kids from more than one man.
- Does she want many kids, the best car, the house, the business.
- Does she work.
- Does she manage money well.
- Is she high maintenance.
- Has she ever bought you anything.
- Where does her money go.
- Does she make plans with you/for you.
- Has she broken plans to be with you.
- Is she always quite.
- Does she share her thoughts, dreams or goals.
- What does she say to others.
- Is she honest about everything. Does she lie about the past, or change the things you have said.
- Does she remember anything about you.
- Does she have female friends. What kind of women are they.
- Does she like the company you keep.
- Is she an idolizer of media celebrities.
- Does she watch reality tv shows that are filled with shmut or swanky.
- Is she on her phone all the time/social media.
- Does she listen to corrupt music.
- Does she care about the rest of the world.
- Does she laugh when others are injured.
- Does she make fun of others or laugh when others do.
- Is she tolerant of others.
- Is she moody and get angry for simple reasons.
- Is she racist/prejudice.
- Is she spiritually aligned with heaven or hell.
Thank you for all these tips! Super informative.
Glad it was helpful!
Love that thumbnail 😁
Yes Melannie, you have the cutest smile, & make a ton of common sense. Very good counseling sessions & amazing lady. Peace
Thank you for your kind words! Have a great day 😀
Public comment. Great message to man.. God bless you. Thank you so much. In any relationship between two persons needs trust and respect and care and commitment by understanding the principles of life. Serving the purpose.. it is important to be discipline and self control very important. Self realization.
Melanie, I've recently subscribed to your videos. Haven't had a chance to email you back but just wanted to say how great you are at replying to these post. I've noticed you have a very flirty countenance/demeanor in these videos that is warm and welcoming. To you it may be nervousness of publoc speaking possibly but the way you smile, sway, and make eye contact but then flutter your eyes and then like partially close them as if you're looking into light is excellent. You should mention this body language in a video! Great job and thank you for your guidance and help!
I'm was never looking for easy and fast to pick up the girl. I just wanted it to be right... and it's worked out for me so far. Has any guy ever set polite boundaries and she says... or what? Exactly, You have just given her an ultimatum and in her mind that's exactly how she takes it. If anybody expects that a woman wants 50/50, you are in a world of disconnect. 51/49 (her) at minimum. I have never met a woman who truly believes that she's not perfect. Have you ever met a female who was ever wrong? 🤣 Good thing I learned everything I needed to know at an early stage by both men and women when it comes to attraction and relationships. Taking psychology in college just cemented almost everything I was taught. Goodluck everybody!! 😁
If a man uses religion to attract women , he has lost the plot. Pride , prejudice and self righteousness are the pitfalls and indications of this.
Some women I like so badly preach the bible to me on ad on and have invited me to their noisy religious services in modern christian congregations..... what a drag ! i d hook up a whore as she would be more humane , that simple
Confidence is a magnet 💵💴💶💷💎
Great content! I have to confess the that Trait #2 Setting health boundaries was a surprise!
I dont like conflict with my partner, so I allow too many things slide until it because an issue or problem in the relationship.
Setting boundaries would eliminate most of these issues.
I'm so glad you liked it! Thanks for watching! 🙏
You will never be happy. The man needs to be the leader. Otherwise nobody is happy long term. If they are really in love with you they will stick with you. If not, it’s better to split
Me personally the best success and attractive behavior is learning to be happy single.
It all really boils down to physical appearance or money in the end lol, that's what really changes after highschool.
Money is very important to men and women. It takes money to live and a lot of money to live well. Those are facts. However, if you find that the women you are attracting want only your money, you are probably attracting toxic women. Here are some videos that will help you. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA I hope that helps. God bless!
Hi Melanie the thing you said between 7:35 and 9:00 is perfect
Thanks for the tips. It’s great and better to have insight from a woman 😉
My pleasure! You're very kind. Thanks for your comment!😀
Thanks - you’re very adorable! 😊
Hi Melannie, Really like this video. Yes, I would like to see more videos like this. Thanks For The Great Advice!
You got it! Thanks for telling me! 👍
Amazing! Thank you!
You are very welcome! I'm so glad it helped 😀
Excellent video including the bloopers. You are a real woman!
I'm totally happy being a man of faith in my 50's with no wife and kids. I'm sure for some people marriage is the answer. But, for me being on my own I'm very content. Either way, I wish you nothing but the best.
A real man... The rich, church going, cute, tall and buff guy,.. For that ultimate family support and security, that all women dream about. Well I'd say something else about that, but I'm keeping my cool :)
I definitely want to know how to attract women. I want to have that beautiful connection with a woman again
Let me know if you want my help with this!
Her voice is intoxicating af ❤❤
What an incredible and positive attitude in life!
Thank you! God bless! 😀
Thank you Melanie.
Of all of your messages, this one has spoken to me. The absolute most!
Thank you again.
Steve
"Even my_our MISTAKES R' PERFECT!!"
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Am 73 yrs old some of what your advising seem hard to do at this age. I am a man of faith and have been healed of cancer twice. Seem to turn ladies off got any advise
I'm single and I certainly believe materialism and superficiality is the matter. People put the two of them first before anything else. I'm not sure what is the definition of a Mature man theses days.
Drive a new luxury car and you will win, me because I'm built and tall and athletic and funny I can drive a 10 year old vehicle......
If you just give up on yourself, then how can you do such a thing?
Yes! This is a great video. I am a Christian man, and I want to connect with a Christian woman. Your comments helped me consider my approach to what I’m looking for in a woman.
Yes! Personally, I'm not a Christian so do most of these things apply to majority of women?
Yes! I believe they do! Thanks for watching!
Yes! Please make more videos like this!
Why do women have to be complicated?
I'm glad someone is making you tube vid about Christian dating. Most of the vids out there just tell u how to hookup with a toxic girl for one night. I want a Wife not a One night stand. God Bless you Melanie.
Thanks for your kind comment! I truly want all of my followers to have happy, healthy marriages for ever! God bless 🙏
You forgot the most important behavior, to just be YOURSELF.
I’m thirsty af lol
Same
Same
You voice is incredible. It surprised me actually.
O.k vid, seems to assume you're drowning in women, but you work from home, live in a small rural town of 15,000 people, no nightlife, just scummy pubs full of old crusty farmers, no decent women to be found to attract, anywhere, & at 52 yrs old, you're meeting women with more baggage than Hethrow Airport....
Perhaps leave that area... you are 52 you can make these decisions for yourself.
Anyone else find coach Melanie attractive? She seems smart and her smile is so bright and friendly.
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Kindness and honesty go a long way! My soul mate is out there somewhere, and I have faith that I will meet her soon! Please wait for me! ❤
Yes she is! Thanks for watching! 🙏
I could watch you express yourself all day, from the smiles to the gestures.
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@@johnputnam8974 help with what?
I'm back now Melannie, I took a nap. I'm a real man, I brush my teeth three times a day but I always run low on after shave. I also make sure that my shadow play the back when I'm on a date, and not a word out of him.
Mm, I think everyman ove woman go thru this stuff I m a very good looking guy. And i say that not just because of my looks z but because I have been around and u know very well that no matter what u say confident peaple rbgona do thing like I said I've been an athlete all my life and I agree with you woman e wirw different, but If y wana be nice dont charge this insecure guys th5a im sure they r good people. But yet y want to exploit there shyness and make $ of 8f them that's wrong, and u consider yourself a Christian woman. Remember GOD will judge u
I’m 43 years old and this advice is if you wanna be fake JUST BE YOURSELF THATS ALL BE YOURSELF..
I love your smile. ❤️
You’re beautiful.and that thumbnail with you biting your lip is insane 😍
Ok, but what if I want a high school girl? BTW, the ffirst rule of getting a girl if you actually want one is to never take advice from a girl.
Thank you melannie, your videos are helpfull and you so charming!..
Glad you like them! Thanks for watching! 🙏
Flirting is the most definitely important part of anyone standing. Your Smile thou, Melannie .
It's all mind games. People don't want the truth. They run from the truth and would rather play manipulative games. People just want confirmation, affirmation, adoration, validation, and acceptance. It's sad. I just want someone who is real and sincere. I want someone who appreciates truth. Where are these people in the world? I know they are not in south Florida.
Lmao south Florida , nahhh Tampa Florida 😂
That may be true if you are talking about toxic people. Here are some videos that will explain what I mean. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA Please let me know if you have any questions. I promise there really are good people in this world! Take care!
THANK YOU FOR YOUR WISDOM, MANY BLESSINGS TO YOU
Which of these tips do I like the most ? Christian women looking for Christian men and vice versa. That is actually Biblical. Thank you for another good video. God bless you.
Thank you! God bless 🙏
THIS IS GREAT! I can’t wait to apply what I’ve learned here...once I learn what a women is...🧐
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I just watched the Tinder Swindler, women want money. PERIOD
Toxic women and scammers want money. High quality women have their own money, they won't ask for yours.
No hablo casi inglés, así que cague 🔥.
No entiendo nada.
Saludos bro. Habla de cosas de como atraer mujeres. Hay tutoriales en español...
Thank you for your honesty on the religious snob part. Ive had an issue with that. Some people are CLUELESS 😇👍
Thanks for watching. 🙏
they want to super hero but date and marry the villain
I am so sorry that has been your experience! Usually that happens if she is toxic. Here are some videos that will explain this. ruclips.net/p/PLsQq0KK7pJ-VyeTDmwCE46a85Pme0uqRA You can email me if you have any questions! Take care.
@@CoachMelannie thank you for being so kind
Because the super hero is busy being too nice
Just stumbled on this, gave you a like after listening for first 10secs
You have an adorable laugh
coach melanie is a blessing
Thank you so much for such I a kind comment! God bless!
How can I attract you my dear? you're so lovely....
Really enjoy watching your video. So much sense, and straight forward suggestions, advice, and help. What is eaten, clothing and how to hold yourself, it really seems too simple, that as well as you talking about religion are the two topics that stunned me.
OH YES THIS DO want you to make s’more videos!
I appreciate your service coach
After finding your channel and watching countless videos av noticed that am gradually becoming more and more aware of the kind of woman that I want in my life.
I’m so happy to hear that!👍
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Yes I would like to learn more I'm extremely scared of getting close to people because of me being hurt as bad as I have I'm 51 I love Jesus more than you can believe but I need your master class
I am a 60 yrs young single man and still have trouble meeting women.
I really like people like you. It's people like you that make things work. All the best to you
You’re very kind! Thanks for watching! 🙏
I feel like I’m stuck in this toxic relationship w her and I’m a gentleman who’s compassionate and gentle, yet she doesn’t like me showing my love w those actions of expressing my love in affectionate ways. She dislikes holding hands hugging and things of that sort. I’ve tried bringing God into the midst and she doesn’t commit to that 100% either. I’m not perfect I know but I feel as if I constantly put in effort, and she doesn’t respect the boundaries I put up. Maybe God has someone else in mind for me or maybe not. But my relationship w God now is coming first 💯
I love your video
Yes I would I believe I have those traits that you’re talking about.I love videos like this keep them coming.
I love your voice.
Hi Melanie! I’m real, assertive, compassionate, gentle, masculine, protective, and I can wear a cape if need be 😉 LOL!!! 😂
Excellent video, thank you 🙏👏☺
Glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for telling me! 👍