Thanks for watching! If anything I've shared here has helped you, you'll be OBSESSED with my Academy! 🤩 Click here to watch my free masterclass and learn more! 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass P.S. Did one of these weird things stand out to you more than the others? Tell me about it in the comments!
The part about showing emotions as far as crying is so real to me! I am divorced and really want to make this coworker see the real me, through real emotion, without being needy. This has given me some food for thought.
I've always wondered what writers mean when they say a woman had an "infectious" grin, or sense of humour, and so on. Having seen a number of your videos, I have a feeling that I know now what they mean.
I shut down all emotion as a kid after seeing my dad pass from a heart attack. Then I trained with the elite in the Marines further distancing emotion. My ex finally took away the rest. No matter how hard I worked, changed and adjusted.
Same basically happened to me. After my dad passed away i did the same, and then years later the girl that I loved made me cry again after many years, but she broke my heart so much, and so many times, I lost all emotions as well... Seems now I cannot cry anyone...
You didn't lose emotions it just takes alot to make you cry. People put too much emphasis on crying. Crying isn't an emotion, it just means catharsis is happening.
"Yes"! Coach Melannie, this is another awesome video with very helpful tips and advice! Sometimes the best videos are the ones that have to be done again, even while rushing back from running errands. Thank you for taking time to share your research and a woman's point of view.
Yes. This video was very helpful. Those were some surprising things to know women liked and I will keep them in mind. I did know a few of those from hanging out with friends gaming in my younger days. There were a few girls in the group and I dare say we had them laughing even when they were nervous about playing at first. I hope the beanie makes another appearance in the future because you look so cute wearing it!
Melannie you always look great no matter the outfit! Definitely appreciate your happiness and cheerfulness! Always greatly enjoy your humorous content you include as well 😂 also would like to hear more on this topic!
I like Coach Melannie's advice the best because she seems to know us shy guys can't just flip a switch and suddenly be confident and aggressive. These approaches are more hopeful and practical. :)
Aggressive is not really a good way to put it. Women don't want some super aggressive guy (kinda dangerous to her). She wants a guy who can look after her. I'm a bit shy and awkward, that was the part I struggled with. According to others I'm attractive. I seem much more confident when texting or talking to someone online and that is how I met most of my ex's. And when you met in person you kinda skipped the awkwardness because you already knew this person. I had a hard time in highschool and that messed with my confidence. It's took me years to get any of it back. It's much better than it used to be, I'm only shy around people I don't know very well or those who give off "I don't wanna talk to you" vibes.
I have to say you are truly a kind hearted woman. You are genuinely a kind and positive ball of energy that is so authentic it makes me want a woman that has your personality traits.
I got major tears going all the time, tears of joy, lots of beautiful moments coming together, music plays a role, nature, this new technology. Live for those moments! Thank you Melanie :-)
WOW, this is the first time I got to see a video on the same day of production. My dear one thing for sure your a gift from heaven. Still catching up on all your videos. Lovin' every minute of them . Keep up the fantastic work and may God Bless You 🙏🙏 'YES' , Gaming. Guessing why I stay until the end is I love your bloopers 😏😏
YES ! MS. MELANNIE.....THIS WAS ONE OF YOUR VERY BEST VIDEOS OF ALL, AND IVE BEEN WATCHING YOUR TUTORIALS a long time. Luv the hat 😝 keep the great stuff coming Sweetie.......🙏🥁
First time ever listening to a very objective talk, frank and open as how she presents the topic, such a shame she appears to basically translate for a women 🎉thanks
YES and GAMING. I like that you mentioned gray hair. I do have gray hair. It's more of the salt & pepper look, yet it doesn't make me look "haggard" or tired & worn out". I take pretty good care of God's temple. Thank you for another fine video. May God richly bless you. 🙏 Have a great weekend and safe week
Thank you Ms Melannie for such great lessons. In the kitchen baking cookies while taking notes. I am not into GAMING, but I can send you sone cookies fresh from the oven. YES, more information! Oh, and respectfully, I must mention that your attire today significantly enhanced the beauty of your blue eyes. Stay bless. Praying for your family as always!
Gaming. Insightful content as always. I've only watched u and your sister's gaming content on Paper Mario. Entertaining stuff. I know it's a long game, but u two gotta finish it, lol.
Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing great tips, nice ideas, and what men do that women like. The statement you said when a man runs his hand through their hair is attractive to women, surprised me. For what attracts women, yes for more content like that. The word is gaming. Have an outstanding day! In Christ, Jonathan 😀
You do have to remember every woman is different and Melannie is probably basing this on averages or what SHE finds attractive. What one woman likes, another will not. Keep it in mind and don't change yourself for anyone.
Love is mutually real between two lovers. One sided love is not love but imagination Love is two sided not one sided Imagination is one sided not two sided
Arguably for example, when the man is In the dominant role of the relationship. That point when he begins to show that level of emotion and cry. Most women may step in and Offer their Nurturing nature to comfort. But after that a majority of those women won't have The same level of respect as they did before for the man. What do you think about this?
I have a pretty noticable limp from a motorcycle accident in 2015. also i have several scars that yeah, make a good story. but my Ex broke up with me on october 27th last year. so please Melanie tell me how i can get her back? I've only contacted her for Christmas and new years sending wishes. I want her back dearly. what can i do?
Yesterday a woman got into the bus and took seat, then she turned way and looked me... Yes, she only turned away to see me... I felt really handsome and with a lot of value.
Valentines Day is my favorite holiday and gift giving is my love language. Is it weird I remember all of the important dates always and seem to always have the perfect gift for my girlfriend? I mean, will I push her away with this or will it attract her more? I know you've talked about listening being very attractive, but I'm confused here on how much is too much in this area.
I have a prison record for a thing I am innocent of but did the time for anyway. I'm sick of being turned down, turned away and left alone. I find the one I thought would be the one who will be there when we are old, until we have a child together, and she leaves me with nothing, and child support to pay. I'm 57 years old today and very very alone. I don't even know what to do to be a man someone wants to keep. This is so frustrating. I'm a good man. I will care for and provide and protect my family. Family is my weakness that I will sacrifice for and give my life to and for. I'm not finding this in my life. Please make more content. I cook and clean and do laundry and do dishes and can just take over the house like that because I'm used to being alone. I want someone who will be there for me and complement my life. I want passion and spontaneous moments and camping and dinners and friends and love 💕. Why do I end up alone What exactly is wrong with me
Gaming I see that you like Nintendo games and your channel is filled with it. But I think you should also add other games into it. There are a lot of interesting stuff you should expose yourself to that might also help grow your gaming channel as well. I recommend you and your sister play Sekiro Shadows Die Twice. Its a very simple single player story based game. Its has a very dark but satisfying story. But its also extremely difficult. Even though its difficult, I do recommend it to people because its very simple to learn at the same time.
None of those things are weird for a man to do. The title might be more correct as “11 things men do that women weirdly find attractive”. Great content, thanks. Gaming. Cheers 🇨🇦
Gaming - Thanks I’m a 70 year old guy in a mid 40’s both physically and emotionally. When girls find out I’m 70 they back off. I feel age is just a chronological number
I have a question. I'm an expert at reading female body language signs of attraction, but there's one thing I don't understand. Why do girls act shy around a guy one day and not the next? I have a female coworker who seems to be shy around me on some days and other days it's like I'm not there.
Asian Dude No. I think she's just fake and possibly trying to lead me on somehow. It's not working, though. I'm over women trying to lead me on or use me.
If you were an expert at reading her signs you would tell if she was choosing you or not, if she was and you failed to return on that, she weeds your out as weak or not interested.
I'm not into gaming, but I know that it brings joy to many others. I wish this kind of content had existed for me forty years ago. That could have done me some good. My health has failed, so I can't see myself finding a relationship. Most of the time, I can't see myself getting out of the house except to take a walk in my driveway. All of my doctor's say that walking will slow my decline. I still have some strength, but I have no endurance. I'm glad people are trying to help young men. When I was young, all the church told me about relationships was the being single would be wonderful. That was a lie.
The Great Physician is waiting in the light and night of the sun of righteousness that rises with healing in its wings so you go forth skipping like a calf from the stall. Malachi 4:2. Vitamin D is such the undersell it amounts to deception as the value of the sunlight on the flesh. It only works with night kept on the flesh to let autophagy repair and regenerate using melatonin. I've never even heard anyone touting vitamin D say that only UVb exposure (around noon, wider in summer and lower latitudes) makes it in our skin. Melatonin is even more important to make in the eye and skin, and thats just the tip of the iceberg. And here's another verse hiding in plain sight with this truth: the light is pleasant and it is good for the eyes to see the sun. Ecclesiastes 11:7
I reached the point you said you were Christian. Me too lol I'm the president of the Christian club... Anyway thanks for the content! I am sure in my future with this girl friend but I'm just curious to see this 😁
We're more similar than we are different. Society has just brought us up in different ways and I personally think that is silly. So instead of us focusing on differences, let's focus on what is the same. Focusing on differences is why the world has so many issues.
"when you cry" is absolutely wrong wrong wrong. Men, never ever cry Infront of a woman who is attracted to you. A vast majority of them have an involuntary reaction to seeing you cry and you will never be able to fix it. Trust me and thank me later. Cry with friends if you have to please do cry but never with or around her. Never
Nah she's right, some women like it and will be supportive, want to hug you. They like the vulnerability. But only with a woman you're close to. Actually I knew one guy who was silently crying in public and one woman looked on curiously and showed sympathy so it's not just a black and white issue. Some actually do like it.
I have never seen good with the women I have no idea what to say and I didn't know about body language. There were a few young ladies that I would like liked to know what you told us hermits that would like to be more than friends at some point in the future. I guess I'm mayor of friends zone forever 😢,
Melannie I am 58 soon be 59 and I never had been married but I would like to find that right woman to settle down with but I think what is stopping me or stopping her is because I have epilepsy seizures and I don't want to fell like I am a handicap because we're I can't work because when I do talk to your girl and I tell a girl that I have epilepsy seizures they don't talk to me no more and I can't understand that I mean I got to fix income but I know that money is not everything to some people but I would like to find the right woman to settle down with
i don't feel weird now but yes all you say is on point ! not that i did not know that already :P try harder oke :D! Peace one love lady ! keep that god vibes up :D !!!
Thanks for watching! If anything I've shared here has helped you, you'll be OBSESSED with my Academy! 🤩 Click here to watch my free masterclass and learn more! 👉 coachmelannie.com/masterclass
P.S. Did one of these weird things stand out to you more than the others? Tell me about it in the comments!
YES. Love you Melanie
Yes 🥰💯 I share
Got it Beany 😄👍♥️
The part about showing emotions as far as crying is so real to me! I am divorced and really want to make this coworker see the real me, through real emotion, without being needy. This has given me some food for thought.
I've always wondered what writers mean when they say a woman had an "infectious" grin, or sense of humour, and so on.
Having seen a number of your videos, I have a feeling that I know now what they mean.
I shut down all emotion as a kid after seeing my dad pass from a heart attack. Then I trained with the elite in the Marines further distancing emotion. My ex finally took away the rest. No matter how hard I worked, changed and adjusted.
Sorry for your loss my uso
Same basically happened to me. After my dad passed away i did the same, and then years later the girl that I loved made me cry again after many years, but she broke my heart so much, and so many times, I lost all emotions as well... Seems now I cannot cry anyone...
You didn't lose emotions it just takes alot to make you cry. People put too much emphasis on crying. Crying isn't an emotion, it just means catharsis is happening.
You’re hilarious. Start playing music. You’ll probably have a lot of fun with it.
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"Yes"! Coach Melannie, this is another awesome video with very helpful tips and advice! Sometimes the best videos are the ones that have to be done again, even while rushing back from running errands. Thank you for taking time to share your research and a woman's point of view.
Yes! I didn't think it possible, but your cuteness definitely went up with the beanie 😊
Yes. This video was very helpful. Those were some surprising things to know women liked and I will keep them in mind. I did know a few of those from hanging out with friends gaming in my younger days. There were a few girls in the group and I dare say we had them laughing even when they were nervous about playing at first. I hope the beanie makes another appearance in the future because you look so cute wearing it!
Coach Melannie, thank you for always being you. Vanity isn't always necessary and appreciate that you keep it real. "Gaming"!
Melannie you always look great no matter the outfit! Definitely appreciate your happiness and cheerfulness! Always greatly enjoy your humorous content you include as well 😂 also would like to hear more on this topic!
I like Coach Melannie's advice the best because she seems to know us shy guys can't just flip a switch and suddenly be confident and aggressive. These approaches are more hopeful and practical. :)
Aggressive is not really a good way to put it. Women don't want some super aggressive guy (kinda dangerous to her).
She wants a guy who can look after her.
I'm a bit shy and awkward, that was the part I struggled with. According to others I'm attractive. I seem much more confident when texting or talking to someone online and that is how I met most of my ex's. And when you met in person you kinda skipped the awkwardness because you already knew this person.
I had a hard time in highschool and that messed with my confidence. It's took me years to get any of it back. It's much better than it used to be, I'm only shy around people I don't know very well or those who give off "I don't wanna talk to you" vibes.
I have to say you are truly a kind hearted woman. You are genuinely a kind and positive ball of energy that is so authentic it makes me want a woman that has your personality traits.
I got major tears going all the time, tears of joy, lots of beautiful moments coming together, music plays a role, nature, this new technology. Live for those moments! Thank you Melanie :-)
Gaming
Thank you Melannie for being who you are and sharing this true dating advice/input.
WOW, this is the first time I got to see a video on the same day of production. My dear one thing for sure your a gift from heaven. Still catching up on all your videos. Lovin' every minute of them . Keep up the fantastic work and may God Bless You 🙏🙏 'YES' , Gaming. Guessing why I stay until the end is I love your bloopers 😏😏
YES ! MS. MELANNIE.....THIS WAS ONE OF YOUR VERY BEST VIDEOS OF ALL, AND IVE BEEN WATCHING YOUR TUTORIALS a long time. Luv the hat 😝 keep the great stuff coming Sweetie.......🙏🥁
Thank you Melina for all the honesty and the hard work you do for a lot of people appreciate it I do too love listening to you😊
Your personality is very attractive, as is your smile, Melannie. Thanks for the great coaching. You're adorable.
First time ever listening to a very objective talk, frank and open as how she presents the topic, such a shame she appears to basically translate for a women 🎉thanks
Hey there Coach..I know you have a Mister...Lord Bless you both...btw Your hair looks great Kiddo!
YES and GAMING. I like that you mentioned gray hair. I do have gray hair. It's more of the salt & pepper look, yet it doesn't make me look "haggard" or tired & worn out". I take pretty good care of God's temple. Thank you for another fine video. May God richly bless you. 🙏 Have a great weekend and safe week
That's great! Keep rocking what you've got 😀 Thank you so much again for your continued kindness and support! God bless 🙏
I honestly think I'm beyond help at this point. I haven't had a relationship for 8 years. I'm too broken.
Great beanie hat!!!! Another great video!!! Need more like this ti see what women find attractive and maybe enjoy some gaming!
Thank you Ms Melannie for such great lessons. In the kitchen baking cookies while taking notes. I am not into GAMING, but I can send you sone cookies fresh from the oven. YES, more information! Oh, and respectfully, I must mention that your attire today significantly enhanced the beauty of your blue eyes.
Stay bless. Praying for your family as always!
Merry Christmas
Pax Christi
😻😻😻😻
Gaming. Insightful content as always.
I've only watched u and your sister's gaming content on Paper Mario. Entertaining stuff. I know it's a long game, but u two gotta finish it, lol.
You Are So Adorable! Great Video Too Melannie❤
Gaming!😎🕹️🎮
Very very very useful..Thank you..🙏
Dating women is CHALLENGING!
Yes! Still praying for you and your family
Thank you so much! 🙏🙏
YES very enlighting, thank you
Thank you for putting this out.
Coach: you really have a contagious laugh!!!! 😁
I love that hat on you!
Yes! Very good I liked it!
YES! What about pushing our sleeve up or when we are working when we wipe sweat off our forehead with our arm
Hello Melannie, Thank you for sharing great tips, nice ideas, and what men do that women like. The statement you said when a man runs his hand through their hair is attractive to women, surprised me. For what attracts women, yes for more content like that. The word is gaming. Have an outstanding day! In Christ, Jonathan 😀
You do have to remember every woman is different and Melannie is probably basing this on averages or what SHE finds attractive.
What one woman likes, another will not. Keep it in mind and don't change yourself for anyone.
Let's go for a date ice skating or make a snow man ☃️
Love is mutually real between two lovers.
One sided love is not love but imagination
Love is two sided not one sided
Imagination is one sided not two sided
Yes, that’s quite a bobble hat. I used to be into gaming but now channel my spare time to volunteering for some favoured causes.
Arguably for example, when the man is In the dominant role of the relationship. That point when he begins to show that level of emotion and cry. Most women may step in and Offer their Nurturing nature to comfort. But after that a majority of those women won't have The same level of respect as they did before for the man. What do you think about this?
Gaming! I’m a good bit above 50! Yes what you say works! ❤️🌹💯
I have a pretty noticable limp from a motorcycle accident in 2015. also i have several scars that yeah, make a good story. but my Ex broke up with me on october 27th last year. so please Melanie tell me how i can get her back? I've only contacted her for Christmas and new years sending wishes. I want her back dearly. what can i do?
Gaming! Checking out your gaming channel you started with your sister. Cheers!
Have a nice day!!!
Same to you! THANK YOU for your kindness and support🙏🙏
Yesterday a woman got into the bus and took seat, then she turned way and looked me... Yes, she only turned away to see me... I felt really handsome and with a lot of value.
It could have meant anything, dude.
2 strikes for me on the hair. Im bald and shave it off. 😂
Valentines Day is my favorite holiday and gift giving is my love language. Is it weird I remember all of the important dates always and seem to always have the perfect gift for my girlfriend? I mean, will I push her away with this or will it attract her more? I know you've talked about listening being very attractive, but I'm confused here on how much is too much in this area.
Thanks!
Thank you SO much for your support! I'm incredibly happy you enjoyed the video 😀
Awesome content Melannie
Gaming 😀
Yes
Running fingers thru hair
I have an afro every time girls see me they laugh 😂
Ok, that toque is just adorable...
I have a prison record for a thing I am innocent of but did the time for anyway.
I'm sick of being turned down, turned away and left alone.
I find the one I thought would be the one who will be there when we are old, until we have a child together, and she leaves me with nothing, and child support to pay.
I'm 57 years old today and very very alone.
I don't even know what to do to be a man someone wants to keep.
This is so frustrating.
I'm a good man.
I will care for and provide and protect my family.
Family is my weakness that I will sacrifice for and give my life to and for.
I'm not finding this in my life.
Please make more content.
I cook and clean and do laundry and do dishes and can just take over the house like that because I'm used to being alone.
I want someone who will be there for me and complement my life.
I want passion and spontaneous moments and camping and dinners and friends and love 💕.
Why do I end up alone
What exactly is wrong with me
Gaming
I see that you like Nintendo games and your channel is filled with it. But I think you should also add other games into it. There are a lot of interesting stuff you should expose yourself to that might also help grow your gaming channel as well.
I recommend you and your sister play Sekiro Shadows Die Twice. Its a very simple single player story based game. Its has a very dark but satisfying story. But its also extremely difficult. Even though its difficult, I do recommend it to people because its very simple to learn at the same time.
Im over fifty. It works and confidence is likely not quite an issue any longer.
Yes!! Thank you 😊
Yes thankyou Melanie.
Callus hands 🙌🏼 here
None of those things are weird for a man to do. The title might be more correct as “11 things men do that women weirdly find attractive”.
Great content, thanks.
Gaming.
Cheers 🇨🇦
Gaming -
Thanks I’m a 70 year old guy in a mid 40’s both physically and emotionally. When girls find out I’m 70 they back off. I feel age is just a chronological number
Love the "Adorable Beanie"
I have a question. I'm an expert at reading female body language signs of attraction, but there's one thing I don't understand. Why do girls act shy around a guy one day and not the next? I have a female coworker who seems to be shy around me on some days and other days it's like I'm not there.
It means you're too slow and she found somebody else
Maybe she's not being shy. Some guys misinterpret that.
Asian Dude No. I think she's just fake and possibly trying to lead me on somehow. It's not working, though. I'm over women trying to lead me on or use me.
If you were an expert at reading her signs you would tell if she was choosing you or not, if she was and you failed to return on that, she weeds your out as weak or not interested.
None of you answered the question I actually asked. 😂
These are good to know. Thanks! Gaming
YES, Melannie and her sister GAMING. SOOOOOOOOOOO COOOOL 😎😎
I'm not into gaming, but I know that it brings joy to many others.
I wish this kind of content had existed for me forty years ago. That could have done me some good. My health has failed, so I can't see myself finding a relationship. Most of the time, I can't see myself getting out of the house except to take a walk in my driveway. All of my doctor's say that walking will slow my decline. I still have some strength, but I have no endurance. I'm glad people are trying to help young men. When I was young, all the church told me about relationships was the being single would be wonderful. That was a lie.
The Great Physician is waiting in the light and night of the sun of righteousness that rises with healing in its wings so you go forth skipping like a calf from the stall. Malachi 4:2. Vitamin D is such the undersell it amounts to deception as the value of the sunlight on the flesh. It only works with night kept on the flesh to let autophagy repair and regenerate using melatonin. I've never even heard anyone touting vitamin D say that only UVb exposure (around noon, wider in summer and
lower latitudes) makes it in our skin. Melatonin is even more important to make in the eye and skin, and thats just the tip of the iceberg.
And here's another verse hiding in plain sight with this truth: the light is pleasant and it is good for the eyes to see the sun. Ecclesiastes 11:7
I'm feeling the love it's powerful ♥️💪 Kaikohe power
Is this channel for younger people?
YES!
The best and most adorable 🥰😇. Love You
I really like your videos. It's nice to hear from a woman
More helpful than dating advice from another dude. I've had a few girlfriends but it sure doesn't qualify me to give other guys advice! Haha
I enjoyed the video very entertaining as usual and fun just like GAMING
I don't know where your located but I'd love to meet you for church. Assembly of God in Yakima
I reached the point you said you were Christian. Me too lol I'm the president of the Christian club... Anyway thanks for the content! I am sure in my future with this girl friend but I'm just curious to see this 😁
*I am single until my wife shows up
Yes!
Love the toque
Yes
YES!!!!
Melannie why can’t I find someone like you 😘
Bravo 👏🏻
Cuteness overload
YES, gaming...now that can be a blast!
Gaming, lol, there is someone down calling you melina😄
We're more similar than we are different. Society has just brought us up in different ways and I personally think that is silly.
So instead of us focusing on differences, let's focus on what is the same. Focusing on differences is why the world has so many issues.
yes mel
YES
"when you cry" is absolutely wrong wrong wrong. Men, never ever cry Infront of a woman who is attracted to you. A vast majority of them have an involuntary reaction to seeing you cry and you will never be able to fix it. Trust me and thank me later. Cry with friends if you have to please do cry but never with or around her. Never
Nah she's right, some women like it and will be supportive, want to hug you. They like the vulnerability. But only with a woman you're close to. Actually I knew one guy who was silently crying in public and one woman looked on curiously and showed sympathy so it's not just a black and white issue. Some actually do like it.
Yes. More pleazz
Yes!🎉
The beanie is adorable as the owner is.
I have never seen good with the women I have no idea what to say and I didn't know about body language. There were a few young ladies that I would like liked to know what you told us hermits that would like to be more than friends at some point in the future. I guess I'm mayor of friends zone forever 😢,
I love your took.
Gaming baby!!!! Let's go!!!
Yes...does your cap have a tail?
Yes.
Every study shows a woman loses respect for a man when she sees him cry I know I’m gonna catch some hell.
Yes I like you're gaming!!!
You take the Gaming out of this.
Of course yes I get and understand what you talk
I am bold
Melannie I am 58 soon be 59 and I never had been married but I would like to find that right woman to settle down with but I think what is stopping me or stopping her is because I have epilepsy seizures and I don't want to fell like I am a handicap because we're I can't work because when I do talk to your girl and I tell a girl that I have epilepsy seizures they don't talk to me no more and I can't understand that I mean I got to fix income but I know that money is not everything to some people but I would like to find the right woman to settle down with
Thank you. Taming gaming? No!! You'rte the BEST!!!
i don't feel weird now but yes all you say is on point ! not that i did not know that already :P try harder oke :D! Peace one love lady ! keep that god vibes up :D !!!