The level of main character delulu that this Defendant is projecting is wild. She really thought the judge was asking in order to help her get money. Let's say it once again, NEVER co-sign ANYTHING. People who can't get loans can't get them because they will NOT pay back the money.
@@aartadventure I now want to adopt, “this is some main character delulu sh*t” into my vocabulary lol (I know you didn’t include the swear, but I think it adds some fun emphasis 😅)
@@purplelove3666what do you think abandoned means? Left in the middle of a field somewhere? She left, she's not involved, i.e. abandoned. Curious if you would think the same way if a man left his family.
@purplelove3666, us having to explain what abandon means is crazy 🤣 the same way men abandon their children and never return is the same thing this woman did "abandoned" her son to go be with a man. 😢 Smdh
@@purplelove3666 The sociopath lives half a country away now so she can be with her new lover. Do you think she's going to go for some kind of custody arrangement or is going to set up some kind of access/visitation schedule anytime soon? Whenever a woman leaves the child behind it's an automatic red flag. And to learn she did so to shack up with another guy is very telling.
Na bc if she woulda left for work and set something up w family, she ended the marriage and cut ties with her 2 yr old.. but I gues it’s a better story than those true crimes. Bet the new guy doesn’t want kids. She’s just dead beat.
@@TheDondon14 there’s no good reason to leave your child Well, actually, the only good reason to leave your child is if you know you’re a horrible parent Which she is a horrible parent and person
It’s wild all the comments say responding with “men do it all the time” about this being leaving it’s child. Men doing it all the time is also wrong and disgusting, so what’s your point?
My ex was chasing women on the internet so I divorced him. I got full custody of my 10 yr old daughter. He left our state and went to AZ. He never said goodbye, never contacted our daughter again. Its been 26 years now. Hes a jerk.
What is this? Some kind of competition? Is this some kind of a lifetime achievement that we all should celebrate and they deserve a nobel prize for that? Men or women, if you leave your kids, i hope you have a miserable life.
@@VedawatiAlbert-mi1tb true but women are usually more attached to their child (due to pregnancy hormones, etc). I wonder if there's some postpartum depression or something going on. sad for the little one. 😢
@@BouncyBrownthat's no excuse..when you're husband or wife is in the military..you get housing allowances and other things so she didn't have to lose her job..so she's the mother is making excuses so she could leave the husband and child
@@debrakiser1976I can see how she could lose her job because of having to move after switching duty stations. However, the government helps military spouses find employment and sometimes gives them preferences over other applicants.
She leaves her child to go live in another state to be with a new man? I could see moving out and going to be with a new partner. Fine see ya, but moving states and not having any interest in being in your child’s life? That’s really sad
What about when the dad leaves? What’s wrong with her leaving the child with the father? So many men just up and leave the mom a single parent so why can’t she ?
@@balieyanderson8858 just because men do it doesn’t mean they should.. sounds like a “well he did why can’t I” it’s a moral thing. Even if she wanted 50/50 custody just to try to stay in her child’s life its not considered abandoning, but she decided to not be involved at all that’s why the mother in law called it “abandoning”
Men do it all the time! Rather, the mom or dad left, It's sad for the kid, but dad's leave alllll the time and never get the same smoke us mothers do. If mothers had the same disconnect as some dads do, this world would he a mess. Momma's baby, daddy's maybe
She's horrible for leaving her child with with the child's father you actually sound crazy and everyone saying the same thing. Men do it all the time and it's not problem but when a woman do it she's a horrible person? Oh please go find a hobby!!!
@@Based-on_True-eventsand men that do that get shamed for it & ragged through the court systems rightfully so. just cause men “do it all the time” doesn’t give a women a free pass like whoopsie guys do it so I’m ok by doing it lmao brain dead take
I want to know where they get dragged because I dont see it. Also that's the father not some stranger if he wants the child to live with him what's the problem she never said she doesn't visit her child or support it the just lives with the dad. Lmaoo the child got to live somewhere. My point is your assuming that she abandoned her child just because the child stays with the father mean while men out here really abandoning they're kids.😒😒 bffr @Deft0nee
@@Based-on_True-events you don’t see it cause you don’t open your eyes. I’m assuming she abandoned her child just like you’re assuming all the men you’re talking about don’t visit their child, and just left the child with their mother. Thats the mother not some stranger, if the child wants to live with her what’s the problem? See how your logic works? 😂
Cares more about the car and what she perceives she’s owed from the sale of car then she does her own child. Mother of the year she’s not, terrible person she is !
A terrible mother is absolutely worse because it involves an innocent child who will always have to live with the fact that their crappy mother abandoned them for a man
@@nowirehangers2815 Not yet but if it's best for my child I will do it in a heartbeat. Why take my child to live with strangers when the child can be safe and sound with her father?
Not yet but I would do it in a heartbeat if it was what is best for my child. Why take the child cross state away from the father, living with a stranger? Absolutely not. I would pay child support of course because I don't subscribe to deadbeats and leave the child ro be safe and sound with dad.
The way my mouth flew open when she said she wouldn't be able to recoup any money from the car being sold, like girl are you slow? Read the room.. I cant believe theres people in this world that is this dense.
3:10 It is not unheard of for the father to get custody, however to not even want visitation, to abandon the child completely and take off to another state with a man. Somewhere a sewer full of slugs, awaits the return of their queen. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
She left her 2 yr old and took up with another man? Dumped her kid on MIL and stuck MIL with her car payments, wowzer! What a loser. The new BF should open his eyes and run!! MIL looks lovely in that shade of smoky blue. She is much prettier than Defendant.
"why would I sell it to pay off the remaining balance of the loan? It's not like I'll make any money off it.." WOW. main character syndrome is real, I guess.
Don’t let that girl near your bank account she does not understand financial responsibility or apparently being a parents responsibility if she just walks away from a child.
While I agree with many that it's truly sad she left the toddler to move out of State and be with someone else I have to give her some credit for not being a POS like many do to men and take the child far away and raise it with the new man and deny the father any visitation with the child and then let the child call the new guy daddy while collecting as much child support as she's allowed. Children do need both parents but maybe in this case the best thing she could have done was left the child with the one parent who will put the child first.
I notice that Judge Judy didn't ask the defendant if she paid child support like she does to every man who doesn't have any custody of his children. I wonder why? Could it be because she doesn't, and was not required by the court to do so, like every man is? I'll guess 'yes'.
No one, man or woman, is REQUIRED to pay child support unless there is a court order to do so. And not every man who doesn’t have custody of his child is forced to pay child support. The other parent or guardian doesn’t always petition the court for child support and the court won’t do this without a petition unless that person starts to receive welfare benefits.
My brother and sister in law and mom all tried to get me to loan my brother $25000 as a down payment on land. He thought he would flip it and pay me back in a month. He had no credit or money! I couldn’t afford to lose it as it was an accident settlement to take care of my child and myself! I said no and they didn’t realize they didn’t hang up. I heard my mom put me down and didn’t know why I was so selfish! Unbelievable!
Exactly My situation,My x wife did the same thing to me, I co sign, she stopped making payment, I ended up paying at the end, she drove for 5 years and blamed me for co signing. Karma will get her one day
She went on a trip to a different state and refused to go home(because she was really leaving her husband and child). What kind of person just leaves a 2 year old behind? And, she keeps saying, 'She volunteered to make the payments". WTF?!? The Plaintiff had NO CHOICE, not if she wanted to keep her credit from being destroyed. The Defendant is delusional.
He can operate as a single parent as long as he doesn’t deploy to somewhere the child can’t go. Then he will have to designate someone else as a temporary guardian.
The details of return/default/sale of the car should have been spelled out prior to the contract. Me? I would be fine with just being reimbursed for any losses I incurred as a result of being co-signer. Any equity would go to the person I co-signed for. That’s assuming any defaults were discussed prior to such happening and matters handled in a responsible manner.
The way JJ yelled, “Who cares about you?!” 😂 I’m living for it 👏👏👏
I was like YESSSSS !!!! She read my mind. lol
The level of main character delulu that this Defendant is projecting is wild. She really thought the judge was asking in order to help her get money. Let's say it once again, NEVER co-sign ANYTHING. People who can't get loans can't get them because they will NOT pay back the money.
@@aartadventure I now want to adopt, “this is some main character delulu sh*t” into my vocabulary lol (I know you didn’t include the swear, but I think it adds some fun emphasis 😅)
I care about her. She’s stunning 😍.
I can’t respect anyone who abandons their child. Period.
How did she abandon her child? She left the child with the father?
@@purplelove3666what do you think abandoned means? Left in the middle of a field somewhere? She left, she's not involved, i.e. abandoned. Curious if you would think the same way if a man left his family.
There's only going to be an increase since they insist people have babies they don't want 🫠
@purplelove3666, us having to explain what abandon means is crazy 🤣 the same way men abandon their children and never return is the same thing this woman did "abandoned" her son to go be with a man. 😢 Smdh
@@purplelove3666 The sociopath lives half a country away now so she can be with her new lover. Do you think she's going to go for some kind of custody arrangement or is going to set up some kind of access/visitation schedule anytime soon? Whenever a woman leaves the child behind it's an automatic red flag. And to learn she did so to shack up with another guy is very telling.
I have refused to sign for loans for relatives and other friends. And they have stopped speaking to me. Don't care!!!!
Family are the biggest leeches. Trash people
Proves you were right!
You can refuse without being an a$$ hole
Ditto!
I refused to sign an apartment lease for my sister and my mom got pissed off about it
The defendant needs a reality check and JJs going to give it to her 👩🏻⚖️😂
And we are here for it 🙌 😂
giving her that check with interest
@@adjustableWench It's the only check that matters, and the defendant can take that to the bank!
Left your two year old ?!? Wow.
My thoughts exactly
With the 2 yr old's father!
Na bc if she woulda left for work and set something up w family, she ended the marriage and cut ties with her 2 yr old.. but I gues it’s a better story than those true crimes. Bet the new guy doesn’t want kids. She’s just dead beat.
We don’t know the real reason why she left her child. Let’s hold off the judgements and show some understanding
@@TheDondon14 there’s no good reason to leave your child
Well, actually, the only good reason to leave your child is if you know you’re a horrible parent
Which she is a horrible parent and person
Soooo we all know the defendant will lose this case
It’s wild all the comments say responding with “men do it all the time” about this being leaving it’s child. Men doing it all the time is also wrong and disgusting, so what’s your point?
My ex was chasing women on the internet so I divorced him. I got full custody of my 10 yr old daughter. He left our state and went to AZ. He never said goodbye, never contacted our daughter again. Its been 26 years now. Hes a jerk.
Exactly both are equally disgusting no matter what gender
They think two wrongs make it right.
What is this? Some kind of competition? Is this some kind of a lifetime achievement that we all should celebrate and they deserve a nobel prize for that? Men or women, if you leave your kids, i hope you have a miserable life.
@@queenbee3647that’s off point to the original comment
What mother leaves her 2-year-old child??!! It's sickening! 🤬🤬🤬
Men do it all the time
@@VedawatiAlbert-mi1tb true but women are usually more attached to their child (due to pregnancy hormones, etc). I wonder if there's some postpartum depression or something going on. sad for the little one. 😢
A modern mother.
@@BouncyBrown nah. This is just how mothers are now.
@@VedawatiAlbert-mi1tbmen also go bald men also make up the most inmates men also commit suicide more. Stop with that garbage.
Co Signing is such a bad idea! 😞
I was just thinking, "That'll never be me..."
Right
Always! It never ends well for the person with good credit
Judge Sheindlin’s right: People like the defendant should take tests before they’re allowed to have children.
💯
“I lost my job because her son went into the military and i had to take care of the kids.” Uh get a new job????
😂😂😂
many single people can't earn more than the cost of childcare + rent. she hardly seems like a surgeon or lawyer.
@@BouncyBrownthat's no excuse..when you're husband or wife is in the military..you get housing allowances and other things so she didn't have to lose her job..so she's the mother is making excuses so she could leave the husband and child
Who she thought was gonna take care of if the kid, her kid. And I’m sure the child is getting benefits from her dad being in the military.
@@debrakiser1976I can see how she could lose her job because of having to move after switching duty stations. However, the government helps military spouses find employment and sometimes gives them preferences over other applicants.
I predict JJ will yell at the D for being stupid
It’s like you can see into the future!😅
👀 🔮
Left a 2 year old for another man??????
So she wants her money back for making car payments for a car she used. Okay, the light bulb has definitely gone out!
How do you leave your two year old?!?
He’s with the dad nothing wrong with that especially if it’s a boy imo
@@xoangelicaf0523with no mom while she’s with her new boyfriend. Everything’s wrong with that
@tay6459 Maybe he is the better parent. That's fine to leave the child with the father too.
She’s evil
She leaves her child to go live in another state to be with a new man? I could see moving out and going to be with a new partner. Fine see ya, but moving states and not having any interest in being in your child’s life? That’s really sad
Men do it all the time
@@VedawatiAlbert-mi1tbshut up!
@@VedawatiAlbert-mi1tb if you truly think that, theres no fixing your stupidity
She probably did the child a favor.
@@anthonyguarino4242I’d shut your mouth if I were you.
She is going to have a bunch of hard lessons in life coming her way.
How can anyone date someone that abandons their children ? Don’t pay child support? Don’t have daily contact with their children ?
Poor little kid! Mama is gone!
So sad
Must be some BDE
What about when the dad leaves? What’s wrong with her leaving the child with the father? So many men just up and leave the mom a single parent so why can’t she ?
@@balieyanderson8858 just because men do it doesn’t mean they should.. sounds like a “well he did why can’t I” it’s a moral thing. Even if she wanted 50/50 custody just to try to stay in her child’s life its not considered abandoning, but she decided to not be involved at all that’s why the mother in law called it “abandoning”
Men do it all the time! Rather, the mom or dad left, It's sad for the kid, but dad's leave alllll the time and never get the same smoke us mothers do. If mothers had the same disconnect as some dads do, this world would he a mess. Momma's baby, daddy's maybe
The defendant won’t win any awards for wife or mother of the year. What a horrible person
She's horrible for leaving her child with with the child's father you actually sound crazy and everyone saying the same thing. Men do it all the time and it's not problem but when a woman do it she's a horrible person? Oh please go find a hobby!!!
@@Based-on_True-eventsand men that do that get shamed for it & ragged through the court systems rightfully so. just cause men “do it all the time” doesn’t give a women a free pass like whoopsie guys do it so I’m ok by doing it lmao brain dead take
I want to know where they get dragged because I dont see it. Also that's the father not some stranger if he wants the child to live with him what's the problem she never said she doesn't visit her child or support it the just lives with the dad. Lmaoo the child got to live somewhere. My point is your assuming that she abandoned her child just because the child stays with the father mean while men out here really abandoning they're kids.😒😒 bffr @Deft0nee
@@Based-on_True-events you don’t see it cause you don’t open your eyes. I’m assuming she abandoned her child just like you’re assuming all the men you’re talking about don’t visit their child, and just left the child with their mother. Thats the mother not some stranger, if the child wants to live with her what’s the problem? See how your logic works? 😂
Lmaoo I'm not assuming they admit it all the time on these shows or I'm missing something😂😂
Lunch crew check-in let's get it.
Alright I'm right on time, even though it's 1:37 where I'm at and I already finished lunch. I shall extend it for judge judy 👍
🙄
Aye aye captain
Here!!!
Glad to see the family again. Hope your weekends went well.
Sometimes the bad guy is actually the wife.
here we go
Cares more about the car and what she perceives she’s owed from the sale of car then she does her own child. Mother of the year she’s not, terrible person she is !
Defendant doesn’t only seem like terrible mother but also a terrible person. Honestly don’t know what is worse 🤔
And show her terrible self on television!
Definitely the mother part because no baby deserves that 😢
Defendant is a Pos but she’s also hot AF
A terrible mother is absolutely worse because it involves an innocent child who will always have to live with the fact that their crappy mother abandoned them for a man
In what world is a terrible mother a good person?
What mother leaves a 2 year old to be with her new boyfriend? I wouldn’t leave my child for ANYONE.
A mother who knows a child's place is not with a new boyfriend and away from his father in another state. She did the right thing. The child is fine.
@@neiscishe didn’t
You have obviously done the same attempting to defend this
@@nowirehangers2815 Not yet but if it's best for my child I will do it in a heartbeat. Why take my child to live with strangers when the child can be safe and sound with her father?
Not yet but I would do it in a heartbeat if it was what is best for my child. Why take the child cross state away from the father, living with a stranger? Absolutely not. I would pay child support of course because I don't subscribe to deadbeats and leave the child ro be safe and sound with dad.
@@neisci👈 RUclips GENERATED BOT TROLL ACCOUNT.. BUSTED!
The way my mouth flew open when she said she wouldn't be able to recoup any money from the car being sold, like girl are you slow? Read the room.. I cant believe theres people in this world that is this dense.
Defendant is a dead beat…
Yes but also makes me wonder where the deadbeat dad is as well. Parenting is a 2 person job.
Wow, she totally dumped him because she found someone she liked better. Disgusting
She had no problem admitting she left her child, did she?? 😮
3:10 It is not unheard of for the father to get custody, however to not even want visitation, to abandon the child completely and take off to another state with a man. Somewhere a sewer full of slugs, awaits the return of their queen. 🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢
THANKYOU to the uploaded for finally uploading part 2 first so that when we play the playlist they play in order.
I have two kids and I couldn’t imagine life without them. I would never abandon them. This woman is a despicable “mother.”
You speak as if she left her child at someone's doorstep,she left her kid with the father
@@purplelove3666 she still left them🤷🏻♀️
@@Blessed_Mom2420 anddddd... the child is fine. That's what matters the most not your feelings.
@@neisci I never said my feelings mattered, now did I?
@@neiscithe child ISNT fine
The child was ABANDONED by this mother
Now we get the story!😂
It’s the
Prequel !!! 😂😂😂
in some states, abandoning your family is a felony. whether you're a female or a male, doesnt matter.
She left her 2 yr old and took up with another man? Dumped her kid on MIL and stuck MIL with her car payments, wowzer! What a loser. The new BF should open his eyes and run!!
MIL looks lovely in that shade of smoky blue. She is much prettier than Defendant.
How evil can you be to leave your baby. Evil women
“I was home taking care of the kid”. That speaks volume about kind of person she is. I hope she never gets custody of her child.
Sounds like she said kid(s)…but that doesn’t take away from your point
This is why you don't cosign for no one.
Mother of the year 🙄
Worried about
Keeping the car? What about THE BABY?
Who cares about you 😅😅😅😅😅😅
"why would I sell it to pay off the remaining balance of the loan? It's not like I'll make any money off it.."
WOW. main character syndrome is real, I guess.
No one has ever asked me to co sign for anything... I don't think I ever would except for my own father. This is a lesson well learned.
Thank so so much. lol now, I can go back to part 2 and rewatch what I already watched
Don’t let that girl near your bank account she does not understand financial responsibility or apparently being a parents responsibility if she just walks away from a child.
What a little 🤬
While I agree with many that it's truly sad she left the toddler to move out of State and be with someone else I have to give her some credit for not being a POS like many do to men and take the child far away and raise it with the new man and deny the father any visitation with the child and then let the child call the new guy daddy while collecting as much child support as she's allowed. Children do need both parents but maybe in this case the best thing she could have done was left the child with the one parent who will put the child first.
17k for a 2012 civic?!
Well I mean this was back in 2015 so it was like around 3 years that time
Never lend money you can't afford to lose or cosign anything for someone if they had good credit they wouldn't need a cosigner
Well said
Taking care of the kid" says a lot
This woman doesn't love her son.
i am a big fan of Judy. she is the honnesty that she has is incredubles
I notice that Judge Judy didn't ask the defendant if she paid child support like she does to every man who doesn't have any custody of his children. I wonder why? Could it be because she doesn't, and was not required by the court to do so, like every man is? I'll guess 'yes'.
No one, man or woman, is REQUIRED to pay child support unless there is a court order to do so. And not every man who doesn’t have custody of his child is forced to pay child support. The other parent or guardian doesn’t always petition the court for child support and the court won’t do this without a petition unless that person starts to receive welfare benefits.
I hav no respect for people who abbandon thier child and free load off mother in law
I think this is one of the lockdown episodes. RE: Judy hair 😏
No it’s from 2019. Covid episodes had no one in the courtroom audience.
The husband is probably driving the car…
It’s a Honda, of course he is 😂
Now don't anybody go spoiling part 2 here!
Im weak😂😂
"Who cares about you?" 😂😂😂😂😂
My brother and sister in law and mom all tried to get me to loan my brother $25000 as a down payment on land. He thought he would flip it and pay me back in a month. He had no credit or money! I couldn’t afford to lose it as it was an accident settlement to take care of my child and myself! I said no and they didn’t realize they didn’t hang up. I heard my mom put me down and didn’t know why I was so selfish! Unbelievable!
Hello JJ lunch club!!!!
JJ looks great with her hair pulled back like that.
Never sign for anyone, consider it money gone. Hard to see all these women as mothers is sooo sad. Poor kids don't have a chance..😢
Welcome back y’all
nguoi phu nu ao ao xanh that su kha la hay va thuc su hay ho va ho that su thich voi nhung dieu nhu nay
Those earrings are always blinding lol
But why you left your toddler? 😔 so sad..
I am so glad I don't drive. Way too expensive.
I’m so glad I waited for part 1 😂
Mother of the year award for her.
Toi tim mai sao khong thay nhung tap judy ma toi dang nhi haha, uoc gi toi nhin thay cac cac kenh cua toi duoc len de xuat cua ytb
JJ: “would that be a fair statement?”
immediately also JJ: “YES.. so you don’t get your money back”
I know that’s right 😂😂
Has anyone in history ever looked back on their lives and wished they'd cosigned for car loans?
I don't understand why as a couple when they got married they didn't take care of the car payment together as a team.
Exactly My situation,My x wife did the same thing to me, I co sign, she stopped making payment, I ended up paying at the end, she drove for 5 years and blamed me for co signing. Karma will get her one day
Leaving your baby to run off to another man is vicious .
Anyone seen part 2 yet?
She went on a trip to a different state and refused to go home(because she was really leaving her husband and child). What kind of person just leaves a 2 year old behind? And, she keeps saying, 'She volunteered to make the payments".
WTF?!? The Plaintiff had NO CHOICE, not if she wanted to keep her credit from being destroyed. The Defendant is delusional.
How can the father look after his son? I thought the defendant said she stayed at home to look after the kids because he was in the military
He can operate as a single parent as long as he doesn’t deploy to somewhere the child can’t go. Then he will have to designate someone else as a temporary guardian.
Divorced her husband, abandoned her son, great woman!!.
She was still married to him, but separated. While in a relationship with new SO.
I think I can predict the outcome of this one....... lol jk xD
The defendant is living large in that third wave.
Sad
The details of return/default/sale of the car should have been spelled out prior to the contract. Me? I would be fine with just being reimbursed for any losses I incurred as a result of being co-signer. Any equity would go to the person I co-signed for. That’s assuming any defaults were discussed prior to such happening and matters handled in a responsible manner.
Mother in Law is really holding on to that Ace Frehley look!
This channel used to upload two separate cases a day ☹️ what happened
Left her child wow what a you know what
never co sign anything even if it is ur kids let them work and get there own credit
OF link?!?!?
Never ever co-sign for anyone!
Women like the defendant are part of why I stay single.
2012 car and the loan is 17,000 now that’s a scam 😂
You’d have to send me to the Lord in heaven if you ever think you can separate me from my 2 year old
nguoi phu nu voi chiec ao so mi do cam kha la hay trong that thu vi
How can a mother leave a two year old??
She’s disgusting!
Damn, I forgot about that last part. If the husband sues her, shows what she did with that car, she would be forced off the contract n be in debt.
Does the defendant have ANY redeeming value?
Wow, she lefted her husband for another person? I swear some people don’t need to be parents, she just seems selfish.
Anyone know this girls full name?