Hayley Williams: How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome

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  • Опубликовано: 17 дек 2018
  • Hayley Williams, lead singer of Paramore, talks about how to overcome imposter syndrome. Hayley also discusses how she creates music and why it's so important in her life.
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  • @BehindtheBrand
    @BehindtheBrand  5 лет назад +39

    By popular demand, here's a shorter version of the full-length interview just focused on a problem that happens to a lot of us at one time or another called "imposter syndrome." If you'd like to watch the full nearly 30 minute interview, here's the link: ruclips.net/video/EzBbcfmHQvM/видео.html

  • @DrKllaGaming
    @DrKllaGaming 5 лет назад +49

    "when you grow old, there's a lot more to pay attention to....."

  • @dhimaspratama2944
    @dhimaspratama2944 5 лет назад +83

    Hayley has been the strongest figure in my life, and because of her and the songs she write, I'm still here alive. I'm very much grateful that at some point I get the chance to know her and her music. I wish I will get the chance to return whatever she gave me because I owe her my life.

  • @belzorahollow3888
    @belzorahollow3888 4 года назад +18

    Very very few people can pull off yellow. Hayley is the perfect example of someone who can. 💛

  • @DocRock
    @DocRock 5 лет назад +71

    Imposter Syndrome is a strong force. The key to avoiding this is realizing no person's opinion of you matters except your own. And the big daddy is: If you cannot measure it, it does not exist. #Aloha

    • @BehindtheBrand
      @BehindtheBrand  5 лет назад +2

      Thanks Doc!

    • @casaninchiify
      @casaninchiify 3 года назад +2

      Isn't that a shallow advice? Besides the fact that it's impossible to achieve and a quite naive way of thinking about the history of your own psychology, there is great merit in taking other peoples opinions into consideration to form your own. If there wasn't merit in doing it, there would not be so many people doing it for so long. Everything comes with a price and you gotta chose how much you pay. And it's NOT black or white.

    • @MulvaneyMy
      @MulvaneyMy 3 года назад +2

      @@casaninchiify as long as you’re not hurting anyone, what’s wrong with being true to yourself? When you stop working on that which you find valuable or silence how you express yourself for other people, you’re letting yourself get beaten down. Of course you should be able to acknowledge when you may be hurting yourself in the process, but no one knows you better than you. Be loud, be proud, and die having lived with intention.

    • @maddyPOV
      @maddyPOV 3 года назад

      There's a lot of things you can't measure in this life, but that doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Love, hate, grit, inspiration, shame and guilt .. how do you quantify these things? Doesn't NOT caring about what others think, mean you actually care what they think enough to *not* think about them? I think its a delicate balance of being true to yourself and not harming others in the process by listening to their concerns (if valid)

  • @dilldoe7162
    @dilldoe7162 3 года назад +10

    Happy is overrated. All emotions are valid. Embracing the unpleasant can lead to greater joy and peace.

  • @Royal-Peasant
    @Royal-Peasant 5 лет назад +18

    Probably the most real I've ever seen her in an interview!

  • @madhaimin432
    @madhaimin432 5 лет назад +16

    I just really get emotional whenever she talks abt her life because she's a gift for me for so many years. Im crying that she's fighting because she has her own battle. 💓💔💓💕

  • @elevensevenbeauty
    @elevensevenbeauty 5 лет назад +24

    I don't think its a belief that what you do is bad, I think we all think what we offer is good or great. But rather a belief that we're not the right one to offer it.

  • @marcixchumarcixchu6920
    @marcixchumarcixchu6920 5 лет назад +10

    She's the best. Nothing beats her at least for me.

  • @juliamay8580
    @juliamay8580 5 лет назад +10

    Hayley's been always a figure i look up to in a way, even when i kinda understand the pressure that means for her sometimes.
    But i always thought i wanted her confidence because i tend to be very insecure.
    I even stopped writing for about two years because i thought whatever i tried was a dissapointment compared with my first published story. I thought everybody would think i just got lucky and that they would see i'm a failure.
    This video came to me on a dark time for me and it made me realize i'm not alone.
    Now, so far my stories haven't been picked ever again, but i got back to writing anyway because that's what i like to do, and the first contest i won kinda made me forget that.
    I'm not trying to win some contest or satisfy somebody else. What i want to do is to write stories i love. But it took me a while to get back to that mindset.
    Thank you for posting this, thank you for having Hayley on the show, and thank you Hayley, if you ever read this.

  • @Ben_419
    @Ben_419 Год назад +3

    Great interview. This is why i love hayley. Not only is she a great music artist but she’s also a very outspoken and intelligent person.
    It’s so strange when she speaks about having imposter syndrome because I’ve always looked at her and thought she was such a skillful and accomplished person, especially in comparison to myself. It’s weird how no matter how successful you are your own mind can sabotage you.

  • @jacquesduplessis6175
    @jacquesduplessis6175 4 года назад +9

    Being Unhappy is one of the keys to great music.

  • @kamaya9907
    @kamaya9907 5 лет назад +49

    4:39 HARD TIMES GONNA MAKE YOU WONDER WHY YOU EVEN TRY

  • @TheBotPrincess
    @TheBotPrincess 4 года назад +10

    I love Hayleyyy omg
    Rare to hear to do interview lol
    Wish she had a RUclips

  • @tian_ht
    @tian_ht 4 года назад +24

    she sounds hurt.

  • @rafagambardella
    @rafagambardella Год назад +2

    Man, I just love Hayley!!!!!!!

  • @aprilslinkard5144
    @aprilslinkard5144 3 года назад +2

    I could listen to her speak all day. She is so moving with her words. Glad she’s still with us. 🙏🏻

  • @karlalopez5521
    @karlalopez5521 4 года назад +7

    The more you know the more you fear...

  • @mygetawayart
    @mygetawayart 3 года назад

    i dream of becoming a comic book artist. Last week i couldn't figure out how to layout 4 pages for a project due today (granted this was just the latest occurence of my own imposter syndrome). I was so depressed because the same day i saw my friend's previous project (who is a little older than me and has quite a bit more experience than i do) and i became instantly jealous of the work that he did, as i often do with what he makes. We're drawing superhero comics, which is what i wanna work on for a living and to see him do such a better job than i did (to my eyes at least), made me feel like: "oh what am i even doing here". For the whole day i was supposed to work on the layouts i couldn't figure out anything and i was reconsidering my entire dream of becoming a comic book artist. When i told my parent they said i had a choice. The next day we had to deliver our initial layouts and i didnt want to face my competition, i wanted to skip the lesson and avoid it, probably proceed with a slow process towards dropping out but somehow (and i don't know what kept me going) but i participated and showed what i had, as lackluster as it was. The weird thing is, in the following days, i worked on making probably some of the best pages i've ever made, and some of the first i can put in my portfolio and show to some publishers. When i look back i think to what i would've left behind had i abandoned and i wouldn't have forgiven myself had i done that. I feel better now but that doesn't mean i won't feel like shit again.

  • @eduardobianchi1365
    @eduardobianchi1365 5 лет назад +2

    Vc vai viver para sempre se depender de mim meu amor..........forever..............And I love you so.........

  • @stevenwakefield1860
    @stevenwakefield1860 4 года назад +7

    I already love Paramore and when she made an effort at the beginning not to say Courtney Love that made me respect her even more.

  • @juliettad.c270
    @juliettad.c270 5 лет назад +5

    ❤❤ :"3 ❤

  • @cazimim3375
    @cazimim3375 3 года назад +1

    thought this was among us lol and I don't even play it and barely watch

  • @torinthunder3039
    @torinthunder3039 3 года назад +4

    Hayley Williams was not the Imposter
    I’M SORRY I HAD TO

  • @Amber_xo_133
    @Amber_xo_133 3 года назад +4

    Remember when girls wanted to look like Avril Lavigne,Hayley Williams,and Amy Lee? Instead of the fake and plastic Kardashians,Jenners,Cardi B and Nicki Minaj Those were the days

  • @theprescottfamily
    @theprescottfamily Год назад +1

    Imposter!

  • @r.a.i.n.1144
    @r.a.i.n.1144 Год назад

    The only girl? Did she ever hear the name Avril Lavigne?!

  • @eduardobianchi1365
    @eduardobianchi1365 5 лет назад +1

    Desculpa...é que eu fico maluco de ciúmes de você porque eu tenho quase certexa que você é casada e aí eu não posso casar com vc.......namorar com vc.......só poderei ser seu filhinho ou amiguinho...............

  • @bellaisgod
    @bellaisgod Год назад

    she is a scene imposter-

  • @jasonleeroyalty5113
    @jasonleeroyalty5113 4 года назад +1

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  • @eduardobianchi1365
    @eduardobianchi1365 5 лет назад +2

    DEAD. 16/05/2019 D,C. 06:30PM. HAYLEY WILLIAMS. NOSTRADAMUS

  • @BehindtheBrandLIVE
    @BehindtheBrandLIVE 4 года назад

    Amazing talent!

  • @Amber_xo_133
    @Amber_xo_133 3 года назад

    Remember when every girl wanted to look like Avril Lavigne,Hayley Williams,Demi Lovato,Stevie Nicks,Florence Welch,Lzzy Hale,Taylor Swift,Joan Jett,Selena Gomez and Amy Lee Instead of the fake and plastic Kardashians,Jenners,Cardi B,Iggy Azalea and Nicki Minaj Those were the days
    People now are fake and plastic